what happened to me on Hilton Head Island (vacation gone wrong)
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- What’s up girly!! 🎀 I put off editing and posting this video for so long because it just wasn't something I wanted to relive. I honestly just want to be past it and it took me about a week but I'm finally feeling much better. I learned a lot about myself in this video and what I want out of life especially as I turn 25 this year. I'm sorry I'm always on here crying but I hope you can understand, this is all part of my story. ♡
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Solo tripping is not for everyone. You are NOT stupid. It will be okay!!! You didn’t fail. YOU WENT!!!
Like someone else in the comments said, take day trips or 1 night overnight trip. Don’t cry, sweet angel. It will be okay.
This made me cry, bless you you're so nice !
Honestly it is kinda scary when you go ur first solo trip
The first trip by yourself is always the hardest. Yes you're out of your comfort zone, but you need to look after yourself too. Even a night away is a holiday. ❤❤❤
I was going to suggest just a night away.
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At least you try it, that's all that matter
Literally my comfort TH-camr! Whenever i have a bad day, watching your videos calms down my anxiety.
The same I thought I was tripping. I love him soo much omg
NGL when you originally said you came back home I was like WTF. But seeing you being so real and authentic about your pain made me realize I can solo travel because I’m much older. At your age I would have had a hard time too. I wanted to give you a big hug. I do wish you’d concentrate more on authentic activities and not just shopping. Maybe more walks or drives and story telling or doing some service for others. Thank you for opening up. You’re a great person. We are proud of you.
I wish people can understand being all day zoned in on social media gives this type of affect . Having anxiety , and not being anymore other than ur bubble .
hes the epitome of what modernism has done to people. no friends, antisocial, glued to the phone with the only hobby being shopping and spending money. he is every corporations wet dream and the result of a consumerist economy.
I know we don’t even know each other because social media isn’t reality but u have a genuine soul and I can tell u have such a pure heart. 💕
He's amazing and so transparent. I love him
Wanting what brings you comfort is not stupid. Your mom is right it was an experience that you can at least say you tried. Don't beat yourself up about it. You should be so proud for trying this for your first trip. Your real supporters understand and will not look at you any differently for how you feel!!❤❤
YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I am 37 years old and I'm still like this bc of how bad my anxiety and panic attacks are! Don't you ever feel stupid or ashamed or anything over this because it's REAL AND RAW! Trust me, so many people understand! It's also nice seeing this as I can relate to it as well as do so many others! You keep doing you! Much love! 💕
I’m 42 and I struggle too!!!
This!! My anxiety gets the best of me sometimes, even at the supermarket in town 😂 😭
I am so glad that you filmed this whole thing cause you are NOT the only one who has experienced this. Don’t feel ashamed and don’t feel like you failed. You succeeded tremendously in learning more about yourself and sometimes that feels really tough. You challenged yourself and had the strength to say “nope! This ain’t for me!” And you went home. You showed care for yourself and that’s what is important here. You didn’t let the pressure of being a content creator cause you to pretend you weren’t feeling overwhelmed. You were authentic and you displayed that to all of us. That took courage and strength. Please don’t feel like a failure, baby. You did a great job.
I feel like a lot of it might’ve just been overthinking, you were already anticipating missing home before you even left!!! I wished you would’ve gave it one more day but I understand how overwhelming anxiety can be! At the very least you learned something new about yourself.
All your feelings are valid. One thing that’s important to remember is growth happens when we’re uncomfortable. Whatever lessons you take away from this will have made it worth it 💗
Doawww Michael, I'm gonna cry. You're not lame! Thank you for being so vulnerable with us. It's okay to pivot when you need to. Listen to your gut. I totally understand missing home.
26:12 *THIS!* This is so beautiful and shows how you’re on the right track. Many would have struggled and said they’re never going back. Which makes it so beautiful that you don’t give up, and still took in that it was the experience (emotions) and not the place. We can all need a bit of support from time to time in life and going with someone that means lots to you is nice way of getting the full experience of the place some other time. You are brave!
youre so precious 🥺 i love you!
i haven’t been away from my cat for longer than a shift at work and i can’t imagine, no matter how “fun” something may be, dealing with it. you’re such a sweet bb, don’t ever feel disappointed in yourself for wanting to be comfy ♥️
I’m so proud of you for going through with the trip even though you were so scared to it’s always better to try new things then to never go outside your comfort zone because you’ll never know what your capable of otherwise you live and learn 😊❤
I'm so in love with these comments... you all took the words out of my head. Michael is the best and that's why he has the best followers. I'm proud to be a part of this tribe. ❤
Stepping out of your comfort zone is huge in itself! I have anxiety as well and I couldn’t even imagine doing a solo trip, I’m so proud of you for just trying ❤
You are not stupid. You are such a beautiful soul. Anxiety is real. Solo trips aren’t for everyone. TYSM for sharing with us and being so open. You touch so many lives with your light. Keep on shining! ❤
Girl I’m like this when I go on vacation with people. My group is very aware of my anxiety and such and help me get through it. So I could only imagine being alone. All the love and positivity babes!!!! I hope the next trip is better!
i have so much social anxiety especially with unfamiliar places or when I’m alone, I felt exactly how you do especially when money, planning, and time is put into it. u deserve to do things that bring u comfort and happiness. take care of yourself first and let us fans fight all the haters!! we all love u michael never ever change ☀️❤
I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life and you did a very brave thing going on vacation by yourself. You had the courage to try something new and just because it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you failed. You still went and you still tried and that’s really what matters at the end of the day ❤
Don’t feel bad! I have a melt down on every single trip I go on that is without my family. I always call my mom or dad upset even when I am with my best friends. I am 31! Always do what you want to do ❤❤❤
That is codependent behavior. You should be able to do that with your friends and not get upset. Therapy.
@AK-jd7td no, it's not. He's not around his friends 24/7
Oh honey. Don’t be hard on yourself. You went on an adventure and did something really huge! There’s no shame in coming back early to protect your mental health. I’ve had vacations where I am extremely anxious the entire time, and it’s miserable. Thankfully I am medicated for my anxiety and panic attacks that has made traveling an enjoyable experience. 10 hours is a brutal drive. My max solo drive is 4 hours, if I really need to push it I could do 7-8, but I’m miserable and anxious the whole way. I really appreciate you being so vulnerable and honest in your vlogging. Too many people glamorize travel, when it’s actually an extremely stressful thing to do
I absolutely love watching your videos and following your social media pages. You are a breath of fresh air to this world. Keep shining and no worries there are a lot of us that find the comfort of our own surroundings. Stepping out of our comfort zone is never easy! One Love Michael
You did a difficult thing and you should be proud! Don’t feel bad. Anxiety is real don’t let anyone talk you down. You have so many followers who are here and have your back!
Oh sweet love I wish I could just give you a big hug. Don’t be so hard on yourself love, I have the worst anxiety and you calm me down so much with your videos. Please don’t be so hard on yourself. You tried that’s all that matters. ❤
The first trip by yourself is the hardest, but by you realizing it and noticing that your mental health kicked in I am very proud of you that you came back home to where you feel safe and comfortable. I suffer from mental health and crying really helps. It is not your fault and don’t blame yourself because it could have happened to anyone. You are loved and always remember that. 💕💕
currently have the cold, feel HORRIBLE but seeing you post a 50 minute video makes me feel alive again
I love all of your videos and I felt so sad when I saw you crying. you are an amazing person and I'm sending lots of love!! Thank you for taking us on your journey.❤❤
i’m glad you had the strength to make it home safely! be patient with yourself 🩷
Have you considered going to therapy to work on your emotional issues? I highly recommend taking it!! I used to have a lot issues with my emotions and i was finally able to control them after going to therapy. It really changed my life ❤ im sending you hugs you are brave!!
You literally did so good Michael. ✨ you did what you came to do and I’m so proud of you. I appreciate you for being so raw and yourself. I’m sending you the best vibrations. You are doing so good. 💖💖
I love how you work so hard putting all of your heart and soul into these videos!! Watching your videos brings me so much joy!! Im sorry that the trip didn't go well, you deserve so much more!! YOU ARE SO BRAVE FOR EVEN GOING!! I could never go on a trip like this all by myself... KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK IT WILL PAY OFF!!!
when i turned 18 i took my first vacation trip without my parents , and i cried and cried and cried. i felt so alone. i felt so anxious. you are not dumb for feeling this way! it is totally normal !❤️
Michael my darling u have NOT let anyone down, I’m super proud of you for even going for it! I’m in the exact same boat with the anxiety & panic. Been in very similar situations to this, it’s such an awful feeling, but you’ll get through it I promise, promise, PROMISE & you’ll go on another trip closer to home where you can truly relax! Be proud of yourself for trying & it’s so ok that it wasn’t right for you, sending you all the love & everything will be ok! We all love you, take care of yourself 🩷🩷🩷
I love how genuine you are! Solo tripping isn't for everyone and that's okay, I'm so happy u made it home safe!
I'm sorry your dealing with anxiety, but at least you tried and that takes courage. maybe your next trip can be somewhere close. don't give up on vacations and/or trips. don't let this get you down. thank you for sharing your feelings with us all
It makes me so sad to see you cry! Traveling solo is so hard and you should feel proud that you can recognize your limits. Prioiritizng your mental health is all we want
Seeing you cry hurts 😢Don’t be so hard on yourself. It was a big step, and you tried! That’s all that matters. We love you! 💜
I'm sorry you felt sad at times. You just need a good hug. Don't be hard on yourself. You're a sweet person. Don't let negatively steal your joy. I enjoy your videos. You are a good fur parent to your cat. Sending you love and positive energy.
Your such a sweet soul please don’t be so hard on yourself anxiety is so hard you should be so proud of yourself for trying something new and scary no one should be mad at you
It’s ok to feel the way u felt it was just out of ur comfort zone and that’s ok just take it as a learning experience and yes everything always happens for a reason relax girly that’s part of Life learning and experiencing all the good in life ❤❤❤❤ we got u girly we luv you
I just want to hug you for getting outside of your box!!! We support your efforts ❤
Don’t get down on yourself. Btw, you’re absolutely adorable and don’t worry so much about being cute. I have anxiety too and it’s a lot to go far away from home. And you were alone, you were brave for even trying . Try again somewhere closer when you’re ready.
Im so sorry babe I totally know this feeling. The let down is incredible. I usually have a panic attack when I travel too. But we still keep trying! I travel for 3-4 days MAX and always with someone I trust. It will go smoother next time. Much Love!!
You came out of your comfort zone which is a big step. Never worry about what other people thing. You tried something new and u wasn't comfortable with. There is always time to try it again when ur more comfortable with it. I started my TH-cam channel and I never thought I would post videos but here I am posting. Never drought your self and try again when you are ready. ❤️
We love the rawness of your content! we love you Michael, don’t be so hard on yourself you did amazing 🩷🩷🌸
Love these longer vlogs!!❤❤ look forward to every post 😊
Don’t be so hard on yourself, solo trip’s are hard especially when you out of the comfort zone. You are not stupid you tried and it wasn’t for you. Nothing wrong with that, you are still so brave to even do it. You’re amazing and I’m so proud of you for the experience.
Oh girly, you are not stupid. I went on a trip last year and I had my mom and my son with me and I still struggled. I felt the same way. But taking trips closer to home does help. I believe that you can get through this and try again after you feel more comfortable. I love you girly!!!
I feel your pain , but the more you do it.. the more you like it ! It took me a while to adjust to it.. but when going out of town was “ comfort “ for me the easy it got… you got this !! Keep going 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
You have to stop caring about what other will think or say people will be sour about everything but you shine on your own!! I hope you feel better and take some time for self care!🌷🪷🤍
You posted so I’m hoping you’re feeling better. Had me worried friend. Sending love your way and better days.
I had to move across the country a few years ago and planned out this whole week drive by myself. One day in and I had all the feelings you felt - alone, anxious, sad. Had panic attacks at a hotel too. My dad flew out to meet me to do the drive together. It’s hard to put yourself in new situations, but it’s so good to listen to yourself and know your limits. Proud of you for trying it out and being so real and genuine with your emotions in your video. Your videos feel like a warm hug & I love watching them!
Not disappointed in you Michael you tried your best. You are wonderful and loving person. You are an inspiration to a lot of people so don't feel bad for that's out of your comfort zone you tried your best and that's all that matter and we love you for u💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
As someone who genuinely feel bad for you, I still think you didn’t give yourself enough time as it was only half a day. You could have just go out and randomly meet someone the next day so you don’t feel that lonely anymore.
Easier said than done
With how much he cried, he must have generalized anxiety. You must not understand that and that's OK, but that's a lot easier said than done
being an empath myself is super frustrating at times, but it just means you have a heart! You're doing great sweetie!
Oh sweetheart it is ok!! This is your first trip by yourself so far away. Anxiety sucks so bad and it's totally OK. You set your pace, this is not a failure, this is absolutely a win. You learned about yourself and what you are and are not ready for. It's ok ❤❤❤
My mom and I always look forward to watching your videos and were sad to hear about what happened but we hope you are doing much better! Much love from the hulings family❤
Always listen to your gut feeling ! Yes everything does happen for a reason! Don’t beat yourself up please. Next time will be better for sure 💜
You could’ve stayed home the first break down. But you didn’t! You decided to get up drive down there , get a few drinks , visit the beach, get in the hot tub, even order room service. Give yourself props ! You did great in my book
I wanted to give you hug Michael❤. As a person who also suffers from anxiety it is very tough doing things out of your comfortable zone. You did the right thing for yourself. My solo travel was a little bit different, I actually enjoyed my time alone. I did things to keep my mind from going into fight-or-flight mode. I worked out and went swimming & actually met some very nice ppl on the trip. It truly help so much and I really felt good about overcoming my fears. I wish you the best on all your endeavors. Next time plan something very close maybe a hour or two away , I’m pretty sure you will have so much fun and can get home to your fur babies faster.
You are so strong and it motivates me to do thing alone or going on a trip alone !!! Love you!! Don’t be sad ! Proud of you! ❤️💕❤️💕
Sometimes just a simple day trip or 1 night stay is just what you need to reset yourself for a bit. You are wonderful and I absolutely LOVE your channel!! Keep doing you
❤You're not a failure
❤Everything DOES happen for a reason
❤You tried something new and didn't like it, and THATS OK
❤This experience can make you stronger. Baby steps.
you can’t keep depending your happiness on others, especially when it comes to your pets ❤️
Hey Girly! You did an awesome job. You tried! In my opinion ya won just going and proving to yourself ya could do that! Don't beat yourself too much. Ya got this! We all cry, we all have lessons learned no regrets. Ya will eventually get there. Personally I hate being away from home as well. I get home sick very quick and I am 38! I've always been that way too. I also struggle with anxiety and panic attacks. Just remember this too shall pass... ❤ I really love your content and how open and honest you are. I appreciate you and you are an awesome person ❤ Keep doing you! 💕
my heart just broke watching you so sad being alone. I wish I could hug you x You are so brave doing something out of the norm. Please dont beat yourself up. just know your community is here for you and we care x
It was a first time. You were too harsh on yourself, it's ok. You were so brave to try to get out of your comfort zone, even if you didn't stay, you went there, some people can't even do that. Next time go with someone, don't let one bad experience ruin it for you! 😊 I love you Michael, and your videos! 🩷🩷🩷
Just had to come on and say you are not stupid!! One time when I was around your age I wanted to go to a music festival sooo badly. Scrounged and saves and finally got there and I was miserable. I didn’t want to leave the tent but it was hot I was sunburnt I was young. But that’s ok. Now I know I don’t like them. Now you know that a solo vacation isn’t for you and that’s ok!!! You tried something you learned something. Which is so much more valuable. No disappointed at all it’s comforting to see someone feel the way I did and admit it. You will try again and you will learn something new. Sending you love.
Look at this community you have built!! 👏👏 your supporters are the best!
Don't worry too much about having to go back home because you didn't feel too well. It happens to a lot of people. I've had anxiety my whole life and it's really hard to do a lot of things, but you do what you can and you slowly start to get more comfortable with things. You didn't fail. You tried it and that's all that matters. ❤
I feel like this experience just showed you what you are comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with when it comes to travel. You don't like being alone (at least for now) and that's OKAY! I think bringing a friend with you next time will definitely help. Don't give up or be too hard on yourself!
This is so heartbreaking! You had to do what was best for you. ❤ Don't worry about what others say. I'm so sorry you had to go through this
You are not stupid. Ive never been on a solo trip, but I do have anxiety and I bet it's not easy doing alot of things alone. I definitely think something closer and maybe see if they allow cats ? If they can help comfort you. Proud of you for pushing yourself. You got this girly💗
awwww you crying made me want to teleport and hug you!!!! you're not a cry baby at all i get emotional too being alone at times. XOXO from CA!
expectations are so hard when you have anxiety disorder. You are cycling and you have to stop the cycle. Going around and around about the same thing just feeds the mean part of your brain that WANTS you to feel bad. Please please think about seeing your dr at least bc for me I got some medicine as a first step and its helped me so much! Also in Louisville there is a place called Compass counseling that my dr recommended and they seem really nice. Sending love, its over now. Feel better
I’m so sorry that you didn’t enjoy your trip. But at least you tried and next time when you go with someone else you will appreciate it even more! Don’t feel bad it’s not for everyone girly 💕❤
Michael, no one is mad at you for feeling overwhelmed about this trip! It is okay to feel how you are feeling, you’re not stupid for feeling that, and it’s really hard to travel by yourself! It is okay that you cut your trip short and doing what makes you comfortable!! As long as you’re safe and happy, that’s all that matters! We love you babes! 💗
Right from the start things weren’t working for you and it’s so sad to see play out 🥺 BUT this was an experience nonetheless and better ones await you!!! Ones that are truly comforting, enlightening and enjoyable! Don’t let this, or anyone, knock you down💗.
It’s ok Micheal, life is unexpected. I look forward to you and your videos. I think that you tired it didn’t like it but you get back up dust yourself off because that doesn’t define you. So what you don’t like solo trips next time you know! Proud of you!
Oh, sweetheart! You're definitely not stupid! I think your anxiety just got the best of you and that's ok. Going on trips alone is scary for multiple reasons. The world is so crazy you never know what can happen. I'm glad you listened to yourself and left though. I hope you're doing better. ❤
I'm glad you tried to go on the trip especially so far from home by yourself. You should feel proud about going that far away. And I am glad you listened to your body and didn't stay where you would continue to feel anxiety that would bring your mood down further. Next time you've got this! Love you Michael! 🩷
aw babe :( no ur not stupid, the exhaustion of traveling + being away from comfort can trigger so much. u really live u and u learn
You had the best intentions! You tried! You don’t like solo traveling. Now you know babes!
We are all so so proud of you for going outside your comfort zone and trying new things ❤
Regardless if it worked out how you wanted it to or not you tried and that’s all that matters 💕
We love you soo much. You're never stupid. You're so loved! ❤️ I promise! You help me in a way you can't even imagine! You're valued
Baby this breaks my heart , please please don't be hard on yourself!! Love you girlie !!❤❤ you didn't do anything wrong , you can't help how you feel , I'm glad you went home !!
I’m just glad you’re ok hun ! It happens it’s ok stop crying hun you got this 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Your way to hard on yourself! Your a beautiful soul . . .don’t ever do things or not do things because your afraid you’ll disappoint people. You do what makes you happy x x
It is always better to say “at least I tried” instead of saying “I wish I would’ve gone on that trip”! You went and you gave it your best shot! Please never apologize for disappointing your viewers - your feelings are valid, they are important, and I’m glad you chose what was best for you. We are always here for you Michael! ❤️
You will get there!! You are not stupid for feeling the way you feel. You have such a strong support system. Start small go to a hotel for a night. And then work your way up. ❤❤❤❤❤
It’s ok you got this. Yes this was your first solo trip and yeah it’s scary but as you get comfortable going by yourself then later on it’s gonna not feel so scary. But you’re trying new things and that’s all that matters. Your challenging your self more and that’s good
No one is disappointed in you and if they are then they aren’t supporters. The first trip by yourself is always the hardest and sometimes solo tripping isn’t for everyone, don’t cry it’s making us sad 😢 ❤
Your an inspiration. Your not stupid. Anxiety sucks and it's hard to deal with. At least you tried. Proud of you. Don't give up and try again. Just go with someone you're comfortable with. Thanks for sharing your difficulties in life. 😊 I appreciate you. 💚🤗
YOU ARE A AMAZING PERSON MICHAEL🥰i hate seeing you cry like this you do you girl breathe out and relax if youre not comfortable where you are go home theres nothing wrong with that sweetheart youre only human 💗
You are not stupid. You are very strong person. You took a challenge to better yourself.❤
I’m proud of you for even going! I know that I absolutely could never go on a solo trip. You’re so brave for even trying! Anxiety is real and it’s so hard to deal with, especially alone. Hope you’re doing better now!🩷
You’re not disappointing anyone but yourself. You should take the pressure off yourself by saying you need to “get cute,
looking cute” you always look good
awh :( heartbroken over your struggle with anxiety. you shouldn’t feel bad over going home, doing things alone can be scary & ur not a failure for being more comfortable/ happy w others
Your experience reminds me so much of what I go through with my anxiety. You are so BRAVE.