16 Personalities Getting Ready for a Date

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  • @suzihoude
    @suzihoude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    loved these lol my INFJ husband asked me out after several months of texting. in the next breath said he hoped we could get married, instantly regretted it, turned bright red, and started backpedaling. fortunately, my INTJ self had already assessed him as a suitable partner so i was more amused than frightened off.

  • @lewdya2682
    @lewdya2682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    Oh heck, INTJ is so accurate. These were basically my thoughts before getting into a relationship with my current partner. Analysing his traits, figuring out his taste, realising we're an ideal match.

    • @hollyhayes9640
      @hollyhayes9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Is... is there another way to do it?! What?!?!?! ⁉️🧐 (Also INTJ.) (Also, you might like Enneagram if you like MBTI.)

    • @otaku4Gaijin
      @otaku4Gaijin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same. INTJ/5w4 here. I've been analyzing my co-worker's character all year despite realizing his attractive traits don't add up to being an ideal match as we're both introverts - personality is something neither of us can change. In the end, who he's proven himself to be has added confidence to my intuitive ability to read people and, well... I can't shake the fact that I still like him, darn it.
      Striking up conversations about mutual podcasts we both enjoy to actually KNOW what he believes is now the second half of my plan. Then, if that goes as I hope it does, our family life and why we've both chosen to still be single. Podcasts on the modern dating culture will prove to be a natural shoe-in to graze the surface of that topic...

    • @LauraVanessaEscobarSalazar
      @LauraVanessaEscobarSalazar 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@otaku4GaijinI’m not sure on the cannot change personality part, that’s pretty debatable but overall I get your point

  • @dylangitau9437
    @dylangitau9437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    ENTP: Are we playing the "looking for a genuine connection" approach, or the "mess with them and see if they can keep up" approach? Or are they one and the same?
    Me: This is why I'm single
    Also me: Worth it

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAO I'm an ENFP but I related to that

    • @IconicAn-qn5ws
      @IconicAn-qn5ws 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Find your INFJ soon!

    • @itsdefme
      @itsdefme 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same bhahahhaaaa

  • @dankindcom
    @dankindcom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    0:00 ISFP
    0:13 ENFP
    0:40 ISTJ
    0:48 ISTP
    0:58 ENTP
    1:09 ESFJ
    1:30 INFP
    2:05 ESTJ
    2:30 ESFP
    2:35 ISFJ
    3:01 ENFJ
    3:20 INTJ
    3:56 ESTP
    4:20 INTP
    4:41 INFJ
    5:40 ENTJ

  • @reddae6910
    @reddae6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The INFJ conversation with herself is perfect.
    Simply Perfect. ✨🙌🏻✨😄

  • @theearthisreal2753
    @theearthisreal2753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is exactly how an INFP would act, INFPs are either too relaxed or too stressed about a date. If they DO like this person, they stress about it and run all over the place. If they DON'T like this person or if they are just meeting randomly most likely the INFP will be like ' Eh '.

    • @andeannafarnes4719
      @andeannafarnes4719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      INFP me... I'm ready in 30 min. or less. "Let me put on my shoes, brush my hair & teeth." Shouldn't of asked me out if you didn't want to meet up with "me".
      After 3 weeks of dating I will dump you or spend more time altering my appearance for our fun & pleasure on occasion. lol

  • @-emir5484
    @-emir5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I like how the ENFP is like "getting ready".
    She probably will forget to wear her outfit till the last minute because she's either worrying about some other detail she fantasized about before she had that first date or thinking about all the ways the date could go wrong OR right until it's time for the actual thing.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I literally went for an express manicure before my date cos I kept peeling my nail polish

  • @sirm8007
    @sirm8007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    As an ENFJ I spotted myself and my INFJ girlfriend instantly. An intense relationship of psychoanalyzing and idealists…. Well done Kristin ❤️

    • @natejakubowski4174
      @natejakubowski4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Also an ENFJ and recently had a two hour coffee date talking about my date's trauma and recovery from AA in her mid-twenties (she's doing quite well now). I... don't know how we got there from talking about scuba-diving, but... It just happens. It... always happens. :')

    • @rebecaanderson1935
      @rebecaanderson1935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey not trying to see your future, but I’m an INFJ and my husband is an ENFJ.

    • @rebecaanderson1935
      @rebecaanderson1935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@natejakubowski4174 it’s crazy that we aren’t very social, and we still get people to tell more about themselves than they would to an extrovert. Is not that I don’t like talking, I don’t like small, meaningless talk.

    • @natejakubowski4174
      @natejakubowski4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@rebecaanderson1935 Yeah I love INFJs! Sharing the cognitive stack really helps to relate to you, but I do find that the INFJs in my life are great at absorbing information from other people. You're incredibly approachable.

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Likewise, I tend to pick up on the NF types instantly!

  • @szabib8048
    @szabib8048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    As an ISTP I'd like to state that I'm not only chosing the least smelling wardrobe item, but I also take a shower and (if I think it might be serious) I also shave the 3-4 days old stubble off my face. This is the sufficient amount of preparation for any date. (Of course if we are going somewhere specific I also make the necessary reservations.) Othervise, the video captures the mood and invested energy perfectly!

    • @SL-1985
      @SL-1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      awww. ISTPs are so cute.

    • @picklerick9656
      @picklerick9656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's not istp, that's being nasty

    • @alexjewett7455
      @alexjewett7455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's just me any time I leave the house for any reason.

    • @cosmic_seabunny
      @cosmic_seabunny ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As an ISTP woman I agree with all of this 👍

    • @neishazulfani1704
      @neishazulfani1704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@picklerick9656 exactly, we’re nasty lol

  • @amysiebert4752
    @amysiebert4752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    So true! Haha, as an INTJ, I wish I had the stability to think that's a win, win situation, but I'd probably be traumatized for life if it didn't work out properly because as you said, I'd have been analyzing them for a year and already know if the first date would work out or not. But I'd definitely have a back-up plan in case the date didn't work out and I did have to never talk to him again.

    • @ForeverFashionGirl21
      @ForeverFashionGirl21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      As someone who dated an INTJ it really hurt how he used things against me to break up with me when he knew those about me going in… I was thinking that he chose to date me knowing those so why is that a reason to end things?? I know he thinks ahead so I figured he thought about that… it was frustrating tbh

    • @pearlsb45wine
      @pearlsb45wine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@ForeverFashionGirl21 INTJs don't even really want to date in the first place tbh 🤷‍♀️

    • @SArt26
      @SArt26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ForeverFashionGirl21 Perhaps he went in with the initial thought that he could handle the issues.
      Still probably not a good move, of course, but it could explain his behaviour.

    • @Mayakran
      @Mayakran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Realizing we were wrong, facing reality when it isn’t measuring up to our perfect plan/vision, and having our feelings squashed are all a fantastic ways to set us INTJ’s up for a rough time, lol.

    • @themortalia2686
      @themortalia2686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      that's why the saying "don't sh*t where you eat" exists. I'd never date a person that I can't avoid when things don't work out (e.g. colleague, roommate). I don't understand why people make their life unnecessarily difficult by doing that.

  • @TheSimplelifemama
    @TheSimplelifemama 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    “I don’t want to start a potential relationship off on a false representation of who I am. “ I feel so understood right now. You so clearly and concisely put words to an emotion that can be so difficult to translate. Bravo! 👏🏽 - ISFP 💗

    • @fayem4091
      @fayem4091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Intj here.... I feel that too

  • @missrobinhoodie
    @missrobinhoodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When you know EXACTLY which one‘s your type… *INFJsigh*

  • @restlessmosaic
    @restlessmosaic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    And now the debut of ISTP Stats! I've kept track of everything Kristin's ISTP has ever said. (It is much easier for the ISTP than the other personalities, you see.)
    This is video 13/57 the ISTP is silent out loud, and 10/57 the ISTP is silent completely.
    The ISTP has said 958 words so far - 775 out loud.
    Looking forward to word 1000!

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Hmm.... is there an ISTP somewhere who's hurt me? 🤔

    • @benshort9071
      @benshort9071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @@dearkristin certainly not verbally

    • @Gry42
      @Gry42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      That is some dedication.
      I could probably also get an idea like that but I would stop after 5 videos because I would find something else to do and I think that I am just too lazy to do that. But I really enjoy the observations that you have made so far. (INTP)

    • @restlessmosaic
      @restlessmosaic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Gry42 The dedication of others to put personality timestamps saved a lot of time. It was around 3 hours to set up.

    • @Gry42
      @Gry42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@restlessmosaic Yes, they must have been lifesavers in this case.

  • @lonedragon7061
    @lonedragon7061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    People are saying how great it is to be an INFJ, because “we’re rare”. But in reality, we’re such a mess.
    We have ridiculously high expectations for our future partner.
    We make up these unreal, romantic scenarios in our heads, imagining a future with an ideal partner that doesn't exist. We idealize people we barely know or create someone entirely new. Or imagine ourselves in a romantic relationship with fictional characters (I admit to all of these, especially the last one).
    And then we are met with the harsh reality.
    Depressing things aside, I loved your video! Keep up the good work!

    • @1chienandalou
      @1chienandalou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh I know!! It’s unbearable. What’s wrong with me the way that I am that you need to make a fantasy version of me and have a relationship with that. I’ve had enough, I’m sure there are good ones among you but I’m done not taking that risk ever again. What a piece of work the last three has been. They need to stop stalking me though… it keeps happening. But I have a boundary now and never again. (Entp)

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      As an ENFP I identify with everything you've said

    • @XDivineExistenceX
      @XDivineExistenceX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Worry no more. We do exist. We are called INTJ‘s 😋😂 my wife is an INFJ so case closed.

    • @user-gm3qi1gx5p
      @user-gm3qi1gx5p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I've been called out :(

    • @natejakubowski4174
      @natejakubowski4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When you get it right though it will be great! Keep at it and just know that all types can give you what you need in their own, unique way.

  • @Meg_intheclouds
    @Meg_intheclouds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Things the ENFP will probably say on the date (and in most conversations):
    “Ooh you know what that reminds me off you know [insert something that only seems to link to us]”
    “Omg I know exactly what you mean. I [insert experience that vaguely relates]”
    “So what are your hopes and dreams”
    “Yeah that makes sense. Ooh did you know [random facts]
    Acts out entire monologue while sat in front of date (by that point if they don’t get weirded out you’ve found a keeper)
    Will probably debate about something I’m passionate about or even just for fun and not pick up on the other person (yep ENFP’s like debating too I actually thought I was an ENTP for a bit)
    Will almost defiantly knock a drink over or something at one point and/or spill food.
    Love the ENFP doing the monologue in the mirror- knowing full well we will never actually stick to it. The dilemma for wanting to be your authentic self- but wanting to make a genuine connection with everyone and having to deal with not being able to (the Fi- Critical Fe struggle so real). Also the Te “how should I act on this date”
    But in the end Ne wins and you end up either completely over sharing or contemplating the meaning of life, making a ton of pop culture references only you seem to find the link, and acting weird and not realising it. And obviously being oblivious to social and emotional boundaries (oopsie)

    • @firespawnie537
      @firespawnie537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a fellow ENFP guy I totally relate. Your description is painfully accurate lmaooo!!

    • @bowmaster20
      @bowmaster20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG literally all of this! And 100% agree that this pretty much applies to any conversation we have with someone weather it's a date, convo with a friend, or random person at the supermarket who happens to like the same cheese as we do. And I also think it applies in text / IM conversations too... Ne knows no bounds!

    • @happydayzee
      @happydayzee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Holy shiiii. This is me! You nailed it.

    • @adipsous
      @adipsous 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In my earlier life, when I was ENFP, I went on a date and thought, at the beginning of the date, getting out of her car, that, for conversation, sharing the recent factoid I'd heard that maggots only eat dead tissue so you could actually throw a baby into a vat of maggots and it would be okay was a wise idea.
      It was not.

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bowmaster20 oh 100% I have actually never been on a romance date but this is what I imagine it would be like. Because this is me with everyone, like literally everyone

  • @ygisaishinri1401
    @ygisaishinri1401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    The INFJ is spot on for me. Always have dialogues like that, time to times

    • @clarity2517
      @clarity2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad I'm not alone. Unless we're both crazy 😂

    • @ygisaishinri1401
      @ygisaishinri1401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@clarity2517 That's the crazy part of us, INFJ 😚

  • @cliffhamrickwrites2378
    @cliffhamrickwrites2378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Even though I'm an INTJ in all things, apparently I'm an INTP when it comes to dating because all of her rationales made perfect sense to me. "People...people...people...why do this to myself?"

  • @fivemyfriend
    @fivemyfriend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    You really aced the ENTJ's presence! The clear look in your eyes when saying "see you in 20minutes" is just spot on!

  • @s.b.7121
    @s.b.7121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The ISTJ is extremely accurate - I would be livid

  • @thewolf8660
    @thewolf8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "OMG, that INFJ looks so mysterious and complex! I bet he doesn't even care about dating."
    The existential potato that is "INFJ":
    A.) Please love me as much as I love you.
    B.) LET ME LOVE YOU!!!1!
    C.) I love humanity, but people are stupid.
    D.) Why don't people approach me? I'm approachable!
    E.) I hope I wasn't glaring again...
    F.) Oh, look! A baby! yay!
    G.) Oh, no. Please don't approach me, I haven't had time to think of a hypothetical conversation between the two of us yet...

    • @kgrayston
      @kgrayston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣 omg G is so true

  • @twary1911
    @twary1911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    i would really love a longer video just focused on the ISTP lmao. The clips are so short for the ISTP but they're honestly so true, you really capture our personality and how we just casually act. Out of all the MBTI youtubers, you have the best representation for the ISTP.

    • @restlessmosaic
      @restlessmosaic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm hoping for this too. Like a TLC-style documentary, trying to dig down on the troubles of the ISTP, the face behind the mask. And there's just nothing to report.

    • @bloop442
      @bloop442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@restlessmosaic "And there's just nothing to report." Lol so true

    • @thegoldenlight271
      @thegoldenlight271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah! I wanna see more ISTP too! My roommate is an ISTP.
      A ramble is coming... hehe
      Some observations:
      It's interesting how we both don't like planning things, like going to dinner/to an event. We'll talk about it sometimes, but normally don't figure it out until right before. She actually is more social than me (I'm ENFP), and makes me go out places, she remembers things super well (even remembering my class schedule) peoples names, etc. She's more organized than me. The "I'll fix it" stereotype is true. She wrapped a gift for me that I was wrapping because I didn't care about making it look nice XD She laughs a lot and has this duality of memes and strong political belief (same as me, it's amazing). She also says "no" in response to things that are definitely yes, with a blank face to be funny. *thinks* She asks me sometimes to not do things that are probably embarrassing, but I find hilarious. (like taking plastic knives from the Dinning area and keeping one in my pocket), but other things I do don't bother her and she laughs.
      Anyway, ISTP appreciation *applauds *

    • @restlessmosaic
      @restlessmosaic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thegoldenlight271 This sounds a lot like what my dad (likely ISTP) is liked for.

  • @tiredcatman7381
    @tiredcatman7381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As an esfp, the musical in my mind is crucial to the date vibe

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Mine doesn't stay in my mind for long

    • @Marina_7
      @Marina_7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds super fun, feel free to share a playlist!

    • @shrimpdance4761
      @shrimpdance4761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent song choice, btw!

    • @tiredcatman7381
      @tiredcatman7381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Marina_7 bold of you to assume I'm capable of sticking to a playlist

  • @ashleycaldereous5339
    @ashleycaldereous5339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    ISTJ was spot on. How can you plan anything for a "surprise"? Do you want a casual flirty girly girl or an elegant glamour queen? Are we going to a 5 star restaurant or mud wrestling? Do I need to be chill and conversational or let out my adventurous party side? C'mon man, at least give me the attire to not disappoint you at first glance.

  • @UncooperativeCat
    @UncooperativeCat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The INTJ is so painfully real that I can tell you: if I said yes to the date, it's because I made sure in advance that they can keep up with me messing with them. And yes ENTP, that and the "looking for a genuine conection" are one and the same. To me, at least.

    • @jameswilkerson4412
      @jameswilkerson4412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Someone said on another Dear Kristen thread that they are each others’ ‘unconscious personality’

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Any kinds of connections between xNTJ and xNTP types make me so excited :)) though I’m an ENFP, so it makes sense why connections would excite me overall. Still, mentally juxtaposing two types in those categories is a comfort activity for me. Y’all rock :))

    • @judaspriest9843
      @judaspriest9843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, entp is intjs unconsciousness

  • @sydneycarton4106
    @sydneycarton4106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Okay, I haven't seen anyone saying this yet, so I'll say it. I really appreciate your bringing out our Fi side and not just harping on the Ni-Te in this sketch. I thought that INTJ, on top of being very accurate, was unusually well-rounded and healthy in that respect, and a good example for all of us INTJs out there. Well done, Kristin!

  • @natejakubowski4174
    @natejakubowski4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Kristin you would make such a great method actress. You can play the EISNFTJP main character.
    And villain.
    ...And... all of the extras.

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh my goodness PLEASE I support this so much, I would pay to see a Kristin movie!! 👏👏👏

  • @m.a3646
    @m.a3646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    as an ISTJ, I would cancel that date

  • @nolanj.3897
    @nolanj.3897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ENTP, they are indeed one and the same

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Wow INFP is so accurate- I literally just gave casual dating a chance for over a month. And just yesterday completely cut Eve off with everyone and told them I’m not looking for a relationship. Also yes to me not being ready on time. This is so sad cause I really just want to find my husband but dating is overwhelming and time consuming… also ESFJ was relatable when I’m all giddy about a guy I talk him up haha

    • @FalseWordz
      @FalseWordz ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God it's not even dating and I'm already backing off
      I download dating apps, talk to a few people, 3 days later, delete the app
      And continue this vicious cycle a few weeks later

    • @heliantaflores933
      @heliantaflores933 ปีที่แล้ว

      infp here. I'm also so tired. But i guess it's more because all of my relationships so far have ended really badly. And turns out i'm very sensitive to heartbreak. I feel like i can't do this once more

    • @powerofk
      @powerofk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hah! Honestly, being too timid to ask anyone out (even though I crushed so bad on many young women in high school and college) was the reason I didn't date anyone until my 20s, and she had to make the first move... Ended up marrying her and we're still married over 15 years later. So I was fortunately able to jump the casual dating scene altogether.

  • @cadowyn735
    @cadowyn735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Great vid! ENTP and INTJ were spot on. Poor INFJ. Your acting gets better and better. Looking forward to the movie edition of all 16 types on a deserted island playing Hunger Games.

  • @rickrivers2021
    @rickrivers2021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Geez, the INTP one was so relatable and I've never even been on a date. But it's like that with any prearranged meeting with people. Too many variables!

    • @freregregoire2685
      @freregregoire2685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I guess INTP should go to a date with ESTJ: variables have been taken care of and trying to do last-minute cancelling is more trouble than just going on the date.

    • @happyfreakangel7233
      @happyfreakangel7233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @cdr 777 i need a version of that for myself. I am INTP. Guess i need an E type to get to me someday 😂 but it would stress me out if they just show up when i don't expect it because i and my house need to look clean 😂 i am a master procrastinator

    • @happyfreakangel7233
      @happyfreakangel7233 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @cdr 777 Maybe if i get surprised with his presence all the time i get used to it, also it would be embarrassing for me at the beginning :D

  • @leont.17
    @leont.17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Define safe" - The Estp

  • @kgrayston
    @kgrayston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    INFJ 🤣 fun fact - after being friends for ages, I spent months discussing whether we were compatible for marriage (with my now husband) and then we planned the perfect calendar date we would “officially” get together (become official) and it was weeks away 😂

  • @FirstNameLastName-of7to
    @FirstNameLastName-of7to 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your acting is so good, I genuinely forgot that it was the same person doing all of this.
    - your local ENTP with low sensory awareness

  • @augustinensang3109
    @augustinensang3109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I always loved watching you playing 16 different characters and seeing how they interact with each other.
    Who's your favorite personality type to play?

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Depends on the scenario! I enjoy ESFP a lot because it's fun turning up my personality even more 😌

    • @augustinensang3109
      @augustinensang3109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@dearkristin Cool, ESFP and ENFP are fun to watch. You are also great at playing at playing introverts.

  • @olinaw5145
    @olinaw5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The INTJ one is very accurate. Had the exact conversation with myself except I didn't have that smug expression with slightly squinted eyes...
    oh wait I just looked into a mirror...nevermind

  • @clarity2517
    @clarity2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Oh my goodness the INFJ pep talk in the mirror was the scariest thing ever. I catch myself doing this alll the time 😂👌🏾 That and little therapy sessions to check in with myself/feelings 😂
    PS: love the remixed Zelda outro music :)

  • @maryl1785
    @maryl1785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    OMG, can't even begin to tell you how many first dates sparked a scenario in my head of a future family/life while telling myself I'm being ridiculous. (INFJ)

  • @turtlepack2023
    @turtlepack2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As an INTP, I'm a mixture of the INTP and INTJ here. I view dating as a great burden, so before I ask someone out, I already know that dating them is worth it. This tends to backfire, however, because in the period where I was deciding whether to ask her out, she has already gone and gotten a boyfriend. It's a rough cycle.

  • @trafficchat6016
    @trafficchat6016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wait, I'm supposed to make small talk with the waiters? -INTP

  • @pocahontas5145
    @pocahontas5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Let's just face it. The INFJ needs love at first sight or nothing.🤣🤣🤣

    • @missrobinhoodie
      @missrobinhoodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahaha right! But all I got in the past was an ISTP 😝

    • @pocahontas5145
      @pocahontas5145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@missrobinhoodie You need an ENTP🤣

    • @missrobinhoodie
      @missrobinhoodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pocahontas5145 i almost „had“ one and it was wonderful and fun but then he ghosted me 👻

  • @mattevans6752
    @mattevans6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The captions for the INTJ and INTP were hilarious.

    • @Tilnaor
      @Tilnaor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      and still 100% accurate

  • @bunny_0288
    @bunny_0288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hahaha as an INFP, I never casually dated. My friend set me up with her brother because she thought we would hit it off. We talked for 6 weeks before we even went on a first date to make sure our personalities, values, and goals in life were compatible. Once we determined that they were, and that we both really liked each other, we started dating, but there was nothing casual about it. We were dating with the intention to see if we wanted to get married. We were married 8 months after we met lol. It's been 11.5 years, and we are so happy together. He's an INTJ. We both wanted to be married and were serious about it which his sister knew, and it's why she set us up. Neither of us wanted to waste the other one's time or get too emotionally and romantically involved if we weren't compatible. I honestly think everyone should do this. By getting to know each other first, I feel like our relationship is based primarily on a really good friendship. Like we are best friends who are also completely smitten and in love with each other. It's so great

    • @omiquewilliams8632
      @omiquewilliams8632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I LOVE THIS! I’m hoping to experience the same but I’m an ENFP

  • @ashleywilkinson6891
    @ashleywilkinson6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a little too relatable 😶😂
    Also yessss song of storms!!! 🙏

  • @Seca95
    @Seca95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How are all ENTJ skits exactly like my ENTJ friend?? She is EXACTLY like this, she perceives and handles EVERYthing like a project. Everything is planned, and her communication skills are so on point, she'd make anyone agree with her in any of her ideas. Even a trip to a café becomes a lesson about the economic value and properties of a slice of pie (I remember you had a skit about a similar situation in one of your videos Kristin, where the ENTJ was at an outdoors café with a friend - that's exactly how she is!). I actually miss her :'( -INFJ

  • @janvinarula4908
    @janvinarula4908 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need that periodic table of Marvel tee! WHY I DIDNT KNOW ABOUT ITS EXISTENCE!!

  • @miahan8988
    @miahan8988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ENFP having that Te+Si organised rundown of things to keep in mind is spot on 😃 this is how I’ve been able to consciously change my habits - being 100% present in what I’m doing and saying and thinking and adjusting as you go, though I had to take breaks because using these 2 functions forcefully and at the same time is exhausting.

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ENFP here and I totally relate to this 👏👏👏 that Te and Si organization is what’s slowly starting to get my life on track the more I use it

    • @miahan8988
      @miahan8988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sophiaredwood5825 I'm happy for you! 🤗

  • @joz6455
    @joz6455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ISTP- I do have hamper but was in use bringing up clothes from the dryer

  • @brittneykarl9429
    @brittneykarl9429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As an INTJ the analyzing someone I like and have known is so accurate, but for going on a date from an app I'm way more like the INTP. Finding a place to park is one of those thoughts that has literally been a part of me canceling a date.

  • @michaelwellen2866
    @michaelwellen2866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect for Zelda theme at the end (Song of Storms).

  • @minervaace7478
    @minervaace7478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kristin, you're having better and better impressions of ENTJ. I don't go on dates in hope of looking for a compatible mate, knowing the probability of success will be very low. Now I just go out with people so I can explore interesting places and study different types of people.

  • @tonichan15
    @tonichan15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ESTP: 'Define safe' - I lost it. Genius as always, Kristin :)

  • @j3nn7_96
    @j3nn7_96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    that ENTJ was obviously talking to another ENTJ 🙄

  • @kittywalker2944
    @kittywalker2944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Damn, u got me with the INFJ - I wish it was over the top, but it’s really not. Six years single … 1 date 🙄. Thanks! 💚💜

  • @lemetamax
    @lemetamax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your INTJ is spot on!
    What I think happened: The date went on and was successful (almost all predictions and expectations came to pass). But still wants to move the office desk anyways.

  • @daniellecward5400
    @daniellecward5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You nailed the ESTJ! Phoning a restaurant to pre-order a meal whilst getting ready is definitely something this Te dom would do😆 Also glad to see you kept her let’s-get-down-to-business pony tail😉

  • @greetjeb6572
    @greetjeb6572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I genuinely thought the ENFP would say "flakey" :D Felt called out prematurely LOL.. Great video! Also the ENTP questioning her own intentions, nice turn!
    Edit: omg the ENFP UK subtitles, my heart!! 100% true

    • @gorgonheap9770
      @gorgonheap9770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The ENTP isn't questioning her intent. She's realizing they're the same thing: She like people who react well to being prodded.
      I've never been more proud of my son than the day he responded to a gentle verbal poke with a perfectly-timed zinger.
      Let me tell you the story ...

  • @diaz6874
    @diaz6874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    3:54
    Plot twist: The 1% chance scenario occurred and the INTJ has been stood up by her date.

  • @zzc8505
    @zzc8505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love all the ESTPs in all of the skits - you make them look and sound like a lot of fun. Although in real life they’d probably start irritating me very quickly. And the ISTJ - exactly like the one I know

  • @shaina7913
    @shaina7913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    2:34 love the shirt!! 😁

  • @danicleckley5404
    @danicleckley5404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As an INTJ, I have never felt more understood.

  • @richardthury5293
    @richardthury5293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You totally nailed it, and it hits hard.😀
    Amazing representation, thank you for making me laugh!

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for laughing!

  • @tnorton
    @tnorton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can we please have an appreciation for the amazing t-shirt that the INTP is wearing

  • @edwright4892
    @edwright4892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Genius! Kristin dialled this bad boy up to 11 as an ESTP might say. Every one a comic 💎

    • @shrimpdance4761
      @shrimpdance4761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The scream at 4:14 took me OUT! I'm not even going to ask why there was a goat/sheep.

  • @thomasswrisky6734
    @thomasswrisky6734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    As an INTJ, I can appreciate the pursuit of a win-win scenario, although I somehow find it easier to accomplish in a game of connect 4, or chess, then in a social situation.
    That being said, I think it makes sense when planning a date, to figure out a way to make the experience enjoyable for yourself, regardless of what the other person does. For example, if they don’t show up, you were meaning to check out this new restaurant anyways, and now instead of having to talk to someone, you can read while you wait for the food to arrive. Or, you wanted to go see that new movie anyways, so it’s still going to be an enjoyable time.
    Frankly, I suppose it’s simply a matter of “looking on the bright side” but I prefer to think of it as “hope for the best, plan for the worst”.
    Disclaimer: I’ve never been on a date, so take my advice with a grain of salt, although I think it makes sense regardless.

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you identify with the "I'm never gonna answer your texts anymore?" . Trying to see if it's an INTJ thing.

    • @Debloper
      @Debloper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ninaportoc It's not an INTJ thing. Most INTJs will be pretty up-front to let them know that they don't want/prefer to have a conversation with someone (if that's the case), and if the other person is unwilling to get it (usually an ExxP who thinks they can just come back later and the vibe will be different/reset) then you need to add jackassery according to taste, so they find it distasteful to keep coming back to talk to you.
      Summary: INTJs don't ghost you. They make you ghost them.

    • @thomasswrisky6734
      @thomasswrisky6734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ninaportoc Deb answered the question well.
      I personally do not identify with that. I have a pretty small social circle, but even with them I’m not the most social. Overall, I keep myself relatively busy, and have a bad habit of not answering calls/ messages because I won’t have my phone on me, or around me. I will call back, or reply, when I do see my phone though.
      I will say though that in my limited experience, I do not ghost people, people will simply stop talking to me, which I honestly don’t mind at all. 3 is already a very sufficient number of friends for me, and I know with certainty that those friendships are real and genuine, through life experience with them. Quality will always trump quantity in that regard, and the pursuit of a high number of friends can sometimes look like the pursuit of an ego boost, or an attempt to fill a void, at least to me.

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Debloper WOW. thanks for explaining :) That really clears things a lot. Honestly, this was just my hopes to understand an INTJ I met. We talked every day for 3 months and he just disappeared and stopped answering one day. I'm an ENFP btw. Just trying to understand if it was my fault or something but I guess I'll never know.

    • @ninaportoc
      @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thomasswrisky6734 Thank you for the detailed answer. I agree it can be an ego boost and everything! Personally I think INTJs are super smart, dedicated and loyal overall so your friends are lucky to have you. As an ENFP, I always fear I broke someone's boundaries, or I'm annoying them... I try to ask to know and make the person comfortable to tell me what they're thinking about my behaviors, that's why I had a hard time with ghosting being an INTJ behavior, because you all have the fame of being honest.

  • @ninaportoc
    @ninaportoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "don't prod too hard" LMAO that literally had me rolling as an ENFP

  • @elphieofkiamoko
    @elphieofkiamoko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    INFJ telling herself not to read too much into what he's saying KILLED me. I tend to be attracted to certain T types specifically because of their bluntness-- they're a nice reprieve from the need to be constantly intuition-ing 🤣🤣

    • @susmateja
      @susmateja ปีที่แล้ว

      same here! dating Fs can be quite exhausting

  • @Kyrovirasha
    @Kyrovirasha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So funny I've been into various kinds of ENTPs and I totally agree to INTJ internal dialouge. And I relate to INFJs mirror self talking. BUT I'm an ENTJ.

  • @brendemarco9976
    @brendemarco9976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If there were an oscar's version for youtubers, You'd win content creator of the year! 🤩🤩

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss 👏🤩
      …also my inferior Si can’t help but notice you used the subjunctive was/were grammar rule correctly, so for that I thank you. It’s a weird thing I fixate on for absolutely no reason, and I find that it’s mainly unknown or forgotten by people most of the time. You’re quite a legend 👏🥳

  • @user-mh5be7rj5j
    @user-mh5be7rj5j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As an INTP, I haven’t actually participated in this kind of activity, but I imagine that I’d probably be like the ISTP the most. I think that the INTP could be relatable, but maybe not at the same time.

  • @MichaelGrundler
    @MichaelGrundler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I(STP) feel attacked! 😅
    But to be honest for a date I would definitely wear fresh clothes. (Which wouldn't mean much because I would be so nervous they wouldn't stay fresh for long …)

  • @janaretlow8699
    @janaretlow8699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh so ENFP went on a date with the ESTP who was eating cake at the party! It really took them a while to set up this date ... probably flaked on each other a couple of times 😂

    • @thegoldenlight271
      @thegoldenlight271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad is ESTP and we are such a chaotic duo, imagining dating an ESTP *shakes head * the world might explode. XD

    • @janaretlow8699
      @janaretlow8699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thegoldenlight271 Maybe. But it seems like a potentially good combo, functionwise and temperamentwise, and it’s probably very entertaining for everyone around them. That is, until they accidentally destroy the world :P I bet, family holidays and the conversations at your family dinner table never got boring :D

    • @thegoldenlight271
      @thegoldenlight271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janaretlow8699 You have a point XD

  • @rad4924
    @rad4924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As an INTJ I haven't been on a date for 8 years so I have no idea whether or not I relate to this.

    • @jimmywoolever798
      @jimmywoolever798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fellow INTJ, my dates are averaging about 5 years apart.

  • @tracklauonly
    @tracklauonly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Infj was painfully accurate. I feel personally attacked lel

  • @whitneyd6827
    @whitneyd6827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My last SO was an ISFJ and he 100% did this on our first few dates, and I 100% psychoanalyzed him. On our second date I remember he said something along the lines of "why am I pouring my feelings out to you I hope you don't mind." Spoiler: I don't mind. It's a hobby.
    - enfj

  • @rengingurel3744
    @rengingurel3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg ENFP hit hard... Talking to self, aloud, being late, worried about boundaries, perfection...

  • @kianneyt9732
    @kianneyt9732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    00:00 ISFP
    00:13 ENFP
    00:40 ISTJ
    00:48 ISTP
    00:58 ENTP
    01:10 ESFJ
    01:30 INFP
    02:05 ESTJ
    02:30 ESFP
    02:35 ISFJ
    03:01 ENFJ
    03:20 INTJ
    03:55 ESTP
    04:20 INTP
    04:42 INFJ
    05:41 ENTJ

    • @IconicAn-qn5ws
      @IconicAn-qn5ws 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's your MBTI sir/ madam.

    • @kianneyt9732
      @kianneyt9732 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@IconicAn-qn5ws estp or entp, not sure. what's your?

  • @coreymay918
    @coreymay918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I've been alone this far I don't need to put myself through this." Every INTP to date

  • @glueball214
    @glueball214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yesss !! extraneous romance IS such a drain on time and energy- INTJ
    ditto the small talk

  • @limaindiasiestaalpha
    @limaindiasiestaalpha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't always feel well presented in your videos as an ENTP, but this time it's golden and spot on! ❤️

  • @lt.branwulfram4794
    @lt.branwulfram4794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Date? What is that, some new sci-fi RTS game? Sounds interesting.

  • @flutterwinkle
    @flutterwinkle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for all of your hard work! I love your videos!

  • @adult_nubian
    @adult_nubian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    _So I was sitting by the table at the restaurant waiting for my date to arrive, when I saw this girl come in dressed as Hinata Kaho from Blend S. "I didn't know there was anime convention happening nearby," I thought. Thinking nothing of it, I continued to ponder on the new project I would be starting that coming weekend when my ruminations were cut short by the cosplaying girl, "how dare she!" Just as I was about to give her a piece of mind she spoke in a devilishly sweet voice, "Hey, you're ENTP right? I'm ISFP, I hope you'll take 'good' care of me~". With one sentence she caught me off guard tore through all my expectations and created a vacuum in my mind. _*_WHO IS THIS GIRL?!_*
    Hope you guys enjoy xp

  • @maudvanetten1930
    @maudvanetten1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your video’s, they’re so intresting! I would love to see a video about the 16 personalities in quarantine or what holidays the 16 personalities would go on. Just some ideas😊

  • @karlemilobelsanvig487
    @karlemilobelsanvig487 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it´s funny you can tell the distobution of the 16 personaletys by looking at the amount of replays of a given sektion of video. Thus we can deduce that the most common type´s are: ENTP, ISTP, ENFP, INFJ and INTJ. now this has only been conducted over this video so this may be uncerten. (INTJ in case you where wondering)

  • @ConnorAustin
    @ConnorAustin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well you nailed the INTJ that is literally how I plan for anything I want to do

  • @user-oq2fm9xm3g
    @user-oq2fm9xm3g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No way 😐 just yesterday I said to my best friend that I need about a year to decide if I really like a guy and if he's suitable enough. Although it would take longer to actually go on a date 😂
    (INTJ)

    • @lyrakawashita
      @lyrakawashita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I take about a year to call someone “friend”.
      A partner? A decade, just to be safe.
      -INTJ

  • @finnkuudere3516
    @finnkuudere3516 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:10 and 4:20. Again, are we really so predictable? I did try to cancel and she was singing my praises before I met her. To sing someone’s praise before they meet implies that she had met me without me knowing. You know what that means. Three people assisted me (actually her) to prevent cancellation of the blind (to me) date by me. These ESFJs have an unnatural social skill. She even convinced the person who set us up that she had not been stalking me but somehow just acquired the information.

  • @colorful1116
    @colorful1116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for reminding! I literally just ran to the bathroom refilling the toilet paper cause I forgot doing it and I have 2 flatmates. 😂😂
    -ENFP

  • @ihay472
    @ihay472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Having dated an ISTP I can say he's one of the most meticulously groomed people I've ever met.

  • @hoibsh21
    @hoibsh21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loud conversations at a restaurant? Count me out!

  • @confusedpotato6566
    @confusedpotato6566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The INFJ was so spot on !😂❤️ Sent this to my best friend and her reply was "I've literally heard you say those exact words"😂.

  • @SamurajSun
    @SamurajSun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im istp but when it comes to datets im betwen INTP and INFJ. Great video.

  • @justanothersherlockian7058
    @justanothersherlockian7058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ENTJ is perfect. As an ENTJ, I have found it very difficult to date people due to my high standards. No more dating for me! I am going to spend Valentine's Day eating a delicious meal, reading a great book, and watching a murder mystery, because Valentine's Day is actually the anniversary of an execution.

  • @MichaelGrundler
    @MichaelGrundler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    During my subtitle rewatch it occurred to me, what if all those people were preparing for a date with each other? And if so what would be the pairings?
    @Kristin how about a mini series with a continuous storyline? Doesn't have to be about dating necessarily. I know you have included hints and references to earlier videos before but a continued story with the same characters in each episode could maybe depict even more depth and complexity of the individual types.
    And yes I know that something like that would mean way more work for you than the usual videos. But maybe the patreon community can help if they are up for it?

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is a great idea and one I have absolutely considered. It's a possibility! 😁

  • @bigh012345
    @bigh012345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Guess what INFP has a date tonight! And yes I already found a youtube video I’d much rather watch lol

  • @vanjanikolic6701
    @vanjanikolic6701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The istp one's so accurate thank you haha

  • @JokerCrowe
    @JokerCrowe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    At first I thought I saw myself in the INTJ, ISFJ and INTP, but then the INFJ did the same "mirror-self talk" that I've done... oh so often and well....
    You got me again Kristin.
    Although now there's only approximately a 25% chance that I'll break down crying, so I guess that's progress!

  • @Mayakran
    @Mayakran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The INTJ is spot on. Love your sketches!

  • @nitzan3782
    @nitzan3782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The only thing that'd make the ENFP more accurate is if all these preparations end up making her an hour late