Wise man says “ choose your mate wisely…” Only a coward man would hit his wife…😩! A real man supports to love and protect his wife and his children…! Glade that you found a real man…😩🤠!
I'm glad that you finally left him. I'm also happy that you found a new love. For women and men that were divorced are not all bad. They have their reasons and we should respect their choices and decisions.
In laws will always pretend like they care about you but the truth they don't care about you, only your parents and siblings will have your back and love you
Kuv mloog tag nrho neeg cov sab sij huam txog hnub no, mas zaj no yuav luag xws li kuv lub neej ntag, kuv tseem yuav muab kuv zaj rau niam ntsuab teev hais tuaj nej mloog nawb.
I’m proud of you sister!👏👏👏 So glad you found happiness in your life. Who care what the in law thinks or say about you after you divorce their son/brother.
Kj lub neej thiab kv lub neej tau tug txiv phem ib yam os viv ncaug aw kv tug txiv nwg tsim kv heev le os tab sig nwg mus ua luam txaum cai es nom tswv muab nwg coj mus kaw tag sim neej lawm os
Kuv txiv neej tiag xi txiv neej siab pheem ho saib phooj ywg muaj hnuj nqi,kuv li tug muaj hnuj nqi ces kuv poj niam xwb ntxhub cov neeg saib phooj ywg muaj hnuj nqi.Nej cov ua cas yuav rua ua li os txiv neej zoo coob na
Listening to this story brought on anxiety from my past. It is true, the in laws will never have your back even though they know their son/brother is abusive. I’m glad you were able to get away and that you’ve found your happiness. ❤️
Happy you found love again. If someone truly love you, they don't hurt you nor tortured you. Don't let his pretend kindness soften your heart vim qub neeg qub siab xwb os mog.
Niampog yuav hais tus tub cas tsis hais thaum ntxov es yuav hais thaum teebliab twb tuaj txog lawm mam tias yuav hais. Mi vivncaus koj mas yuav laug tsis dim li os kuv mas nrog koj nyuajsiab tag zoo qhov koj dim lawm zoo siab koj txiv koj niam lawv hlub koj thiaj cawm koj mog.zoo siab nrog koj lub neej tshiab os mog
I do not wish anyone to live through DV. I hope that the in-laws daughters will never have to experience DV. It is a sad truth that our hmong community does not see DV as an important matter. But DV is real and a very critical issue. Sister u did right.
That mil when her son’s beating you she tells you to leave and you don’t leave because you wanted to give it a chance. But the second you try to save yourself and call the cops for rescue they turn on you and say why you have to call the cops, why not let them intervene only. People will never see how evil their person is.
How dare your ex in-laws support their son’s abusive behavior by blaming you for putting him in jail. Where were they when he beat the s*** out of you. They should be ashamed of themselves for supporting this monster son/brother of theirs. Don’t listen to these people. Happy you are finally with a real man.
Very happy that it all work out for you in the end. There is nothing wrong with marrying another race either... But let's be honest... There is no degree associated with the act of surviving an abusive relationship. Let's not glorify such acts. It was the result of a bad decision, especially in the case of this story. It was her decision to marry and stay with her ex for as long as she did.
Koj niam pog yog ib niam maum dev tsis tij lim. Yug tau qhuab tsis tau, Cas tsis muab tua kiag pov tseg. Tseem cia yuav koj coj mus tsim thiab. Kav tsij muab niag dev tuag ntawv kaw kom tag tiam
There's plenty of good guys out there but some girls just choose these kinds of guys. JS. Also Hmong people and their 'kwv tij mam hais, peb mam hais, 18 xeem mam hais' BS. When it comes to DV, police mam hais.
I think you cheated on your husband before you run away And Mary your lover. You just blame on your ex-husband This is your side of story I think his side of story is also your fault
This lady ruam dhau. Why the hell would she go and see him after they’re already divorced smh 🤦🏻♀️ she makes it sound like he’s the only man in this world. Don’t complain about anything if you made that choice to stay with him and still go back when he say he want to see you so dumb. Boring story. If you can’t leave him don’t complain.
Can’t understand why some women are willing to stay in such toxic relationships even with all the beating, degrading and continuous threats. Ayaya ruam tiag tiag
Wise man says “ choose your mate wisely…”
Only a coward man would hit his wife…😩! A real man supports to love and protect his wife and his children…!
Glade that you found a real man…😩🤠!
I'm glad that you finally left him. I'm also happy that you found a new love. For women and men that were divorced are not all bad. They have their reasons and we should respect their choices and decisions.
Tug mi viv n koj zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu kuv siab kawg 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
In laws will always pretend like they care about you but the truth they don't care about you, only your parents and siblings will have your back and love you
Kuv mloog tag nrho neeg cov sab sij huam txog hnub no, mas zaj no yuav luag xws li kuv lub neej ntag, kuv tseem yuav muab kuv zaj rau niam ntsuab teev hais tuaj nej mloog nawb.
Cov Txiv cov lus tsis poob ib lo li os. Zoo siab koj tau lub Neej zoo lawm.
I’m proud of you sister!👏👏👏 So glad you found happiness in your life. Who care what the in law thinks or say about you after you divorce their son/brother.
OMG, I thought I am hearing my own story (happened 14 years ago) when listening to this one.
Yuav khiav lub neej tus txiv lim hiam mas yeej tsis yooj yim. txog leej twg tus ntawv thiaj li paub xwb.
True. 20 years and I can say I can finally leave my ex.
Sister peb cov poj niam yog siab dev tiag tiag li os yom
nyob zoo viv ncaug aw kv tus txiv twj yog suav
Kj lub neej thiab kv lub neej tau tug txiv phem ib yam os viv ncaug aw kv tug txiv nwg tsim kv heev le os tab sig nwg mus ua luam txaum cai es nom tswv muab nwg coj mus kaw tag sim neej lawm os
Kuv txiv neej tiag xi txiv neej siab pheem ho saib phooj ywg muaj hnuj nqi,kuv li tug muaj hnuj nqi ces kuv poj niam xwb ntxhub cov neeg saib phooj ywg muaj hnuj nqi.Nej cov ua cas yuav rua ua li os txiv neej zoo coob na
Listening to this story brought on anxiety from my past. It is true, the in laws will never have your back even though they know their son/brother is abusive. I’m glad you were able to get away and that you’ve found your happiness. ❤️
So why still stay ??
Me too sis 😩
hahaha your in law is the police’s official
I agree with u on this. At the end we are the bad one.
Happy you found love again. If someone truly love you, they don't hurt you nor tortured you. Don't let his pretend kindness soften your heart vim qub neeg qub siab xwb os mog.
Niampog yuav hais tus tub cas tsis hais thaum ntxov es yuav hais thaum teebliab twb tuaj txog lawm mam tias yuav hais. Mi vivncaus koj mas yuav laug tsis dim li os kuv mas nrog koj nyuajsiab tag zoo qhov koj dim lawm zoo siab koj txiv koj niam lawv hlub koj thiaj cawm koj mog.zoo siab nrog koj lub neej tshiab os mog
Wow! Ua cas yuav hlub koj ua luaj os tus me muam ruan qauj aw.
tutu siab li o zoo li kv lub neej thb😢
Me too!
❤
Koj hai yog tshaj plwg li mi viv n❤❤❤❤
Cas yuav cia txiv neej ntau tau yus nas
Yog kawg
I do not wish anyone to live through DV. I hope that the in-laws daughters will never have to experience DV. It is a sad truth that our hmong community does not see DV as an important matter. But DV is real and a very critical issue. Sister u did right.
That mil when her son’s beating you she tells you to leave and you don’t leave because you wanted to give it a chance. But the second you try to save yourself and call the cops for rescue they turn on you and say why you have to call the cops, why not let them intervene only. People will never see how evil their person is.
Yog kuv nas hais niam pog tias nws twb yuav mag kaws. Vim lawm saib tsoo lawm tu tub ntau koj..
How dare your ex in-laws support their son’s abusive behavior by blaming you for putting him in jail. Where were they when he beat the s*** out of you. They should be ashamed of themselves for supporting this monster son/brother of theirs. Don’t listen to these people. Happy you are finally with a real man.
Obsessed! Can’t get it.
U so lucky
U have ur mom & dad to love u
But I don’t have it too sad 😢
Me too I don’t have it too😢😢😢
I'm pissed at the mother-in-law!!! Shame on her for defending her loser son. I hope she get karma for not defending you.
7:17 it's your fault because you choose to stay with a person like this.
14:13 you messed up again.
Tus txiv neej hlub thiab nco kj tsis yog kj tus txiv ko os sister aw cas kj siab muag luaj na
Very happy that it all work out for you in the end. There is nothing wrong with marrying another race either... But let's be honest... There is no degree associated with the act of surviving an abusive relationship. Let's not glorify such acts. It was the result of a bad decision, especially in the case of this story. It was her decision to marry and stay with her ex for as long as she did.
Kuv twb taug li ko thiab kuv thiaj li nyob 1 leeg ua poj nrauj tau 10 xyoo lawm
Yog tus txiv tsis hlub nws tus poj niam es yog niam pog txv ces yeej work 100%.
Make this a lesson to not be like those in-laws.! Learn to know wrong is wrong and stop enabling anger management children. Quite disgusting!
Koj yog ib tug poj laib koj thiaj nyiam rau niag yawg laib na
Qhov lawv txw tsis tau koj yog vim koj yog neeg tawv ncauj na kuv qhia koj koj tus txiv yog tsis tsim txiaj ces koj tsuas zam txim tau 2 zaug xwb zaum 3 ces bye bye xwb hos yuav tsum hais tau ua tau luag thiaj ntshai yus ho qhov kawg ces koj yeej yog poj laib koj thiaj nrog niag yawg laib nyob taus ntev yog koj yog neeg zoo ces koj nyob tsis taus li nawb
koj lo taw CUA li koj tus husband thiab mas thiaj li nyob tau nrog nws los tau 10 taw xyoo mas
1 side story 50% is true.
Koj niam pog yog ib niam maum dev tsis tij lim. Yug tau qhuab tsis tau, Cas tsis muab tua kiag pov tseg. Tseem cia yuav koj coj mus tsim thiab. Kav tsij muab niag dev tuag ntawv kaw kom tag tiam
There's plenty of good guys out there but some girls just choose these kinds of guys. JS. Also Hmong people and their 'kwv tij mam hais, peb mam hais, 18 xeem mam hais' BS. When it comes to DV, police mam hais.
According to your story
Everything all your fault
Don't blame your husband and other people
I think you cheated on your husband before you run away
And Mary your lover.
You just blame on your ex-husband
This is your side of story
I think his side of story is also your fault
Niag poj Hmoob ruam qauj.
Wait, how do you not see physical appearance of your ex when you randomly met up with him and make out with him. Lol. It doesn't make sense.
Ruam npaum koj ces nyob twbywm rau koj niag txiv dev tsim xwb luasmuas.
I don't understand all u woman stay with a dead beat like that...............
Lady, you're in USA, have all the choices. Why you waisted time so long with an evil? Koj mob tsis tau txaus ces thiaj tso tsis tau.
Yog mas. Ib cov poj niam siab tsis tawv mas
Be humble. You will never understand until it happens to you. We all learn from our mistakes.
This lady ruam dhau. Why the hell would she go and see him after they’re already divorced smh 🤦🏻♀️ she makes it sound like he’s the only man in this world. Don’t complain about anything if you made that choice to stay with him and still go back when he say he want to see you so dumb. Boring story. If you can’t leave him don’t complain.
Can’t understand why some women are willing to stay in such toxic relationships even with all the beating, degrading and continuous threats. Ayaya ruam tiag tiag