The Doctor Divulge Ft. Dr. Umar Johnson
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2025
- On this session of Counsel Culture, Nick sits down with Dr. Umar Johnson for a thought-provoking conversation about love, identity, spirituality, and the Black community. Together, they explore the complexities of relationships, with Dr. Johnson sharing his views on polygamy and the political motivations behind his desire for two wives. The discussion delves into the roles Black men should play in the lives of Black women, the need to reinvent appreciation for Black women, and advice for men striving to improve their relationships.
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When I see Dr. Umar, I click immediately.😂
Nick claims he’s tapped into that spiritual realm but he hesitates when doc starts spitting real fire…
Bro one of his bms is white
He gave the best answer at the end about the different religions and different paths we all have to take in life. Everybody has a different journey.
Dr. Umar worded and delivered that so eloquently and beautifully. He was dropping gems 💎.
It opened my eyes real clear! Cause we don't know💯
@@tonithompson1158 FR
@@nicolejames3054 Exactly
“Sooner or later, her cookies get crushed!” 😂😂 I’m cracking up
So he just relegated his Queen's organs down to cookies?
That’s a fact. Especially working in the healthcare field in the hospital I seen it a lot.
"sometimes setbacks are setups for comebacks" - Dr. Umar Johnson. That was a whole bar.🔥
I love watching and listening to Dr umar johnson
You love being lied to
I've been following Dr. Umar for quite some time now and this is the most vulnerable and transparent I've seen him by far. 😍
Thank you Dr. Umar for always uplifting black women! It makes my heart smile to know that there are men out here that see us for who we really are ❤ Thanks King
@4:47 Dr. Umar it shoulda been the other way around. If you weren’t ready to marry yet, you shouldn’t have got them pregnant to begin with.
Period!
I’m pretty sure that was in his early stage before you even knew dude
Smh he clearly states it’s before he was woke lol 😂 that came later in life. He from north Philly.
@@juliap5457He never stated that he doesn’t think that way anymore. He criticized Dr Bryant for not having any children and when she stated that she wasn’t going to have children w anybody but her husband he didn’t agree. So clearly he still thinks that way.
But he’s still justifying the decision, therefore he still doesn’t recognize the mistake he made. He’s still blaming them because they didn’t “humble” themselves when he said he didn’t know them enough to marry.
Dr.Umar is one of the Realest to walk this Earth "Salute" 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾✊🏾🙏🏾🎓👀👑💯
The “realest” said, “ I didn’t want to make a lifelong decision just because they were pregnant.” When is having children with someone not a lifelong decision?
“We need to learn more about each other before we get together.” But didn’t need to know about them before you made them the mother of your children?
It’s not even that he made this mistake. It’s the fact that at this point in his life, he still doesn’t realize it was a mistake.
Dr umar love you but I’m CALLING you out! Pregnancy is *enough* to be married. You talk about community… you should have prioritized the kids over your own selfish desires (I heard you blaming the mothers for not being patient). Truth is you created 2 BROKEN HOMES that’s why you don’t like Dr. Bryant’s assessment 🤷🏽♀️.
TALK IT! 💯
This was soooo good!! I LOVED his explanation for the differences of religion!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He is clearly spiritually bankrupt. If that’s what his religion offers, it’s a false god because he is arrogant, ego driven, and consumed by a lack of self awareness.
Never thought I would say this but I agree with you Nick! 2 wives is the same as 12. They both equal more than 1. That’s where religious beliefs differ. Great interview though.
This was so Deep I had to watch this twice definitely when he talked about your Destiny. Dr Umar is the ultimate Teacher/Builder✊🏿🔥✊🏿🇱🇾
Getting of work and seeing this upload is just it👌
Christmas for me has for damn sure come early.
Really been enjoying the talks and the chemistry they share on cam.
These conversations are a true Blessing! Educational and Enlightening. Thank you!
Dr Umar verbally expressed the DIS appreciation of the black woman to a Tee! He worded it perfectly.🤌🏾 If we all Really knew how vital the black foundation is
Dr. Umar cooking speaking like a true general 💯🫡🫡
There’s only ☝🏾 one Way, Truth, and Life - all other paths are fake news….. I do agree that sometimes it takes going down the wrong path in order to find the straight and narrow way
I pray they both find Yahweh, because this is so sad. 🙏🏽😢
If he wants two wives….he should marry both of his children’s mothers 🤷🏿♀️
He wants hoes not wives. He's 50 he's not going to fool any grown woman with sense. He doesn't have the funds for them to entertain his nonsense either. Nick can get away with it because he's relatively wealthy.
Lmao yup!
How you know his children mothers are already in a relationship or marriage?
He got 12 kids from 4-5 women that’s not working
I am a priestess in Santeria and my life destiny strictly forbids me from being in any kind of “love triangle.” Any relationship I decide to be in MUST be monogamous, and I was actually open to polygamy.
See!!!!! I’m in a similar practice and these men think they can just go around and do this. Especially unknowingly to other women involved. My friend was told no love triangle bc they would off one another. Let these BM think what they want and believe what they want. The outcome may never work how they feel. I know a man told the same thing he can’t cheat bc of his wife spirit will well. I’ll leave it alone.
@ Yes, in my religion, when u initiate u have your life destiny revealed to u through ritual. It was specifically stated that I can never be in a non-monogamous relationship arrangement of any kind. I can’t be in “groups of 3” or anything of the sort. There’s no “one size fits all” when it comes to relationships. So ignore ppl that try to argue that polygamy “is the way it should be” etc. Everyone’s destiny is different.
There’s a reason the most intelligent animals on our planet mate for life.
Dr.Umar & Nick Cannon Show🎯✔️💯‼️✊🏼 🤣😂😅
Thank You for All The Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism.
What is Dr Umar building, He is 50 years old, it is clear that this man does not want to be married. He is not an example for building anything.(schools, families, community). You Will Know Them by Their Fruits
That biblical verse thoooo. So true 💯
Thissssssss 😢
lol 50 is not old for a man though he got time to do what he talking about.
Nick is so immature down to his posture. Salute to him for his career paths👍🏾
Bruh all 3 of these sessions have been great! Drop another 3
Thank you Nick Cannon & Dr Umar. Good experience, great knowledge. Well appreciated. Glorious and Gracious
We need to see you on the front lines putting in work during times of injustice to black people Dr. Umar… that’s what’s holding you back.
You can’t expect an empty person to truly provide for others. There’s nothing there to give.
This particular segment was powerful.
SOMETIMES SETBACKS ARE SET UPS FOR COME BACKS! A WORD
It's always interesting when men say they want 2 wives, when they haven't been able to maintain a relationship with one woman or wife.
Peace and Pan-Afrikanism 4 life great profound conversation my brothas keep it up very informative!
🔴⚫️🟢🔴🟡🟢✊🏾🇱🇾🇬🇭
85% of Melanated Americans are descended indigenous people. The majority are NOT African and have no reason to “return to someplace” our ancestors are not from. There’s a reason the powers that be want to continue to redirect us to Africa.
5:25 That defense was spoken like a true narcissist cus that was a horrible rebuttal. Dr. Umar is no better than Nick he’s a narcissist too no matter how he wants to defend his actions he’s just as the same I’m glad Nick called him out💯
FACTS
That's B's you don't believe that nick
Love and honor the Black woman throughly ! Great insight by Dr. Umar
Too bad he doesn't practice what he preaches
Salute to Dr. Umar Johnson.
Wow Dr. Umar said several good things I’m so happy Nick is doing these interviews
Including two baby mothers, was that a good thing?
Why is it that we have a logical explanation as to why we want to wait out the process of marrying someone but lack that same thought process of making a baby with them?
💯 agree
Me as Zulu person Here in South africa polygamy is our thing ❤ as long as I can manage both wives and each wife must have her own house ... our king Shaka Zulu Approved 😂🎉
Facts some just don’t understand what poly actually is. Western culture lost
But neither of them have done this….soooo, seems like they both are avoiding marriage, and the responsibility that comes with it, but they want the benefits of legacy, love, home, and family, while offering no commitment or real protection that only comes from marriage. Supposedly aware, but still creating broken homes and damage is crazy work.
Mxm... Awubhedi
I just Love Dr Umar ✊🏿❤️
I just love his racism ass so much😂
4:54 Dr. Umar " I will not get married to you solely because you are pregnant"
Also Dr. Umar " I would have married either one of them because they were pregnant "
🧢🧢😂😂
“A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways”
When Umar says he wants 2 wives, my grandmother's words come to mind: 'why don't you concentrate on getting one woman to like you first?!' LOL 😂 Why put the cart before the horse? 🐴
The birthing analogy was the perfect way to end this conversation 💎💎💎💎💎💎
14:34 as a 33 year old white man, just the appreciation for women in general is truly important. But needs to be reciprocated in a culture where men act like women and women are acting like men.
I love listening to dr umar periodtt. This man is doing the work
This show is just Nick Cannon’s therapy session lol
Free therapy. He must be tired of paying for it lol 😂
Pain to purpose 👏🏾
A legacy of offspring is CRAZY!!!
I can't tell you what religion to serve because I don't know their destiny is a Major eye opener Jewel 💪🏾
He never fails... Dr U and Candace have been the best on here. Just my observation 😊
Yeah this episode hit especially towards the end!!!
There you go! Let’s rock
Dr. Umar is a SURGIENE with his words kinda similar to Kanye West! Kudos!👏
So I’m the only one that notice those loud ass sips😂😂😂
He was drinking the Shit 💩 out of that coffee or whatever he was drinking
I couldn't hear it. The shoes were waaay louder
Must be some herbal tea 😂
So - let me get this straight - a life long decision is marriage but isn’t getting her pregnant a life long decision - no?
Thank you someone said it smdh
obviously not 😂 your children grow, Abe eventually move away. your partner is with YOU till you die, big difference, idk if arrogance or ignorance made you comment this
@ so what about special needs children life long commitment well let me just say for alot of parents our children is a life long commitment we just change how we parent and become more of a as needed advisor because grown married and all they still need you and for the other parents 18 and their done
Ironically, arrogance is why you made your comment. Deciding to have kids in a major decision as it binds you to r that person for a lifetime, your whole bloodline is created through that child w that woman and u say it’s not as big as marriage. He could’ve spent the next 18 yrs getting to know her if that was really the issue.
Black men will start a whole family with a woman, attaching themselves to her forever, establish their family’s bloodline through her but Marriage is way too much?! Trifling
@ well said ♥️
Hey 👋🏾 Counsel Culture and awesome conversation and have a good 😊 Friday and have a blessed weekend.
Ima need Nick to stop cutting these into episodes/segments and just drop the whole interview. Even if it’s 8-10 hours long
Hold up, I had this guy wrong lol “had they been a little patient” EXCUSE ME SIR, they grew the seed you planted in them out of love…. I had to shut this sht off lol 😂
Right! The arrogance and narcissism 😂 both are hypocrites
@ I can’t.. I’m sad I liked this guy lol. Wish I hadn’t started this one lol
Great I needed this
He said you got 30 !!!😂😂
HOLLERING!!!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Gahdam now this was a great one
minister Farrakhan, Malcolm x, Denzel Washington are great examples of monogamous kings that could have but chose not to be polygamous
There's only one path to Jehovah and the kingdom of God, and that's through Yeshua. All praises to the most highest of ALL other gods.
Amen!🙌🏾
Hallelujah 🎉🎉
15:38 - "But the schools almost done, we've just got to lay some floor"... 10+ years of donations, and nearly 6 years of having a building and you still need to lay the flooring... Intelligent, well spoken guy, but not a builder for sure...
Wait another 10+ years
I support Dr. Umar perspective on his life and what he desires for himself but why continue to profess the virtuous magnitude of our Queens, only to follow it with he needs more than one, to shape shift his life. It's a backwards slap. Again, I support this King however, he's more smoke than fire.
💯I’m definitely starting to smell smoke
Men are so contradicting, how do u say I didn’t wanna marry either one of my kids mother bcuz of pregnancy. How do you then say they were arrogant bcuz you wanted to play house before getting married with no guarantee of u marrying them. Gaslighting I’m glad they peep the bs a mile away. Those were smart women they already gave u a kid now u want them to prove themselves. Nah I like his lives and how he holds Nick accountable but u gotta take ur own advice.
He has no right to criticize Nick Cannon.
Nick intentionally made his children, and takes care of them financial.
Umar had to be summoned to court to take care of his children
One question I have is why is having children ok before I get to know you, but getting married off the table? Feel like both are a form of lifelong commitment. Actually, marriage is probably less of a permanent commitment than having a child together… 🤷🏿♂️ serious question though… 🫡
I always say this a child is a way bigger commitment than marriage u can be married have no kids and move on but I understand marriage is a huge financial risk if u marry wrong
But he should’ve def waited if he wasn’t sure why would I get someone pregnant then when they wanted to do it correct way tell them no cause u not ready yet u made another person become ready to bear and raise a child for u that’s crazy
Exactly Dr. Umar is making excuses for his ratchet behavior
Not saying it's ok but how many people actually plan their children? A lot of people have children that were not a sit down discussion, it just happened. Again not saying it's right but it happens and happens often. Myself included. So I can understand the having a kid but not being married to that person. In a perfect world I would have loved that but my child's father would never have been husband material for me. I am financially capable of taking care of my child on my own with or without help from the father so as long as he is physically present in a positive way then it works. But marriage would've never been on the table he is absolutely insane 😭🤣
Children aren't lifelong to a deadbeat father like Umar. His baby mothers raise his daughters while he gives you advice on relationships and parenting. When do you ever hear him making off-hand comments like I'm getting gifts for my children. I attended my child's birthday party recently. My children and I went on a trip together.
Atleast he's honest about having two wives instead of cheating and lying. I respect his opinion.
When Umar was talking at the end about religion and spirituality he was speaking some facts
Ninja you already got 2 families
😂😂😂😂
😂
Cookies get crushed is so unhinged🤣🤣🤣
SOMETIMES SETBACKS ARE SETUPS FOR COMEBACKS!!!!!
I usually love Listening to Dr. Uman, but this 2 wives
ideology is some
bull!😂😂
This also goes against his claims of valuing and respecting our "black queens".
How about you hire a male assistant? why does a woman have to accept sharing you emotionally and physically because you can't find or don't want to invent other ideas to Keep you committed to 1 Queen 7:20 1
2 wives sounds very convenient, SMH...
But as long as these women agree to the arrangement, that's their prerogative.
OK, it wasn't the two baby mamas out of wedlock that raised your antennas?
It was the two wives that bothers you?
I’m so happy he believes in astrology
And what's your sign?
I like Dr.Umar, but I don’t understand him sometimes. How do you feel you know enough about someone to create a child together, basically guaranteeing that you have to be around that person forever, but not enough to marry them?
Nick: Why not 3 or 4?
Umar: Because I will not be able to financially take care of them
Sad to see this did not get the views of Candice. the brother is on point.
More more more dr Umar more please 🎉🎉🎉
I love the timed comments lol
4:07 is a child not a life long decision?
Not to a deadbeat father. You dont even hear offhand comments about them. He doesn't say I bought my little girls' books, went to a movie, took them on a trip, visited for a birthday party etc.
Yep
2:28 they drink liquor when they play spades , and now they are sipping tea 🤯🤯
Oh please ! 4:45 b.s
Are you one of the mothers?😂
@@narajphilip3011 judging by her ability to see his excuses are just ways to sound smart while excusing ratchet behavior, I’m assuming she’s smarter than the mothers cause she can see his bs
😂😂😂
Me as Zulu person Here in South africa polygamy is our thing ❤ as long as I can manage both wives and each wife must have her own house ... our king Shaka Zulu Approved 😂🎉
8:18 😮that’s a slippery slope statement
Facts
Both of them need improvements, but Nick was just looking for flaws because he got checked. Dr Umar never claimed to be perfect.
Lord have mercy 😳
14:30 he said he been in this work his whole life how it take him until recently to start valuing the black woman?
I love what Dr. Umar says but when he speaks on having two wives he loses me, then I get disinterested in anything else he has to say. B/c I will never understand how any woman will want to share her husband. I will NEVER!
Most of y'all do that with your partners anyway without knowing it
@@leojohnson3406 and that makes it okay?
That’s the true African love
Most of the world does this. Expand your small mind.
@@richardredmond1480don't mix everything. Africa is a continent, not a village. Some countries don't tolerate/accept polygamy.
Plus, in some country in Africa, polyandry (woman with 2 or more partners) is legal.
The fact that he can’t understand that he and Dr Umar are different, baffles me.
Why not ask your wife to be your assistant?😂
That’s what he said
you didn’t listen did you
That’s what he’s saying lol
Lmmfao that’s the point of having two wives. 😂 yall just be commenting and not actively listening.
Umar's in his 50s and never been married 😂
You say that like it's something to ridicule. I laugh at people who get married just to avoid being talked about for not being married. See how that turns out 😂😂
@1stone379 it's laughable because Umar knows black women aren't worth marrying 😄
@1stone379 deleting comments about black women huh? 😄
i agree 💯@1stone379
I watched this for the psychoanalysis aspect , I’m a 28 year old white female, hopefully that is no disrespect lol. I’ve known about nick cannon’s lifestyle for awhile and watched a lot of interviews. It’s interesting but in a morbid way. I liked a lot of what dr. Umar had to say and the space created for self reflection, but from the jump as he was talking about women and his “two wives” I looked at his finger for a ring…no wedding ring… he had some good to say but it’s hard to totally respect the opinion of someone who hasn’t walked the walk 🤔🤔🤔
ReaL Talk. Thanks for sharing 🙏
You got 30! 😂😂😂
11:12 what he just says go for both whites as well. I can relate 1000%
I’m convinced nick brings him on to have a good laugh
😂
Its been 15 years still no school do anybody know when Umar Johnson is opening the school
You on everybody page about this man! Go build something of your own!
"Sometime setbacks are setups for comebacks"
I see Umar. I click. It’s Simple.
Doctor! First five minutes you literally just you messed up, but you’re human
I love listening to dr. UMar. But his 2 wives explaining is some BS😂
I’m trying to figure out why he thinks this sounds appealing to a woman? She’ll be a second wife (share him) and then the purpose he has for her is to build? That’s an easy pass 🤦🏽♀️.. what’s the gain?
@@SummerJ200men do not seek to marry women for women’s gain…only for their own gain.
😂😂😂😂😂… yeah so intriguing.
Right. That was crap. One woman Men are a different breed of Men. Celebrate one woman Men.
It's the man's choice respect it, you are definitely not his future wives but there are women out there who are truly happy with that arrangement. Majority of y'all would rather have your husbands cheat om y'all with two or three women out there rather than been one of two wives to a husband that is faithful to you too rather than go out there behind your back cheating with countless numbers of women and coming home to bring that negative energy and STDs
Them 2 women might have been you raising and fathering your daughters .
How many channels do Nick Cannon have?