i wish i could forget everything about this movie just to watch it again for the first time.i cant explain how many new feelings i felt during the first time i watched the film. it was the first time that i felt like i was in love with life and every single aspect of it.i realized that feeling that you’re alive doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re happy.i understood that happiness isn’t the key to feel alive. to let yourself accept and feel emotions is being alive.
maybe the best comment i've seen about this movie so far, the most relatable one. i would love to have all the feelings i had at the first watch, again and again. so obsessed about this movie, the story, the actors, the colors, the music, everything. so many feelings that can't be explained. cannot wait for the sequel really
I completely agree with you both though.... I keep on watching this movie and still feel the emotion, the love, smell, the Sound of the waterfalls.... Never happened to me before this kind if "obsession" .... Makes me fly somewhere I feel like happiness despite the pain and Elio's tears....
@@joaoa9668 Tomara que a sequência seja tão brilhante como foi o original. Acho que será difícil de superar as emoções vividas pelos personagens mas em todo caso estou na torcida para que seja outro grande sucesso dos envolvidos. Os fãs agradecerão.🌹🌹
This movie made me cry so hard. They really did love each other but both were clearly terrified to admit it. But by the time they fully realized it was love and it wasn't just lust, it was to late and Oliver has moved on. Elio was such a sweet innocent boy and you can see the pure hurt in his eyes when he was told something he probably dreaded the most.
agreed. well written! 👏🏼 i think i sobbed pretty hard after watching it. it’s been 2 years or maybe a little more & i can’t wait for the sequel & i need to rewatch
Hammy Lindholm at the end of the story Elio finds out that Oliver is soon to be married, this destroys the bit of hope he still had of sharing more of their lifes with eachother. I highly recommend you watch the movie!
First i was like: is it? I am not sure and i read the description but i didn't remember reading about a love story so i thought the movie would be boring and then the film was actually good and i thought about them being in love and then they were in love and i was irritated.
@@rebeccaserti5990 i had a hunch but i didnt realize it either. ive seen the movie...7 or 8 times now i believe and trust me the more you watch it the clearer things get. you notice stuff you havent seen before, emotions, words. somehow things fall into place. i like that the movie challenges you in a way, nothing is obvious...but thats the beauty of it. thats kinda the point of the movie i think, nothing was REALLY obvious...as was their love.
its sad to have someone call you by their name and then they just leave and get engaged. i was hurt to see elio sitting in front of a fireplace crying, and tbh if the movie hadn’t of ended there and continued for 4 hours, i wouldve watched it all
@@chloeelaine5959 i think Oliver loved him too and he realised that when they were away together but i also believe that he was too scared to do anything while Elio didn't really care about it:)
I think Oliver did love him back, the only reason why its difficult to tell is cause we dont see Olivers point of view. We only see Elio’s perspective and we can only hope that Oliver genuinly loves Elio back just the way Elio does. The scene where they call each other by their name is a way of saying ‘i love you’. Elio knows Oliver still loves him during that phone call cause Oliver said his name back to him. Or at least thats the way i see it.
This is one of the rare films that only gets better when you watch it again and again. The more you watch it, the more forgotten things you find, their conversations make more sense, the scenes fall into place. Such a cinematic masterpiece.
The last scene of this movie is just pure genius. Elio stared at the fire crying in silence, reliving the beautiful memories and hurt by the last bit of hope that died when Oliver called at the same time. Behind him, his mother and the housekeeper continued preparing for dinner, letting Elio have his moment. That’s a metaphor for life - it goes on. And it goes on for Elio too. Just a moment in time when the memories can’t stay still, they come around lingering in his head. They’re so vivid like the fire. Timothee’s acting is just amazing. That scene messed with everyone’s heart.
If you wanna cry more you should read the book I cried at movie and when I read book my feelings were deeper than crying and I was only trapped in emotional void it was so bad..
@@betulklc1765 for some reason i cried so hard for the movie and then after reading the book i didnt cry? Im reading find me now (sequel) but im super mad that i did not cry after the book. to be honest i liked the ending a lot. I feel like oliver just couldnt call elio by his name because he was in front of others maybe? he had to of remembered .
SPOILERS!! Most of Find Me isn’t about Oliver and Elio… the first half of the book is Mr. Perlman falling in love with a young woman named Miranda (him and Mrs. Perlman get divorced after Elio went to college), the second part is Elio having a romance with an older man about 15 years after the events of CMBYN, the third part is a short snippet of Oliver’s life (and thoughts) where he had a going away party from his job that reminded him of Elio, and the last part (only about 10 pages) is Oliver and Elio. In the end of CMBYN (book), Oliver visits the villa 20 years after for one night in the middle of traveling and that’s how the book ends. The author changed it up a bit in Find Me, where Oliver actually goes back to live with Elio in the villa at this time (Mr. Perlman has died, Mrs. Perlman is old and dying, and Miranda, the girl Mr. Perlman fell in love with later on, is living there to with a 10 year old son, named Oliver, that’s Mr. Perlman’s and Miranda’s son). Oliver and Elio just kind of “live happily ever after” together, acknowledging that the child is basically a product of their love. Elio and Oliver’s ending is really short and unsatisfactory, the writing isn’t half as good as CMBYN and many people think the author sacrificed good story telling for a happy ending. Tbh, I don’t think CMBYN was ever supposed to have a sequel, and the only reason Find Me was written was due to the success of CMBYN movie. The author even changed a ton of stuff from the first book in Find Me to align with what had been changed for the move. So long story short, Elio and Oliver live happily ever after while raising Elio’s half-brother named Oliver. But most of the book is about Mr. Perlman and Miranda.
Pretty sure their names have a link to each other. Saw a comment about it before but I can't remember what it was. You should look into it! Makes them even cuter
Some of us have, and it can tear you to shreds. But it makes you feel alive, that's for sure. What's hard is that everything afterward can feel so pale and bland.
@@kelkabot Truth! All I know right now is that I’m alive. I must be grateful for that fact yet it is so immensely difficult. I must smile because it happened. One can really relate to Elio! It is amazing what this movie has done for me and so many others. 🤍
My favourite part of this movie is that they never say I love you. They say call me by your name and I'll call you by mine , this line is incomprehensible.
The scene where Elio is watching the bonfire after talking to Oliver just kills me every time . The way he's sad because the person he loves left but at the same time he's happy that he could experience all that , all the emotions and feel alive like his dad told him . It's so meaningful 🤧
Yes, I didn't think of that. He was following his dad's advice to feel the good as well as the bad. I'm too sensitive for life. My feeling literally destroy me. I can't feel them fully or I will suicide.
It's so fascinating how the movie easily makes you forget that the story is about two men falling in love with each other. They didn't point that out once in the movie. It's just pure love and that's it.
@@humminbird6990 Just like you say, that's what caught me from this movie, nothing forced, nothing prejudiced or stuffed with moral questioning (hypocrisy) or discrimination that only produces boredom. This movie is necessary to see it several times, once is not enough. It does not seem anything crude but real and natural.
There was an interview where Luca the director had said that this story wasn't necessarily about gay or straight but more so about two free spirits falling in love for the first time
"Right now there's sorrow...pain...don't kill it" I will admit this line totally changed the way I look at grief We might not realise it but pain is beautiful too
every time elio whispers his own name on the phone, i feel like someone reached down my throat, pulled my heart out of my chest and stepped all over it.
It rlly does. I mean he's basically begging oliver not to forget the nights and memories they shared. Almost a plea for his love. Its just a beautiful movie
What Elio's dad said... Is something every single person in this world should hear... And I hope there are people like him the world who respect the beauty of nature and accept it whole heartedly, his words honestly did touch my heart... They were beautiful and true... Everyone deserves a dad who thinks like that
I wish they kept the ending of the book for the movie, they end up together and live in the summer house together, then I wouldn't still be crying 14 days after watching the movie for the first time and having now watched it 7 times.
wait I thought he just came to visit?? doesnt Oliver still have his family? I know after 20 years elio wasnt over him but I thought Oliver was the one trying to make the hard decision and keep them apart. I took that ending as them growing comfortable as friends in love, not lovers reunited.
@@cityofgone74 honestly, your probably right. I've only heard a little about the book and someone told me what Isaid happened, I haven't read it myself.
LoubieLou 17 In Call me by your name (the book) they didn't end up together. Elio just vist Oliver after fifteen years without any contact. Oliver is married and Elio single but both remeber what they had and still love eachother. Oliver is afraid that Elio didn't forgive him that he just walked away. But finally 20 years after the italien summer they spend together they end up together at the last chapter of Find me the second book in this universe .
Am I the only one who don't get over the fact that it's impossible for Oliver and Elio to forget eachother and that they twenty years later still feel the same?😭🥰
1:55 This is where I started to tear up. The way that Elio is looking at Oliver with such awe, with so much adoration and love. And the way Oliver is doing the same. There was no need for words.
Exactly this. It just gets me every single time. I think it's a dream of everyone to find someone who looks at you that way and is just in complete awe of you forever ❤
I’m hella sleep deprived and when I was watching this, It felt like my third eye was opening and I felt the emotions. Has anyone ever gotten that feeling or sensation of being there and feeling everything? It’s like I’m in an out of body experience and reliving another life.
For me its kind of a nostalgic feeling about something Ive never experienced before, like you remember things that youve never experienced? Thats how i feel it
I know this comment was a year ago lol but I just watched the movie and felt every emotion along with the movie. Some I haven't felt in quite some time.
I WILL NEVER IN MY LIFE GET OVER THIS MOVIEEEE i watch it every year, it always has the same impact on me. call me by your name is most likely one of the most beautiful movies to ever exist. the entire vibe is set so gorgeous and calming. the story of two secret lovers. the affection they have for each other is all a person could ask for. elio being so needy and oliver being this calmer, older man is genuinely a great addition. i love this movie, it’ll always stay in my top 3. my heart gets torn to shreds every single time i watch it, the emotional attachment builds as the movie goes on and then it all falls. and the last scene with the phone call is so impactful, oliver knows and elio knows they both want it. and all the side characters are also amazing, mafalda having this protective energy while elio’s mother is always calm and collected, always smoking in her beautiful outfits. elio’s dad being so wise and passionate was also a great part of the whole plot. the scenery of northern italy mixed with the passionate love they had, the best thing i have ever watched.
Have anyone read Find me? It's so sad and beautiful after almost twenty years they still in love with eachother and can't forget what they had. Besides Oliver is married and have two almost adult sons Elio and he get again together after all these years without any contact.😭🥰
That sounds so sad, they wasted 20 of their best years with people they didnt love and only realized they were meant to be after 20 years. Must feel like they wasted so much time together 😥 Elio is then 37 and Oliver 45 im assuming?
Forever one of my favorite films. So much more than a love story. I feel so alive with the depth of emotions I feel when I watch this film. It is just so cinematically well done with the writing, the acting, the setting, the colors, the music, the editing, etc. I will never get over it. I will forget it. It’s hard for me to express in words fully though. This video is really beautiful, and I think portrays that feeling really well.
I'll never get over this movie. it feels like I'm in an unending trance and I'll never come out of it maybe because i don't want to. I'll always keep it close to my heart
Oh darling, you need to watch more vids. Two heteros fell in love making this film. I haven't stopped celebrating since the recent news of Armie's divorce and freedom. Whatever happens, know that these two have a GENUINE connection of depth and beauty. ❤❤❤
@@soni8995 celebrating someone's divorce bcz it feeds into your delusion is really scumy. From what I've learned Armie has been going through mental health issues and your comment just accentuates the problem with this fandom.
this is so beautiful! gives me chills. 🥰🤩 i really need to rewatch before the sequel comes out. i watched it maybe in 2018 & i forgot that his father said this & wow 🥺 3 comments of “i cant ever get over this movie” in the last month SAME!!
I cry listening to the soundtrack I cry watching this movie I cry because I felt like I was there I have never felt this way about any movie I’ll never be the same and to me that okay
How I wish this was a series with never ending episodes. I was too sad to know that It'll only be an hour and that ending made me very sad for like a week
The thing about this movie is that the words 'gay', 'homosexual', 'sexuality' ... were never mentioned, which tells us that this is about strong chemistry and connection and attraction of two souls. It was never about labels. Such a great book and movie too.
I swear, I only watched this movie to lessen my boredom and to at least console my lonely 16 year-old heart, yup, I'm that young, hence I never knew that I'd be drowned deeply to Ellio and Oliver's love story. The feeling was indeed different, I felt like I was the one who fell in love and at the same time got heart broken instead of them. After having to see this movie, a new door opened up for me and even if it did hurt me, I can still say that this movie is one of the movies that showed me how good love can be. haha, my eyes isn't innocent anymore though. Also, that 'I don't want you to go' or something like that from Elio hits different.
I once had a relationship like that but did not go any further because of how "wrong everything seemed" by the eyes of others, and while I was watching the movie, I was kind of jealous of how lucky Elio was...having those extremely supportive parents understanding completely what was going on between the two, being so comprehensive as well... this is a great movie to show to those parents that are not able to comprehend what their children really are going through.
I can’t get over them.. they truly loved each other, even if it was just for one minute, just for two weeks, Elio gave his life to him, gave his soul to Oliver, Oliver gave his love, his future, his soul too to him, they demonstrated that love is love, no matter how old you are, no matter what’s your gender, nothing matters more than their love. I’m crying right now cause they gave a chance that one day someone will love me the way Oliver did with Elio, just not now, they made me believe in love, in a love that is smiling, touching, endless, more than just physical, love no matter what it’s what they had, i know they at least came across each other ok? But their break up really broke me, my heart, just, couldn’t take it.
Such a beautiful movie! Their love was so pure and innocent! Although, imo, the character, Oliver, came on as too strong or not too into their relationship or not delicate enough for someone like Elio, still loved the raw emotions between them and the moments they had together! Such a lovely story!
The castle in this film, when Elio and Oliver were at the war monument, is 15 minutes away from where I live. Back in 2012, when I moved to Lombardy region, I visited that castle in Pandino regularly. When I saw it in the movie I was smiling so hard my face hurt. The villa and the "pellicceria" (fur store) are 30 minutes away from my home. I visited them both today. I cried like a baby - sobbed profusely. My partner thought I was losing it. He said, "What's going on?" I asked him if he had ever seen a film that touched him so deeply that he had to visit the places for comfort. He smiled and nodded. It was surreal to trace the steps of Elio and Oliver. My heart is still shattered, but my soul is slightly more peaceful. This film is a beautiful love experience.
@@momsspaghetti2246 Having lived in Italy 10 years now, most Italians are calm sorts. LOL. So they probably look, think we're all crazy, and just carry on with their day. Bahahahahaha
I love love this movie . Ok so I bought it on vudu when it first came out but for whatever reason never watched it til today. And oh my God. This is one of THE greatest love stories I have ever seen. Not once in the movie do these two say "I love you" to eachother ..as it wasn't needed. That is just brilliant. And the realness , the chemistry between the actors blew me away. Plus This movie turned me on more than most romance and I am a straight woman. Not all love stories have happy endings . At the end we see Elio crying, then it turns to a smile . He knows they shared something very special together . It was very realistic ending. The music choice , the beautiful location. Ugh everything was just perfect. Beautiful film I will cherish forever ❤
i might have watched this at least 50 times and i’m not even kidding it’s been a month since i first came here IM OBSESSED with the music , the scenes and everything
This is beautiful, I really love this movie and all the things that can be related to it. Such an incredible storyline and cinematography, everything matches even the incredible soundtrack. Elio & Oliver forever in our hearts.
This movie was a masterpiece ❤️❤️❤️ I guess the best things in life never lasts long but their memories always stay with us as a reminder that once we held somthing very beautiful ❤️
the most amazing movie about gay love ever....so natural and moving....I pray there will be a sequel no matter what the ending these two actors are so special.....
I thought I’d never get over this movie. Then I did 2 years back. Then one week ago I recalled it, I reread the book and rewatched the movie and now I’m more desperate than I ever was the first time. Damn this sucks in a whole new level.
I cried during this and the movie, How could Oliver get married when he's in love with elio! He made me angry and sad and he put me on an emotional roller coaster. I cant believe he did that! Elio snatch that mans up in the next movie please! :( Elio and Oliver are the best couple portrayed in any movie ever. UGH! So beautiful and mesmerizing.. So adorable! :( And heartbreaking what a lovely couple... They had everything anyone could ever need in one another.
i’m so sorry i had to dislike i was the 69 dislike
dislike right now its at 70 hahhahaha
unforgivable.
take it away now!!!
Understandable have a nice day
You gotta do what ya gotta do
i wish i could forget everything about this movie just to watch it again for the first time.i cant explain how many new feelings i felt during the first time i watched the film. it was the first time that i felt like i was in love with life and every single aspect of it.i realized that feeling that you’re alive doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re happy.i understood that happiness isn’t the key to feel alive. to let yourself accept and feel emotions is being alive.
maybe the best comment i've seen about this movie so far, the most relatable one. i would love to have all the feelings i had at the first watch, again and again. so obsessed about this movie, the story, the actors, the colors, the music, everything. so many feelings that can't be explained. cannot wait for the sequel really
I completely agree with you both though.... I keep on watching this movie and still feel the emotion, the love, smell, the Sound of the waterfalls.... Never happened to me before this kind if "obsession" .... Makes me fly somewhere I feel like happiness despite the pain and Elio's tears....
@@ellesiat2413 Same here..
That's why I love the arts so much... that's what it does to people. Thank you for externalize what you have felt, that was very pleasing to read
@@joaoa9668 Tomara que a sequência seja tão brilhante como foi o original. Acho que será difícil de superar as emoções vividas pelos personagens mas em todo caso estou na torcida para que seja outro grande sucesso dos envolvidos. Os fãs agradecerão.🌹🌹
i can never get over this movie
wow three comments like this but fr 😭
Neither can I.
Me neither.
when someone can they have to tell me how like i- i still crying at the end 😭
sameee
Marzia being real salty with that one dislike
marzia deserved better
Don't you dare insult Marzia, I mean, poor her.
Ray edwards uses accounts
She was cool about everything in the movie. He liked her, he just didn't love her and she understood that.
Marzia was a good companion to Elio she still cared about him
The most heart breaking scene is when Elio said "I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO" 😩
Though he had to🤣🤣🤣
no stoppp i’m crying
i can hear elio saying it
Hey iam your 1000nth like.
@@sahlasithuz1778 hhahaa. I didn't expect I would get that much likes ☺️
This movie made me cry so hard. They really did love each other but both were clearly terrified to admit it. But by the time they fully realized it was love and it wasn't just lust, it was to late and Oliver has moved on. Elio was such a sweet innocent boy and you can see the pure hurt in his eyes when he was told something he probably dreaded the most.
agreed. well written! 👏🏼 i think i sobbed pretty hard after watching it. it’s been 2 years or maybe a little more & i can’t wait for the sequel & i need to rewatch
Could someone fill me in? What happened when you say Elio heard something he didn’t wanna hear? I don’t mind spoilers ✌🏻👏🏻
Hammy Lindholm at the end of the story Elio finds out that Oliver is soon to be married, this destroys the bit of hope he still had of sharing more of their lifes with eachother. I highly recommend you watch the movie!
Elio wasn't innocent I'm sorry but you just have to read the book to understand how he was dirty 😂😂
"innocent"
until their first kiss I didn't realize it was a love story. When I rewatched the movie I was like: wtf how could i not notice????
First i was like: is it? I am not sure and i read the description but i didn't remember reading about a love story so i thought the movie would be boring and then the film was actually good and i thought about them being in love and then they were in love and i was irritated.
I feel so stupid I didnt even realise elio was coming out to oliver at that wwll thing
@@rebeccaserti5990 i had a hunch but i didnt realize it either. ive seen the movie...7 or 8 times now i believe and trust me the more you watch it the clearer things get. you notice stuff you havent seen before, emotions, words. somehow things fall into place. i like that the movie challenges you in a way, nothing is obvious...but thats the beauty of it. thats kinda the point of the movie i think, nothing was REALLY obvious...as was their love.
And after reading the book every details fall into places such a beautiful love story in that one summer somewhere in that mid 80's🍑
SAME. I was like are they...? Naaah. But then OH I SEE
Elio Elio Elio Elio Elio Elio~
*Oliver* .. I remember *everything*
I remember I see u there
its sad to have someone call you by their name and then they just leave and get engaged. i was hurt to see elio sitting in front of a fireplace crying, and tbh if the movie hadn’t of ended there and continued for 4 hours, i wouldve watched it all
@@samadrianmayes3868 I would've Killed myself If that would've Happened... Its Too Much Emotional weight to Carry for 4 more Hours...💔💔😭
my heart broke when he whispered that into the phone
i want to love someone as much as they love eachother
Like i love Finn
Madalena Ferreira Finn wolfhard?
More like how elio loves Oliver. Oliver didn’t give a fuck about him
@@chloeelaine5959 i think Oliver loved him too and he realised that when they were away together but i also believe that he was too scared to do anything while Elio didn't really care about it:)
I think Oliver did love him back, the only reason why its difficult to tell is cause we dont see Olivers point of view. We only see Elio’s perspective and we can only hope that Oliver genuinly loves Elio back just the way Elio does. The scene where they call each other by their name is a way of saying ‘i love you’. Elio knows Oliver still loves him during that phone call cause Oliver said his name back to him. Or at least thats the way i see it.
Me: finally lives a week without thinking about this movie 24/7.
Me: sees this on my homepage- “ah shit here we go again”
Yeah... Its a Parasite... Never Goes away...🙂💔😭
@@gauriphadanavis8345 lol...it's true..
same hahahah
LMAOOAOA THIS IS ME
Lmao i know the feeling
Still not over this
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I have never been the same after seeing this movie
And for me it’s been like months since I’ve watched it 😔✌️
you'll never be, no one can... :(
@@anniaarmengoltomas6510 This is so truthy...
i actually cried at this you did such an amazing job portraying their love story
Thanks so much for saying that!
AGREED!! this is so beautiful. it gives me chills and i cant help but smiling 🥰🤩
Their.
Me tooo😭✨
maria kara smile. I cried and bawled😭😭😭
I'm crying ....again. This movie has effected me SO much. His dad's words changed my prospective of life. It sounds SO overdramatic but it's true
I literally have a tattoo of that speech at the end. I love it so much
@@alinafelber2089 Cool
@@alinafelber2089 what's the tattoo?
CMBYM will always be that movie that will always make you cry, laugh and fall in love as if it's the first time you watched it.
Always.💗
This is one of the rare films that only gets better when you watch it again and again. The more you watch it, the more forgotten things you find, their conversations make more sense, the scenes fall into place. Such a cinematic masterpiece.
Agree. I have been watching it many times.
Я продолжаю пересматривать его до сих пор и перечитывать обе книги.
I can’t get over from this movie
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maria kara came back here after a few months, true HAHAHAHA
The last scene of this movie is just pure genius. Elio stared at the fire crying in silence, reliving the beautiful memories and hurt by the last bit of hope that died when Oliver called at the same time. Behind him, his mother and the housekeeper continued preparing for dinner, letting Elio have his moment. That’s a metaphor for life - it goes on. And it goes on for Elio too. Just a moment in time when the memories can’t stay still, they come around lingering in his head. They’re so vivid like the fire.
Timothee’s acting is just amazing. That scene messed with everyone’s heart.
Wow you described this scene perfectly, definitely didn’t catch the fire part till now.
It's a reason to fight for love when you have it.
i’m crying now. later.
raven don’t say LATER bro now i’m cryninggg
Later😢
My heart broke at later😭
i cried for two days after seeing the movie for the first time. my family was like *"what happened ?"* and i was *"he..he got married 😭"*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you wanna cry more you should read the book I cried at movie and when I read book my feelings were deeper than crying and I was only trapped in emotional void it was so bad..
@@betulklc1765 for some reason i cried so hard for the movie and then after reading the book i didnt cry? Im reading find me now (sequel) but im super mad that i did not cry after the book. to be honest i liked the ending a lot. I feel like oliver just couldnt call elio by his name because he was in front of others maybe? he had to of remembered .
What happen in the ending of find me? I don't quite like reading but i realllyyy wanna know if they get together again
SPOILERS!! Most of Find Me isn’t about Oliver and Elio… the first half of the book is Mr. Perlman falling in love with a young woman named Miranda (him and Mrs. Perlman get divorced after Elio went to college), the second part is Elio having a romance with an older man about 15 years after the events of CMBYN, the third part is a short snippet of Oliver’s life (and thoughts) where he had a going away party from his job that reminded him of Elio, and the last part (only about 10 pages) is Oliver and Elio. In the end of CMBYN (book), Oliver visits the villa 20 years after for one night in the middle of traveling and that’s how the book ends. The author changed it up a bit in Find Me, where Oliver actually goes back to live with Elio in the villa at this time (Mr. Perlman has died, Mrs. Perlman is old and dying, and Miranda, the girl Mr. Perlman fell in love with later on, is living there to with a 10 year old son, named Oliver, that’s Mr. Perlman’s and Miranda’s son). Oliver and Elio just kind of “live happily ever after” together, acknowledging that the child is basically a product of their love. Elio and Oliver’s ending is really short and unsatisfactory, the writing isn’t half as good as CMBYN and many people think the author sacrificed good story telling for a happy ending. Tbh, I don’t think CMBYN was ever supposed to have a sequel, and the only reason Find Me was written was due to the success of CMBYN movie. The author even changed a ton of stuff from the first book in Find Me to align with what had been changed for the move. So long story short, Elio and Oliver live happily ever after while raising Elio’s half-brother named Oliver. But most of the book is about Mr. Perlman and Miranda.
There's always Elio in Oliver... Without Elio, Oliver is just vr.
🤣👍
virtual reality?? 😭
👏👏👏👏
Pretty sure their names have a link to each other. Saw a comment about it before but I can't remember what it was. You should look into it! Makes them even cuter
@@R621-v8k oh no not virtual reality 😭
Imagine getting to experience a love like this. Even for a brief moment in time.
Some of us have, and it can tear you to shreds. But it makes you feel alive, that's for sure. What's hard is that everything afterward can feel so pale and bland.
@@kelkabot Truth! All I know right now is that I’m alive. I must be grateful for that fact yet it is so immensely difficult. I must smile because it happened. One can really relate to Elio! It is amazing what this movie has done for me and so many others. 🤍
I'm not sure if I'd be up for it. It wouldn't be easy to deal with that heartbreak.
Some of us have experienced it ( :
Elio unable to forget his feeling for Oliver, that's why he keep being single after years, true love, thx
I don’t think Oliver has forgotten either
♥️❤️💖💏👨👨👦
The thing is, they can only remember about all this love :’)
Merci beaucoup 💖💏
The real name of the video is “Me crying for 3 minutes and 15 seconds straight”
Timothee gave a stunning performance there!!! He's absolutely brilliant 👏👏👏
So did Armie.He was a brilliant partner for Timothee
My favourite part of this movie is that they never say I love you. They say call me by your name and I'll call you by mine , this line is incomprehensible.
I just love elio's dad's point of view of love . Just amazing.
We are one, I am you, you are me, there is no separation between us, deeper than love
The scene where Elio is watching the bonfire after talking to Oliver just kills me every time . The way he's sad because the person he loves left but at the same time he's happy that he could experience all that , all the emotions and feel alive like his dad told him . It's so meaningful 🤧
Yes, I didn't think of that. He was following his dad's advice to feel the good as well as the bad. I'm too sensitive for life. My feeling literally destroy me. I can't feel them fully or I will suicide.
Most people will never feel this passion or sense these emotions in their lifetime.
If u ever find something so precious, never let it go.
Sometimes you get no choice. Isn't that the point of the movie ?
It's so fascinating how the movie easily makes you forget that the story is about two men falling in love with each other.
They didn't point that out once in the movie.
It's just pure love and that's it.
Exacto 👍
I agree. The love develops as it goes. And you feel for it. It just feels natural the way they portray.
@@humminbird6990 Just like you say, that's what caught me from this movie, nothing forced, nothing prejudiced or stuffed with moral questioning (hypocrisy) or discrimination that only produces boredom.
This movie is necessary to see it several times, once is not enough.
It does not seem anything crude but real and natural.
There was an interview where Luca the director had said that this story wasn't necessarily about gay or straight but more so about two free spirits falling in love for the first time
"Right now there's sorrow...pain...don't kill it"
I will admit this line totally changed the way I look at grief
We might not realise it but pain is beautiful too
every time elio whispers his own name on the phone, i feel like someone reached down my throat, pulled my heart out of my chest and stepped all over it.
It rlly does. I mean he's basically begging oliver not to forget the nights and memories they shared. Almost a plea for his love. Its just a beautiful movie
What Elio's dad said... Is something every single person in this world should hear... And I hope there are people like him the world who respect the beauty of nature and accept it whole heartedly, his words honestly did touch my heart... They were beautiful and true... Everyone deserves a dad who thinks like that
This movie expresses the exact feeling of being in love
Bruh I started crying at 1:12
SAMEEEEE
same?!
Me as well😣😣😣
SAMEEEE OMG
samee :(
This film helped me to finally come to terms with my sexuality and accept it as something natural and beautiful
that's so awesome!!! i'm so proud of you
Natural ? beautiful ?😂 Are you stupid
@@popcorn9969 Seems to me like you should ask yourself that... Why wouldn't it be natural? Or beautiful?
@@popcorn9969 yes, natural and beautiful. Now go cry to your mommy and play videogames
Hey stranger, I'm happy for you
this movie gives me nostalgia for something i've never experienced.
The saddest thing about this movie is that they never said "I Love You" to each other once
they didn‘t need to. they just loved each other and they didn’t actually need any words
@@moonandstars4209 Words don't come easy... :D
That's the point, it's not about saying it, it's more about feeling it
@Wiktoria Sklarek Probably. Although I wish that there was a pause during that scene and they admitted their love for eachother.
ugh baby but they did. the whole movie was a clear, i love you.
The way Ellio always seemed to get lost by Oliver’s touch was so beautiful to me❤️
I wish they kept the ending of the book for the movie, they end up together and live in the summer house together, then I wouldn't still be crying 14 days after watching the movie for the first time and having now watched it 7 times.
wait I thought he just came to visit?? doesnt Oliver still have his family? I know after 20 years elio wasnt over him but I thought Oliver was the one trying to make the hard decision and keep them apart. I took that ending as them growing comfortable as friends in love, not lovers reunited.
@@cityofgone74 honestly, your probably right. I've only heard a little about the book and someone told me what Isaid happened, I haven't read it myself.
LoubieLou 17 In Call me by your name (the book) they didn't end up together. Elio just vist Oliver after fifteen years without any contact. Oliver is married and Elio single but both remeber what they had and still love eachother. Oliver is afraid that Elio didn't forgive him that he just walked away. But finally 20 years after the italien summer they spend together they end up together at the last chapter of Find me the second book in this universe .
@@leasophiebuchholz8087 thankyou!
They are making a movie sequel
This film was something else...... Bringing smile and tears, together.
Am I the only one who don't get over the fact that it's impossible for Oliver and Elio to forget eachother and that they twenty years later still feel the same?😭🥰
This movie has such beautiful scenery. I mean it’s like a walking Pinterest board
the scene with his dad was one of the most beautiful scenes ever written in the history of cinema.
i am not over this movie, i will never be over this movie, and im ok with that
They really do make the most realistic, natural couple.
*This film is a masterpiece but every single part it's art by itself*
Timothée Chalamet,Armie Hammer and the others are *"art"*
1:55 This is where I started to tear up. The way that Elio is looking at Oliver with such awe, with so much adoration and love. And the way Oliver is doing the same. There was no need for words.
Exactly this. It just gets me every single time. I think it's a dream of everyone to find someone who looks at you that way and is just in complete awe of you forever ❤
@@s.rae.m tearing up again😩
My god that part l love, the way they look at each other they are besotted.. ❤❤
I’m hella sleep deprived and when I was watching this, It felt like my third eye was opening and I felt the emotions. Has anyone ever gotten that feeling or sensation of being there and feeling everything? It’s like I’m in an out of body experience and reliving another life.
For me its kind of a nostalgic feeling about something Ive never experienced before, like you remember things that youve never experienced? Thats how i feel it
It’s so wonderful guys
I know this comment was a year ago lol but I just watched the movie and felt every emotion along with the movie. Some I haven't felt in quite some time.
when i tell you im sobbing
One of the all-time great coming-of-age movies, is this one. Timothy is amazing in everything he does.
I WILL NEVER IN MY LIFE GET OVER THIS MOVIEEEE
i watch it every year, it always has the same impact on me.
call me by your name is most likely one of the most beautiful movies to ever exist. the entire vibe is set so gorgeous and calming. the story of two secret lovers. the affection they have for each other is all a person could ask for. elio being so needy and oliver being this calmer, older man is genuinely a great addition. i love this movie, it’ll always stay in my top 3. my heart gets torn to shreds every single time i watch it, the emotional attachment builds as the movie goes on and then it all falls. and the last scene with the phone call is so impactful, oliver knows and elio knows they both want it. and all the side characters are also amazing, mafalda having this protective energy while elio’s mother is always calm and collected, always smoking in her beautiful outfits. elio’s dad being so wise and passionate was also a great part of the whole plot. the scenery of northern italy mixed with the passionate love they had, the best thing i have ever watched.
I was waiting for the “I remember everything” 😭😭💔💔💔
Have anyone read Find me? It's so sad and beautiful after almost twenty years they still in love with eachother and can't forget what they had. Besides Oliver is married and have two almost adult sons Elio and he get again together after all these years without any contact.😭🥰
I don’t exist You're welcome😊
So in Find Me they end up together?
Brown Yes, they do😍
I read it and I loved it so much. Because you can clearly see that Oliver wasn't happy with his life, because Elio wasn't in it.
That sounds so sad, they wasted 20 of their best years with people they didnt love and only realized they were meant to be after 20 years. Must feel like they wasted so much time together 😥 Elio is then 37 and Oliver 45 im assuming?
1:27 - 1:29 that smile Oliver had was the most sweetest thing I have ever seen.. He was smiling at the innocence of elio.. That was so cute.
Forever one of my favorite films. So much more than a love story. I feel so alive with the depth of emotions I feel when I watch this film. It is just so cinematically well done with the writing, the acting, the setting, the colors, the music, the editing, etc. I will never get over it. I will forget it. It’s hard for me to express in words fully though. This video is really beautiful, and I think portrays that feeling really well.
This movie will always hurt me, no matter how many times I've watched it.
i love the way that elio just melts over oliver... i mean that's love
This monologue deserves an Oscar
I'll never get over this movie. it feels like I'm in an unending trance and I'll never come out of it maybe because i don't want to. I'll always keep it close to my heart
This love story on a par with Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet sonnet if not better!
It’s so sad that their love for each other is fictional.
Oh darling, you need to watch more vids. Two heteros fell in love making this film. I haven't stopped celebrating since the recent news of Armie's divorce and freedom. Whatever happens, know that these two have a GENUINE connection of depth and beauty. ❤❤❤
@@soni8995 celebrating someone's divorce bcz it feeds into your delusion is really scumy. From what I've learned Armie has been going through mental health issues and your comment just accentuates the problem with this fandom.
You cannot just write stuff like that😭i literally froze for a few minutes when i read this comment 😭😭
well armie hammer is a cannibal now so i will say i’m a tiny bit glad it’s fictional
the way he was crying in the car over the heartbreak, is waaaaay to relatable
1:55 OH MY GODDDD 😭😭😭
Elio, is like a force of nature.
Impossible to resist. Unbelievable to love. Just an amazing film.
ITS 4 AM IN THE MORNING I SHOULD NOT BE CRYING
Oh, no, that's the crying hour.
I am currently sobbing at this beautiful edit. Their love is truly just so beautiful.
i feel like we all want a love story like the one this two had
except for the ending.
Elio's dad's words were pure gold. Can't forget them till now...
this is so beautiful! gives me chills. 🥰🤩
i really need to rewatch before the sequel comes out. i watched it maybe in 2018 & i forgot that his father said this & wow 🥺
3 comments of “i cant ever get over this movie” in the last month SAME!!
this movie will always be in my heart. i have never felt this feeling for a movie.
the father's speech---- 🥺🤧🤧
I cry listening to the soundtrack I cry watching this movie I cry because I felt like I was there I have never felt this way about any movie I’ll never be the same and to me that okay
How I wish this was a series with never ending episodes. I was too sad to know that It'll only be an hour and that ending made me very sad for like a week
Gosh that would be heaven on earth x
The thing about this movie is that the words 'gay', 'homosexual', 'sexuality' ... were never mentioned, which tells us that this is about strong chemistry and connection and attraction of two souls. It was never about labels. Such a great book and movie too.
Not even a few seconds in and my hearts hurting-ugh its so lovely 🥺
**me clicking on this knowing very well that i will be crying by the end**
2021 and I still can't get over this movie..
I swear, I only watched this movie to lessen my boredom and to at least console my lonely 16 year-old heart, yup, I'm that young, hence I never knew that I'd be drowned deeply to Ellio and Oliver's love story. The feeling was indeed different, I felt like I was the one who fell in love and at the same time got heart broken instead of them. After having to see this movie, a new door opened up for me and even if it did hurt me, I can still say that this movie is one of the movies that showed me how good love can be. haha, my eyes isn't innocent anymore though.
Also, that 'I don't want you to go' or something like that from Elio hits different.
They showed their love in such a mysterious, so secretive way
This movie will remain etched in my heart forever. Nothing and no one will ever change this❤
The way this edit makes me cry 😭
That kiss and hug in the alley was slowed down to perfection, I felt it so much more
I’ve watched this movie 10 times in the last 3 days 😂✨ it’s like I think the ending will change
I feel you, girl
This film broke my heart and still does every time I watch it 🥺😭
I once had a relationship like that but did not go any further because of how "wrong everything seemed" by the eyes of others, and while I was watching the movie, I was kind of jealous of how lucky Elio was...having those extremely supportive parents understanding completely what was going on between the two, being so comprehensive as well... this is a great movie to show to those parents that are not able to comprehend what their children really are going through.
I can’t get over them.. they truly loved each other, even if it was just for one minute, just for two weeks, Elio gave his life to him, gave his soul to Oliver, Oliver gave his love, his future, his soul too to him, they demonstrated that love is love, no matter how old you are, no matter what’s your gender, nothing matters more than their love.
I’m crying right now cause they gave a chance that one day someone will love me the way Oliver did with Elio, just not now, they made me believe in love, in a love that is smiling, touching, endless, more than just physical, love no matter what it’s what they had, i know they at least came across each other ok? But their break up really broke me, my heart, just, couldn’t take it.
I just watched this film for the first (and ninth) time a few weeks ago. I still can't get it out of my head. So beautiful.
Such a beautiful movie! Their love was so pure and innocent! Although, imo, the character, Oliver, came on as too strong or not too into their relationship or not delicate enough for someone like Elio, still loved the raw emotions between them and the moments they had together! Such a lovely story!
The castle in this film, when Elio and Oliver were at the war monument, is 15 minutes away from where I live. Back in 2012, when I moved to Lombardy region, I visited that castle in Pandino regularly. When I saw it in the movie I was smiling so hard my face hurt. The villa and the "pellicceria" (fur store) are 30 minutes away from my home. I visited them both today. I cried like a baby - sobbed profusely. My partner thought I was losing it. He said, "What's going on?" I asked him if he had ever seen a film that touched him so deeply that he had to visit the places for comfort. He smiled and nodded. It was surreal to trace the steps of Elio and Oliver. My heart is still shattered, but my soul is slightly more peaceful. This film is a beautiful love experience.
I need that too o.o but imagine the people living there regularly seeing fans of the movie visiting and breaking down crying xDD
@@momsspaghetti2246 Having lived in Italy 10 years now, most Italians are calm sorts. LOL. So they probably look, think we're all crazy, and just carry on with their day. Bahahahahaha
I love love this movie . Ok so I bought it on vudu when it first came out but for whatever reason never watched it til today. And oh my God. This is one of THE greatest love stories I have ever seen. Not once in the movie do these two say "I love you" to eachother ..as it wasn't needed. That is just brilliant. And the realness , the chemistry between the actors blew me away. Plus This movie turned me on more than most romance and I am a straight woman. Not all love stories have happy endings . At the end we see Elio crying, then it turns to a smile . He knows they shared something very special together . It was very realistic ending. The music choice , the beautiful location. Ugh everything was just perfect. Beautiful film I will cherish forever ❤
i might have watched this at least 50 times and i’m not even kidding it’s been a month since i first came here IM OBSESSED with the music , the scenes and everything
i'm not crying, you are
This is beautiful, I really love this movie and all the things that can be related to it. Such an incredible storyline and cinematography, everything matches even the incredible soundtrack. Elio & Oliver forever in our hearts.
2:01 - u can just see the deep love in their eyes...
This music is magical. This is magical!!
This movie was a masterpiece ❤️❤️❤️
I guess the best things in life never lasts long but their memories always stay with us as a reminder that once we held somthing very beautiful ❤️
Beautifully put together, really caught the essence. Thank you
the most amazing movie about gay love ever....so natural and moving....I pray there will be a sequel no matter what the ending these two actors are so special.....
no chance of that - unless the get the older lead replaced... he'll never work again for a Brand
when i think about this film too much i genuinely feel sick, like that is how heartbroken it made me
Yes!!!
I thought I’d never get over this movie. Then I did 2 years back. Then one week ago I recalled it, I reread the book and rewatched the movie and now I’m more desperate than I ever was the first time. Damn this sucks in a whole new level.
Watched the movie again yesterday and I still cry and love it so much!!
I cried during this and the movie, How could Oliver get married when he's in love with elio! He made me angry and sad and he put me on an emotional roller coaster. I cant believe he did that! Elio snatch that mans up in the next movie please! :( Elio and Oliver are the best couple portrayed in any movie ever. UGH! So beautiful and mesmerizing.. So adorable! :( And heartbreaking what a lovely couple... They had everything anyone could ever need in one another.