As well now that half his debt is discharged, wait a year, and make a minimum payment again, and reset that clock again. He will forever get his debt reset, and as a bonus you can make sure he stays forever having to pay it off.
Right!!! I have been with my SO for 14 years with 4 kids (not married) and my account only has my name on it! He is listed as the benefiter on it in case the worst happens to me so he can get the money to support himself and the kids but I would never make it a joint account.
rSlash, as a British person, hearing you say "eight pounds and fifty *cents*" is a crime in Britain, punishable by you being banned from drinking tea for life. As you're an American though, we'll settle for telling you that we don't have cents, we have *pence*.
Story 1: You know, if he didn't cheat and steal from OP, he probably wouldn't have to continue dealing with that debt of his. But nope. Now he's got nothing.
All the students had to do was stop partying, that was it, but they had zero respect and zero self control. Being nationally shamed was absolutely deserved.
I didn't party during covid but I certainly didn't lock down. Here in the UK most people had the option to get paid to stay at home through furlow. I never got that option, so I didn't lock down. I wasn't going to stay home when I still had to go to work while everyone else didn't.
At the absolute minimum, a permanent record of the illegal behavior should be made available to any potential employer for years to come. The author of the piece sounds like a complete milquetoast.
The many people who "didn't believe in" the virulence of COVID are the primary reason it has thrived and mutated like crazy. I'll be pissed at them for the rest of my life.
The sad part in this is that apparently OP bought in to their crocodile tears all the way to the end, and got them a lighter disciplinary action than they deserved. I mean, it's clear as day they weren't sorry for what they did, they were sorry to get caught and punished for it.
First story: Well would you look at that, the person who knows your darkest secrets retaliates against you for basically betray steal from her. Why these people are so stupid to piss off the wrongest of people?!
Because they're idiots. Idiots who think only about the short term benefit don't really stop to think about the long term costs. That sort of thinking tends to lead to self destruction since they don't think about the consequences.
My favourite was that after all he did he STILL called and expected OP would just help him? Bitch you stole £5k you're lucky OP didn't brain you, how did you think that call was going to go? How deluded can anyone be?
@@someguy7629 tbh, everyone should have known better, but like the police, law wokrers and students need to be held to a higher standard as they..well the ones acting on behalf of the law
It's a bit ironic that they were law students. When I was in my bachelor I took classes with teachers to-be and it was always them who arrived late and caused disturbances during lectures. Or whined about assignments. 😂
I hope OP was able to financially recover from having her money stolen by her ex. She should make a post warning everybody online about what he did and how he stole from her and got away with it.
Yea, she knew what forums he frequented and could have shamed him even more there by showing how he got all his new things! LOL I suppose he sorta shamed himself by telling everyone his later misfortune! LOL
Just a little advice: never, ever miss a court date. I don't care if it's for a speeding or loitering ticket. They'll hand your butt to you. I didn't show 3x for speeding, so I had a warrant & my bond was $25,000 SECURED, so that means I had to have it all to get out. While I was being booked, the magistrate told me "You like missing court dates? Well, I'm gonna make sure you show up to this one" buttwipe. 😆
Story 1: never, ever, EVER open a joint account with someone you’re not married to. Even then, maintain a separate account in your name only, preferably at another bank, to deposit your paycheck into. You can set up automatic transfers to the joint account, if you want/need to.
Never open a joint account period! Even when you are married. People wear masks and their awful selves always come out when they think they trap you. Don’t trust anyone with anything money related.
8.50 pounds is more than what i paid for. Years ago i was getting harasser by my boss (Verbal abuse) and since he was the boss and owner there was no one I could really go to about it. So what did I do? grab an old shoebox, spend 4 bucks to fill it with roaches and leave it under a table on my last day of work. As soon as someone opened a box they found under the table the roaches had been sprung free. Never did get in trouble for it (I worked in the back, roaches were in the dining area.) Anyway it has been seven years and the place is still closed. The health inspector shut them down.
@@jgw5491 mu biddy worked at a pet store. They were feeding roaches. They sell them for about 50 cents each but he was able to give them to me for a lot less. (In the end i had like 40)
@@lolzant397 maybe i will post it. It is not really a long story or all that entertaining. Plus the fallout i was not even present for. I just know it was shut down.
Honestly, the guy in the first story sounds like he has undiagnosed ADHD or something. Not an excuse to be a cheater and a thief of course, but it would explain to whole loop of hyperfocusing on something only to get bored of it and start something else.
I have it, it sounded exactly like me with getting hyperfocused on one thing then abandoning it. I got properly medicated for a while allowing me to think straight and now Im not falling back into the cycle even off the meds. Doesn't excuse the thievery or cheating though.
It would actually also play into the cheating (even though it’s not excusable) because ppl with ADHD sometimes get bored of their partners for the same reasons
The second story was so relatable. During lockdown I had new neighbors that moved in who played loud music all throughout the night and day. No matter what was said: hey I work from home or I gotta be up for a shift can you please turn that off or heck I cussed them smooth the f out and they didn't care. I had to move like seriously, if you live in an apartment turn your fing music down. That's my psa, I'm glad OP found a solution
@@CelesteMinerva Wow, they must have been paying a lot of money to not be evicted, especially since the complex had to have lost a lot of money from everyone moving out.
Second story: Weren't law students there? You thought law students would be quiet while commiting something obviously illegal. Well, listening more I now know why they were so bold about it, because they are just stupid. Confess on national TV a crime a frat commited over and over again without skipping a beat to think if it was a smart idea goes on the list of the things even mentally disable people won't do. That guy who wanted his seconds of fame is an absolute Kevin which consequences are a sourse of good doing.
Someone with a mental disability/disorder here. I can confirm we're not dumb enough to do something horribly illegal and then confess on public TV like it's no big deal. That guy had the IQ of a fish
Anyone who wants to be a lawyer should know not to do anything illegal and be more mature. Saying they’re “young and immature” is bs. Nobody above the age of a child doesn’t know that it’s bad to break the law.
Second story: I'm surprised the police didn't do more because they took lockdown partie very seriously in Belgium. Friend of mine got fined for letting a friend in to go pee after a walk because the neighbours were calling the cops on anyone who were having more than 1 visitor 😱
Graduating law student goes to job interview. Law firm: Say, weren't you shamed on national media for having drunken parties and keeping your neighbors up for weeks on end? Student: Um.
The first story honestly sounds like something mental health related. I acted like that for years with undiagnosed bipolar disorder. You'll go in cycles of being super motivated, and then shelter yourself from everything.
During the very beginning of virus-19 in Belgium. A man wanted to badly see his newborn baby in hospital (it was in the ICU for kids) But they say they could not for safety reasons. He ignored them and somehow slipped past doctors and nurses to see his baby. Turns out, he had virus-19 (early, before the symptons set in) so almost EVERYONE from kids to family's and doctors and nurses had virus-19 thx to this one selfish man who ignored the rules. Kids actually died because of it. It was (somehow) not in the big news. But i guess that was not to spread panic and paranoia when doctors themselves knew next to nothing about this new super fast spreading virus. EDIT : There are lots of rules for safety for a reason during a worldwide pandemic.
There really needs to be a process put in place when someone wipes out a joint account without the other party’s permission. Revenge was great but losing 5k??? That is such bs
Joint accounts are very tricky because in signing up for it, you authorise each other to access the money and if somebody does something the other person doesn't want it becomes a civil matter. The problem is civil matters are sticky, and even if OP did manage to prove the £5k was hers, and did get the court to agree to make him pay it back, there are still ways for the ex to screw her out of payment (like becoming unemployed or low paying jobs can exempt you from paying back such things). It sucks, and there really should be a better system, but sadly that's how it is.
In the first story it sounds like the guy struggles with ADD, or some variant of it. A common symptom is getting excited about new ventures but never following through on anything. Happens to me and it sucks because you often wonder how long this new “passion” will last and it’s nearly impossible to build anything meaningful from it since you lose all interest. The rest of it though isn’t defensible.
I was wondering why that part was relatable... I don't have ADD necessarily but it's close enough that I get super motivated, work for like a week, and then inevitably I'm burnt out and have no motivation for anything. I've heard enjoying the passion slowly helps, but different things work for different people.
I like to think that the person who online who told the EX not to go to court was someone who he knew (possibly another ex who he sold from) and deliberately told him not to go to court just to insure that the courts would take everything.
The revenge on the second story wasn't that good tbh. They did get on national tv but they didn't suffer that much repercussions from it. It would have been prorevenge if they somehow got expelled.
The biggest consequences for the partiers isn’t just getting trouble with school. Once they’re through school, presumably they have to become a member of a the bar or something similar. That’s pretty hard to do when you are convicted of certain crimes… Courts have a vested interest in lawyers who obey the law, even when nobody is looking.
If you're running an underground bar for college kid law students, 300 euro tickets is so little of a slap on the wrist that it's basically just the cost of doing business.
What a weak police force. In the US it is against the law in most areas to have excessive noise during set hours of night. And if someone were to break this law repeatedly you would escalate from tickets to actually physically shutting the party down.
With your spouse a bills account is good. You only put amounts to pay that. Unless you decide which person pays what. I am sad that she wasn't advised that.
*First OP:* That was awesome. And to think, OP's ex could've prevented it but not being a slacker and cheating on OP. Part of me thinks the person advising the ex not to show up in court was trolling him. At least, I hope that's the case, lol. *Second OP:* Why would the guy in the frat house 1) Invite the film crew to the house, and 2) _Admit_ to what he and his peers were doing!?
To be fair, the frat guy was throwing a party during a worldwide pandemic, so he's not smart to begin with
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We live in a world where we make stupid people stupidly famous really fast. I'm surprised the dude didn't start rapping during the interview so he would get "discovered" or something
That last story, keep in mind the sheer number of students there were. 5 girls at first, 70 ish times a night at least one person came in? Assuming about half we're groups of two or more, that's probably over 150 different students. 80 hours EACH of service is 12,000+ hours of community service, assuming they got everyone. That probably funded most of a public works project xD
Eh, not sure if I feel bad for story 1 OP. She dated a guy that she helped dodge debt using her debit collection know-how... how is she surprise pikachu face she he steals from her? Like, you're most likely dating scumbag, so don't be surprise if he turns on you.
She proudly helped him avoid debt without any regard to his lenders. She clearly feels no remorse for that. She would’ve happily helped him keep scamming if he just kept pretending to be in love with her.
This. And it's not even stealing. His name was on the account. It was legally his. This is why you don't have joint accounts with people you aren't married to.
Story 2: you have the patience of a saint, I woulda called the cops and landlord day 2, and would blow them up over and over and over. I would also sabotage as much as possible.
Lessons for the kids from story 1 - DON'T move in together when you're dating. DON'T share money. I've been married 21 years and my wife didn't move in with me until 4 days before the wedding, and we still have our own separate bank accounts. Oh, and DON'T date someone who won't repay their debts!
I agree that the neighbors should not have been constantly partying. In fact, most places have laws that prevent people from being too noisy at night. But using covid as the sole reason anything was done about it was reduculous. Especially since areas that had more lenient common sense rules during covid did BETTER than areas than had strict lockdowns.
These party houses sound just like the 'Speakeasies' of the 1920's. An entire century has passed since then... It's amazing how much things can change, and yet stay the same Last Story - let's not forget this was the very first time she was meeting her boyfriend's family
In my country we had some Indian students trowing big party for their own friends, police was called and videos from police body cams were shown on news. In the end Indian students were deported back home to India
The people who think "Any publicity is good publicity" are exactly those who will expose themselves and expect praise instead of punishment. Karma is cruel but just.
Those who broke the lockdown rules took the fucking piss. What's even worse is that the police were very selective which people they enforced the rules on. If you are a tory darling, you got off scott-free. If you were anyone else, big fine for you. We had this in our town in December 2020. The police showed up at a bar which was holding a lock-in on Christmas eve for the town council. NOT ONE OF THE COUNCILLORS GOT FINED. The landlord who was tbe tory mayor of the town lost his mayorship, but no fine. And the pub chain that owned the bar fired him. All the bar staff however were fined heavily. And the local tory-supporters were fine with this.
I think you mean if you're Tory, you're punished. If the police commissioner is mates with Sir Kier Starmer, he give you a pass. Also, bar staff would have been fined because according to the rules, the business has more responsibility. The business knowingly held a lockdown gathering - they could have said no, like 99% of businesses did.
Story 1: never ever do add another person in your bank account because it can happen to you too. Not even your parents because some parents always be like "your job money is mine too".
We had some Mexicans have multiple parties every week with a bunch of people that didn't live there while California was on lockdown and it was forbidden to due so. And they had their loud speakers aimed right at my bedroom window and turned up loud enough to rattle stuff in the livingroom. We had called the police because they would go till 1 and 2 in the morning like this. They continued having all these parties until the police served a search warrant at a house down the street and these idiots started to party. It was so loud that the cops had to stop trying to find whatever they were looking for and tell my neighbors to shut it down or they would each be getting multiple tickets. Apparently the music was loud enough that 5 houses away it was rattling stuff where they were at. Don't know if it was that loud but I do know it was very loud that night.
It finally happened. I listen to Rslash religiously but i also listen to Mr Redder often. This is the first time I’ve found an Rslash video where I’ve heard all of the stories before
I had a cousin get 80hrs. community service. He got stuck picking up trash on the side of the road during the middle of summer. I still think he got off lucky for what he did. He should have gotten jail time for what happened. DUI, and badly hurt someone in the accident.
During covid in Melbourne I think we were all over people narking one another and had dinners/bbqs over each others fence lines. I had some beers with the neighbors and the kids would play throwing/kicking a ball over, just abit of normal for them all
I like that you actually took the time to double check the currency on the first story. I appreciate that since a lot of (mostly American) people (not just on TH-cam) just see money involved and assume dollars. One small little thing, 1/100th of a pound in the UK is a penny, or pence for plural, not cents, so it was "eight pounds and fifty pence" :)
Story 2. At the end of the Story when there punishment was handed out if I where op I would demanding there removal from the school and the building. Because after all the times the cops where called and they had a face to face meeting they still went back to parties. They clearly showed no respect for anyone and an unwillingness to learn. A good middle ground would be she find a new room to rent and pass the toxic problems to other people and call the news people that the main cause for the party's in ops building is gone. Calling them dumb kid's is just giving them a chance to pass blame for their actions away from them and on something else. They knew full well what they where doing and having fun doing it. They got off way to light and the news people should have highlighted the cops and school not doing anything until it hit the news.
I doubt it was the shaming that got them to quite down, as the guy across the street apparently didn't have any. It was probably threats that if the school got another complaint about any of it the kids would get expelled with the kind of blot on their academic record that would make it nearly impossible to get into _any_ good school.
the last story, the fact OP already call the dean of the girl and they got warning and fine but noo, they decide to move next door and just party there more and OP call press and the girls vice-rector who shut that shit down and if OP and the neightbor didn't put a good word with the girls, I positive that the girl would got worse
S1: I’m glad that op got her revenge but maybe don’t get a joint account with your boyfriend or anyone else for that matter. Always keep your finances separate for your own peace of mind. Plus stop wasting time hoping that the person who has shown you their true self will go back to their gaslighting self. Be happy that the mask came off instead of wanting to stuff the genie back into the bottle. It makes you look desperate and foolish.
god the news story it's sooooo satisfying I probably wouldn't have have the party girls a good work I'd let them suffer for their crimes they got off real easy all things considered I wonder how the whole no family and friends things went with the volunteers 🤔
i'm from belgium and i remember this. sadly for some godforsaken reason most people under 30 coudn't accept the covid restrictions and just HAD to break as many as they possibly could
disclaimer: intense situation I woke up today at 6:17AM to a loud bang on my door. Two guys saying someone sent them to my place to collect their money. Mind you I'm a hermit I don't owe anyone money. After they couldn't get into my place they stood next to my gf's vehicle before stabbing both her driver tires before leaving just before the cops showed. TLDR: NEVER open your door at odd hours or for anyone you don't know. Who knows what those two would have actually done if they got in.
A friend of mine was a debt collector, and shared a few tips with me during his time with that agency. When debt collectors take people to court, it's not a 1:1 deal unless it's a huge account. The agency will amass a shitload of cases and send their lawyer as the plaintiff for all of them in a single day. Basically what usually happens is the lawyer shows up with a folder full of debt info, and if people want to contest the debt all they have to do is show up. Generally, a defense of "I don't owe that money" is sufficient, because the lawyer acting as plaintiff usually doesn't have all of the nitty gritty details for every single one of the maybe hundred debts they're there to get a judgement for. They rely on deadbeats being deadbeats and not showing up, which like 95% of the time is exactly what happens. So if you want to get your debt erased, don't pay the agency, make them take you to court, then show up and say "I don't owe any money." It's on the agency to prove you do, and they probably won't have enough information on hand to do so. For example say you have a $1000 medical bill that you never pay. Eventually the clinic sells the debt to a collection agency for say $500, because at least that way they get SOME money. The agency then tries to collect on the full $1000. But if after a while they can't, they might either add it to their lawyer's folder to try and get a judgement for, or they'll re-sell the debt to minimize their loss. Like sell it for $300 to ANOTHER agency, again just so they aren't losing everything. That same debt might change hands a dozen times until eventually some guy is selling your debt to another guy for $5 in the hopes that maybe, MAYBE, they can collect the full $1000. Especially in the case of medical debt, they will find it VERY hard to prove you owe anything, because they don't have access to your medical records. Only a dollar amount. All you have to do is assert that you don't owe that money, and because burden of proof is on the plaintiff, you're pretty much home free. If all they had to do was go "But see, here's a bill..." then I could write them a bill for anything I wanted and claim they owe me. So yeah. If you really want to get out of a debt, don't pay it, then go to court and deny you owe anything. Burden of proof is on them. "I don't owe them any money, I have no record of any of this." If the agency's lawyer doesn't either, guess what? You don't owe them any money.
Last story is lucky I wasn’t their neighbor. I would have snuck in and spiked the punch and then made sure the cops were there to see the after math. Of course I’d have to keep this revenge a secret for legal reasons but seeing these kids trying to explain to the cops how they didn’t do it would have been glorious.
Students partying and breaking covid rules was bad. But what happened here in the UK is way worst, the Conservative government, who is the ruling party here in the UK had a held a party in the middle on the pandemic at the prime minister's resident in 10 Downing St, breaking their own covid rules and restrictions. Meanwhile, they arresting and giving fines to ordinary people that's breaks covid restrictions, people dying alone, families unable to visit their dying or sick relatives and families unable to grief together. Our very own Queen Elizabeth sat alone in church during her husband's funeral. Conservative PM and MP's are such a bunch of tossers.
Like the other side wouldn't have done the same. Its not about party, its about class. You're trash, they're elite. The same thing happened here in america. The ruling elites don't make the rules for themselves. They make the rules for _us_.
Technically, OP actually paid $9.50 for her ex. At the current exchange rate of pounds to USD, the £8.50 turns into $9.50 in US currency. Aside from that nitpick, OP got some juicy revenge for £8.50
I am not an health care worker but i was still in the streets during covid. things got so bad in my country that we were more than shortstaffed and i happened to work weeks without a single day of rest. Lets just say that people that broke quarantine rules never had my sympathy.
Therapists say: nobody ever needs to look at your phone, accounts or information. If they feel the need, regardless if their suspicions are correct or not, theyre being the hooligan.
You can have one shared account for household spendings where both put money but only as much that it won't hurts if it's gone at once. My parents do that and I think that's the best solution
@@readjordan2257 to be fair, it depends on the why of the suspicions....there are valid reasons to suspect and not going after evidence is just being naive
@@75ur15 actually youre just supposed to break up with them, or in some serious situations, hire a PI or Law Enforcement to do what theyre trained to do..despite this, Knowing the truth isnt really a relevant thing. Youre never naive for trusting your gut. And most people are far too unintelligent and immature to make use of intelligence gathering even if they magically could do it like theyve jad practice. But anyway, it all takes work. The real naivety really is waiting for proof or evidence to do what you have to. You dont owe anyone another moment in a relationship regardless of anything.
In the first story, that guy should be damn lucky that he was dealing with County Court Baliffs and not High Court Enforcement Officers. They have far more power including entering private property if the door is unlocked. Once inside, they can't be forced to leave. Stopping their work is a criminal offense and they have the power to take any assets covering the cost of the debt that they need. So be lucky my guy. You got it easy.
Second story: what the heck kind of stupid rule is this - "we can't arrest the criminals unless they let us in!" Belgium has some retarded laws, apparently.
Those college kids should have had a stiffer penalty. OP is a bit of doormat for feeling bad. These idiots were already wholly inconsiderate to his health and well-being because of sleep deprivation. Add to defying public safety measures...
First story: don't know if it's the same in UK as is here in Brazil, but here a statute barred debt isn't like OP described. Here the limit isn't for creditors to collect the debt, but to get any type of legal action to receive the debt. And even after this limit they can still keep charging for the debt, they just are limited to a administrative charge; So yeah OP's ex-boyfriend here would be massively screwed.
I'm not sure how it was in Belgium but in the US you could literally get people in trouble for violating quarantine not the mask part but everything else
the party story, another example of women getting lighter sentences for the same crime as men just because of what they have between their legs. Keep in mind that the college girls were the real problem for op, not the house across the street.
When I was in a shitty spot I started renting a literal storage closet with no windows and basically just enough room for a bed. The people in the room above me would come home in the middle of the night and blast music. After a couple weeks I asked them very nicely in the house group chat to be a bit more courteous. The second night I did one of the girls started getting all drunk macho saying she was going to go down stairs to kick my ass. I took my bat went upstairs and told her to come get it. She backed down until I moved out a couple days later
I stumbled onto this post and loved it. I wish more people stepped up like this perhaps people would get their head out of their backsides and wake up. Maybe then we could all treat each other better and live in a much more peaceful place. Keep up these types of stories please! It gives me hope. BTW you now have a new subscriber. 🤭🤗
To everyone who applaud the first story.. 3:30, I totally agree that it's a good story regardless.. but SHE ADMITTED TO HELPING HIM DODGE HIS DEBT.. She clearly knew he was a dodgy character and still decided to be with him.. WTF PEOPLE!
Your a healthcare worker so you know how bad it is, your neighbor is having a party during lockdown…..you don’t report it? Why? You want everyone to catch it? Absolutely ridiculous. During normal times I get it be cool give ‘em a chance. You work with vulnerable people and let this go on….find a different job.
1:27 To clarify, the account in question is a joint "any to sign"/"OR" type accounts meaning that it should have been explained to OP that either account holder could freely take money out of the account. That's why the ex-BF taking funds out wasn't criminal.
Yeah, but I think there should be a clause somewhere in there to prevent one party from cleaning out the account, to prevent the other party from being screwed over. Like, if you want to remove up to x amount (with x being a large amount of money, like the 5k), you must have permission from everyone in the joint account.
Story 1 My ex tried the same thing on our joint account. I thankfully got there first- took my money and then my name off the account and left him with the barely 50 bucks he'd contributed in months. He was livid.
I grew up in a student city in Belgium (Leuven, for people who know) and the things I saw as a kid... it's funny now I look back, but yeah xmos (100 days till graduation) and fraternity pledgings were crazy. I think the funniest thing I saw was a guy dressed in a rapper teletubie costume puking his guts out near my apartment. Students are crazy everywhere but when there is a student city the normal people just take the brunt of it.
Honestly, I hate to think this but the last op went too easy on the partiers at every step. After the second apology followed by a party, it's clear they wouldn't listen and were being fake. And their actions could have potentially killed people through op, they needed more punishment. I bet they will still do bad things like this in the future because they saw, they can basically get away with it. They even seemed excited to be on the news!
The 8.50 story missed a golden opportunity. When the ex called looking for help, OP should have simply stated "Sure, it'll cost you 5K for my help."
I was thinking the same!! Missed opportunity!! 😀
"Plus interest"
Doubt he would have the 8 pounds 50 pence to pay even that back......
I'd be less subtle about it by saying "Where's my 5K, asshole?"
and as for "help" I would give him "do NOT show up in the court and it all will be fine"😂
Ex being a douchebag: £5k
Restarting the debt: £8.50
Watching the jerk get what's coming: priceless
Even karma needs a little push sometimes, but hoo boy when it hits, it hits HARD
As well now that half his debt is discharged, wait a year, and make a minimum payment again, and reset that clock again. He will forever get his debt reset, and as a bonus you can make sure he stays forever having to pay it off.
You forget
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@@songohan3321 i was going for the Mastercard ad but that works, maybe the jerk can stay there after getting dumped
There are some things money can't buy; for everything else, there's MasterCard
NEVER share a bank account with a person you ain’t married to! There’s nothing legal to help you if it goes south!
even married they can't always do much.
At most you could have a shared spending account for everyday stuff, like groceries.
These stories have made me realize that I never want a shared bank account. Married or not.
Right!!! I have been with my SO for 14 years with 4 kids (not married) and my account only has my name on it! He is listed as the benefiter on it in case the worst happens to me so he can get the money to support himself and the kids but I would never make it a joint account.
@@SailorMya I do have a question....what's the point of 14 years if not married?
rSlash, as a British person, hearing you say "eight pounds and fifty *cents*" is a crime in Britain, punishable by you being banned from drinking tea for life. As you're an American though, we'll settle for telling you that we don't have cents, we have *pence*.
Lol good point, i didn't even catch that.
Sincerely, €uro-trash
Cents
I'm not even British and I subconsciously switch to "pence" when discussing pounds
As also a Brit, can confirm we have no cents
@@miamackenzie9946 Yeh, there's no need for cents in the imperial system.
(joke ment 4 big bren ppl onl)
Story 1: You know, if he didn't cheat and steal from OP, he probably wouldn't have to continue dealing with that debt of his. But nope. Now he's got nothing.
You get NOTHING! You LOSE! Good day sir!
“NO SOUP FOR YOU!”
I know, it’s from Senfield, but it was always a good line.
Isnt it weird to anyone else that they had a joint checkings account in college?
@@shinymainespoon h
Yep
All the students had to do was stop partying, that was it, but they had zero respect and zero self control. Being nationally shamed was absolutely deserved.
They won't care about that. They will wear it like a badge of honour
I didn't party during covid but I certainly didn't lock down. Here in the UK most people had the option to get paid to stay at home through furlow. I never got that option, so I didn't lock down. I wasn't going to stay home when I still had to go to work while everyone else didn't.
all Karens hate others having a good time.
At the absolute minimum, a permanent record of the illegal behavior should be made available to any potential employer for years to come.
The author of the piece sounds like a complete milquetoast.
I dunno - it's not really possible to shame someone who simply _has no_ shame...
Parties cease to be "secret" when they make so much noise that they wakes up neighbors.
Honestly the 2 story doesn’t surprise me because people did that during covid lockdowns no matter how much of a risk it caused
People are so stupid. So much unnecessary delay to ending a TWO WEEK pandemic
The many people who "didn't believe in" the virulence of COVID are the primary reason it has thrived and mutated like crazy. I'll be pissed at them for the rest of my life.
Kinda makes me wish I died from the virus anyway
Did he read that story before?
The sad part in this is that apparently OP bought in to their crocodile tears all the way to the end, and got them a lighter disciplinary action than they deserved. I mean, it's clear as day they weren't sorry for what they did, they were sorry to get caught and punished for it.
First story: Well would you look at that, the person who knows your darkest secrets retaliates against you for basically betray steal from her. Why these people are so stupid to piss off the wrongest of people?!
Because they're idiots. Idiots who think only about the short term benefit don't really stop to think about the long term costs. That sort of thinking tends to lead to self destruction since they don't think about the consequences.
My favourite was that after all he did he STILL called and expected OP would just help him? Bitch you stole £5k you're lucky OP didn't brain you, how did you think that call was going to go? How deluded can anyone be?
@@kathyjoy5618 as much as a cottoncandy in the ocean.
well, dumbass also believed that the advice of not showing up in the court was a good idea.
@@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902 Is sea salt cotton candy a thing?
They got let off easy in story 2: Law students especially.
It’s nice that OP “put in a good word” but it seems like they just fell for crocodile tears
It was quite the scandal in Belgium, especially since law students should have known better.
@@someguy7629 tbh, everyone should have known better, but like the police, law wokrers and students need to be held to a higher standard as they..well the ones acting on behalf of the law
It's a bit ironic that they were law students. When I was in my bachelor I took classes with teachers to-be and it was always them who arrived late and caused disturbances during lectures. Or whined about assignments. 😂
"Did you do it?"
OP: *"Yes."*
"What did it cost?"
OP: *"£8.50."*
okay that was both clever and cute
Shoulda gone for the head
tree fiddy
@@ricardog2165 free vitty
I hope OP was able to financially recover from having her money stolen by her ex. She should make a post warning everybody online about what he did and how he stole from her and got away with it.
Waaaaaaaaaait a minute
The real lesson is to not have a shared account. Especially not with someone who won't contribute in any way.
I wouldn't say he got away with it
Some people prefer to not be the center of attention.
Yea, she knew what forums he frequented and could have shamed him even more there by showing how he got all his new things! LOL I suppose he sorta shamed himself by telling everyone his later misfortune! LOL
Just a little advice: never, ever miss a court date. I don't care if it's for a speeding or loitering ticket. They'll hand your butt to you. I didn't show 3x for speeding, so I had a warrant & my bond was $25,000 SECURED, so that means I had to have it all to get out.
While I was being booked, the magistrate told me "You like missing court dates? Well, I'm gonna make sure you show up to this one" buttwipe. 😆
Why didn't you show? Was it similar to the guy in the story - genuinely believed if you didn't show they couldn't do anything, or something else?
Its really stupid not showing up for a speeding ticket. The cop who wrote it probably wouldnt show up himself so you would have won with no fight.
Story 1: never, ever, EVER open a joint account with someone you’re not married to. Even then, maintain a separate account in your name only, preferably at another bank, to deposit your paycheck into. You can set up automatic transfers to the joint account, if you want/need to.
Never open a joint account period! Even when you are married. People wear masks and their awful selves always come out when they think they trap you. Don’t trust anyone with anything money related.
8.50 pounds is more than what i paid for.
Years ago i was getting harasser by my boss (Verbal abuse) and since he was the boss and owner there was no one I could really go to about it. So what did I do? grab an old shoebox, spend 4 bucks to fill it with roaches and leave it under a table on my last day of work.
As soon as someone opened a box they found under the table the roaches had been sprung free. Never did get in trouble for it (I worked in the back, roaches were in the dining area.)
Anyway it has been seven years and the place is still closed. The health inspector shut them down.
Where do you buy roaches may I ask?
@@jgw5491 Pet store I'd assume.
@@jgw5491 mu biddy worked at a pet store. They were feeding roaches. They sell them for about 50 cents each but he was able to give them to me for a lot less. (In the end i had like 40)
Y/Slash prorevenge
@@lolzant397 maybe i will post it. It is not really a long story or all that entertaining. Plus the fallout i was not even present for. I just know it was shut down.
Honestly, the guy in the first story sounds like he has undiagnosed ADHD or something. Not an excuse to be a cheater and a thief of course, but it would explain to whole loop of hyperfocusing on something only to get bored of it and start something else.
Exactly my first thought.
I have it, it sounded exactly like me with getting hyperfocused on one thing then abandoning it. I got properly medicated for a while allowing me to think straight and now Im not falling back into the cycle even off the meds.
Doesn't excuse the thievery or cheating though.
It would actually also play into the cheating (even though it’s not excusable) because ppl with ADHD sometimes get bored of their partners for the same reasons
It's what I thought, too! As someone who has ADHD that is pretty much what it feels like, but it definitely doesn't excuse stealing from your ex, ugh
The second story was so relatable. During lockdown I had new neighbors that moved in who played loud music all throughout the night and day. No matter what was said: hey I work from home or I gotta be up for a shift can you please turn that off or heck I cussed them smooth the f out and they didn't care. I had to move like seriously, if you live in an apartment turn your fing music down. That's my psa, I'm glad OP found a solution
You couldn't call someone? When I've lived in apartments there were quiet hours. Especially during the night.
@@Ikajo Oh I did and all the complex did was send a letter to all of us telling us to quiet down. It worked as well as you can imagine
@@CelesteMinerva Ah... in my country, you can call to report the disturbance and someone will come and help you.
@@CelesteMinerva Wow, they must have been paying a lot of money to not be evicted, especially since the complex had to have lost a lot of money from everyone moving out.
I would had charged him 5k £ for my advice and just eff off after he paid.
Second story: Weren't law students there? You thought law students would be quiet while commiting something obviously illegal.
Well, listening more I now know why they were so bold about it, because they are just stupid. Confess on national TV a crime a frat commited over and over again without skipping a beat to think if it was a smart idea goes on the list of the things even mentally disable people won't do. That guy who wanted his seconds of fame is an absolute Kevin which consequences are a sourse of good doing.
Someone with a mental disability/disorder here. I can confirm we're not dumb enough to do something horribly illegal and then confess on public TV like it's no big deal.
That guy had the IQ of a fish
@@shinymainespoon By the way, I didn't mean to offend those people, sorry of it offended you.
@@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902 You're fine. I am not offended
Young and thinking you are invincible, he probably thought it would keep the party going and that is good publicity for the party
Anyone who wants to be a lawyer should know not to do anything illegal and be more mature. Saying they’re “young and immature” is bs. Nobody above the age of a child doesn’t know that it’s bad to break the law.
Second story: I'm surprised the police didn't do more because they took lockdown partie very seriously in Belgium. Friend of mine got fined for letting a friend in to go pee after a walk because the neighbours were calling the cops on anyone who were having more than 1 visitor 😱
Gotta love when a bunch of law students casually break the law and admit to it on national television
Graduating law student goes to job interview.
Law firm: Say, weren't you shamed on national media for having drunken parties and keeping your neighbors up for weeks on end?
Student: Um.
The first story honestly sounds like something mental health related. I acted like that for years with undiagnosed bipolar disorder. You'll go in cycles of being super motivated, and then shelter yourself from everything.
During the very beginning of virus-19 in Belgium. A man wanted to badly see his newborn baby in hospital (it was in the ICU for kids) But they say they could not for safety reasons. He ignored them and somehow slipped past doctors and nurses to see his baby. Turns out, he had virus-19 (early, before the symptons set in) so almost EVERYONE from kids to family's and doctors and nurses had virus-19 thx to this one selfish man who ignored the rules. Kids actually died because of it. It was (somehow) not in the big news. But i guess that was not to spread panic and paranoia when doctors themselves knew next to nothing about this new super fast spreading virus. EDIT : There are lots of rules for safety for a reason during a worldwide pandemic.
The second one should've been treated as a business.
Idc for the covid part, but they were operating a loud business in their residence
There really needs to be a process put in place when someone wipes out a joint account without the other party’s permission. Revenge was great but losing 5k??? That is such bs
Joint accounts are very tricky because in signing up for it, you authorise each other to access the money and if somebody does something the other person doesn't want it becomes a civil matter.
The problem is civil matters are sticky, and even if OP did manage to prove the £5k was hers, and did get the court to agree to make him pay it back, there are still ways for the ex to screw her out of payment (like becoming unemployed or low paying jobs can exempt you from paying back such things). It sucks, and there really should be a better system, but sadly that's how it is.
In the first story it sounds like the guy struggles with ADD, or some variant of it. A common symptom is getting excited about new ventures but never following through on anything. Happens to me and it sucks because you often wonder how long this new “passion” will last and it’s nearly impossible to build anything meaningful from it since you lose all interest.
The rest of it though isn’t defensible.
I was wondering why that part was relatable... I don't have ADD necessarily but it's close enough that I get super motivated, work for like a week, and then inevitably I'm burnt out and have no motivation for anything. I've heard enjoying the passion slowly helps, but different things work for different people.
@@shinymainespoon That’s pretty much my life and it sucks. Makes it hard to believe myself when next week it’s a new obsession
@@Darkloid21 Might I suggest cooking or baking next then? You'll have a ton of (hopefully tasty) food that you made yourself by the end of the week
I was first thinking depression, it can be similar. But any type of mental illness doesn't excuse being an ass. Explain, yes. Excuse, no.
@@shinymainespoon I have zero interest in cooking or baking though. And I wouldn’t have anything to store it in.
I like to think that the person who online who told the EX not to go to court was someone who he knew (possibly another ex who he sold from) and deliberately told him not to go to court just to insure that the courts would take everything.
The revenge on the second story wasn't that good tbh. They did get on national tv but they didn't suffer that much repercussions from it. It would have been prorevenge if they somehow got expelled.
The biggest consequences for the partiers isn’t just getting trouble with school. Once they’re through school, presumably they have to become a member of a the bar or something similar. That’s pretty hard to do when you are convicted of certain crimes… Courts have a vested interest in lawyers who obey the law, even when nobody is looking.
Love prorevenge! Day 3 of asking for more tales from tech support!
same!
Tech support ones are the best!
I'm here for tree law
YES YES YES!
Yeah!
If you're running an underground bar for college kid law students, 300 euro tickets is so little of a slap on the wrist that it's basically just the cost of doing business.
In the first story, I find it interesting that OP would help somebody skip on their debts, until they also get burned.
Shared accounts are for shared costs only: like food, rent, and bills. It is not for your paycheck or savings
What a weak police force. In the US it is against the law in most areas to have excessive noise during set hours of night. And if someone were to break this law repeatedly you would escalate from tickets to actually physically shutting the party down.
I don't think I'd ever open joint accounts with anyone. Finances must be kept separate.
With your spouse a bills account is good. You only put amounts to pay that. Unless you decide which person pays what. I am sad that she wasn't advised that.
*First OP:* That was awesome. And to think, OP's ex could've prevented it but not being a slacker and cheating on OP. Part of me thinks the person advising the ex not to show up in court was trolling him. At least, I hope that's the case, lol.
*Second OP:* Why would the guy in the frat house
1) Invite the film crew to the house, and
2) _Admit_ to what he and his peers were doing!?
To be fair, the frat guy was throwing a party during a worldwide pandemic, so he's not smart to begin with
We live in a world where we make stupid people stupidly famous really fast.
I'm surprised the dude didn't start rapping during the interview so he would get "discovered" or something
@ "there was an incredibly stupid dude who got arrested for doing something incredibly stupid, but yo check out these FLAMES he's spittin"
intoxication
That last story, keep in mind the sheer number of students there were. 5 girls at first, 70 ish times a night at least one person came in? Assuming about half we're groups of two or more, that's probably over 150 different students. 80 hours EACH of service is 12,000+ hours of community service, assuming they got everyone. That probably funded most of a public works project xD
Eh, not sure if I feel bad for story 1 OP. She dated a guy that she helped dodge debt using her debit collection know-how... how is she surprise pikachu face she he steals from her? Like, you're most likely dating scumbag, so don't be surprise if he turns on you.
Yeah. And she aided in the scumbag behaviour.
Seriously. Hopefully she's grown up too
She proudly helped him avoid debt without any regard to his lenders. She clearly feels no remorse for that. She would’ve happily helped him keep scamming if he just kept pretending to be in love with her.
This. And it's not even stealing. His name was on the account. It was legally his. This is why you don't have joint accounts with people you aren't married to.
Story 2: you have the patience of a saint, I woulda called the cops and landlord day 2, and would blow them up over and over and over. I would also sabotage as much as possible.
Lessons for the kids from story 1 - DON'T move in together when you're dating. DON'T share money. I've been married 21 years and my wife didn't move in with me until 4 days before the wedding, and we still have our own separate bank accounts. Oh, and DON'T date someone who won't repay their debts!
I agree that the neighbors should not have been constantly partying. In fact, most places have laws that prevent people from being too noisy at night. But using covid as the sole reason anything was done about it was reduculous. Especially since areas that had more lenient common sense rules during covid did BETTER than areas than had strict lockdowns.
These party houses sound just like the 'Speakeasies' of the 1920's.
An entire century has passed since then... It's amazing how much things can change, and yet stay the same
Last Story - let's not forget this was the very first time she was meeting her boyfriend's family
In my country we had some Indian students trowing big party for their own friends, police was called and videos from police body cams were shown on news. In the end Indian students were deported back home to India
The people who think "Any publicity is good publicity" are exactly those who will expose themselves and expect praise instead of punishment. Karma is cruel but just.
Never ever share a bank account
Those who broke the lockdown rules took the fucking piss. What's even worse is that the police were very selective which people they enforced the rules on. If you are a tory darling, you got off scott-free. If you were anyone else, big fine for you. We had this in our town in December 2020. The police showed up at a bar which was holding a lock-in on Christmas eve for the town council. NOT ONE OF THE COUNCILLORS GOT FINED. The landlord who was tbe tory mayor of the town lost his mayorship, but no fine. And the pub chain that owned the bar fired him. All the bar staff however were fined heavily. And the local tory-supporters were fine with this.
I think you mean if you're Tory, you're punished. If the police commissioner is mates with Sir Kier Starmer, he give you a pass.
Also, bar staff would have been fined because according to the rules, the business has more responsibility. The business knowingly held a lockdown gathering - they could have said no, like 99% of businesses did.
Story 1: This is why you don't have a "joint account" when you're only in the dating phase of a relationship.
Story 1: never ever do add another person in your bank account because it can happen to you too. Not even your parents because some parents always be like "your job money is mine too".
We had some Mexicans have multiple parties every week with a bunch of people that didn't live there while California was on lockdown and it was forbidden to due so. And they had their loud speakers aimed right at my bedroom window and turned up loud enough to rattle stuff in the livingroom. We had called the police because they would go till 1 and 2 in the morning like this. They continued having all these parties until the police served a search warrant at a house down the street and these idiots started to party. It was so loud that the cops had to stop trying to find whatever they were looking for and tell my neighbors to shut it down or they would each be getting multiple tickets. Apparently the music was loud enough that 5 houses away it was rattling stuff where they were at. Don't know if it was that loud but I do know it was very loud that night.
First story- Why would you have a joint banking account with someone you are just dating?
It finally happened. I listen to Rslash religiously but i also listen to Mr Redder often. This is the first time I’ve found an Rslash video where I’ve heard all of the stories before
I had a cousin get 80hrs. community service. He got stuck picking up trash on the side of the road during the middle of summer. I still think he got off lucky for what he did. He should have gotten jail time for what happened. DUI, and badly hurt someone in the accident.
During covid in Melbourne I think we were all over people narking one another and had dinners/bbqs over each others fence lines. I had some beers with the neighbors and the kids would play throwing/kicking a ball over, just abit of normal for them all
I like that you actually took the time to double check the currency on the first story. I appreciate that since a lot of (mostly American) people (not just on TH-cam) just see money involved and assume dollars. One small little thing, 1/100th of a pound in the UK is a penny, or pence for plural, not cents, so it was "eight pounds and fifty pence" :)
Story 2.
At the end of the Story when there punishment was handed out if I where op I would demanding there removal from the school and the building.
Because after all the times the cops where called and they had a face to face meeting they still went back to parties.
They clearly showed no respect for anyone and an unwillingness to learn.
A good middle ground would be she find a new room to rent and pass the toxic problems to other people and call the news people that the main cause for the party's in ops building is gone.
Calling them dumb kid's is just giving them a chance to pass blame for their actions away from them and on something else.
They knew full well what they where doing and having fun doing it.
They got off way to light and the news people should have highlighted the cops and school not doing anything until it hit the news.
I will never get a joint account with anyone. Idc how strong our love and trust is, I'm not risking it.
15:10 Alcohol is probably why he thought it was a good idea to talk to the news
I doubt it was the shaming that got them to quite down, as the guy across the street apparently didn't have any. It was probably threats that if the school got another complaint about any of it the kids would get expelled with the kind of blot on their academic record that would make it nearly impossible to get into _any_ good school.
the last story, the fact OP already call the dean of the girl and they got warning and fine but noo, they decide to move next door and just party there more and OP call press and the girls vice-rector who shut that shit down and if OP and the neightbor didn't put a good word with the girls, I positive that the girl would got worse
2nd story: Nah, their crocodile tears aren't regret, they are mad because they face consequences.
Probably for the first time in their lives.
S1: I’m glad that op got her revenge but maybe don’t get a joint account with your boyfriend or anyone else for that matter.
Always keep your finances separate for your own peace of mind.
Plus stop wasting time hoping that the person who has shown you their true self will go back to their gaslighting self.
Be happy that the mask came off instead of wanting to stuff the genie back into the bottle.
It makes you look desperate and foolish.
god the news story it's sooooo satisfying I probably wouldn't have have the party girls a good work I'd let them suffer for their crimes they got off real easy all things considered I wonder how the whole no family and friends things went with the volunteers 🤔
i'm from belgium and i remember this. sadly for some godforsaken reason most people under 30 coudn't accept the covid restrictions and just HAD to break as many as they possibly could
@@dragongaming4824 hmmmmm I actually remember someone having a party then someone using an app to report them to the cops that was even funnier 😁
Give him the boot!! Girl, is a pattern! Are you kidding!??? Shared bank account!!!?? 🙄 Duh!!
Lol! Story 2: Vloeken en ventileren is Dutch. It means cursing and getting stuff off your chest. The pronunciation of Rslash was funny!
It doesn't help that we Americans have no idea how to pronounce Dutch.
disclaimer: intense situation
I woke up today at 6:17AM to a loud bang on my door. Two guys saying someone sent them to my place to collect their money. Mind you I'm a hermit I don't owe anyone money. After they couldn't get into my place they stood next to my gf's vehicle before stabbing both her driver tires before leaving just before the cops showed.
TLDR: NEVER open your door at odd hours or for anyone you don't know. Who knows what those two would have actually done if they got in.
This is why you carry a gun
A friend of mine was a debt collector, and shared a few tips with me during his time with that agency. When debt collectors take people to court, it's not a 1:1 deal unless it's a huge account. The agency will amass a shitload of cases and send their lawyer as the plaintiff for all of them in a single day. Basically what usually happens is the lawyer shows up with a folder full of debt info, and if people want to contest the debt all they have to do is show up. Generally, a defense of "I don't owe that money" is sufficient, because the lawyer acting as plaintiff usually doesn't have all of the nitty gritty details for every single one of the maybe hundred debts they're there to get a judgement for. They rely on deadbeats being deadbeats and not showing up, which like 95% of the time is exactly what happens. So if you want to get your debt erased, don't pay the agency, make them take you to court, then show up and say "I don't owe any money." It's on the agency to prove you do, and they probably won't have enough information on hand to do so.
For example say you have a $1000 medical bill that you never pay. Eventually the clinic sells the debt to a collection agency for say $500, because at least that way they get SOME money. The agency then tries to collect on the full $1000. But if after a while they can't, they might either add it to their lawyer's folder to try and get a judgement for, or they'll re-sell the debt to minimize their loss. Like sell it for $300 to ANOTHER agency, again just so they aren't losing everything. That same debt might change hands a dozen times until eventually some guy is selling your debt to another guy for $5 in the hopes that maybe, MAYBE, they can collect the full $1000. Especially in the case of medical debt, they will find it VERY hard to prove you owe anything, because they don't have access to your medical records. Only a dollar amount. All you have to do is assert that you don't owe that money, and because burden of proof is on the plaintiff, you're pretty much home free. If all they had to do was go "But see, here's a bill..." then I could write them a bill for anything I wanted and claim they owe me.
So yeah. If you really want to get out of a debt, don't pay it, then go to court and deny you owe anything. Burden of proof is on them. "I don't owe them any money, I have no record of any of this." If the agency's lawyer doesn't either, guess what? You don't owe them any money.
Last story is lucky I wasn’t their neighbor. I would have snuck in and spiked the punch and then made sure the cops were there to see the after math. Of course I’d have to keep this revenge a secret for legal reasons but seeing these kids trying to explain to the cops how they didn’t do it would have been glorious.
....you would have spiked their alcohol with....more alcohol?
@@khatdubell Who said anything about alcohol?
@@TheNin-Jedi The person telling the story.
@@khatdubell I meant what I mean to spike it with.
Thank you rslash for the hours of content over the years look forward to ever video
Students partying and breaking covid rules was bad. But what happened here in the UK is way worst, the Conservative government, who is the ruling party here in the UK had a held a party in the middle on the pandemic at the prime minister's resident in 10 Downing St, breaking their own covid rules and restrictions. Meanwhile, they arresting and giving fines to ordinary people that's breaks covid restrictions, people dying alone, families unable to visit their dying or sick relatives and families unable to grief together. Our very own Queen Elizabeth sat alone in church during her husband's funeral. Conservative PM and MP's are such a bunch of tossers.
Like the other side wouldn't have done the same.
Its not about party, its about class.
You're trash, they're elite.
The same thing happened here in america. The ruling elites don't make the rules for themselves.
They make the rules for _us_.
I read NBC news as “Karen News” lmao
So a "law Student" learns early on how to skirt the law. How appropriate.
The first story sounds like a real-life episode of the British series "Can't Pay? We'll Take it Away!".
Technically, OP actually paid $9.50 for her ex. At the current exchange rate of pounds to USD, the £8.50 turns into $9.50 in US currency. Aside from that nitpick, OP got some juicy revenge for £8.50
I am not an health care worker but i was still in the streets during covid. things got so bad in my country that we were more than shortstaffed and i happened to work weeks without a single day of rest.
Lets just say that people that broke quarantine rules never had my sympathy.
And that's why you NEVER have a joint account. Dating, engaged, married, it doesn't matter. Separate accounts are the only safe choice.
Therapists say: nobody ever needs to look at your phone, accounts or information. If they feel the need, regardless if their suspicions are correct or not, theyre being the hooligan.
You can have one shared account for household spendings where both put money but only as much that it won't hurts if it's gone at once. My parents do that and I think that's the best solution
joint accounts are okay for household. But you put household money in there, not personal money.
@@readjordan2257 to be fair, it depends on the why of the suspicions....there are valid reasons to suspect and not going after evidence is just being naive
@@75ur15 actually youre just supposed to break up with them, or in some serious situations, hire a PI or Law Enforcement to do what theyre trained to do..despite this, Knowing the truth isnt really a relevant thing. Youre never naive for trusting your gut. And most people are far too unintelligent and immature to make use of intelligence gathering even if they magically could do it like theyve jad practice. But anyway, it all takes work. The real naivety really is waiting for proof or evidence to do what you have to. You dont owe anyone another moment in a relationship regardless of anything.
In the first story, that guy should be damn lucky that he was dealing with County Court Baliffs and not High Court Enforcement Officers. They have far more power including entering private property if the door is unlocked. Once inside, they can't be forced to leave. Stopping their work is a criminal offense and they have the power to take any assets covering the cost of the debt that they need. So be lucky my guy. You got it easy.
Oh god that's thumbnail, I remember her, she's like one of the og Karens who started this whole thing
I like the way the tone of R/Slash voice changes when he talks about the revenge
Second story: what the heck kind of stupid rule is this - "we can't arrest the criminals unless they let us in!" Belgium has some retarded laws, apparently.
Those college kids should have had a stiffer penalty. OP is a bit of doormat for feeling bad. These idiots were already wholly inconsiderate to his health and well-being because of sleep deprivation. Add to defying public safety measures...
"he never washed up, he never cleaned up" - OP is alesha dixon confirmed
8 pounds and 50 cents is the funniest phrase i've ever heard ngl
First story: don't know if it's the same in UK as is here in Brazil, but here a statute barred debt isn't like OP described. Here the limit isn't for creditors to collect the debt, but to get any type of legal action to receive the debt. And even after this limit they can still keep charging for the debt, they just are limited to a administrative charge;
So yeah OP's ex-boyfriend here would be massively screwed.
I'm not sure how it was in Belgium but in the US you could literally get people in trouble for violating quarantine not the mask part but everything else
First story: would have told him "sure, my advice will cost you $6k."
So, if the cops KNOW they are having illegal parties, they still can't do anything if they aren't let in?
the party story, another example of women getting lighter sentences for the same crime as men just because of what they have between their legs. Keep in mind that the college girls were the real problem for op, not the house across the street.
You were asking for trouble when you put all your savings in a joint account with someone you're not in a committed relationship with.
When I was in a shitty spot I started renting a literal storage closet with no windows and basically just enough room for a bed. The people in the room above me would come home in the middle of the night and blast music. After a couple weeks I asked them very nicely in the house group chat to be a bit more courteous. The second night I did one of the girls started getting all drunk macho saying she was going to go down stairs to kick my ass. I took my bat went upstairs and told her to come get it. She backed down until I moved out a couple days later
I stumbled onto this post and loved it. I wish more people stepped up like this perhaps people would get their head out of their backsides and wake up. Maybe then we could all treat each other better and live in a much more peaceful place. Keep up these types of stories please! It gives me hope. BTW you now have a new subscriber. 🤭🤗
To everyone who applaud the first story..
3:30, I totally agree that it's a good story regardless.. but SHE ADMITTED TO HELPING HIM DODGE HIS DEBT.. She clearly knew he was a dodgy character and still decided to be with him.. WTF PEOPLE!
Your a healthcare worker so you know how bad it is, your neighbor is having a party during lockdown…..you don’t report it? Why? You want everyone to catch it? Absolutely ridiculous. During normal times I get it be cool give ‘em a chance. You work with vulnerable people and let this go on….find a different job.
1:27 To clarify, the account in question is a joint "any to sign"/"OR" type accounts meaning that it should have been explained to OP that either account holder could freely take money out of the account. That's why the ex-BF taking funds out wasn't criminal.
Yeah, but I think there should be a clause somewhere in there to prevent one party from cleaning out the account, to prevent the other party from being screwed over. Like, if you want to remove up to x amount (with x being a large amount of money, like the 5k), you must have permission from everyone in the joint account.
The different thumbnail got me to scroll right by without realizing it was rslash. Glad I caught it 😂
Heya love your channel the 8 quid revenge was so good. You don't even need to pay anything to restart the 6 year clock.
Morale of the first story: NEVER, EVER, FOR ANYONE, get a joint bank account.
Story 1 My ex tried the same thing on our joint account. I thankfully got there first- took my money and then my name off the account and left him with the barely 50 bucks he'd contributed in months. He was livid.
I grew up in a student city in Belgium (Leuven, for people who know) and the things I saw as a kid... it's funny now I look back, but yeah xmos (100 days till graduation) and fraternity pledgings were crazy. I think the funniest thing I saw was a guy dressed in a rapper teletubie costume puking his guts out near my apartment. Students are crazy everywhere but when there is a student city the normal people just take the brunt of it.
Honestly, I hate to think this but the last op went too easy on the partiers at every step. After the second apology followed by a party, it's clear they wouldn't listen and were being fake. And their actions could have potentially killed people through op, they needed more punishment. I bet they will still do bad things like this in the future because they saw, they can basically get away with it. They even seemed excited to be on the news!
I agree. In my country for breaking covid rules there were much higher fines and a possibility of prison for repeating offenders