Love and the empowered woman: Dr. Ali Binazir at TEDxFiDiWomen

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  • @LoniLovesLife
    @LoniLovesLife 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't understand all the negative comments. I loved this talk. He makes a lot of sense to the strong, feminine woman.

    • @maureenatchison246
      @maureenatchison246 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      prefer to be single than with a man and men are pissed!!!

  • @blackmumbat20
    @blackmumbat20 9 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    At the swing of midnight, on the day you were born,
    Three lightning bolts came together.
    The first, sinuous and long, said, “I shall make her graceful.”
    The second, jagged and strong, said, “I shall give her a mind
    That cuts into darkness like diamond.”
    The third, bright as a sun, said, “I shall give her radiance
    That warms and brightens all those around her.”
    As the three lightning bolts descended on the newborn,
    Lightning-fast,
    A fourth came along, so spectral and pale as to go unseen,
    And whispered: “I shall make her forget.”
    And so she walked the earth, oblivious to her gifts,
    Save when staring into a newborn’s endless eyes
    Or hearing a strain of music so pregnant with yearning
    As to have the weight of truth,
    Or when a dusty pilgrim would arrive from far away
    And cry, “Ave!,” with wild eyes that could see
    The goddess for the human that she was.

    • @_DeadlyNightshade_
      @_DeadlyNightshade_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fitsum Abera flirting his way to a date with an independent woman... Ali, honey, why not marry a Muslim hijabi? Because marrying a Christian would bring to the world Muslim children and that's what you're intentions are, right? I hope Trump makes America Christian again.

    • @petterp4679
      @petterp4679 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angel Of Darkness, maybe a Muslim woman would be _too_ powerful for him ;-p

    • @I_know_it_I_sew_it_I_grow_it
      @I_know_it_I_sew_it_I_grow_it 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does even mean?

    • @syfrb3004
      @syfrb3004 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the first time I've heard that. My eyes and heart burst at the mention of an infant's gaze. Thank you for sharing.

    • @ajl1441
      @ajl1441 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      How beautiful, thank you so much

  • @Liberty969
    @Liberty969 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys give me so much courage to move forward.....finding strength in your words......with hopes to educate our children, fight poverty at it's core, help the abused, neglected, and oppressed....give healing to those in need, seek justice for the wrongly accused, and to let freedom reign.
    I love you ❤️ and thank you 🌏✌🏽
    LOVE THE POEM!!!!
    I love myself....I love myself
    Im sorry to disappoint you but I still don't know what to do 🤔

  • @ireneperez4009
    @ireneperez4009 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love this speech! I don't see it's about feminism. It talks about fulfilling your self, being happy, feeling empowered. I think that's a really powerful idea. Specially this part when he said "close your eyes and imagine you're a galaxy"

  • @saubhagyinisingh
    @saubhagyinisingh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The bit about the fourth bolt and the message encompassed was beautiful

  • @whotfisdeeom
    @whotfisdeeom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I genuinely liked this guy. He was so original not the usual formal type TED speaker. His speech might not have a linear progression but he was worth listening to,

  • @ishkabibblemoskowitz2899
    @ishkabibblemoskowitz2899 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He should be having this very conversation with men. But I appreciate the solidarity and understanding

  • @juliaulikowska6459
    @juliaulikowska6459 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love that guy, great speech!

  • @dynamona
    @dynamona 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think he's a better writer than a speaker. His content is terrific, however I had trouble connecting with him due to what I read as perhaps a semi-sarcastic or humorous tone in his voice.

  • @teresaparmele2677
    @teresaparmele2677 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some nice nuggets but really think his audio tapes and books are fantastic.

  • @asha_vere
    @asha_vere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I didn't get anything from this one. Just a bunch of rambling for about 15 minutes, then makes one point, and reads the poem.

  • @blthetube1
    @blthetube1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tune in next week when Ali's friends say...." Hey Ali... are you O.K.? .....Where's Mary? ......She's our with your friend Tony? Don't worry, I'm sure they just forget that you were waiting for them.":

  • @antondounts1294
    @antondounts1294 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this dude is in outer space.

  • @AG86UK
    @AG86UK 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "you have compassion built in i.e. not as much testosterone."
    Ooooh, so we're allowed to generalize now are we?
    Don't mention the male tendency to like X kind of woman: it's just socially constructed.

  • @1surfgurl1
    @1surfgurl1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lighten up Edith

  • @_DeadlyNightshade_
    @_DeadlyNightshade_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Overly confident cocky middle eastern men... threatened by western women due to their independence, that's why you see him desperately trying to seem loud and patronizing to show dominance. However, back in their countries they are quiet and shy and go to "mommy" to fix everything.. *shakes my head*

    • @lonewolf3564
      @lonewolf3564 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Meg_ The Basic DID wow racist and stereotype much ?

  • @fredhubbard7210
    @fredhubbard7210 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Just call this "The Mangina Monologue."

  • @SGTRVN1
    @SGTRVN1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how little manginia's really know about women.

  • @katherined800
    @katherined800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There's a real lack of substance here.

  • @melovescoffee
    @melovescoffee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fake wedding rings are a beautiful thing. It's like having one of those lord of the rings, rings that make you invisible. Pretty cool gadget. Problem solved. Instantly empowered.

    • @carmensierra3935
      @carmensierra3935 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      melovescoffee . .

    • @ASMRyouVEGANyet
      @ASMRyouVEGANyet 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      melovescoffee lol. not for me. I have a fake one and I have now named it the "lucky ring". whenever I wore it men flocked to me like crazy. I even loaned it to girlfriends and they all ended up getting married to guys they met while wearing the ring. it's crazy!

  • @rudraom9
    @rudraom9 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless u

  • @DrMarieLifePathHealings
    @DrMarieLifePathHealings 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    funny to find you here scott

  • @billydiaz7280
    @billydiaz7280 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we get someone who's been entered up on stage please

  • @bertrandcabaret1204
    @bertrandcabaret1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Si quelqu'un a cette vidéo traduite en français... Je sais je jette une bouteille d'eau à la mer. Mais bon. Sait on jamais.

  • @exp3905
    @exp3905 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yeah, none sense whatsoever…

  • @Cynthia-Landers
    @Cynthia-Landers 11 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This speaker seems grandiose & annoying, as though he must have endless attention.

  • @syfrb3004
    @syfrb3004 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The message is worth listening beyond his pandering. I disagree that the relationship he describes is one to be sought in marriage for the purpose of procreation. His fallacy is the attempt to reaffirm the patriarchal roles of women. It would be a more enlightened approach to consider that what he describes is actually the potential of every human being. Fitsum Abera is about our human potential constrained by social norms.

  • @_DeadlyNightshade_
    @_DeadlyNightshade_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Robert Downy Jr over here! 🙄

  • @debracharles-clay5202
    @debracharles-clay5202 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seven year olds don't have power and it's a damn good thing.stupid story...

  • @harleenkaurarora
    @harleenkaurarora 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Total BS

  • @marching27
    @marching27 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    inaccessible creatures???????????? what===? some how the start of this doesn't seem right..... creature is the same way advertisements label women...... don't talk like that

  • @Coconut-g7v
    @Coconut-g7v ปีที่แล้ว

    He is still single and incapable to find a woman.

  • @MsGenXodus
    @MsGenXodus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It looks like he slept in his clothes. Like, he'd been out late, passed out fully dressed and showed up late to his talk.