I want to thank you ever so much for this reading as today was a bad day for me over his leaving. I am have been crying most of the day. Your reading is so spot on, on how he treated me when I all did was take care of him when they got sick, worked so they could stay home even though he was much younger than myself. I needed this reinforcement of how I should be grateful he left. I only wished he would have done this so much more sooner, because now I am at the point where I need him to be here for me, he's gone.
Sending you the light 🌞🙏 Rejection is protection. What you do matters most of all. ♥️ Take care of yourself. Surround yourself with supportive people Health and safety is wealth. Adversities can be overcome! The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer The Body Keeps The Score Brain Mind And The Healing Of Trauma-Bessel Van Der Kolk Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Facing Codependency by Pia Melody Without Conscience by Robert D Hare Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter ( avoidant attachment) Safe People by Henry Cloud Boundaries by Henry Cloud I Hear You by Michael Sorenson Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters The Language Of Emotions by Karla McLaren I Hear You by Michael Sorenson 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman defines the blueprint of healthy relationships. It clarifies Are You The One For Me Knowing Who Is Right And Who Is Wrong by Barbara De Angelis The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver Know yourself and your attachment style. Ken Reid clinician, Sam Vaknin and David Tian have informative podcasts on attachment styles and other topics. Committed Phobia Explained Men That Can't Love Animated podcast ( avoidant attachment) There is a large population of avoidant attachments in the dating pool. ( Both genders) Marriage and common law are a relationship with the government. James Sexton has excellent educational podcasts on divorce.
@@SherriFlemming Thank you for sending me light and prayers. I am alone though, it's just me and my cat and this terrifies me the most as what if I get sick, who will know, who will take care of my cat? I have to stay strong and healthy for him, but I had an episode yesterday that has scared me so bad and got me thinking about this. I think it was just the stress, least I'm hoping. Going to call the doctor tomorrow and make an appointment. Which is going to be hard on my cat as he freaks out, whenever I have to go out, thinking I too will not come back. So sad, and I think that too made me cry today.
That was him talking bad about me when we when to his home for the Holidays, which didn't take much more of them hating me, they did from day one! And I know they have a hand in why he left by bribery of money since they have more than me.
He is abusive. You're lucky to escape from this trauma bond. Dodged a bullet. It sounds like the entire family is corrupt and chaotic. You matter most of all. ♥️ Toxic Parents by Susan Forward Toxic Families by Susan Forward
@@SherriFlemming I know, but I have been in a tailspin since May, when he left without warning. I know it's for the best, but it hurts because he barely worked all the years we were together and then he got sick and I had to take care of him all through that nightmare, to just up and leave me like that, it hurts. And the worse is he left the cat and I have now had to take of him too. He cries and gets sick and runs to the door when he hears the elevator doors open. It all just hit so hard today for some reason. And yes, his whole family think of nobody but themselves! You should see how his sister treats her husband, not there's a man that needs to get himself gone because he also has to put up with the mother's interference. I want to thank you for responding. I really need this extra validation that it's for the better. *hugs* Be Blessed, always.
@@geminidream4347 You've been through a lot. It's time for you to have peace and stability as you certainly deserve it! The cat is anxious. His family can deal with your ex now. Emotional incest with his mother. Karma always has an address. You're very welcome. I hope you have a support system that are there for you in this difficult time. Wishing you peace and healing. ♥️🙏
@@SherriFlemming Yes, that is such a great way to explain his relationship with his mother! That is another reason for my tears, I don't a support system, I don't have anyone at all, just my cat. He is up there and all I can think of is please don't let anything happen to him for at least another two years because by then, I most certainly should have my life together.
@@geminidream4347 Yikes. Can you go out and meet new people in community to create friends? Church if you're religious. Coworkers? A library or places to meet people. I don't know what country you're in or where your family is. It's not good for you to be so isolated. That's very lonely indeed. And it's normal to feel sad or however you feel after all of this. Honestly, I think you've done enough for him which he didn't appreciate as he literally abandoned you. I know it hurts however it's important to remember why the relationship ended and how he and his family treated you.
Sometimes it is necessary to go no contact and take drastic measures. All families are fractured and dysfunctional in one way or another. Relationships end due to misalignments and dealbreakers. Toxic Parents by Susan Forward Toxic Families by Susan Forward Boundaries by Henry Cloud Safe People by Henry Cloud
Thank you. Your readings are accurate and informative.
Thank you for the reading ❤
I want to thank you ever so much for this reading as today was a bad day for me over his leaving. I am have been crying most of the day. Your reading is so spot on, on how he treated me when I all did was take care of him when they got sick, worked so they could stay home even though he was much younger than myself. I needed this reinforcement of how I should be grateful he left. I only wished he would have done this so much more sooner, because now I am at the point where I need him to be here for me, he's gone.
Sending you the light 🌞🙏
Rejection is protection. What you do matters most of all. ♥️
Take care of yourself. Surround yourself with supportive people
Health and safety is wealth.
Adversities can be overcome!
The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
The Body Keeps The Score Brain Mind And The Healing Of Trauma-Bessel Van Der Kolk
Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Facing Codependency by Pia Melody
Without Conscience by Robert D Hare
Men That Can't Love by Stephen A Carter ( avoidant attachment)
Safe People by Henry Cloud
Boundaries by Henry Cloud
I Hear You by Michael Sorenson
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It by Kamal Ravikant
What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay
Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters
The Language Of Emotions by Karla McLaren
I Hear You by Michael Sorenson
8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman defines the blueprint of healthy relationships. It clarifies
Are You The One For Me Knowing Who Is Right And Who Is Wrong by Barbara De Angelis
The 7 Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver
Know yourself and your attachment style. Ken Reid clinician, Sam Vaknin and David Tian have informative podcasts on attachment styles and other topics.
Committed Phobia Explained Men That Can't Love Animated podcast
( avoidant attachment)
There is a large population of avoidant attachments in the dating pool. ( Both genders)
Marriage and common law are a relationship with the government. James Sexton has excellent educational podcasts on divorce.
@@SherriFlemmingbeautiful gifts ❤
@@novakafele4031 Thank you. Hopefully it helps.
@@SherriFlemming Thank you for sending me light and prayers. I am alone though, it's just me and my cat and this terrifies me the most as what if I get sick, who will know, who will take care of my cat? I have to stay strong and healthy for him, but I had an episode yesterday that has scared me so bad and got me thinking about this. I think it was just the stress, least I'm hoping. Going to call the doctor tomorrow and make an appointment. Which is going to be hard on my cat as he freaks out, whenever I have to go out, thinking I too will not come back. So sad, and I think that too made me cry today.
This was great and on point! Thank you!
Thank you lord...yes...yes...yes 🙏
Flipped the switch and burned the bridge. Calls will be ignored. Moving on baby.
That was him talking bad about me when we when to his home for the Holidays, which didn't take much more of them hating me, they did from day one! And I know they have a hand in why he left by bribery of money since they have more than me.
He is abusive.
You're lucky to escape from this trauma bond. Dodged a bullet.
It sounds like the entire family is corrupt and chaotic.
You matter most of all. ♥️
Toxic Parents by Susan Forward
Toxic Families by Susan Forward
@@SherriFlemming I know, but I have been in a tailspin since May, when he left without warning. I know it's for the best, but it hurts because he barely worked all the years we were together and then he got sick and I had to take care of him all through that nightmare, to just up and leave me like that, it hurts. And the worse is he left the cat and I have now had to take of him too. He cries and gets sick and runs to the door when he hears the elevator doors open. It all just hit so hard today for some reason.
And yes, his whole family think of nobody but themselves! You should see how his sister treats her husband, not there's a man that needs to get himself gone because he also has to put up with the mother's interference.
I want to thank you for responding. I really need this extra validation that it's for the better. *hugs* Be Blessed, always.
@@geminidream4347
You've been through a lot.
It's time for you to have peace and stability as you certainly deserve it!
The cat is anxious.
His family can deal with your ex now. Emotional incest with his mother. Karma always has an address.
You're very welcome. I hope you have a support system that are there for you in this difficult time.
Wishing you peace and healing. ♥️🙏
@@SherriFlemming Yes, that is such a great way to explain his relationship with his mother! That is another reason for my tears, I don't a support system, I don't have anyone at all, just my cat. He is up there and all I can think of is please don't let anything happen to him for at least another two years because by then, I most certainly should have my life together.
@@geminidream4347
Yikes. Can you go out and meet new people in community to create friends? Church if you're religious. Coworkers? A library or places to meet people.
I don't know what country you're in or where your family is. It's not good for you to be so isolated. That's very lonely indeed. And it's normal to feel sad or however you feel after all of this.
Honestly, I think you've done enough for him which he didn't appreciate as he literally abandoned you.
I know it hurts however it's important to remember why the relationship ended and how he and his family treated you.
We all make our own choices. Mine is to walk away frm this masciline energy and celebrate my 10 of cups 🎉😊 elsewhere.🏃🏼➡️👋👋👋
He does not contact me all
Can you PLEASE get a new method of recording your voice? I love your readings but your voice is so muffled
I have disowned my entire family and the western empire, you have no deal contract or legacy with me at all
Sounds more like a filial piety thinker
Same Joe. I’m disconnecting from everyone and protecting me and my kids ONLY
Sometimes it is necessary to go no contact and take drastic measures.
All families are fractured and dysfunctional in one way or another.
Relationships end due to misalignments and dealbreakers.
Toxic Parents by Susan Forward
Toxic Families by Susan Forward
Boundaries by Henry Cloud
Safe People by Henry Cloud
@@SherriFlemming If you could skip to the part where I receive a royalty check and you tell everyone I didn’t sell my soul that would be great