The level of attitude of some nurse is just so irritating to be honest! Not every nurse but some… Atleast you’re given some responsibility with trust so you should be responsible enough to treat the patients with care and respect… if you think you’re not capable enough to take care of someone and treat someone responsibly better not work to be honest… Anyways Don’t worry ata it’s all part of life.. Trust in god and stay strong Ata ❤️ God is definitely going to bless you both❤
My suggestion to people: To conceive a baby and deliver it healthy is a blessing from God. And especially to those parents who are anticipating for a very long time, doesn't matter if you are financially not stable. For few months [to the husband] before the delivery, please work harder and save as much money as possible and please travel to another city slowly and carefully ahead of time. Take the mother to another city with good facilities and doctors nurses. Because here in wka civil hospital, don't ever expect something good. Not ony this people but many have experienced such case in wka civil hsp. Of course it's all God's plan but like our brother said, sometimes it's humans mistake. Please don't take my message as misleading but take it as an awareness because baby delivery case is not a joke. It can cost both lives. I have come across such cases time and again that is why I'm concerned. It doesn't happen to everyone I know...but why take risk right?
After such a tragic story in your lives. No one would have ever figured out from the funny, entertaining and sweet content you always provide us. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Didi and Kokai. Be strong always, no matter how much we doubt and try to find blame in ourselves and others. It's never seldom in God's greater plan. 😊😊 I want to extend my love and sympathy to you both.
The hardest part is when you bury a loved one and the next is when you clean their grave. Time don't really heal and memories come flushing in. Take care of people when they face such situations ❤️
@chefZaren2024 If God wills it you still can have more children. My mom and dad also faced your situation with my elder bro. I was the answer to their prayer haha. May God bless your family.
same story,, i too lost my first son in hospital ,,we r related in stories,,, dont lose hope,,its all God plan ,,after his death,,now thank God i have blessed with 3 children's.
@@ChefZaren2024 yes I can feel the pain and anger u came accross,, lay everything to God hands and he will bless u beyond measures, God be with ur family. ❤️❤️❤️
Tell her to take 2 yrs gap between pregnancy...always take iron and calcium supplements before during and after pregnancy. Atleast 4 antenatal checkups and USG during pregnancy. Take care!! God bless you!!
One day or the other day,we all will perish for nothing.May our baby boy rest in eternal peace with our creator,the giver and sustainer of life to mankind.
I can only imagine the depth of ur pain, but I want u to know that we see u , I hear u and we’re here for u ❤ Grief is not a sign of weakness , nor a lack of faith , it is the price love🫶
Such story of yours or negligence of doctors at time of delivery at Civil hospital wokha happens a multiple times every year. I've came across & heard the same. (Lives is nothing to the doctor) Much better to opt for private hospital in the near future.
Some nurses are so rude... while i was in pain and so much in stress the nurse scolded me not to scream...she kept on scolding me that its not my first birth ...that does not make the pain less even though it was my third time...i had my third baby after 8 years and moreover i have so much health problem now....some are very very rudr
That's exactly what we faced... They scolded us so badly n then after our child was dead those evil Nurse vanished... They hide somewhere n never saw them... Not even a single hospital staff says sorry to us. 🥺 When I think of those evil staff face i seriously want to do something badly.... But as a Christian i control myself n I'm forgiving them .. coz once an elder men told me that real men never take revenge but They forgive...
Unfortunately most of the medical workers in Nagaland ,their attitude is very unprofessional,as an aspiring medic the first thing that taught us in medical school or even nursing schools is professionalism and empathy . Nevertheless for the medication for induction cutoff is 6cm but also it depends on the condition of the mother ,some instances could be given earlier if she experience too much contraction pain . So sorry for your loss ,Trust in gods plan brother ,may you’ll heal soon .
Everything happens for good just don't lose hope God is there with you and forever know that I'm watching your videos from now on new subscriber stay blessed 🙏❤
Worry not God will bless you again I can relate you guys and one suggestion here please go to phek hospital there are very very good nurses out there I feel for your wife so just saying if I can help this way I don't mean you have to follow what I suggest nways take care
Feeling sad to hear your story.. ete metai doctor and nurses jiango okyak n mhom tai ka.. tolia potsow vanka, pani. Ete ha yingto n vanta na fight back e tssoka. Shiang etssoephyo shiang zesi elum e ntssohung.. mozu ji yuta n jam nte pio jina ngaro ji n khirhak cho ka😢 God bless you with another miracle 🙏
In every govt. Health centres/Hospitals same condition.. I won't say most of them, but almost all female nurses are so rude and careless including doctors on duty.. So sorry for your lost brother..
Brother you should have asked all of your queries from the doctor instead of asking from someone who have a little experienced about giving birth(we nagas tend to think that same treatment will be given to all of the delivery patient)NO....i'm not saying you're wrong........but then not every delivery is conducted in a same way....or given the same doses of medication, the delivery and preparation is done according to the case or the condition of mother and the baby....and regarding the nurses that had given your wife the medication that must be for an early stage of labor........ which is given as adviced by the doctor/physician before the delivery that is to avoid or minimize cervical dystocia leading to prolonged labor.....the nurses does not give any kinds of medication without doctor's prescription or until it's an emergency drug (For the people that is commenting about NURSES) Yes not all of the nurses have the same attitude....but there are times when the nurses lose patience and empathy as mostly in india nurses are considered as a slave instead of a professional caregiver Not only some critisize the nurses but the nurses are to blame for everything that happened during their stay in a hospital as the nurses look after the patient 24/7 Rarely seen appreciating the nurses for their deeds🙂 Your little act can impact their attitude too🫠
Actually the baby was a normal delivery...but like I said the nurses gave the medicine at the wrong time .. we are also First time n we agreed to what the doc said.. but unluckily everything went wrong....
@@ChefZaren2024 Do not lose hope😇 May God's blessing be with your family...keep on spreading the love and smile you bought us through your content Much love
Point to be notice ....manu laga galti be ASA ....very true I see in many place in ngagland due to careless of doctor and nurse....mang child and mother were died during givingbirth
I saw with my own eyes, I can witness that without a second thought.. I can even case a file on them but that won't bring back my Son so I'm just keeping everything on God hand..
Idk what kinda people ask them to have a children so stupid yeah its their family they have their own personal reasons so stay away from this family I like how you take up everything positivity it creates a good environment ❤❤❤❤
So sorry for your lose but that is clearly the negligence and unprofessional practice of the doctors and nurses. Wish we can know which hospital that was.
Ecclesiastes 3:- 1-10 ( Everything Has Its Time) Dear, sister and brother, you have already face the dark time , Thou Shall Pass Away.. Have faith in God, God has a beautiful plan for both of you,there will be a " Tear's of Happiness, Joy and Fun " .. Always pray to God ,Good things takes time, and God plan is always perfect. When pray become our habit Miracle become our life style.
Eku nahoi taikhan thik gam kuri se koi le phal. Aro jani jani kena olda gam kuri tesi koi le akjun laga life morai te toh jesus ketiya b khushe nahoi.. Apni jun future phal hubole rasta khule bole karni manu ke map kuri tebe.. Jesu nam pura
😢😢😢 pin me bro... Don't lost hope pin me
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Iam subscribe ur channel
Showing empathy or asking something 🤔
The level of attitude of some nurse is just so irritating to be honest!
Not every nurse but some…
Atleast you’re given some responsibility with trust so you should be responsible enough to treat the patients with care and respect… if you think you’re not capable enough to take care of someone and treat someone responsibly better not work to be honest…
Anyways Don’t worry ata it’s all part of life.. Trust in god and stay strong Ata ❤️ God is definitely going to bless you both❤
Sometimes I feel lonely 🥺 but obai nai. Nothing can fix my broken heart but I believe that one day God will. 😇
My suggestion to people:
To conceive a baby and deliver it healthy is a blessing from God. And especially to those parents who are anticipating for a very long time, doesn't matter if you are financially not stable. For few months [to the husband] before the delivery, please work harder and save as much money as possible and please travel to another city slowly and carefully ahead of time. Take the mother to another city with good facilities and doctors nurses. Because here in wka civil hospital, don't ever expect something good. Not ony this people but many have experienced such case in wka civil hsp.
Of course it's all God's plan but like our brother said, sometimes it's humans mistake.
Please don't take my message as misleading but take it as an awareness because baby delivery case is not a joke. It can cost both lives. I have come across such cases time and again that is why I'm concerned.
It doesn't happen to everyone I know...but why take risk right?
I have also lost my first daughter in 3 n half months but don't lost Hope our God is good all the times. Now m living happily with two daughters....
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Breaks my heart to hear your story.... Thank you for sharing this. Hopefully the system changes and those who have wronged you get their share too.
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Thank you both for sharing your family problem and this same problem happened in my family also but luckily we save our baby boy by the grace of God.
Take good care of him...May God bless your family 😇
After such a tragic story in your lives. No one would have ever figured out from the funny, entertaining and sweet content you always provide us. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Didi and Kokai.
Be strong always, no matter how much we doubt and try to find blame in ourselves and others. It's never seldom in God's greater plan. 😊😊 I want to extend my love and sympathy to you both.
Thank you brother 🙏
The hardest part is when you bury a loved one and the next is when you clean their grave. Time don't really heal and memories come flushing in. Take care of people when they face such situations ❤️
🥺 u spoke my mind 🤝
@chefZaren2024 If God wills it you still can have more children. My mom and dad also faced your situation with my elder bro. I was the answer to their prayer haha. May God bless your family.
I'm really sorry for your loss... I'm sure that your baby is in Heaven now. Stay strong 💪
Yes He is with God 😇
same story,, i too lost my first son in hospital ,,we r related in stories,,, dont lose hope,,its all God plan ,,after his death,,now thank God i have blessed with 3 children's.
😔😔 It's a Nightmare for us 😢 But hoping for the best in future 🙏
@@ChefZaren2024 yes I can feel the pain and anger u came accross,, lay everything to God hands and he will bless u beyond measures, God be with ur family. ❤️❤️❤️
Tell her to take 2 yrs gap between pregnancy...always take iron and calcium supplements before during and after pregnancy. Atleast 4 antenatal checkups and USG during pregnancy. Take care!! God bless you!!
Okay thank you 😊
Montok na hope aro b ejesu para blsng kore te po apne toi jun te gd wll blss u mre agn
Thank you 🙏
Humanity is very needed in our life ...as u say Everything happen for a Good reason ...Have faith in God !!
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One day or the other day,we all will perish for nothing.May our baby boy rest in eternal peace with our creator,the giver and sustainer of life to mankind.
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I can only imagine the depth of ur pain, but I want u to know that we see u , I hear u and we’re here for u ❤
Grief is not a sign of weakness , nor a lack of faith , it is the price love🫶
I have faith in God that everything will be fine one day 😇😇😇
I feel your pain dear brother, stay strong 💪
May God shower all the blessings upon your family. RIP💐 to small baby.😢
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Morom be laki Brother hoi le be montuk nakure be, God bless you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I feel so sad 😢 b strong god have a better plan for both of u.
My prayers that you recieve the joy of children soon
Thank you 🤝🥺
Sending lots of blessing upon you both. May God shower you with more happiness. RIP to our young brother
😇 Thank u so much 💓
Truth said brother....nurse khan bishi phutani thakie ....
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Yes brother this medicine it's called a cintosin if I not mistaken.this is only half n hour to fix in delivery time.
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Yes some nurses are very attitude.. even me i face while my delivery.
😢 kusa b lage sis
Ask and ye shall receive, nothing is impossible to God.🤗
Thank you 😊
The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away; stay strong, my dear classmate, I'll be upholding in prayer; God bless!
Thank you so much mate. ❤️❤️😇
Life is hard but our God is faithful! Be strong and Keep praying!Everything will be alright..❤❤
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Such story of yours or negligence of doctors at time of delivery at Civil hospital wokha happens a multiple times every year. I've came across & heard the same. (Lives is nothing to the doctor)
Much better to opt for private hospital in the near future.
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God bless you both ❤😊
Thank you 😊
Ah:(😢
Morom de bro
Eku nohoi like ur wife said everything happen for goods so its ok dont lose hope
Be strong ❤
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😢😢😢 RIP baby ...😢 may the lord bless you abundantly ❤
Thank u 💓
Some nurses are so rude... while i was in pain and so much in stress the nurse scolded me not to scream...she kept on scolding me that its not my first birth ...that does not make the pain less even though it was my third time...i had my third baby after 8 years and moreover i have so much health problem now....some are very very rudr
That's exactly what we faced... They scolded us so badly n then after our child was dead those evil Nurse vanished... They hide somewhere n never saw them... Not even a single hospital staff says sorry to us. 🥺 When I think of those evil staff face i seriously want to do something badly.... But as a Christian i control myself n I'm forgiving them .. coz once an elder men told me that real men never take revenge but They forgive...
O so sad it's okay God bless you again 😭 brother an sister 🙏🙏🙏
Thank u ❤️
God bless you both ❤❤❤
Thank u 💓
Hallo brother ton worry about child God will bless both ❤❤❤❤
Thank u 💓
Very heart breaking to hear the story but still long way to go so don't lost hope with god and keep cont... To pray always have faith in God ❤❤
Thank you so much 😊😇❤️
Unfortunately most of the medical workers in Nagaland ,their attitude is very unprofessional,as an aspiring medic the first thing that taught us in medical school or even nursing schools is professionalism and empathy . Nevertheless for the medication for induction cutoff is 6cm but also it depends on the condition of the mother ,some instances could be given earlier if she experience too much contraction pain .
So sorry for your loss ,Trust in gods plan brother ,may you’ll heal soon .
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I’m not crying 😪zaren be strong ❤️🩹😑🤝
😢 Thank you for understanding ❤️
This video make me crying😭Same here😭I have also lost my first daughter.. 😢1 and half months..oct.5 to September 28...2024 this year.. Still pain💔😭😭
😔😔😔 I can feel ur pain too 😔
Dear brother n my sis 😢😢😢 he is in heaven wit or dear lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Halaluyaaa Amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen ❤️
Bro it's damm broke 😞😞 but it's okk
Like ur wife said everything happened for a good reason ..... Bro good time will come ..
Good bless you n ur wife
Thank u bro 🙏 💙
God bless your family.
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Everything happens for good just don't lose hope God is there with you and forever know that I'm watching your videos from now on new subscriber stay blessed 🙏❤
Thank you so much 👍👍😊
Don't lose hope dear brother n sister ❣️🙏
Thank u 💓
Very strong family ❤ Sorry for the lost😢
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Hoi time napongja time te dikina duk hobole dialaka ase enaka vedio sai asede.hoilepi monduk nahobi jisu pra aru bless hobo le pratina thakibi.
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Ayaa so sad to hear please bro n sis dont worry one day god well bless both of you ❤
Hoping for the best 🤝😇
Worry not God will bless you again I can relate you guys and one suggestion here please go to phek hospital there are very very good nurses out there I feel for your wife so just saying if I can help this way I don't mean you have to follow what I suggest nways take care
Thank you for your advice.. next time we will make a good decision
New subscriber from mkg.🙏May God bless your family.🙏
Thank you so much 😇🥺
don't lose hope God is with you.
I'm trying 😪
He is in heaven 🙏🏻🙏🏻💖 wit our lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😭😭😭😭
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Im sorry that ..ur child is far away from ur home.but trust me god will give new life to ur child.reborn😊
😔 Thank u so much 💓
May god bless ur family with another baby boy❤
Thank you so much❤️
Feeling sad to hear your story.. ete metai doctor and nurses jiango okyak n mhom tai ka.. tolia potsow vanka, pani. Ete ha yingto n vanta na fight back e tssoka. Shiang etssoephyo shiang zesi elum e ntssohung.. mozu ji yuta n jam nte pio jina ngaro ji n khirhak cho ka😢 God bless you with another miracle 🙏
Hojina..Hoping... just wrong time. N only that they just lay down our son alone n they vanished..that breaks my heart too 😢
Everything temporary even mother earth temporary there's ending. ...sad story
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Sem se so sion rok pai se dy. ki ko re ty po na. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aya stay strong❤
Sure we will 😇
Jesus love little ones so your son is with Him,be blessed every day!
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New subscriber here🫰🫰🫰 sorry for the loss and may God bless both of you for your coming days🥳🥳🫰❤️🔥❤️🔥
Thank you so much 🙏😇
God bless you both & hope you have more beautiful children in the future.
Thank u 💓
Stay strong brother 💐 May God bless your family 🤝🎁
Thank you, I will❤️
Ayaaa dada dont lose hope everything will be okay 💝
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Sis you are so strong 💪 be strong always ❤❤❤❤❤
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New subscriber for your loving baby ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
Thank you so much 👍
Mon dukh nakoribe next time di eshor bara bless koripo ❤❤
Hopefully waiting for that 🙏
Mano laka country te asey koile keejane thik bara investigate kuribo Doctor & Nurses loko te.. hoile v kee expect kuribo na. Stay strong 💪
Yes exactly but that won't bring back my Baby. 😔
Very true too much attitude 😁😁😁 bcoz they thought that they are doing some high rank job 😂😂 but actually they are doing the maid job😂
Omg .. exactly same happened to me ite been two years
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In every govt. Health centres/Hospitals same condition.. I won't say most of them, but almost all female nurses are so rude and careless including doctors on duty.. So sorry for your lost brother..
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Ango which hospital you went hoo so that we will be awear and save life of someone life.
Can't mention but it's in Wokha
Brother you should have asked all of your queries from the doctor instead of asking from someone who have a little experienced about giving birth(we nagas tend to think that same treatment will be given to all of the delivery patient)NO....i'm not saying you're wrong........but then not every delivery is conducted in a same way....or given the same doses of medication, the delivery and preparation is done according to the case or the condition of mother and the baby....and regarding the nurses that had given your wife the medication that must be for an early stage of labor........ which is given as adviced by the doctor/physician before the delivery that is to avoid or minimize cervical dystocia leading to prolonged labor.....the nurses does not give any kinds of medication without doctor's prescription or until it's an emergency drug
(For the people that is commenting about NURSES)
Yes not all of the nurses have the same attitude....but there are times when the nurses lose patience and empathy as mostly in india nurses are considered as a slave instead of a professional caregiver
Not only some critisize the nurses but the nurses are to blame for everything that happened during their stay in a hospital as the nurses look after the patient 24/7
Rarely seen appreciating the nurses for their deeds🙂
Your little act can impact their attitude too🫠
Actually the baby was a normal delivery...but like I said the nurses gave the medicine at the wrong time .. we are also First time n we agreed to what the doc said.. but unluckily everything went wrong....
@@ChefZaren2024
Do not lose hope😇
May God's blessing be with your family...keep on spreading the love and smile you bought us through your content
Much love
@@oruniawungshi2151 thank you so much.. we will bring more good content in futures keep supporting us 🙏😇
Happened with one of my aunt at the same hospital last year too...
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God bless you and your family ❤
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Peace and love 😇🕊❤
Thank you 🙏😇
Just make me cry 🥹
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Stay strong it's all God's plan ❤❤❤
Sure😇
Point to be notice ....manu laga galti be ASA ....very true I see in many place in ngagland due to careless of doctor and nurse....mang child and mother were died during givingbirth
I saw with my own eyes, I can witness that without a second thought.. I can even case a file on them but that won't bring back my Son so I'm just keeping everything on God hand..
We learn after ve face .....wishing you advance happy newyear ahead ....and be strong and be a good husband to your beautiful wife
@@chonglungdayvlogs123 thank u and adv happy new year too
💔💔when i saw this it's hurt me again i lost my boy too 🙏🙏🙏
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New subscriber from Dimapur Yimkhiung community ❤🎉👍🏻🙏🏻
Thank u so much brother ❤️
Eko nohoi montuk nakuri p,Ami laka first baby p,Ena hova ase.pray Kora kihe motop kuri thakipoh tey.
Thank u so much 💓 😇
Stay strong …❤
Sure 😊
@@ChefZaren2024God Bless Ur Family ❤
Stay strong brother ❤
Thank u brother 🙏
I also nearly lost my wife n daughter... but luckily they both survived...it was medical negligence.... but also maybe it was God's will .
Idk what kinda people ask them to have a children so stupid yeah its their family they have their own personal reasons so stay away from this family
I like how you take up everything positivity it creates a good environment ❤❤❤❤
❤😭 sad to hear that brother
Don’t worry Our heavenly God will bless u🙏
lot of love and new subscriber from Anokpuam vlog
Thank u 💓
But it's ok ton worry 😢
Same to u bro
Potsow Lüm erung tona kyong Lüm erung jo echumpo ka, Lumbum tssonta vanta khe
*Potsow khi Ngaro sükhying nte mmhayilanthokvu ka*
Elumoto montso kaje ❤️
Private hospital na govt hospital ty chai sa
So sorry for your lose but that is clearly the negligence and unprofessional practice of the doctors and nurses. Wish we can know which hospital that was.
Wokha Civil hospital
Hoi hoo broo 😢😭😭hosa asa
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Maybe God has better plans for your family. So Never lose hope and keep doing good. Stay strong. 💯
Thank you so much 😊
Ntia ntsoka...tungratakhe pani poni potsow khi nini mhayitokvu ka ❤
Montso kana 😢
God bless you 😢
Thank u 💓
Ecclesiastes 3:- 1-10 ( Everything Has Its Time)
Dear, sister and brother, you have already face the dark time , Thou Shall Pass Away..
Have faith in God, God has a beautiful plan for both of you,there will be a " Tear's of Happiness, Joy and Fun " .. Always pray to God ,Good things takes time, and God plan is always perfect.
When pray become our habit Miracle become our life style.
😔 Thank you so much. 😇
Dear brother 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Halaluyaaa 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Amen
It's my 1st time in ur channel and I have subscribe it❤ God bless you and your family members
Thank u for subscribing 😇
😢god bless your family
Merry Christmas ❤
Thank u n merry Xmas u too 💓
New subscriber from z Jangri' s vlog ❤❤❤
Thank u 💓
Eku nahoi taikhan thik gam kuri se koi le phal. Aro jani jani kena olda gam kuri tesi koi le akjun laga life morai te toh jesus ketiya b khushe nahoi.. Apni jun future phal hubole rasta khule bole karni manu ke map kuri tebe.. Jesu nam pura
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Ayaaa so sad ho 😢😢😢
Yes 🥲