Raising Resilient Kids with Angela Duckworth | A Bit of Optimism with Simon Sinek: Episode 35
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มิ.ย. 2021
- With unprecedented levels of stress and depression amongst young people, I wanted to know what we, as an older generation can do to help. So I talked to psychologist, professor at the University of Pennsylvania and author of Grit, Angela Duckworth.
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Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.
Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.
Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.
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I like Simon, but here (especially in the first 10 minutes) I thought he came across like all he wanted was for Angela to agree with things he’s well known for saying, and I thought it was a little ironic to talk about people (“the country”) not listening to each other, immediately after he talked over Angela, changed topic, and stopped her from making the point she was trying to make (at the 9:30 mark)
Agreed, that rubbed me the wrong way a bit. Seemed like he jumped directly into "I'm right, help me show everyone why I'm right", rather than listen to an actual expert.
Everyone wants people to agree with them. I think he speaks this way because he respects Angela and he expects people to speak up if they disagree just like Simon is happy to do.
I grew up on a horse/cow farm- it’s the sole reason I attribute my ability to dig deep, find a way over every obstacle especially because my work at the very foundation gave the animals a quality of life.
Building mental toughness is as important as going to the gym and exercising. I heard that comfort does not make us truly happy. Yes in the moment there is the illusion of happiness, but longterm not getting outside our comfort zone makes us feel unfulfilled, empty, guilty, a lack of significance and purpose. We must constantly test ourselves in some capacity. For everyone the level will be different. Tough minds are prepared for tough decisions and situations. I encourage people to exercise their mental fortitude daily. Never stop.
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Love your work, Simon. Disappointed that you interrupted Angela so much.
Angela wasn't even saying anything worthwhile to listen to........Simon is always a party-pooper too
Yep, had the same feeling
@@stevelee_gamedev You are the one talking about design 🤣🤣🤣
@@manujohn99 I like and appreciate both of them and thought they both had something valuable to say. We can't always like everything:)
@@bespokenOxford They never have anything valuable to say at all😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Amazing Podcast...thank you Simon!!!!!
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Thanks for the message of positivity. 👌🏼
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Simon, I love your thoughts and insights, but in this episode it felt like you were talking more than you should have been listening. I was here to listen to your questions and Angela's answers. But I kept hearing your answers and Angela's 'hmm yeah, I see'.
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I thought it was pretty ironic that around the nine minute mark Simon interrupts Duckworth to make the point that we are not very good at listening . . .
Great Pod loved it!
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Oh! Superb! 💖
Simon, it's called 'brainstorming', right?
It's not called 'brainsunshine', - and you're both a very awesome at it! 💕
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Advice-giving helps the giver... I agree!
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The story about your cousin looking at you before deciding on his response to falling is so relatable 😅
I teach dance to children 6 and over and they do the exact same thing... they'll be playing during breaktime, fall and then look at me before deciding whether to cry or continue playing with their friends 😂 Most will keep playing, but some get very confused when all I say is "careful, the floor won't move when you fall over and it's pretty hard."
Except for one kid... she bumped her knee one time when the parents hadn't even finished dropping off their kids yet, but despite there being many eyes no-one had seen it happen... She came over to me, claiming her knee hurt. It wasn't scraped, bruised, red or in any way clear that she'd hurt it, but I've seen people with a broken leg limp less than this kid! She shouldn't be in dance, she should be in acting for that performance 😂 Because she was limping so bad I did sit her down and checked for any potential injuries just to be completely sure, but she was fine as expected. I'm still not entirely sure if she truly bumped her knee somewhere, or made it up for attention, but I also feel I can't take that risk even if I know the child well. I'm not the type to run over and pick them up before anything happened, but if they claim to be hurt even if they seem fine I will check. This way I'm sure to find out if something is actually wrong and if not I'll have avoided an angry parent 🙃
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Why is he always interrupting her 😤 he's the one always talking about how important it is to listen to people. But in this interview it seems like it is more important to him to be right than to hear her point of view.
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When someone is invited to speak, the host should be more of a listener and not interrupting what Angela has to say.
“Don’t limit your challenges. Challenge your limits.” Sharing some love from small TH-camr
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Hi Simon. I'm one of your bigger fan, I want to thank you for your great work. Can i ask a little help to you? Can you activate subtitle on your video? It's an automatic service of youtube. It could be really helpful for people like me that trying to follow you here (i'm Italian) . Thanks in advance. Claudio Gualtieri
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Thanks
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A man that can not eat from the sources' table of life and also suffer, endure, have character and hope will continue to ask for the wrong thing like I did in the past. It took a pandemic to learn how to change one to appease the one I do not see but keeps me alive via the parables of the Holy Bible.
Does anyone also really like his intro music? What genre of music is that?
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Motivation=beter future to kids :D
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I thought it was pretty ironic that around the nine minute mark Simon interrupts Duckworth to make the point that we are not very good at listening . . .
It looks like as if Angela is interviewing Simon. Lol
Naah.... It looks like they are talking about aliens on Jupiter
I like Simon too but he didnt let Angela talk at all! Kept talking over her and didnt let her finish sentences.
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Why can't doctor's prove a point without the phrase " and all bla bla will agree with me " to prop up an opinion they have?
It's the principle of science not to take credit from someone else's work - so, actually, - they kind of have to mention it - if they know it. That's like rules of 'being part of academic field' - and it's those peoples lifelyhood. It brings food on their table - so why to risk it, - for an argument?
Wow
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Hi! I recommend that to put down the naiive thinking that like public transportation inside big cities would be something like 'stenghtening experience'.
I have use it a lot, and it's sad, what I have seen. I am not a first or the second to get victimised, but mostly like most of the girls end upp going the wrong seats in front, - for the headphones on -, maybe to not get victimised so easily from some idiot who is going to sit next to. It's sad, and I live in a smart city, in a very smart country. The front seets are for elderly and disabled - ment for.
You can't really be 100 % sure, on what you sit in, the seats, - but you have to take the 'superposition' - the seat that is best available.
And you don't need more than one a 'black hole' -passenger, to among many, to ruin maybe some part of your day. 💞
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Thank you Simon. This hits home to me. I got goosebumps from this podcast. It makes sense of why I encounter myself where I am and even explains my why.
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I love grit survival, nature versus nurture. There are also root cause factors we generationally take on and can then pass onto our kids that must be considered & the boy/girl factors 😊👍
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although i agree with a lot of what was said in this episode i cant help but thinking that FLW is not the best person to look to for relationship advice and was fairly selfish.
Yes, Miss Angela probably didn't even know that one of her German National Soccer Team players has invested in a SPAC listed on NASDAQ in San Francisco and another one launched a VC fund in San Francisco and another one meant to take over as coach a soccer management company on the US east coast. And she probably still thinks that Evans is the only sports marketing company on the planet and doesn't have any competitors that worked with freelancers for European soccer leagues and world cups. etc.etc. etc.
This one didn't resonate well for me because there were many statements made as factual without data to back them up. For example, what is the data showing the degree to which the younger generation has less grit? What about the % of parents that ask their child's employer about a promotion? How do you measure whether a child is coddled or not? What % parents then coddle? Last, is coddling a correlation or causation of higher levels of anxiety, depression or (God forbid) suicide? I didn't get a bit of optimism in this one however I appreciate the effort.
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Did I get that correctly? ABBA is harassing me? I didn't even know that they were still alive?
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Well sure Angela , but I feel we should get to know each other first.
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I felt a lot of tension in this conversation. Interesting topic but just felt a little uncomfortable listening to the conversation.
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My god, stop interrupting her!
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No, it was Columbine. Columbine scared parents enough to buy all of their children new iPhones. Before that, parents had some level of modicum in understanding not every 7 year old needed access to the grid.
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First here,
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the best and worst Grits are found in Waffle House
I m your special lover simon
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I feel a large portion is over-protection/over parenting. Let them earn some scars. They will be good reminders of how tough they actually are, and dont do dumb shit. Keep them away from the real dangers, by setting a good example
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You guys reallyyyy wanna know who Simon Sinek is???
The Jews fast 5 times a year and they are very smart and knowledgeable with it too. No wonder they come up with mindsets do hard to grasps by the normal or average mind.
Yep. The religion system of jewismish - I don't think I know the right word - is very admirable. It's based on infinite game - not to be victims - to be smart survivors.
Christianity is in some way - to my opinion - some way lenghtening the way the Roman society constructed.
To strenghten that kind of way of living.
One of the only podcasts in this series I did not like. The interruptions. Talking very fast. Lacking clarity. I think the mindset that you must work weekends etc is such a USA flaw.
So I find that this misses the point.... Grit is great no doubt but Simon making kids do things and fail isn't life changing. It can be annoying A*. Why? Because perhaps details aren't their thing and you want them to do a detailed thing. Perhaps watch The Blind Side. The answer screams from within.
Wer hat das Referat bestellt?
Will er schon wieder etwas verkaufen?
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Der Dauerkicherer.
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This world is always hopeless no matter how much Simon rams into our heads that its hopeful.
Heyyy I got a like, somebody out there agrees with me
We are all gonna die anyway so why not make it fast😁😁😂🤣
Shut up and let her speak Simon
Duck-face Angela 😁😁😆
What's wrong with you, can ya just stop giving those comments of yours. if you're not interested just don't watch it.
@@syedamusfikarahman1619 I will stop watching after he stops making these crack videos
@J H No I don't hate Simon, if I hate him why would I watch his videos.........its dumb to consider that I hate him
If you kind of would hate him, it would be actually reasonable then also watch his videos too. But I like him as well! A suberb thinker - easy and pleasent to follow his argumentation!
If you would hate him, by observing what he says you could form an argument against him 😆
@@mietonen You are a genius is only what I can say to you 🤭🤭😆🤣🤣
Come onn Simon, stop making people madddd & get on with your regular life of never talking with people