When I first came to the U.S. I stayed with my aunt, my mother's youngest sister & her family..Everything was fine at first then the abuse started after about one month..I packed my bags & left that house..I've been on my own since that day..Today I own my own house & I've been living in the US for 55 years.
I met a woman woman who told me that she sister filed for her and after a while the sister told her to get a job and help her with a few dollars per month.The lady said before she give her sister a dime she would prefer to move out and pay rent.I think she i ungrateful and grudge full.Although you are responsible for them when you file for them they should use their conscience to know the bills are high, very expensive so getting a job and contributing to finance something should be your be your consideration.If I should relive my life I would never file for anyone from Jamaica especially the ones who don't want to do 9 to 5 jobs.It hurts to freeze in the cold while they lie in bed and enjoy everything believing that you are to provide everything for them and while you have to support them.Cant turn back the clock.Try help and they help you down.So, don't criticize when people don't want to file for anyone because of what they have to endure with the responsibility of maintaining those who bent on only getting handouts and doing other things.
There is two sides to a story. .. I took in someone and i had to put them out. ..Tgey made my life hell. They disrespected my space. They never helped with cleaning or anything. I got sick and this person bought food and ate and never offered me a bite. Most people are ungrateful.I have learned not to take sides until i hear both sides.. You would not believe how evil some of these guest are. .. They won’t help saying it’s not their house . This lady not staying with her children is a reg flag. She is the problem. After not one but several bad experiences i will never take anyone in again. . i would rather give them money but nobody living with me again.
@@maxinew7201 I say the same thing, I met my deceased uncle wife sister who is not related to me. Her mother in law invited her to came to London as a visitor she was meant to be going back to Jamaica anyway she came to visit her sister who lives in Catford on her way back she claimed she missed her bus or train back to Redhood. I cannot remember how she got to my house but she did but I believe she was told I always help people, anyway I let her stay over for the night then she said she didn't want to go back to her mother in laws house. I didn't ask her why she told me that she sew so I took her somewhere and she got a job. I noticed when she got payed she bought her stuffs and hid it. In my home from the moment you are there you are not a stranger whether I know you or not I don't believe in hiding food because my mother used to feed a whole yard of people back home. Anyone wants food, clothes or money they were directed to our home. My little who was in secondary school son ever gave her a money card she could use and she didn't even give him back his money. He went off to university and now just the two of us in the house. One day I asked her to change the quilt cover she used for herself and she replied a wey yuh a sey I couldn't believe my ear I turned to her and asked her to leave. Now she telling me I'm not a Christian well I told to leave because it's now she decided I am not a Christian. Yes, I a Christian and a Seventh-Day Adventist baptised since 1971 at age 12. I can tell lots of stories about family who be band. Thanks, I came to the UK on my own apply to go to university got through only spent six months at my primary school house had no problems. I went to school work and sort out myself never paid thousands of pounds to stay in the UK because I did things right. I read a lot love law and politics and got involved from I was in Jamaica. The only money I paid was £100 to have my documents in the Home Office and that's it My reason for sharing this story is because sometimes people you put up can be very disrespectful as well. Maybe she was told I alway help people with immigration as well which I used to do but no longer. Can't bother with our own people.
Some people don’t carry nothing, they come long hand not even a peg of breadfruit I still can’t believe it and just a use out u tins and not like you have like that yourself a struggle. Dem don’t have any conscience. You will try but it is going to take it toll, yes
You are giving good advise. Most of us in Jamaica grew up with certain values and although we instill those values in our children they might not live by them. The world is changing, people do things differently. Do not go to your children's home and tell them how to live. Grin and bear it and sort yourself out.
My mother came to America and stayed with my sister and her husband. My mother was very domineering and tried to treat my sister as if she was still a child. Eventually, my sister’s husband asked me to take my mother in which I did. My mother was not happy about it, even when I tried to explain my sister was an adult, not a child. About ten years later I was talking to a relative in Jamaica and the subject of my mother’s visit to America came up. “Oh” my cousin said. “Is that the time when your sister threw her mother out of her house?”
I agree with you 💯 percent DONNA is not everyone treat other persons like how they should be treated they will say yes come and stay with me but sometimes as a week pass or put it say a month them don't want you there anymore so we should not follow there advise telling you to come live with them that's a no no I agree with you my sister blessings continually
My son file for me and when I came here my daughter in-law treat me so badly GOD show me in a dream the things that my daughter-in-law would do to me it did happen I cry Everyday my other son came for me I got a job to live in now I am on my own I for gave her we are good friends now some times is the in-laws is the problem my church sister go true the same problem with her daughter husband she have to leave and go on her own I would never live with any in-laws again don’t matter how thay show u good face but it don’t last long thay don’t want u in their home it takes A God dareingab person to do it
Its good to hear the children side of the story....,Some thing is wrong. People also should be careful taking in people in there home .. family or friend.
You are correct to say you would like to hear the children side of the story, they too can be the problem. Lots of children treat their parents differently when they are here and some friends and family or relatives change and that a fact.
That is a fact after the breadfruit and ackee and bammy finish some family an friend start to show you bad face..Thank God for my sister that filed for me and my daughter ,she put my daughter in school it took me 2 years before I got my first job no bad bad face was shown at all.We live with her for 8 years until her daughter sell the house and move to another County two hours away. God bless her we are a closely knit family.
We all go through it and I have people staying with me upon till now it’s over 11 years. Guess what they told me I’m one of the good ones. They said I made them comfortable and I try treat every one like family .
@@abegailgordon5680see i know because it's on the immigration paper. When I was doing it for my sister, I saw it. Just didn't remember how long it was.
I believe it's two side to a story. Most time people will not put someone out just like that. She even couldn't stay with her children, that is telling me something doesn't sit right with her. Also, reason why some people don't bring people in their house, because when you want them to go, because of some law. Heck no.
It’s not only that why some people don’t bring people to their home. It’s both ways if you hear what family do to their own at times you wouldn’t believe. Sometimes the little money you earn when you’re not supposed to working they take it away, if you buy clothes they bad mind you.
@@vernamurray1161 Well it all depends. If she goes to her adult children home trying to take over, disrespecting them and thinking they are still small kids, yes it is going to cause big problems. My mother visited our home and started disrespecting my husband and grown children and immediately, I had to put a stop to her nonsense. Fortunately, she got the message very quick, so she stayed the length of her time.
That is one side of the story. I wonder why the friend asked her to leave. I have a family member that let her relative come up stay with her. She lives with her husband and her kids. My family told her she does not need to contribute and focus on getting herself together. Well, she did not clean after herself, did not respect her and husband's rules in the house. Bring an old flame to the house when my cousin and her family was out after they asked her not to invite strangers to their home. After six months, she asked her to leave. So, I am interested in friends's side. She probably came and disturb the friend's peace.
Some family and friends turn out their guests here all the time after a few weeks when you come here. So when you come to a person and family you should thank God. Also coming on a visitor visa you won’t find jobs easier in the past you could go to the bus stop early morning and see people on their way to early morning job ask questions they take you with them and you get a cash in hand jobs. That’s over thirty five years ago.
Something is wrong. Maybe she wasn't giving her Friend any money. I have people in my house that was only introduced to me and I treated them well until they went back to JA and come back. I provided everything for them to eat. If they weren't here my bill would be paid. I'm an independent Woman. I grew up and saw my parents show kindness to people so we all do the same. Some.people are too hard to get along with. .
Your friend knows she couldn't contribute, so she pulled her weight. People like her, you will and must appreciate. She didn't feel entitled, she appreciates and ❤ you ,like you, did her . She knows how to show gratitude 🙏
Im living in jamaica and i remember the first time i went into the states on vacation. I currently run a small business and doing ok and decided to do a 3 weeks because i havent seen my aunts for years since i was 16 and i was just turning 35 and she begged me to stay more time with them. I ensured im up every morning bright and early as 4am and i tidy her house and do her and her kids laundry and prepare meals,for them. My aunt wasnt satisfied and made my first time my worst time by trying to trap me in her home to take care of her kids, to verbally abusing me, having her friends (male) come by insulting and disrespecting me and god knows what else. Heck, its still cold in April when i came and this woman proceeded to turn on the air conditioning everyday - passwording it leaving me to freeze inside all day. I bided my time, changed my ticket date and when she on her way out to work leaving her kids on me my taxi is outside waiting to take me to the airport😂😂😂... i never went back to her home. If this was just vacation, imagine if i was staying? Some people are judt plain cruel, while others are simply continuing the cycle of it being done to them so they can do the same to others because this is how it is a foreign. Foreign dont change people either it just give them the oppertunity to show you what kind of people they truly were. Ive heard so many horror movies about people being ill treated and abused abroad by thier own families and i always was the one to say no not my family because other family members of mine always travel and never had these issues. Im ashamed to say that i did😢..
I went on a vacation to spend a month with my expected husband and his sister was living with him. After a week there she started to show me bad attitudes. It was so bad. I leave before the month finish and come back to ja
No law says that you are responsible for the person you sponsor; you need to meet the requirements, but after that threshold, it is a moral responsibility. You have a chance to sink or swim because if your sponsor's circumstances change, they can report that they are no longer able to continue, and they can choose to stay or go. Life has no guarantee
Great point, but let’s be for real here. It takes time for a person to get on their feet in 🇺🇸. You have to find your footing. Treating someone like that is awful. Just my two cents❤
Sometimes, the mothers want to run the children's lives. Sometimes, you file for relatives and they expect a palace life, and perhaps, you dont own a home but you are paying rent for a tiny apartment, and your relative comes and is disappointed. The next thing they do is call their friend, telling them your business instead of being grateful you help them to help themselves. First of all, America is not a rose garden. Me no want nobody in my house. Only one person can come and stay in my house, is my sister in England. Me no want nobody else inna me place. Me stop file for people. People are too fickle. Before they come, they are on their best behavior, but afterward, hhhhhhmmmm.
New subscriber. My opinion do what is required till you work the system out most 8:02 Carribeans don understand what it takes to survive overseas. No papers no recourse ...
Something went wrong after she came to America with this lady and her family so is two sides of a story genuine family will kindly accept you in the home until you make yourself through
Two sides to every story. She said her children did not treat her well shes the common demoninater. She has ways about her that bothers people. Why she did not put her children on social media. When they come here they still have that same Jamsican mentality.
My mom sent for me, my dad and my two sisters to stay with a family member, We stayed for 5 years until My parents get a home, thank God I never stay with friends, but this is a good lesson to learn
Amen and that is awesome because you get to build yourself but not every children have that foundation we have to thank God when we leave our country and come here and we don’t go through these things
@@Itsdonnamarie if carribeans speak the truth why they care going foreign most wouldn't go. They are broke and sometimes no way of surviving. What happens when it snows. Ha ha ha
You are a real woman, I can see that. Very sensible talk and I believe you. Those things always happen, some people a dutty people until you really find them out.
You are right, that wasn’t a smart move to leave family and go to friend. But just don’t burden family, try to uplift yourself to acquire your own. You have good intentions there. Not many know that coming here it takes a lot struggle and difficulties before reaching somewhere. No hands out but hard work. Everyone here has a ugly story. But one day you can look back and laugh.
5:09 Your friend was considerate. She realized that after a days work you would appreciate a little help. Not everybody knows how to be a good guest and help where they can. Farrin is not like J'ca where you might a have a helper to assist. You better get ready to work out yu soul case outside and come home and do the same again. As to the lady not being "comfortable" with her children. Maybe she was "sitting on her hands" and not even helping out a little. Maybe that was the same reason the friend "put her out".
Donna, you may delete my comment but I want to be honest it’s up to you. I have live here in the UK for over thirty five years and what you are saying about finding jobs and lots of what you are saying is easier to say than done. You know what I am saying and I leave it at that.
And I won’t delete your comment you have your point it is not easy the US and everything is online Sometimes when you go to the store here they are you without your documents, the restaurant and etc. you will get work
The filing person is responsible yes, but no one is putting up with a grateful person. You put up some family members and then want to fight with you physically, emotionally and mentally.
A real thank that is exactly how we , is true because I know her she leave her children home and go stay with friend and less than amonth friend her to leave
Wow! what, that's what a lot of people don't understand you put in effort living here to make yourself better and when they come, they make you uncomfortable too. They have to understand That it can do things to make you uncomfortable in your own home
Seem like this lady has issues to leave her children to stay with a friend shows that she is not easy to get along with. The fact that the lady did not want her to contribute shows that she was not after her money which leads me to believe that this lady cannot live with anyone. Maybe she's chatting the lady business and word got back to her.
You talk the truth sistren. First & foremost invest in yourself. never rely on anyone, things can change so quickly and its never good to depend on others. fix up yuhself first. work with this in mind.
But she just came. Her hands are tired. Her kids are horrible to make her uncomfortable. Maybe they have men sleeping over I the same room . I used to heart my ex-husband daughter having see I her room. I pray God open a way soon for her, and those same kids gonna come back come borrow money from her
Ok i got to hear part2 I dont blame the children. Because ah dem send fe her . Now its gone pear shape .now she wat de pickeny noir wah fe no Dat ah fe her problem😂
I think she went to her friend thinking it was greener on the other side. But ting nuh work out and Den she go back to her children she burn her bushes. 😮
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When I first came to the U.S. I stayed with my aunt, my mother's youngest sister & her family..Everything was fine at first then the abuse started after about one month..I packed my bags & left that house..I've been on my own since that day..Today I own my own house & I've been living in the US for 55 years.
Wow wow wow thank you for sharing I am still learning🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💚💛
I met a woman woman who told me that she sister filed for her and after a while the sister told her to get a job and help her with a few dollars per month.The lady said before she give her sister a dime she would prefer to move out and pay rent.I think she i ungrateful and grudge full.Although you are responsible for them when you file for them they should use their conscience to know the bills are high, very expensive so getting a job and contributing to finance something should be your be your consideration.If I should relive my life I would never file for anyone from Jamaica especially the ones who don't want to do 9 to 5 jobs.It hurts to freeze in the cold while they lie in bed and enjoy everything believing that you are to provide everything for them and while you have to support them.Cant turn back the clock.Try help and they help you down.So, don't criticize when people don't want to file for anyone because of what they have to endure with the responsibility of maintaining those who bent on only getting handouts and doing other things.
There is two sides to a story. .. I took in someone and i had to put them out. ..Tgey made my life hell. They disrespected my space. They never helped with cleaning or anything. I got sick and this person bought food and ate and never offered me a bite. Most people are ungrateful.I have learned not to take sides until i hear both sides.. You would not believe how evil some of these guest are. .. They won’t help saying it’s not their house . This lady not staying with her children is a reg flag. She is the problem. After not one but several bad experiences i will never take anyone in again. . i would rather give them money but nobody living with me again.
Wow
@@maxinew7201 I say the same thing, I met my deceased uncle wife sister who is not related to me. Her mother in law invited her to came to London as a visitor she was meant to be going back to Jamaica anyway she came to visit her sister who lives in Catford on her way back she claimed she missed her bus or train back to Redhood. I cannot remember how she got to my house but she did but I believe she was told I always help people, anyway I let her stay over for the night then she said she didn't want to go back to her mother in laws house. I didn't ask her why she told me that she sew so I took her somewhere and she got a job. I noticed when she got payed she bought her stuffs and hid it. In my home from the moment you are there you are not a stranger whether I know you or not I don't believe in hiding food because my mother used to feed a whole yard of people back home. Anyone wants food, clothes or money they were directed to our home. My little who was in secondary school son ever gave her a money card she could use and she didn't even give him back his money. He went off to university and now just the two of us in the house. One day I asked her to change the quilt cover she used for herself and she replied a wey yuh a sey I couldn't believe my ear I turned to her and asked her to leave. Now she telling me I'm not a Christian well I told to leave because it's now she decided I am not a Christian. Yes, I a Christian and a Seventh-Day Adventist baptised since 1971 at age 12. I can tell lots of stories about family who be band. Thanks, I came to the UK on my own apply to go to university got through only spent six months at my primary school house had no problems. I went to school work and sort out myself never paid thousands of pounds to stay in the UK because I did things right. I read a lot love law and politics and got involved from I was in Jamaica. The only money I paid was £100 to have my documents in the Home Office and that's it
My reason for sharing this story is because sometimes people you put up can be very disrespectful as well. Maybe she was told I alway help people with immigration as well which I used to do but no longer. Can't bother with our own people.
Jamaicans who immigrate abroad must remember the saying: “As soon as the cake and fish you carry fi dem done, it’s time for you to leave”
Lol
Some people don’t carry nothing, they come long hand not even a peg of breadfruit I still can’t believe it and just a use out u tins and not like you have like that yourself a struggle. Dem don’t have any conscience. You will try but it is going to take it toll, yes
You are giving good advise. Most of us in Jamaica grew up with certain values and although we instill those values in our children they might not live by them. The world is changing, people do things differently. Do not go to your children's home and tell them how to live. Grin and bear it and sort yourself out.
That's right
@@Yvonne-xm2cn why do grown women uproot themselves to go foreign. What are they giving up. Make it make sense.
My mother came to America and stayed with my sister and her husband. My mother was very domineering and tried to treat my sister as if she was still a child. Eventually, my sister’s husband asked me to take my mother in which I did. My mother was not happy about it, even when I tried to explain my sister was an adult, not a child. About ten years later I was talking to a relative in Jamaica and the subject of my mother’s visit to America came up. “Oh” my cousin said. “Is that the time when your sister threw her mother out of her house?”
@ wow thank you for sharing this Queen
I agree with you 💯 percent DONNA is not everyone treat other persons like how they should be treated they will say yes come and stay with me but sometimes as a week pass or put it say a month them don't want you there anymore so we should not follow there advise telling you to come live with them that's a no no I agree with you my sister blessings continually
My son file for me and when I came here my daughter in-law treat me so badly GOD show me in a dream the things that my daughter-in-law would do to me it did happen I cry Everyday my other son came for me I got a job to live in now I am on my own I for gave her we are good friends now some times is the in-laws is the problem my church sister go true the same problem with her daughter husband she have to leave and go on her own I would never live with any in-laws again don’t matter how thay show u good face but it don’t last long thay don’t want u in their home it takes A God dareingab person to do it
Wow so sorry to hear that but God a God
@@lornajackson8553 the daughter in law knows as a woman the mother can see things there son won't that's why they don't want us to be around
Its good to hear the children side of the story....,Some thing is wrong. People also should be careful taking in people in there home .. family or friend.
You are correct to say you would like to hear the children side of the story, they too can be the problem. Lots of children treat their parents differently when they are here and some friends and family or relatives change and that a fact.
Right
Right
That is a fact after the breadfruit and ackee and bammy finish some family an friend start to show you bad face..Thank God for my sister that filed for me and my daughter ,she put my daughter in school it took me 2 years before I got my first job no bad bad face was shown at all.We live with her for 8 years until her daughter sell the house and move to another County two hours away. God bless her we are a closely knit family.
@ lol
Something wrong
It’s not easy to take ppl in your place
Ppl have their lifestyle
Right she should stay with her family.
We all go through it and I have people staying with me upon till now it’s over 11 years. Guess what they told me I’m one of the good ones. They said I made them comfortable and I try treat every one like family .
That's right, with all you hearing out there now mek u don't want to do it anymore 🤔
If your children file for you, why run away from them? Something not adding up.
Right that’s what I was saying to, but I just learned that it was The in law who made her uncomfortable
They responsible for yu for ten years
@@abegailgordon5680see i know because it's on the immigration paper. When I was doing it for my sister, I saw it. Just didn't remember how long it was.
I believe it's two side to a story. Most time people will not put someone out just like that. She even couldn't stay with her children, that is telling me something doesn't sit right with her. Also, reason why some people don't bring people in their house, because when you want them to go, because of some law. Heck no.
It’s not only that why some people don’t bring people to their home. It’s both ways if you hear what family do to their own at times you wouldn’t believe. Sometimes the little money you earn when you’re not supposed to working they take it away, if you buy clothes they bad mind you.
@@PrioryCampion Very true.
Nope, these kids are different, and friends nuh exist in America
@@vernamurray1161 Well it all depends. If she goes to her adult children home trying to take over, disrespecting them and thinking they are still small kids, yes it is going to cause big problems. My mother visited our home and started disrespecting my husband and grown children and immediately, I had to put a stop to her nonsense. Fortunately, she got the message very quick, so she stayed the length of her time.
That is one side of the story. I wonder why the friend asked her to leave. I have a family
member that let her relative come up stay with her. She lives with her husband and her kids.
My family told her she does not need to contribute and focus on getting herself together. Well, she did not clean after herself, did not respect her and husband's rules in the house. Bring an old flame to the house when my cousin and her family was out after they asked her not to invite strangers to their home. After six months, she asked her to leave. So, I am interested in friends's side. She probably came and disturb the friend's peace.
Omg I am going to do a video with the story
Right
Same question me an ask to, not adding up.
Some family and friends turn out their guests here all the time after a few weeks when you come here. So when you come to a person and family you should thank God. Also coming on a visitor visa you won’t find jobs easier in the past you could go to the bus stop early morning and see people on their way to early morning job ask questions they take you with them and you get a cash in hand jobs. That’s over thirty five years ago.
Wow wow
Good feh arr....family first no matter what....so call frenz dem get jeolous quick
Something is wrong. Maybe she wasn't giving her Friend any money. I have people in my house that was only introduced to me and I treated them well until they went back to JA and come back. I provided everything for them to eat. If they weren't here my bill would be paid. I'm an independent Woman. I grew up and saw my parents show kindness to people so we all do the same. Some.people are too hard to get along with.
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💛💚💛💚 thank you so much for sharing because this girl say it not everyone is the same. I appreciate you.
Your friend knows she couldn't contribute, so she pulled her weight. People like her, you will and must appreciate. She didn't feel entitled, she appreciates and ❤ you ,like you, did her . She knows how to show gratitude 🙏
Oh yeah 💯💯
Im living in jamaica and i remember the first time i went into the states on vacation. I currently run a small business and doing ok and decided to do a 3 weeks because i havent seen my aunts for years since i was 16 and i was just turning 35 and she begged me to stay more time with them.
I ensured im up every morning bright and early as 4am and i tidy her house and do her and her kids laundry and prepare meals,for them. My aunt wasnt satisfied and made my first time my worst time by trying to trap me in her home to take care of her kids, to verbally abusing me, having her friends (male) come by insulting and disrespecting me and god knows what else. Heck, its still cold in April when i came and this woman proceeded to turn on the air conditioning everyday - passwording it leaving me to freeze inside all day. I bided my time, changed my ticket date and when she on her way out to work leaving her kids on me my taxi is outside waiting to take me to the airport😂😂😂... i never went back to her home. If this was just vacation, imagine if i was staying?
Some people are judt plain cruel, while others are simply continuing the cycle of it being done to them so they can do the same to others because this is how it is a foreign. Foreign dont change people either it just give them the oppertunity to show you what kind of people they truly were. Ive heard so many horror movies about people being ill treated and abused abroad by thier own families and i always was the one to say no not my family because other family members of mine always travel and never had these issues. Im ashamed to say that i did😢..
Oh my God wow thank you so much for sharing this wow
Yes. We worked. We stayed with family for 4 months worked, contributing to the expenses and then found our own apartment.
Right Amen
Maybe the friend found out she might have to take her to court to get her out
So if de friend put she out. Why she noir go by she kids and she family dem. Sum ting noir sound rgt . Days al me, ah say😢
OK, she wanted to go back there, but her children wasn’t answering her it was in law who made her uncomfortable there
I went on a vacation to spend a month with my expected husband and his sister was living with him. After a week there she started to show me bad attitudes. It was so bad. I leave before the month finish and come back to ja
No law says that you are responsible for the person you sponsor; you need to meet the requirements, but after that threshold, it is a moral responsibility. You have a chance to sink or swim because if your sponsor's circumstances change, they can report that they are no longer able to continue, and they can choose to stay or go. Life has no guarantee
@maxineadderley5378 well you have your point. But at the same time, you are responsible for them for some time. I don't know exactly how long
Great point, but let’s be for real here. It takes time for a person to get on their feet in 🇺🇸. You have to find your footing. Treating someone like that is awful. Just my two cents❤
@dalleshaful thank you Queen 💚 💛
@@Itsdonnamarie ☺️💗your welcome Queen
Sometimes, the mothers want to run the children's lives. Sometimes, you file for relatives and they expect a palace life, and perhaps, you dont own a home but you are paying rent for a tiny apartment, and your relative comes and is disappointed. The next thing they do is call their friend, telling them your business instead of being grateful you help them to help themselves.
First of all, America is not a rose garden. Me no want nobody in my house. Only one person can come and stay in my house, is my sister in England. Me no want nobody else inna me place. Me stop file for people. People are too fickle. Before they come, they are on their best behavior, but afterward, hhhhhhmmmm.
Right that’s right definitely happening
New subscriber. My opinion do what is required till you work the system out most 8:02 Carribeans don understand what it takes to survive overseas. No papers no recourse ...
@@yvettekinchking8838 Amen
@yvettekinchking8838 thank you 💛💚
She was filed for by her kids isn't that so?
Thank you guys for your support ❤
Something went wrong after she came to America with this lady and her family so is two sides of a story genuine family will kindly accept you in the home until you make yourself through
That turned but sometimes it really not them I’m telling
Two sides to every story. She said her children did not treat her well shes the common demoninater. She has ways about her that bothers people. Why she did not put her children on social media. When they come here they still have that same Jamsican mentality.
See me and live with me is two different things
My mom sent for me, my dad and my two sisters to stay with a family member, We stayed for 5 years until My parents get a home, thank God I never stay with friends, but this is a good lesson to learn
Amen and that is awesome because you get to build yourself but not every children have that foundation we have to thank God when we leave our country and come here and we don’t go through these things
@@Itsdonnamarie if carribeans speak the truth why they care going foreign most wouldn't go. They are broke and sometimes no way of surviving. What happens when it snows. Ha ha ha
You are a real woman, I can see that. Very sensible talk and I believe you.
Those things always happen, some people a dutty people until you really find them out.
That’s true thank you. But we really need to come together and not be so divided
@Itsdonnamarie that will never happen especially in the blk community, even though you do have few exceptions
@Wiser-z5g right
You are right, that wasn’t a smart move to leave family and go to friend. But just don’t burden family, try to uplift yourself to acquire your own. You have good intentions there. Not many know that coming here it takes a lot struggle and difficulties before reaching somewhere. No hands out but hard work. Everyone here has a ugly story. But one day you can look back and laugh.
Right
5:09 Your friend was considerate. She realized that after a days work you would appreciate a little help. Not everybody knows how to be a good guest and help where they can. Farrin is not like J'ca where you might a have a helper to assist. You better get ready to work out yu soul case outside and come home and do the same again. As to the lady not being "comfortable" with her children. Maybe she was "sitting on her hands" and not even helping out a little. Maybe that was the same reason the friend "put her out".
I learned that it was the in law was really the problem, not children that’s why she wasn’t happy there
Donna, you may delete my comment but I want to be honest it’s up to you. I have live here in the UK for over thirty five years and what you are saying about finding jobs and lots of what you are saying is easier to say than done. You know what I am saying and I leave it at that.
And I won’t delete your comment you have your point it is not easy the US and everything is online Sometimes when you go to the store here they are you without your documents, the restaurant and etc. you will get work
She should go and take a live in job and stay on for 5 months and get off one day and go look a place
Right i told her that stay on there. Save your money and bill yourself.
@@Itsdonnamarie it work
There must be some reason why the friend asked her to leave. The friend invited her there, and now she changed her mind, there must be some reason.
Right
Friend change her mind
It must be something unless her friend mad. Dem people yah too terrible them don’t talk the truth when they want ppl fi luk bad,
It's not true that you cannot evict someone, but you must do it through the courts by serving an eviction notice.
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Pickney didn’t want her
Yes and that’s how some children are and it’s not necessarily she has a fault either.
I get room without credit and move out my son house
Wow because you’re a go-getter so you don’t want to be stressing them either
The filing person is responsible yes, but no one is putting up with a grateful person. You put up some family members and then want to fight with you physically, emotionally and mentally.
That’s true too 💯💯
If u r asked to leave, leave.End of story. Guess she tried to tell the kids how to still run their lives.
Three sides to a story.
Whoever sponsored her is responsible for her for at least 3 yrs.
Oooh it three years
Jealous and bad mind played apart in the friendship
A true it do happen
That don’t add up. The friend text her out of the blue and say that, strange. Even stranger, she left her family house to go and stay with her friend.
A real thank that is exactly how we , is true because I know her she leave her children home and go stay with friend and less than amonth friend her to leave
By law yes. TRUTH
Everyone must carry their own load.
Family members come to your home want to throw you out if your own home so disrespectful and entitled be humble and help keep the place tidy
Wow! what, that's what a lot of people don't understand you put in effort living here to make yourself better and when they come, they make you uncomfortable too. They have to understand
That it can do things to make you uncomfortable in your own home
Something must have happened between them
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What state you can’t put them out, i would love to know, I have a friend fighting that situation rift now
I don't think no state does. That's what I was saying. I'm not sure, but in that state that she was in Missouri, you can't do that.
@ puzzled
Seem like this lady has issues to leave her children to stay with a friend shows that she is not easy to get along with. The fact that the lady did not want her to contribute shows that she was not after her money which leads me to believe that this lady cannot live with anyone. Maybe she's chatting the lady business and word got back to her.
It is so funny you said that but I ask her if that's what she was doing. And she said no
@@Itsdonnamarieshe is not going to tell you the truth
You talk the truth sistren. First & foremost invest in yourself. never rely on anyone, things can change so quickly and its never good to depend on others. fix up yuhself first. work with this in mind.
@@mazcontrol3589 Amen
But she just came. Her hands are tired. Her kids are horrible to make her uncomfortable. Maybe they have men sleeping over I the same room . I used to heart my ex-husband daughter having see I her room. I pray God open a way soon for her, and those same kids gonna come back come borrow money from her
@ right
She should take a live injob until she save enough to get her own room
I told her that right
Sorry for some miss spelt words is tru am typing fast i never say the mistakes some letters com on wrongly
That’s ok
Things are always good in the beginning.
So true
Great information
Thank you, Queen
People are like that
There are two sides to the story
True
Wow love it
Two sides to every story !
Oh boy dem say see me and live with me is two different thing
I know right
All these thing let a lot of people don’t want to put up anyone. Want to rule people in their home talking about you can’t put them out after 2 weeks
lol a true it might sound away but a true
This is common assault amongst black people from Jamaica!
And it is so dad
That was no friend
Blame her. Yes.
I can tell you lots about Jamaican here how they treat their family or friends after they tired of you.
Tell I still want to learn
True sister
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Ten years they're responsible for you
Wow
Ok i got to hear part2
I dont blame the children. Because ah dem send fe her . Now its gone pear shape .now she wat de pickeny noir wah fe no
Dat ah fe her problem😂
What are u trying to day😊
This is one of the reasons why I want any body who wants to come here let them come.
You right
TRUTH
No friends.
I think she went to her friend thinking it was greener on the other side. But ting nuh work out and Den she go back to her children she burn her bushes. 😮
I believe 2 years
Wow
10 years
Has come up, not came up!
Lol
Why don’t you try and put something positive out there
I’m
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Need a wife 😢
Lol fine one nuh
Still a look ❤
U not making sense
That’s ok
If u are a good mother why your kids put u out and now the friend don't want u u not telling the truth it look like u are the problem
No, our kids didn’t put her out she leave because she wasn’t happy there
Her kids didn’t put her out. She decided to go to her friend because she wasn’t happy there. I and now her children is not answering her.
TRUTH
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