From Deadlock to Wedlock | Pastors Carter & Teresa
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- June 8, 2014 - Carter Conlon
From Deadlock to Wedlock: A Message to Single Adults at
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June 8, 2014 - God said it not good for man to be alone. Today we can take comfort in knowing that God sees our need and He will fill that empty place because He loves us.
This message encourages us to let go of unrealistic expectations and selfishness. We must seek God first and ask Him to develop our character and make us people worthy of the vows we will speak when we get married.
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I love how you just preach the pure word of God. Thank you for not preaching me happy but preaching to me about God consciousness and conviction of my sins. We need to hear this
Thanks from a single adult in Sweden!
I love God. And I'm praying for a Godly man. Can't wait to meet someone
Amen
The Lord will send you the right one
Guys, just look at the way Pastor Carter is looking at his wife...it's Amazing, He's really in love with her.
I love plaster Carter Conlon so much . I've learned so much about Jesus because of him. He is so wise and lovely and genuine and I hope God blesses him every day and forever in eternity
a true man of God
.. I have been married, and divorced twice. This was before I became "born again". Honestly.. I have no desire whatsoever to be with someone here on Earth. My one true love is Jesus Christ. He is the ONLY one whom I resonate with. The only one who understands me without having to overly explain myself. The only one who loves me unconditionally. The only one who will never lie to me; ever. The only one who gave His life for me. I look forward to leaving this awful place, and being home again with Him.
@@bootsy70 Kristi, what a lovely brother in Christ you are. I see so much encouragement from you in all of your comments. You are such a blessing and light, and I know that the Lord is smiling down on you. God bless you abundantly. 💞💞
@@bootsy70 Ah, yes truly all praise be to God and the power of His Holy Spirit. Also for the vessels he indwells who are obedient in listening to his promptings as both go hand-in-hand. :)💖
@@bootsy70 A question for you though, as I am currently reading "The Helper" and trying to learn more about the Holy Spirit. What does it mean to know the Holy Spirit correctly?
If you think this place is awful then I'd wonder if you even believe Jesus is alive
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Excellent Godly message & much needed today.
Well noted👌Mariage is not dictatorship. Mariage is paternship!!
God bless you pastor carter for your teaching in Jesus name
Thank you so much to Brother Carter Conlon and His wife, brought me to tears in the love of God and I felt healing and a release of lies Nd fears within my spirit , thank Jesus , Praise your HOLY HOLY HOLY Name
I really needed to hear this. I have been single for a little over a year now and am very lonely. I have been praying and searching for a good husband. I have felt discouragement, sadness, and feeling left out. I will continue to build a closer relationship with God and continue to believe in Him and KNOW He has a perfect husband for me that will fulfill all of my needs and desires. God has it all planned out and He will never leave nor forsake me. I know I will meet my husband very soon! Amen 🙌🏽 ❤️
Hey, you married now? It's been two years. Just checking up on you, lol. God bless!
I'm the same way
True and most beautiful sermon. Send this to all the singles you know, because they are not being told the truth.
The Lord bless him/ his precious wife Tresea♥
This is so relevant to this day generation, this was real good to watch. God bless Pastor Carter and the Time Square Church family. 🙂
I knew Carter Conlon was funny but goodness he takes it to another level in this one. Ahaaaa. Awesome message, praise God.
true men of god are cause god is
Thank you pastor Carter for your words of wisdom gods greatest example may GOD bless you
This is THE best sermon on marriage i have ever heard. Bless you pastor Carter.
This guy is very gifted
I love you brother Carter, God bless you!!
Some really good advice from a very true and very wise man of God and his beautiful wife. Pastor Teresa. God bless this couple and Time Square Church!
I was sooo lost when I got married. I'm sorry Abba
wonderful message. God richly bless you. greetings from Ghana!
Beautiful message
Such a great and beautiful message on marriage. Thank you Pastor Carter and Teresa Conlon.
Thanks Pastor... this is an amazing message!
I agreed with you , when God makes that choice, it's the best, I couldn't live without.my husband but God take him first and give me so much to live for and using me in ways I didn't expect, praise God that when we seek Him first He add all blessings to us
Anointed Message THANKS!
Blessings to you for loving God with your heart .
This is the best message, the most honest, realistic, truthful, straightforward that I have ever heard on marriage. I wish that I would have heard this many years ago.
God bless you Pastor Carter and Pastor Teresa ❤️🙏✝️
is there a job in NY that is sustainable, so I can move there and go to this church? wow.
I have had the same thoughts....hmmmm lol...I am in a small town of only 54 church's and honestly none that I am aware of preach these sermons at all...I always hear the word and Spirit in all the sermons from Pastor Conlon...
I wish I could do that too ! Lovely pastor and big church .
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My desire is to attend Times Square Church once in my lifetime. I am in Pittsburgh so I am looking forward to visit this church one fine day, God willing..
Metro North
So dope when a man and woman both love the Lord and have Him at the center. Thanks for the example pastors..
Some at the church are filled with fear!I came out of Times Square church and after church I went to the local Starbucks for a cup of coffee.I saw a woman from church and I offered to pay for her coffee and a snack since I was behind her on line and she objected to me paying for her!I was being a gentleman and eventually she let me pay.We got on a train together only 2 stops and we talked for a couple minutes-but she had such a look of fear!I knew her from an earlier meeting in Starbucks after church where me and my daughter were together!
Pray for her. God knows what her background is...and perfect love casts out fear.
Am I the only one laughing?
This should be common sense.
God bless this man of God for sharing his heart. This truly was a gift.
I love this... Great message Pastors Carter blessings to you & your wife. 👍
Such a needful message!
ezra 9:3 and when I heard this thing , I rent my garment and my mantle, and plucked off the hair of my head and of my beard,and sat down astonied.
I love this sermon, because God gave me a letter to write to my local churches about implementing a matchmaking marriage programs. Churches have people growing up and getting old in church while the world do everything they can to get people married without God. They raise their children without knowledge of God because they have no knowledge of him. Single woman and men would come to church looking for husbands where they will also find God instead of drugs and unwanted pregnancies in the world.
Rule# 3 Leave the date at the door. Amen
#1) Matthew 6:33
I have found the lover of my soul.
Many waters cannot quench this love.
Jesus is the lover of my soul.
I may be a widow but He is my husband.
No wonder hell will fight it! The devil fights it when the right people want to get married, and he works so hard to join the wrong people together in marriage.
If anyone sees this, please pray for me.
A young man and i were "courting," he is a believer and loves the Lord...humble, gentle guy. He has a health condition, though (which he told me about on our first date)..and it's the only thing that prevents him from moving forward with me. He didn't want to continue only because of his condition ..with how we feel about each other, we can't just be friends, so we stopped talking about a week ago.. he said he needed some time, and that we'd just have to see what the Lord would do.
He's an answer to prayer in so many ways..he lives nearby, we get along so well, theres an attraction, he encouraged me to forgive, perservere in difficultly. I almost passed him by because at a passing glance, he maybe didn't seem remarkable in the eyes of the world. But I'm glad to even just have known him.
At one point, he said he hoped I could be his wife, and based on what I have seen of him so far, he is someone I would let lead me, someone I would have married.
Honestly my hearts desire is that the Lord would bring us together. I'd love to come alongside someone like that.
Awesome well said thank you lord for word service pastor be blessed in jesus name X3.
May the marriages be of your guidence not of our own....amen
it so disturbing to listen to the right sermon when the time has long past you by.
God is always on time
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@_mildred Dear, God is a God of the impossible. Keep the faith. I think that too but if he can raise a man dead for three days and walk on the water he can find a man for me. And he can find a partner for you oh ye of little FAITH!!💞🌈😇
@@bonanonymouscrickett5231 Amen, He is not a man, His promise are Yes and Amen. Thank you.
Mildred I’m in the same situation and I’m sure many others are as well. Disturbing is an appropriate word.
I watched this man's video entitled Loneliness and wanted to leave a comment but for some reason the comments are disabled. If anyone cares to watch it, do you agree that He's talking about two different issues? Way l see it is he's talking about the God shaped hole that's in all of us, that nothing else can fill, which is right, but that's not the same thing as loneliness. I have been a born again, blood bought Christian for over 30 years but for the first time in my life am experiencing loneliness due to bereavement. They're two completely different things.
Amen and Amen 🙌🕊
I can't stop laughing!😂😂🤣👍
Not to funny being single
Are you single Patrica?
What about when there is everything, the love, the willingness to respect, submit and sacrifice, and circunstances don't allow it to happen?
Then perhaps it's not the will of God Isaiah 46;10 He knows the end from the beginning He knows how that would turn. Jeremiah 33- He has good plans for you pray that above all you may want or desire ,His will be done. He'll make things beautiful in His time
I would love for GOD THE FATHER to find a wife for me ( God willing) a Godly woman to marry... Please Lord JESUS, bring this special person into my life.
AMEN!!🙏🙏❤
May u and your beloved become 1 through Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ..the Spirit Speaks..it is finished
Jesus is the LORD!!
Wow I’m always surprised when I hear a pastor who has such a concern for singles, there are so few. This is such a difference from the you’ll be happy without a spouse the rest of your life sermons you mostly hear these days. I can’t help but lose some respect for pastors who try to convince you late in life that never being married in your fifties and no children is just no big deal. I like how this pastor deals with this issue even though it’s too late for me. I hope young people listen to this carefully life isn’t long and it’s easy to be persuaded to go in the wrong direction like I was.
Amen. That is why I appreciate TSC and Carter Conlon.. very few pastors even care about singles. Thank God, pastor CC isn't offering hypocritical platitudes like 'just be content'...
I hope God will send me my husband 🙏
Dear Jesus Please miraculously by Signs and Wonders provide a husband / best friend / prayer partner and home for me Let this be the year of miracles in my life heal the deep loneliness with a home of love Thank You Jesus
Amen🙏
Lol... I'm on the floor 😂😂😂
There is this one person who was married and now that her husband is deceased, she does not want to remarry. But any single woman she tries to discourage from getting married.
Exactly.. why are so many married people trying to discourage singles from getting married? Absolute hypocricy.
I've been widowed for 17 years and single. Where is the Godly man God has for this Godly woman?
I pray that you will get married again but I’m well into my fifties and never married,I’m not sure everyone gets a second go at marriage or even a first. I pray for Gods best for you.
@@johnz4328 I'm in my 50's also.
@@johnz4328 Did you guys hook up?
@@Yahuah_is_King364 Did you guys hook up?
@@Yahuah_is_King364 I really appreciate that you care enough to ask but no. I’m not sure how or if Christians are meeting on TH-cam but I’m sadly certain that they are meeting less frequently in daily life and many ministries don’t seem to care much about it. I fully expect at my age to die having never been married, of course my problems will be over at that point.
Amen
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Jesus is Lord!
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I love Rev. Carter’s messages, God bless him. But is it biblical, for a woman being a pastor? Like Teresa? Canada! 🇨🇦
Check out the book written by pastor Gill Belec, How to avoid deadlock in your wedlock for those who are married and struggling. Gillsboro Publishing
3rd rule Pastor.. The date ends at the door? I don't get it? What does it mean?
Like the Korean move drama stair way to Haven 😇
Our society has accepted ppl who live in relationships and not marry. After the 2 questions, pastor should've asked 'how many are living with a partner'? Most pastors know not to call out sin, bc sinners will go to mega churches where pastors give motivational sermons.
Pastors cannot change anyone. The church is a place for sinners, saved and spiritually sick people. The word of God is what changes peoples hearts, as people keep coming to church they become transformed from inside out through the word. If mature believer are living together, they can be called out, but if the pastor does the same to new people who are just engaging with church and God, he will loose them and they may never go to any church again in their life.
Pls can someone pls help me on how to see dis man of God personaly dat i may b born again and baptised? Pls i cant wait for tumoro to come to b told and lead by Jesus
You dont need a man to be saved and you dont need to be water baptized to be saved. Just confess that JESUS CHRIST is the Lord, believe in your HEART that God has raised Him from the dead.
Salvation is a gift from God, remember this. You arent saved by your works like baptism or feeding the homeless, you are saved by faith in Jesus Christ ONLY.
(ROMANS 10:9-11 KJV)
"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed."
The Spirit Speaks..may u and your beloved find each other and become 1..and born again through Spirit and Living Water..it is finished
@@jessicaperez3157.just baptize yourself ask Jesus to sit at your right hand while u do it..he shall do it for u in the Spirit..the Spirit Speaks.it is finished
Are you ok now?
hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhaha..love it
The gift of singleness came via the curse of a wicked father. I had no choice. I attract men like my dad. I loved him. He didn't love me. Obviously I'm still trying to get the man to love me...he never will. I never watch romance movies. I can't take it that reality is so far from what the movies portray
I'm so sorry for what you have been through. You have the Lord and he can fill the empty place in your heart that your earthly dad has created. Don't give up.
Lately pastor colons comments are being disabled even old sermons
Hmmm !?!
Peace whit you.
Can someone explain me, howe can women be a pastor.
Actuali, if a man is pastor, its that make his wife pastor to.. 🤔
I am not sure about...
(No ofence.)
A woman cannot be a pastor or a teacher of the Bible in the church. Because it is the task of a man to teach his wife.
Even out of the church, everything women knows and do have been taught to them by men.
Women drive because men did it first and taught them.
Women cook because men did it first (the greatest chef are men)
Women play sports because men started it..
I can go on and on, but that is the order God has appointed.
There are some case tho where women can teach. But even in those case, those women still have to be under the authority of men (their husbands), because that’s the order by God.
If two people meet and fall in love, if they take vows before God without a ceremony, are they considered married in the eyes of God.
I'd say God can't honor that when he says obey the laws of the land. In America you're not recognized as married w/o marriage certificate
No.
@@Agueybana787 Yes
@@rachels1616 nope.
Mark 16:16
“Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.”
Who else is over 60 and watching this in 2019🤷
I love Carter Conlon, but I don't think he is theologically right in ordaining his wife as "Pastor".
I was thinking the same!
The Bible say’s in Acts chapter 2; In the last days my sons and my daughters will prophesy......... this means they will be a voice for God. When the apostle Paul said “ I do not allow a woman to teach we must remember that in chapter 7 of first Corinthians Paul talks about giving his opinion about something. He makes a distinction between what he thinks and what God commands. Many men today get into the ministry for the money they can get. God is short of real men of God. If God was willing to use a mule to rebuke a foolish prophet. Why would he not use a godly woman??? We need the voice of God today!! He can speak to to me through a mule or he can speak to me through a real woman of God. God does not change, he used a woman in the Old Testament when there was a need, and he can do it today! There was more then one woman used by God in the Old Testament!!! So, God bless sister Tresa for being a helpmate to her godly husband!!!!
I think needless prolonged singleness in the church has done far more harm than this pastors ordained wife could ever do.
@@johnz4328 ditto Brother John!!
Expand your thinking then...seeking godly council, psalms 1...
1thes5;16-21
What denomination are you linked to ?
What fountain do you drink from. ?
If a woman comes under the spiritual authority of a church/ leadership then its ordained from scripture if their led by the Spirit....they will find a place where the lord will use the giftings within them , they will not seek a pedestal for themselves, but a supportive role....
Beware of self seeking, solo deceivers nowadays...many are out there.
Paula white, Joyce meyer, the many fake apostles, revivalists, etc etc....
Look at 48:55,,, she only edifies his sermon. Man & woman, the lord uses 2 too make 1.." she " has qualities which man needs in order to be reproductive & vise versa.....
See all the examples of women & their leading roles in the bible..... Paul alone, credits many for their leadership roles in supporting the Church & sharing the gospel....
What about marrying women who have been divorced and have kids? The Bible seems to say you cannot remarry. God hates divorce right?
Not true!
true
There’s was 10 woman to 1 man 😂😂😂😂😂 girls we lost and we lost BAD 😂😂😂
Just saying this stuff may be jokes but their is people with spiritual pain because of sexual sin that attacked them at early age
Hi to all that belive in the most high and our Lord Jesus Christ let me start by saying not every one is marriage marital. Not every one find there way home Paul never found his true love and he never married Elijah never married and he was taken up by God the same as Enoch and Seth the same as Peter he saw his own death and he never married James his own brother died and never married Samson and deliah never married but confessed in each other's love Prophet Joshua killed 34 kings and 35 th king he let him live and when he met the high priest in his bloody cloths he never married l. Moses married out side the Jewish law and married a nomads daughter Maria . John the Devine disappears with out a trace he never married. Samuel the prophets never married their are so many people that sever our God the farther but never married are we to say that because they never married does this mean that they are born out of wedlock lots of people in our time are born out of wedlock.
Same as the days of old. Now through his sermon he starts saying put God first is the real issue for all men and women today and children we do not know how to put God first so we find out later We are not mature enough for what our farther has for us but when we put him first we see all things. This statement is not condemning this pastor but it shows he has not done his home work on this issue why are young woman and men in the house of God never married ever now are so old and pass it . So sad. Who wants us now lol. Only our farther x in Jesus name x stay blessed stay safe keep reading ur bible. From Zion . Servent of the most high.
Brothers and Sisters in Christ, please be aware that God's Word clearly says that women are not allowed to preach and that they should keep silent in the churches.
1 Timothy 2,11-12: Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.
1 Corinthians 14,34-35: the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
I love Pastor Carter Conlon and his sermons have played a big part in my coming to Jesus Christ, but what he and his wife are doing here is wrong. This is not about my personal opinion, it's about what the Word of God says.
I think it is wrong to let women be pastors, it is unnatural for women to be above men, let the world run down that path of destruction and demand 50% of leaders to be women no matter qualifications.. but truth be told a woman will never have authority like a man, we need men to be bold again, and not shaped in the image of the world. God I hope the church changes that, because it is so genuine and has such a strong commitment to the word.. surrender whatever keeps it from being perfect in the ways of christ, if women should have their hair covered during prayer, do it.. just submit to the scriptures whatever they may command.
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Amen.
Do the world a favor and keep your mouth shut
Oliver look at you all PUFFED UP AND all ARROGANT elevating yourself ABOVE women, as a MAN. It's people like you who look down on women in their lives including their wives and even mothers and it's PATHETIC.
Oliver Kafka are you saying that when Jesus sent Mary Magdalene to go and tell His disciples that He is risen that He sinned? Are you saying that the church at Lydia's house shouldn't have been there or the Elder Lady whom John addressed was in error? Was God in error when He used Deborah or Huldah or Mary of Bethel??? You err for you do not know the scriptures, the Lord always make women His partners in ministry. May the Holy Spirit enlighten you.