How to be Attractive AF... Even if You're NOT "Good Looking"

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  • @alpham
    @alpham  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

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    • @pkroninverse7307
      @pkroninverse7307 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank Dude its been Good help

  • @nellosnook4454
    @nellosnook4454 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Thanks Alpha! 💪
    1. Balancing what you sincerely believe against what you’re being paid to say, is an ongoing challenge.
    2. It’s a credibility issue for your subscribers.
    3. Just keep it in mind. 🙏

    • @ThonBauer
      @ThonBauer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True, like the hair loss topic

  • @worshipwhilewewait
    @worshipwhilewewait 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    There's an old saying "People won't remember what You said but They will always remember how You made Them feel." How do I want to be remembered? That's how I Live. As for Me, the BIGGEST BADDEST compliment I could ever receive would be for Someone to say, "...yeah, He's a Good Man." I've said that very thing to a few Men in My Life and to this Day, They STILL impact My Life. In My eyes, They set the standard I strive for...

  • @riquepr
    @riquepr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This dude is changing the way I look at myself. For the good.

  • @omersarcadeadventures2152
    @omersarcadeadventures2152 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Not only am i being me, i am being me in a world trying to make us all look a certain way

  • @dougday2288
    @dougday2288 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ALWAYS grateful for the outer and inner emphasis you offer us, Aaron. Thanks a million.

  • @mvos858
    @mvos858 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Alpha M, been watching you for 5 years. I would be a lost cause without you

  • @scottclark9417
    @scottclark9417 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This man was a huge help for me during unemployment of 08/09. He has been a class act then and now for myself in building what i am today!!! Hats off to you my friend.

  • @kalpadrinkwater
    @kalpadrinkwater 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I dont think you went overboard Aaron. Superb Insights

  • @TheTechieAbhishekS
    @TheTechieAbhishekS 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

  • @kailashkmrrr
    @kailashkmrrr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved the last line!

  • @stewiegriffin5900
    @stewiegriffin5900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    invest in your looks guys, this is very very important!

  • @PneumaFan
    @PneumaFan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can't wait to see your next level.

  • @premiumpils7623
    @premiumpils7623 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actually appreciate the things you say here, apart from the whole ad stuff but I guess that's the only way to provide the channel. However, yes, you are absolutely right. Confidence is key, not only to attract people, but to feel good about yourself. The key to that truly is to work with what you got and make the best out of it instead of just spiraling down the "I suck" rabbit hole. That is what makes you immediately a different and more mature and likeable person. Also I appreciate the advice you give in terms of engaging with people, keeping your morale compass straight and being a good person instead of hunting the money and power. Engaging with people, being sincere and helpful but not just crawling up everybodys ass forgetting who you are and want to be, taken advantage of, is golden advice. Make the best with what you got, be helfpul and inspiring, be straightforward and someone people like to engage with and look up to and you will not only be like by other people but you will feel so much better about yourself.

  • @FloridaBikeVlogger
    @FloridaBikeVlogger 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    wish me luck boys!

  • @hindolohalloway2722
    @hindolohalloway2722 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I never knew it could be this easy thanks bro

  • @StephenSpaur
    @StephenSpaur 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with most of the things you say and disagree with some. I really do get where you are coming from. First of all, bald is beautiful (and just as sexy). I started losing my hair at 15, just 3 months after my father died. I tried the "regrowth" stuff and none of it worked. Granted, things have come a long way since then (the mid 90s), but I like being bald. Many women have told me so through the years. My wife liked me bald. You don't have to have hair to be sexy or even attractive. I also personally don't think that body hair grooming is necessary. I'm not saying that it's right or wrong. I'm not saying that it's a feminine thing to do or anything like that. To each his own! I do shave my balls, for reasons I won't post publicly, but the rest of my body (only moderately hairy)...I keep natural. It's part of what makes me a man. But I get that some guys like to shave. Whatever floats their boat! I also get that some guys need to shave. I'm just saying it's not something that you have to do to be sexy or attractive. There's also nothing wrong with having a "dad bod". As a society, we're focusing too much on outward appearance, and we have been for far too long. I'm all about eating right and being healthy, but to tell somebody that if they don't look better than others at the beach...that they "must" get to the gym (your gym, I assume), clean up their diet and "stop being stupid" is impudent. Unrelated to this video, I recently watched a video where you said something along the lines of a part of what makes you a better man is not using excessive cussing. I completely agree with that! I don't understand the point of profanity in general. Meanwhile, in this video alone, you've dropped the f-bomb, referred to ass kissing, and calling men who aren't, what I'm assuming is your opinion of men of integrity, as "whiny little b*tches". What I think makes a man a real man, one who is set apart and stands out amongst the crowd, is a man who is confident in himself, no matter what he looks like. A man of honor and integrity. One who is a gentleman to a lady. A man who acts his age, and is humble and modest. I applaud your efforts to help make men feel better about themselves, but there are times that I think you come across a little abrasive and might even make some men feel more insecure and uncomfortable about themselves than they already do. I.don't say ANY of this to be insulting to you. I subscribe to your channel and will more than likely continue to watch each of your videos. There are some areas where you have actually helped me, and I'm grateful for that. Just giving my two cents for whatever it's worth. (Probably not more than two cents! 😆)

  • @jmcray3070
    @jmcray3070 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s about your happiness! It’s not about ferraris, and maseratis and spicy señoritas! 😂 love this guy! 6:41

  • @alfredonieto4412
    @alfredonieto4412 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Video Sir, very conscise and charged of value

  • @MarcelGomesPan
    @MarcelGomesPan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ”Stop bein’ stoopid!” 😂👍

  • @xarrowverse
    @xarrowverse 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to grow an epic beard at 15? I'm going on accutane soon and shaving not that good for skin, besides I want a masculine beard. Pls reply, alpha.

  • @stewiegriffin5900
    @stewiegriffin5900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yeah man! personal dvlopment is very important to men. Mental, physical appearance and emotional intelligence.

  • @ax3226
    @ax3226 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The end quote was good man.
    SubahanAllah

  • @xarrowverse
    @xarrowverse 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Alpha
    I'm following you to try to change my advice with looking good, feeling better and improving my life. I'm 15,and watch you glad u don't do paid stuff and say honest.

  • @bobbyrebholz2183
    @bobbyrebholz2183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just dropped more knowledge than most dads have done for their boys.

  • @dagny8336
    @dagny8336 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How to be attractive AF - rehashed for the 594th time.

  • @saranskaposla
    @saranskaposla 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! 💪💪💪

  • @johng1427
    @johng1427 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I fucking love this guy 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @rounaksharmaaa
    @rounaksharmaaa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Aaron Sir, please post video in detail on accessories.

  • @RichLunaMusic
    @RichLunaMusic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The realest video you’ve done yet 👏 👏 👏

  • @markpurvis896
    @markpurvis896 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen to that brother..🙏
    Mark from 🇦🇺

  • @tri-lambda-delta
    @tri-lambda-delta 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You do look good for 47. I'm 52 and look 30 (if i dye my hair dark) :-)

    • @digidrum2003
      @digidrum2003 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 55 have not dyed my hair.....thinking about it....just dyed a little.....are you going to do it??

  • @myfollicularjourney
    @myfollicularjourney 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Remember to take what Aaron says about hair transplants with a grain of salt, especially because he's never had one done on him before and he has a business partnership with a big-box clinic.
    If you're considering a hair transplant, research a doctor who is certified by the American Board of Hair Restoration Surgeons (ABHRS), exclusively practices surgical hair restoration, and does both FUT/strip AND FUE. You are much more likely to get a bad result than a good one, so do your due dligence and start taking a preventative treatment.
    Hope this helps!

  • @llvkey
    @llvkey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used to watch you in 9th grade 4 years back, and coming back for the first time I’m happy to see you talking about character building(p.s. the easiest way is Jesus girls subconsciously love that 😉)

    • @llvkey
      @llvkey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can’t build your character for women though it has to be pure and focused on Him.

  • @matthewsilverio
    @matthewsilverio 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One of your best videos in my opinion. Thank you Aaron.

  • @Marko222-ce6fj
    @Marko222-ce6fj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Stop being stupid!" 😡
    🥺🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Oscar_239
    @Oscar_239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks alpha 💪🏾

  • @Serrymm2
    @Serrymm2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to look attractive as am ugly what do I do??? Main thing is my receding hair and bloody mole on my forehead. Also I got a stomach and skinny long hands and big chest messed and skinny legs I got some serious work to do. Am going to die single low confident. Help meeeeee

  • @boygee2038
    @boygee2038 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And be very sure that you don’t gossip, gossiping is a sure way of losing lots of friends and your integrity

  • @nickfrancis-wy2gb
    @nickfrancis-wy2gb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this.

  • @TrevorBrazil
    @TrevorBrazil 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm bold and proud 😂

  • @AboveAllBeOriginal
    @AboveAllBeOriginal 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you really are a good dude and role model

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Vamos Alpha M

  • @migyluis
    @migyluis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks alpha! always appreciate your vids!

  • @Inna.Eroshina
    @Inna.Eroshina 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great speach! 👍

  • @Jose-ly6sg
    @Jose-ly6sg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you I really need this

  • @ohmannotnow272
    @ohmannotnow272 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think also applies to women as well.

  • @Objdodge_1
    @Objdodge_1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good advice alpha!!

  • @rusticolus23
    @rusticolus23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Alpha, are you taking Finasteride? If yes, when did you start taking it?

  • @tarunvenugopal9276
    @tarunvenugopal9276 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    need more videos like this

  • @hisaddle
    @hisaddle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good info.

  • @harueveningtide9796
    @harueveningtide9796 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Alpha, much appreciate the video. I just need to work on the body , I got the other things down

  • @BigBoyLion.
    @BigBoyLion. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im 22 and i need advice. Anybody. Life is kicking my ass rn

    • @SkywalkerPaul
      @SkywalkerPaul 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What's your problem?

    • @brightstarlit
      @brightstarlit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What advice?

    • @BigBoyLion.
      @BigBoyLion. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SkywalkerPaul financial

    • @BigBoyLion.
      @BigBoyLion. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brightstarlit financial

    • @BigBoyLion.
      @BigBoyLion. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I pride myself on who I am as a person but thats just because of what i had to go through so far it made me realize whats in me but besides that i could be whatever i want if i dont make money in America im not nothing. I just come from everything i don't wannna be and i just don't know what it is im doing wrong because since i graduated i haven't been living the life i want for myself. I need to make a change. I need to be the change .

  • @CarlosAmaya-u1v
    @CarlosAmaya-u1v 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @Dhaval_K
    @Dhaval_K 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A good bosley advertisement in the name of .......🙃

  • @michaelmiguel6937
    @michaelmiguel6937 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This may sound mean but confidence come from being about what you do and most people do what they like. If you want the gym girl then you better be into fitness, if you want the game girl then you better be into video games, and if you want the bar girl then you better be into the bar scene. People think you can make a relationship work by pretending to be something you aren’t. Well what if I like the gym girl? That’s cool but if she likes the gym and you aren’t confident talking about fitness because you aren’t into it how exactly are going to be confident in something you know nothing about. same goes to clothing you may look nice in that leather jacket but if you feel like a clown for wearing it how are you going to show confidence to anyone?
    4:27

  • @gordonstrong5232
    @gordonstrong5232 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @JohnDoe-ud2cc
    @JohnDoe-ud2cc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the most part I have all 6, My problem is I have a job in education and don’t make shit. It was fine when I was married but now that I’m single my education job pay is kinda embarrassing. I’m 43 years old newly single and struggling income wise. My job is a good one and I love it but I feel that a mature woman won’t take me seriously if they new how much I really made. I’m not looking to be a man hoe or a player but wouldn’t mind having some fun along the way. My ultimate goal is to find a mature traditional woman that is stable. Honestly I’m kinda looking for a sugar queen. How does a guy pull up? I have no problem pulling 20-30 year old hotties but they are only good for one thing and all of them have different values and morals than a traditional older guy.

  • @helloidris
    @helloidris 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice one

  • @N.Mcneely
    @N.Mcneely 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey man your great and you help a lot of us! You've helped me a ton over the years but don't kill confidence by naming videos with things like even if your not good looking. We're all great and perfect for the right person in our own way. Disagree.. let's talk about it.

  • @dominant2576
    @dominant2576 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good advice.

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    W Alpha M 💪💪

    • @Dustparticle000
      @Dustparticle000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Touch grass

    • @malone4735
      @malone4735 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dustparticle000 No

    • @malone4735
      @malone4735 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dustparticle000No

  • @lisbethturon4431
    @lisbethturon4431 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please talk about dental care. Most men especially older men let their teeth go.

  • @Fade_FN587
    @Fade_FN587 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo Hru doing man I love your videos

  • @poelow
    @poelow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    damn.. now i have to loose 300lbs

  • @feardabeard7635
    @feardabeard7635 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LMFAO how in the hell did I come across this dude who thinks he's Gods gift to the world? I will give him a compliment by saying he's a good sales person for hair loss. 🤣😂

  • @radgrand
    @radgrand 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thems pumps work for the neck?....bro i need to get my vein on, LoL

  • @ColtyT33
    @ColtyT33 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Greetings from India!

  • @Selfprogressionasaman
    @Selfprogressionasaman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a diffrent video then I’m used to seeing

  • @Markusgebvor
    @Markusgebvor 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WHO is he, that he has to shout?

  • @fit2phat2fit86
    @fit2phat2fit86 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You do have a better body than most men your age, so please don’t be afraid to show your new little belly 🤩 it does make the rest of us feel better to know even the top physique may have a little lower belly fat or rolls when you sit. Thank you for being so upfront, motivational, and vulnerable with us! 🫂

  • @94535
    @94535 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do you mean by NOT "Good looking" ???

    • @SkywalkerPaul
      @SkywalkerPaul 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Looking like Mitch McConnell

    • @94535
      @94535 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SkywalkerPaul How do you say he's ugly? How do you evaluate?

    • @Oemorpheus
      @Oemorpheus 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@94535fat, dirty face(pimples, ect), balding, too hairy, double chins, bad teeth. There are bunch of things that make people ugly

    • @SkywalkerPaul
      @SkywalkerPaul 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@94535 by if women find him attractive.

  • @productionemployee8032
    @productionemployee8032 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But don’t you have to be attractive AF to give advice on how to be attractive AF????

  • @kingnomad3176
    @kingnomad3176 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Any human who seeks happiness is a fool. Happiness is a transitional emotional state. It’s temporary, fleeting and references itself based on *current* perspective. Take Aaron, for example…..my guy is frequently “unhappy” because he gets stagnant because his “happiness” meter is stuck on its last and highest level so everything is compared to that in his frame. But if he took a moment to be grateful for where he started vs where he is now then his point of reference changes. “Happiness” isn’t it….it’s peace. Only women reference “happiness”…..please stop trying to make men emote like women. Also, stop saying “partner”…..it’s a reference to being gay.

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's wrong with being gay?

    • @kingnomad3176
      @kingnomad3176 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gordonstrong5232 - nothing at all. He should announce that this is a channel for gay men, if that’s the case, and stop lying about it being for straight men.

    • @gordonstrong5232
      @gordonstrong5232 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kingnomad3176 I think it's supposed to be a channel for all men mate. Partner is an inclusive word that can refer to a male or female, I guess that's why Alpha uses it.

    • @kingnomad3176
      @kingnomad3176 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gordonstrong5232- Nah, back in the day when people used to get beat up for being gay, they had to be covert and ambiguous when referring to their significant other. So they adopted the term “partner”, which also gave away the fact that they were gay because a person who was heterosexual would just say “boyfriend”, “girlfriend”, “husband”, “wife” or “spouse”. This isn’t that difficult…..it’s a word that the left is using to propagate their agendas and normalize homosexuality. Blur lines, remove structures and disassemble values. To be overly accepting is to be without morality. People need to understand the words they choose.
      Also, when you listen to heterosexual women use the term “partner”, you’ll notice that they *actually* mean “equal partnership”. Any self-respecting man who knows anything about the proper order of the family unit would never accept this. Translation: A woman using the term is admission of her saying “I don’t want to be lead by a man.” I’ve been continually researching this topic over the past 4 years. So, no, I don’t accept this term.

  • @YermakTheTrainEngineer
    @YermakTheTrainEngineer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    سلطان 🤘✨

  • @phantomstreams1311
    @phantomstreams1311 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nothing against bosley but you can to Turkey for 2k

    • @robbertag808
      @robbertag808 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And get a botched result.

    • @phantomstreams1311
      @phantomstreams1311 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @robbertag808 there's plenty of good places to go

    • @robbertag808
      @robbertag808 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@phantomstreams1311 No. There is no place that gives you 100% result guarantee. That is why you should pay more. To get a good result and not the chance of a good result, like in.... Turkey.

  • @GeneSypha
    @GeneSypha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯

  • @williampacter7399
    @williampacter7399 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn’t being secure about your natural flaws like hair loss an attractive trait? Hair transplants and the likes are like women have botox and collagen injections. It also seems like you’re promoting unnatural remedies like minoxidil as a way of improving attractiveness. In order to deliver a balanced message please could you also highlight its negative consequences too. Thank you

    • @robbertag808
      @robbertag808 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "unnatural remedies like minoxidil". Are you drunk? Nothing wrong with Minoxidil.

  • @Leb666
    @Leb666 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sadly, your videos have become a huge billboard...hence the crappy number of views and engagement.

  • @CaptainWillard830
    @CaptainWillard830 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1. Lick your eyebrows 2. Be able to run long distances and then put 10 rounds in a tight shot group from the kneeling position at 250 yards 3. Have a DD-214 4. Use that earned VA home loan certificate 5. Have a few cool hobbies - watches, rare books, own a 95 Land Cruiser triple locker 6. Be kind to hardworking young people….don’t chase poontang! Especially today’s masculine high body count feminists

  • @dazino3509
    @dazino3509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Over 2 minutes of advertising a product/service within a 8 minute video is too much. Clean it up!

  • @DanielVasquezII
    @DanielVasquezII 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙌❤️

  • @geldiyt1015
    @geldiyt1015 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My head shape is to ugly bro and my face 😢

  • @JOHN_F_KENNEDY_DADDY
    @JOHN_F_KENNEDY_DADDY 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alpha are you uncircumcised

  • @chrisd8183
    @chrisd8183 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Little shouty man.

  • @cmgbfbmp
    @cmgbfbmp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bunch of manlets in the comments section

  • @nelsonhibbert5267
    @nelsonhibbert5267 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hair loss therapy? C'mon man, shave your damn head and stop worrying about it.

  • @oofooh
    @oofooh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron, you are still putting too much product in your hair. If you want to look even MORE amazing, use waaaaaaaaaaaay less hair product.

  •  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i like the things you say, but why do you shout so much? To me that is not attractive 😅

  • @LanadelRaywinning
    @LanadelRaywinning 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I say tht few years back. Ur content is flawed to the core

  • @NathanTeklay-sk2xq
    @NathanTeklay-sk2xq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do you *always* scream, shout and scream

  • @WW2day
    @WW2day 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First

  • @Hicks-g1m
    @Hicks-g1m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dress with what I like with a nice body 🦾I am my own man helping others is what everyone should do. I love helping people but I'm not a people pleaser I draw boundaries. That's true money can't make you a better person

  • @jrloPanigale
    @jrloPanigale 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best message ever! Thanks alpha! Got me all energized to start my weekend! 🫶🏼💪🏽

  • @effay83
    @effay83 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ABS. Always Be Selling

  • @PK-se2jh
    @PK-se2jh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thankyou very much ❤