SHARING MY TRUTH WHY IT’S HARD FOR ME TO ASK FOR HELP DURING MY POSTPARTUM SEASON🥺

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  • Hey Family! I am not ashamed to admit that it’s hard for me to ask for help during my postpartum season with baby no.8🥺 Today I explain why.
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  • @DebbieIsley
    @DebbieIsley 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Please take care of your body sister. You have been through so much. Rest, rest and rest some more. Gorgeous little girl.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you soo much!❤️

    • @canmckinnis
      @canmckinnis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ditto!🥰

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      @shriekitsallie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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      @RonaldButler019 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @shailen1997
    @shailen1997 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    One of the hardest things to say is... I need help

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I agree🥺

    • @christinesimpson304
      @christinesimpson304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@thehenryfamily_But we so proud of you for asking for help and for taking a step back. It took you almost a year to make another human, you will not heal from that over night. Whenever you are ready we'll be here❤

    • @soulstarmusiclover1254
      @soulstarmusiclover1254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@thehenryfamily_Great conversation; I am new to your channel but I have seen the shorts. You have a beautiful family. My Mom had 7 children we all turned out fine ❤

    • @paulamugabi7320
      @paulamugabi7320 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When you feel you can't ask for help, it could be a trauma response.

    • @truth1-9
      @truth1-9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@thehenryfamily_same here

  • @everlenagaylord6738
    @everlenagaylord6738 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    We love The Henrys . Mrs Henry please allow your hubby and children to step in and help. It’s ok to let go. You don’t have to do everything. We all know you are a great mother. Please get some rest with the new baby and let your family take care of you!

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Amen, thank you🙏🏽

    • @peresngugi6925
      @peresngugi6925 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Please Mama, don't be too hard on yourself.

    • @ruthhannamaria
      @ruthhannamaria 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed. No space to leave comment so yes, call us cyba family. Congrats again and please both take plenty of rest and bond. We got u both ❤❤❤

    • @schatmon1
      @schatmon1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the transparency but give yourself permission to let go and say it aloud! Let the training up of your children be a fence around your healing and rest! Love your family

    • @laurawright4309
      @laurawright4309 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you here in Pa

  • @TiffanyAsamoah
    @TiffanyAsamoah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So you are jus 33 years samvia and you have 8 children..... Are you insane????

  • @nicoleprice354
    @nicoleprice354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I think having your own system is truly a blessing. It helps in so many ways, especially being very significant in the development of your children. You are 2 parents who have stepped up fully and are hands-on with your children. This is something that is missing in many families. This is one reason why your videos are so necessary. It breaks what became the norm in many households and refreshes a beautiful way to raise a family ❤❤❤

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Amen, thank you for those beautiful words!!!

    • @constancepitts8499
      @constancepitts8499 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Truer words have never been spoken-it is a system that works for them and anyone subscribed to this channel can see it works for them and possibly encourages and inspires others to find a system that can work for them and save money in the process

    • @avemaria7402
      @avemaria7402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bullseye 🎯 Nicely said!

  • @maikad.6582
    @maikad.6582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I 💯 agree with what you’re saying. Sometimes we have a hard time asking for help as women, for many reasons. We either tired of rejection, people throwing that in our face later, or past relationships trauma, or people using that against us later to manipulate us. When you experience trauma or abuse in relationships, it stays with you. Even if you’re not in that situation anymore, you always have that feeling in mind. we deal with so much in our lives as women that we learn to rely on ourselves. It’s not easy, this topic you’re talking about, a lot of woman deals with it.

    • @Kym633Blessed
      @Kym633Blessed 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You nailed it!!
      Well in my case anyway ❤

  • @tammydunn4892
    @tammydunn4892 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m sorry I know y’all gonna get tired of me. See I didn’t have a sibling in two hours eight years old and I was so mad I did not want to sibling. OK then she came then I was kind of responsible for her and I’m not gonna lie I regretted that and resent her for that because I’m like I’m already your mother before I even had a child so it really made me not want kids. I have already raised kids somebody else’s.

  • @bettywysinger6602
    @bettywysinger6602 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You acting like superwoman you don’t need help.

  • @djacquelinebrown6775
    @djacquelinebrown6775 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I am so glad to be in the your family! My extended family!!!! I love y’all so much for real! Congratulations on our new addition! Much health, wealth and happiness you guys!

  • @shelwhitfield1905
    @shelwhitfield1905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I wonder how the children are doing. This is a lot for the older kids to take on. How are the big girls handling this? Do they have any resentment? Do they feel supported?

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyone is love and support Henry household🙏🏽

  • @dyzonndyjour7907
    @dyzonndyjour7907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What number of kids you too plan on stopping?

  • @AllDay_AshleyJ
    @AllDay_AshleyJ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's really untrue that if you bump heads with Nana, just imagine how much more you'll have conflict with hired help. Free help is often not really free and comes with the permeable (or nonexistent) boundaries that are natural for family and friends. Whereas childcare providers/hired help are professionals at executing YOUR vision for your home and family without their own agenda. Plus you can find the people who align with you since you get to choose the mutually best fit. You have people in your comments saying "You can do this on your own. Our ancestors were enslaved and went straight back in the field to work after having a baby." but that's because they were dehumanized. To me, it's a civil rights issue that, deep down, many black women still think they are unworthy unless they are overworked to the point that we negotiate our way out of ever truly resting.

  • @sheilaadams445
    @sheilaadams445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You and Samvia have such an organized way of running a household! You are preparing them for life! I feel you are doing a phenomenal job!! God is in the center of everything you do. He is guiding you and showing you the way. Keep on doing your very best!!❤🙏🏾

  • @peachypie3442
    @peachypie3442 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Mr. Henry is definitely getting better at speaking to us. He used to be so shy. Thank you for being very transparent with us. God bless you guys. Continue to prosper🙏🏾

  • @mahalavholmes893
    @mahalavholmes893 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Please, take it easy. Postpartum depression and exhaustion is real. You’re such a wonderful person and what you do is important. We want you to be you because you are loved. 🙏🏾

    • @sharonwalker3826
      @sharonwalker3826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A Set back is also REAL!

  • @dr.cheryldenegall4987
    @dr.cheryldenegall4987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Sis no swimming right now wait at least six weeks your body is still open. Heal first you may regret it later, as you get older your body may feel it.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the advice🤎

    • @LTL_59
      @LTL_59 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree. You are not a robot. You have to take care of you medically/physically and mentally. Let me ask you a question, you don't like the medical staff? Doctors/Nurse Practitioners? Even the new baby Lola, has she been seen by a medical profession who diagnosed her "tongue tie" as that can be corrected by a pediatrician. Also, it seems to me that you're trying to have the least contact (minimum) w/the baby Lola? Detachment is definitely a strong indication of postpartum depression. The newborn Lola needs that bonding w/Mom. You n your husband have a beautiful family but remember you're not always right. It doesn't hurt to get outside advice and assistance. If we didn't care, we wouldn't speak out. Many of us have dealt with similarities in our own families. This is sent w/Love. ❤❤

  • @shay90574
    @shay90574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Samvia, ur energy is so positive and precious! I love the way your family loves you. The kids and husband enjoy helping you. Ugh… that makes my heart filled with joy by just watching and listening. It’s a blessing that Antwan tells you “relax baby, we got it.”😢 I’ve never had that and it’s truly inspiring to me to know that it exist!

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen, thank you for the luv! God is still in control🙏🏽

    • @shay90574
      @shay90574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely 🥰

  • @dr.cheryldenegall4987
    @dr.cheryldenegall4987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Some people get help for their well being. You guys do a good job doing what you do. Those that can afford to get the help that is a blessing to them. Everyone may not be able to afford those luxurious items.

  • @sherryderrywade7712
    @sherryderrywade7712 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Getting some assistance in the home can be selfcare. At times, keeping up with everything, all the time, can become overwhelming. We create our own sense of perfection. It’s not all black, nor white. It’s great that the older chn help the way they do. Do whatever works best in your home

  • @Jabburns67
    @Jabburns67 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I Love this. You are raising a beautiful family. Your kids are learning to help each and their family. The kids don't feel entitled, as if they shouldn't have to do certain things. They are very respectful and well-mannered. I just love ya'll.

  • @dr.cheryldenegall4987
    @dr.cheryldenegall4987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ok dear your husband has spoken sit back and take your rest. He and the kids along with your mother will run the house while you heal just rest.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right, I'm gonna try my best🤎

  • @R1228
    @R1228 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Please 🙏 take care of yourself and give yourself enough rest 💜enough sleep.Yes you don't have to sleep whole day and night equally.
    Move around the house, make your bed, cook for yourself then rest and take care of your baby and yourself.
    At least to my own experience as a mother of 5, the first day after giving birth its horrible, painful,and it's the time I needed help most but third day. It's better and better.
    After the 10th day or on the tenth day, it was my time to move outside the house working doing handwash my baby clothes but not lifting anything.After 30 days I would start workouts to get back my body.
    You are doing good Mrs Henry
    Love you all.❤❤

  • @BlessUP777-JESUS
    @BlessUP777-JESUS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    You got this mama bear in the Mighty Name Of JESUS 💕💜💕. GOD won’t ever leave you, and will see you through EVERY situation you may go through‼️ You and your family are Blessed and Favored💕. GOD will help you through the postpartum🥰.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen! Thank you soo much!❤

    • @shanteljohnson3481
      @shanteljohnson3481 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @gloryudechukwu1249
      @gloryudechukwu1249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen
      Agwu julie

    • @gloryudechukwu1249
      @gloryudechukwu1249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like What your family is doing inthe life of the viewers. God bless your family

    • @BlessUP777-JESUS
      @BlessUP777-JESUS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thehenryfamily_ You’re more than welcome 💜.

  • @mionegidron480
    @mionegidron480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have 5 kids 4 still at home. My oldest 2 (13&11) alternate weeks cleaning kitchen and help cook when I need them to. The 2nd youngest (8)alternates dining rooms a living rooms each week. The youngest (4 yr old) is learning to tidy up and help everyone. They are responsible for their own rooms and work together on the bathrooms. They all help with laundry. I don’t play lazy children in my household. They all contribute and they have to learn to maintain a household so that I don’t have to worry about them being ok when they are on their own!

  • @donitaphilpot8537
    @donitaphilpot8537 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You are so right. You have to teach the children so they will know how to take care of themselves when they get older.

  • @dorothymarshall8124
    @dorothymarshall8124 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    GO GET YOUR REST MY SISTER
    AND MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS U UNION BLESS YOU YOUNG MAN

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen, thank you luv?!!!!

  • @Seasoned5
    @Seasoned5 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    TH-cam Emmy time family. We'd rather watch The Henry family than regular TV. So REAL and relatable.Helps families grow strong together. Changing lives and relationships everywhere. Thank you, and Gods wisdom,favor,mercy,grace,and mercy continue to lead you and keep you.Yes "Blessed, Cute, and Highly Favored.🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😅 Love you family.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much🙏🏽

  • @jingosmith2081
    @jingosmith2081 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Good night,
    I wholeheartedly agree with you guys. Our young people don't understand how to be independent. I love the way you guys raise your babies. That's how my parents raised my sister and I. So now we are independent women. Without our parents instilling God's word and teaching us to be responsible we won't be who we are today. Awesome job to both of you! May God bless the Henry family tremendously. You can't please everyone so continue to do what's best for you'll and your family. Much love Jay🎉

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen! thank you so much for those words,
      Really need to reads this. Thank you again!!!

    • @jingosmith2081
      @jingosmith2081 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thehenryfamily_ You're welcome!

  • @Lifewithpanga
    @Lifewithpanga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I pray you have a healthy and positive postpartum recovery 🩷

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much!🥰

  • @SkySilver777
    @SkySilver777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I just gave birth to my 5th baby and got ZERO help. no one stayed with me- my husband got some time off work but I mean OUTSIDE help. I think as a mom of "many" kids its harder to ask for help bc people see it as "you chose to have another baby" BUT people choose to do hard things all the time and still dont get the same "stigma" as people who have large families.
    I also notice fewer people offer to help when you have more kids bc its not "fun" for them anymore. coming over to hold a newborn and take pics is not helping- when you have a NB and 7 older kids people know they will actually have to HELP if they come over- so its more about them being hosted, than it is about helping us.
    all I know is if I have a daughter or son who needs HELP after having a baby- starting a new job- being in school- moving etc- I will be first in line to volunteer. bc I know how it feels to have almost no support. I take it as a blessing of wisdom that I now UNDERSTAND how it feels- and will do what I can to make sure none of my people feel that way.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Amen, mg husband was just having this conversation. It takes a village to rise a child!!!

    • @Nunya-kb1zi
      @Nunya-kb1zi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nobody is obligated to help yall have to stop popping out kids back to back it is a burden on everyone because they have to alter their LIFE BECAUSE YALL REFUSE TO KEEP THOSE.LEGS CLOSED..

  • @avemaria7402
    @avemaria7402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I totally get it! I get the independence (it’s a native-New Yorker thing 😉) from having to assume responsibilities early on (I had my first child at 18, three months after I graduated from high school)!
    As much as I enjoy seeing your mom there with you, I totally understand that she has to go home-she has a life too-and that her visits are in specific increments.
    I just got back last month from an 8-day visit with my younger daughter and her family, across country. We were celebrating my grandson’s H.S. graduation and 18th birthday.
    I will be going back again next month, mainly because I will stay with my 15-year-old grandson, while his parents and big brother get him settled into college.
    Again, the visit will be in an increment…I’m not trying to live there, and they are doing very well taking care of their little family themselves.
    My oldest daughter is only a state away/a few hours drive from where I live; and, I only visit by invitation or mutual agreement…and never unannounced. Her nest is empty now, so I don’t know when she’s even home, traveling or available. Basically, I (have learned to) respect boundaries.
    And, all of my “children” (which includes my daughters, their spouses, and the grands) know that I am there for any of them (by phone, text, or video) and only a few hours away by car or by plane.
    I love you and the family’s transparency. Honestly, I believe that you are very generous with your sharing; and, it does make me feel like I’m part of your family.
    As the mother of two adult daughters, and grandparent to their offspring (three of which are-or would have been-adults), I’ve learned to stay in my lane, and not to do anything contrary to my “kids’” wishes in their child rearing.
    That’s, primarily, why I don’t express my opinions too strongly about the things that you do or don’t do when it comes to your own body, marriage and/or raising your children.
    When I was working, and while I was simultaneously, raising my kids, I never outsourced laundry, had people come in to cook, etc. At best, I was fortunate to have siblings and/or good friends that would watch my kids, or I may have hired an occasional babysitter for a few hours so that my children were supervised in my absence. But, honestly, I’m a private person that doesn’t want people looking at my dirty laundry (dual meaning); and, in my opinion, not many cook as well or better than I do. and, I never wanted anyone cleaning my house, ironing, my clothes, or even washing my windows; because, I always wanted my own touch… And no one else has it but yourself.
    As the fourth child of eight, and the second daughter that was home for the majority of my parents’ child rearing, I learned these things because my parents gave me the opportunity to be involved, and to do what I was capable of doing as one of their children.
    I realize that your content is one of your means of income. But, I also recognize that you guys know the balance necessary for your physical and financial well-being.
    All I could say, is like I tell my own, do you. I have every confidence that you’re on the right track! And, I’ll still love you. ❤

  • @Lisaderruck55
    @Lisaderruck55 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have 2 kids. 1st one I was on my own since the doc said I was pregnant. The man disappeared gave birth at the hospital brought him.home limping. I was suffering from a terrible autoimmune disease at the time that affected my teeth I was on antibiotics still took care of him. Later I got married gave birth another son I did everything by myself. He barely did anything. No family.no one. Sometimes it's just yourself you have

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm praying for your strength. Jesus!!

    • @Nunya-kb1zi
      @Nunya-kb1zi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You SURE do know how to pick THE WRONG MEN

  • @JustUsSystemInc
    @JustUsSystemInc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have this problem because my mom put it on me to help her young as her husbands never did. I am in counseling now and they said I have OCD mentally not physically. It also happens for gifted women. Maybe some counseling and mommy retreats here and there.

  • @ValerieCampbell-fz7zo
    @ValerieCampbell-fz7zo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOL… I hope his mission isn’t to get you pregnant next week because I know how easy it is to get pregnant right after having a baby. I had two babies in one year from my husband…take care…😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰

  • @reneecollins9601
    @reneecollins9601 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think you guys black love is so genuine, and I live the way your husband loves and appreciate you sharing your life with us ❤❤❤

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much🙏🏽

  • @Greenlover13
    @Greenlover13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes, keep your coins sis you and your husband and your children is the village create a system that works for you.I'm about to have a family of nine we leave in Texas and don't have support we are not originally from here. And don't want the support of my husband people cause we run or home differently my husband and my children are the support system.

  • @yolandawilson6619
    @yolandawilson6619 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You may want to see an actual doctor and have labs done instead of self diagnosing. That's extremely irresponsible on a social media platform. It's great to recognize various signs and symptoms, but to automatically put this out there without seeking true professional help is irresponsible and dangerous for both yoyrself and those who may be uninformed or uneducated on the subject. To repeatedly have children without seeking help for something you say you're mentally prone to is dangerous. If this is truly how you feel and what you think it is, get help and not validation or sympathy from your comment section.

  • @tracyhenderson9216
    @tracyhenderson9216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also feel like I’m part of your family. Thank you for making us feel welcome.

  • @deawilliams9592
    @deawilliams9592 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you so much for your Transparency, Boldness, as well as Holy Boldness! I love that you're literally taking us on this journey with y'all! Love yall tremendously!❤

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen, so glad you like our channel. Thank you for your support🙏🏽

  • @DameishaJolly-vb2bj
    @DameishaJolly-vb2bj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think after making this baby I think both of you should work on yourselves mentally.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God is in control !!!

    • @germillmitchell8463
      @germillmitchell8463 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thehenryfamily_Amen‼️🙏🙌❤️

  • @taunyaquick9320
    @taunyaquick9320 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Good evening, you have to rebuke that spirit that negative spirit in the mighty name of Yahoshua. How is it hard for you to ask for help when you’re already getting assistance from your entire family. Everyone is always hands on including outside help. Rebuke that spirit this is all I’ve been reading since your 8 th child come on now stop it.

    • @mimiresilient6468
      @mimiresilient6468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly..Im not understanding her or the gripe?

  • @shay90574
    @shay90574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Awww y’all are so precious 🥹

  • @mskeisha200587
    @mskeisha200587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    IM SO HAPPY TO SEE A FAMILY TOGETHER ... IT MAKES ME SMILE ..YESS WE NEED MORE THIS 😢😊

  • @tammydunn4892
    @tammydunn4892 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    See I never wanted kids because I love my life and I have no regrets in not having children. I am so glad that I don’t have grandchildren because most likely some child will be becoming the drop off the child at my house for me to be raising their kid at 51 and I learned how to do these things really really young like by eight I knew how to you know so I don’t know if you have teenagers and they don’t know how to wash their own clothes and do certain things then that’s a problem yes

  • @LissieChamberlain-pe4fm
    @LissieChamberlain-pe4fm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love bein your family to.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Awwwww! We are grateful for you!❤️

  • @dorothyjones4828
    @dorothyjones4828 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Beautiful family so proud of you as a family! Take care Samvia! Keep trusting in God! Love you all!

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much🙏🏽

  • @LaRavenTwitty
    @LaRavenTwitty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I come in Love. I love your spiritual growth in Jesus. I just noticed a lack of clothing covering stomachs, legs, and chest. Have God pointed this out?

  • @idasusanti9084
    @idasusanti9084 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hallo mom,, ❤❤happy family, me oma Ida, to Indonesia, saya penggemar you, tolong buat juga bahasa Indonesia nya,, d bawah, agar bisa mngerti banyak, ok mom❤❤❤thanks,,, saya suka liat keluarga mu yang asik,,

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching our channel!!!

  • @rhondasreallyraw7714
    @rhondasreallyraw7714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This family has a great balance of being a social media family and keeping it realistic for ppl who aren’t influencers!!!! Bravo to the Henry’s!!! I’m new and stuck now…I joined in at the birthing of No.8 LOL #subscribed

  • @djacquelinebrown6775
    @djacquelinebrown6775 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for the chicken and cabbage soup recipe. I made some on yesterday for today’s meal. It is so delicious. I shared some to others and they loved it as well!

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely!!!

    • @CBtalks8554
      @CBtalks8554 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey I missed the chicken and cabbage recipe where can I find it?????😢😊❤

  • @NickyLo9464
    @NickyLo9464 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ❤ you Henry Family! Take care and get rest Samvia. Antwan and the kids got this!

  • @maikad.6582
    @maikad.6582 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg that’s crazy I was thinking about this today, children become adults and they need all the bases from the beginning to become healthy adults in the future. We have them for 16 years of they lives. What we thought them is what they going to have to navigate they adult lives

  • @BoscoJean-lj7zg
    @BoscoJean-lj7zg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wawuuu byiza cyaneee ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤

  • @caseymallory1774
    @caseymallory1774 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello congratulations

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you❤️❤️❤️

  • @crystalcordays-lyfethrufre9924
    @crystalcordays-lyfethrufre9924 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yeah your body keeps the score... basking in your divine feminine energy is a muscle you have to exercise so be patient with yourself as it's sometimes hard to shift when you're used to operating from your Divine masculine energy. You're not alone though, thanks for sharing this! Note to self I definitely needed this message too❤❤ Love y'all!! Xoxo

  • @Sena-gc3om
    @Sena-gc3om 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Muhteşem ailesiniz sizi keşfetimde gördüm babayi ayrica tebrik ederim baba gibi baba koca gibi koca tek anlamadigim kac cocuk var 🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷

  • @tinaellis631
    @tinaellis631 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ChiTown love yall!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ praying for peace and strength

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you soooo much!❤️

    • @tinaellis631
      @tinaellis631 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thehenryfamily_ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Starsunshine777
    @Starsunshine777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Back in the day when all women stayed home the children helped. A big family can’t not be successful without everyone’s help. Is ok to get help.

  • @freethelambministriesinc6589
    @freethelambministriesinc6589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You and your family are obviously bless by THE MOST HIGH GOD YAHWEH. PLEASE PRACTICE OR INCLUDE LEVITICUS 12 into your Childbirth and WATCH GOD/YAHWEH BLESS YOU and Husband even more during/ in the process 🙏 of family...childbirth and MOSTLY SPIRITUALITY and PHYSICAL CLEANLINESS!!! ALSO keeping YOUR GOD "1ST" in the DYNAMICS of YOUR FAMILY "CHRISTIAN WALK !"

  • @MonsLee-kv3ws
    @MonsLee-kv3ws 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey DR, Henry did an amazing job delivery baby #8 Lola congratulations to you both God bless you and your family 🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙

  • @indytherottweiler9002
    @indytherottweiler9002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never ever ask for help. I just delivered my babygirl in Oct after not having a baby in 16 years. I was 19 with my second and 16 with my first. 35 with my 3rd. I had a c section with all 3. 2 having pain management and the 3rd i did all by myself with no drugs since I'm 8 years sober and wanted to do everything I could to bot take anything. I went back to work 2 weeks after giving birth an I own a small cleaning service so instead of asking for someone to watch heror maybe take a month or 2 off I went and did a move out clean with my 2 week old daughter. I had a horrible dv situation so I don't ask my husband now for help ever. He does try but I always end up doing everything on my own bring a women with lots of trauma can really suck

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I understand what you go through🤎

  • @ARealBeauty-k1z
    @ARealBeauty-k1z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I totally relate. This is so me as well everyday . I calmed down alot but its only due to me realizing I needed to because I actually did go through a burnout and spiritually The Creator just literally made me sit down and rest . I was slowed down because I was overwhelming myself. It truly is so hard to ask for help.

  • @robinburel3456
    @robinburel3456 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You two are anointed and just listening to your testimony reminds me when I was a young stepmom, and later having my first born.
    God is sooo awesome and it shows.
    Continue to be you, wash your own undies 😁, accept help...there's plenty of assistance around! If I could have been blessed to have more angels, I certainly would have!
    T.G.B.T.G 🙏🏽❤ 🙏🏽

  • @florfarias2539
    @florfarias2539 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys are amazing! I feel truly inspired on how great of a team you are. Blessings ❤ praying that your relationship will continue to thrive every day! You deserve it you put the work in….❤

  • @SHEaintPlayn
    @SHEaintPlayn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only have 4 kids and truly wanted more but I knew that my husband and I were becoming burnout and spread so thin. Trying to be present for every kid of different ages 13,8,4,2 with different needs and activities and etc. Trying to be super parents. Like you it’s just us with no support so I couldn’t imagine having 8 children. I know you’re spread super thin daily but at postpartum you have to let your body recover and the best way to do that is rest and nutrition. Please just rest take those 4-6weeks to be taken care of when you can ❤

  • @nicoleprice354
    @nicoleprice354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for your transparency. It is well appreciated. ❤❤❤

  • @jemillahope2157
    @jemillahope2157 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have faith in Jesus, your husband and your family ❤❤❤we love you.. don't be too hard on yourself.. it's a trauma recovery time. We all been there..😊🫂🙏🏾 prayers on repeat.. let them and us help you. Tell us how we can help too.. we love you and your family. Let the older kids do more content for beautiful Ms Laila.. to Lady Lisa.. I would love to see Lil Libby have a cooking show or the boys do sport stuff. So you can rest with the babies. Your family is adorable. Sam only makes cute kids❤🎉😊

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!❤️

    • @jemillahope2157
      @jemillahope2157 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you, sister❤❤❤​@thehenryfamily_

  • @nafeesharumph-su1lh
    @nafeesharumph-su1lh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Samvia" U are very very "AWESOME" MOTHER 2 ALLLLLL your "CHILDREN"😇👶👸🤴👸👩👦👧👸❤‼️💖

  • @marciaheadley9933
    @marciaheadley9933 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mrs. Henry your eyeware is beautiful. Fits you well. Congratulations on the birth of your newest addition to your family. God's continuous richest blessings on your beautiful family 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️😅🙏🏽,

  • @denisedean2446
    @denisedean2446 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes trauma brings on a controlling nature. You learn self preservation snd will find it difficult to let others help, and always control everyone and everything because your mind says I have to remain in control. What is obvious is mom has trauma and it was obvious before baby number 8. Everyone seems on edge as though they are waitng for mom to give them the next order.When the kids came from vacation bible study Lisa and her sisters stood like soldiers looking uncomfortable as though waiting for mom's cues.We dont see her interaction with her children once the camera is off. But mom is very rigid, type A personality and has trained the family to wait for her commands.Even Antwan. We keep hearingnpostpartum, Im a mother of 8 as though its her brand. Therapy will help mom to deal with her trauma so that Lisa can have more confidence. Not once have we heard how the husband is doing.We just hear her talking about herself.He went through an ordeal too.

  • @Eccentricjewelry
    @Eccentricjewelry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baby girl is so cute 😊❤ I'm 36 weeks and due in 3 weeks I definitely have problems asking for help to, I'm a single mom with two other girls and have always had to take care of myself

  • @billiehicks6587
    @billiehicks6587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People have different schedules, commitments and influencer sponsorships and companies they do business with as Influencers.
    You have your way of doing things and other people have their way of doing things. When we respect other’s choice in life, it makes sense why we are all different.❤

  • @gcobisamntubu3122
    @gcobisamntubu3122 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not forgetting that baby Lola is very beautiful like her siblings ❤❤❤👌👌👌

  • @CjBaby920
    @CjBaby920 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He sounds like my fiancée when I had his first child I didn’t want to ask him for help. So what he did he washed me up and all I was ashamed he said you just had my child I still love u. Now we on his second child and my 6th. I’m a little scared but I know God got it . ❤

  • @nomvulangwenya1521
    @nomvulangwenya1521 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤you guys keep doing what you are doing cause you are doing it good guys everything you just said its true your kids goner learn from you two guys thanx thanx you very much Have yourself a good nap lovey ❤❤

  • @dorothymarshall8124
    @dorothymarshall8124 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WE ARE YOUR FAMILY
    A BEAUTIFUL SPECIAL BLESSING FROM GOD I LOVE U HENRY FAMILY WE LOVE U

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! We love you back❤❤❤

  • @nomsamazunga3742
    @nomsamazunga3742 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sure sure rest rest an need to rest u have been through a lot that s no joke we thank God ure okay an the baby s fine

  • @mrsthompson783
    @mrsthompson783 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will always adore the Henry’s and appreciate their lifestyle! Thank you ❤

  • @reviradavis733
    @reviradavis733 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some people work 40-80 hrs a week and may not feel rested or have time but it does take time loading machines and then having to fold the clothes

  • @mimirich1
    @mimirich1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The word of God says women who have had a girl should have an 80 day postpartum if a boy 40 days. Just saying for optimal health.

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @carlycarls3104
    @carlycarls3104 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember Antwan in school …. He was quiet back then

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He sure not quiet now!!!

  • @gaylevonholt
    @gaylevonholt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OMG! Love that you're praying during this video!

  • @reviradavis733
    @reviradavis733 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some people work 40-80 hrs a week and it does take time loading machines and then having to fold the clothes

  • @melissamarine6517
    @melissamarine6517 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about the ‘Henry haven’??? Which means a safe place of refuge…

  • @verondamcgowen1840
    @verondamcgowen1840 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really Love watching you guys❤

  • @sherrylung8077
    @sherrylung8077 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact is, even though folks don't have the funds to hire help, there are so many living in the debtors paradise.

  • @FredaSimms-yp5xd
    @FredaSimms-yp5xd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Will you all be having more children

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's up to God!!

    • @ladyleo944
      @ladyleo944 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@theghost-z6pExactly ,I think some get being submissive confused with having common sense ....

    • @FredaSimms-yp5xd
      @FredaSimms-yp5xd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It is also up to you and your husband to use Wisdom and thats no SHADE as the young people say.

  • @melindaandrews4581
    @melindaandrews4581 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Continue on keeping on🙏🏾💞🫂Laughter is good for the Soul!!! God bless this Union each and every day 💖

  • @MrzShonny
    @MrzShonny 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As the 10th child of my mother’s 10 children…..allow me to say CONGRATULATIONS! CONTINUE TO COMMUNICATE! CONTINUE IN CHRIST! CONTINUE TO CROSS OUT EVERY lie THE ENEMY HAS ATTEMPTED TO PIN ON YOU, AS A BIG/BEAUTIFULLY BLESSED FAMILY! 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂PRAYERS UP FOR YOUR CONTINUED STRENGTH! Why am I yelling? 😂😂😂😂The Henry family is the exception to the world’s standards. I ❤️ it! Watching you all is actually refreshing! Thanks for sharing.

  • @WandaD.77
    @WandaD.77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I LOVE YALL!!!❤

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We love you too❤️❤️❤️

  • @Marriworld593
    @Marriworld593 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur right maybe there can be a written schedule

  • @justaorella702
    @justaorella702 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tiene 8 hijos ojala sea el ultimo 🍼😃🎈🌹

  • @nikabuttons7302
    @nikabuttons7302 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Forgive me.....But in the Thumbnail you guys look alike🤦🏽‍♀️ Congrats again Henry Family!!!❤❤

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No way! Really??🤣

    • @nikabuttons7302
      @nikabuttons7302 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thehenryfamily_ Yes ma'am.....but maybe it's me🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nikabuttons7302😂😂😂

  • @carolynporter9013
    @carolynporter9013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good evening

    • @thehenryfamily_
      @thehenryfamily_  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Heyyy good evening!❤️

  • @NanetteEsparon
    @NanetteEsparon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your family ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @veelgroup1415
    @veelgroup1415 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does Mr Henry do?

  • @BeautyIsABeast89
    @BeautyIsABeast89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re already VALIDATED by GOD! When you ARE weak, HE WILL MAKE YOU STRONG, you ARE the HEAD & NOT THE TAIL. Know that 🙏🏽 & rest in knowing that. You’re on your 8th child. Like you said you’ve been pregnant 3 times almost back to back. Give your mind & body rest babe.

  • @nafeesharumph-su1lh
    @nafeesharumph-su1lh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💪🙏💖🙏‼️

  • @felishahoward155
    @felishahoward155 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SIMPLY AMAZING! I LOVE YOU GUYS! The name for all your viewers should be “THE HENRY’S EXTENDED FAMILY 😊❤️🙏🏾!