Hey guys!!! Thank you so much for all the love on my music these past years! Wanted to comment and say that I'm releasing a new album on May 24th. It's titled “Joyride” and I hope you will pre-save it and check out the countdown page on Spotify astrids.lnk.to/Joyride_Countdown 🍒🏎🏁✨🥺
Reading all the comments makes me go 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺!!! Thank you! This song is very special to me. edit: Leave it Beautiful is finally out! astrids.lnk.to/LeaveItBeautiful 💖💽💖💽💖💽
I just wanna let you know that your songs are a blessing upon to everyone. And I don't know if you know this but people are so sad and hurting from things they don't talk about and with your songs they get to relate and find ease😉. Your voice, your songs, your beauty......they're therapy💗 Much love from South Africa🙋🏾♂️
Some people think it's a motivational song, but for me it's actually a story about a heart that got hurt many times that reach the point of being numb. When you're numb from a heartbreak, everything feels easier, forgiving, forgetting, letting go. I still pray for his happiness, I hope he'll find a better girl for him and live a better life. I still love him, but it's a different love than before, I don't want him anymore, I don't wanna hurt him anymore, and I don't wanna be hurt by him anymore.
I was in a relationship with him for almost two years. It was the perfect relationship I've ever been in. He cared for me like no other, tended to my needs, and was there to always listen to me. He was gentle with my heart and loved me the way I thought love would be. I always thought I'd walk down the aisle to him, but one day, out of the blue, he wanted to end the relationship without even giving me a proper reason. I froze for two weeks. I didn't shed even a single tear (I couldn’t), and I was in shock and couldn't process the breakup at all, but after two weeks passed, I shared about my situation with my friend, and she asked me to listen to this song because it sounded similar, and the moment I listened to it, I broke down. I cried like a baby. That was the first time I cried after our breakup and the first time my family members heard and saw me cry loud, but I didn't care. My heart shattered into a million pieces that night, and I wailed my heart out. I remembered that I would never see him again because we lived in different countries, and there was no way we would cross paths again, so I knew that was the end of our relationship. It's been3 years since we broke up, and I am still single. I am not sure if I'll find anyone who will love me like he did, but that's okay. I've moved on now, but now and then I listen to this and remember how grateful I am for the love i was showered with. :)
I thought that at first too but why would she wish that she’s hurt when she is not at all? She’s not mature, she is stuck in the neutral (no feelings). This song is actually pretty sad if you realize that... She wishes that she would feel something 😔
that's not really true. Feeling your emotions is mature and healthy. It is 100% healthy to feel sad/emotional after a breakup. You can develop adult attachment to people even if they're crappy to you/the relationship isn't healthy. And you can feel withdrawal etc. from that. On the other hand, I'm not saying you have to feel sad. Maybe that's just how she feels. I'm not trying to shame her for not being sad. But not feeling sad definitely isn't the "mature and healthy" response. Feeling sad/emotional is natural and valid. Being mature and healthy doesn't mean not having natural human emotions. Moreover, I can relate to her wishing it did. Back when I was like 16 (a long time ago) I broke up w/an ex and didn't feel any sadness emotions (because I was on zoloft at the time and I had ssri activation syndrome so I literally couldn't feel sad). It was awful. He was also a shitty person so maybe I just didn't care, but crying and feeling sad can be cleansing sometimes, and when you wish you could feel that sadness but all you feel is numb/nothing it isn't necessarily healthy. It can be awful and feel like your emotions are all stopped up. Sadness can be cleansing. Crying releases endorphins. Not feeling anything might just be the phase she's in but if she wishes she could feel something then it might actually be really awful for her. I think a lot of people would argue that feeling apathetic/numb can in many ways feels worse than sadness and I wholeheartedly agree.
Guys you have given some good reasons and I have considered them all but actually I do think she's feeling a lot of pain but maybe she wrote this song on some of those time after break up when we are feeling positive and we want good things for them too(ex),we feel things happened for the best.It's about that according to me.
I think this song isn’t about a toxic relationship. I think she’s singing about a relationship that she didn’t regret having. She was grateful and happy and still love that person enough to let them be happy since she couldn’t. And she’s okay with that.
Yeah same here.. the man I liked is now engage & getting married soon.. I felt so much pain in my chest & regretted that I lost him but i realized that letting go is part of loving too..
@@leovylrivera1930 to be honest this song gives me comfort. My ex was pretty toxic. He did say the only thing he regret was hurting me. So he let me go. I guess he actually did love me more than I thought. And he said he wanted me to move on and be happy with someone else. I miss him like crazy and I still love him.
It touches on the idea that heartbreak and emotional exhaustion can be so overwhelming that we reach a point where we no longer have the energy to feel bad anymore. While this may seem like a bleak or depressing sentiment, it can also be seen as a sign of resilience and inner strength. Sometimes, it's necessary to reach a point of complete emotional exhaustion in order to begin to heal and move on. Like how can you hold a grudge against a person you love.Its okay.
When you're just done caring about someone. You're just no longer care and just accept the fact that they're not meant for you. It's easier to feel nothing at all than broken hearted over something that's beyond our reach. Lol. I felt this way too. Just done caring. You do you and I'll do me.
This song I think is like growing apart. that about being grateful feeling after break up. This is so refreshing. I can imgine how this story went... perhaps the couple realized that they aren't growing as an individual anymore. It's not hate, it's not breaking up cause of lies and cheating. It's breaking up because you know you both have different priorities or kind of life you imagined to be. It's breaking up but forever loving the person and keeping him/her in your heart because of good memories.
it is about getting over it in a way, she's just wondering why she doesn't feel anything and wishing that she did. It sounds like a healthy song to begin with then the chorus ends so cynically
Software Proj Her not feeling anything at all is sad cause In a sense it means the relationship and the strong feelings she had felt was pointless in the gran scheme of things
This song shows me it's alright to not feel hurt because it ends with someone special to us. We can still move on and be thankful for it, even after parting ways.
But i think if she's happy with her now status, it's better to stay here. Worldwide fame destroy people. Especially Hollywood. I wish her all the joy, happiness, flowers, success which is may she already have, love and peace.❤
I'm an old time 61 year old rocker. And finally, a contemporary artist with profound thoughts. Her angelic voice is Stevie Nix like. And she's not hard on the eyes🕺🏄
Im into toxic relationship for almost 4 years. He was abusive, ego, and im the one that always spend money. Idk why i cant let him go, i know he spending night with other girls but i always welcoming him back. Until january when he want to broke up with me.. for the first time im not waiting him, i dont feel sad or depressed like i use to. Finally i realise that my self is worth it
This resonates so much with my current situation. After 5 years of being together, he called it quits. I found out it was because he met someone new and better. Thought it was going to be hard for me to accept that fact. Apparently, knowing that he is happier now makes me happy. I feel freer, learn to love myself better and now I can focus only on myself and what I care about. Remember to never beg for love, but to love yourself first. It is going to be ok, eventually 🥰
Thank you! I just blocked him hahaha. Seeing his flirt comment on other girls post. I saw it. We don't have relationship but he flirted with me. I caught feelings. Sadly, I read his comment "such a doll🥰" to another girls post. Yeah, I put an end and doesn't want to hope him anymore. He didn't reply my message whole day, but he can flirt on other girls post. I put and end TODAY. I feel free and crying now. But, I know I'll be better than when I hoped him message me first.
The way I would cry over him to this song.... the most painful heart breaking sobs, wishing for physical pain instead of the heartache because at least with a cut or bruise or a broken bone at least I could see that it was healing.... and now I'm back a year later. Let me tell you this: it gets better ❤ I promise, this too shall pass and you'll look back on this pain and thank this stage in your life for making you stronger. You haven't met all the people who'll come into your life and rock your world, trust me. It gets better
I came to realize that breakups happens for a reason whether you don't have the same goals your partner cheated on you they abuse you they hurt you you simply don't match and that means breakup is a healthy thing it's letting go of that problem
idk why but something about her explaining she isn’t sad, makes me super sad . It’s like you were so in love with a person & then it fades into nothing. This song makes me wanna ball my eyes out 😔
Exactlyy! And I thought it's just me feeling this way cuz most of the comments here are about self healing and being happy and whatnot... whereas I'm here feeling terribly sad listening to it
For the first time, I had a break up that didn't leave me feeling broken. In fact, while I still miss him sometimes, what I mostly feel is gratitude and some nostalgia. ❤
i met my ex yesterday. its been a year since we broke up, and i ask him to talk again. i thought i would cry in front of him, but we just laughing together like friends. now i listen to this song and i relate so much. its okay ren, its okay if you forget me. im not jealous if youre happy now, cause im happy too, with my own life. i met few guys too, and some of them better than you, some of them not. but thats okay. i hope we could be friend next time. thank you astrid for this song❤
It's crazy how much I can relate to this. A few months ago I just broke up with my boyfriend for 3 years. I used to think that I love him so much, but strangely I didn't feel anything when we're actually apart. Peoples look at me with pity in their eyes, they thought that I must be very sad. But honestly I'm really okay. The thing that used to scare me to just think about, turned out to be nothing at all. I realized that actually I never love him as much as I thought I did. But I thank God that we broke up, because it was a toxic relationship and my life turn out to be so much better and happier without him, and I'm perfectly fine.
Good on you, while him is still on the process of moving on. I am sure that right now he is still searching for someone like you. As kind as you, as lovely as you, as beautiful as you. He might set you as his standard and perhaps he still needs you so much in his life. So dun avoid him pls, coz he still love u so much.
@@mikeljune9249 Well, I think he'll be better without me. It's not that he's a completely bad person. But he lack the will to work for himself because I used to provide for him. He always made a lot of excuses whenever I encourage him to make a better future for himself. He's 6 years older than me but he's more childish than me. His world revolves around his circles of friend and having fun while I worked hard day and night for the both of us. It's true that I make more money than him, but he should have think about his own future and not only depend on me. Now without me in the picture means that he have to think for himself.
@@fellyciach Dun work too hard for him then just work for urself like the you used to be before your relationship with him. U fell in love with him in that state when he was single. If he change and started to worked hard, you might feel a slight changes coz he will loss a time for u and losing time to each other might be lead to break-up like the one you did. He will not change bcoz he consider his friends and its a selfish decision if you asked him to let go of his friend bcoz u wanted a better future, mostly if u still dun have a child. Just enjoy ur time with him unless there is no more reason stay with him
These days it's hard to find songs with such lyrics , it's like every song about how people are really hurt from a relationship , but this is a bit different , that's what what I'm looking for 🖤
I accidentally came acrossed this song just now because I mistyped something on Google. I don't know how or why... I was compelled with a strong feeling to want to click the video. It's strange because I don't normally click any song randomly. As I listened to it, I felt that this song was exactly about what I feel right now. The lyrics were 100% accurate even the time frame when I discovered this song just now. It's as if this song was written for me personally. I wish I could let her know that I'm pretty fine and grateful that it happens. The line "It's okay if you forget me" has some healing energy in it. I'm grateful for this song. Thank you so much.
I had the most earnest, simplest and healthiest break-up with my long term boyfriend a year ago. We went through a lot of hard times, sure, but it was amazing while it lasted. I think of him and I just smile. We grew as better people along the way and I have to give him credit for a lot of things that has changed in my life for the better. His patience rubbed off on me and he let me see myself in the way that I never did before; confident, strong and beautiful. We were broken when we met, but we healed each other and let each other grow. I think he's happy now and I'm so happy for him. I'm alone but I am the happiest I've been in a very long time. I have no regrets as to what happened between us and to us. I'm just grateful for the experience and for having found a friend in him. Joey, this is for you!
This song reminds me of someone who told me he loved me when I didn't even feel it. One day he was here with me, and the next day, gone without a word. So I let him go, now it's over. It didn't hurt but I wish it did.
I can relate... He said he liked me, I didn't feel it so I rejected him, he insisted on becoming friends, finally felt for him and he is gone but for some reason I don't feel empty... Probably because I never felt his love :)
Honestly not enough singers properly translate falling out of love. This was beautiful and we need more songs that tells us the real truth. Everything ends😌
Spent 5 years loving a man who only loved himself. He left me feeling like I was worth nothing. I am working on finding myself. This song is so relatable.
He left me countless times, and I kept accepting him back as I love him so much, but at last, I let him go for good. I can’t ruin myself by staying in that toxic relationship even tho I love him more than anything. I wish him a happy life as I won’t come back to him. Hope you can be happy and stronger because you worth the happiness this would could offers you ❤️✨ Sending love to you.
I honestly ironically feel like that but with all threw out highschool. threw out highschool I didnt want or feel a need for boyfriend, so when I ever made a close guy friend, I feared he would ask me out and then stop talking to me. When they did ,they would stop talking me as much as I expected like the others did when I didn't become their gf. I used to be afaid to lose people.Now I just don't expect for them to stay in my life that much.I just learn to love myself God and my family more appreciate the little moments and not be afraid to let people go if they don't appreciate me in the life.
Exactly I think like you ! Breakups are being so romanticized in art nowadays that when a couple parts ways on a understanding and a benevolent note it feels wrong somehow.
Agreed! I was in a relationship for 7 years before we broke up. We never had a huge argument before parting ways, and till this day, not a single hatred towards each other. We grew out from our teens into adults together, and had a pretty good relationship throughout. But i guess we just knew when things were just not meant for us. We eventually broke up and wished the best for each other. Bottomline is, a break up doesnt necessarily mean getting out of a toxic relationship, but could also mean understanding each other and wanting the best for yourselves (not in a selfish way though).
I think this song is when you have a meaningful relationship that ends and you expect to be heartbroken and mourning it but you’re actually fine and okay and you’re questioning what that means or if you even really loved them at all but you’re numb and one day it’s gonna hit you like ton of bricks
Dude this songs hits so hard... I felt weird that after break up I didn't cry.. But I felt so lonely inside... it's unexplainable actually... but this song told my story...
@@sydneynguyen4987 Mine wasn't really a breakup, he just decides to give up. I felt the same too. At first I thought it was weird that I didn't shed a tear at all, but eventually I realized it's because I deserve way better than that cause I know I'm a good person and I love deeply, I know my worth now. And I won't ever settle.
This song is the way I feel about my ex. We were together for almost 2 years and now after a month of being broken up, I just wish him happiness, i always have. We still have eachothers phone number. We still keep in touch. He checks up on me once In a while. But I feel happy being single. To me, I think the best love is family love. I’ve learned to love myself and work on my studies toward my dream career.
This is nothing about a toxic relationship ending. It's just they stop seeing each other as lovers. It happens sometimes, my people call it "out of fate"
@@flyingbird1756 Well i guess you gotta tell him anyway, the hardest thing to hide is when you stop care for s.o. Better hurt once than miserable for both.
@@flyingbird1756 Same happened to me with my gf. I got really anxious cause I love her (still) too much! But I’m fucked up and can’t deal with a relationship rn. I was sabotaging myself:( We broke up but we still love each other. It’s tough.
FINALLY!!! I found a song that resonates with my feelings! With time, the actual hurt of separation goes down to being negligible. The worst part is when you don't feel pain, even though you believe that you SHOULD. When you want to cry, but the tears just don't come. You wonder if there was ever anything magical in that connection, for which you sacrificed so much...
This is so true, like I don't understand how could I not cry for someone I loved so much but I thinks it's because my heart was already waiting for it to end, the memories that I had with that person kept me clinging into him but a breath of relief has come into me when were over. It's a confusing but good feeling that our hearts can feel it when it's enough for us take so much pain any longer. It tells us that we've had enough and makes us understand our worth but it could be that we no longer have the same excitement for being in love as much as we used to.
@@sairrajadepantuaimus5342 I can totally relate. Adele puts it very nicely in her song 'Someone Like You' when she says, "I didn't know how bitter-sweet this would taste..." So it's just that. A bitter-sweet feeling. With time you forgive the person for almost everything. The negative feelings you had for them earlier all eventually go away. It's just love that remains. And a feeling of peace alternating with moments of an utmost sense of loss.
Knowing I'm still thinking about that person that we broke it off 2 years ago, yet I enjoyed every moment being with that person. Although, I can fully say that it was totally okay that either way we ran off our own paths apart from each other without being affected. This song really resonates with me because it should've been painful, it should've at least took some time to fully accept it. Guessing that certain things like maturity between the two of us and clear communication made us understand that if it ends it ends, and you'll miss the person yes, but you understand that there are things that have to take its course. Thank you so much for this beautiful song!
To all the people out there who feel emotionless, it's not that you're stone hearted or anything. It's just that you've grown to learn to not let things get to you easily. You don't have to question yourself. Its just you growing up and becoming a stronger person ❤️❤️❤️
After two weeks, i felt exactly as this. But as time passed, 8 months now i found it's difficult to move on. I found out the first two weeks or the first one month was a denial stage, that you're not feeling hurtful and you're okay. You're trying to make yourself stronger, and denying without the norms you'll be fine. Now, I found myself dreaming of his present, and longing being there next to him to hear his voice and just being there instead. I do sincerely want him to be happy with whoever that is, it's just that I'm taking my time from us before, and it's kinda slow and probably silently hurtful. Btw, your song is beautiful, loving it 💘
This song gave me closure(and a sign) after i broke up with someone. ive fully accepted that he doesn't want to fight for us, wish him the best in the world. This song just told me to move on and not except a YOU in someone. Tusen takk, Astrid.
It doesn't hurt and she's still wishing for it... That could mean two things: 1. She didn't let that sink in yet (Most probably) 2. She really loves him and she can wholeheartedly wish the best for him Not necessarily a toxic relationship.
@@shadowlibrarian400 Even with a clean breakup, there still could be a little pain. If so, that's still goes under the 1st point. If there's no pain (yes..rare), it still goes under the 2nd point.
Rupa Nandani you can have a clean breakup with someone you don’t really love anymore, so not necessarily. People break up for a lot of different reasons.
"From everything to nothing at all" Literally hits me "From meeting everyday,from being on calls till hours,from laughing together,from watching countless sunsets together,from singing together,from crying together- to- not metting each other at all,not even having the audacity to make eye contact with each other "
And the worst part, it’s when they two days after the breakup, from a 2 years relationship, they be with someone else and be telling them that he loves her and shit, but yk what. It’s ok, I hope the best life for him and his knew girl
@@carolurbaez130 I feel you, we broke up after 10 years together and he's been dating a lot of girls since the breakup, it's just 3-4 months :) that hurts me a lot.
The best thing about Astrid is that she has her own style and she is not running behind the trends. She is making something unique. Which is really hard to find these days. 😍😍
Never heard of Astrid before nor even listened any of her songs before but today YT recommended me this beautiful piece and I felt how long have I been living under a rock.
This song helped me so much last 2022.. When I got closure from someone I almost had a relationship on 2019. Right before he finally got married. I had this song on repeat for 2 weeks.🥰
It's doesn't hurt cuz it too much will you can't feel it... it's better to feel the pain at times. Hugs to you. All will be fine, just give yourself a little more time.. Stay positive.. after every storm there will sure be a rainbow... 😊 Just remembered you are not alone....
For the longest time I was afraid of letting him go. I felt like all the sacrifices and the future that I imagined with him will all go to waste so better hold on. One time i was hurting so much, I was at my peak but then suddenly this song played. It calmed me. Suddenly I felt happy.
Dated a narcissist guy for 10 months, manipulated me the whole relationship, cheated on me with tons of girls, he always had “sweet” things to say just to make me feel selfless, I didn’t really realise that I was in a toxic relationship until I decided to break up with him, he was a monster and blamed everything on me, he tried to get into my life again a few weeks ago, said he regretted everything but I know I don’t need him anymore, I’m so happy I’m finally free now, focusing on myself is the greatest thing ever and I cherish it every single day
I dated a narcissist for 10 months too! I broke up with him because I found out he had been cheating on me the whole time. The worst thing is he still denies ever cheating on me till this day when there’s proof. I would always see red flags within the relationship, but he would manipulate me. I was just so naive at the time. It really is the worst feeling! Glad I ended that! Happier now than I was in that relationship! Sending you blessings and positive vibes
What I like about this song is how it portrays a healthy relationship and a healthy break up(perhaps). Because you know you've given enough, they had give you enough, it was happy and you are contended with how the relationship goes for everyday to never at all.
i've heard the song for a year now and it still feels like the best song in my playlist. It brings out the emotions and memories and that's what I like about the song
This song hits different when you've genuinely let them go and moved on. For a period of time you were exactly what I needed. But situations change and people grow apart. However I'll always be thankful for all the memories, good or bad.
Almost 5 years in a relationship with my ex, thought I'd be very broken and lost without him, but this was exactly what I felt. I actually found my self again. Self love is so important.
Please, don't suppress your true feelings. Let the waves of emotion flow through. Feel the pain, cry it out and let it go. That's the only way you'll ever move on.
@@ccarta192 Thank you, I'll make sure to listen to it. Edit: OMG it's this song, I've listened to it before but i never managed to get it's name. Thank you very much.
She sang like she didn't care But why I feel like something inside her hurts. Like she had tears while she is singing but sounded like she doesn't care. Uffff......❤️ilysm
2 lines "Guess the good things aren't meant to last" And "Am I weak for thinking that "I wish you were here" " It hurts so bad and for the others who are going through this I feel for you
"I don't feel sorry for myself" "care if your hands touch somebody else" "wouldn't get jealous if you're happy it's ok if you forget me" This is when you keep on giving 'em chances but still doing the same mistake the pain hits different on how much you love the person. First it'll hurt you so much then you go numb til you feel nothing. Regardless how much you love that someone, changes are inevitable. You keep forgiving someone til you unlove them. Pain def changes how you feel, including you unfortunately. 🙂
Hey guys!!! Thank you so much for all the love on my music these past years! Wanted to comment and say that I'm releasing a new album on May 24th. It's titled “Joyride” and I hope you will pre-save it and check out the countdown page on Spotify astrids.lnk.to/Joyride_Countdown 🍒🏎🏁✨🥺
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Thank you for this song!!
Thank you.
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Thank you ❤
Reading all your stories and how you relate in the comment section!!!! :(
Hi Astrid, I found you
Love you astrid all the way from India
Hi Astrid, I want to thank you for inspiring me. I was bullied for my whole life. Astrid you really inspired me.
Too much related 💀💔
Literally a song for me!!!
Reading all the comments makes me go 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺!!! Thank you! This song is very special to me.
edit: Leave it Beautiful is finally out! astrids.lnk.to/LeaveItBeautiful 💖💽💖💽💖💽
Thank You. For this beautiful song♥️
Loving all of your songs!!
Love you and your songs always❤️
I just wanna let you know that your songs are a blessing upon to everyone. And I don't know if you know this but people are so sad and hurting from things they don't talk about and with your songs they get to relate and find ease😉.
Your voice, your songs, your beauty......they're therapy💗
Much love from South Africa🙋🏾♂️
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Some people think it's a motivational song, but for me it's actually a story about a heart that got hurt many times that reach the point of being numb.
When you're numb from a heartbreak, everything feels easier, forgiving, forgetting, letting go.
I still pray for his happiness, I hope he'll find a better girl for him and live a better life.
I still love him, but it's a different love than before, I don't want him anymore, I don't wanna hurt him anymore, and I don't wanna be hurt by him anymore.
U just reached another level of maturity. That's pure love and self love
More love and power to you
Relatable
I feel related
I agree with you. I think same.
I was in a relationship with him for almost two years. It was the perfect relationship I've ever been in. He cared for me like no other, tended to my needs, and was there to always listen to me. He was gentle with my heart and loved me the way I thought love would be. I always thought I'd walk down the aisle to him, but one day, out of the blue, he wanted to end the relationship without even giving me a proper reason. I froze for two weeks. I didn't shed even a single tear (I couldn’t), and I was in shock and couldn't process the breakup at all, but after two weeks passed, I shared about my situation with my friend, and she asked me to listen to this song because it sounded similar, and the moment I listened to it, I broke down. I cried like a baby. That was the first time I cried after our breakup and the first time my family members heard and saw me cry loud, but I didn't care. My heart shattered into a million pieces that night, and I wailed my heart out. I remembered that I would never see him again because we lived in different countries, and there was no way we would cross paths again, so I knew that was the end of our relationship. It's been3 years since we broke up, and I am still single. I am not sure if I'll find anyone who will love me like he did, but that's okay. I've moved on now, but now and then I listen to this and remember how grateful I am for the love i was showered with. :)
😢it hurt sis but you need to remember you need to be happy
I hope you meet someone better ❤❤❤
It's amazing and sad at the same time just the thought of someone relating to this song 😢
🕊🙏🏼 God loves you ❤🙏🏼🕊🎶
And so do I 🥰🥹😂🪻🌻🪻⚘️🪺
What is meant to be is meant to be
i want that sweater
Glad to see you here
Good to see u here...
samedt
Well, I do like your hoodie.
Uhu
When you are finally able to say thank you for the experience than asking them to stay .
You're healing and you've grown into a strong mature soul
True words ...also if "S" is replaced from your name with "K" it becomes my name karuna ...how cool
@@karunaranabhat7833 yes dear ❤️
@@karunaranabhat7833 Lmao shut up😂😂
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We weren’t together. But I had strong feelings. He got with someone else today. It hurts but I’ll move on. This song helps. Thanks Astrid S.
You deserve better! 🖤
I can relate
I feel you
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Gurl same here😥
This song gives a positive perspective to breakups.It's mature and healthy.
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True
I thought that at first too but why would she wish that she’s hurt when she is not at all? She’s not mature, she is stuck in the neutral (no feelings). This song is actually pretty sad if you realize that... She wishes that she would feel something 😔
that's not really true. Feeling your emotions is mature and healthy. It is 100% healthy to feel sad/emotional after a breakup. You can develop adult attachment to people even if they're crappy to you/the relationship isn't healthy. And you can feel withdrawal etc. from that. On the other hand, I'm not saying you have to feel sad. Maybe that's just how she feels. I'm not trying to shame her for not being sad. But not feeling sad definitely isn't the "mature and healthy" response. Feeling sad/emotional is natural and valid. Being mature and healthy doesn't mean not having natural human emotions.
Moreover, I can relate to her wishing it did. Back when I was like 16 (a long time ago) I broke up w/an ex and didn't feel any sadness emotions (because I was on zoloft at the time and I had ssri activation syndrome so I literally couldn't feel sad). It was awful. He was also a shitty person so maybe I just didn't care, but crying and feeling sad can be cleansing sometimes, and when you wish you could feel that sadness but all you feel is numb/nothing it isn't necessarily healthy. It can be awful and feel like your emotions are all stopped up. Sadness can be cleansing. Crying releases endorphins. Not feeling anything might just be the phase she's in but if she wishes she could feel something then it might actually be really awful for her. I think a lot of people would argue that feeling apathetic/numb can in many ways feels worse than sadness and I wholeheartedly agree.
Guys you have given some good reasons and I have considered them all but actually I do think she's feeling a lot of pain but maybe she wrote this song on some of those time after break up when we are feeling positive and we want good things for them too(ex),we feel things happened for the best.It's about that according to me.
Idk why I felt this so hard
Me too!
😭😭
Me too😣
It’s relative universally
Same Brandon same 😭
I think this song isn’t about a toxic relationship. I think she’s singing about a relationship that she didn’t regret having. She was grateful and happy and still love that person enough to let them be happy since she couldn’t. And she’s okay with that.
woww.. that's true love
Yeap, I feel the same with this song
☹️
Yeah same here.. the man I liked is now engage & getting married soon.. I felt so much pain in my chest & regretted that I lost him but i realized that letting go is part of loving too..
@@leovylrivera1930 to be honest this song gives me comfort. My ex was pretty toxic. He did say the only thing he regret was hurting me. So he let me go. I guess he actually did love me more than I thought. And he said he wanted me to move on and be happy with someone else. I miss him like crazy and I still love him.
It touches on the idea that heartbreak and emotional exhaustion can be so overwhelming that we reach a point where we no longer have the energy to feel bad anymore. While this may seem like a bleak or depressing sentiment, it can also be seen as a sign of resilience and inner strength. Sometimes, it's necessary to reach a point of complete emotional exhaustion in order to begin to heal and move on. Like how can you hold a grudge against a person you love.Its okay.
This is so deep... You explain my situation in words..
Why does every song she writes resonate with my current situation 💀🥺😍
Lol so true!
I thought that I'm the only one thinking that
mE TOO
Hey 🤗 I made a Cover of this wonderful song and it would be so freaking cool if you could check it out 🙏🏼💜💙😍😊🤗
May be u r the one whose resonating
When you're just done caring about someone. You're just no longer care and just accept the fact that they're not meant for you. It's easier to feel nothing at all than broken hearted over something that's beyond our reach. Lol. I felt this way too. Just done caring. You do you and I'll do me.
Right
Very true.😆
Jgg
Yess. Thats also same felt me
I felt this in my soul T_T
This song I think is like growing apart. that about being grateful feeling after break up. This is so refreshing. I can imgine how this story went... perhaps the couple realized that they aren't growing as an individual anymore. It's not hate, it's not breaking up cause of lies and cheating. It's breaking up because you know you both have different priorities or kind of life you imagined to be. It's breaking up but forever loving the person and keeping him/her in your heart because of good memories.
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Yeah, I actually agree with this. They both cherished and it just that.
God damn!! I feel it!!
YASSS
That hurts more than cheating
It's not about breaking up,
It's about accepting the faith.
Live long this artist
Ninagiradosittijellieyeyenyasia
❤oy
😮😯oooh gitu
👍
Woow finally a breakup song that's not about getting over it or trying to overcome the thing...
I would also recommend breakup song or shout out to my ex by littlemix :)
it is about getting over it in a way, she's just wondering why she doesn't feel anything and wishing that she did. It sounds like a healthy song to begin with then the chorus ends so cynically
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But not feeling sad about it!! I think she already told the reason in one of her other songs that she gave too much to her first one.
Software Proj Her not feeling anything at all is sad cause In a sense it means the relationship and the strong feelings she had felt was pointless in the gran scheme of things
Why do I love listening to heartbreak songs when I didn't even have a single experience of being heartbreak like this?
Maybe u r so deep person.. Feel evweything..
Same
Same 😬
Or some kinda like De Javu...maybe
It because u want to feel it so u can understand others
Imagine having Astrid's voice just for one day, i would never shut up.
Same xd
Same 😂
you can learn to sung
Abis dong suaranya
Me too
This song shows me it's alright to not feel hurt because it ends with someone special to us. We can still move on and be thankful for it, even after parting ways.
Spotify finally did something right and brought me to this masterpiece.
TH-cam though
@@charusharma7499 haha nah Spotify recommended her, which made me TH-cam her
@@MegamixCentral lol same! xd
Same i was listening to a random playlist and this song start to play. Really good
omg sameee
This song is the proof that sometimes breakup doesn’t always have to be heartbreaking. And it’s okay!!!!
ikr. I always thought I was weird because my first break up didn't even bother me. 😬
parabens
So why should to breakup? It's make so hard to move on 😟
Agree
I think its because u saw it comming, ugot used to the pain that u just can't feel it anymore
She's so underrated. She needs more attention ❤️❤️❤️
Yes bro
@@parthivgogoi1547 hosake bey!
Kela eman bhal singer aru eman kom famous
But i think if she's happy with her now status, it's better to stay here. Worldwide fame destroy people. Especially Hollywood. I wish her all the joy, happiness, flowers, success which is may she already have, love and peace.❤
I know kygo is a Dj, but who is Kyco? 🤣
I'm an old time 61 year old rocker. And finally, a contemporary artist with profound thoughts. Her angelic voice is Stevie Nix like. And she's not hard on the eyes🕺🏄
Finally a song about heartbreak that's more about yourself than the one who left❤️
Im into toxic relationship for almost 4 years. He was abusive, ego, and im the one that always spend money.
Idk why i cant let him go, i know he spending night with other girls but i always welcoming him back.
Until january when he want to broke up with me.. for the first time im not waiting him, i dont feel sad or depressed like i use to.
Finally i realise that my self is worth it
You worth better♥️, don't worry there will be someone better that deserve you out there...
you deserve better ❤️
You deserve better *sending virtual hug*
Free hug🤗
Sending lots virtual hug for yaaa
This song literally tells:
I'm happy for you, even if I am no longer the reason🙂
same here !
It's how I tend to be with my last girlfriend
That's the point
This resonates so much with my current situation. After 5 years of being together, he called it quits. I found out it was because he met someone new and better. Thought it was going to be hard for me to accept that fact. Apparently, knowing that he is happier now makes me happy. I feel freer, learn to love myself better and now I can focus only on myself and what I care about. Remember to never beg for love, but to love yourself first. It is going to be ok, eventually 🥰
Same here honey ❤ I just don't know if he found someone else, but I genuinely don't care at all. Toast for us an for movin on 🎉
😢
that's hard but I know you can
Your strength and forgiveness are inspiring
Thank you! I just blocked him hahaha. Seeing his flirt comment on other girls post. I saw it. We don't have relationship but he flirted with me. I caught feelings. Sadly, I read his comment "such a doll🥰" to another girls post. Yeah, I put an end and doesn't want to hope him anymore. He didn't reply my message whole day, but he can flirt on other girls post. I put and end TODAY. I feel free and crying now. But, I know I'll be better than when I hoped him message me first.
ASTRID S DOES NOT HAVE A BAD SONG AT ALL & THAT'S ON PERIODT
Sa TrUe
Truuuuuuuu! 😭😍
Totally agreed
Hey guys 🤗 I made a Cover of this song and it would be so cool if you could check it out 💜🙏🏼😊👌🏼
Right?!!
Sometimes, you fall out of love before the relationship has ended and it doesn’t hurt as much because you have already moved on without even knowing!
Sorry
I didn't read what u typed
I am killing my valuable resourse
y naman ganon
That's what happened to me with the last guy that I was with
Yep I totally get that!
@@sharonburns8205 yup!
held me like you'd hold me forever.
He will no longer be there , or maybe I’m the one who walked away past him to find myself again. I miss him but it’s okay now
@@fleurnaff451 :)
Current situation 🤧
....just for you to then leave
Bruhhh.... It'll?
The way I would cry over him to this song.... the most painful heart breaking sobs, wishing for physical pain instead of the heartache because at least with a cut or bruise or a broken bone at least I could see that it was healing.... and now I'm back a year later. Let me tell you this: it gets better ❤ I promise, this too shall pass and you'll look back on this pain and thank this stage in your life for making you stronger. You haven't met all the people who'll come into your life and rock your world, trust me. It gets better
I came to realize that
breakups happens for a reason
whether you don't have the same goals
your partner cheated on you
they abuse you
they hurt you
you simply don't match
and that means breakup is a healthy thing
it's letting go of that problem
Not always... sometimes you breakup beacause the universe simply couldnt stand you both togetger
@@perceusherondale4749 umm you blame the universe? wdym???
@@stanchocofit8452 death of one or the other etc etc
That hit me
Thank you for this fucking comment I needed to hear this more than I can explain.
idk why but something about her explaining she isn’t sad, makes me super sad . It’s like you were so in love with a person & then it fades into nothing. This song makes me wanna ball my eyes out 😔
Thats how exactly I feel about this song. It supposed to be not sad, but I feel really sad about this song.
@@mizzchaa i know right :(
Exactlyy! And I thought it's just me feeling this way cuz most of the comments here are about self healing and being happy and whatnot... whereas I'm here feeling terribly sad listening to it
I feel you😭😭😭
For the first time, I had a break up that didn't leave me feeling broken. In fact, while I still miss him sometimes, what I mostly feel is gratitude and some nostalgia. ❤
Sending warm love ♡
Sounds very healthy
Me too!
❤
is it ok to still miss someone?:'(
The whole song is just so amazing!
"From everything to nothing at all, from everyday to never at all"
thats true
i met my ex yesterday. its been a year since we broke up, and i ask him to talk again. i thought i would cry in front of him, but we just laughing together like friends. now i listen to this song and i relate so much. its okay ren, its okay if you forget me. im not jealous if youre happy now, cause im happy too, with my own life. i met few guys too, and some of them better than you, some of them not. but thats okay. i hope we could be friend next time. thank you astrid for this song❤
👍👍👍👍👍😭😭 Sooo awesome
❤️
That's nice
Be happy and I wish u get the someone who deserves u😊😊😊
That's was amazing 💗 stay happy with ur life ❤
That's what moved on look like.
It's crazy how much I can relate to this. A few months ago I just broke up with my boyfriend for 3 years. I used to think that I love him so much, but strangely I didn't feel anything when we're actually apart. Peoples look at me with pity in their eyes, they thought that I must be very sad. But honestly I'm really okay. The thing that used to scare me to just think about, turned out to be nothing at all. I realized that actually I never love him as much as I thought I did. But I thank God that we broke up, because it was a toxic relationship and my life turn out to be so much better and happier without him, and I'm perfectly fine.
Your not at all alone.
Good on you, while him is still on the process of moving on. I am sure that right now he is still searching for someone like you. As kind as you, as lovely as you, as beautiful as you. He might set you as his standard and perhaps he still needs you so much in his life. So dun avoid him pls, coz he still love u so much.
@@mikeljune9249 Well, I think he'll be better without me. It's not that he's a completely bad person. But he lack the will to work for himself because I used to provide for him. He always made a lot of excuses whenever I encourage him to make a better future for himself. He's 6 years older than me but he's more childish than me. His world revolves around his circles of friend and having fun while I worked hard day and night for the both of us. It's true that I make more money than him, but he should have think about his own future and not only depend on me. Now without me in the picture means that he have to think for himself.
@@fellyciach Dun work too hard for him then just work for urself like the you used to be before your relationship with him. U fell in love with him in that state when he was single. If he change and started to worked hard, you might feel a slight changes coz he will loss a time for u and losing time to each other might be lead to break-up like the one you did. He will not change bcoz he consider his friends and its a selfish decision if you asked him to let go of his friend bcoz u wanted a better future, mostly if u still dun have a child. Just enjoy ur time with him unless there is no more reason stay with him
Proud of you 👍
The worst is
Its the way it doesn't hurt
when I wish It did
It hits hard😔
Omg i was just gonna comment the same thing!!
Same.
These days it's hard to find songs with such lyrics , it's like every song about how people are really hurt from a relationship , but this is a bit different , that's what what I'm looking for 🖤
@@wicked5817 super super true... such a beautiful perspective to write a song from!! ♥️🥺
it's better when it doesn't hurt....so why?:))
I accidentally came acrossed this song just now because I mistyped something on Google. I don't know how or why... I was compelled with a strong feeling to want to click the video. It's strange because I don't normally click any song randomly.
As I listened to it, I felt that this song was exactly about what I feel right now. The lyrics were 100% accurate even the time frame when I discovered this song just now. It's as if this song was written for me personally.
I wish I could let her know that I'm pretty fine and grateful that it happens.
The line "It's okay if you forget me" has some healing energy in it.
I'm grateful for this song.
Thank you so much.
❤
Anyone else be single their whole life and can't relate but still like the song?? 🤣🤣
I totally get you 😂😂😂💔
🤣🤣
I am single but I felt the pain...
Well I'm single but can relate 😆
Well I'm single but can relate 😆
I had the most earnest, simplest and healthiest break-up with my long term boyfriend a year ago. We went through a lot of hard times, sure, but it was amazing while it lasted. I think of him and I just smile. We grew as better people along the way and I have to give him credit for a lot of things that has changed in my life for the better. His patience rubbed off on me and he let me see myself in the way that I never did before; confident, strong and beautiful. We were broken when we met, but we healed each other and let each other grow.
I think he's happy now and I'm so happy for him. I'm alone but I am the happiest I've been in a very long time. I have no regrets as to what happened between us and to us. I'm just grateful for the experience and for having found a friend in him. Joey, this is for you!
im not Joey but i liked this😂
@@esthermburu4696 Haha, that's okay.
This is so sweet, I feel the same for the person I was in love with 🥰
My biggest fear is falling out of love
but, does he share food?
"for three years we were living together, held me like you'd hold me forever"
it hits so hard 🥺🥺🥺
This song has helped me with my emotions so many times and I am glad we have someone like Astrid in our lives!
This song reminds me of someone who told me he loved me when I didn't even feel it. One day he was here with me, and the next day, gone without a word. So I let him go, now it's over. It didn't hurt but I wish it did.
I can relate... He said he liked me, I didn't feel it so I rejected him, he insisted on becoming friends, finally felt for him and he is gone but for some reason I don't feel empty... Probably because I never felt his love :)
Me toooo 😭😭😭
This songs makes me miss someone who doesn’t miss me 😭
Same
Hey guys 🤗 I made a Cover of this song and it would be so cool if you could check it out 💜🙏🏼😊👌🏼
Saaaaaame 😢
Exactly
Same 😢
Honestly not enough singers properly translate falling out of love. This was beautiful and we need more songs that tells us the real truth. Everything ends😌
This song is beautiful. Like it genuinely hits different
Astrid S, Elina and Sasha Sloan. These three QUEENS ❤️
Add clara mae tooo
And chelsea cutler
And shy Martin
Maisie Peters!!!
Lennon stellaaaaaaa
Spent 5 years loving a man who only loved himself. He left me feeling like I was worth nothing. I am working on finding myself. This song is so relatable.
He left me countless times, and I kept accepting him back as I love him so much, but at last, I let him go for good. I can’t ruin myself by staying in that toxic relationship even tho I love him more than anything. I wish him a happy life as I won’t come back to him. Hope you can be happy and stronger because you worth the happiness this would could offers you ❤️✨ Sending love to you.
Thank you. Wishing you a happy and beautiful life. 🌹🌹
Honey you good? I hope you are Okay , Don't Think about past any ùwú
Be who you are and Enjoy Life !! Life is so short to gave a Shit
God bless u. be patient with urself
I think this is a good interpretation of someone that having a burnt out after being hurt by same person over again :')
YES FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTOOD
I honestly ironically feel like that but with all threw out highschool. threw out highschool I didnt want or feel a need for boyfriend, so when I ever made a close guy friend, I feared he would ask me out and then stop talking to me. When they did ,they would stop talking me as much as I expected like the others did when I didn't become their gf. I used to be afaid to lose people.Now I just don't expect for them to stay in my life that much.I just learn to love myself God and my family more appreciate the little moments and not be afraid to let people go if they don't appreciate me in the life.
so wonderful song
*it sounds selfish but i wish astrid would be this lowkey forever, but she deserves to be known.*
Hey 🤗 I made a Cover of this wonderful song and it would be so freaking cool if you could check it out 🙏🏼💜💙😍😊🤗
Our little secret
Can u go take a look at this music , i swear that this is a good one ! th-cam.com/video/G9w3lDd5e98/w-d-xo.html
Ikr...and never turn out to change like Zara Larsson did..(sorry if its offending but I hate it when someone humble changes)
I don’t think this song is about a toxic relationship ending or when “your done caring”. I think it’s about a good relationship that ran its course
😍😍
wouldnt u feel at least a bit nostagically sad? and the habit of being together. how can you feel nothing?
Yess 😢😢😢
Exactly I think like you ! Breakups are being so romanticized in art nowadays that when a couple parts ways on a understanding and a benevolent note it feels wrong somehow.
Agreed! I was in a relationship for 7 years before we broke up. We never had a huge argument before parting ways, and till this day, not a single hatred towards each other. We grew out from our teens into adults together, and had a pretty good relationship throughout. But i guess we just knew when things were just not meant for us. We eventually broke up and wished the best for each other.
Bottomline is, a break up doesnt necessarily mean getting out of a toxic relationship, but could also mean understanding each other and wanting the best for yourselves (not in a selfish way though).
I think this song is when you have a meaningful relationship that ends and you expect to be heartbroken and mourning it but you’re actually fine and okay and you’re questioning what that means or if you even really loved them at all but you’re numb and one day it’s gonna hit you like ton of bricks
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Ok, that makes a lot more sense than the other comments here, lol
Yup that's what I thought too
YOU PUT MY SITUATION IN WORD TBH
I just got out of a relationship lile that exactly and it did hit me like a ton a bricks
Been years listening to this song and it still hit me to the core every single time. The kind of pain that I allow myself to sink in.
This song is me after ending a toxic relationship that didn't even exist
Kinda same!
💀😂
Lmao I feel u🤣
Same here
LOL HAJHAHAHAHA
A long pause for the people who didn’t find her songs yet.
Hey 🤗 I made a Cover of this wonderful song and it would be so freaking cool if you could check it out 🙏🏼💜💙😍😊🤗
Yes.
Yessss
Dude this songs hits so hard... I felt weird that after break up I didn't cry.. But I felt so lonely inside... it's unexplainable actually... but this song told my story...
Dang.. I can totally relate to you rn, just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years yesterday :(...
@@wafflefloof im so sorry that sucks i hope ur doing ok
@@wafflefloof same i cried but bc i know it wasnt what i deserved im perfectly fine without him there and i know that
Agreeeee 100000000%
@@sydneynguyen4987 Mine wasn't really a breakup, he just decides to give up. I felt the same too. At first I thought it was weird that I didn't shed a tear at all, but eventually I realized it's because I deserve way better than that cause I know I'm a good person and I love deeply, I know my worth now. And I won't ever settle.
Tou com saudades dessa música ❤
Why is Astrid is so underrated?! why am i only discover her now tho, she's so gewd
Fame ruins artistry
yeah better late than never....
All Astrids are good 😁
This is the feeling when you know deep in your heart that bf/gf wasn’t your person, something about the breakup feels right and relieving.
Yessss definitely!
Totally true
This song is the way I feel about my ex. We were together for almost 2 years and now after a month of being broken up, I just wish him happiness, i always have. We still have eachothers phone number. We still keep in touch. He checks up on me once In a while. But I feel happy being single. To me, I think the best love is family love. I’ve learned to love myself and work on my studies toward my dream career.
Same :)
True.
Same
I couldn't be able to do that so good for you 😊
true
This is nothing about a toxic relationship ending. It's just they stop seeing each other as lovers. It happens sometimes, my people call it "out of fate"
Yes! I just lost my feeling to my bf. But i just can’t to tell him about it. Cause he really loves me.
@@flyingbird1756 Well i guess you gotta tell him anyway, the hardest thing to hide is when you stop care for s.o. Better hurt once than miserable for both.
@@flyingbird1756 Same happened to me with my gf. I got really anxious cause I love her (still) too much! But I’m fucked up and can’t deal with a relationship rn. I was sabotaging myself:( We broke up but we still love each other. It’s tough.
FINALLY!!! I found a song that resonates with my feelings! With time, the actual hurt of separation goes down to being negligible. The worst part is when you don't feel pain, even though you believe that you SHOULD. When you want to cry, but the tears just don't come. You wonder if there was ever anything magical in that connection, for which you sacrificed so much...
🥺🥺
This is so true, like I don't understand how could I not cry for someone I loved so much but I thinks it's because my heart was already waiting for it to end, the memories that I had with that person kept me clinging into him but a breath of relief has come into me when were over. It's a confusing but good feeling that our hearts can feel it when it's enough for us take so much pain any longer. It tells us that we've had enough and makes us understand our worth but it could be that we no longer have the same excitement for being in love as much as we used to.
@@sairrajadepantuaimus5342 I can totally relate. Adele puts it very nicely in her song 'Someone Like You' when she says, "I didn't know how bitter-sweet this would taste..." So it's just that. A bitter-sweet feeling. With time you forgive the person for almost everything. The negative feelings you had for them earlier all eventually go away. It's just love that remains. And a feeling of peace alternating with moments of an utmost sense of loss.
@@moonlight_latte992 s. N gn be
🙂
To feel that way isn’t only normal - it’s the most healthy, beautiful, useful thing to feel after a breakup.
Knowing I'm still thinking about that person that we broke it off 2 years ago, yet I enjoyed every moment being with that person. Although, I can fully say that it was totally okay that either way we ran off our own paths apart from each other without being affected. This song really resonates with me because it should've been painful, it should've at least took some time to fully accept it. Guessing that certain things like maturity between the two of us and clear communication made us understand that if it ends it ends, and you'll miss the person yes, but you understand that there are things that have to take its course. Thank you so much for this beautiful song!
To all the people out there who feel emotionless, it's not that you're stone hearted or anything. It's just that you've grown to learn to not let things get to you easily. You don't have to question yourself. Its just you growing up and becoming a stronger person ❤️❤️❤️
Preach!❤️
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After two weeks, i felt exactly as this. But as time passed, 8 months now i found it's difficult to move on. I found out the first two weeks or the first one month was a denial stage, that you're not feeling hurtful and you're okay. You're trying to make yourself stronger, and denying without the norms you'll be fine. Now, I found myself dreaming of his present, and longing being there next to him to hear his voice and just being there instead. I do sincerely want him to be happy with whoever that is, it's just that I'm taking my time from us before, and it's kinda slow and probably silently hurtful. Btw, your song is beautiful, loving it 💘
It’s just- not yet..
this.
My eyes ~ reading comments
My mouth ~ singing
My hands ~ scrolling
My Ears ~ listening
Man! I am busy.
Hahahah yeah
😂😂
Same :)
I love u & ur des about.
Lol 😂😂
This song can only be truly understood by those who was in True Love & got betrayed or broken by someone in their life ❤
Fun Fact: You're listening to this song even though you're not heartbroken. You just want to have chills.
o-o
My girl's angry she didn't say why and just left probably cuz I don't have a heart
Fun Fact: You're wrong
😂😂same situation
😂 😂
"The way it doesn't hurt when i wish it did"
Feeling that you want to feel but it doesn't felt the way you wanted
This song gave me closure(and a sign) after i broke up with someone. ive fully accepted that he doesn't want to fight for us, wish him the best in the world. This song just told me to move on and not except a YOU in someone. Tusen takk, Astrid.
The other way round is the worst.. i wanna fight for us but i guess she doesnt see us in the future...
Herr_von_Blau oh no, sorry about that.
But hey .. 7 billion people on this planet, I’m sure we’ll get to experience true happiness with one of them.
Hmmm same
I suddenly remembered this song and came back . I'm glad i did. 😊. I used to listen to this on loop.
It doesn't hurt and she's still wishing for it...
That could mean two things:
1. She didn't let that sink in yet (Most probably)
2. She really loves him and she can wholeheartedly wish the best for him
Not necessarily a toxic relationship.
How do you know it's "him"?
@@tinilowe I'm sorry, It should be corrected to "who ever it's related to" 🙂
Rupa Nandani or just a clean breakup.
@@shadowlibrarian400 Even with a clean breakup, there still could be a little pain. If so, that's still goes under the 1st point. If there's no pain (yes..rare), it still goes under the 2nd point.
Rupa Nandani you can have a clean breakup with someone you don’t really love anymore, so not necessarily. People break up for a lot of different reasons.
Love that she's laying next to a book called "How to Make Good Choices"...
wow love it
Wish I had one of those in my early years lol
"From everything to nothing at all"
Literally hits me
"From meeting everyday,from being on calls till hours,from laughing together,from watching countless sunsets together,from singing together,from crying together- to- not metting each other at all,not even having the audacity to make eye contact with each other "
th-cam.com/video/8CL1ERmlVl0/w-d-xo.html
Hugs
sending a lot off virtual cuddle
And the worst part, it’s when they two days after the breakup, from a 2 years relationship, they be with someone else and be telling them that he loves her and shit, but yk what. It’s ok, I hope the best life for him and his knew girl
@@carolurbaez130 I feel you, we broke up after 10 years together and he's been dating a lot of girls since the breakup, it's just 3-4 months :) that hurts me a lot.
Astrid S, you are so underrated. This song is a whole mood. 🤍
Astrid you always rock seriously your every song touched my soul ♥ lots of love frm india 🇮🇳 ♥ you are such a awesome person 🤗
Me too from India bro....
From India brother
me too bro
me too
Indian people have a good taste of music 😝
The best thing about Astrid is that she has her own style and she is not running behind the trends. She is making something unique. Which is really hard to find these days. 😍😍
Hey 🤗 I made a Cover of this wonderful song and it would be so freaking cool if you could check it out 🙏🏼💜💙😍😊🤗
She always wants to be different 😊
Never heard of Astrid before nor even listened any of her songs before but today YT recommended me this beautiful piece and I felt how long have I been living under a rock.
This song helped me so much last 2022..
When I got closure from someone I almost had a relationship on 2019. Right before he finally got married.
I had this song on repeat for 2 weeks.🥰
"It's the way it doesn't hurt when I wish it did."
Me: *TEACH ME*
SAAAMEE HELP
Sameeeeee
It just means she outgrew the person, it’s perfectly healthy. The relationship resolved it’s self for her.
It's doesn't hurt cuz it too much will you can't feel it... it's better to feel the pain at times.
Hugs to you. All will be fine, just give yourself a little more time..
Stay positive.. after every storm there will sure be a rainbow... 😊
Just remembered you are not alone....
💔
At school: fake smile
At home: tryna to make family happy
When your alone: crying evrything out
Literally my life
Hope things go better for you soon ❤️ much love.
My condition, currently.
Sending you big hug 🧡
That’s me all the time!😔
For the longest time I was afraid of letting him go. I felt like all the sacrifices and the future that I imagined with him will all go to waste so better hold on. One time i was hurting so much, I was at my peak but then suddenly this song played. It calmed me. Suddenly I felt happy.
🙂I can relate to you
Can relate just broke up with my 6 years relationship with him :( help
@@clairetabasa6077 so sad. I never had in a relationship but i can imagine what you both are going through
@@darshanrudra210 he cheated. Then his family cut me off like it was my fault.
@@clairetabasa6077 when it happened
People say that Astrids' have only amarican fans
Like you if you are not an American
Nobody says that because nobody even knows who she is here 💀
I'm from Latvia
I'm from Indonesia
I'm from Philippines
Russia here 😜
Dated a narcissist guy for 10 months, manipulated me the whole relationship, cheated on me with tons of girls, he always had “sweet” things to say just to make me feel selfless, I didn’t really realise that I was in a toxic relationship until I decided to break up with him, he was a monster and blamed everything on me, he tried to get into my life again a few weeks ago, said he regretted everything but I know I don’t need him anymore, I’m so happy I’m finally free now, focusing on myself is the greatest thing ever and I cherish it every single day
Jeez.. I'm so sorry for going through all that..proud that you are doing fine now
I dated a narcissist for 10 months too! I broke up with him because I found out he had been cheating on me the whole time. The worst thing is he still denies ever cheating on me till this day when there’s proof. I would always see red flags within the relationship, but he would manipulate me. I was just so naive at the time. It really is the worst feeling! Glad I ended that! Happier now than I was in that relationship! Sending you blessings and positive vibes
Im happy u move on now
God heard our prayers!💙
Narcissist guys are the worst, cmiiw
What I like about this song is how it portrays a healthy relationship and a healthy break up(perhaps). Because you know you've given enough, they had give you enough, it was happy and you are contended with how the relationship goes for everyday to never at all.
i've heard the song for a year now and it still feels like the best song in my playlist. It brings out the emotions and memories and that's what I like about the song
First time listening to it today got it on repeat 😁
This song hits different when you've genuinely let them go and moved on. For a period of time you were exactly what I needed. But situations change and people grow apart. However I'll always be thankful for all the memories, good or bad.
True
I have fallen in love with your choice of your words
i would have had everything, a loving boy/man i know that, but I just didn't care and left because I was hurting him even more
@@ameliex same here
*The ETERNAL GOD would do anything for you!!*
Even out of love for you he went to the cross as a human!!
Philippians 2:5-8
"From everything to nothing at all,
From every day to never at all"
My most favorite line it gives me chills omg
Love is never......enaf😭😭😭😭
Almost 5 years in a relationship with my ex, thought I'd be very broken and lost without him, but this was exactly what I felt. I actually found my self again. Self love is so important.
It's okay,feel glad that he taught u how to love yourself:)
@@komallshrestha4268 he didn't. Losing him was like finding my self again.
@@emoryfallon1765 aah!
Last month, i also broke up with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, and i feel the same. I want to learn to love myself more and more.
@@Rena-fq9et Proud of you, girl! :) #SelfLove
When you're singing this song trying to convince yourself it doesn't hurt but it's killing you😩
Please, don't suppress your true feelings. Let the waves of emotion flow through. Feel the pain, cry it out and let it go. That's the only way you'll ever move on.
😌
😭 Exactly thank you 😭
You spoke out of my heart 🥹
After 1year TH-cam recommend this
Same
Same
Right
That's because i liked this video that made to recommend you guys
Same
The lyrics are amazing. There aren't many songs out there about a relationship which ended without regrets.
Listen to HAPPY by oh wonder
@@ccarta192 Thank you, I'll make sure to listen to it.
Edit: OMG it's this song, I've listened to it before but i never managed to get it's name. Thank you very much.
my sister playing this song a lot recently
and it sounds good and catchy
so i decide to hear it myself, and yeah good unique lyric
True love = the love of God!
*God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being*
Philippians 2:5-8
maybe she´s just lying to herself?!?
She sang like she didn't care
But why I feel like something inside her hurts.
Like she had tears while she is singing but sounded like she doesn't care.
Uffff......❤️ilysm
2 lines
"Guess the good things aren't meant to last"
And
"Am I weak for thinking that "I wish you were here" "
It hurts so bad and for the others who are going through this I feel for you
Listening to Astrid S
is one thing,
Listening to Astrid S
from past 5 years is totally different thing .....
Hey guys 🤗 I made a Cover of this song and it would be so cool if you could check it out 💜🙏🏼😊👌🏼
@@coverina1921 Sure !!
"I don't feel sorry for myself"
"care if your hands touch somebody else"
"wouldn't get jealous if you're happy it's ok if you forget me"
This is when you keep on giving 'em chances but still doing the same mistake the pain hits different on how much you love the person. First it'll hurt you so much then you go numb til you feel nothing. Regardless how much you love that someone, changes are inevitable. You keep forgiving someone til you unlove them. Pain def changes how you feel, including you unfortunately. 🙂
So true 💕
You forgive someone till you unlove them
Wow, powerful!! I FELT IT....
Absolutely what I’m feeling rn. Your heart just grows tired of everything and begins to accept things for how they are.
😭😭😭
THIS 👏🙌😭 so true. I think everyone has been through this at some point.