Hey Medha, take a deep breath! I already saw you as a strong minded person but now you seem even stronger. I have a habit of sharing about you to my Maa whenever I watch your videos. I told Maa how your entire plans evaporated and you're tied to your place without you wanting to. At first, she seemed puzzled as to how this is a problem.. Then I explained her your POV. I completely can feel for you! It's very difficult to change things when we live in same place with same people around. It's feels like being tied out of one's will, it becomes a punishment sometimes. I don't know how it is to be dealt. But, I know You are going places! Trust me, you will be out of feeling lost very soon and it'll make you brighter and happier from inside. Much love!
Heu i just randomly clicked at your video and it's the best thing that has happened with me today.....i am a 2022 grad i am a single child and was facing some family issues and a mental health issue could not even clear a single interview and here i am a 2 year gap in my CV started my prep for cat in mid July has a sales intership for now and hoping for the best ...also i read some of your comments it feels good that people are out there to support you....and i know you will find your way through this.....and hope the best for you ❤❤❤❤❤
I just graduated this year and Idk what to do next. The only thing I know right now is that I don't want to pursue masters in the field I pursued my bachelor's in. I just got over my health(physical and mental) issues and it feels empty in life because a big part of my college life was spent by fainting in public places and running to Casualty😂. Now that I'm finally better Idk what I should do. So I'm exploring different things related to career and other general things. I discovered your channel while researching about MBA. I totally sympathize with the outgrowing your native place feeling. I grew up in a quaint village and I feel like I'm ungrateful(?), for wanting to move out of home into a different place. Keep going! I love your videos.
Hello dhi, You have always been an inspiration to me, from the time when I knew nothing about MBA preparation to now, as I prepare at my own pace. Your vlogs and diaries are legitimate lifesavers, and it is completely understandable to feel this way after completing your PGDM from a top B-School. I have just graduated and am currently looking for internships or jobs while also preparing for MBA entrance exams. Coming from a completely different academic background makes preparing for these exams quite challenging. Sometimes, I feel disheartened and doubt whether I can even score decent marks. I often question if an MBA is really meant for me. Despite the circumstances, I always tell myself, "Never ever give up on yourself; always believe in yourself." I would say the same thing for you: hold on, dhi-you will do wonders 💫💫
The way you are feeling this maybe because this maybe the first time things did not go according to you, for me this happened long back and i realised then that planning so much wont lead me anywhere as i was the same as you, q big planner though i am younger than you, but then i started following a neutral path, a path of going with the flow but also planning a draft in my head of certain things, so i would suggest do the same, do not plan so much, just make a draft in your head, and keep going and try finding solutions to everyday challenges, everything went according to you till now doesn't mean you will get everything you had planned in the coming days, that is not life, do not be in that perception!! All the best!!
Though I'm thankful for such a wise comment I as a person am very determined in achieving my goals and yes I agree that I haven't received my dream life yet but I'm sure something is happening in the background to give me that. But thanks again for reminding me about detachment ✨☺️
I totally agree with you and here i want to share something with you. We are on the same page. I am your age, i live in bbsr, i did my graduation here and guess what i am working in bbsr and all my friends, they have moved out for work and they tell me the same thing, but girllll!!! It is more about the independence. I feel, i value that more. I get it, you know its good, you save money, you have your family, you also save time but but. There is a "But". Anyways, I am very happy that you finally got this and i totally get your concern. Everything will be fine Medha!! We got this!! Be happy, Be grateful!!! 😍❤❤❤ Eventually all things fall into place!! Let everything sink in!! Keep Creating!!!❤❤❤
I feel you should just be grateful for what you have pause take a deep breathe and prepare yourself for the upcoming months also you have acheived soo much that people like me only dream about so i feel just be grateful
I have taken a gap year after my graduation and trust me I get how lost u r feeling bcoz I had planned this gap year but now that am actually going through this year it feels really lonely nothing I had planned is happening but I am taking one step at a time , your vlogs are smithing I wait for coz ur journey ur dedication is an inspiration and am sure u r gonna make the best out of it so don’t worry maybe smtimes things don’t go the way we planned but there is better out there for sure , don’t lose hope we r with u❤❤❤
Medha everything comes to the life with a purpose/for a purpose, maybe not moving out of your home town is a sign for you to excel yourself as a person,to embark on new things,to do things which you won't get to do 4-5 years down the line,ik right it might be quite disheartening to graduate from a top b school and not expecting this,but accept whatever it is and be grateful also its not something you are stucked to forever,life take turns honey just enjoy the process and life it to the fullest ,maybe after few years you would be in your dream city ❤😊
Man, I feel you 🙂. You are about to enter a position similar to mine, having graduated from college last year with a BBA degree . I started working from home as a social media marketer for a start-up company right away, and I started preparing for my MBA recently. Trust me after a while, you may begin to feel trapped in one room. Even some of my pals went away from this city to pursue MBAs at random universities. This is the time of enjoyment, work, hustle, and dreams, and this city is completely withering. Par ghar par hi reh gaye toh budhapa aur jawani mei kya Farak reh jayega.
heyy! just wanted to tell you..i understand what you're going through. i am still preparing to get into my dream B school but i understand that feeling all too well.. i understand that you feel the need to keep hustling and you feel directionless.. but have you wondered all this time that you were hustling (and ik you love hustling have watched every one of your vlogs haha)..do you feel that there was a need to just PAUSE and revel and let everything sink in..? instead of worrying about tomorrow, why don't you try and make today better and revel in the things and opportunities that are given to you today. so what, just read, just draw just do things that make you feel good instead of thinking about next steps, or thinking of how you want to monetise your hobbies...just do hobbies for the same of them making you happy...maybe this is mislabeled in your mind to be a quarter life crisis..maybe this is just a phase where you just need to BE. just exist and do things that make you happy..no lists, no pressure just a little bit of life.. i think i have rambled on enough. The point is, this time that you are given won't come back, so instead of thinking of this phase as a quarterlife crisis, you can label it seeking new adventures and living like you never have. hope this helps.
Hey, do you remember me? A few months back I was so broken and I wrote to you. Cut to today, ig it's been 2-3 months. My life has changed completely. I'm stable, calm, full of joy and energy again. No more restlessness, sadness..etc. All i would say is to give yourself some time. It's absolutely ok to feel lost. And if it's so confusing, wait for sometime and let life unfold itself for you. Plus put yourself into some physical activity like gym or outdoor games, trust me it helps a lot, mentally!! Virtual hug for you!!! ❤
Hey medha, i can feel what youre going through as i was in the same place once, i would suggest you to join a gym cuz it really helped me. You will be able to kill time while also staying healthy and when you look at yourself in the mirror youll feel amazing and confident, you can also meet some new people there and who knows maybe youll find some like minded people too.
Hi ma’am , don’t worry too much, just trust the process , you will be fine , I think join the company work for few years and then get shifted to Pune or Mumbai as you mentioned will be a good option to see for . ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@theartsyi hi one doubt , I have a position of responsibility por like a spoc in my company, how can I put proof to the resume that I was the spoc . What proof will support it in the resume any idea ma’am?
I am seeing people around me wanting to move out of Kolkata but are unable to move maybe because most of the company are setting up new offices here in Kolkata and they need people here. Also if you wanna be independent then you can move to a different flat in Kolkata itself and share your experiences through your videos.
Btw I am also from Kolkata and want to move out because I don’t have command on Bengali speaking..in college and even in office where I have worked everyone communicates in Bengali and it makes my everyday so tough to thrive.
heyy! first one to watch hahah. you can still come to mumbai..and if you are here hit me up...i wouold love to hangout at the beach with you..good thing i stay near the beach. whatever god has planned for you is gonna be amazing! don't worry. all the best for your future Medha
Hey Medha, take a deep breath! I already saw you as a strong minded person but now you seem even stronger. I have a habit of sharing about you to my Maa whenever I watch your videos. I told Maa how your entire plans evaporated and you're tied to your place without you wanting to. At first, she seemed puzzled as to how this is a problem.. Then I explained her your POV. I completely can feel for you! It's very difficult to change things when we live in same place with same people around. It's feels like being tied out of one's will, it becomes a punishment sometimes.
I don't know how it is to be dealt. But, I know You are going places! Trust me, you will be out of feeling lost very soon and it'll make you brighter and happier from inside. Much love!
Omg that's so sweet 🥰
Say hi to aunty
And yes I get what you just said! Thank you for all the support ❣️
Heu i just randomly clicked at your video and it's the best thing that has happened with me today.....i am a 2022 grad i am a single child and was facing some family issues and a mental health issue could not even clear a single interview and here i am a 2 year gap in my CV started my prep for cat in mid July has a sales intership for now and hoping for the best ...also i read some of your comments it feels good that people are out there to support you....and i know you will find your way through this.....and hope the best for you ❤❤❤❤❤
Awww 🥺✨ thanks for the comment man !
All the very best for your journey ahead ❤️
I just graduated this year and Idk what to do next. The only thing I know right now is that I don't want to pursue masters in the field I pursued my bachelor's in. I just got over my health(physical and mental) issues and it feels empty in life because a big part of my college life was spent by fainting in public places and running to Casualty😂. Now that I'm finally better Idk what I should do. So I'm exploring different things related to career and other general things. I discovered your channel while researching about MBA.
I totally sympathize with the outgrowing your native place feeling. I grew up in a quaint village and I feel like I'm ungrateful(?), for wanting to move out of home into a different place.
Keep going! I love your videos.
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️☺️
Get well soon and all the best for your journey
your video feels so real
✨☺️❤️
Hello dhi,
You have always been an inspiration to me, from the time when I knew nothing about MBA preparation to now, as I prepare at my own pace. Your vlogs and diaries are legitimate lifesavers, and it is completely understandable to feel this way after completing your PGDM from a top B-School.
I have just graduated and am currently looking for internships or jobs while also preparing for MBA entrance exams. Coming from a completely different academic background makes preparing for these exams quite challenging. Sometimes, I feel disheartened and doubt whether I can even score decent marks. I often question if an MBA is really meant for me.
Despite the circumstances, I always tell myself, "Never ever give up on yourself; always believe in yourself." I would say the same thing for you: hold on, dhi-you will do wonders 💫💫
Thank you so much for your wishes ❣️ all the very best for your journey ahead too 🥺✨
Best wishes
The way you are feeling this maybe because this maybe the first time things did not go according to you, for me this happened long back and i realised then that planning so much wont lead me anywhere as i was the same as you, q big planner though i am younger than you, but then i started following a neutral path, a path of going with the flow but also planning a draft in my head of certain things, so i would suggest do the same, do not plan so much, just make a draft in your head, and keep going and try finding solutions to everyday challenges, everything went according to you till now doesn't mean you will get everything you had planned in the coming days, that is not life, do not be in that perception!! All the best!!
Though I'm thankful for such a wise comment I as a person am very determined in achieving my goals and yes I agree that I haven't received my dream life yet but I'm sure something is happening in the background to give me that. But thanks again for reminding me about detachment ✨☺️
I totally agree with you and here i want to share something with you. We are on the same page. I am your age, i live in bbsr, i did my graduation here and guess what i am working in bbsr and all my friends, they have moved out for work and they tell me the same thing, but girllll!!! It is more about the independence. I feel, i value that more. I get it, you know its good, you save money, you have your family, you also save time but but. There is a "But". Anyways, I am very happy that you finally got this and i totally get your concern. Everything will be fine Medha!! We got this!! Be happy, Be grateful!!! 😍❤❤❤ Eventually all things fall into place!! Let everything sink in!! Keep Creating!!!❤❤❤
Thank you girl ☺️ for sure a lovely comment. Seeing the silver lining I'll keep working hard ❤️
I feel you should just be grateful for what you have pause take a deep breathe and prepare yourself for the upcoming months also you have acheived soo much that people like me only dream about so i feel just be grateful
Appreciate your outlook man ! Will keep that in mind ✨☺️
I have taken a gap year after my graduation and trust me I get how lost u r feeling bcoz I had planned this gap year but now that am actually going through this year it feels really lonely nothing I had planned is happening but I am taking one step at a time , your vlogs are smithing I wait for coz ur journey ur dedication is an inspiration and am sure u r gonna make the best out of it so don’t worry maybe smtimes things don’t go the way we planned but there is better out there for sure , don’t lose hope we r with u❤❤❤
Awww 😭❤️
Thank you Anjali for such a supportive comment
Medha everything comes to the life with a purpose/for a purpose, maybe not moving out of your home town is a sign for you to excel yourself as a person,to embark on new things,to do things which you won't get to do 4-5 years down the line,ik right it might be quite disheartening to graduate from a top b school and not expecting this,but accept whatever it is and be grateful also its not something you are stucked to forever,life take turns honey just enjoy the process and life it to the fullest ,maybe after few years you would be in your dream city ❤😊
Thank you for such kind wise words ☺️✨❤️
Man, I feel you 🙂. You are about to enter a position similar to mine, having graduated from college last year with a BBA degree . I started working from home as a social media marketer for a start-up company right away, and I started preparing for my MBA recently. Trust me after a while, you may begin to feel trapped in one room. Even some of my pals went away from this city to pursue MBAs at random universities. This is the time of enjoyment, work, hustle, and dreams, and this city is completely withering. Par ghar par hi reh gaye toh budhapa aur jawani mei kya Farak reh jayega.
I feel you bro 🥺
heyy! just wanted to tell you..i understand what you're going through. i am still preparing to get into my dream B school but i understand that feeling all too well.. i understand that you feel the need to keep hustling and you feel directionless.. but have you wondered all this time that you were hustling (and ik you love hustling have watched every one of your vlogs haha)..do you feel that there was a need to just PAUSE and revel and let everything sink in..? instead of worrying about tomorrow, why don't you try and make today better and revel in the things and opportunities that are given to you today. so what, just read, just draw just do things that make you feel good instead of thinking about next steps, or thinking of how you want to monetise your hobbies...just do hobbies for the same of them making you happy...maybe this is mislabeled in your mind to be a quarter life crisis..maybe this is just a phase where you just need to BE. just exist and do things that make you happy..no lists, no pressure just a little bit of life.. i think i have rambled on enough. The point is, this time that you are given won't come back, so instead of thinking of this phase as a quarterlife crisis, you can label it seeking new adventures and living like you never have. hope this helps.
Ahhh man ! Such wise words. Thanks bro. Needed to hear this ❤️✨
Also all the best for your journey ahead 👍🏻💯
Very well said
Hey, do you remember me? A few months back I was so broken and I wrote to you. Cut to today, ig it's been 2-3 months. My life has changed completely. I'm stable, calm, full of joy and energy again. No more restlessness, sadness..etc.
All i would say is to give yourself some time. It's absolutely ok to feel lost. And if it's so confusing, wait for sometime and let life unfold itself for you.
Plus put yourself into some physical activity like gym or outdoor games, trust me it helps a lot, mentally!!
Virtual hug for you!!! ❤
Yaayyyy that's awesome dude ! ☺️✨
I'll surely keep your words in my mind
Hey medha, i can feel what youre going through as i was in the same place once, i would suggest you to join a gym cuz it really helped me. You will be able to kill time while also staying healthy and when you look at yourself in the mirror youll feel amazing and confident, you can also meet some new people there and who knows maybe youll find some like minded people too.
Hey
Thanks for the advice
Will surely try to implement it
How much was your package?
Take care❤️
✨💫☺️
I have four months of experience but I don't have any experience letter just original offer letter so can I use that for PI ..?
You need an offer letter and resignation letter.
@@theartsyi okay got it thank you
Hi ma’am , don’t worry too much, just trust the process , you will be fine , I think join the company work for few years and then get shifted to Pune or Mumbai as you mentioned will be a good option to see for . ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
☺️✨👍🏻 yesss absolutely
@@theartsyi hi one doubt , I have a position of responsibility por like a spoc in my company, how can I put proof to the resume that I was the spoc . What proof will support it in the resume any idea ma’am?
@GDPI whatever you have done, get it verified by your manger and company
@@theartsyi how, can u please explain the steps , is it that I should ask for por or any other
Please mail me at theartsyi7@gmail.com
I am seeing people around me wanting to move out of Kolkata but are unable to move maybe because most of the company are setting up new offices here in Kolkata and they need people here. Also if you wanna be independent then you can move to a different flat in Kolkata itself and share your experiences through your videos.
Parents won't be that happy with that decision 😂😂😂
Btw I am also from Kolkata and want to move out because I don’t have command on Bengali speaking..in college and even in office where I have worked everyone communicates in Bengali and it makes my everyday so tough to thrive.
Oh no. Can completely understand this
heyy! first one to watch hahah. you can still come to mumbai..and if you are here hit me up...i wouold love to hangout at the beach with you..good thing i stay near the beach. whatever god has planned for you is gonna be amazing! don't worry. all the best for your future Medha
Thank you for such kind words 😊
you can move out, maybe rent a house in Kolkata only..
Join an ngo, somehow i think it’s going to help you. You need a break from monotony.
So basically you're blaming Kolkata because your family doesn't give you freedom
Not really :) have explained this in the video