How To Stop Caring What People Think

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  • @SilverSlayer
    @SilverSlayer หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I’ve lived true to your saying & it’s taken me further than anything else.. “Progress Daily”

  • @AJStarch
    @AJStarch หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lived the first 50 years of my life for others and was miserable a lot… At that time I started living for me and finding Progress Daily was a big part of that. Now I’m with someone who loves the real me and I’m happy again learning to skate and surf, building a hot rod, traveling, started my own TH-cam channel and having fun. Thanks for your part in that!

  • @NullBlox
    @NullBlox หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We need more people like you on this platform. Thank you for the Kind words!

  • @dbandthekings9206
    @dbandthekings9206 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You’re a good dude. Aside from the awesome skating. That’s why I enjoy your videos. Please don’t feel influenced by that. I just felt compelled to say that.

  • @Og_skater
    @Og_skater หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a young men skater I really see you as a guide the advice you give in your videos have help me out a lot in the past so thanks John love to see you happy with your family man inspiring!!!!

  • @davidsjones
    @davidsjones หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    needed this advice

  • @ryohei89
    @ryohei89 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Already giving that much needed dad advise huh John. This was great man, keep doing what you are doing!

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great timing

  • @RePotHead
    @RePotHead หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Miss your skating content, love this too tho!

  • @kriswilson-nd8tj
    @kriswilson-nd8tj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed this so bad and did not know it

  • @AnanasDan
    @AnanasDan หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Liking and commenting because please don't quit youtube John

  • @jestnutz
    @jestnutz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Havent seen this channel in years holy! since skate boarding back in 2016. Damn What a throw back this is

  • @KeenanRIVALS
    @KeenanRIVALS 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Absolutely loved this video. Found your skating content a while back and I have never in my life been on a skateboard. I watched it simply for the minute or two you talked about stuff like this. Super excited to see that you're going all in on this type of content!

  • @danielguevara8815
    @danielguevara8815 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So well spoken! Pls keep dropping talking vids like this. Whatever is on your mind, i will listen 😅

  • @ericharmon7163
    @ericharmon7163 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way to stop worrying is to stop worrying. I look at everyone as equal. If I live according to what others think, then I am living their life. Educate yourself, listen, and take in advice. But act according to your own heart. Wisdom is knowledge mixed with experience.

  • @muffen5148
    @muffen5148 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I recently just started rewatching your old vlogs as I’ve found myself needing some motivation. Back in high school and college I would latch on to people like you to keep myself inspired. So I just wanna say thank you as always for posting-and thank you for this video.

  • @chaosbeup
    @chaosbeup หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Keep killing it John. Your truly an inspiration! Legend

  • @AFRONINJA505
    @AFRONINJA505 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro 7:11 hit deep, thanks man.🔥❤️

  • @Llamaface87
    @Llamaface87 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're the man John. Keep on doing you.

  • @introvertedcontentcreator
    @introvertedcontentcreator หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed that! Thank you!

  • @babyeruption7672
    @babyeruption7672 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how your channel has grown and how your videos matter and have great purpose good shi john keep it up

  • @TardSoftQB
    @TardSoftQB หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Perfect timing

  • @Bobread0
    @Bobread0 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Do more videos like these!

    • @difanaufal
      @difanaufal หลายเดือนก่อน

      YESSS

  • @walterarmstrong1737
    @walterarmstrong1737 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Possibly one of my fav vids from you by far.

  • @TheCurtisJames
    @TheCurtisJames หลายเดือนก่อน

    Inspirational, motivating and overall excellent video. I appreciate the positivity you are bringing to the community 🙏🏼

  • @crashdoll91
    @crashdoll91 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was so good, needed this.

  • @homemsapo
    @homemsapo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great value from this type of content. Been seeing you since at least 2017. Your a source of inspiration when It comes to being true and reinventing yourself, at least for me who used to skate and do parkour, and now i'm into Climbing. Movement, all the same. And been having ideas about movies and books analysis to put on TH-cam.

  • @mrbabylon4210
    @mrbabylon4210 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for that John... Needed it!

  • @SoapworthyProductions
    @SoapworthyProductions หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right there with you John. Never cared to be rich or expect to have lots of money but the way things have been going in the economy has me stressing that soon I won’t be making enough to afford to survive in California. And I’ve been out here for 17 years now. Just keeps getting more and more expensive for literally everything.

  • @dairofelipe8282
    @dairofelipe8282 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Even though it’s not a skate video I actually needed this cause I skated with my other friends 2 days ago and skating for them is like a competition I don’t like that it made me feel like I’m bad at skating lowered my confidence

  • @jtthorn
    @jtthorn หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this! You nailed it, John!

  • @milesbanares
    @milesbanares หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @Ernie_Creates
    @Ernie_Creates หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for uploading! 😊

  • @noiredereliction
    @noiredereliction หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anxiety and self-doubt go hand in hand for me. Overcoming my fears and be confident are gonna be the crusade of my whole life at 36. Even more so because of my traumatic childhood- I was abused both physically and emotionnally by my parents. Then I got severely bullied in high school, later by neighbors in my apartment building. After having drank for a decade, I'm sober for almost 3 years now. I'm currently back to University to complete my biochemestry degree. Life is hard when you're agoraphobic, socially anxious and depressed. During my deepest lows, I was unable to leave my apartment for months. People are still talking behind my back and gossiping about me. Life's hard and harsh when you suffer from acute chronic low self-esteem. Because I tend to believe what others say about myself. After all I went through, I'm still alive which wouldn't be the case for most people if they had to go through all that stuff.

  • @MotoSly
    @MotoSly หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nothing but love for you John!

  • @cyruswhiting8538
    @cyruswhiting8538 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed to hear this, thank you John

  • @lavalansterplays9497
    @lavalansterplays9497 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I truly needed to hear that. Thank you. ❤️

  • @shummers
    @shummers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    John, I started watching you and Sarah independently by total coincidence before the two of you met, then dated and so on. I just love that I was like... Wait why are these two small channel, unrelated TH-camrs meeting at the weird snow lodge place and then it felt like a weird dream I was having when yall then dated. It already felt like such a weird and unlikely coincidence that the two of you even crossed paths at all. Now I understand that you two have overlapping interests that make sense to me now, but then it felt really weird that a skateboarder TH-camr that I was following and a camera TH-camr I was following who made videos about video editing and stuff happened to be metering and then happened to date and then happened to get married or whatever. I haven't kept up with the channel much to be honest (and I don't keep super close tabs on internet relationships generally, because... weird). Anyway.
    I am recalling those memories because I was abused by my mother and I wasn't allowed to even go outside into my driveway and use the skateboard that I bought because I thought your videos were so cool. I never ended up really learning how to skateboard because I found out it's kind of scary, but those videos host me feel like I was living some sort of real life outside of my bedroom window that I was stuck watching the world through. I was restrained from physical movement and therefore developed very muted physical gestures and I just generally struggle to move my body much in flexible ways because it's such a new thing to me. It's a really hard thing to explain but it might sound weird but it was very cathartic being able to watch someone skateboarding. I just really loved watching how the tricks work, I like to be able to hear the air and birds outside and I really like the sound of the wood skateboard deck grinding against metal. These things made life feel more real, and I needed that at that age, point, and time.
    Now I've outgrown skateboards personally, now that's skateboarding is childish, just something I personally grew out of like with any interest. But I always make sure to stay subscribed to channels like this that I subscribed to a long time ago and have probably forgotten about. Because once in a while I get a video that pops up from someone I totally forgot about, and I'm like "oh my god John Hill still exists even when I'm not watching his videos?".
    Anyway my point here is just that, it feels good that things have changed. I don't need the skateboarding anymore, but I do need help with regret. Because now it's time to confront my father about the abuse and a divorce. I want air out my family issues any further, but this is the scariest thing I have done ever. But it's the right thing. I promised myself not to flinch while going through this. I need to cut my mother out of my life, even if that means cutting the entire family off with her. It's so difficult to push through that without falling for the way I crave a relationship with my mother like I never had. But this is my truth, and I gotta say what must be said and not allow myself to regret it, despite the pain. My conscious is clear, and has been, I just have to trust it.
    Thanks again for crossing paths with my life. You are a friend.

  • @Nugz1124
    @Nugz1124 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Simply let go and stop caring about what others think of you I live by this and haven’t looked back because space ships don’t have review mirrors

  • @red_rose_redemption
    @red_rose_redemption หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks john

  • @DLivingston
    @DLivingston หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice Jacket! Also, really digged this video. Great way to start my day at the office!

  • @danielsegura9621
    @danielsegura9621 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this bro 😭

  • @Zewpz
    @Zewpz หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was an incredible video. Thanks John ♥️🤝

  • @yepyoulost307
    @yepyoulost307 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was awesome! I love this type of video. Definitely needed to hear this one. Great work man!

  • @JackCalvinRoss
    @JackCalvinRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice thank you John. Wouldn't have been able to start my own stuff without these videos over the years. Thanks for living true to yourself and showing us we can do the same! (Also go get that bag bro!! It's so interesting to see your business progression and you've delivered soooo much value that you really do deserve it. I know we'd all be hyped to watch along) :)

  • @leogobloh
    @leogobloh 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great vid John💆🤝

  • @ryuken4065
    @ryuken4065 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Haven't watched you much in a long time been busy. But good timing really needed that advice.

  • @tyw6225
    @tyw6225 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for speaking your mind! I’m a new father as well, I’ll definitely be buying a book.

  • @MichaelDorgan
    @MichaelDorgan หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let's go John! Extremely wise words than we can all be inspired by. Glad you are giving time and energy to this with your platform!

  • @Dtakinoff
    @Dtakinoff หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the video. I’m sure it wasn’t a hot topic, but I definitely learned a lot from this video. Thank you🤙🏾

  • @sqeashy8346
    @sqeashy8346 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really liked this video thanks john

  • @Citrik_acid
    @Citrik_acid หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video!

  • @colbyhann1808
    @colbyhann1808 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Top Tier i needed that you the man

  • @AlexOsbornOfficial
    @AlexOsbornOfficial หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen! Thank you for this. Would love to see more videos in the same vein

  • @JBSB
    @JBSB 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is a great video John, kudos 🧡💙💜

  • @theultimateweirdo2009
    @theultimateweirdo2009 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou

  • @user-gn4ug8cg6z
    @user-gn4ug8cg6z หลายเดือนก่อน

    thankyou

  • @K_spawn
    @K_spawn หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol the title got me😂

  • @bestechYtBotBH
    @bestechYtBotBH หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is amazing advice that I can take, John.

  • @DarkoNomad
    @DarkoNomad หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd say that skateboarding taught me about life and living.
    1. I knew it won't be easy but it will be fun (it's more about the journey than destination) .
    2. It taught me to stay true to myself regardless of how others perceive it.
    3. There are risks of injuries but much higher rewards in learning tricks.
    4. I learned to take calculated risks in life by learning them through tricks
    5. As in life, however you fall you need to stand up and keep pushing - it taught me about importance of consistency and perseverance.
    6. Years of falling and injuries only made me stronger and more resilient.
    7. It taught not to compete with others but only with myself
    8. It improved my balance and reflexes that saved my life and others many times.
    9. It taught me how to look at obstacles creatively (in life and business)
    But unfortunately, now in my late 30s, when I feel very accomplished in my life personally and profesionally, I wish I had younger body and more time for skateboarding 😂

  • @snaggletooth1881
    @snaggletooth1881 หลายเดือนก่อน

    got pretty heavy on this one dude. Like most of us here watching, I can relate to this topic . I have found that if I keep an open mind combined regarding others opinions,, combined with keeping in touch with myself and what makes me happy, regretful vibes are few and far between. ..... by the way, that tailslide heelflip out was dope..... went the distance. 👍💪

  • @nicholasrandich5108
    @nicholasrandich5108 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this!!! Thank you been watching since I was 14 15 I’m 20 now and needed this!!!

    • @andrewashford5617
      @andrewashford5617 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U been watching a 30 year old man since u were a pre teen 🤦🏽🤔🤔🤔

    • @aliyastop
      @aliyastop หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewashford5617 you're implying that John is eternally 30? lmao

  • @quarter_cab
    @quarter_cab หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thumbnail GOAT

  • @michaelt6413
    @michaelt6413 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I woke up way too emotional for this video today

  • @tippiest734
    @tippiest734 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so happy I clicked on this video

  • @austinskates4299
    @austinskates4299 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    needed to hear that i love you so much man i’ve been watching sence i was like 7 im 17 now about to be 18 in may you, garret, an many other skate TH-camrs keep me pushin on my board God bless

    • @andrewashford5617
      @andrewashford5617 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why don’t they have parental controls. For our generation we couldn’t watch shhhhh!!!!! But now 3 years old know everything a 42 year old knows about the kardashians and every other ignorant thing they shouldn’t have access to. A 7 year old watching a 30 year old is creep, even a 17 year old, bro is 17 years older than u… bizarre times!

    • @lukewilliams3879
      @lukewilliams3879 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andrewashford5617 ???

  • @TON3RI
    @TON3RI หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nun but facts here man

  • @jesterexe4610
    @jesterexe4610 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey John, if you are going down this motivational/philosophy route I suggest looking into stoicism and reading meditations by Marcus Aurelius

  • @brettartie
    @brettartie หลายเดือนก่อน

    First off, great video, I think it will help a lot of people!!! but something that struck me with what you said. I don't necessarily agree that families should have unconditional love. I think love should be based on conditions. Lets say you have a family member that kills other people (extreme example, but I think you'll understand the point), I don't think they should be deserving of my love. I should be able to shut them out if they don't meet certain conditions. Although with family the level of conditions might be lower than with others. I know this is very philosophical, but it's something I think about.

  • @ljdanas
    @ljdanas หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You’re already being judged. Do what you have to anyway.

  • @ericdonohue5073
    @ericdonohue5073 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    #HillFam

  • @off.pudding
    @off.pudding 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What's up joa

  • @oregonxl
    @oregonxl หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤙

  • @mkchomponthis
    @mkchomponthis หลายเดือนก่อน

    👏

  • @himebaughchris4026
    @himebaughchris4026 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have you SEEN Harvard lately? A Hate Vessel. And yeah. Drama Creators are getting old.

  • @jokerzyo
    @jokerzyo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Living situations are generally basically impossible thing to overcome for the people who live paycheck to paycheck. That's most americans

  • @rome3497
    @rome3497 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My fav Filipino

  • @lukewilliams3879
    @lukewilliams3879 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you change the title?

  • @ehj.skaterchris
    @ehj.skaterchris หลายเดือนก่อน

    🛹🛹🛹

  • @advaitawho
    @advaitawho 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Have you heard of Non Duality from Jim Newman? 🤔☯ It will definitely stop you caring what people think! 😂

  • @kelaaannn
    @kelaaannn หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @nickvas95
    @nickvas95 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I think the best realization is when we come to know that we’ve never really had control all along. God has always been in control. Then we can easily stop letting others dictate our actions & decisions.

    • @_tokii__
      @_tokii__ หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Because God made me have to go take a shit this morning

    • @steelokey
      @steelokey หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@_tokii__same

    • @chad9455
      @chad9455 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen Nick, so true.

    • @chad9455
      @chad9455 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      People are natural enemies of God and hate God, in our fallen state we will take any kind of advice in this world. Except the advice to turn to God, repent of our sin and believe the good news that Jesus died for our sinners and saves the ungodly. (All of us) God will welcome you with open arms, and offer peace only found in him. 😊

    • @paceyourself5652
      @paceyourself5652 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🌽’y

  • @sprainedankle8547
    @sprainedankle8547 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please submit for YSL (youtube skatepark league). I tihnk you would do good.

  • @jakesmith_sb
    @jakesmith_sb หลายเดือนก่อน

    U regretted using the other thumbnail

  • @lukewilliams3879
    @lukewilliams3879 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where's the skateboarding, John?

  • @ArnoudBS
    @ArnoudBS หลายเดือนก่อน

    Skaters are making self imrpovement cotent now nice

  • @mateuslimadegoes
    @mateuslimadegoes หลายเดือนก่อน

    Po, bom para caralho!

  • @ashVGF
    @ashVGF หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you