4 Kids. 13 Tickets & Doing the Best She Can & I'm sorry I have postpartum!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2019
- A single mom receives a gift from a compassionate viewer in Texas and a big break from Judge Caprio. Then the judge tries to calm a new mom with postpartum who has a bundle of tickets and a boot on her car.
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The first mom looks so stressed out and sad.
@Professor Terguson true lots of people there are there for parking tickets.
Nilka Esther Chase DeDier well she created four children ... no one did that for her. She parks illegally. She’ll be in jail soon enough ... or she won’t. Wish her the best
@@suzyrottencrotch5132 why would she be in jail she is not a criminal
Why do you have blame her for spreading her legs? It’s takes 2 to tangle. At least she is raising these kids.
izzy B sex is natural and instinctual, you can’t blame her for having sex or let alone wanting to have sex. Same thing goes to wanting kids; that is instinctual. It’s not like she can control her hormones. And when it comes to the “bad guy” not everyone can see the warning signs, especially when you are in LOVE. And I can already see the “she could’ve been responsible to use to a condom or get on birth control” in which, you’re right, but not everyone has access to that. Personally, I’m 17 and I cannot get on birth control because My insurance refuses to cover that, and I can’t use condoms because I’m allergic to Latex. I don’t know her situation, but don’t judge someone when you don’t know anything about them, it’s hypocritical.
I understand when she said she's tired.. you get so exhausted that you just don't care anymore. She's sad, physically, mentally and spiritually tired.😔
True I was there once!! Not a good feeling.
Sad it’s functional depression... I pray she’s in a better place today mentally and physically I understand. You just get tired and need that break.
i could imagine...with just my one nephew it takes a lot let alone her having 4
You can see it in her eyes.. been there before
@Greekchic I feel her.😔
What a sweetheart he is. Post partum is no joke. Everything makes you cry.
Lol life does too
I remember I used to cry every minute
Yeah, it does. I remember having it too.
I felt like I had lost all control of my body when I had it. I cried about everything, even nothing at times, but like this girl, I couldn't help when it would start and then I wouldn't be able to stop it for a while. It's rough! Bless her heart!
“Post partum” just means “after giving birth”. If you mean to say you have post partum depression you need to be saying it like that otherwise it seems like you don’t know how words work
I really did feel for that poor girl with postpartum. She was desperately trying to calm herself. You cannot control emotions when you have postpartum. She is a courageous girl. What did come to mind was why she was on her own.
I guess, like most single moms, she chose a bad partner to have kids with.
"What did come to mind was why she was on her own."
because she doesn't have family to rely on. which makes any pregnancy difficult, let alone raising a kid and working. grandparents or other family to help take the kids off you for some time once in a while, is a lifesaver. some don't have that luxury.
the fact that noone came with her points to this being the case here.
@@viron6734 did she say she was a single mom?
@@viron6734 She didn't say at any point whether she was single, married, divorced, or widowed. And regardless of her marital status, women with PPD still have families and friends who can help them through their diagnosis.
She may have been in court alone because the baby was with the dad?
Having postpartum (depression? anxiety?) doesn’t automatically mean she’s alone. Fully supported women with intact families can still get postpartum depression because it’s a chemical imbalance.
"how much can you pay per week?"
"50?"
"no you can't, pay 25"
Wow what a great guy.
it touched my heart in a way that gave me a reason to restore my faith in humanity. Compassion still Exist, though a lot maybe more like AARON MILLS.
It is better to be patient and give them time to pay up than to rush it and waste taxpayers money on summoning her back to court for overdue payments...again....
Bless him for that
Yes, it's a great idea. Maybe it'll take longer to pay, but he said multiple times to take what you think you can pay in a week/month, and say half of it. Turning all of your spare money to paying a fine can be really bad if anything unexpected expense comes up in that period.
She said $50 because us mother make it happen. He knew it would've been hard for her. I think she is depressed also. She looks check out
The stress, a womans body goes through during and after birth. 😥
Its definitely real.
& the fact that it’s uncontrollable 😩
And where is the father of the kid? I hope he is helping. This is so sad.
Orions Eye I know she broke my heart postpartum depression is the worse thing a women can go through after giving birth. I was literally crying with her smh poor baby I know she’s going through it
And before (pregnancy)
No joke I started crying with her. Like teardrop for teardrop. My son is 23 and I still remember that emotional pain of postpartum.
I’m crying harder than the second girl. The apologizing and anxiety of not being able to stop the anxiety. Then the anxiety of apologizing so much. This is me constantly
Hi
Me also😢
We're from
God bless you , I’m sure your full of purity & Genuine soul
if you are like this i ill do one thing for you no one has ever done its even better 2 bilion doller ...heres the thing ,go on youtube right down quran recitation listen everytime you get anxiety you will appriate me 100 thousad times then anyone ever i promise ..just do it whenever you feel anxiety
When a woman starts crying I love watching men’s reactions. They never know what to do.
amber harbour I know your just like mate waving your hand down isn’t going to stop her 😂
I never know what to do neither and I’m a lady 😂
That's why they cry they know they can manipulate people
@@ml2782 🤣🤣🤣🤣 no...
@@ml2782 🙄🙄🙄
Seeing these women struggle makes me realize I am in no way mentally prepared for a baby. God bless all of them.
This is a case of single parenthood. It's very different when a woman has a supportive husband that provides. I do not expect to be a single parent, that is not God's plan for me, it will be different from the rest of my family.
Yes being married to my husband makes everything so easy!!!! We only have 2 kids but I'm done I don't want anymore. Lol but I must say it makes a big difference having a spouse who makes a ton of money.
@@CircumstancesNeverMatter Go ahead girl Be a happy happy momma for your boo and babies. That's a blessing. ❤🤍
@@TazHall having a husband doesn't make you not get postpartum, it's horrible you shouldn't judge mothers for that
Its a combination of exhaustion, lack of support and financial restraints. Extremely difficult combination. In that state you make bad decisions - simply because you haven't got the capacity to think clearly. Both of these women, in their own way, need to be mothered themselves. They are trying their best. The judge has seen that. One thing is for certain - they are not putting themselves first - to be a good mother you need to look after that mother (sleep, support, healthcare, nutrition) but the focus is always on the baby (which is understandable). Hopefully the time will come when thing settle down for both of them or they get the support they need.
If all judges were like this our justice system would actually be.. a justice system
Couldn’t have said it better myself. This is what real justice looks like!
she really really needed that break, and i’m so very glad she ended up in your court. thank you for being such a kind judge and showing everyone a good example of compassion.
The First Lady is severely depressed. A very common dark place is “I just don’t care anymore. I don’t have the strength to care. I don’t have the mental fortitude to care.” So they seem careless but depression takes away the ability to care.
So true
Yes god bless her
She sounds like she’s about to cry the entire time. Very sad
She is where I was not too long ago. She spoke to my soul and i Pray God for her what he’s done for me because I know that feeling all to well.
Right
First Lady seems real sad :/ I hope she’s doing well in this pandemic :/
@@bignateliving4056 Neither of those women were "acting". If you have empathy you will understand.
@@somethingsinlife5600 Yeah. What I've noticed is that most judges have children, so they can relate and or understand people who have children to a degree.
@Ki Love lol how do you that she is being honest? From all what she said i got 1 thing. She is using her children aa an excuse to run away from responsibilities.
@@theboogyman7158 she wasn’t using her children as an excuse she straight up said she was tired 🤷🏾♀️ she admitted fault to everything she did.
@Rami the 1st lady straight up said that she committed those because of exhaustion.. she didnt beg, it was the judge's discretion.
Two lovely ladies doing the best they can. Raising a family on your own is no easy task. Best wishes to all the courageous moms out there
As a guy it's sometimes hard to admit when something really gets you right in the feels, but the level of compassion and humanity that this judge shows on a regular basis makes me genuinely want to meet and shake the guys hand.
I think someone might be peeling onions in my living room.
I’m in the same boat, man.
Exactly 👍
He's the best. I'm from Rhode Island but have never had any tickets in providence. But watching this makes me want to get a ticket just to meet him. He knows so much of providence is a shithole. It's a small city where only a very small area of it is filled with ppl doing well. Although it's not as bad as some major cities but this judge really cares. Good for him
I LOVE THIS. And riight?!! Those damn living room onion peelers. 😆
🤟 Tiffany
@@lucaswitdatrueff3468YESSSS!!!! This right here! Of course I don't live in Rhode Island, I know he has since retired and is battling pancreatic cancer. That ALONE STILL makes me want to meet and hug him.
The first mom, I just wanna give her a hug and a hot chocolate drink and tell her she's doing fine. I pray for her happiness
You have a good heart 💕🙏
@@susannecarolinehoff7847 0
Hot chocolate? Give her a margarita
The second one too. They’re so overwhelmed
Totally 💯
There’s a very special place in heaven for you judge Caprio
I C O M P L E T E L Y agree......
Special place in heaven!!??? Judge Caprio can turn the hell into Jerusalem!!
Or I think he’s a living saint with compassion and wisdom mission to carry out.
i agree
This niga ain't going nowhere
That poor mom had me tearing up. Postpartum is real and horrible. trying to continue to function while your body and mind are going haywire. Best of luck. Thank you Judge Caprio for all you did for her and the single mom. ⚖
Single mom then why so many kids
Weird how mostly single moms suffer from postpartum. Could it POSSIBLY be lack of sleep?!?!
@@loristone1264 that is literally her first children and she never said she was a single mom
@@johnbags2525 I wasn't a single mom and still suffered from postpartum after all of my newborns. It's not easy work
That second lady had me crying. I'm not a mother but I deal with depression and anxiety too and it's the worst feeling.
Same. It's such a helpless feeling when you're trying to hold yourself together and can't. Clearly, empathy is your superpower. 🩵 I hope you're doing well.
Somebody tell this angel of a man to run for President pls we need him
Virgo i wish,unfortunately the world for some odd reason doesnt like guys like these😔
Juan Mendoza because they know he would take morally correct actions which doesn’t always mean money. that’s all everything is about
@@itsliliannam i agree 100 percent!!!!
@virgo babybackwood I’m sorry but he’s not corrupt, so he could never be the President of the United States
Vote for him ....nice caring person
We need you in every state ... matter fact just run for president lol
No, politics can corrupt good people, let him stay in the judiciary uwu
He will not win. Only crooks like Trump will win!!
YESSSS
Judge Caprio president of US and Imran Khan president of Pakistan. I think they would make the world, best of places and peaceful.
only after 2024. maga.
I'm in tears.. I am so in love with this courthouse.. I live in Montgomery County, TX. I , too, was/am a single young mother of 4 and after severe PTSD from their abusive father who left us (aka went to prison) I was raising the most precious babies in the world with a pretty broken mother and making tiny mistakes that led me to court.. even a night in jail.. which made it way worse .. the authority here is quite merciless. So, now 10 yrs later I have learned a lot! Lol to say the least.. and I would have learned far faster and without more trauma , had a judge like this help me .. not financially, but with his heart.
Thank God for this wonderful man 🙏🏼❤️
Judge Caprio is a wonderful and rare person, we need more people in this world just like him.
I feel so sorry for her,her voice sounds like she’s just tired of everything,like she has depression or something
It's post-partum depression.
Sassy Winter Fox oh ok
@Griffith Williams how do u know she had the choice, with an abusive partner thats not always the case
Or she needs some water.
Postpartum is depression it's called postpartum depression
Damn the First Lady seemed really depressed
I think we all would be having to work full time and raise 4 kids alone. That is a heck of a responsibility to have on your shoulders!
Madz Z she wasn’t. She was exhausted clearly
Madz Z she’s working and it’s sucking all the life energy out her
Lady needs an holiday
Shes totally exhausted. 😞
Judge, as a retired Officer, tyvm for your compassion. You're a true example. I pray someday I get to meet you and shake your hand!
The poor young lady with post-partum... My heart breaks for her 💔 😢 I know how she feels, emotions are so overwhelming when you first have a baby 🥰
This lady sound intelligent, she just need a little help with her 4 kids.
I agree
Maybe her baby father
Stop having kids.
TeacherTeacher she was with the children’s father at the time she had them. Once he left she didn’t have any more kids.
what she needs is birth control
That postpartum is something nobody will ever understand unless you've had it. I had it with my daughter and it sucks. Crying over having to do things or crying if someone tries to help you, not wanting to leave the house....its horrible and I hope this lady is doing much better.
It's not even a real thing......said no woman ever!
@kathy mcallister it was 2 months. It was the second lady.
My sons four and I still feel like I have it. Try living with Postpartum depression, not knowing what auto immune disease you have (doctors leaning towards lupus), and having a mean MIL. Yeah, sometimes life just hurt to much but kept fighting through. I Still continue to.. I literally felt her anxiety while watching and cried with her.
Yes had it after giving birth to my son it is a very real thing
So many people have kids, and it’s not really that special. I don’t see the point of it, and this just adds to that. I don’t feel much empathy for those who do have kids because it is a choice one makes, a choice that takes a lot of money, time, and energy. So, if you choose to have a kid, that’s your choice. If you don’t want postpartum depression, don’t have kids.
Truly hope she is okay now. Postpartum almost won over me. One of the hardest battles I’ve ever fought. Truly hope she is okay
I'm so glad you made it through to the other side. I'm proud of you 💕✨
what i like most about that judge is that he takes into consideration their circumstances, this feels so fair compared to others judges that treat others like they don't have their own circumstances within the law.
Damn the first woman look really sad and stressed out . Where ever you are lady if you ever read this message I wanna let you know you are in my prayers and thoughts.
Peace.
EDIT: Someone has commented a few days ago saying he/she is usually working more than the mother on this video and that no one cares. But then she/he deleted the comment. If you see this I wanna let you know you are too in my prayers. It suckes to work hard and no one notice. Wish you all a happy times never give up!
ADNANTENDOO has always had fun with
ADNANTENDOO very sweet of you
What a wonderful SWEET man you are God bless you too sweetheart.
Ur a real 1 for that message
Very Sweet Young Man😥😀
Yeah she definitely need to just move the car but damn I feel bad for her because she just gave me a vibe that she's so close to throwing in the towel. I pray that something great comes to her life.
Stop paying women to kick fathers out of the home. She could just get a government check. Stuff just doesn't make sense.
@@fishsmell2570 what
Dude your a good man for saying that.
Amen
Or maybe we should stop creating useless parking rules that serve no purpose but to fine people.
I went through postpartum after our last baby. It was horrifying. I cried with this mama. I hope she’s doing well ❤️
For the kind and beautiful heart that Judge Caprio has, I feel that he was not out of line when he called her irresponsible for not paying the tickets, it's just a matter of him reminding her to set good examples for her children and to take care of your responsibilities. It was meant from the heart and even a blind person can see that.
How do some men just walk away from their children without a backward glance. 4 kids with no support? That's heartbreaking.
Agree.. In India if kids are in mothers custody, father is made to pay monthly maintenance or one time heavy payment
It’s horrible and the guy is definitely partially to blame but there’s also a culture of women picking guys with those specific bad traits especially when it’s really clear the guy will probably not stick around. So on one hand the man is trash but women hold most of the power in choosing the man and they tend to choose the wrong ones in a lot of cases, and the culture reinforces that behavior
It’s criminal!!
@@samaprasDon't know if she was even married to the father or fathers so all that she could get in that situation is just child support.
They’re weak and pathetic manbabies
This judge has a big heart. He is just rational and puts himself in the shoes of others.
That's what makes him sweet and a wonderful wonderful MAN his wife is very lucky and his family and kids if he has any this man makes me want to be a better person everyday that goes by
@@priscillacasanova3188 The judge has five children, seven grandkids and two great grandkids. He still serves although he's over 80.
@@priscillacasanova3188 This only works in such dull cases.
Bless him
@@pauljordan4452 he is a amazing example
I would love to be in this court as a spectator. This judge, is what the world needs. God bless him for his grace!
During the whole video, I wanted to give both of the women a big hug and bring some fruit. It's tough being a new mom and being a mom of four with no support.
The fact that she has PPD AND is apologizing over everything makes me so sad. Us women have to deal with so much and it's always overlooked.
This wasn’t the best video to watch...I’m crying and it’s 12:11 and my csection is at 1300. Her crying and saying sorry so much is just heartwarming and sad. I wish her a great life.
...actually its men who need more love.
Women get better treatment in general.
(no im not mgtow or whatever youd want to call me)
Johny No Way that generalization is useless and based in absolutely nothing except for subjective opinions.... a lot of people deserve to be treated better, it has nothing to do with men vs women
@@Hdidbi_3049 trust me women and kids first.
men 2nd everywhere cuz men are strong and protectors.
But...at this point its way too much and women are much more free and want to do stuff on their own but dont want to give up their woman priviledges.
Its how it is.
Its no longer the 50s where women are in the kitchen and men work.
Johny No Way LMAOOOOO you sound bitter and out of touch with the real world. “Trust me” isn’t a source.
This judge isn't just a credit to the bench, he's a credit to humanity.
He's a detriment to the civil society and the rule of law.
I worked as an interpreter for 19 years and countless volunteering for people I know. Even getting people out of jail. But no one touches my heart like this Judge Caprio. Mr. Shane King, I couldn't have any better. Your words, I will always remember.
We need more like him around the world, he’s a true hero we all need people like him when life sucks. 🙏
This judge has a heart of gold! Every judge in this country could learn a thing or two from him
He’s so compassionate. I rewatch his videos when I need a reminder that humanity can be unbelievably beautiful. 💙👏
"I'm so tired, I'm exhausted, I don't care about getting fines all the time..." That lady is CLEARLY depressed. And I am not saying that she is "feeling sad". I am saying that she has a medical condition, she suffers from depression. Just look into her eyes. That lady needs help!
I think she’s clearly irresponsinle
@@nathalieb734 yes she was irresponsible but it is the cause. If she has a psychological medical condition that makes it hard to function then it is understandable. Trying to take care of oneself is hard enough with depression but four children who need your full attention? God bless her and I hope she is healthier now.
lol irresponsible people don't even need to make excuses for themselves, the liberals will make them for them! I raised my kids alone after their dad was killed in a car accident, I GET stress & exhaustion, there's no excuse for this bullshit
@@sarah.j.777 what does this have to do with politics, why bring up liberals, congrats that u could cope enough to not become severely depressed but others can't so for once think about somebody other than yourself and get off your high horse. You saw 5 minutes of that first woman, you know nothing thats going on behind the scenes, this comment is embarrassing
@@sarah.j.777 Don’t compare yourself. People have different battles and cope in other ways. Your comment grosses me out. What a disappointment.
This Judge is the most decent human being ever.
We need more HUMAN BEINGS than efficient CEO s.
COULD NOT AGREE WITH YOU MORE! EMBODIMENT of what HUMANITY should be. Great generation He came from. I hope GEN X people can emulate him more...I am from GEN X! hehehe
old school chevy decent?
I agree. Really love his judgment.
This wouldn't have happened if it the people in question were men. That's not being a decent human. Courts are extremely sexist, we shouldn't get anyone a break just because they're a single mom.
I have stood along side several judges in my law enforcement career and have never seen a judge with the compassion for people that you have . I have the utmost respect for you sir you have renewed my faith in the system some what .
Good. Now clean ur own house
His kindness is making her more nervous. You are an absolute angel Judge.
Every woman in the world who has had a baby has been there. Crying for no reason all the damn time for months! You’ll get there hunny!
That's y I stopped at one. Ppl just don't understand..
@@thethirtyplusmom634 have u even had a baby??
@@sarahk3411 yes and had very bad depression along with physical issues hence stopped at one. I'm happy for friends and family who have two kiddos ♥
It’s not that easy
God bless her. I have been there too.
People didnt notice that the father of her children was responsible for some of the tickets
He’s responsible for half of her stress, sadness, and tiredness. But her Kids make it all worth it.
13 tickets at her address, on her car.
@@mattg7952 just. Because it's at her address and her car doesn't mean somebody cant drive the car to her house
@@queensavage_xox7408 Ok ghetto attorney. She admitted to being too tired to move the car. Your the type of person this judge refers to, trying to make lame excuses to not be responsible. You must have been the kid whose dog always ate their homework.
@@mattg7952 first off I wasn't making excuses to basically say she didnt do anything wrong the vibe I got from you was she didnt give af and her character was just a facade to make people feel sorry for her and I was trying to say that you need to understand where she's coming from... second you need to stop making assumptions about my life I always had been and always will be an a, b student I have never been careless with anything pertaining to my grades and it will stay that way
If y felt some type of way you should've explained it and I could've explained it better too I dobt wanna start an argument over this and all I ask you to do is to not try to throw someone under the bus the first time you recognize they have a different opinion on a subject than you
Every judge in the USA should learn from his COMMPATION and empathy. I cried with the 2nd girl. Postpartum is horrific.
I feel for this young woman, trying to get by, having her 1st baby. I had the blues so bad, I could not attend court she is a strong young lady.
The first lady seems burnt out, the last lady made me cry I wanted to hug her.
Jasmine she should stop having kids period!
@@liyanibernier5720 which one?
@@liyanibernier5720 she did her last one was 4 years ago when she was with the children's father. You don't know someone's situation as to why things happen.
Jasmine both women deserve a hug...
StrivingtoBe exactly
America is fkn weird. Why can’t you park on the street? Wtf.
Paris Reedy-Feledyk you can you just have to pay in some places a ridiculous amount
There are certain spaces where you can't park. There are also certain TIMES when you can't park in certain spaces.
I think it’s the HOA NEIGHBORHOODS WHO DO THAT
Depends how narrow it is, bad drivers, and trash days?
@@muglymae7408 im from southeast europe n the tightest of streets have cars parked. just everywhere. chaos lmao
I felt so sorry for the new mommy 😢Thankyou judge
It warms the heart see they're still good people in this world
if you were that good how could you work for a city you know is scamming people 24 hours a day stealing from them for anything they can write a ticket for
This judge is building good karma, what a good person he is.
Love watching him.
Amy Coney Barrett could never.
I mean tbh hes not just gonna act like a mean person on his show. We cant rly know if hes genuine or not
Postpartum is no joke it’s real life I went through it I didn’t think it was really serious until I experienced it myself
Me too Crying even in little things It's not a joke.... i totally understand
I wonder what it’ll be like to have kids and I’ll maybe be able to relate one day but you guys are blessed that you have children. I’m currently in my 2nd year of trying.
Raven Willis keep trying don’t give up it took me a lot of years and now I’m blessed I thought about giving up faith and thought maybe it wasn’t in gods plan for me and it finally happened many years later I’m so happy to be a mom it’s the best feeling in the world I love my daughter I thank god for her don’t give up faith
I am honestly In the same boat. I am trying to get myself out of postpartum depression.. 2 kids and I am breaking down as this moment I feel like giving up. I am writing this in a car overthink.. m
vee be strong honey u will get through this it’s not easy but seeing those beautiful smiles on your kids make it all worth it god bless you and your family
I’m over here balling my eyes out 😭😭😭 I wish I could hug those mothers & tell them the amazing job they’re doing raising their babies & especially for that 1st time mama oh man she pulled on all my heart strings … my heart truly goes out to them .. being a mama myself I know exactly what exhaustion feels like 🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕
Best judge on this planet. Idol of millions people
That woman said she was exhausted she never said tired. Exhaustion and average tiredness are not near the same thing
Seems like a case of depression genius
@@thunderstraw864 Ya exhaustion is a symptom of depression... Carly is saying she wasn't just tired, she was worse.
@@Darkwolfpocco not only depression though? Im a mum of 2 toddlers and I get around 3 hours sleep a night and on my feet the rest of the time because of the other work I need to do as well as being a single mum and keeping up a household. Im exhausted!...but im not depressed!
@@Darkwolfpocco im not arguing that exhaustion is linked with depression but that's not the only reason people are exhausted
Amen
“Am I making you nervous?”
“Very - I’m so sorry!”
How sweet 🥺
Yes ,that whole case i teared up
If I’m ever in trouble PLEASE take me to this Judge 🙏🏾🙏🏾
We need all our courts.. everywhere, every country to be like this. Be more like Frank Caprio... Thank you for the justice, even if you're not from here in England. We all still appreciate what you do for people Frank.
Judge: "Am i making you nervous?"
Her: "Very, I'm so sorry"
Me: ctfuuu because she apologized so fast like she was scared she offended him. omg women are so precious
Mr. okay i never said that men were weak if they cry, so don’t spew that bullshit over here. that IS a stigma, and it is also very detrimental to the development of men; but no where in my comment did i insinuate that i feel that way. she’s not weak because she’s crying, and if it was a man he wouldn’t be weak either. so please gtfo from underneath my comment
@@FutureLegend100 crying is beneficial to your health, don't see how that makes you weak as both man or woman
I find tears to be a strength, I'm not ashamed to feel deeply because my heart is still soft in a cruel world, people can get very uncomfortable with crying because people are so guarded, they stuff all their feelings they become numb or simply feel ashamed to cry because they think it's a weakness. I find beauty in exposing your heart.
@@FutureLegend100 you are Right..i support you
@@huh7739 i- uhm.. men can cry and woman can cry too. Crying is beneficial and I do not understand why the society still thinks that way. Crying is human it's a way to deal with things. People cry because if they didn't they'd go into depression and the pain won't stop. After crying you feel calm. No pain, no sadness just calmness!
This is how a man acts when he truly loves women. This man has genuine love in his heart.
So you’re saying he loves her? 🧐
rvselle • i think she’s saying that he has love for woMEN plural, like compassion and appreciation for them
@@isamary99 Very well put, thank you
@M CC You don't like my screen name? I think it's cute lol 🥰... I actually find her to be ridiculously irresponsible and ignorant. I was literally annoyed at the fact that she racked up 13 tickets for no good reason. You're, like, mad aggressive, yo lol 😄... In fact, I found him far too lenient in her case. All of this, however, does not change the fact that he shows love.
M CC Both of these women seems depressed. I’m just glad that they are able to get themselves out of bed, eat, and still have the energy to take care of their children. Some people cannot even do that much with this illness much less to give 2 cents about parking tickets. I feel sorry for the children because depression affects everyone in the family. As for the individuals themselves it may eventually affect all body systems and functions. Stress is a silent killer.
This Judge should be a role model for all judges in the world. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
This guy is an empath and fair in judgment. I'm impressed I never knew good people like this still exists ♥️♥️
They do, when I got arrested I got a really good judge. Even though it was my first offense and it wasn't really bad, the place that charged me wanted to throw the book at me. I had just turned 18. My bf at the time was sentence to jail. It was a whole fiasco, but after court was over for everyone, he called us back in and took away the jail sentence. Said he just wanted to look stern and make an example. He was a really nice guy actually
I did not expect the woman to cry out of nowhere. Gotta feel bad for her.
stress, tired, exhaustion. i'm crying right now for no reason.
@VeryTalented Channel Name ever heard of a post partum??
@VeryTalented Channel Name because that was the only woman who cried in the video....
@VeryTalented Channel Name then why would you comment on this video with this woman
@VeryTalented Channel Name alright, link the video you’re talking about then.
The last lady made me cry for real tho. She looks so humble.
This woman had me in tears like she was!!!! 🙁🙁🙁🙁😢😢😢😢
She had me crying to .Bless her heart 1st baby and she is so overwhelmed . Hope she got some help to cope with her little bundle of joy .And for her self .
God Bless her ..
I thought someone was cutting onions over here! My soul was crying 😭 too!
chrissie cajuste i went through postpartum depression and i cried so hard
Amina Follad i hope you’re feeling better now dear.
Judge Caprio has a heart full of compassion, no one like him. So understanding of people's situations. God bless him ❤🙏
OMG! Postpartum depression is the worst. I'm crying reliving what I went through with both of my pregnancies. You have this precious little baby but you feel like someone has pulled a rug out for under you and everything is dark and unbalanced. It's so hard to explain to someone who has never been through it.
This is random, but can we just talk about how absolutely gorgeous the first woman is??? I mean... DAYUM
Yes!!! Did you see how she just lit up when she smiled? She's beautiful.
I thought it was just me! She really is a natural beauty.
That's why she has 4 kids... Guys charming her pants off, but not staying with the kids 😡
nnadaddy I was thinking that too
Sis is gorgeous ❤❤❤
“tell me about the baby”....the Judge has a heart of gold❤️no other judge would even care
I personally know my judge in my city and he's very similar. Don't be too quick to write off other judges personality. We do vote in judges for their opinions after all. If they don't care, then they shouldn't be a judge.
The issue is people don't VOTE in their cities to appoint the Judge's running. I think some people don't know these are positions we, the people appoint.
@@the-witness8811 d
This man moves me so close to tears on each of these videos. He’s an incredible person.
You are never too harsh... you are by far the best judge ive ever seen... thank you!!!
postpartum is so serious , I hope she goes and tells her doctor especially these being her 1st baby , My prayer goes out to her and her baby !!!!
Thanks for your educational lesson, I'm ignorant about the second lady's condition, I was just wondering whats going on. I sympathize with her and hope she is doing better
im pretty sure a dr is the one who diagnosed her with postpartum. how else would she know what she has without a drs evaluation?
Had it with mine, I was so detached, now I have off and on depression
@@kawanzaroberts4912 mumsnet, online sources, many health sites for mothers to be mention it all the time
Many women don't realize they have postpartum and just think they are doing something wrong, they feel that they should love their baby, but they can't. If this sounds familiar, try offering the baby formula instead of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding causes depression in many cases due to unstable endorphin levels. There's nothing you can really do about it other than just switching to formula and stopping breast milk production. This is not the case for all postpartum cases, but it's a big contributor. It's a hard choice to make, but it will help your mental health.
When that mother broke down, apologizing over and over... I broke right along with her. Post partum is so damn real...
VeronicaVeeTV yesssss!!!!
It IS
The judge brings me to my knees. We urgently need such people in this world
it's amazing how intimidating the court system can be on people that are going through hard times
This judge is like a dad, a real good dad.
this comment made me cry bc i see it 🥺
glimpseofparadise Yeah, the type that actually comes back after getting groceries.
A man who understands postpartum. Thank you, Lord. God bless this court.
Postpartum is no joke
I have no idea what its like so thinking about having it scare the hell out of me.
I love that you do this, you’ve really changed peoples lives. You make it a personal experience for these people and show them that they are worth the time. The law has a tendency to be harsh and to punish more rather than less, so what you do is truly beautiful.
“We’re all tired” I hear that judge lol 💯
Anyone else cry when the second lady said “this is my first” about her baby
Zoe Loka right!!!!! The first baby is always the hardest in most people life’s
I had baby blues with my 2nd baby 24 years ago but I remember that feeling of inadequacy and being out of control like it was yesterday. My heart definitely goes out to her.
I cried as soon as she started to cried ! 😂😭
Still crying over here...
@@tenishabowen8740 come i give you a hug 🤗
Why can’t all judges be like him?
Most aren't Judges with compassion for human kind. Many work their "titles" instead of working "with and within their titles".
Way we all can be like him I'll be a better world for sure
Because it is like raising kids. The more you let them off the hook the more they take advantage and end up spoiled in their own laziness.
This judge is the definition of grace. He saw these ladies struggles and worked with them. Beautiful ❤️
my heartkiest blessing .what a judge u r....wow tears in my eyes..........u o deserve a noble prize.....will vote for u ,,,,,,,,,,
The 1st woman makes me cry...being exhausted and feel like you can't keep it together is the worst feeling
It is. And a battle from hell. But noway on earth I would get a ticket everyday
@@saracornish7575 Ooo THANK YOU. I mean....Idk what these people are on.
Yes it is hard as a single mother but parking wrong EVERYDAY despite all those tickets and to just keep on doing it? I mean how far away was the parking space? What does she have to go thru to do that coming and going?
@@marlak4203 exactly. She is going to work. Making what? $150? then going home and LOSING $50 every day in tickets because she can't move a car? and then she is gonna complain that she has no money. I get being tired, and raising kids ALONE is extremely hard but.... move your car you ding bat lol. But then again she does fit right in with everyone else in Providence, Makes bad decisions and then cant figure out why life is harder then it needs to be.
@@philodox7599
Ooooh. hahaha. Idk how Providence is so i can't say. Hahaha.
But yes it doesn't make any sense and folks just going along with it like its all good. No. its not. There are 1000s of single parents but so that isn't an excuse. Now if she just lost someone in death then I can understand not caring about things anymore for a while, unfortunately. But just being tired and that's it? Nah. I think she has some other personal problems with herself. The way she stood there so calm and not showing emotion at all even to the nice things he was saying let me know there's other things going on.
But all in all hopefully her apperance on tv moves her to make better choices so she is not caught up like this again.
@@marlak4203 Yes I agree, And like you said who knows maybe she is going through extra stuff that she didn't mention.
This Judge is exactly how a Judge should be compassionate, empathetic, patience and understanding as well as being simply human. The Inspector is also a good man.
Yes, but imagine those same traits being extended to rapists, murderers, child molesters, instead of single mothers. I wonder if maybe that's how God has to look at things.
@@dianeprince1684 But why would you are anyone with common sense extend those traits to a rapist?
I understand he's trying, but I found the part of the video where he said "well, if you're a rich guy, you can keep leaving the car overnight, just pay the fines, but you can't, you're a mother of four" shocking. And he said it so casually too. Does he not realize that he just told her that the law only applies to poor people? That's not his fault, but the cruelty of a justice system that punishes the exact people who need a break the most... ugh. Awful.
@@ryandavis2775 No that's not what he meant. He means that if your rich you can afford to pay the fines. Rich or poor its still a crime, but he is showing compassion because she is struggling unlike a rich entitled person. As for the rich I would presume he would find them guilty and fine them accordingly, but he is showing compassion and empathy in his ruling. What is hard to understand with that ?
@@dianeprince1684 However, you should show a person a basic respect even if that person has done the most heinous things. This is why a defendant always has the right to a lawyer who monitors the defendant's rights even if you are guilty.
Uk here. Judge caprio you have a big heart sir if only the world had more of you
That was so nice how the one man changed his mind to see her trying to stop. It’s wonderful how kind you both are
My heart breaks for people who cannot control their emotions. Depression is a disastrous illness.
Agree😭😭😭
mine too😢
Empaths show emotion as well.. feel so much and get overwhelmed.
I'm not depressed, but I cna get really emotional. I can't deal with heated convosation, so I have to avoid most social interactions with some people whenever I realise they can be roudy and aggressive.
The first lady's eyes were literally soulless. She needs somethingbto.lift her up.
She need birth control, responsil partner, good friend and family who can support her,,, and good care 8f her self
@@coolcat6341 In hindsight, yes. In truth, we need to educate children better as a society. Will that ever happen? Doubt it.
Not soulless, just looks absolutely exhausted. But I agree she needs something to lift her up.
A five knot noose, perhaps.
@@qarmatianwarhorse6028 too far bro
Don't ever tell a mother irresponsible, specially a single mom of 4, specially as a male, specially when the dad is no where to find, she is a hero, how dare you old man and laughing at the second one, what's going on?
Judge tells her nothing bad is going to happen here. Love this guy
Don’t know why I cried with her
Cause it's just sad :(
i cried with the first lady already.
So did I
Me too.
Ever been so exhausted having to work, look after kids and run a house that you start hallucinating.
Exhaustion is not being lazy its on the verge of breaking.
Ya you dont sleep after a baby.
It is totally true. In a perfect world we would never give mommy of 4 a ticket. If life was fair, she would have the luxury of a smile.
Wish I could have a father like this judge. He is an angel.
You’re a great judge we need all judges to be like you.