I don’t think I have abandonment issues but I do have loneliness and guilt issues so still helps me, particularly the “don’t say sorry” part, you are literally the best lance. 😊
The fact that today was the day I decided I wanted better....to stop running from the fear and negativity I've been holding onto for so many years. First time on TH-cam today and your vid is at the top. Lance, Thank You. Truly.
The second I saw it pop up in my Subscription tab, I literally dropped everything I was doing, ran to my bed, put my earphones in and listened to this roleplay while hugging my dakimakura, even though it was just 6pm. I was indeed crying today and I do get really worried whenever people I send messages to don't reply without any explanation. It might be partially caused by anxiety though. This roleplay, just like your other ones (even the reverse comfort RPs), felt so realistic I got physically involved in it - I smiled when you jokingly told me to "turn that frown upside down", I raised my pinky when you talked about a pinky promise, I chuckled when you were talking about Chinese food (according to the Q&A it's your favorite). Sometimes I just wish I could have such a partner... This RP indeed comforted me right when I needed that and I can't wait for the next ones. But of course feel free to make them when you're able to, without rushing. I won't mind you ditching all feminine related descriptions either, I totally respect you being non-binary and I think that your personality is what matters the most, not your specifically sounding voice. Thank you so much for your work, it always helps me in the rough times.
The feeling of security that I get from this is unmatched because of my attachment and abandonment issues that I’ve suffered. I really appreciate this!!!
Being forgotten about is one of my biggest fears. Not because I'm vain, but because of the emotions behind realizing that someone important to you just... forgot you existed. I pretty much stay close to whoever I'm out and about with, cuz I'm that paranoid of being left behind.
Willow - *has a therapy session phone call with one of their friends about abandonment issues etc* that was nice. Lance - *posts a video* Willow - *cackles in c-ptsd* oh they’re gonna get me fucked up aren’t they
Thank you for making this. 2 love bombing situations just fizzled out. Again. These audios make me believe that healthy, understanding, warm and stable relationships exist. Thank you 🤍
WOOOOO IM TOO HYPED RN 😭 WE MISSED YOU!! Finally got the chance to listen this! I was all sad and shi but the teacher’s speak made me giggle 😭❤️ This is very much comforting!! Why did I get emotional here 😭 I rlly love this!!
I needed this immediately.. my girlfriend has been gone for 3 days now and I'm scared that she's injured or as worse as this sounds.. died.. it's very hard to take this situation easy- but I'll be okay listening to your audios on repeat reminds and think of my darling so- thanks Lance I really appreciate it(I know it's a late response buut I just watched it today here's a heart for you ❤️ and have I good day/night)
Dude 13:50 actually hit me so hard cus my mom literally gives me the silent treatment after we have an argument (as if she’s not a grown ass woman and I’m not literally in high school). I was crocheting and I just had to have a pause for a few seconds
Oh my god I started jumping and squealing when I saw the notif jdsmfbsk Update: I just finished listening to the audio and god- it's stupid that I cried so much fkdfbdk I've missed you so muchhh! Amazing audios lance!!!
Yeayy youre posting again!! I miss ur vids so much🥺💘 I have abandonment issues so this helps soo much!! I literally sobs while watching- Thank you for always making these amazing vids, sometimes I feel like nobody likes me or even care abt me so I really wanna say a big thanks to you, Lance❤❤
While this one isn't aimed at me, I still listened to the end. You are sooo loving and caring, Lance. I aspire to be as good a person as you should I ever find myself in a relationship again! P.S. just hearing your voice genuinely makes me feel uplifted while self-isolating this week.
I feel like a little kid sometimes. I have abandonment issues. Like if they leave my mind will freak and say they are never coming back. I get the out of sight means gone forever panic.
Welcome back from your short break Lance!!!! 💖 Plus an audio that acknowledges the tiny worries when you're in a relationship, 🐱🥰 I will gladly listen 💕
'm the strong one, I'm not nervous I'm as tough as the crust of the earth is I move mountains, I move churches And I glow 'cause I know what my worth is I don't ask how hard the work is Got a rough indestructible surface Diamonds and platinum, I find 'em, I flatten 'em I take what I'm handed, I break what's demanding But Under the surface I feel berserk as a tightrope walker in a three-ring circus Under the surface Was Hercules ever like "Yo, I don't wanna fight Cerberus"? Under the surface I'm pretty sure I'm worthless if I can't be of service A flaw or a crack The straw in the stack That breaks the camel's back What breaks the camel's back it's Pressure like a drip, drip, drip that'll never stop, whoa Pressure that'll tip, tip, tip 'till you just go pop, whoa Give it to your sister, your sister's older Give her all the heavy things we can't shoulder Who am I if I can't run with the ball? If I fall to Pressure like a grip, grip, grip and it won't let go, whoa Pressure like a tick, tick, tick 'til it's ready to blow, whoa Give it to your sister, your sister's stronger See if she can hang on a little longer Who am I if I can't carry it all? If I falter Under the surface I hide my nerves, and it worsens, I worry something is gonna hurt us Under the surface The ship doesn't swerve as it heard how big the iceberg is Under the surface I think about my purpose, can I somehow preserve this? Line up the dominoes A light wind blows You try to stop it tumbling But on and on it goes But wait If I could shake the crushing weight of expectations Would that free some room up for joy Or relaxation, or simple pleasure? Instead we measure this growing pressure Keeps growing, keep going 'Cause all we know is Pressure like a drip, drip, drip that'll never stop, whoa Pressure that'll tip, tip, tip 'til you just go pop, whoa-oh-oh Give it to your sister, it doesn't hurt And see if she can handle every family burden Watch as she buckles and bends but never breaks No mistakes just
Ahhhh lance I’m out of school now thanks so much I NEEDED THIS!!! Oof it’s raining where I’m at and I’m so cold. My grandma ain’t here yet so I’m just hiding with my hood on
Hi, Lance. Aunty F🤗 is here to comment on your video - “GF Comforts Your Abandonment Issues” which is a very interesting topic. This video have received 11k views within 4 days and that’s an amazing achievement. I also like this video where we can gain knowledge from it. So, thank you for this lovely and wonderful video. Well done, Lance. Congratulations for your excellent work.💐❤️👏👏👏 Keep it up! As l see it, abandonmment issues stem from a fear of loneliness, which can be a phobia or a form of anxiety. It occurs when an individual has a strong fear of losing loved ones. It usually starts in childhood but can begin in adulthood as well. Abandonment issues can have a significant effect on person’s life and relationships. They may experience problems in relationships because they fear that the other person will leave them. It is never too late to seek help for abandonment issues. When treating abandonment issues, the first step is understanding what triggers them and learning to withdraw when these triggers come up. Support and treatment can help reduce the anxiety. The primary treatment for abandonment issues is therapy, in which the person experiencing it can try to get to the root of their problems. It can be challenging to help someone with abandonment issues because they often push people away when they feel challenged or vulnerable. Stay calm during conversations. Avoid pushing for answers, and allow the person to open up in their own time. Reassurance is amazing. It’s nice when someone constantly reminds them of how much they mean to them, how they love them and how they never want to lose them. Sometimes words are enough just to let them know that they’ll always be there for them. It’s like a big weight of uncertainty has been lifted off their shoulders and they can breath again. Reassuring, it can do so much. Well, that is how l see it. Aunty F🤗 never get bored listening to this audio that’s for sure!💐❤️
Do you think you would ever do anything for reassuring someone who is gender dysphoric? I'm ftm and I'm pretty comfortable for the most part with where I'm at now, but there are still always those thoughts in the back of your head
You shouldn't hurt your feelings even writing GF can't feel right.. Why don't you write "partner comfort you..." you have a neutral voice you don't need to put a gender on in (not if it's one you don't identify with at least)
![ASMR | Loneliness comfort | girlfriend roleplay | [F4A] [personal attention][reassurance] [improv]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/DscXJEnp3kQ/mqdefault.jpg)
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![ASMR | I'm never going to leave you | [F4A] [NB4A] [comfort] [abandonment issues] [trauma]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/uDxNG23Z5M8/mqdefault.jpg)
![ASMR | Mommy comforts you when you're sad | [F4A] [NB4A] [dom gf] [caring] [bad day] [kisses]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/c_OAxCAh2sY/mqdefault.jpg)
![ASMR | I find out about your scars | [F4A] [NB4A] [sh comfort] [sensitive topic!!]](/img/n.gif)
I don’t think I have abandonment issues but I do have loneliness and guilt issues so still helps me, particularly the “don’t say sorry” part, you are literally the best lance. 😊
I always say don’t apologise just don’t hurt someone…simple really
I always worry if people I love abandon me and I say sorry over everything and the “don’t say sorry” part broke me
I always worry about being too clingy
so this is just wonderful for me, It's validation that I don't ever get. thank you a bunch!
this person really had me blushing the whole time
The fact that today was the day I decided I wanted better....to stop running from the fear and negativity I've been holding onto for so many years. First time on TH-cam today and your vid is at the top.
Lance, Thank You. Truly.
I have bad trust issues and abandonment issues . This was so comforting I wish someone could care about my feelings like this.
The second I saw it pop up in my Subscription tab, I literally dropped everything I was doing, ran to my bed, put my earphones in and listened to this roleplay while hugging my dakimakura, even though it was just 6pm.
I was indeed crying today and I do get really worried whenever people I send messages to don't reply without any explanation. It might be partially caused by anxiety though.
This roleplay, just like your other ones (even the reverse comfort RPs), felt so realistic I got physically involved in it - I smiled when you jokingly told me to "turn that frown upside down", I raised my pinky when you talked about a pinky promise, I chuckled when you were talking about Chinese food (according to the Q&A it's your favorite).
Sometimes I just wish I could have such a partner...
This RP indeed comforted me right when I needed that and I can't wait for the next ones. But of course feel free to make them when you're able to, without rushing.
I won't mind you ditching all feminine related descriptions either, I totally respect you being non-binary and I think that your personality is what matters the most, not your specifically sounding voice.
Thank you so much for your work, it always helps me in the rough times.
AGREED I have at least two to three people at my high school that are non-binary and I try so hard with my shitty memory to remember
The feeling of security that I get from this is unmatched because of my attachment and abandonment issues that I’ve suffered. I really appreciate this!!!
Being forgotten about is one of my biggest fears. Not because I'm vain, but because of the emotions behind realizing that someone important to you just... forgot you existed. I pretty much stay close to whoever I'm out and about with, cuz I'm that paranoid of being left behind.
I had the hardest day ever, but whenever I listen to your audios my day feel a lot better.. thanks 😊
AH i clicked so fast i cant wait to listen to this, i’m glad ur back to posting !!! happy wednesday ❤️
Cucumber Approved
I have pretty bad abandonment issues so this really comforted by this thank you lance i love you ❤️
Willow - *has a therapy session phone call with one of their friends about abandonment issues etc* that was nice.
Lance - *posts a video*
Willow - *cackles in c-ptsd* oh they’re gonna get me fucked up aren’t they
Thank you for making this. 2 love bombing situations just fizzled out. Again. These audios make me believe that healthy, understanding, warm and stable relationships exist. Thank you 🤍
Their voice is so calming what the heck
Thank you, Lance. I have major abandonment issues and this was so comforting 🥺
WOOOOO IM TOO HYPED RN 😭 WE MISSED YOU!!
Finally got the chance to listen this! I was all sad and shi but the teacher’s speak made me giggle 😭❤️ This is very much comforting!! Why did I get emotional here 😭 I rlly love this!!
I’ve been searching for a audio like this for a while, I’m so glad it was you that made it, it made it 1000x better thank you for this💜
I needed this immediately.. my girlfriend has been gone for 3 days now and I'm scared that she's injured or as worse as this sounds.. died.. it's very hard to take this situation easy- but I'll be okay listening to your audios on repeat reminds and think of my darling so- thanks Lance I really appreciate it(I know it's a late response buut I just watched it today here's a heart for you ❤️ and have I good day/night)
You’re such a beautiful soul, this moved my heart.😀
They are the best person in knife’s life, knife would not have it any other way!
such a soothing voice
thankyou for the audio
You literally make the best asmrs i cannot stress this enough ; and sometimes theyre really relatable, so thank you!
Lance!!! You can always put NB4A If you want!!! (Litterally cried during this. Hope u feeling better!)
This is so sweet and caring! It really helps
i appreciate every bit of your existence . :)
One day I may have a girl who cares like this
This audio made my day and helped me get through a break down, thank You
Dude 13:50 actually hit me so hard cus my mom literally gives me the silent treatment after we have an argument (as if she’s not a grown ass woman and I’m not literally in high school). I was crocheting and I just had to have a pause for a few seconds
Best comfort channel right here
this was absurdly soothing
FINALLYYY WE MISSED YOU!!
I am telling you I SCREAMED "OMG THEY POSTED 😭"
Oh my god I started jumping and squealing when I saw the notif jdsmfbsk
Update: I just finished listening to the audio and god- it's stupid that I cried so much fkdfbdk
I've missed you so muchhh! Amazing audios lance!!!
Thank you soo much Lance, I don't know how you do it but you some how manage to help my heart feel a little less empty ❤
you don’t have an idea of how much i needed this😭
I definitely need this theme, thank u!!! I will see to night
this made me cry fr ur so sweet
Your back!
I found your channel today (no joke) and this is heaven 😅 my pan self is very very happy!
I can't ever finish these videos I'm crying too much..
Whee Lance welcome back! And stay safe!
Yeayy youre posting again!! I miss ur vids so much🥺💘 I have abandonment issues so this helps soo much!! I literally sobs while watching- Thank you for always making these amazing vids, sometimes I feel like nobody likes me or even care abt me so I really wanna say a big thanks to you, Lance❤❤
You are so good at these
I hope Lance audios raise everyone's standards.
Literally in a zoom class rn but that can wait
WE MISSED YOUUUUUUU! 😭❤️
I have abandonment issues this really helps me out
While this one isn't aimed at me, I still listened to the end. You are sooo loving and caring, Lance. I aspire to be as good a person as you should I ever find myself in a relationship again!
P.S. just hearing your voice genuinely makes me feel uplifted while self-isolating this week.
I feel like a little kid sometimes. I have abandonment issues. Like if they leave my mind will freak and say they are never coming back. I get the out of sight means gone forever panic.
AHHH YOURE BACK!!! How do you know exactly what I’m asking for??? Thank you ❤️❤️.
P. S. It is Wednesday my dudes
IM LITERALLY SCREAMING RN I CLICKED SO FAST
This one hits really close to home
i missed you sm and i hope you’re feeling better!!
Welcome back from your short break Lance!!!! 💖 Plus an audio that acknowledges the tiny worries when you're in a relationship, 🐱🥰 I will gladly listen 💕
Seems like they've got their audience all figured out
AYOOOO U BACKKK HOPE YOURE DOING GOOD BAE
swag audio dude
swag
30 mins of sleeping soundssss pls🥺
'm the strong one, I'm not nervous
I'm as tough as the crust of the earth is
I move mountains, I move churches
And I glow 'cause I know what my worth is
I don't ask how hard the work is
Got a rough indestructible surface
Diamonds and platinum, I find 'em, I flatten 'em
I take what I'm handed, I break what's demanding
But
Under the surface
I feel berserk as a tightrope walker in a three-ring circus
Under the surface
Was Hercules ever like "Yo, I don't wanna fight Cerberus"?
Under the surface
I'm pretty sure I'm worthless if I can't be of service
A flaw or a crack
The straw in the stack
That breaks the camel's back
What breaks the camel's back it's
Pressure like a drip, drip, drip that'll never stop, whoa
Pressure that'll tip, tip, tip 'till you just go pop, whoa
Give it to your sister, your sister's older
Give her all the heavy things we can't shoulder
Who am I if I can't run with the ball?
If I fall to
Pressure like a grip, grip, grip and it won't let go, whoa
Pressure like a tick, tick, tick 'til it's ready to blow, whoa
Give it to your sister, your sister's stronger
See if she can hang on a little longer
Who am I if I can't carry it all?
If I falter
Under the surface
I hide my nerves, and it worsens, I worry something is gonna hurt us
Under the surface
The ship doesn't swerve as it heard how big the iceberg is
Under the surface
I think about my purpose, can I somehow preserve this?
Line up the dominoes
A light wind blows
You try to stop it tumbling
But on and on it goes
But wait
If I could shake the crushing weight of expectations
Would that free some room up for joy
Or relaxation, or simple pleasure?
Instead we measure this growing pressure
Keeps growing, keep going
'Cause all we know is
Pressure like a drip, drip, drip that'll never stop, whoa
Pressure that'll tip, tip, tip 'til you just go pop, whoa-oh-oh
Give it to your sister, it doesn't hurt
And see if she can handle every family burden
Watch as she buckles and bends but never breaks
No mistakes just
AhhhhhhhHhhh its been so long... To wait your updates Lance !!! We missed U so much.... ❤️❤️❤️
💜 thankie this is sweet
I adore this and need this!
LOVE THIS!!!
Ahhhh lance I’m out of school now thanks so much I NEEDED THIS!!!
Oof it’s raining where I’m at and I’m so cold. My grandma ain’t here yet so I’m just hiding with my hood on
thanks lance
*id totally would learn to cook chinese food so youd have good tasting chinese tbh*
This just doesn't work for me anymore. I need her reassurance but can't tell :
🖤missed ya !
Another awesome videooo
I love this!! ❤️
I love how I was literally just struggling with my abandonment issues and then I see this😶
Where the cameras at 🤨
Hi, Lance. Aunty F🤗 is here to comment on your video - “GF Comforts Your Abandonment Issues” which is a very interesting topic. This video have received 11k views within 4 days and that’s an amazing achievement. I also like this video where we can gain knowledge from it. So, thank you for this lovely and wonderful video. Well done, Lance. Congratulations for your excellent work.💐❤️👏👏👏 Keep it up! As l see it, abandonmment issues stem from a fear of loneliness, which can be a phobia or a form of anxiety. It occurs when an individual has a strong fear of losing loved ones. It usually starts in childhood but can begin in adulthood as well. Abandonment issues can have a significant effect on person’s life and relationships. They may experience problems in relationships because they fear that the other person will leave them. It is never too late to seek help for abandonment issues. When treating abandonment issues, the first step is understanding what triggers them and learning to withdraw when these triggers come up. Support and treatment can help reduce the anxiety. The primary treatment for abandonment issues is therapy, in which the person experiencing it can try to get to the root of their problems. It can be challenging to help someone with abandonment issues because they often push people away when they feel challenged or vulnerable. Stay calm during conversations. Avoid pushing for answers, and allow the person to open up in their own time. Reassurance is amazing. It’s nice when someone constantly reminds them of how much they mean to them, how they love them and how they never want to lose them. Sometimes words are enough just to let them know that they’ll always be there for them. It’s like a big weight of uncertainty has been lifted off their shoulders and they can breath again. Reassuring, it can do so much. Well, that is how l see it. Aunty F🤗 never get bored listening to this audio that’s for sure!💐❤️
Thank you so much, aunty F! I think more people need to learn about and identify abandonment issues. x
Pretty nice. Thx Lance
Pancakes 🥞
im 5 hours late but better late than never 😍🤞
i don’t have anyone to tell me these things. it’s nice to hear it for once. :/
Omg Hi Lance🥺👉🏼👈🏼
Hope your doing well and if not hope you have a good day/night !
Depression go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr before I see this video
Depression in the video 0%
Wake up
Cry
Is the girl that voices these available ?
The ''Girl'' is non binary and no they are not they have a wonderful girlfriend
subscribed!
Fan likeyyy :)))
W h o l e s o m e
Do you think you would ever do anything for reassuring someone who is gender dysphoric? I'm ftm and I'm pretty comfortable for the most part with where I'm at now, but there are still always those thoughts in the back of your head
I dont know why i typed this man
You shouldn't hurt your feelings even writing GF can't feel right.. Why don't you write "partner comfort you..." you have a neutral voice you don't need to put a gender on in (not if it's one you don't identify with at least)
I'm fine with gf! Don't worry, I like how it is x
WE MISSED YOUUUUUUU! 😭❤️