I went through a same thing. I wowed to God when i was a teenage to remain pure for the Lord. But in my soul i had so much pains and trauma. Finally i ended seeking approval and recognition from men. I knew i was not suppose to have sex but i didn't find the strength to say no to them. I was so broken and end up with depression. Fast forward i re-dedicated my live to Jesus. After that he brought me into a journey so beautiful than i can even explain. He healed my heart, my soul, showe me grace, mercy and so much consideration. Now i am waiting for my spouse and for all his promise to be fulfilled. Jesus is alive.!!!
Wow, thank you so much for sharing your testimony! Look at God! He is so kind, loving, merciful, and FAITHFUL. He is so proud of you and for your dedication to Him, you will be so richly rewarded with His best! I pray all of His goodness over your life and your future marriage 🥰
I am very greatful to see someone who passed their father's wounds and managed to be in a secure relationship. Thanks for sharing this gave me much hope, I do need your prayers
Hello Hala. It was a difficult journey but the Lord was so faithful to heal my heart and even restore the relationship with my father. I learned how to see Father God as my first Father and that brought so much healing in my life. I may consider doing a while video on this topic if you are interested? I will be praying for you, God can and will do it for you. I know it. He loves you so much.
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus I would love to hear your story it will definitely give hope to me and many others. I am in the journey for many years it is not easy for sure and I am so glad for your healing. I will be waiting for your story. Much love
Thank you so much for sharing! I am Now in the place where the man God revealed to me is my future husband and I will begin our courtship soon! This testimony is truly a blessing! I pray the Lord continues to bless your union! Our story will most likely be 4 parts as well jaja!!!😭💗🙏🏼
This is so exciting!!!!! Congratulations! May the Lord be with you both every step of the way! Keep me updated please! I just LOVE love stories! And thank you, God is SO FAITHFUL and the best author of of life!
Wow God leading you to stop things that would hurt your now-husband, or keep you apart from each other unnecessarily, that's amazing. Praise you Yahuwah!
what you went thru, reflects what i am goin thru now. I do believe God is preparing me too. I have become so much better at my spending(which i didnt even realise till u mentioned it). I also feel so much better to be alone with God and prayin to break all the bonds i had created out of ignorance. I now hunger more for a godly relationship
God lead me here I too didn't have a good relationship with my dad, God told me let go of the past relationships and also I embraced purity, also I'm being a contented single, I was not a good cook but I find myself cooking like and ask myself if my husband would love the food, my spiritual life has grown so much ...Im in employed right now but I feel the provider is just around me.... I nowadays feels my husband is so close and I write, pray for him. May the good Lord bless you
Thank you so much for sharing. Thank God with me for preparing me too, healing trauma, interdependent self suffient in Christ suffiency, Persuing me, keeping me content, in Him I have found myself, great finicial skills, a great cook, the right company, discretion. Keep me in your prayers
Thank you so much for sharing! I have been praying to God for encouragement and strength for my new walk surrendering all to Him. I am still learning what that is with his guidance 🙏
We’re in agreement with you, Lisa! He will lead you and guide you. He is so faithful. Proverbs 3:5-6 is so encouraging when it comes it this! May God bless you as you continue to say yes to Him and His ways daily❤️ -Cherise
Dear sister in Christ ...... I appreciate your video and your obedience to your calling. I have had waves of faith and waves of doubt for what I believe God has spoken to me. I hold his voice near to my heart so to think I was deceived and it wasn't him hurts me . There's something in me that won't let go of what I believe he said and who I believe he said ...... Although I've rebuked the thought ... I've pushed it away.... I've made an idol of it ..... I've been a complete mess lol ..... But nonetheless I'm hoping to see God on the other side of the chaos . So again thank you for your uplifting testimony..... Heading to part 2 now . Love you . 💖
I have that exact same sense that I cannot marry just anyone! There are a few questions that I know to ask since God has been clear about certain things being a part of my future. So, it's going to be a very special person who answers yes to those questions!
Hello from Colombia! I felt very identified with much of what you said in this video, thank you very much for sharing, it gave me encouragement and strength to continue waiting on the Lord. God bless you and your family🙏🏼
Hello Manuela! Wow tit blesses me to hear that so much of what was shared resonated with you! May God bless your journey and your path and he leads you to His very best!! ❤️ -Cherise
Wow...Cherise I was so blessed and encouraged. I am so happy for you. I am 38 and still waiting. Thank you for sharing ur story. U hav really shown God's faithfulness. I am trusting and hoping for a godly man. If he doesn't come I will continue to serve God anyway🙏🙏
I’m praying for you! Well done on being 38 and NOT settling for anything less than God’s best! and for honoring God. He sees your heart for Him and it’s a beautiful offering ❤️ -Cherise
This was really good. You spoke a lot about the highlights of your journey but we’re there any struggles with your Faith walking this journey? I have a similar healing journey with the Father wound. I have forgiven but still working to have my mind restored. I liked that you shared that there was still healing after the fact. Something I’m still growing through is this false thought that all of my issues have to be resolved before entering into the marriage covenant which I know is not true and is impossible as we’re all being sanctified so long as we live.
Hi, Britt! Wow thank you so much for your message and transparency! You inspired me for a video topic on the lie that you have to be perfect or and problem free before you’re ready for marriage. Such a lie! I dealt with this as well. I also have been wanting to do a video on the father wound as well but waiting on the Lords timing for it. And to answer your question about struggling with faith while in my journey, absolutely. I had doubts come into my heart often and I had to remind myself of what God said. Everything you shared on your comment is all normal and Jesus will meet exactly where you’re at!
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus Thank you for your reply I appreciate it! I will definitely look forward to both of those video topics, they are truly needed. Especially the Father wound I have so much to say on that topic as well. It’s been a journey and I’d love to hear more about yours. I have over the last 3 yrs watched so many teachings and read many books on the topic as well. What a process it is, but so necessary to be able to see the Father rightly. God bless you sister 🙏🏾💕
Wow this is exactly what I was looking for and needing!! I’ve been in an intentional year of singleness and it’s coming to a close. God has been speaking to me about my husband, and continuing to adjust things and fine tune things… many of which you mentioned God did in your life! What you shared confirmed and encouraged where I am at… even the detail of me loving my life so much and being independent that I’m concerned I’d rather be alone than spend time with my husband. And quality time is my love language haha
Wow! Thank you for sharing this, Jess! You are the reason we share our story. Sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones in the journey but we’re not. Look at all the similarities that you are finding in the story, it really is truly Gods way, and His ways are the best! I know God has an amazing husband for you! Please update us when the time comes because I know it’s coming 🙌🏽 in the mean time, keep running after Jesus and living your best life❤️
thank you so much for sharing your testimony and video. I know God placed this video in front of me. You spoke to My heart & gave me hope. I had so much fear of being alone & wondering when I would find my husband. I know the more I put God first, I will see his hand on my love story. 🙏🏽
This video has helped my mindset so much. God has told me who my spouse is and I was searching for videos on how god prepares us to be a wife and I found your video. I love those prayers, about purity and for ur spouse. How did you keep up the confidence when you first met your husband?
Hi, Sadie! Wow, such a good question! I had a lot of doubts come in and of course the enemy was attacking my mind so much. I had to keep my focus and eyes fixed on Jesus. I knew that whatever he had planned, nothing could stop it. So my confidence was solely in Him❤️ Hebrews 10:35
Just started watching this......how beautiful and powerful! 💕 Trying to find the book you referred to online, but there are a few. Can you let me know the author? Thank you, and thanks so much for sharing such an amazing journey.
Interesting story. If you don’t mind me asking, could you elaborate on what led to you leaving your now ex-husband? I ask as it would give better context especially in regards to God working in that situation. Additionally, you expressed that they weren’t horrible. Just curious and trying to understand from an in depth perspective. God bless!
Jesus knows about our hearts how crushed we are and He is healing us...I disobeyed God and it's been 3 and 1/2 years since the boy I thought was my bf and I loved took advantage of me...He was strong I wasn't and after that day He left me...what hurts the most is the fact that He bragged about it in school.I lost my dignity and I wronged God so bad. I'm still hurting so bad despite the fact that it was back in 2019. And I don't know why I'm writing this here but Jesus is healing me.
That does not sound like it was consensual. I'm sorry that happened to you. It's not your fault. Remember there is now no condemnation under Christ Jesus. His blood covered it all, so don't let anyone make you feel guilty or ashamed. You are still a good women and worthy of being a wife, if that's what you want. You are worthy because you are a child of God. Your beauty comes from your relationship with Jesus. That's what your future husband will be attracted to. I pray God heals your heart. He's working on my heart too. Keep getting better.
I’m am so so sorry this happened to you! We are praying for healing of your body and heart and for complete restoration. Jesus is faithful to heal you. Keep turning to Him. He is not ashamed of you and you don’t carry shame on you because he died and crucified shame. He loves you.
Hi Jodi! Great question 🙂 I believe with lots of girls/women this is what happens and this is what happened with me: I gave sex to get love. When my ex boyfriends wanted to have sex I didn’t say no when I really didn’t want to because I was scared they would leave me. I needed them, their “love” to feel validated and wanted. I was afraid to be left and rejected. Once I was healed from my father wound I saw how it was so easy for me to not only say no to the wrong men and but definitely no to sex and to wait for my future husband. Hope that makes sense 🙂
I went through a same thing. I wowed to God when i was a teenage to remain pure for the Lord. But in my soul i had so much pains and trauma. Finally i ended seeking approval and recognition from men. I knew i was not suppose to have sex but i didn't find the strength to say no to them. I was so broken and end up with depression. Fast forward i re-dedicated my live to Jesus. After that he brought me into a journey so beautiful than i can even explain. He healed my heart, my soul, showe me grace, mercy and so much consideration. Now i am waiting for my spouse and for all his promise to be fulfilled. Jesus is alive.!!!
Wow, thank you so much for sharing your testimony! Look at God! He is so kind, loving, merciful, and FAITHFUL. He is so proud of you and for your dedication to Him, you will be so richly rewarded with His best! I pray all of His goodness over your life and your future marriage 🥰
It's so important to do that healing work prior to marriage!
Yes. Amen!
I am very greatful to see someone who passed their father's wounds and managed to be in a secure relationship. Thanks for sharing this gave me much hope, I do need your prayers
Hello Hala. It was a difficult journey but the Lord was so faithful to heal my heart and even restore the relationship with my father. I learned how to see Father God as my first Father and that brought so much healing in my life. I may consider doing a while video on this topic if you are interested?
I will be praying for you, God can and will do it for you. I know it. He loves you so much.
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus I would love to hear your story it will definitely give hope to me and many others. I am in the journey for many years it is not easy for sure and I am so glad for your healing. I will be waiting for your story. Much love
Thank you so much for sharing! I am
Now in the place where the man God revealed to me is my future husband and I will begin our courtship soon! This testimony is truly a blessing! I pray the Lord continues to bless your union! Our story will most likely be 4 parts as well jaja!!!😭💗🙏🏼
This is so exciting!!!!! Congratulations! May the Lord be with you both every step of the way! Keep me updated please! I just LOVE love stories! And thank you, God is SO FAITHFUL and the best author of of life!
Wow God leading you to stop things that would hurt your now-husband, or keep you apart from each other unnecessarily, that's amazing. Praise you Yahuwah!
what you went thru, reflects what i am goin thru now. I do believe God is preparing me too. I have become so much better at my spending(which i didnt even realise till u mentioned it). I also feel so much better to be alone with God and prayin to break all the bonds i had created out of ignorance. I now hunger more for a godly relationship
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽💝 the season of singleness and healing is so beautiful before marriage. This confirmed a lot for me.
That was so encouraging and edifying, thank you for sharing your story!
God lead me here I too didn't have a good relationship with my dad, God told me let go of the past relationships and also I embraced purity, also I'm being a contented single, I was not a good cook but I find myself cooking like and ask myself if my husband would love the food, my spiritual life has grown so much ...Im in employed right now but I feel the provider is just around me.... I nowadays feels my husband is so close and I write, pray for him.
May the good Lord bless you
So good!! Thanks for sharing your story! 😃
Thank you so much for sharing. Thank God with me for preparing me too, healing trauma, interdependent self suffient in Christ suffiency, Persuing me, keeping me content, in Him I have found myself, great finicial skills, a great cook, the right company, discretion. Keep me in your prayers
Thank you so much for sharing! I have been praying to God for encouragement and strength for my new walk surrendering all to Him. I am still learning what that is with his guidance 🙏
We’re in agreement with you, Lisa! He will lead you and guide you. He is so faithful. Proverbs 3:5-6 is so encouraging when it comes it this!
May God bless you as you continue to say yes to Him and His ways daily❤️
-Cherise
Dear sister in Christ ...... I appreciate your video and your obedience to your calling. I have had waves of faith and waves of doubt for what I believe God has spoken to me. I hold his voice near to my heart so to think I was deceived and it wasn't him hurts me . There's something in me that won't let go of what I believe he said and who I believe he said ...... Although I've rebuked the thought ... I've pushed it away.... I've made an idol of it ..... I've been a complete mess lol ..... But nonetheless I'm hoping to see God on the other side of the chaos . So again thank you for your uplifting testimony..... Heading to part 2 now . Love you . 💖
This is absolutely beautiful!!!!!!! Im like WOW such great advice!!!!!!!!
I have that exact same sense that I cannot marry just anyone! There are a few questions that I know to ask since God has been clear about certain things being a part of my future. So, it's going to be a very special person who answers yes to those questions!
Hello from Colombia! I felt very identified with much of what you said in this video, thank you very much for sharing, it gave me encouragement and strength to continue waiting on the Lord. God bless you and your family🙏🏼
Hello Manuela! Wow tit blesses me to hear that so much of what was shared resonated with you! May God bless your journey and your path and he leads you to His very best!! ❤️
-Cherise
Beautiful story told in humility. Thank you for sharing.
Wow...Cherise I was so blessed and encouraged. I am so happy for you. I am 38 and still waiting. Thank you for sharing ur story. U hav really shown God's faithfulness. I am trusting and hoping for a godly man. If he doesn't come I will continue to serve God anyway🙏🙏
I’m praying for you! Well done on being 38 and NOT settling for anything less than God’s best! and for honoring God. He sees your heart for Him and it’s a beautiful offering ❤️
-Cherise
Your story is really beautiful 💛💛 love it
I see myself a lot in you, in my single season as well.
Thank you so much! I am so glad you were blessed by the message and what God did in my life! He is Faithful!💕
This was really good. You spoke a lot about the highlights of your journey but we’re there any struggles with your Faith walking this journey?
I have a similar healing journey with the Father wound. I have forgiven but still working to have my mind restored. I liked that you shared that there was still healing after the fact. Something I’m still growing through is this false thought that all of my issues have to be resolved before entering into the marriage covenant which I know is not true and is impossible as we’re all being sanctified so long as we live.
Hi, Britt! Wow thank you so much for your message and transparency! You inspired me for a video topic on the lie that you have to be perfect or and problem free before you’re ready for marriage. Such a lie! I dealt with this as well. I also have been wanting to do a video on the father wound as well but waiting on the Lords timing for it.
And to answer your question about struggling with faith while in my journey, absolutely. I had doubts come into my heart often and I had to remind myself of what God said. Everything you shared on your comment is all normal and Jesus will meet exactly where you’re at!
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus Thank you for your reply I appreciate it! I will definitely look forward to both of those video topics, they are truly needed. Especially the Father wound I have so much to say on that topic as well. It’s been a journey and I’d love to hear more about yours. I have over the last 3 yrs watched so many teachings and read many books on the topic as well. What a process it is, but so necessary to be able to see the Father rightly. God bless you sister 🙏🏾💕
Thank you cherish I'm in that place right now 🥰
Il let you know all about it ☺️
Wow this is exactly what I was looking for and needing!! I’ve been in an intentional year of singleness and it’s coming to a close. God has been speaking to me about my husband, and continuing to adjust things and fine tune things… many of which you mentioned God did in your life! What you shared confirmed and encouraged where I am at… even the detail of me loving my life so much and being independent that I’m concerned I’d rather be alone than spend time with my husband. And quality time is my love language haha
Wow! Thank you for sharing this, Jess! You are the reason we share our story. Sometimes we feel like we’re the only ones in the journey but we’re not. Look at all the similarities that you are finding in the story, it really is truly Gods way, and His ways are the best! I know God has an amazing husband for you! Please update us when the time comes because I know it’s coming 🙌🏽 in the mean time, keep running after Jesus and living your best life❤️
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus I will definitely update you guys now that I’m following along. So happy to have found your channel.
Aww..thanks alot for dis .much needed . similar past .nd even I made god a promise to wait on him .waiting n my singlemess
Loved loved this message Cherise!
thank you so much for sharing your testimony and video. I know God placed this video in front of me. You spoke to
My heart & gave me hope. I had so much fear of being alone & wondering when I would find my husband. I know the more I put God first, I will see his hand on my love story. 🙏🏽
Wow, praise You Lord!! He is is good and faithful speak to our hearts! Partygoers the journey as you continue to wait upon the Lord!❤️
-Cherise
This was very informative, and everything i needed to hear! God is soo good! Awesome gonna watch Part 2 😎
Yes He is!! 🙌🏽
Am so happy I watched this...just awesome...I really connected with the message
Surrendered to Jesus! Yes! 🙌🏽
Love this!! 💕💕
Was strangely drawn to this, brilliant video
So happy it blessed you, Elle! ❤️❤️
Please pray for me Katarina, thanks, God bless you ... Who is my kingdom husband ?
This video has helped my mindset so much. God has told me who my spouse is and I was searching for videos on how god prepares us to be a wife and I found your video. I love those prayers, about purity and for ur spouse. How did you keep up the confidence when you first met your husband?
Hi, Sadie! Wow, such a good question! I had a lot of doubts come in and of course the enemy was attacking my mind so much. I had to keep my focus and eyes fixed on Jesus. I knew that whatever he had planned, nothing could stop it. So my confidence was solely in Him❤️ Hebrews 10:35
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus thank you responding. yes thats where my confidence is as well
thank you Cherise for shring your story
Just started watching this......how beautiful and powerful! 💕 Trying to find the book you referred to online, but there are a few. Can you let me know the author? Thank you, and thanks so much for sharing such an amazing journey.
Hi! I’m so happy to hear it’s blessing you! ❤️ Is the book Praying for your future husband? If so there is a link in the description😉
-Cherise
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus Hello! Yes, that’s the book I’m referring to. Okay - Thanks so much.
You are so wise
Interesting story. If you don’t mind me asking, could you elaborate on what led to you leaving your now ex-husband? I ask as it would give better context especially in regards to God working in that situation. Additionally, you expressed that they weren’t horrible. Just curious and trying to understand from an in depth perspective. God bless!
Hello!! Oh I’m sorry for the confusion! I was never married before that was a boyfriend I was referring too. My now husband is my only husband ☺️❤️
@@CesarandCheriseforJesus Oh I see. Thanks for clarifying that.
Did you also watch similar stories before or during your journey ?
I did watch a few from a couple who I really look up to, Jeff and Alyssa Bethke. There love story inspired me and there life continues to bless me!
Jesus knows about our hearts how crushed we are and He is healing us...I disobeyed God and it's been 3 and 1/2 years since the boy I thought was my bf and I loved took advantage of me...He was strong I wasn't and after that day He left me...what hurts the most is the fact that He bragged about it in school.I lost my dignity and I wronged God so bad.
I'm still hurting so bad despite the fact that it was back in 2019.
And I don't know why I'm writing this here but Jesus is healing me.
That does not sound like it was consensual. I'm sorry that happened to you. It's not your fault. Remember there is now no condemnation under Christ Jesus. His blood covered it all, so don't let anyone make you feel guilty or ashamed. You are still a good women and worthy of being a wife, if that's what you want. You are worthy because you are a child of God. Your beauty comes from your relationship with Jesus. That's what your future husband will be attracted to. I pray God heals your heart. He's working on my heart too. Keep getting better.
@@lvas1929 Thank you
God bless you
I’m am so so sorry this happened to you! We are praying for healing of your body and heart and for complete restoration. Jesus is faithful to heal you. Keep turning to Him. He is not ashamed of you and you don’t carry shame on you because he died and crucified shame. He loves you.
@@lvas1929 so well said! Amen!
Good job not having sex in that relationship!
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Why do you blame you sleeping around on your “father wound”
Hi Jodi! Great question 🙂 I believe with lots of girls/women this is what happens and this is what happened with me: I gave sex to get love. When my ex boyfriends wanted to have sex I didn’t say no when I really didn’t want to because I was scared they would leave me. I needed them, their “love” to feel validated and wanted. I was afraid to be left and rejected. Once I was healed from my father wound I saw how it was so easy for me to not only say no to the wrong men and but definitely no to sex and to wait for my future husband. Hope that makes sense 🙂