Divorce Court OG- Don Vs. Julie: Ball & Chain EP 27

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ความคิดเห็น • 103

  • @valeriem6187
    @valeriem6187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I don't want to be mean, but she looked in her 50s to me. When she said 43, I was shook.

    • @chiwhi7581
      @chiwhi7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She died alone

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chiwhi7581 now how do you know that?

    • @kyubfan15
      @kyubfan15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same lol

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And hes 42 🤔🤔no way hes in his 60s

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad you said it. I was stunned when the judge said her age. 😳

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    She's wasn't ready to get married. She's been single for so long, she doesn't know how to be in a relationship.

    • @dragon11819
      @dragon11819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She go to be single for long time

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But, the man is possessive.

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tummieflowers2681 I don't see him as possessive. He has reasonable expectations. Plus, I've been in his shoes. I was married to a man who would come home from work and get on the phone with his mom and sister for hours until it was time to go to bed. He barely said two words to me. He never got to know me fully. This went on every day for 10 years. The only time it didn't happen was on weekends, because we went to their house on Saturdays and saw them at church on Sundays.

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sweetsweet81 . Following her to the bathroom was possessive. But, asking her to get off the phone within five minutes after getting home and expecting her to be home when he gets home is NOT too bad unless she’s working. It’s important to be attentive to your significant other. Otherwise, they will find it elsewhere.

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tummieflowers2681 I agree that bathroom part was too much, like can I piss in peace???

  • @The.S.M.Evans.91
    @The.S.M.Evans.91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The expectations that this man has overall are similar to what most men would expect. It seems that she just wasn't ready to get married, and she wanted a way out. You can't demand the benefits of marriage without putting I'm the work it requires to make it work.

    • @gwendolynosler3930
      @gwendolynosler3930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is not asking for much

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gwendolynosler3930. I don’t think that I would always get home before my husband if I was married either. But, most of the time I would be home before him.

  • @Nzinga45
    @Nzinga45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I really don’t think his expectations was unreasonable for the most part

    • @cmbsr4851
      @cmbsr4851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel me? Lol

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can agree they are reasonable for sure it seems like he wanted a companion

    • @loves3965
      @loves3965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She was hardly around didn’t feel like a marriage

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Passion85031 . It was still creepy when he followed her to the bathroom.

  • @m1m1williams2
    @m1m1williams2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She was worried and frantic over her Mother. It took her 30 minutes to even decide whether or not she should check on her. Waited an additional 10 for him to get out of bed.
    If he loved her and loved her Mother as his own he wouldn't have been contemplating whether or not he should go for 40 minutes. I don't understand why he didn't suggest they check on her long before 40 minutes especially given the fact that she was only 12-13 minutes away.

    • @gailsmith836
      @gailsmith836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why didn’t she just go check on her immediately instead of waiting?

  • @itsme3k
    @itsme3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Keep these coming. I'm always here for the OG episodes.

  • @mrelite9424
    @mrelite9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "VINTAGE D.C ON the weekend..I'll take it!!

  • @shereekern6801
    @shereekern6801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The husband looks like Alex from Taxi. They are both set in their ways. It’s so much harder to compromise as you grow older.

  • @tinasaywon
    @tinasaywon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They're both 42 year old ? I thought she was about 57 and he's around 60 something ?

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 ปีที่แล้ว

      He cant be in his 40s he was married before for 27yrs 🤔

  • @s.e.c.o7183
    @s.e.c.o7183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He does come across as childish and controlling would of like to know why his 27y marriage ended, I also question why a woman in her 40's has never married and it only took her 8 months to commit to him
    To many red flags in my opinion

    • @msanja70
      @msanja70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So there’s a magic age to finding a spouse? Everyone doesn’t want to be in a relationship early.

    • @s.e.c.o7183
      @s.e.c.o7183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@msanja70
      Not saying there's a specific age nor age gap to get married
      Only questioning their rush to commit, motives and state of mind

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When he followed her to the bathroom, that was beyond creepy.

  • @guest4796
    @guest4796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's definitely a control freak...
    JUDGE TOLER--DON'T TALK WHEN I'M TALKING 😲

  • @JunniorStarLight
    @JunniorStarLight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Finally people who aren’t Rappers

  • @mrelite9424
    @mrelite9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ..Wondering who's the "Ball & Who's the CHAIN IN THIS "CLASSIC D.C EPISODE

  • @brandonheath6246
    @brandonheath6246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm scared to get married I know how to communicate with others but what scares me is I have a disability and I'm afraid the person will run off and leave me and won't love me for me.

    • @latashaarcher7410
      @latashaarcher7410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m in the same boat, but still put yourself out there ! Don’t worry about that, I say don’t give your heart ,to someone unworthy!

    • @brandonheath6246
      @brandonheath6246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@latashaarcher7410 thank you so much I appreciate it and the words of wisdom

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't blame you for feeling that way.

  • @paulaliscious
    @paulaliscious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wowww she's ONLY 42???
    So that's how imma look like in 2 years🥴🥴🥴

  • @JayDee-ut5yg
    @JayDee-ut5yg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They spent so long on a ring that she lawfully does not even have to give back because she married him!!! 🙄

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish they linked the follow-up episodes.

  • @vacheriedevacherie1959
    @vacheriedevacherie1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He’s a macho, she’s independant, modern. He’s not a good guy for her, he needs attention like a kid. She didn’t vow to take care of his immature ass.

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s immature for following her to the bathroom. In terms of him expecting her to get home first, that wouldn’t always happen with me. There was a time that I got home after 1:00 a.m.

  • @rosegreen8441
    @rosegreen8441 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good! Engagement rings are a conditional gift and she fulfilled the condition. It's hers.

  • @peaceatheart101
    @peaceatheart101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I absolutely love the professionalism of Judges Toyler and Faith but Judge Madeline is by far my Favorite!❤🙂2022

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Judge Mablean was the strictest judge in Divorce Court.

    • @Missegyptlatesha
      @Missegyptlatesha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Judge Lynn and judge Maybelline are incredible I don't know what it is about faith I just can't get behind it 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @aniydeheyeh4785
      @aniydeheyeh4785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Missegyptlatesha Spot on!

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 ปีที่แล้ว

      Faith sucks. Horrible in divorce court and her old show.

  • @lifewithmommyandjournee583
    @lifewithmommyandjournee583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He still don’t get it they were acting like two kids on the playground

    • @Otto8845
      @Otto8845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes they were & the plaintiff was acting like everything about the "Divorce Court" case was comedic as he often smiled & laughed.

    • @lifewithmommyandjournee583
      @lifewithmommyandjournee583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Otto8845 that part

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a mess. He is demanding, and manipulative. But what does it cost her to greet her husband, stay off the phone at night and check out her mom before she gets home. That way she can focus on her husband. But I would need a little time to go to the bathroom alone. That’s where I draw the line.

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 ปีที่แล้ว

      The bathroom part would’ve made me divorce him immediately. That’s acting like a young child clinging to his mother.

  • @jasminej6281
    @jasminej6281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    No way she’s 42 maybe 52

    • @jasonmorris4eva
      @jasonmorris4eva 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I said the very same thing

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She looked like she was in her her late 50’s.

  • @alexusmonroe9963
    @alexusmonroe9963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is why I will not ask a man to marry me like ew ,

    • @sweetsweet81
      @sweetsweet81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A man is supposed to approach a woman, not a woman approaching him. Men are known to chase women.

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THIS MAN IS REALISTIC

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    👀 he is controlling

    • @youmakemelaugh1797
      @youmakemelaugh1797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe he was going in the bathroom on her, I had a abusive creep that would just barge in on me in the bathroom, no matter what I was doing here his punka** come just to stand there and monitor me like tf!!🤦🏿‍♀️🙅🏿‍♀️

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@youmakemelaugh1797 . Oh hell no!

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I could understand him wanting her to be home when she gets there. It shows that he really needs a companion and he’s clingy.

  • @nikkicas260
    @nikkicas260 ปีที่แล้ว

    She wasn’t ready for marriage. What he is asking for isn’t unreasonable

  • @valvano304
    @valvano304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man married a working independent woman and expected her to fill a very traditional domestic role. They have different relationship needs and ideal levels of closeness. Neither tried to compromise.

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings ปีที่แล้ว

    What he said about her still being available to her mom and/or her friends showed he mustn’t have too many friends. The way I understand their situation while watching this episode, I think they shouldn’t get married. They could have stayed friends, even friends with benefits who cares, but get married….naaan.
    I love judge Ephriam. I hope she’s well and in good health nowadays.

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hmm idk. If this is what marriage is supposed to be.

  • @jennevamadison3803
    @jennevamadison3803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes an oldie!!!

  • @ricachristine5337
    @ricachristine5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That case update doesn't surprise me, he was a bad husband and a worse father. smh

  • @maxinepowell6605
    @maxinepowell6605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that hour maybe her mom was sleeping 😊

  • @susielow7563
    @susielow7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She look older than 42!!!!!

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her skin is not lined its just she has an old fashioned look

  • @lance1230m
    @lance1230m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These two are 42. 😳

  • @Missegyptlatesha
    @Missegyptlatesha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this woman is going to die alone. I think the relationship she has with her mother is beautiful. She has wonderful family values. That being said her mother has reached life expectancy and she's going to pass away soon and this woman is going to have nothing and nobody. She's going to have to learn how to cooperate with a spouse or buy a lot of cats. As for the husband he needs to pick and choose his spouse wisely. Just cuz somebody proposes doesn't mean you need to say yes. He's obviously looking for a traditional wife and he needs to make certain before he says I do again he finds a woman who is looking to be in that traditional role that is not for everyone.

  • @chrishall2495
    @chrishall2495 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is a little wierd and smothering borderline stalker he wanted it all his way when you get married I becomes we and both parties put the other before themselves when necessary and he didn't

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can’t stand a man with smothering ways. He expected her to always be at home before me. There was a time that I got home after 1:00 a.m. from getting my nails done.

  • @sexmachine95
    @sexmachine95 ปีที่แล้ว

    Their both r 50 +,
    how can a comment about her looks and attitude and leave out the guy of the same judgment?
    You people who is putting her in a judgment
    must be related to him?

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RUN AWAY FROM HER AND FAST SHE IS NARCISSTIC

  • @shakespeareswingman
    @shakespeareswingman 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💋 at least be honest when you get to court. This guy is bluffing and talking crap. The woman probably was fixed in her ways, but the man was coming up light.

  • @dragon11819
    @dragon11819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why the hell he married her and she belongs in the treets

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does she belong in the streets?

    • @elw7658
      @elw7658 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏽😅😄😁🤣😂

    • @The.S.M.Evans.91
      @The.S.M.Evans.91 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She sure does

    • @tummieflowers2681
      @tummieflowers2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@The.S.M.Evans.91 . How??

    • @nimabarrie39
      @nimabarrie39 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Street point of correction 👌 😅

  • @rachela2299
    @rachela2299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    so he married the first time at 15??