Fear of non-existence to pure simplicity ||

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  • @higherrezinance91
    @higherrezinance91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤲🏿❣️

  • @littlerunt111
    @littlerunt111 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is completely lonely going through this as im 18 no peers to talk to.

  • @spiritfilled5758
    @spiritfilled5758 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you young lady i can so feel what you are sharing and I'm very much ready to let it all go and simply be!

  • @marksmedley8967
    @marksmedley8967 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Profoundly grateful for these videos and sharing of the journey. Speaking only for this person, sorrow in the 'letting go' comes with recognition of a past life poorly lived. Nothing wrong with the realization, or the sorrow. Rather than judge, observing and letting go ... 🙏

    • @marksmedley8967
      @marksmedley8967 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As sorrow dissolves with the (former) personage, an experience of being fully alive emerges...

  • @spindragon
    @spindragon ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Suzanne I really appreciate your transparency, innocence and wisdom. Thank you!💗

  •  ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I watched this for the second time tonight and I got a blissful feeling as if it was spoken to the me here. 😊 Almost like too good to be true feeling, only that it is beyond truth or untruth.

  • @danriffraff37
    @danriffraff37 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow Wow and more wow! Thank you Suzanne...You seem to say exactly what I needed to here.....As I continue to somehow spiral through all the shit that has been hidden for so many years the feeling of being alone and loosing everything is so immense so hopeless and I hear your voice your words and there is a resonance to what you speak of...Can feel the rest.....Feels in a way that I am in a place now which I always feared going to but Im ok with it...Whatever needs to happen is happening.....Feels like surrender coupled with running away as you say but all is well...Much love Suzanne ❤

  • @eslof
    @eslof ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The suffering is a double-edged sword. It's not just the experience, it's also responsibility. The responsibility to do better, to make up for it, to prevent it. The responsibility to figure out the right way when you have been shown the wrong way.
    I work in engineering and what's been evident to me is that no one really knows what they're doing, everyone is winging it best they can.

  • @maktheweirdo
    @maktheweirdo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad I found this video. I've been in a really bad existential crisis for over a month, and I honestly feel like this cured it. Ever since I was a kid, I've had really bad anxiety and a crippling fear of death. The very thought of losing everything and being gone for eternity made me panic. I always felt like I was running from it. I used to put so many things on such a high pedestal and attach so much meaning to the trivial. As I've gotten older, I started to learn more about the world and everything beyond it. It made me feel so small. I felt like I, nor anything else mattered because it was all going to be gone soon anyway. But now I can safely say that this video helped me gain a better perspective. I shouldn't just spend my life living in the fear of the unknown. I should just live, and accept simplicity. Thank you so much.

  • @unbrokenspine
    @unbrokenspine ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love your madness rooted laughter and your hats.

  • @MarcP589
    @MarcP589 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you so much Suzanne. Everything you say rings true . The energetic fallout the body here is deepening rapidly. Its horrible at times, so good to hear from someone that's been through it

    • @tkallanga
      @tkallanga ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is true... It feel like i loose my mind at first... I wish everyone can experiance this....

  • @beautythebotox2534
    @beautythebotox2534 ปีที่แล้ว

    "You just melt away'...
    Stunning. Simply stunning. 🙏💙

  • @karl_diamondeye
    @karl_diamondeye ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This video fits me like a glove today, thank you.

  • @cherylchild
    @cherylchild ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's also very weird when all this happens and you were never actively seeking awakening. From the way you describe it, it seems this is what is happening to me. I am married to a man who has been seeking this all his life and makes it look so painful and disappointing I decided consciously to turn my back on all of this. Now I feel that I'm both dying and going insane at the same time.

  • @PRPlathXavier
    @PRPlathXavier ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fear of loosing what I am , what I think I am, has always been a problem on the way....that is life! Thanks for your words. Its crucial to share and expose your/our experience, not that it changes anything of what is essential, but it changes the relative.

  • @SimplyAwakeLLC
    @SimplyAwakeLLC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for this, I'm in the oscillation now and am grateful for the pointer that it can and will be over.

  • @WildSatsang
    @WildSatsang ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @16:54 cracked me up! "the gift of nothing" HAHA! It's the gift of nothing from no one.. to nobody. HAHA! The unfoldment of this mystery is endlessly beautiful 💜

  • @Fkpatriarchy
    @Fkpatriarchy ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m sooo tired of going through this. It’s so frickin uncomfortable. Thank you for the encouragement and letting us know it’s possible. It seems to feel less and less charged.

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hi, Rebecca,
      In my experience, I find again and again that when I hit what you are describing, it’s (almost?) always because I’m resisting something. And if I can bring greater acceptance to whatever I’m avoiding or fighting against, it usually softens that frustrated/tired of this feeling.
      Often it’s hidden or unconscious, but if I slow down enough to find it, I find a softening and relief, and the urgency to be somewhere other than where I am fades.
      Don’t know if this will be helpful, but wanted to share in case it can bring a softening to you, as well.
      🙏🦥🔥🫥

    • @mantas9827
      @mantas9827 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      the tiredness is part of the problem, don’t give it much thought

    • @pozzarefds
      @pozzarefds ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mantas9827 resisting something what though?

    • @WonderingAboutThat
      @WonderingAboutThat ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I very much relate! Ugh it's just excruciating.

    • @Hi_how_r_u_
      @Hi_how_r_u_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm tired of this and i'm not even awakening XD So you're doing great

  • @aliasbrunch
    @aliasbrunch ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Ecuadorean Evangelist mum just came into my room while this was playing and asked me what Suzanne was talking about. When I told her that she has probably reached enlightenment and no longer feels a separate self, but only life, her response was 'ay que pena, pobresita' :)

    • @winonafrog
      @winonafrog 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅

  • @Brittle_buddha
    @Brittle_buddha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you so much. Just this. So good ❤️

  • @gilbertlujan1220
    @gilbertlujan1220 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes I know exactly what your aware of , most disturbing in a way ! But of course it is what it is , I learned this fact as well when I was at a very young age , from trauma , through the drama of violence my step father unleashed on my mother and I , I realized this what you are experiencing , I truly understand it but at the same time I don’t so I learned to surrender to what is , and now see the beauty in all things good or bad as if they were real ! It is that all there is. !

  • @michaeldelisieux5252
    @michaeldelisieux5252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly!
    You’ve said literally what’s going on here. After an apparent period of blank, I am back with a vengeance: fear. It’s seen but can’t be avoided and it hurts no one.

  • @andrewhussey8702
    @andrewhussey8702 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow ! Love your Ivy background and your appreciation of that also.

  • @janhokke413
    @janhokke413 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My god I love you, Thank you, wonderful 🌈🌈🌈.

  • @steveny18
    @steveny18 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Suzanne. What I have been finding is that there is not the need to psychoanalyze the conditions. The fear only occurs in the narrative. I have been finding meditation is allowing that to drop away. Then there is only presence as silence.

  • @hadardhumezbiagi1342
    @hadardhumezbiagi1342 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You talk about it so beautifully ❤️, thank you of expressing it in such clarity of words 🤗, the me drops and then there is in lovenes 💕😊

  • @andrewforrest108
    @andrewforrest108 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is 100% resonance here with what you are sharing Suzanne.
    Thank you for reiterating, so clearly and directly, what many 'radical' non dual speakers (Tony Parsons, Jim Newman etc) have said for the last 2 decades or so....that the apparent separate 'self' loses everything,
    yet that which is apparently 'lost', is totally unreal anyway!
    Leaving deep rest.
    Leaving peace which passes all understanding.
    Leaving unknowingness, boundless timelessness, unconditional love, childlike wonder, spontaneity and absolute freedom, for nobody.❤

  • @fscottcahill143
    @fscottcahill143 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marvelous!!!

  • @macparker3549
    @macparker3549 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hi, Suzanne,
    Yes, I can feel that this is possible, as you say. Some moments it even seems inevitable.
    And your simple, thorough, personal/impersonal description of “going through this” is a great companionship as this “me” goes through its own dissolution process.
    Thank you, truly.
    🙏🦥🫥

  • @davidsisson1488
    @davidsisson1488 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Suzanne,This is a great interpretation of what Jesus meant when he said you have to lose your life in order to find it 🙏💜🕊🦋

  • @LuiGrande
    @LuiGrande ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel you Suzanne. 100%. Every time I watch your video (I've watched about 100 of them, but this is my first comment) or I listen to my favorite music and meditate, I melt away. I've read that it's extremely rare to stay in that liberated state for longer time. That you keep sliding away from it consantly. But when I experience it, that's where I want to be. That's my home.

  • @tjprieur
    @tjprieur ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's a shift from seeking to observing and maybe even playing in the world in a way that resonates with the flow of things.

  • @anglikai9517
    @anglikai9517 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The sufferings previously are so worth it, compared to the "freedom" attained. It is the ultimate blessing !

  • @stoicafanel
    @stoicafanel ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I adore those gifts,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @kjyshawn
    @kjyshawn ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Suzanne. I see cleary there's no time. I feel like normal seperate person while I am on my casual life. I feel very same as you only when I focus on making it clear again. Future and past disappear but I still feel 'the I' looking at it when it's out of future and past. I understand that there's no 'I' , no object and no subject in there without time. I am convinced that there's nothing 'I' can do for now. I just think I could try making myself more clear with it. You are a huge insperation to me. Than you again.

  • @MaxMetrault1
    @MaxMetrault1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lovely, Suzanne!

  • @MrDesoto33
    @MrDesoto33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The focus of your speech and profound thoughts make for good listening. Namaste

  • @richardlenz2655
    @richardlenz2655 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear Suzanne, we understand you very good. Sometimes your mind goes blank. This is also the new time/ future. The message is anyhow during the break, when the understanding can drop in. Thank you very much for your honest teachings 🤭😋🥰

  • @christinaforras
    @christinaforras 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Destroying the 111 comments. Opened at 6:11 and there were 611 likes. Strong’s Greek 611: to answer (apokrinomai) 😊

  • @PRPlathXavier
    @PRPlathXavier ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed your words, thanks.

  • @Ron-rk6iz
    @Ron-rk6iz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We live in a real world in a real body, all of that is there for a purpose.
    People can space out all they want in the reality of the Universe, that is a reality too, however we have to come back in the body and play the game of duality not matter what.
    We only should learn how to surrender as Human beings to the Soul and to live according until our time is up in this material world, then follows the infinite.

  • @jtkdmd6266
    @jtkdmd6266 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Suzanne. "You have to put aside the alienation, get on with the fascination, the real relation the underlying theme."- RUSH (Limelight)

    • @mmehendale3624
      @mmehendale3624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do you mean by limelight? I was told by something I was in the limelight. The state of being in fascination?

    • @jtkdmd6266
      @jtkdmd6266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mmehendale3624 "Limelight" is a Song and the Lyrics were written by Neil Peart (drummer) from the group Rush.

    • @mmehendale3624
      @mmehendale3624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right on 👍

    • @brushstroke3733
      @brushstroke3733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mmehendale3624 Old school stage lights were called "limelights". The Rush song was about people wishing they could be famous, celebrities, stars, and they're advice to such people - to all of us - was to forget about the seeking the admiration, the adoration, the validation, and to get on with what we're doing with real interest. In other words, love what you do, and forget about everything else.

  • @gaming_with_jem
    @gaming_with_jem ปีที่แล้ว

    So true ❤

  • @michelracicot2337
    @michelracicot2337 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Suzanne ! 🔥

  • @LotusPoet
    @LotusPoet ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderfully expressed and so honest. Thank you 🧡🧡

  • @christinegorman3629
    @christinegorman3629 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. Needed to hear all of this tonight. Thank you for sharing your experience. Helping me to understand the seemingly endless suffering. The loneliness and pain. Feeling like there isn’t any more i can possibly give but then another layer surfaces to be released. Feel like I’m going crazy half the time but at the same time there is a deep knowing that there is nothing else to do but keep going. That this is just happening and my body/mind is along for the ride. It’s so hard to understand but then I realize it’s not supposed to make sense to the mind. Can’t. Never will. Feels terrifying but there’s no turning back. Nowhere to go. (Which ugh…dealing with practical, every day basic life/work shit…) So taking comfort in your words and hope that I soon can feel some of the peace you’ve experienced. ❤

  • @kalagya
    @kalagya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    .... you just melt away... how beautiful... however can't seem to let go of the last straw on the camel's back... since 25 years... the mind and body interfere... thank you :)

  • @thevajrabrimo
    @thevajrabrimo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💜

  • @macparker3549
    @macparker3549 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just listening to this again.
    Priceless guidance.
    Thank you.
    🙏🔥🫥⭕️🦥

  • @WildSatsang
    @WildSatsang ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully put! Just came across your videos. We should sit together sometime 💜

  • @siripatc28
    @siripatc28 ปีที่แล้ว

    i'm glad it's not just me

  • @tim2269
    @tim2269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "What a relief."🙂

  • @sahamal_savu
    @sahamal_savu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm glad you mentioned the crucifixion, "My God, why have you forsaken me?" The life of Jesus is a powerful story about awakening if taken in a mythological context rather than how most Christians interpret it. Adyashanti's book "Resurrecting Jesus" is a great way of looking at his life, it helped me finally begin to understand the bible.
    Thanks again for these videos, your words are much appreciated ❤

    • @glauben19
      @glauben19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This message is wonderful! Thank you so much! I am so scared of my emotions of been abandoned. Where do I start? I am petrified 😢😢😢

  • @stillpoint6478
    @stillpoint6478 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "You just melt away." 'I' want to disappear quickly....seems like more torture..slow torture. 🙂 Thank you for this message. This is something I've feared for years..I feel it keeps me stuck

  • @highlanderes
    @highlanderes ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We are born as separate, with 1. the task of existing as the unique individuals that we are, and 2. the urge to find happiness.
    We seek happiness in things, achievements and with other people.
    No more seeking, no more seeker. Happiness as peace was found.

  • @carolinedekeyser4053
    @carolinedekeyser4053 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏💃

  • @UC241
    @UC241 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything perceivable perishes.
    Even space?

  • @trevorfurness5695
    @trevorfurness5695 ปีที่แล้ว

    Suzanne, if what you say is coming from a place of truth, then the world has already changed. Let's share this reality together, here and now.

  • @addiepoulson1430
    @addiepoulson1430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just want to be friends with all of you

  • @uk1simon1
    @uk1simon1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Suzanne 🙏

  • @nikosalexopoulos6542
    @nikosalexopoulos6542 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "This is the end of you my Master"
    "Don't try it"

  • @NatashaandMisha
    @NatashaandMisha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so so difficult.

  • @yasminel-hakim4348
    @yasminel-hakim4348 ปีที่แล้ว

    another wonderful message. Thank you Suzanne 🙏❤️
    I’m looking forward to the video with your friend who went through this with you.
    If the person is gone completely after the hard times of peeling off all the layers of the suffering of the person, there remains just the wow! I hope that means there is still the ability to enjoy for example a sunrise or delicious food, or looking at a flower.
    There doesn’t need to be a meaning to anything, no explanations, no understanding. That’s what here is felt. But here is a fear of loosing the ability to enjoy colour, form, taste, sound, sensation.
    BUT nevertheless the me has to go 🙏❤️

  • @IAMLove33
    @IAMLove33 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌞🌞🌞

  • @Rome372
    @Rome372 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the cognition no longer desires

  • @trentdoyle8752
    @trentdoyle8752 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Suzanne. This video is soo relevant to what is happening here right now. It gives a glimmer of hope in an ocean of hopelessness

  • @zahreenasimone7303
    @zahreenasimone7303 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am starting to get this-a little at a time. You as well as others are a big source of support and understanding. Thank you.

  • @aquapurity
    @aquapurity ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your beautiful thoughts here. I’ve been suffering and this helped me and gave me hope that I can find happiness again. It was what I needed to hear.

  • @Daves2024
    @Daves2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing. I have experienced and basically come to the same truths you are expressing here. All except I have not been able to perceive all as love as you have seen and mentioned toward the end of the video. How did you finally get to that point? I know there is no simple answer to that question.

  • @eslof
    @eslof ปีที่แล้ว

    The reduction of seeking is attention. Seeking is external, attention is internal.
    Seeking is an illusion, the ground truth is the choice that we have of what we pay attention to.
    No matter how far down, unless you're dead you are paying attention to something.
    All we really have is the inside where we decide when and why to collapse the waveform of our subconscious; while the outside is consistently conformed.

  • @nurpinner8502
    @nurpinner8502 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏❤️

  • @brettadamek4501
    @brettadamek4501 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did you see the movie Everything Everywhere All At Once?

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Lass 👌

  • @nelsbrown3674
    @nelsbrown3674 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this just the despair one feels as one realizes it is not real? Do people wake up without such suffering?

  • @anemandaane5183
    @anemandaane5183 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you say there is no time - you clearly are existing in time - do you mean no past or future projections? Is it that time doesn't move like the inhabiting entity would have felt it does

  • @cherylchild
    @cherylchild ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it possible to free ones self from the concept of time without awakening?

  • @placeishereandtimeisnow
    @placeishereandtimeisnow ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Suzanne! Thank you for your insights again. I’d love to hear your thoughts on derealization and how to let go of it and accept this world as it is, because it is

  • @anemandaane5183
    @anemandaane5183 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you say there's no importance does that also mean there is no joy?

  • @Jack-xc2ys
    @Jack-xc2ys ปีที่แล้ว

    Well thank you for offering discourse, though it might detract. I find other perspectives can bring contrast. There would be no definition without contrast, the constant rate of changes would not be so unchanging if it was not being sensed. Even sensuality itself is defined by it's ebbing, flowing, stopping and starting, it's modes are defined from one another. The truth of the moment passed is unchanging, the truth does not need to be known to be true. What we are sensing and sharing💗depends entirely on the unchangeable past.

  • @evabickerton3856
    @evabickerton3856 ปีที่แล้ว

    Curious, does one go through this part you are describing and maintain a 9-5 job, own business, raise family, be part of society, funcion as part of community stay married? Also as you get to that state is your vibration high, for there is clearly difference between experiencing peace and being exhusted, letargic, sad. 🙏💓

  • @DesertNebula
    @DesertNebula ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:37 🥲💕

  • @atz6212
    @atz6212 ปีที่แล้ว

    If it's your innocence that I'm drawn too. Then that's okay?

  • @ubuntuber1619
    @ubuntuber1619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙋🏻‍♀️➰🩲👃🏽💕🏃🏽‍♂️...🧎🏽‍♂️🦽👨🏾‍🦽.. umm Suzanne's No duality smells good.

  • @pairadeau
    @pairadeau ปีที่แล้ว

    This some real talk right here yo.

  • @macaroon147
    @macaroon147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol what about if I lose my partner though what about sex I wanna know lol like I wouldn't want this if it means the end of my relationship (not for me but the affect it would have on my wife)

  • @cosmicgliderBruce
    @cosmicgliderBruce ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🌞🌅🤽

  • @ericmcclanahan5938
    @ericmcclanahan5938 ปีที่แล้ว

    Depressed or deep rest. 10:00
    Pun intended???

  • @dansmith8174
    @dansmith8174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ha...You 'suzanne' have insight, and the attempts in explanation of processes, are good.. lol, I think better than what most could do, including myself. Because people cannot free themselves of concepts/reality belief learned as an infant. Society solidifies the perceived reality in the individual; which as you realize, is fabrication..... and here you and me are... timeless and precious.... Some believe their is purpose.. IMO there is some truth in that, based upon observation with behaviors of/in all organisms from simple to complex, and the symbiotic association a human organism depends upon with all these things.
    :)... Why do humans exist?.. especially if they repeat simplistic rituals that mimic the simple organisms, some of which do not even have a brain structure.. Funny how human's depend upon so many things and simple life forms to exist, yet the simple forms of life do not need humans... in fact with the society we have now, they would do better without.😮

  • @mast3r346
    @mast3r346 ปีที่แล้ว

    do a vlog on new york

  • @shawn6306
    @shawn6306 ปีที่แล้ว

    the only thing i don't resonate with is you and most say i don't exist because i think that i do exist i am real i'm not fake illusion at all but i do agree i won't get this we don't actually know anything what this is that it just is

  • @robertoromerro
    @robertoromerro ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting thoughts. But i can't watch now until the end of the video.

  • @georgesvan
    @georgesvan ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for nothing...

  • @rationalmystic5
    @rationalmystic5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most of us use headphones while watching your videos .....PLEASE GET A BETTER MIC WHEN RECORDING OUTDOORS....the wind noise that is captured is too distracting and some of the words get muffled out by it. Love your work ma'am . Wish you well. Cheers.

  • @narakthedestroyer
    @narakthedestroyer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma'am will you please adopt me...i want to be born again again n get raised by you...

  • @nul_wav
    @nul_wav ปีที่แล้ว

    Suzanne can you contact me ? reply if you can

  • @premganga8822
    @premganga8822 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌷

  • @catherinesoubre1804
    @catherinesoubre1804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @rosa-boom-nonduality
    @rosa-boom-nonduality ปีที่แล้ว +2

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