Females in school are cruel with the rejections. They will straight up make a scene to get some attention off of your embarrassment and pain. Something weird happened as I got older. They same females that hurt me in school was willing to date me later in life. Needless to say I slayed as many of them as I could and checked them off the list. This is actually how I got my son...lol. I stopped doing it because no matter how much I hurt them, it never took away the pain I still hold on to till this day and I'm 33. I think I will hold a grudge against the females that hurt me till the day I die...smh. Nowadays I expect the worst from any female I talk to.
@@robertromero8094 people can be traumatized at a young age not excusing the fact he whining about high school girls during his younger years but a woman's words can deeply affect a man's mind whether she means what comes out of her mouth or not
Pretty much. Dogs aren’t born, they’re created. Most dog ass dudes were good guys at one point but after getting played a few times, they unleashed the inner beasts and it was a wrap. Most assholes are just former nice guys who just got tired.
I'm approaching my 30's I'm trying to remain that kind man, that has that integrity, honor, respect..... but I will say, that it's getting harder and harder to resist that dog. I pride myself on being "safe" but my heart is starting to become more hardened.
Hold out!!!! For women like me. We love men like you. Integrity honor respect. That’s a great a man! Hold out. There’s more women out there looking for men like you. Just choose wisely. 💕😊
Good video brother Rom. Women have absolutely NO idea the emotional damage they can inflict on a man with their rejection. You can almost understand why some men are deeply mysoginistic, and hate women.
Omg Men reject women badly too. Try being a dark skinned female in a world were there is a strong preference for lighter toned women. It's rough. We usually get are initiation at about 13 and 14 and the rough stuff later. I remember going to parties in my late teens and early 20s and experiencing a lot of rejection because of my very dark skin. It's the world we live in Every type of cruel rejection is out there - you just need to love yourself and stop looking for validation outside of yourself..
Many women live in a fantasy world where a man is supplying them with their every desire mentally, materially and emotionally. This is an impossible feat in reality but nevertheless they believe it as a result of years of programming beginning with cartoons as little girls. A relationship is not some fairytale where your prince puts in all of the work and you just remain in a castle dressed in designer fashions. Lol, a relationship requires work from both parties.
I used to be that "nice guy" but all of that changed 6 years ago. Now I just don't give a fuck about em for the most part. Men are raised to go all out for women whom we love but women aren't raised to appreciate the good in men who try to love. But when you show em the beast in you...they respect/love you more! Lol. shit is crazy!
It's been my experience women don't care how their actions effect others. However, this is instructive of both male and female behavior. Thanks for this.
That's just nature. the peacock with the most alluring feathers usually wins. And young people aren't practical when it comes to dating, they usually go for the one that makes them feel a certain way. I would say that includes the men
yeah growing up without my mother, father was from another era, sisters and women in my life gave bad advice in which I been trying to reprogram myself because this post.
Roger Conner true about the terrible advice women give men. I am reprogramming myself of the fairy tale advice my mother and aunts have given me. Deprogramming is a lifelong challenge but necessary. Sometimes I get angry as a grown woman and can’t relate what I’ve been told to real life circumstances.
Great Video Rom. I have been Hurt by some sistahs, but I still love Black Women. Also I learned a long time ago those Bitches did me a favor. Sometimes Rejection is your Pretection!
I was JUST sharing that with a youngin'. "No need to get mad and try to disrespect her she saved you a whole lot of trouble you just dodged a bullet." I told him now you don't have to buy nothing, spend nothing or waste nothing, trying to get next to her. I told some young girls too, if you're out here trying to so-called "get some lames to buy you a drink", cut that out & be a real woman. If you know he's willing to buy you a drink and you going to ask him to buy your friend a drink too. shut that down if anything you let him buy you a drink and you tell him that "the next one's on me" and that's what you do. He'll respect you for that as a real woman and you'll still respect yourself. You can't be strong and independent while you're out here looking for something for nothing, from total strangers. Now you just panhandling...
Can you do a segment on Church girls? Maannn I "dated" this church girl for a few months and let myself get totally obsessed with her *#devilinareddress* I bent over backwards like a punk and never made a move because I thought she was a virgin. Later on I find out she's banging this other acquaintance. She's deep in his rotation and he barely knows her name, just shows up and hits it while she cooks for him. My heart broke. IDK if Ima turn beast mode or just cop a good-hearted 7 who loves me unconditionally and appreciate her for that... Appreciate your stuff Rom.
All this boils down to Is that being too nice basically in most women's eyes strips the Male of his masculinity. Women will tell you that they want a nice man who will treat them like a queen and all that bullshit because they were raised by their mothers to accept that's the type of man they should date. In reality a man who gas a backbone,puts his foot down and doesn't bend over backwards to please a woman and shows he is confident by having the capability of bagging another female is the one who appears the more attractive. Especially if he is assertive. In other words don't give a fuck about women if they reject you, just move on to another.
All your videos are classic my goal is to watch everyone of your videos god definitely put you on earth to speak the honest truth to us men and give us the real insight on theses women god bless you and wish you much more success.
I knew a guy like this. Stingy as the scrooge. Always had me wondering who took advantage of him to make him like this. He would brag about what he wouldn't do for a relationship. As he got older women passed him by and he ended up dying alone in his apartment. You can dog some people but the one you want ain't always gonna allow the behavior. Got to grow out of that shit.
your right brother I'm struggling with this the good guy and the animal but both sides seems to be dead even with another can't say what side going to win war your messages is always a big help thanks
Perception definitely overrules reality in this day and age. What it seems to be is definitely not the truth of what actually is. But a lot of this is all mental conditioning.
You said a gem with a women knowing to hit a man emotionally. One thing about rejection . Men dont forget ,and men are not sopose to just sit there getting .rejected year after year , thats where self improvement comes in , becoming a player to a point where you gain leverage in the dating market. Honeslty if all love is war . Let it be . I would step in the field , and get me my share of candy just for the sake of getting the candy. And i would collect my souvenirs of women . I could be around women and not flinch and be indifferent because i have my leverage . You. Can never call it now a days , if your a good looking man so what . Theres men who are not so good looking winning with women. And if your a ugly man so what , you too have a shot to get women . You should not be doubted my friend . ..in this realm of dating and dealing with women requires a different level of thinking and being .
This is truth. Some might split down the winding path of pain into the dog world, the extreme of the wolf path, the Black Robe, or the Black Armor. He needs the Great Pumpkin to help save him LOL!!! That has me crying laughing. Thank you for this truthful video.
If im not getting it home im going to get it somewhere, means homr can pack and go, i make a clear warning before i make a move, if she chooses not to comply no problem
Good guys become dogs because a lot of women want bad boys sometimes good guys are boring I was engage to a good guy but he was boring I realized I wouldn t be happy one if my friends says he is not my type I'm in between I'm good but not all the time I like to party enjoy life last night I went to a lounge with my cousin and went to a sushi bar that was classy bad boys get the chicks I'm in between but mostly good I notice my bad friends get the guys I'm not gonna turn bad I just hang with family and friends
Rom, Rom, Rom, lol please dont do that voice again haha, that doberman need to get fix lol. on the other note i completly agree after my first heart break i never forgot and I systematically spread the pain and just never trusted women again. Still kinda don't. Never been rejected in that matter though but that does happen.
What's up Rom! I've just start watching your videos. You have a lot of solid information. I was wondering do you have videos for guys 50 and up. I'm in the gym and the mouth piece decent, but information is power.
I DEFINITELY understand where this is coming from. However, sooner or later you gotta admit you need to fix yourself. That's just an excuse to be a terrible person. Go get some counseling or seek spiritual guidance. Get yourself right before you try to engage with someone else.
I agree about the non compatible relationship. Because they're just as insecure as most females.They can't stand to be used and abused like they use and abuse most women.This situation usually goes both ways.My thing is pick your pray wisely.Everyone isn't for everybody.
Females in school are cruel with the rejections. They will straight up make a scene to get some attention off of your embarrassment and pain. Something weird happened as I got older. They same females that hurt me in school was willing to date me later in life. Needless to say I slayed as many of them as I could and checked them off the list. This is actually how I got my son...lol. I stopped doing it because no matter how much I hurt them, it never took away the pain I still hold on to till this day and I'm 33. I think I will hold a grudge against the females that hurt me till the day I die...smh. Nowadays I expect the worst from any female I talk to.
nicholas burnett You got them back though, you did nothing wrong big brah. Fuck em
nicholas burnett
You need to forgive yourself, i think, not them.
lmfao the nerve!
Wtf 33 still crying about highschool girls rejecting you
@@robertromero8094 people can be traumatized at a young age not excusing the fact he whining about high school girls during his younger years but a woman's words can deeply affect a man's mind whether she means what comes out of her mouth or not
Women create the men they claim (emphasis on claim) to dislike.
Truth.
Pretty much. Dogs aren’t born, they’re created. Most dog ass dudes were good guys at one point but after getting played a few times, they unleashed the inner beasts and it was a wrap. Most assholes are just former nice guys who just got tired.
FACTS! 🏆🏆
I'm approaching my 30's I'm trying to remain that kind man, that has that integrity, honor, respect..... but I will say, that it's getting harder and harder to resist that dog. I pride myself on being "safe" but my heart is starting to become more hardened.
Hold out!!!! For women like me. We love men like you. Integrity honor respect. That’s a great a man! Hold out. There’s more women out there looking for men like you. Just choose wisely. 💕😊
Good video brother Rom. Women have absolutely NO idea the emotional damage they can inflict on a man with their rejection. You can almost understand why some men are deeply mysoginistic, and hate women.
That why I tell women if they have to reject a man do it gently. Don't be mean about it, especially if the man is trying to be respectful.
Some women do it intentionally. If I don't want him, I'd damage him for others.
Marty Williams I get it totally
Marty Williams 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Omg Men reject women badly too. Try being a dark skinned female in a world were there is a strong preference for lighter toned women. It's rough. We usually get are initiation at about 13 and 14 and the rough stuff later. I remember going to parties in my late teens and early 20s and experiencing a lot of rejection because of my very dark skin. It's the world we live in Every type of cruel rejection is out there - you just need to love yourself and stop looking for validation outside of yourself..
Very true and that was one of the reasons some brothers started dating outside of their race also.
It is a factor.
Rom Wills cavebecky still gonna fuck all your friends.. Ask Russel Wilson... Lol
Many women live in a fantasy world where a man is supplying them with their every desire mentally, materially and emotionally. This is an impossible feat in reality but nevertheless they believe it as a result of years of programming beginning with cartoons as little girls. A relationship is not some fairytale where your prince puts in all of the work and you just remain in a castle dressed in designer fashions. Lol, a relationship requires work from both parties.
Well said sister.
No shit Sherlock
Thank you, Can you say that again.
I used to be that "nice guy" but all of that changed 6 years ago. Now I just don't give a fuck about em for the most part. Men are raised to go all out for women whom we love but women aren't raised to appreciate the good in men who try to love. But when you show em the beast in you...they respect/love you more! Lol. shit is crazy!
Women are moved more by their vaginas than they care to admit.
What I learned in life as a man... Control your sexual desires. And be mentally strong. Feed your mind and soul everyday nothing gonna shake you
It's been my experience women don't care how their actions effect others. However, this is instructive of both male and female behavior. Thanks for this.
It's vicious cycle for real. Deep when you think about it.
I think women enjoy destroying men but they never think about the consequences to their actions. There's always a flip side to a coin.
Supa 5th Too many women don't think long term about their actions.
Rom Wills Absolutely.
Facts
That's just nature. the peacock with the most alluring feathers usually wins. And young people aren't practical when it comes to dating, they usually go for the one that makes them feel a certain way. I would say that includes the men
yeah growing up without my mother, father was from another era, sisters and women in my life gave bad advice in which I been trying to reprogram myself because this post.
I know the feeling. I too was brainwashed .
Roger Conner true about the terrible advice women give men. I am reprogramming myself of the fairy tale advice my mother and aunts have given me. Deprogramming is a lifelong challenge but necessary. Sometimes I get angry as a grown woman and can’t relate what I’ve been told to real life circumstances.
Roger Conner me too
Bro same here! I love my mother very dearly but she gave me horrible advice about the opposite sex
True words Rom 💯 stuff never leaves, just sits in the mind and the guy decides to not duplicate the same thing again.
Great Video Rom. I have been Hurt by some sistahs, but I still love Black Women. Also I learned a long time ago those Bitches did me a favor. Sometimes Rejection is your Pretection!
It's a learning experience.
I was JUST sharing that with a youngin'. "No need to get mad and try to disrespect her she saved you a whole lot of trouble you just dodged a bullet." I told him now you don't have to buy nothing, spend nothing or waste nothing, trying to get next to her.
I told some young girls too, if you're out here trying to so-called "get some lames to buy you a drink", cut that out & be a real woman. If you know he's willing to buy you a drink and you going to ask him to buy your friend a drink too. shut that down if anything you let him buy you a drink and you tell him that "the next one's on me" and that's what you do. He'll respect you for that as a real woman and you'll still respect yourself. You can't be strong and independent while you're out here looking for something for nothing, from total strangers. Now you just panhandling...
Facts!
Can you do a segment on Church girls? Maannn I "dated" this church girl for a few months and let myself get totally obsessed with her *#devilinareddress* I bent over backwards like a punk and never made a move because I thought she was a virgin. Later on I find out she's banging this other acquaintance. She's deep in his rotation and he barely knows her name, just shows up and hits it while she cooks for him. My heart broke. IDK if Ima turn beast mode or just cop a good-hearted 7 who loves me unconditionally and appreciate her for that...
Appreciate your stuff Rom.
Oh snap. Yes I'll do a video on this. That's jacked up. You doing the right thing and she's boning Mr. Goodbar.
Michael Rose lol that's fucked up.
Lmfao now when that 7 dogs you you'll be ready brother
I'm in the transitioning phase right now.
You'll see the results.
All this boils down to Is that being too nice basically in most women's eyes strips the Male of his masculinity. Women will tell you that they want a nice man who will treat them like a queen and all that bullshit because they were raised by their mothers to accept that's the type of man they should date. In reality a man who gas a backbone,puts his foot down and doesn't bend over backwards to please a woman and shows he is confident by having the capability of bagging another female is the one who appears the more attractive. Especially if he is assertive. In other words don't give a fuck about women if they reject you, just move on to another.
Absolute truth. Should be required listening for all men.
I got it out there for them.
Thanks Uncle Rom. Love you very much. Your old videos come in handy sometimes when you in a situation. I got caught up with a female player lol
I hope you came out of it well.
All your videos are classic my goal is to watch everyone of your videos god definitely put you on earth to speak the honest truth to us men and give us the real insight on theses women god bless you and wish you much more success.
You honor me.
I knew a guy like this. Stingy as the scrooge. Always had me wondering who took advantage of him to make him like this. He would brag about what he wouldn't do for a relationship. As he got older women passed him by and he ended up dying alone in his apartment. You can dog some people but the one you want ain't always gonna allow the behavior. Got to grow out of that shit.
Real talk.
He maybe try be a nice guy again smh
you right i always been that nice guy but the next couple of ones have no idea bra
lol
I didn't even want to be a Dog. But I've seen and went through somethings and accepted that the nice guy in me had to go.
your right brother I'm struggling with this the good guy and the animal but both sides seems to be dead even with another can't say what side going to win war your messages is always a big help thanks
You have to make the animal serve the good guy. That's the path to power.
Rom Wills Genius
Yep. Went through some shit with my 1st college ex. The romance side of me was quickly, and fastly, extinguished.
Perception definitely overrules reality in this day and age. What it seems to be is definitely not the truth of what actually is.
But a lot of this is all mental conditioning.
You said a gem with a women knowing to hit a man emotionally. One thing about rejection . Men dont forget ,and men are not sopose to just sit there getting .rejected year after year , thats where self improvement comes in , becoming a player to a point where you gain leverage in the dating market. Honeslty if all love is war . Let it be . I would step in the field , and get me my share of candy just for the sake of getting the candy. And i would collect my souvenirs of women . I could be around women and not flinch and be indifferent because i have my leverage . You. Can never call it now a days , if your a good looking man so what . Theres men who are not so good looking winning with women. And if your a ugly man so what , you too have a shot to get women . You should not be doubted my friend . ..in this realm of dating and dealing with women requires a different level of thinking and being .
This is truth. Some might split down the winding path of pain into the dog world, the extreme of the wolf path, the Black Robe, or the Black Armor. He needs the Great Pumpkin to help save him LOL!!! That has me crying laughing. Thank you for this truthful video.
You know for Halloween I'm going to do a video service for the Great Pumpkin
LOL!!! I look forward to seeing it.
If im not getting it home im going to get it somewhere, means homr can pack and go, i make a clear warning before i make a move, if she chooses not to comply no problem
This shit hit deep Rom great work as always only person I listen and watch daily no matter what
Good guys become dogs because a lot of women want bad boys sometimes good guys are boring I was engage to a good guy but he was boring I realized I wouldn t be happy one if my friends says he is not my type I'm in between I'm good but not all the time I like to party enjoy life last night I went to a lounge with my cousin and went to a sushi bar that was classy bad boys get the chicks I'm in between but mostly good I notice my bad friends get the guys I'm not gonna turn bad I just hang with family and friends
Seems like you're trying to beat around the bush that you still like bad boys but are still getting dogged by them and are frustrated by it.
This video hit some real points on how dudes without knowledge can be impacted by a bad experience with woman.
This the truth, I don't want a strong woman I want a weak or old fashioned woman. I learned they gotta be dominated.
Deep down most women WANT to be submissive. Even the ones who think they don't.
As long as it's in a good way and not abusing her or beating her up.
13:58 Nail on the head. Always the good hearted guy. 😒 The guy who means well. The guy with good intentions. Then he gets the worst treatment... 🤦♂️
A woman wouldn’t let me hold the door for her yesterday entering the gym. I couldn’t believe it.
Lol that is ridiculous.
You have a new sub.
Welcome aboard.
animation on this classic
sadly some dogs go on to become honey badgers and warewolves
Yo Uncle Rom.sometimes a man go from cant get no women,to getting damn near all lol.
Yep.
Let the wolf awake 🐺
Why Am I Not “ROMANTIC”
Have you ever thought about writing a book? You have alot experience and wisdom on relationships.... You also can tell stories well.....
I have EIGHT books on the market. Check out my website, www.romwills.com.
Ebony Bryant I believe Rom does have at least one book published..maybe more..look them up.
Can't recall the titles..
Rom Wills 😱🙏🏽
Rom, Rom, Rom, lol please dont do that voice again haha, that doberman need to get fix lol. on the other note i completly agree after my first heart break i never forgot and I systematically spread the pain and just never trusted women again. Still kinda don't. Never been rejected in that matter though but that does happen.
LOL!
This is sincerity, right here. 💯
you know!! lol almost every sentence
Imma post a 90’s song a broad singin’ bout a “rough neck” quote on quote
90’s MUSIC
“romantic music”
Yep
SHE CALLED RAY-RAY TOO AFTER JOE DIPPED OUT.😄
What's up Rom! I've just start watching your videos. You have a lot of solid information. I was wondering do you have videos for guys 50 and up. I'm in the gym and the mouth piece decent, but information is power.
The knowledge can applied at any age.
I DEFINITELY understand where this is coming from. However, sooner or later you gotta admit you need to fix yourself. That's just an excuse to be a terrible person. Go get some counseling or seek spiritual guidance. Get yourself right before you try to engage with someone else.
Same thing happened to me
Seen.
Do a video about the wolf!
I think I've done one. I've done so many. I'll look for it. I may do an update.
Drake watching this video like “Damn….i shoulda never listened to Rom Wills” 😂😂😂
Dave's Rollin with the dogg pound!......😎
The wolf. Whoa.
Rom please do a video on the "wolves" ASAP.
It's on the list.
I'm Dave lol
Been a lot of Daves.
thanks...great video bro i just subbed
Every intro I think I'm about to watch a Spike Lee joint
Classic here Rom Wills
Thank you.
I agree about the non compatible relationship. Because they're just as insecure as most females.They can't stand to be used and abused like they use and abuse most women.This situation usually goes both ways.My thing is pick your pray wisely.Everyone isn't for everybody.
INTERESTING!!!👍👍
That's why I only care about sex because it's been easier to get in women's drawls than get them be my girlfriend....and I'm content with that.
Cool.
I subscribed
Welcome aboard.
This lie needs to end cos those men are probably dating the popular girl with options. Also women get hurt they don’t become ruthless
There is a word called "accountability". Go look it up...