Congrats to you for loving yourself first and going for your dream. Not ALL educated people will give GOOD advice...some don't even want to tell you n just want u to fail...but the ones that do help you never forget them.
Kudos to you, sister for getting out of that lifestyle and love yourself!!! You have given me the will to want to get out of mines. It is not only Hmoob men will want to controll and abuse you but other races too. Thank youfor inspiring story.
Sister, he doesn’t want you to succeed because he’s insecure and controlling. I’m glad you didn’t let that stop you from chasing after what you want. My husband wasn’t controlling like your husband but my life wasn’t different from yours. I was a stay home mom and felt worthless. At age 25, I went back to school to pursue my BS in accounting while working at the bank and taking care of my 2 small children. Don’t let their words disabled us, instead, use it to kick our butts to better ourselves. Never have self-pity! 🎉
Tej teeb meem uas ua rau peb cov poj niam ua uj as uj as hais tsis tau dab tsi los vim yog cov txiv neej no xwb, vim yog yus hais ib qho ob qho los cem li cem xwb tsis muaj qhuas yus li. Tsuas muaj txo yus li txo yus lub zog xwb ces yus thiaj ua tsis tau, tiam sis yog yus ua yuav tsum ua tau xwb los mas, nrog koj zoo siab kawg li os me ntxhais aw.
Your husband wanted you to be dependent under him, and manipulated you that you couldn’t do for yourself. Self motivation is needed to start a new self.
He was just a controlling creep. he wanted you to stay home so he can control you. If he let you go work afraid he will loose you. If he didn't let you go pursue you what you want you can't help him he think you were useless. Some Hmong men are like this. Do not know how to encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
Cov txiv zoo li no siab phem xav tau cov poj niam ntse xwb g yog kev hlub los ntawm lub siab dawb. Thaum tuaj yuav yus twb sib2 nyiam mam yuav tiam.sis yuav tau no ces saib g taus yus tus niam tsev yuav yog ntse xwb g ntse ces hais lus phem2 tsw yus kuv ces g tas nriav kev txawj ntse los ua kom nws hlub yus. Peb ib txhia poj niam hmoob tiam tshiab no yeej g ruam baum cas tsuas yog me nyuam tseem me es g tau mus hauj lwm xwb. Cov muaj niam pog zov ces yeej ob leeg mus khwv tiam sis txiv neej tseem xav yuav tus ntse2 zoo2 nkauj tawm rooj plaws npav lub kom luag qhuas li no ces g work kiag...😢
I’m happy for you sister. Your husband was not a supportive husband and you had to prove yourself. Btw, koj tus txiv txo txo koj lub zog ntawd nws puas txiav tau nws lub tob hau los ua tog zaum??smh
Glad you were able to reach your goal. But I dont get it. U said u always wanted to work in the office and didn't get married til 22-23 yrs old. But u never attempted to go to school?? Lol. I guess motivation only takes 5 kids and an abusive husband.
Gosh, I feel you sister. I hate your husband. He sounds just like my husband too. My husband always bring up the negative and push me down and kept saying it dosen't work. But I push myself, when I'm successful and he still not show that he proud. 😮💨😮💨
Congrats to you for loving yourself first and going for your dream. Not ALL educated people will give GOOD advice...some don't even want to tell you n just want u to fail...but the ones that do help you never forget them.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤yog lawm
Great story. ❤
Vim koj paub ntau thiab ntse li nws lamw ces yog tsis fwm los koj yeej tsis kk thiab ne! Nrog koj zoo siab os! 👏
Yog kawg li zaj no nawb peb cov poj niam yuav tsum muaj peem xwm li zaj no. Kuv tus kheej twb ntsib dua los lwam
Kudos to you, sister for getting out of that lifestyle and love yourself!!! You have given me the will to want to get out of mines. It is not only Hmoob men will want to controll and abuse you but other races too. Thank youfor inspiring story.
I don't even know you but I am so proud of you girl! I love it when women use negatively to empower and power up. Kudos to you.
Good job sister
Shame on your husband. Mental and verbal abuse has no place in our lives Sisters.
Lady you are so right about love yourself, because most men think they fell from the sky, and forgot that they came out of a pusy...
Sister, he doesn’t want you to succeed because he’s insecure and controlling. I’m glad you didn’t let that stop you from chasing after what you want. My husband wasn’t controlling like your husband but my life wasn’t different from yours. I was a stay home mom and felt worthless. At age 25, I went back to school to pursue my BS in accounting while working at the bank and taking care of my 2 small children. Don’t let their words disabled us, instead, use it to kick our butts to better ourselves. Never have self-pity! 🎉
Tej teeb meem uas ua rau peb cov poj niam ua uj as uj as hais tsis tau dab tsi los vim yog cov txiv neej no xwb, vim yog yus hais ib qho ob qho los cem li cem xwb tsis muaj qhuas yus li. Tsuas muaj txo yus li txo yus lub zog xwb ces yus thiaj ua tsis tau, tiam sis yog yus ua yuav tsum ua tau xwb los mas, nrog koj zoo siab kawg li os me ntxhais aw.
Gonna love yourself first.
Your husband wanted you to be dependent under him, and manipulated you that you couldn’t do for yourself. Self motivation is needed to start a new self.
He was just a controlling creep. he wanted you to stay home so he can control you. If he let you go work afraid he will loose you. If he didn't let you go pursue you what you want you can't help him he think you were useless. Some Hmong men are like this. Do not know how to encourage you to be the best version of yourself.
Cov txiv zoo li no siab phem xav tau cov poj niam ntse xwb g yog kev hlub los ntawm lub siab dawb. Thaum tuaj yuav yus twb sib2 nyiam mam yuav tiam.sis yuav tau no ces saib g taus yus tus niam tsev yuav yog ntse xwb g ntse ces hais lus phem2 tsw yus kuv ces g tas nriav kev txawj ntse los ua kom nws hlub yus. Peb ib txhia poj niam hmoob tiam tshiab no yeej g ruam baum cas tsuas yog me nyuam tseem me es g tau mus hauj lwm xwb. Cov muaj niam pog zov ces yeej ob leeg mus khwv tiam sis txiv neej tseem xav yuav tus ntse2 zoo2 nkauj tawm rooj plaws npav lub kom luag qhuas li no ces g work kiag...😢
Self love is the best thing you can ever do for yourself. I am happy for you sister ❤️
I’m happy for you sister. Your husband was not a supportive husband and you had to prove yourself.
Btw, koj tus txiv txo txo koj lub zog ntawd nws puas txiav tau nws lub tob hau los ua tog zaum??smh
Me ntxhais yog li txij li ntawd los nyaj txog Valentines ces nyaj koj tus txiv yuav paj rau koj lawm los pos lol
Glad you were able to reach your goal. But I dont get it. U said u always wanted to work in the office and didn't get married til 22-23 yrs old. But u never attempted to go to school?? Lol. I guess motivation only takes 5 kids and an abusive husband.
Gosh, I feel you sister. I hate your husband. He sounds just like my husband too. My husband always bring up the negative and push me down and kept saying it dosen't work. But I push myself, when I'm successful and he still not show that he proud. 😮💨😮💨