@ericdoury7727 he Is good looking (not a girl but that's what i think) so i personally didn't expect less either. Probably with different dressing style It might even be more, Who knows. Also, sometimes it's not even You . Sometimes what makes the difference It's Just the choice of the girls to approach
@@ContinuousRefinement Yea I get it, but sad reality is a super model could literally say anything with 0 confidence to a girl that actually has a boyfriend and they would give their number with no hesitation :P have a good one
1. Don't ask "why" in that tone, cause it sounds entitled and that's the least they want 2. Don't ask them if they want a better boyfriend, that's disrespectful, and not the right type of confident 3. Don't offer €1000 for them to go out with you, it's creepy 4. Also everyone saying that the girls are making up that they have a boyfriend, it's a really good excuse against guys who will become desperate and hopeful upon hearing she has no partner. Don't blame the girls, blame other guys for being creeps sometimes and ruining it for everyone.
@@adrianparker-e9f it's obvious, some don't want to be rude by straight up saying someone isn't to their taste, so they'll get an excuse. If your appearance is to their liking, they won't give you that excuse
and how funny he could not handle this situation. There should have been a "let's go now" or "give me your number" Unfortunately we didn't get that the 15 times "yes" he got after that. These dates would be a good following video...
Being bold is key....who ever declines it's no big deal....we humans will succeed in Anything we truly want if u never give up regardless how long it takes 💪 gr8 job my friend & proud of u
@@tubescool This is actually not try, most of the girls gonna ghost him. Some of girls decline date. So it's not like 16 , but more like 4-6 in best case scenario
@@iamigor4lamborghini Then you'll never have a girlfriend because you're never content about settling with one and you'll always keep asking multiple girls and keep multiple in your roster and end up burned out and lonely because you can never decide for yourself.
It's just because lots of people prefer to stay in their bubble, afraid to talk because of the, still small, chance of getting a rude answer, when it would be much better to talk each others rather than blaming each others
I met a guy who came and said hello to me and my work colleagues and he told he was tasked by his therapist to say hello to 100 strangers to try and get over his shyness and anxiety! He was a very sweet person!
Disagree, that increases your chances because she'll see if her friends like you, how you handle a group situation where you need to entertain multiple people, and that youre by yourself coming up to a group of people who are going to judge you and make you feel insecure.
@@Pswayze23 I'm not saying don't ask a girl out when she's with friends, I'm saying don't line all the girls in the group up and ask each of them out one by one, they're gonna be weirded out and feel like you're not genuinely into them
You and your bluepilled bullshit are just going against you. Do you think girls care about the way you ask them out?? 😂😂😂 They only care about the way you look as you also only care about the way they look. The only difference is that because of a bunch of desperate bluepilled guys who think that confidence and tone makes girls wanting them sexually, now girls can rise their standards and dating up in terms of look since they have already many simps and desperate begging for their attention in street without even they have to do nothing. Dude, if a girls Is attracted to you, you don't really have to talk, she will do everything.
@@neteroipman4478no that's not quite true bc a large part of being attractive is your vibe and the way you carry yourself. This guy is cute. Not necessarily everyone's type but I'm guessing a lot of it is about his delivery and probably not being confident (based on his intro). I bet as he gets more comfortable he will have better luck.
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@@neteroipman4478 He doesn't look bad at all. He has a pretty good face and not fat or short. It's just that many women maybe won't think he looks good *enough*. Or as you say...maybe not their type. Many women aren't into blonde guys, it's just the way it is. Also maybe some need more time to talk or don't like being asked on camera. And maybe half of them weren't lying about having a boyfriend.
look at it this way. In my opinion, 16% is better than 1% and even more than enough to experience unforgettable moments with the ladies. The fact that you asked 100 ladies in a single day catapults you into the 1% special boys who have created something like this anyway
The savagery with which some of these girls turned you down, man I felt that all the way here my dude. You deserve the medal of honor for all the bullets you took. We the men who aren't on the battlefield salute your bravery and valiant sacrifice.
I have social anxiety, and talking to strangers almost triggers a panic attack-heart racing, sweating, my voice shaking, trembling… It’s terrible. I’ve noticed that the more I put myself out there, the more my body starts to realize it’s not a real threat. Your videos have been helping me overcome this fear. It’s really tough because I miss out on so many opportunities in my life because of it.
i am very happy that my videos can help people. but i agree with you the more you try to talk to people the less anxiety and pressure you feel. but you have to try several times, and then when you are calm it will be easier to interact with people. but you have to try 1000 times to talk to unknown people to feel relaxed.
this social anxiety is all in your head, you create a barrier that creates this phantom of a problem. You need to control your own mind and overcome this barrier.
It’s cuz u view it as a loss if ur get rejected. U lose nothing if someone doesn’t like you. Learn to love yourself and not rely on others for validation
Not necessarily shy. If someone sticked a camera to my face and asked me to a date, I would instantly feel alarms that this is some kind of social experiment and I maybe don't want to be an experimental bunny. Maybe only I would be curious to play just for the sake of game, gaining skills and my own personal scientific curiosity, but then it would say nothing about your true results of getting a real date in real life, right?
@@E-plunksna I was looking for a comment or a response like this. I agree in 100%. The camera in their face invalidates any response he got during the video.
Totally! A hidden a camera (face blurred to protect their privacy as they are not aware of being filmed) with a good microphone, would have been much appropriated. No girl wants to be on camera when you asK them out.
Actually asking girls out without any sort of conversation is probably not the best tactic. Nevertheless, putting yourself out there is very admirable. This is what we should all do, ditch the apps, and soon, the apps will almost become irrelevant as phone-boxes or landlines.
Ya I can tell you from experience I had a couple of girls hit on me, that I was checking out...but I turned them down or it fell apart for some reason and it's because at the time I was shy too...sometimes if someone is really forward/confident and you're not ready for it, you'll say "no, I'm seeing someone." And they knew I was lying...so did I... don't take it personally, sometimes we have our own issues that stop us from being normal...hate myself for it, but shiit happens. When I'm myself, then I'm good...so never take rejection too personally maybe the girl was not ready for it....a non-direct approach is usually best. Let's say I had problems with confidence growing up and I was nerdier and wasn't used to pretty girls hitting on me, I got better looking as I hit my late teens...but still was socially awkward. So even if a girl says no, she could mean yes and might change her mind later...but leave it be at the time, we all do silly things, esp. when it comes to dating/romance.
Getting girls is like sending cv's for job interviews ,you will get rejected a lot but once you get one you will not even care about the rejections you had from other companies...
I'm 25 and never approached. Never flirted. Never been on a date. Absolutely zero experience with this at all. I don't think anyone has ever been interested.
I recently turned 30 and I am in the same position. At this point and in the current dating and financial market, not sure I even want to change that, as a very introverted guy and fairly successful I have my comfort, I'm used to being alone and I'm only willing to get out of the comfort zone for something I know will make me or my life better, something productive and meaningful. And have little to no confidence that dating will do that. Obviously, if you meet the right person, sure, but these are difficult odds to beat today. Not saying this to discourage anyone of looking for love and starting a family, just be very intentional and careful to avoid being heavily burned or disappointed.
This year ive been pushing myself ive asked 3 girls out this year and now i am going out with one. Just remember each no you get is one no closer to your yes
1) You'll be surprised how many people feel the same way as you. 2) You'll be surprised how much people reject the "approach" and not the actual person.
@@oatmeal7818 Thats exactly why im saying its amazing. Any average dude is going trough dirt and mud in the apps getting depressed and feeling bad about himself.
ya that's 1 out of 6 girls who said yes...that's amazing, if he has some rizz going in, rather than 'cold calling'...it would've probably been higher as others said, girls like to feel safe/comfortable with you first...so that's very good just on a random attempt without any rizz.
You look way better than many of the girls who rejected you. A lot of women just have crazy standards now days, but there are still some gems out there.
@@TactlessGuy Indeed, when a guy asks a girl and gets rejected, it's almost always girl's fault for some people, it's so upsetting seeing someone who doesn't accept a choice made from another person
@Emanuele246gi One of the factors for male suicide is not getting into a relationship. Male suicide rates are much higher then female. You do not comprehend what you haven't suffered. Learn more about people.
Getting 16% of girls go on a date with you is good Overcoming fear of rejection is SUPERB and it is going to bring you much more joy than a date ever will. Nice work!
They feel pressured if you just ask them out with the first line. Talk to them without any contingencies for a bit, and then when they gain a bit of trust and a feel of your nature , ask them to continue the conversation on a different location another time because you have to go now. If a woman approached a man and said wanna go on a date , the answer would be yes in most cases, but it's different when it's the other way around. As the weaker and less dominant gender they require to feel safe with you first before saying yes.
Yes, this is what I was going to say also. Need to build rapport first before asking. Most women in fact would probably say no if you asked them out straight up. But I do think Igor did well to get over approach anxiety
As a woman, I agree. Hesitation or “maybe” can serve to indicate to you that they don’t have enough information to make a decision. And it’s clear to see for me. For women, there are serious risks involved in dating. We need you to speak enough or to see how you are with people to get a good character read and to feel that we are likely to be safe with you or that we might have any compatibility. Asking a woman if she will date you without saying anything else first is like asking someone on the street if they will sign something. This guy did an awesome job of confronting his fear!
Well done, Igor. That 16% you got is actually pretty damn good, it probably means you are attractive above average. I wonder if things were different without your filming them with the camera.
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I think some would react differently. Some will be less pleasant and maybe more likely to say "no." Others will be more likely to say "yes", when they know they aren't being filmed for the world to see.
@@iamigor4lamborghinithats in your case mate. If an indian guy did this, he would be brootally humilated, face looks of terror and possihly after asking 100 girls get a restraint order lol
I really appreciate that you actually did it, unlike so much others that make these clickbait titles. You also got pretty successful with it too, it's motivating.
This is wonderful. I remember being 18 and wanting a girlfriend so bad I must have asked 20 girls in one night and striking out with every single one. I never did that again. As a matter of fact, I have never gotten the girl I really wanted, I only get the girls that want me.
thanks for your comment! I understand you! it's about trying, trying and trying! until you find the right match! but I know it's very difficult to find the girl you like physically and character-wise, sometimes you have to accept less
Never offer anything to a woman after she says no, it’s begging and it shows a-lot of negative traits in a partner/person which you never want. Secondly, some of these women that said yes are better looking than most of the “no” ones. Thousands of women in the world, work on yourself and keep doing this, the more interactions you have the better they’ll go. Also 16 women, is 16 women, in one day or even a week, that’s a lot of women.
I'm utterly amazed that that many will say yes on the spot without knowing anything about you. You definitely have some sort of charm. Maybe your fearlessness!
Hey I'm not a dating coach but from what I experienced is that you need steps to lead to asking them on a date. Step 1: this is what I do sometimes is (Compliment what they have on) Ex: "Those are cool shoes" or "That is a great outfit" Step 2: after the compliment start a conversation based of something you complimented them on. Ex: " Is (blank) your favorite color" or " Are you fan of the (blank) brand?" or " Are you in (country) for work or vacation?" Step 3: ask for their name. Ex: " What is your name?"/ (This is optional{ "That's a cool name} {Never met a (name) before.}) Step 4: Reveal your intention. once the convo dies down a bit make it clear (not that clear lol) what you want (" You seem pretty cool, lets (food/drinks or activity) sometimes" or "Let's exchange contact informations I would like to get to know you more" " (A hail marry) I would like to take you on a date, lets exchange contact information")
Thank you for your advice ! I know you need to put more effort into, start with little talk and maybe later ask for a number , but the idea was to ask one question
@@iggyw0bro that was some great advice ! Thank you ! I usually reveal my intentions as soon as I meet them and then start a convo. Sometimes I get lucky and it works but you’re advice is so much better. Thanks bro
I appreciate and respect those girls honesty who said immediately no, those who said maybe were afraid of offending you with saying no. It is perfectly fine if somebody isn't your type, just be honest about it.
The most humiliating part was probably getting rejected by the ones he didn't actually find attractive at all, but still asked them as a part of the experiment.
I don't think any guy cares if an unattractive girl turns them down...he only hit on them for the video. You only feel hurt if you hoped they'd say yes.
The most striking thing about this video is how normal the girls are. No plastic surgery, no obesity, no anger, no profanity. Try this in Canada or the US and it looks completely different.
@@M4rciuZ I've been to Italy, Spain, Portugal, Switzerland, Germany and Lichtenstein albeit not for a few years. Can confirm that being slovenly is really frowned upon in public.
@@mindthreatx yes and no. asking again is still possible (granted that will then not be a first-time met woman) Maybe someday women will take the initiative ALSO?
I'm 59 never been on a real date other than for my senior prom, and for that I ended up taking someone I didn't want to because the girl I asked said no even when my folks were going to pay for both of us. In my 20's I asked out lots of girls, mainly coworkers and they wouldn't go out on a single date. They'd just give me the excuse of the day. I got so dejected I just went into a shell till my current age now retired and absolutely terrified of dipping my toe into the dating pool again but I also don't want to die alone.
Go to Southeast Asia. You won't really find a woman anymore in your age no less a good looking young woman. The single women at your age group are mentally ill due to not being able to swallow their pride of having rejected the beta males.
this is my biggest fear now that im in my 30s to one day wake up and im 60. Man im sorry this happened but how the heck did u allow urself to be dejected until that age.
10:43 Don't say that bro! You are enough! And don't let your demons tell you otherwise! You have more balls than 99% of men by doing this and that's something to be proud of. the setting would make a difference too, the lack of time to get to know them for a start, 16% is pretty good considering the blunt approach.
The right way to lose fear is to slowly discover and understand who you are and the people around. Getting rejected constantly is NOT healthy and risking a continued exposition to rejection is a WRONG APPROACH, as instead of removing your fear it might just make the problem worse, by adding frustration, depression and traumas. What you need to lose fear is NOT some successes either, it is to UNDERSTAND the reasons why you might get or not get rejected.
You're right when you say getting lots of rejections isn't healthy (and could make the problem become worse) In my early 20s, I remember developing some extremely unhealthy thoughts after getting subjected to rejections galore.
Some of those were pretty attractive. Some tips. Don't say you pay them 1,000. You can't buy affection or attraction. Also if they say maybe, pull out your phone, hand it to them and say maybe you can put your number in. Say it with a smirk.
@@iamigor4lamborghiniyou can't buy love. You maybe buy a date but is this worth a thousand? You pay for food - of course, so she must have been hungry :)
Honestly guys, ditch the camera, fix the hair, eye contact before, complement, then ask out. I guarantee you the success rate would be much higher than 16%.
EXACTLY... Eye contact is the first sign that you are ``her type´´. Yeah you may misinterpret her eye contact as interest but it will still be a higher percentage for sure
8 billion people on Earth, ca 4 billion of which are female, ca 2 billion are within dating age. 16% dating chance rate means you could date about 320 million women and you just need 1 to become your gf.
It’s interesting in European countries they are honest about it “you’re not my type”. In the west they gaslight men they aren’t interested in without being honest. I’d rather be told that I’m not her type than be flaked on constantly, or told lies
„I have an ex-boyfriend“ is the coldest rejection I’ve heard 😂😂
She is a Stage 5 Clinger for sure...probably stalks the poor guy.
this got me cracking🤣🤣🤣🤣
I would have said do you want a better ex boyfriend?
My impression is she was being somewhat forthcoming that it was a messy situation that she didn't want to implicate him into
Hilarious😅
Still better turnout than dating apps. Good job.
Yeah dating apps are boring
And mostly useless.
@@odingameslayer3689 no if you are good looking
And devastating for your mental health.
Talking to women in real life just works
16 % Is really more than I would have expected.
Ahah me too, thank you for comment
The forst half he only had an 8% success rate. The second half was 24%, a 300% increase.
The more practice the more success.
@@michalthekind that is the dumbest logic ever
@@simrdownmon6431
@ericdoury7727 he Is good looking (not a girl but that's what i think) so i personally didn't expect less either. Probably with different dressing style It might even be more, Who knows. Also, sometimes it's not even You . Sometimes what makes the difference It's Just the choice of the girls to approach
The more confidence you displayed, the more 'yes' responses you received.
You mean the better looking you are the better "yes" responses you will receive
@@jtt5277 The reference was for the creator of the video, but I agree…better looking and taller are likely important factors.
@@ContinuousRefinement Yea I get it, but sad reality is a super model could literally say anything with 0 confidence to a girl that actually has a boyfriend and they would give their number with no hesitation :P have a good one
F america
land of the dumb
1. Don't ask "why" in that tone, cause it sounds entitled and that's the least they want
2. Don't ask them if they want a better boyfriend, that's disrespectful, and not the right type of confident
3. Don't offer €1000 for them to go out with you, it's creepy
4. Also everyone saying that the girls are making up that they have a boyfriend, it's a really good excuse against guys who will become desperate and hopeful upon hearing she has no partner. Don't blame the girls, blame other guys for being creeps sometimes and ruining it for everyone.
Do you have any recommendations on things that he should do?
5. Don't listen to this guy
5. Don't listen to the 13 year old virgin with the nickname Maniclout
It's hilarious how they actually decide if they have a boyfriend on the spot
Haahah
I'd be interested to know how exactly they met their boyfriends, and did they not have a boyfriend at the time they were asked out ?
A lot of girls' boyfriens is the attention they get from social media.
@@adrianparker-e9f it's obvious, some don't want to be rude by straight up saying someone isn't to their taste, so they'll get an excuse. If your appearance is to their liking, they won't give you that excuse
Because they don't (most of them). It's just the easiest excuse to get a man off your back
The first yes was a win in a lottery, man
Like forreal, she was stunning!!!
you could tell she was being polite, she hesitated so much
and how funny he could not handle this situation. There should have been a "let's go now" or "give me your number" Unfortunately we didn't get that the 15 times "yes" he got after that. These dates would be a good following video...
Being bold is key....who ever declines it's no big deal....we humans will succeed in Anything we truly want if u never give up regardless how long it takes 💪 gr8 job my friend & proud of u
@@tubescool This is actually not try, most of the girls gonna ghost him. Some of girls decline date. So it's not like 16 , but more like 4-6 in best case scenario
No matter how many NOs you'll have. You only need one YES.
Not enough for me
T h i s
@@iamigor4lamborghini Then you'll never have a girlfriend because you're never content about settling with one and you'll always keep asking multiple girls and keep multiple in your roster and end up burned out and lonely because you can never decide for yourself.
@@tswagger4663 talking stage with many get to know them and then settle with the best one and stop talking to the others
you need one yes from someone you LIKE. it's not as easy.
I was impressed at how kind most of the women were giving their answer (yes or no). It gives me hope for humanity.
This is in Europe. Americans would be brutal.
It's just because lots of people prefer to stay in their bubble, afraid to talk because of the, still small, chance of getting a rude answer, when it would be much better to talk each others rather than blaming each others
They are filmed.
they are being flimes. they are nor usually nice
Camera
I met a guy who came and said hello to me and my work colleagues and he told he was tasked by his therapist to say hello to 100 strangers to try and get over his shyness and anxiety! He was a very sweet person!
hello
@@22_and_unkissed 💀
Don't ask them all when they are in a group 🤣
Contrary will help your confidence
Disagree, that increases your chances because she'll see if her friends like you, how you handle a group situation where you need to entertain multiple people, and that youre by yourself coming up to a group of people who are going to judge you and make you feel insecure.
@@Pswayze23yes but dont ask all of them out, choose one of them 😭
For real 😂@@KiyuzoVAL
@@Pswayze23 I'm not saying don't ask a girl out when she's with friends, I'm saying don't line all the girls in the group up and ask each of them out one by one, they're gonna be weirded out and feel like you're not genuinely into them
Always remember boys, it’s the words you use, the energy you communicate, and the tone you use when asking a girl out
100%true
If you are good looking or their type it doesn't matter what you say.
You and your bluepilled bullshit are just going against you. Do you think girls care about the way you ask them out?? 😂😂😂 They only care about the way you look as you also only care about the way they look. The only difference is that because of a bunch of desperate bluepilled guys who think that confidence and tone makes girls wanting them sexually, now girls can rise their standards and dating up in terms of look since they have already many simps and desperate begging for their attention in street without even they have to do nothing. Dude, if a girls Is attracted to you, you don't really have to talk, she will do everything.
@@neteroipman4478no that's not quite true bc a large part of being attractive is your vibe and the way you carry yourself. This guy is cute. Not necessarily everyone's type but I'm guessing a lot of it is about his delivery and probably not being confident (based on his intro). I bet as he gets more comfortable he will have better luck.
@@neteroipman4478 He doesn't look bad at all. He has a pretty good face and not fat or short. It's just that many women maybe won't think he looks good *enough*. Or as you say...maybe not their type. Many women aren't into blonde guys, it's just the way it is. Also maybe some need more time to talk or don't like being asked on camera. And maybe half of them weren't lying about having a boyfriend.
look at it this way. In my opinion, 16% is better than 1% and even more than enough to experience unforgettable moments with the ladies. The fact that you asked 100 ladies in a single day catapults you into the 1% special boys who have created something like this anyway
Thank youuuyyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yeah, he Is in top 1% simps
@@michelesantana1816 bro how. You sound like your room smells like a swamp
@@michelesantana1816 ok virgin
@@solidshrekYou horrible person! How dare you make a much an unfounded, illogical statement.
"I have a boyfriend" is the most gentle answer you can receive and they know it
10:06 she gave bro a chance and he completely messed it up talking bout money😂💀
lol
indeed lmaooo
yes, that was shameful. Don't offer money.
16% is really good, just imagine an item that gives u 16% crit rate !
Ahahah I am fan of wow
Infinity Edge gives 25%
@@clubstep8244 like others crit items in lol XD
@@clubstep8244 He's playing Dota in the first clip. League sucks
@@clubstep8244 Me knowing about this is what's dropping me below 5% 😰
”No can we just be friends” is a response to a complete stranger.
the fun thing is, in dating, you only need to win once ^^. Great Video !
Hitman Agent 47 would say something like that.
@@Lobos222 would he ?😉🤫
Exactly. Even if he got only one number out of 100 chicks, if that girl really likes him, its all worth it.
Totally agree with you
but to get laid, it will be another job
'"you miss 100% of the shots you don't take' - Wayne Gretzky" - Michael Scott
dude !!! asking girls directly like you do is exactly the best way to get 100% rejected
Except he had a 16% success rate, so it was the best way to get 82% rejected.
@@garrettk7166 lol 84% :P
It is a man way to ask a girl out and not DM someone on ig
@@_wojskowy_6324 in both situation you’ll be rejected
@@_wojskowy_6324 tru but i think man means ease into it, but if hes gotta do 100 itll take forever
The savagery with which some of these girls turned you down, man I felt that all the way here my dude. You deserve the medal of honor for all the bullets you took. We the men who aren't on the battlefield salute your bravery and valiant sacrifice.
Ahahah really appreciate it brooooo
Savagery? I found the responses quite understandable
@@Vextrove "My ex-boyfriend wouldn't like it"
@@nvmffs Thats not savage that's just sad
and only a few of them were nice or better. none of them is beautiful.
I have social anxiety, and talking to strangers almost triggers a panic attack-heart racing, sweating, my voice shaking, trembling… It’s terrible. I’ve noticed that the more I put myself out there, the more my body starts to realize it’s not a real threat. Your videos have been helping me overcome this fear. It’s really tough because I miss out on so many opportunities in my life because of it.
i am very happy that my videos can help people. but i agree with you the more you try to talk to people the less anxiety and pressure you feel. but you have to try several times, and then when you are calm it will be easier to interact with people. but you have to try 1000 times to talk to unknown people to feel relaxed.
Same1
this social anxiety is all in your head, you create a barrier that creates this phantom of a problem. You need to control your own mind and overcome this barrier.
It’s cuz u view it as a loss if ur get rejected. U lose nothing if someone doesn’t like you. Learn to love yourself and not rely on others for validation
It’s temporary state man. More practice (even if it could be the hell at beginning) = less anxiety in future interactions.
the camera kills it too my man, don't think they rejected you cuz they don't like you, they're just shy sometimes
Not necessarily shy. If someone sticked a camera to my face and asked me to a date, I would instantly feel alarms that this is some kind of social experiment and I maybe don't want to be an experimental bunny. Maybe only I would be curious to play just for the sake of game, gaining skills and my own personal scientific curiosity, but then it would say nothing about your true results of getting a real date in real life, right?
@@E-plunksna I was looking for a comment or a response like this. I agree in 100%. The camera in their face invalidates any response he got during the video.
Totally! A hidden a camera (face blurred to protect their privacy as they are not aware of being filmed) with a good microphone, would have been much appropriated. No girl wants to be on camera when you asK them out.
Actually asking girls out without any sort of conversation is probably not the best tactic. Nevertheless, putting yourself out there is very admirable. This is what we should all do, ditch the apps, and soon, the apps will almost become irrelevant as phone-boxes or landlines.
Ya I can tell you from experience I had a couple of girls hit on me, that I was checking out...but I turned them down or it fell apart for some reason and it's because at the time I was shy too...sometimes if someone is really forward/confident and you're not ready for it, you'll say "no, I'm seeing someone."
And they knew I was lying...so did I... don't take it personally, sometimes we have our own issues that stop us from being normal...hate myself for it, but shiit happens. When I'm myself, then I'm good...so never take rejection too personally maybe the girl was not ready for it....a non-direct approach is usually best.
Let's say I had problems with confidence growing up and I was nerdier and wasn't used to pretty girls hitting on me, I got better looking as I hit my late teens...but still was socially awkward. So even if a girl says no, she could mean yes and might change her mind later...but leave it be at the time, we all do silly things, esp. when it comes to dating/romance.
I’m a girl and when I first saw you in the video I thought “wow this guy breaks hearts for sure” because you’re handsome and very sweet
Can you pls explain how he is handsome? he looks like a 40 year old lesbian . Im really curious.
@@hansbendixen5430 bullshit
@@hansbendixen5430 lol that's a little mean but funny.
@@hansbendixen5430 ever thought about the fact that beauty is subjective?
@@JulianPawels yes. I would just want to hear the reasoning
Getting girls is like sending cv's for job interviews ,you will get rejected a lot but once you get one you will not even care about the rejections you had from other companies...
The reason you get so many No, is because you need to create a friendly conversation with her, before asking for her number
I'm 25 and never approached. Never flirted. Never been on a date. Absolutely zero experience with this at all. I don't think anyone has ever been interested.
Look for some info, videos on yt , books and start to approach bro, I were in same situation
Same here
I recently turned 30 and I am in the same position. At this point and in the current dating and financial market, not sure I even want to change that, as a very introverted guy and fairly successful I have my comfort, I'm used to being alone and I'm only willing to get out of the comfort zone for something I know will make me or my life better, something productive and meaningful.
And have little to no confidence that dating will do that. Obviously, if you meet the right person, sure, but these are difficult odds to beat today. Not saying this to discourage anyone of looking for love and starting a family, just be very intentional and careful to avoid being heavily burned or disappointed.
Same
Never give up man, go outside. Talk to anyone. Be friendly. Be the change that you want to happen! I dont think you can, i know you can!
“No I prefer to be single” after analyzing is wild 😂
yeah my exact thought...
This year ive been pushing myself ive asked 3 girls out this year and now i am going out with one. Just remember each no you get is one no closer to your yes
What's really cool about this video is you can tell when a girl is interested and is going to say yes. It's the sincere smiles and the eye contact.
YOU. ARE. THE GOAT. Learning from each one of your tries is good for anyone who wants to improve and be a little more extrovert.
honestly i respect this guy so much for doing this i have a crippling fear of rejection so i could never do this
After 1000 rejection you don’t care anymore
Nah, the guy's a weirdo.
1) You'll be surprised how many people feel the same way as you. 2) You'll be surprised how much people reject the "approach" and not the actual person.
16% is incredible! That is a amazing statistic my friend, much better than any dating app.
I hope lonely guys see this and understand it :)
Yeah tinder is terrible place
Tinder sucess rate less then 1%
@@oatmeal7818 Thats exactly why im saying its amazing.
Any average dude is going trough dirt and mud in the apps getting depressed and feeling bad about himself.
ya that's 1 out of 6 girls who said yes...that's amazing, if he has some rizz going in, rather than 'cold calling'...it would've probably been higher as others said, girls like to feel safe/comfortable with you first...so that's very good just on a random attempt without any rizz.
When this young man gets older and wiser like me, if you ask a girl out and she actually accepts and decides to cling on to you, you are in deep shit.
What, why
Best deep shit to be in😅
Hahaha, married man 100%
Cursing is bad
hahaha no shit!
For a guy to put himself out there and be vulnerable is impressive but honestly more hard work than it’s worth.
You look way better than many of the girls who rejected you. A lot of women just have crazy standards now days, but there are still some gems out there.
Have you considered the possibility that they'd just rather be single?
@@TactlessGuy Indeed, when a guy asks a girl and gets rejected, it's almost always girl's fault for some people, it's so upsetting seeing someone who doesn't accept a choice made from another person
A little harsh. Rando with camera in face asking you out. Very weird.
@@TactlessGuy Hence why I said "a lot of women" and not most women or every woman.
@Emanuele246gi
One of the factors for male suicide is not getting into a relationship. Male suicide rates are much higher then female. You do not comprehend what you haven't suffered. Learn more about people.
Getting 16% of girls go on a date with you is good
Overcoming fear of rejection is SUPERB and it is going to bring you much more joy than a date ever will.
Nice work!
They feel pressured if you just ask them out with the first line. Talk to them without any contingencies for a bit, and then when they gain a bit of trust and a feel of your nature , ask them to continue the conversation on a different location another time because you have to go now. If a woman approached a man and said wanna go on a date , the answer would be yes in most cases, but it's different when it's the other way around. As the weaker and less dominant gender they require to feel safe with you first before saying yes.
Maybe I will do the video in the future with little more game
@@iamigor4lamborghini looking forward to it , good luck!
@@iamigor4lamborghini yes try different approaches then compare the results, could be interesting
Yes, this is what I was going to say also. Need to build rapport first before asking. Most women in fact would probably say no if you asked them out straight up. But I do think Igor did well to get over approach anxiety
As a woman, I agree. Hesitation or “maybe” can serve to indicate to you that they don’t have enough information to make a decision. And it’s clear to see for me.
For women, there are serious risks involved in dating. We need you to speak enough or to see how you are with people to get a good character read and to feel that we are likely to be safe with you or that we might have any compatibility.
Asking a woman if she will date you without saying anything else first is like asking someone on the street if they will sign something.
This guy did an awesome job of confronting his fear!
"no, if you give me a million dollar,, maybe."
kinda crazy coming from a dumb fuckin ginger (that lady)
She ain't even worth $10,000 😂
she might've been trying to joke and see how well he can be at charming her....but true, she was average.
At least half of the " I have a boyfriend are a NO", that is the softer, nicer let down.
Dude way to go!! I think it's interesting that almost ALL of them "loved being asked" you could tell they were ALL smiles..haa
Well done, Igor. That 16% you got is actually pretty damn good, it probably means you are attractive above average. I wonder if things were different without your filming them with the camera.
I think some would react differently. Some will be less pleasant and maybe more likely to say "no." Others will be more likely to say "yes", when they know they aren't being filmed for the world to see.
Congrats, most ppl would get their confidence wrecked fully
I know, but I think after several attempts you don’t care anymore
@@iamigor4lamborghinithats in your case mate. If an indian guy did this, he would be brootally humilated, face looks of terror and possihly after asking 100 girls get a restraint order lol
Man I admire your bravery. If I did this I would probably end up with depression.
I really appreciate that you actually did it, unlike so much others that make these clickbait titles. You also got pretty successful with it too, it's motivating.
Your courage is an inspiration to every single heterosexual man. I hope you find true love. You deserve it, Igor. You have suffered enough.
Man you should do this weekly, Imagine what it’d look like in a year
Then he asked nearly every girl in Milano...
This is wonderful. I remember being 18 and wanting a girlfriend so bad I must have asked 20 girls in one night and striking out with every single one. I never did that again. As a matter of fact, I have never gotten the girl I really wanted, I only get the girls that want me.
thanks for your comment! I understand you! it's about trying, trying and trying! until you find the right match! but I know it's very difficult to find the girl you like physically and character-wise, sometimes you have to accept less
@@iamigor4lamborghini or accept nothing at all . . . It’s better to be alone than wish you were!
@@iamigor4lamborghini are you from Czech Republic? England?
Same. When I like them, they don't like me. When they like me, I don't like them.
@@kellywilliamson2187uh, you can stop a relationship either! Get your wish come true... (to feel better)
Never offer anything to a woman after she says no, it’s begging and it shows a-lot of negative traits in a partner/person which you never want. Secondly, some of these women that said yes are better looking than most of the “no” ones. Thousands of women in the world, work on yourself and keep doing this, the more interactions you have the better they’ll go.
Also 16 women, is 16 women, in one day or even a week, that’s a lot of women.
Yes you are right thank for advice
I'm utterly amazed that that many will say yes on the spot without knowing anything about you. You definitely have some sort of charm. Maybe your fearlessness!
"Do you want a better boyfriend?" and "I tried to convince some girls to leave their boyfriends for me" cracked me up
Hey I'm not a dating coach but from what I experienced is that you need steps to lead to asking them on a date. Step 1: this is what I do sometimes is (Compliment what they have on) Ex: "Those are cool shoes" or "That is a great outfit"
Step 2: after the compliment start a conversation based of something you complimented them on. Ex: " Is (blank) your favorite color" or " Are you fan of the (blank) brand?" or " Are you in (country) for work or vacation?"
Step 3: ask for their name. Ex: " What is your name?"/ (This is optional{ "That's a cool name} {Never met a (name) before.})
Step 4: Reveal your intention. once the convo dies down a bit make it clear (not that clear lol) what you want (" You seem pretty cool, lets (food/drinks or activity) sometimes" or "Let's exchange contact informations I would like to get to know you more" " (A hail marry) I would like to take you on a date, lets exchange contact information")
also read her body language if she seems closed off just end the convo on step 1 or 3.
Thank you for your advice ! I know you need to put more effort into, start with little talk and maybe later ask for a number , but the idea was to ask one question
@@iamigor4lamborghini ok
@@iggyw0bro that was some great advice ! Thank you ! I usually reveal my intentions as soon as I meet them and then start a convo. Sometimes I get lucky and it works but you’re advice is so much better. Thanks bro
@@AsherToperoff no problem man
I appreciate and respect those girls honesty who said immediately no, those who said maybe were afraid of offending you with saying no. It is perfectly fine if somebody isn't your type, just be honest about it.
The most humiliating part was probably getting rejected by the ones he didn't actually find attractive at all, but still asked them as a part of the experiment.
No, the worst is for the uglies to say yes then you have to make that decision of wanting to bust the slump or stay on the dry spell
I don't think any guy cares if an unattractive girl turns them down...he only hit on them for the video. You only feel hurt if you hoped they'd say yes.
Wow this guy is a class act. You can't get rejected if you don't reject yourself.
I'm so proud of myself for instantly recognizing Milano. It's like your video was recorded exclusively in the places that I visited.
The most striking thing about this video is how normal the girls are. No plastic surgery, no obesity, no anger, no profanity. Try this in Canada or the US and it looks completely different.
Yeah.
Half of them would have told you that they were lesbians or queer. Whatever that's supposed to mean.
It’s almost like he was selecting against those undesirable characteristics….hmmm….
So, come to Italy and try, this guy was in Milan😃
@@M4rciuZ I've been to Italy, Spain, Portugal, Switzerland, Germany and Lichtenstein albeit not for a few years. Can confirm that being slovenly is really frowned upon in public.
6:00 is the perfect example of why you shouldn’t quit gambling
Yo, 16 out of 100 is a really good outcome man! congrats :)
Seriously, I've heard from wise old men that 1/100 is average, so homeboy Igor did 16x better than that
Thanks!
Yup
If that is a good outcome I guess I will have to go through hell....
Bro you're a legend and a big winner. You've done what most guys are afraid of doing. be fking proud of yourself bro. You got another sub 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Rejection is always worse when you are really sincerely interested in someone in particular.
my take away from this is asking a first-time met woman on a date is quite likely to be a quick NO
you only get one chance in this scenario
@@mindthreatx yes and no. asking again is still possible (granted that will then not be a first-time met woman) Maybe someday women will take the initiative ALSO?
love how he put at 2:58 a messi clip after talking to a real madrid fan hahaha
Ahahahh finally someone got it
Girl #43 - "If you jump in the fountain."🤣🤣
if he would, he'd be arrested (in Rome he would). So I would ask her if she likes boyfriends only in jail - to make joke out of it.
yeah that part was fun
16% that's a better quote than on any dating app
I told my friend he needs to just talk to girls and don’t worry about rejection. Great video
I'm 59 never been on a real date other than for my senior prom, and for that I ended up taking someone I didn't want to because the girl I asked said no even when my folks were going to pay for both of us. In my 20's I asked out lots of girls, mainly coworkers and they wouldn't go out on a single date. They'd just give me the excuse of the day. I got so dejected I just went into a shell till my current age now retired and absolutely terrified of dipping my toe into the dating pool again but I also don't want to die alone.
never late to find someone with your interests. There are so many women 45-55 alone, in your same situation
Go to Southeast Asia. You won't really find a woman anymore in your age no less a good looking young woman. The single women at your age group are mentally ill due to not being able to swallow their pride of having rejected the beta males.
this is my biggest fear now that im in my 30s to one day wake up and im 60. Man im sorry this happened but how the heck did u allow urself to be dejected until that age.
One reason that I have given up on women in the West.
That's the brutal reality of life as a man
"i have a boyfriend, sorry"
"do you want a better one?"
"WHAT?"
5:33
Boyfriend rate 99%
It's the phone and the way you held it. I bet a lot of them would have said yes. Funny video.
16% with no rapport is actually very good IMO
10:43 Don't say that bro! You are enough! And don't let your demons tell you otherwise! You have more balls than 99% of men by doing this and that's something to be proud of. the setting would make a difference too, the lack of time to get to know them for a start, 16% is pretty good considering the blunt approach.
Thank youuuu
rejection DOESN NOT feel better the more it happens, it's kind of exponential
good job, in italy I expected a 99% rejection rate. even though almost all the yes are not from italian women as expected
You are right, here in Milan there are many girls from all the world
i'm italian, it's not 99% rate man. Go try for yourself
@@Ciskuss dipende , di che città sei? qua a brescia e citta vicine se la tirano un sacco
Italiani MAFIOSI
You are right, it's 99,9%
it's actually easier to win at Lotto than get a date with girls from Lombardy
a lot of respect for that my dude, it takes big balls to do sth like that
You're a good actor/director/producer! Keep practicing!
i wouldnt ask any woman on a date unless she smiled at me or gave me a look, its like a sign!!...no eye contact your wasting your time tbh
Maybe , but it was funny
@@iamigor4lamborghini not maybe, eye contact is very important
Dude this shit is the kinda video us guys need. Keep it up! Great content
Im your biggest fan, Igor. Please have my children.
hahah Thank you so much, maybe one day hahah
Good man. Polite and confident. Good job. Just talk to them. Right on!
The right way to lose fear is to slowly discover and understand who you are and the people around.
Getting rejected constantly is NOT healthy and risking a continued exposition to rejection is a WRONG APPROACH, as instead of removing your fear it might just make the problem worse, by adding frustration, depression and traumas.
What you need to lose fear is NOT some successes either, it is to UNDERSTAND the reasons why you might get or not get rejected.
You're right when you say getting lots of rejections isn't healthy (and could make the problem become worse)
In my early 20s, I remember developing some extremely unhealthy thoughts after getting subjected to rejections galore.
8:18 DID I HEAR i have a relationship with my dog
hell nah
look at 10:42
My duck ??!! 💀
I heard that too lol
Some of those were pretty attractive. Some tips. Don't say you pay them 1,000. You can't buy affection or attraction. Also if they say maybe, pull out your phone, hand it to them and say maybe you can put your number in. Say it with a smirk.
I want to buyyy everything in this world
@@iamigor4lamborghiniyou can't buy love. You maybe buy a date but is this worth a thousand?
You pay for food - of course, so she must have been hungry :)
It is much better to give them your number.
@@BikePappy no
@@DanTuber So much to learn. You do you though.
you get the yes, you say lets go right now
You are a cool guy. you can for sure improve how you look, becuase you have potential. don't give up!
“If you got rejected doesn’t mean you are ugly” awww
Honestly guys, ditch the camera, fix the hair, eye contact before, complement, then ask out. I guarantee you the success rate would be much higher than 16%.
EXACTLY... Eye contact is the first sign that you are ``her type´´. Yeah you may misinterpret her eye contact as interest but it will still be a higher percentage for sure
Good advice, I would add: Lose the earrings, maybe get more stylish clothes, make her laugh.
8 billion people on Earth, ca 4 billion of which are female, ca 2 billion are within dating age.
16% dating chance rate means you could date about 320 million women and you just need 1 to become your gf.
Yeah this is impressive
never give up Igor,daje my man
Thank you :) bro
Igor ! You're a beast ! Congratz for your courage.
Man 16 dates is actually crazy whaaat xD
Thank you!!
What happens man?? You have a legendary skin. Just Come to Brazil and you will be happiness, trust me
Ahahah maybe in future
in Brazil it will have 99% winrate
It’s interesting in European countries they are honest about it “you’re not my type”. In the west they gaslight men they aren’t interested in without being honest. I’d rather be told that I’m not her type than be flaked on constantly, or told lies
The west? Most of europe consists of western nations 😂
I think this really smart person refers to America or something, West from Europe 🤣
Bro he was in italy not in cambodia
@@lucaserafini9580Actually I live in "the west" (Netherlands) and they are here very open, straightforward and honest with what they think.
Brother going for number 98 was ambitious, I respect it.
I can take 2 important learnings from this: 1. You're gonna be definitely more confident and 2. Pareto 80-20sh apply everywhere. Nice job!
8:18 BRUTAL DOGPILL
Ahah
If a girl says maybe, not sure then go next. These girls are just timewasters.
Yes agree with you
There's no worse country then Italy to ask gout girls on date
Whyyy
Bro got 16 dates in a single day. I’d say that’s a massive W.
Igor it’s crazy how far this video has gone😂 So many people I know have sent it to me hahahaha greetings from girl number 7 and good luck in YT!!
now go to a gay club and ask 100 gay guys. Would be interesting to see what the difference is