Thanks to everyone's support this was a difficult video to make and I don't feel that I could cover everything I needed but I feel the point was there. When I say stop the world I want to get off I just mean take a break, eat some chocolate and watch K Drama's all day long LOL - nothing 'serious' so please don't panic.
You don’t owe anyone any explanation especially when it comes to health! People go too far, I’m sorry there were people who were too intrusive. Been thinking of you, wishing you a speedy recovery! ❤ take as much time as you need
I LOVE your boundaries... I am shocking for oversharing out of pressure. I love that you've set those boundaries. It is a legit struggle. I am anxious about content and every week I think "this will be the week" and then it gets to when I have the time I just can't do it?? I know you weren't just talking about content but that's where I went. Thanks for being you. (Sorry I've been MIA)
Thank you so much for seeing this I was thinking about you when I spoke because we chat a lot about this as you have been a great partner to vent with content creation is hard and some times juggling it with everything else is a nightmare!
Boundries people!!! Oh my goodness. You should never have to justify what you choose to share with people :( People's expectations are full on and creepy! I am so glad you are recovering, please take the time you need, you don't owe anyone and explanation or anything else x
I’m so glad you are putting up your boundaries and holding space for yourself right now!! I’m really sad to hear people have crossed personal lines like that, it is a bit scary in this day and age with unlimited info at our fingertips, and the ability to create parasocial relationships. I’ve just gone through a really rough month also, and giving yourself time and grace to feel your feelings is so very necessary! 💜 Hoping you are doing well :)
I’m the same I think. I like a quiet life with lots of privacy. It’s nice to hear someone recognising and talking about it and their boundaries. Very honest. ❤️
Even at 56 I still can't believe how rude and weird people are! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. You're such a sweet young lady and hey, here's to introverts! I would be so proud to have a daughter like you, you're a good soul ❤️
1. You don’t need to explain yourself but love seeing your face and knowing you’re ok. 2. You’re looking damn gorgeous for someone who has been through so much. 3. Keep on keeping on ❤❤❤
Lovely to see a video from you Kelly whilst you are on the mend. So sorry to had to go through that! Sometimes people say things without thinking which can be so hurtful and unhelpful. Thank you for sharing things with others that you want to share. Take care and rest up. Can’t wait to see another video when you feel up to making another one! xxx
Just for your information I was baptised and confirmed on Saturday evening. I then had communion on Sunday morning. I was baptised by the bishop of Salisbury Stephen and was the first done by him in the font at the cathedral. Just a crazy few days. I don’t push and know you need time to rest and recover, both physically and mentally. It’s sometimes easier to say your fine but not.
You have lived in your body 100% of your life,you know what your boundaries are. Sometimes you just need to say no,I'm begining to say it more and more often. I'm so glad you are healing,both mentally and physically.
Thank you for taking the time out to make this video. I was wondering how you were doing and hoping you were healing well. I wish you the best as you deal with everything going crazy in your life atm and hope you find some peace for you and your family. ❤
Really happy 😁 to see a video 🎥🎞️ Kelly and that your on the mend 😄🫂💗☺️ I hope you have a nice week 😊 and waiting here to see you next video 🎥 when you can ❣️
What a lot of people don’t understand is that by sharing a story of something similar that happened to their “sisters, dog groomers, paper boys, best friends granddad” their re-traumatizing you 😢 happens to me all the time with medical induced ptsd. They have good intentions but force you to relive things you’d rather forget…they make a good day 💩 proud of you for putting up boundaries dear 👏👏 but sorry people stressed & freaked you out. Hope you continue to get better & better ❤🤞🙏
Thank you for sharing what you have been feeling & going through - you don’t owe anyone any explanations. Looking after yourself & your family is the most important thing. Keep shining doll 🌈
Thanks for posting Kelly, I was getting worried glad your “ok”, and yep I get you, your the most important person so you just need to look after you and don’t feel guilty 😊 I looked back over my messages and thought oh god I hope that wasn’t me 😂 So good to see your smiling face and hear your voice, just keep getting better x 🌺
just sending good thoughts your way , some people should mind there own business, your personal information is your alone , try & be real people mind your manners , oh yeah some people don't have any ! 😊🙏
Your feelings are valid and if I was in your shoes I’d feel the same way. I’m glad you have created boundaries and stuck to them. You are 100% in the right. I know from experience not everyone is caring some people are just feel entitled and want to know everything.
I am so sorry Kelly that you had to go through this. You don’t have to tell people what you don’t feel comfortable with. People should not ask you about your private life. Just want to say you are a beautiful and wonderful lady🌷💜
Yes Kelly, I totally get it! I have been wanting to reach out to see how you were but knew how you'd feel about that. Please know you have been in my thoughts. Boundaries around personal stuff is so important. I'm always interested in what people have going on and would love to ask a heap of questions but also it's none of my business and people will share what they are comfortable with sharing. I've missed your content but please take whatever time you need to heal.
Wow it’s nobodies business. People need to understand that. I’m a major introvert, empath and have health anxiety at times. I could think of nothing worse than people harassing me for personal medical info or other peoples horror stories. You don’t need that when you are already feeling fragile. I have about 3 people in my life (other than immediate family) that I would share personal stuff with. I think since social media everyone seems to think over sharing is normal 🤨. Sending much love your way. Take all the time you need to recharge and heal 💗
Thanks yes I was sharing to a point as I thought well it's life and I want people to know generally what's going on but then medically it took a turn and I thought I don't feel safe sharing people were critsiting me for being sick and I just had enough! So many people saying 'don't worry about what others think' I'm not worried, I'm calling them out as I'm sick of it.
@@FrugalFunMum exactly, it’s fine to share what you feel comfortable sharing but for people to pry for more info is rude. It’s exhausting when you are unwell and I can imagine how mentally exhausting all those messages would be, even if they mean well.
Its ok, not to be ok! ... I'm glad you're on the mend. My friend and I were talking recently about how transparent people are since Covid. Saying what illness you have on your out of office, socials etc. Why can't we be just be private and not feel like we need to justify or share our situation with people especially those who really don't care?
I completely understand where you are coming from about people overstepping the boundaries. I feel like being on social media people tend to feel a sense of entitlement, that the person or influencer is obligated to share everything with their audience or following and nothing is sacred. Self-preservation is extremely important. I'm selective about what and where i share. somethings don't need to be shared.
Thanks I was sharing as I thought that's who I am but then things got more serious and I was struggling with some trauma from it too so I thought I'm not going to share more online for a while now.
I use to watch that show when I was younger! I've had to limit some interactions with people who are very angry about it and I can't verbally say that because it will just fuel it even more and also makes me angry when I talk about it so I just edited it out.
Sounds like this has been a bit of an eye opener for Kelly. The internet (and life) is full of sticky beaks. Welcome to the world of content creators. It is kind of giving me "Small town vibes" where everyone knows everyone's business and then before you know it, everyone is talking about it over CWA scones. Are you still 2 weeks ahead? If so, I hope things have started to settle and you are starting to feel more like the old you. On a side note, Would it make a difference if it were Tom asking the personal questions? :D
@@FrugalFunMum No I haven't missed the point. People on the internet (and in life) often feel they are entitled to information even when it is personal. They want to have an explanation and are often surprised when people assert themselves and do not disclose it to them. This behaviour can often be and feel quite intrusive especially when someone is vulnerable or doesn't want to divulge any information. The information or lack of it often becomes the talk of the town. It can be like a double edge sword. No matter what is said to the entitled person, it usually finds its way to others. That aside, I truly hope you are getting back into your rhythm and appreciate the time you have taken to respond.
Thank you for sharing this video🌹. I fully get what your saying and lots of people don't get it, which is really bad for the indiviuals that need to be a bit more private. Your life, the one that you live outside of TH-cam is private💝
Thanks to everyone's support this was a difficult video to make and I don't feel that I could cover everything I needed but I feel the point was there. When I say stop the world I want to get off I just mean take a break, eat some chocolate and watch K Drama's all day long LOL - nothing 'serious' so please don't panic.
You don’t owe anyone any explanation especially when it comes to health! People go too far, I’m sorry there were people who were too intrusive. Been thinking of you, wishing you a speedy recovery! ❤ take as much time as you need
I LOVE your boundaries... I am shocking for oversharing out of pressure. I love that you've set those boundaries. It is a legit struggle. I am anxious about content and every week I think "this will be the week" and then it gets to when I have the time I just can't do it?? I know you weren't just talking about content but that's where I went. Thanks for being you. (Sorry I've been MIA)
Thank you so much for seeing this I was thinking about you when I spoke because we chat a lot about this as you have been a great partner to vent with content creation is hard and some times juggling it with everything else is a nightmare!
Boundries people!!! Oh my goodness. You should never have to justify what you choose to share with people :( People's expectations are full on and creepy! I am so glad you are recovering, please take the time you need, you don't owe anyone and explanation or anything else x
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Ahh people feeling they’re entitled to personal information and unsolicited advice… the worst!! Good to see you back here ❤
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I’m so glad you are putting up your boundaries and holding space for yourself right now!!
I’m really sad to hear people have crossed personal lines like that, it is a bit scary in this day and age with unlimited info at our fingertips, and the ability to create parasocial relationships.
I’ve just gone through a really rough month also, and giving yourself time and grace to feel your feelings is so very necessary! 💜
Hoping you are doing well :)
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I’m the same I think. I like a quiet life with lots of privacy.
It’s nice to hear someone recognising and talking about it and their boundaries. Very honest. ❤️
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Even at 56 I still can't believe how rude and weird people are! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. You're such a sweet young lady and hey, here's to introverts! I would be so proud to have a daughter like you, you're a good soul ❤️
Thanks x
1. You don’t need to explain yourself but love seeing your face and knowing you’re ok. 2. You’re looking damn gorgeous for someone who has been through so much. 3. Keep on keeping on ❤❤❤
Thanks x
Lovely to see a video from you Kelly whilst you are on the mend. So sorry to had to go through that! Sometimes people say things without thinking which can be so hurtful and unhelpful. Thank you for sharing things with others that you want to share. Take care and rest up. Can’t wait to see another video when you feel up to making another one! xxx
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@@FrugalFunMum ,
You are most welcome! xxx
Lovely to see you and so glad you are doing okay!
Thank you so much!
Just for your information I was baptised and confirmed on Saturday evening. I then had communion on Sunday morning. I was baptised by the bishop of Salisbury Stephen and was the first done by him in the font at the cathedral. Just a crazy few days.
I don’t push and know you need time to rest and recover, both physically and mentally. It’s sometimes easier to say your fine but not.
You have lived in your body 100% of your life,you know what your boundaries are. Sometimes you just need to say no,I'm begining to say it more and more often. I'm so glad you are healing,both mentally and physically.
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Boundaries ! Take care ❤
Yes! Thank you!
Take good care, Kelly! Take all the time you need ❤️
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Thank you for taking the time out to make this video. I was wondering how you were doing and hoping you were healing well. I wish you the best as you deal with everything going crazy in your life atm and hope you find some peace for you and your family. ❤
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Really happy 😁 to see a video 🎥🎞️ Kelly and that your on the mend 😄🫂💗☺️
I hope you have a nice week 😊 and waiting here to see you next video 🎥 when you can ❣️
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Glad that you are doing better,everyone needs some down time,to many people need to know too much.
Yep
What a lot of people don’t understand is that by sharing a story of something similar that happened to their “sisters, dog groomers, paper boys, best friends granddad” their re-traumatizing you 😢 happens to me all the time with medical induced ptsd. They have good intentions but force you to relive things you’d rather forget…they make a good day 💩 proud of you for putting up boundaries dear 👏👏 but sorry people stressed & freaked you out. Hope you continue to get better & better ❤🤞🙏
I knew you would get it x
You do you! Dont worry about the world!
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Thank you for sharing what you have been feeling & going through - you don’t owe anyone any explanations. Looking after yourself & your family is the most important thing.
Keep shining doll 🌈
Thank you so much!
Thanks for posting Kelly, I was getting worried glad your “ok”, and yep I get you, your the most important person so you just need to look after you and don’t feel guilty 😊
I looked back over my messages and thought oh god I hope that wasn’t me 😂
So good to see your smiling face and hear your voice, just keep getting better x 🌺
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just sending good thoughts your way ,
some people should mind there own business, your personal information is your alone , try & be real people mind your manners , oh yeah some people don't have any !
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Well said!
Your feelings are valid and if I was in your shoes I’d feel the same way. I’m glad you have created boundaries and stuck to them. You are 100% in the right. I know from experience not everyone is caring some people are just feel entitled and want to know everything.
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I am so sorry Kelly that you had to go through this. You don’t have to tell people what you don’t feel comfortable with. People should not ask you about your private life. Just want to say you are a beautiful and wonderful lady🌷💜
Thanks x
Yes Kelly, I totally get it! I have been wanting to reach out to see how you were but knew how you'd feel about that. Please know you have been in my thoughts.
Boundaries around personal stuff is so important. I'm always interested in what people have going on and would love to ask a heap of questions but also it's none of my business and people will share what they are comfortable with sharing.
I've missed your content but please take whatever time you need to heal.
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Thank you for sharing from your heart. I appreciate you & your words. I could relate to many things you have said.
Thanks for watching!
glad to hear you are on the mend and taking care of yourself in all ways including establish healthy personal boundaries. Good for you. x
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So pleased you are on the road to recovery on all levels. Do things at your own pace Love and Blessings ❤
Thank you, I will
Sending lots of love to you and your family.❤
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So good to see you again, yes, it is ok to not be ok. I'm so glad to hear you're on the mend. Good Luck and we will be here when you are ready.
Wow it’s nobodies business. People need to understand that. I’m a major introvert, empath and have health anxiety at times. I could think of nothing worse than people harassing me for personal medical info or other peoples horror stories. You don’t need that when you are already feeling fragile. I have about 3 people in my life (other than immediate family) that I would share personal stuff with. I think since social media everyone seems to think over sharing is normal 🤨. Sending much love your way. Take all the time you need to recharge and heal 💗
Thanks yes I was sharing to a point as I thought well it's life and I want people to know generally what's going on but then medically it took a turn and I thought I don't feel safe sharing people were critsiting me for being sick and I just had enough! So many people saying 'don't worry about what others think' I'm not worried, I'm calling them out as I'm sick of it.
@@FrugalFunMum exactly, it’s fine to share what you feel comfortable sharing but for people to pry for more info is rude. It’s exhausting when you are unwell and I can imagine how mentally exhausting all those messages would be, even if they mean well.
Hi Kelly,
My gosh i can so relate to this!
Its definitely not you at all....some people just dont understand.
Hope your ok x ❤️
Thank you so much!!
So great to see you. Do what you need to do and look after yourself. Take care.
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Its ok, not to be ok! ... I'm glad you're on the mend.
My friend and I were talking recently about how transparent people are since Covid. Saying what illness you have on your out of office, socials etc. Why can't we be just be private and not feel like we need to justify or share our situation with people especially those who really don't care?
Yeah I did a first video and I mentioned that people have either no empathy or they just don’t care
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I completely understand where you are coming from about people overstepping the boundaries.
I feel like being on social media people tend to feel a sense of entitlement, that the person or influencer is obligated to share everything with their audience or following and nothing is sacred. Self-preservation is extremely important. I'm selective about what and where i share. somethings don't need to be shared.
Thanks I was sharing as I thought that's who I am but then things got more serious and I was struggling with some trauma from it too so I thought I'm not going to share more online for a while now.
👏 great vlog! Nice to see you. No guilt my dear I hear you.
Thank You
So happy to see you!
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My go to is All creatures great and small, I’m queen of ignoring people even family.
I use to watch that show when I was younger! I've had to limit some interactions with people who are very angry about it and I can't verbally say that because it will just fuel it even more and also makes me angry when I talk about it so I just edited it out.
I have a chronic illness but iv only told my immediate family, no one else has to know.
Sounds like this has been a bit of an eye opener for Kelly. The internet (and life) is full of sticky beaks. Welcome to the world of content creators. It is kind of giving me "Small town vibes" where everyone knows everyone's business and then before you know it, everyone is talking about it over CWA scones.
Are you still 2 weeks ahead? If so, I hope things have started to settle and you are starting to feel more like the old you.
On a side note, Would it make a difference if it were Tom asking the personal questions? :D
No you have missed the point I’m calling out the behaviour and people thinking they are entitled to information!
@@FrugalFunMum No I haven't missed the point.
People on the internet (and in life) often feel they are entitled to information even when it is personal.
They want to have an explanation and are often surprised when people assert themselves and do not disclose it to them.
This behaviour can often be and feel quite intrusive especially when someone is vulnerable or doesn't want to divulge any information.
The information or lack of it often becomes the talk of the town. It can be like a double edge sword. No matter what is said to the entitled person, it usually finds its way to others.
That aside, I truly hope you are getting back into your rhythm and appreciate the time you have taken to respond.
So happy to see you back hun,your business is your business,please take time for yourself,love that smile, appreciate you 💐👍🤗
Thank you so much!!
Thank you for sharing this video🌹. I fully get what your saying and lots of people don't get it, which is really bad for the indiviuals that need to be a bit more private. Your life, the one that you live outside of TH-cam is private💝
Exactly!!
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What’s wrong
Just overwhelmed by people after being sick