Narcissist, Pedophilia, Hebephilia and The Invented Child (ENGLISH responses)

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  • @andrewferguson3535
    @andrewferguson3535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This is exactly what the narcissist grandfather did to my children. Kissing them on the mouth, watching them bathing, in appropriate touching of the inner thighs, etc etc. They’re so fucking sneaky it’s all deniable.

  • @freerangebutters3758
    @freerangebutters3758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I definitely get the feeling and the vibe from whenever a narcissist personally attacks me I can hear it in their tone of voice especially from a malignant narcissist it strikes you to the core and makes you feel like one. Especially when you've been sleep deprived, it's a very disturbing and unsettling feeling and it's something that you don't want.

  • @violaymaite17
    @violaymaite17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Boundaries are a most have tool,
    For a Parent to instruct their child
    for Safety Precautions.....Very Good Topic!

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Viola Y Maite yes, even when you know your child isn’t in the presence of a child abuser / psychopath
      It’s very important to teach our children how to say no. To anything they want to. And especially to say no to being abused.
      Because there are many people out there who can’t say no to themselves, and prey upon people who don’t know how to say no.

    • @My_House_
      @My_House_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jep, unfortunate I didn't have them much and afterwards noticed how much I "paid" for that 😐 So, have to start over again and make them myself, isn't easy.

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My_houSe I’m sorry to hear that and hope for the best for you in recovery
      I went through some abuse as a child but always maintained my boundaries and ability to say no somehow,
      I am in my 20’s now , but recently had a certain boundary infiltrated by a narcissist. I heard of the word narcissist throughout my life but never knew of the extent of these psychopathic behaviours in society until I started learning about them in my 20’s.
      It can feel like being an innocent bull/cow being stabbed over and over for being able to say no, unlike the psychopaths.
      And once your ‘no’ is broken/ raped from you, it can feel very much like complete death after a slow death.

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No child or adult wants to feel like a sacrifice to relieve psychopaths of their concepts of guilt and shame.
      And certainly also nobody wants to be used as a pawn to continue the cycle of abuse.

    • @My_House_
      @My_House_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Martin-zr2tb thank you and take care for yourself. Codependent raised children are vulnerable for the ones that see the lack of boundaries. Once the "wrong" is made "good" with the precious choosen words it's hard to set boundaries and say no because you get confused every time. Makes some people high sensitive what brings a lot of good things if you use them well but also a lot of conflicts because people don't understand what you do , especially on work ect 😐 But hey, worst things in the world right now so let's hang in there and work on it while sitting in home 🙂

  • @jakifamily
    @jakifamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "Little Women" is the title of the novel

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I stand corrected. This segment was shot after 8 days of seminars and lectures, 8 hours per each day! Ironically, the night before I unwound by watching the recent, feminist rendition of this quintessential 19th century novel.

    • @rachelrosen5501
      @rachelrosen5501 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samvaknin Only you, Mr. Vaknin lol

  • @terrorshark6836
    @terrorshark6836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My ex was 50 when i was 18 when we broke up 8 years later and he left me so he could have sex with teenage boys i called him out on it and he hated me for it

    • @thechosen1826
      @thechosen1826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You should call the cops he needs to be put away

  • @ellenpropaganda
    @ellenpropaganda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I got really disoriented for a moment when the video started to speak in my native language, wasn't expecting that lol

    • @ellenpropaganda
      @ellenpropaganda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@uhno827 no it gave me permanent brain damage and I'm being fed on tubes

    • @victordima5259
      @victordima5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is that magyar?

    • @ellenpropaganda
      @ellenpropaganda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victordima5259 yep, it is

    • @tonAnTv
      @tonAnTv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same XD

    • @rheinhartsilvento2576
      @rheinhartsilvento2576 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ellenpropaganda 😁😆🤣😂

  • @ellenpropaganda
    @ellenpropaganda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    On hebephilia and pederasty, it was a really shocking experience for me to read for the first time The Symposium by Plato, which is a dialogue on love and in which homosexual relationships between old men and really young boys are endorsed and basically idolized. That dialogue shows how the way they were thinking about children was indeed shockingly different than that of today.

    • @Monikamusic02official
      @Monikamusic02official 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That is absolutely disgusting. It's rape. Children cannot give consent. It's grooming. It's sick. Leave kids alone.

    • @Xylospring
      @Xylospring 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Monikamusic02official I'm disturbed by Ancient Humanity.
      I swear, we need to find ways to actually remove attraction to children by any means.
      We need to delete that from human conciousness.

    • @Xylospring
      @Xylospring 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Troy Master Begone Troyll.
      Anyone who is should commit dishonorable seppuku

    • @cmorche
      @cmorche 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Brian J That's not true! I live upstairs at my parents house. My brother still has the basement 😟
      Thankfully I've also never played Fortnite though 😋

  • @JG_1114
    @JG_1114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I admit, teenagers are really pretty more often than not, no doubt about that! But how or why were laws around a legal age enforced? If I looked back on my 12 to 15 year old self, I’d be creeped out if some old dude was attempting to make an unwanted pass. And Pre adolescence.... children 👶 are not physically developed yet!! Mentally and emotionally, they can’t handle being in that kind of relationship with a grown adult!! Ask anyone who was sexually assaulted at those ages.... they all grew up to be traumatized adults, some of them can’t function nor have healthy adult relationships. They usually have a lot of disturbing issues as a result of having that happen!! It’s not normal for a grown adult to be sexually attracted to a small child (unless that person is sick in the head!) as much as a HATE saying this, I can understand mid late teens, some (admittedly) can pass for 18-24. I can understand someone seeing someone who’s youthful and who appears physically developed and relatively mature not knowing someone’s a minor (especially girls because they do mature faster than boys even physically) I can’t honestly say that is abnormal. But, a child is not ready for such things and they never want to engage in such with an adult!!!

    • @eleeyah4757
      @eleeyah4757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      > I can’t honestly say that is abnormal.
      There's a reason one of the most commonly shared pieces of advice between men is: "Have her show you her ID."

  • @lindacovello7823
    @lindacovello7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    There needs to be clarification regarding your statement about “active” pedophilia and fantasy. I may be misunderstanding you here because you mention the proliferation of child pornography on the internet. You’re not saying it’s okay for them to act out their fantasies with child porn, am I correct? Children being used for pornography is despicable and a serious crime that is a scourge in our world.

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Linda Covello I think he is trying to catch more bees with honey than vinegar; And the general question was an approach to societal progression away from child abuse and psychopathy , so he was trying not only to appeal to the active abusers, but to anyone with a mentality of child abuse they don’t feel they can control it, to progressively get free of it,
      he is acknowledging it like ad addiction, like quitting a drug, and how to go about getting a group of drug abusers in society to lose the addiction that is harming everyone
      As much as some people like to pretend things like this don’t exist and go about their life, they must be discussed to end the cycle of abuse
      He seems to be taking an approach not only fully accepting (not denying) these things exist, and the psychology behind them, but appealing to the mentally-ill who commit these crimes that they are not alone even in the sense that most fathers have at one time viewed there teenage daughters through a sexual/objectifying lens, it’s just that they usually acknowledge there daughters are turning into mature sexual women and they are beautiful and then they move on mentally
      He is saying, the videos are out their, and their are sickos that have them and watch them, and basically asking the people who do and who aren’t able to overcome their perversions to please stop the cycle of abuse in anyway possible
      I know to average people it can sound weird to take a softer approach on such a sensitive topic. But he is like a P.hD master at this.

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kind of like a person who doesn’t want to be a part of animal abuse and it’s industry anymore (vegans). They stop eating meat , then dairy, eggs, etc.
      Lots of people just say they can’t, and continue to kill and eat meat, some people take steps towards ending abuse and some people are full vegans.
      And I don’t mean to undermine your view on child abuse by comparing it to meat eating.
      But it’s a good analogy.
      And I’m veg 😂🌿🍎🍓

    • @lindacovello7823
      @lindacovello7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Martin He made himself clear regarding the attraction fathers may experience towards their teenage daughters, or any young woman for that matter. The Police wrote their first hit song about a teacher asking his female student to not stand so close. I agree with him that it’s instinctive for men to be drawn to beautiful young women and their wiring would be faulty if they weren’t. It’s the DNA imperative to replicate itself. Much like this virus, but I digress. Society has evolved to a place where there is torture porn, snuff porn, bestiality porn, rape porn; it’s all there for any taker, as with the vilest manifestations of child porn. Even people who believe they are stuffed animals have their porn. Much pornography is created without consent from the subject/s. A child hasn’t achieved the intellectual capacity to choose to consent to sex with anyone or anything. A violation of a sovereign being’s right to consent is a violation of a natural law. Children are no less sovereign than adults and their sovereignty ought to be considered even more sacred and inviolable as they have yet to become corrupted. It’s adult behavior towards children that creates their corruption. Adults must aspire to choose their behaviors consciously and selflessly particularly towards children. Children are very precious.

    • @Martin-zr2tb
      @Martin-zr2tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Linda Covello well said, exactly.

    • @lindacovello7823
      @lindacovello7823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Martin thank you 🙏🏻

  • @C4RYB34R
    @C4RYB34R ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you really are brilliant Sam.

  • @bellesterbeatty3571
    @bellesterbeatty3571 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes! My narc really liked his baby sisters. Waited for them to pass before he left me. A fourteen year old is too old. It goes beyond playing Dr.
    While coaching girls basketball, he said to me, "Aw, the smell of pre- pubescent butts." How sick!!

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😳🤮😳

  • @justapeacefulmanwhosbornin7291
    @justapeacefulmanwhosbornin7291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tens of thousands of pedophiles regardless of gender between 16 and 78 years of age, they should be ashamed of themselves and they really need help.
    Millions of hebephiles regardless of gender in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s does exist for thousands of years.

    • @glennerd3125
      @glennerd3125 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dont forget 1/3 of "them" are female.....

  • @JERRYNELSON-c2d
    @JERRYNELSON-c2d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Worked some peds before crazy people they don't stop and some admit they won't stop m9st very creepy😊

  • @aurliogascon3770
    @aurliogascon3770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is Narcissistic Paraphilia?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have no idea. There is a lot of nonsense out there. Beware.