I didn't know my ethnicity until I was 16! - EP 8 // HoyosGarden Podcast

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  • @yaayaa2985
    @yaayaa2985 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Firstly, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I don’t usually watch your videos but stumbled across it on TikTok. I feel for Tariq, his whole identity was questioned. I think the age of 2-5 yrs children can comprehend what their racial identity is, the earlier the better. The mom needs to sit down her son and apologize, start off by validate his feelings and explain to him why she kept a big part of his identity a secret without going too much into details but also giving him the closure he needs.

  • @naemaj4616
    @naemaj4616 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sometimes we forget that it’s not about parents and pointing at each other’s mistakes but it is about kids and there needs come first

  • @xx6551
    @xx6551 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mashallah they are very sensible kids I hope they are comfortable with discussing such personal matters publically. God ease all your affairs, you’ll all do well regardless dw many people have a similar story

  • @dessert.soul1
    @dessert.soul1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    you should do a mukbang while you tell us more about yourselves especially how it was during your pregnancies at such a young age and how raising them was also moreeee prankssssss to keep the vibe going i love the content you guys give us

  • @youheard03
    @youheard03 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    17:41 I hear it but you gotta put your feelings aside , even though u got all the reason to be mad but sometimes better late than never

  • @Mu-binaa
    @Mu-binaa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not me listening to Tariff's mom taking about how last minute he is, reminding of an assignment I have to submit tomorrow and have forgotten about 😅😅
    In LMD WE TRUST 😂

  • @itsmetheone7423
    @itsmetheone7423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can we talk about healing personally or motherly and a son mother relationship how it heals after arguments or conflict

  • @zubh3860
    @zubh3860 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The mother was kinda cruel for hiding his ethnicity, im not judging but it’s sad. Shout out to the son for taking it in stride and not holding it against his mother.

  • @JackChit-pv3dj
    @JackChit-pv3dj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Man. jamaican dude must’ve hurt her for her to deny him altogether

  • @1hunna877
    @1hunna877 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is the mother will get abused on social media for her decision she needs to hold herself accountable she’s trying to blame the Dad but if the father isn’t a Muslim then it’s on her she decided to do the act these are the consequences ask your son and Allah SWT for forgiveness and don’t expose it on social media the son is young but when he grows older he’ll hate that his life was exposed for a podcast.

  • @AndreyaGreen
    @AndreyaGreen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No accountability from the mother, why did his mother keep it from him for so many years and think it will have no impact on their relationship

    • @AndreyaGreen
      @AndreyaGreen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel it for him, not knowing your identity is hard

  • @mohamedabdillahi6180
    @mohamedabdillahi6180 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These sisters are shedding a lot on many Somali sisters scenarios. Sharing a different view one men social media hates Somali men but the reality is it’s about character every race has bad character.

    • @ugaaskacadde3961
      @ugaaskacadde3961 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢😢😢 Men are all the same Evry where 👍

  • @IsmaAragto
    @IsmaAragto 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How many times did she say YAH, YUP 😂😂😂 Someone count it

  • @IsninaYussuf-ek3mq
    @IsninaYussuf-ek3mq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow mashallah😍

  • @Idiris-zw4md
    @Idiris-zw4md 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yemen and Jamaica 😂😂😂

    • @AnjolaoluwaLawal-i9u
      @AnjolaoluwaLawal-i9u 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No Tareef is Somali and Jamaican his brother is Somali and Yemeni

    • @shafsteryellow
      @shafsteryellow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AnjolaoluwaLawal-i9u you can't be somali if your dad is not

  • @josephomoikhodion-oye
    @josephomoikhodion-oye 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how is he mix race if both parents are black?

    • @amzyblues405
      @amzyblues405 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Somalis don’t think they are black 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @GeeljirePower
    @GeeljirePower 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lool, ceeb baddana both have ajnabi kids and both got abandoned by their pops

    • @shafsteryellow
      @shafsteryellow 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mac sonkor😂😂

  • @hidingamongthecommentshell2619
    @hidingamongthecommentshell2619 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    get them a 1000 like please inshAllah it happens

  • @fathia-oyindamola
    @fathia-oyindamola 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m early today😊🎉.

  • @sarahgawdan2215
    @sarahgawdan2215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Somalie maman ❤

  • @youheard03
    @youheard03 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why she lie? Was he born out of wedlock or sumn

    • @Loola345
      @Loola345 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      don’t accuse

    • @fj6465
      @fj6465 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why does that matter ?

    • @MomentofCorrection
      @MomentofCorrection 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesn't matter coz children born out of an Islamic wedlock are considered "illegal " aka bastards