So what? You want to break up with me? [F4M] [Roleplay ASMR] [Misunderstanding] [Fight]

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  • @Number_254
    @Number_254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was really good, definetly a hard topic to tackle. I, as guy, do emphatize with what the listener's feelings in that situation. This make me feel like the speaker tends to unconsciously prioritize Blake over her SO, and Blake seems to not respect the boundaries the speaker has, as it was shown when she told him not to call her when she is spending time with her SO unless it is really important. Blake does respect the speaker but, at the same time, it seems like he doesn't care about what the listener may feel with the constant interrumption he does when they spent time together (va and her SO). That call was definetly the breaking point, if it were an actual emergency, it may not have scalated this much, but the content of the call and the fact that they were about to have a serious conversation before the call, it must have make the listener feel like he doesn't matter as much as Blake, hence getting frustrated and snappy. This was just a little fragment of the relationship and the interaction they had with each others, i just Made some assumptions that may or may not be right.
    Well, people do say that the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
    This was really well done, can't wait for the next part.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for your comment 😊
      I absolutely agree with you on Blake being the one to blame here as he was bothering character (VA) when she clearly said she doesn't want to be bother at this day. I would compare it to typical brother/sister problem, when one doesn't respect other's boundaries.
      It will be kind of a spoiler, but this is something I want to talk about in part 3 as he clearly is in the wrong and needs to be reprimanded on this. I'm not going to say exactly how it will go, but everything you have mentioned will be talked about.

  • @jerrodbelford2489
    @jerrodbelford2489 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This audio definitely hits your emotions like a hammer, but this type of situation is also very real for people. My brother went through a similar situation with one of his girlfriends, where she had a "guy best friend" that wouldn't respect the boundaries of the relationship, and my brother gave her an ultimatum to either cut off contact or he leaves. She chose the breakup avenue.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your comment 😊
      I am so sorry to hear about your brother's story. It definitely was a very hard time for him 😔 Sometimes it's like choosing between bad and worse option and there is no common ground. I believe in communication and if somebody doesn't listen to other person's requests, they are the problem. Of course, I don't know the full story here so I am not going to say who's at wrong here but I hope your brother got over it and is better. Best wishes to both of you 🙂

    • @jerrodbelford2489
      @jerrodbelford2489 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@RitneyASMR He did get over it eventually since he's married now, but I think they were both at fault for a lack of communication on what the boundaries were early on in the relationship.

  • @victorch.2137
    @victorch.2137 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys waited 6 months for the second part? I'm new in this channel and I don't know if I have the strength to.
    And now about the video. I can relate so much with listener here, that feeling of, despite being the boyfriend seeing how one person constantly doesn't respect that kind of limits and somehow you seem to have less priority in the life of someone who says that love you.
    Flashabacks.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for your comment and I am glad to welcome you on board on this channel! Hope you will enjoy what's coming in the future 😊
      I am so sorry you had to go through someting like this 😔 I hope that now you are okay and feel better than at these times 😔🫂

  • @Azura-16
    @Azura-16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    super curious about where this goes (hopes they work it out) Blake seem to not care/disrespect their relationship and even speaker seem to ignore how uncomfortable blake makes the SO, im not saying she had to cut blake out of her life but at least reduce the time she spends with him, her apparent unwillingness to do so, shows a lack of understanding and respect of her how her partner feels ...and maybe it is just me but if your partner isent your best friend i personally feel like something is off balance/wrong with the relationship from the start.. gods this was so good cant wait to hear part 3 😊

    • @schmietwechdeschiet4340
      @schmietwechdeschiet4340 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seems really one sided, dont you think? Like completely ignoring the fact that Blake has a fiancé AND is planning on marrying them very soon? I feel that stems from alot of unwillingness too.

    • @Azura-16
      @Azura-16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@schmietwechdeschiet4340just because he has a fiance donsent change the fact how super uncomforable blake make the partner and things need to change for the relationship to be healthy.. and simply reducing time spent together could do the trick. It dosnet have to be forever just untill the partner feels comfortable again, She should be able to do that easily but refuses that compromise very Very Hard, the partner of course should do the same if this was reversed.. her unwillingness to do so speaks volumes and she lacks the maturity to make the relationship into a longterm one, compromise is the way forward and how you maintain a good and healthy longterm relationship

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for your comment! 😊
      Oh yes, she definitely doesn't see this as much problem to be such close friends with Blake as he is "like a family". Well, the thing is, in eyes of others it doesn't have to look the same way as to both of them. That fight was brutal, but it is kind of awakening moment for her about everything, which will be talked about in part 3 😀

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for your comment! 😊
      Well, character (VA) is aware of him having a fiance so she isn't really butting into their relationship. In this video, it's more Blake's fault as he wants her to be a part of his wedding, but he is doing it in a very pushy way (by calling too early to talk about matters which can be talk about later, especially when she asked him not to bother her). But in overall scenario, both of them don't see a problem to be close because they are "like a family", which creates a very big, problematic misunderstanding to Listener and character's relationship. That will be definitely talked about in part 3 much more 😁

    • @schmietwechdeschiet4340
      @schmietwechdeschiet4340 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Azura-16 still one sided. Yes Blake needs to respect the boundaries set by her and listener when it comes to "their time" but just because Blake being a dick, doesn't mean they are cheating. These are 2 very different things.
      and that's basically my point. Spending too much time together, yes okay i give you that, im on your side. You in a relationship with the listener, not blake. But making the leap to cheating is a big one! and shouldnt be thrown around like this.

  • @Dredd-JB
    @Dredd-JB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't believe in pure friendship between man and woman. Always at some point one of the two develops romantic feelings for the other, I have seen and read too many cases in which exactly that happens to believe otherwise.
    I have always believed that you must put yourself in someone else's shoes to understand the problem. By doing that you can see where that doubt or insecurity comes from and give it a solution.
    Good video and we'll see what happend in a posible part 3.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for your comment 😊
      I can understand it as a lot of people don't believe in this kind of friendship. I personally do as I know couple of people who has this kind of friendship and there was never anything romantic going on between them. But of course, I respect your opinion and agree that sometimes there is no possibility for friendship like this to work.
      I absolutely agree with you about being put in someone's pov to understand the problem. Which, actually, will be a topic mentioned in part 3 🙂

  • @hot_soup4319
    @hot_soup4319 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The thing is right, I don't feel like anyone is really in the wrong aside from Blake.
    It is 100% understandable that Listener would be weary of Blake. Blake kissed his girlfriend in a drunken stupor, and while they want to pretend it never happened and continue being buddy-buddy, this isn't something you can just sweep under the rug and forget about. Seeing your girlfriend continue to hang out with the guy you know for a fact has/had feelings for her, going so far as to kiss her, has to sting. He's got every right to be skeptical of the guy now.
    It's also 100% understandable that Speaker wouldn't want to cut ties with Blake. They've been friends forever and are practically family, they don't want one particularly bad incident to ruin that bond forever. Cutting him off forever wouldn't be easy or simple, even if it was potentially for the best. However though, even if her feelings are purely platonic, it's clear his aren't, hence how we got in this mess to begin with.
    It doesn't help that Blake is purposefully breaking set boundaries too, being told not to call unless it's an emergency and then calling anyway just to chat. I get Blake wanted her to be a Groomswoman, but that conversation could've happened the next day and nothing would've changed other than he'd actually have respected her wishes. And also Speaker and Listener would be cuddling happily instead of taking a break apart.
    In short, any way you slice it, Blake is the problem. Honestly, I think someone needs to ask what Blake's fiance's thoughts are on all this. Having to now be a bystander, having to watch your fiance's best friend's relationship fall apart because of something *he* stupidly did, that's gotta weigh heavy on the mind.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for your comment 😊
      Oh no, I think you have either mistaken other video of mine with scenario of VA being kissed by her best friend when she has Listener as a partner or you misunderstood the line she said here.
      In this scenario: she was never kissed by Blake and she never want to be kissed by him. In her eyes, he is like a brother to her so the sole idea of being kissed is disgusting for her (and in this scenario, Blake also think the same way as her). So there was nothing romantic between them ever. The only thing that is a problem here is that Blake is very demanding of her (VA) attention and is annoying her, like a brother would annoy/bother a sister, absolutely not taking into consideration her requests or needs because he wants to bother her.
      I absolutely agree with your point of view and, if that would be the case that Blake ever kissed character (VA), situation would be much more complex and disturbing. But thankfully, they never did anything romantic towards each other. So, all of this is kind of misunderstanding, but Listener has every right to be upset with this situation as it looks suspicious to him.
      Which is why part 3 will be there in some time to finish this story on some note (don't want to spoiler how), so stay tuned 😁

    • @hot_soup4319
      @hot_soup4319 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RitneyASMR well now I just feel silly lol

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @hot_soup4319 Haha, no worries there. Happens to the best of us from time to time 😁 But your point is very valid here and I thank you for it ☺️

  • @nathanblack0286
    @nathanblack0286 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad you continued the overthinker-video, because this one touched me personally the most. Yeah, you know the story behind it... 😇
    Your performance was outstanding! She showed so many different emotions in this video and you acted them just terrific:
    I was feeling the anger and her irritation in the second half. Same goes for her fighting spirit during the whole dispute but also her despair and sadness towards the end. 🥺
    Oh, and don't forget her romantic and lovely attitude at the beginning. 🥰
    Where to begin with? 🤔
    That phonecall! It was awesome to listen to! 🤣
    Did she say "19th" time? Maaaaan, Blake isn't really getting it, right?🙄
    Exciting how she put her "bestie" back on his place, when he called her in the wrong moment! 😂 Definitely a girl who you don't want to mess around with at the wrong moment... She's so cool.
    Makes me wonder: Is Blake cool with it, too, because they're besties, or are they REALLY getting beef here? 🤔 ... You know: I mean, the way how close buddies are talking to each other....🤷
    (-> "F off, bro!" She's adorable and has good manners! 🤣)
    She really didn't do ANYTHING wrong here. I'm totally flashed and excited about how much effort she puts into fixing this whole situation.😳
    It was important and so good, she took this for serious, even if his whole imagination about Blake is SOOO abstract.🤦
    About her boyfriend: I ... am ... really ... shocked!
    Damn, he overreacted way too much! I genuinely tried in vain to understand him: What happened in the previous part seemed to leave a big scar at him. But that doesn't explain his reaction....😮‍💨
    My thoughts are still circling around his reaction: Eventually HE has something going on and just needs a reason to break up?
    At least HE is leaving the house ... (...like a gentleman....)
    Puh, that was heavy stuff... 😰 I hope her boyfriend gets his mind back on the rails and the situation will turn out well again.... I feel so sorry for her. 🥺
    Especially at the last minute, after the door closed...
    ------------
    What she said at 11:11 was such a beautiful part... Honestly: Doesn't matter how angry I would be, I couldn't resist her words. 🥰
    His response afterwards is all the more incomprehensible to me. 😳 (And her confusion is so impressively acted there! 😁👍)
    When she defended the friendship with Blake at 16:37, that got me thinking about my own past. I wish, I had done something similar back then, too. 😓
    I was just too much driven by my partner, my relationship... the possible future, possible family, etc.... 😮‍💨
    Damn! She's really on fire at 18:00! I love her fighting spirit and her temperament which she's showing there! 😤
    But then a bit later, when she starts losing hope at 20:08 and falls in despair... This sad moment left a stinging feeling in the chest... 😰
    ---------------
    So, Ritney.... congratulations! You absolutely rocked it!😋👍
    Great script, awesome voice-acting, thrilling story, exciting character and some kind of cliffhanger at the end... what a great show! (especially if you listen to both parts in a row! 😉😉😉)
    I'm so excited about part 3. I can barely imagine how this will turn out from this point on.... Damn Ritney, you're thrilling me with this story!
    As I mentioned earlier, my thoughts are running wild: Maybe he attacks Blake in part 3 or something dramatic like this will happen?
    PS: My favourite phrase is totally: "We're a team. We do not leave each alone with anything, alright?!"
    This is such a cheesy and lovely one! 🥰
    PS²: Congratulations to your first playlist! 🤣...😅
    🍾Here’s to it not being the last!🥂

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for your opinion, Nathan! ☺️
      Well, who knows what will happen in part 3. I can only spoiler one thing: I plan to make it a long video (I really think it will be like 40+ minutes one as it will be ,,epic conclusion", closing the story) so anything can happen. We will see 😉

  • @dsweirdgirl5708
    @dsweirdgirl5708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Damn.. I agree we could've approached this issue better... But Blake is an inconsiderate prick, does he not have a partner of his own? Can he not relate? What if it was another man bff dping all that inconsiderate sh*t like calling when specifically asked not to and was told the reason why but still called her anyway. This makes my blood boil.
    But beautiful acting, awesome script, delivery was superb.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your comment! 😊
      Yeah, this is unspoken problem he doesn't see as "it's not his problem", right? Well, character (VA) will definitely have something to say about this in part 3 because he deserve some reality check 😉

  • @HaiAkuSydney
    @HaiAkuSydney 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your voice is so majestic

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Oh my, thank you! You flattered me with such nice comment 😊

  • @code_zzz
    @code_zzz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was great, cant wait for a continuation

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! I'm glad to hear you liked it and will wait for part 3😊

  • @nathanblack0286
    @nathanblack0286 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great performance, Ritney! 😁👍
    And what a shocking sad ending...
    But that was absolutely worth waiting for and a total surprise. I haven't guessed THIS video would get a continuation.
    Total cool surprise! ☺️👍
    And you're right to make a part 3! I'm already so amazed!
    Too bad I'm struggling right now to get the spare-time writing any comments... 😖
    Well... Relaxed times will come soon! 😁✌️

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much, Nathan! 😊
      No worries! Don't feel pressured to write a comment if you are busy. Like ... You can see how recently I am struggling with being online and I am not able to reply as quickly s I would like to 😅 So no pressure. You can update me later on your thoughts when you will have a moment, if you want to 😁

  • @CALABUNGER
    @CALABUNGER 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its her own fault

  • @ComfortsSpecter
    @ComfortsSpecter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ah, Sad
    Great VA

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 😊

  • @Tom_Nu
    @Tom_Nu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This audio was so incredible, love the storyline here, thank you for your incredible talents Ritney

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much 😊 I am trying my best to get better and better for you guys 😊 It is all of you who inspire me to get better at creating stories/content as it is not for me. It's all for you ❤️

  • @sammcfarlane2494
    @sammcfarlane2494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your voice

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @sammcfarlane2494
    @sammcfarlane2494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there gonna be a part three.

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, there will be part 3 in some time. Not sure when as there is a lot of other projects to finish first, but definitely it will be there 😁

    • @sammcfarlane2494
      @sammcfarlane2494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RitneyASMR thanks

  • @skyyvll6622
    @skyyvll6622 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Part 2?

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually, this is part 2 of this one story 😁
      There will be part 3 in some time in the future, so I hope you will stay tuned for it 😊

  • @lljw9455
    @lljw9455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤|Great video!! I hope you are doing well!!#-

    • @RitneyASMR
      @RitneyASMR  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you 😊 I'm doing fine, thank you. I hope you are doing well too 😁