'I Was A Baby Mama For 4 Years', Omawunmi Says There's Nothing Wrong With Being A Single-Mother
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2021
- On the show, Nigerian singer, Omawunmi says it doesn't really matter if a child is raised by a single mother or not, if she's capable enough, she should take care of her child alone. What are your thoughts?
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Marian speaks so calmly... I wish I can be this calm.
She's my favorite
Nah practice the calmness go chop o
I think that a child is better off with a responsible father and mother. There are values I got from my father on one hand and other values from my mother. Two good heads are always better than one. However, if circumstances cause single parenthood then the subjects shouldn’t be put under a microscope but encouraged and supported.
Beecee seriously preaching 😆😆.. Such a beautiful discussions ladies... Thank you for educating us the more
Thank you for this ☺
What if Daddy is coming to be another child that you didn't even give birth to...that got me.
I am a single mom by choice and I am proud of my choice.
Same. I choose it. I wanted a baby I got one.
Good day ladies, I really enjoyed your show.iam a single mother in uk ,when I was pregnant my boyfriend went back to Nigeria and didn't come back I raised my handsome boy to university level and got Masters degree he is working and he is in early 30,just waiting to be a grandma, and I have nurture Children here in uk that they are doing very well. I took the roll of motherhood from very early year in 1987 I took care of my brother and sister both by then they are 9years old in uk,they are doing very well in their Career in uk. People should respect single mothers.Thanks you so much for all you are doing .God bless you.Thanks Aunty Sade Alade .bye
Weldon mummy, u re an inspiration
Beecee like shaking table. I love her vibe
Beecee that's why I love you; Minister of breaking tables. You've spoken well my darling, you've cried out for those voiceless children, God bless You 🌷🌺🌷
Hmm, are there really more women than men? Or maybe we just have a few responsible men who are truly ready for commitment.
They are not more women than men. I wonder were Madam Beecee got her statistics from
Omawumi is super fun and interesting.
This was where black America was 20/30 years ago. She where they are now.
Minister of another thing 😂
I love this lady, Omawunmi❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omawumi is a vibe
No child want to be raised by a single parents.
Thank you so much
So lovely.
Do not touch what you do not have good intentions towards, stop the games.
Love the show👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
❤️ Beautiful Blessings
I love this woman becus you show us awerness how think
love today's topic
Mariam looks stunning👸🏾
Which is Mariam?
Indeed I love the song BS though I feel it ended kinda abruptly... Felt it should have gone a bit longer, nevertheless though, beautiful song,lyrics and video.... Omawunmi was very beautiful in it too, loved are costumes.
Hanty Beecee yaf break table finish 😂😂😂
How the hell does he know that all single women are fertile?
Nice show
I will say both sides are right, Host and clalers, I will say that marriage is good if you're lucky enough to get a good spouse and can be regrettable to either party if they are so unlucky, African has a problem with tradition it is true our way of life mostly in Nigeria about the family union is loveable but not everyone is cut for marriage, and it can not be approached with the one-yard stick, we can not approach every situation with the same measure, and that's why it is dangerous to judge people from afar. Not all married wives are good mothers so also not all single mothers are bad mothers, I will fault a marriage that brought in a child without the means to care for the child than to fault a single mother with means for which that child can live a comfortable life.
... "what if daddy is coming to be another child that you did not give birth to..?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂
Marriage marriage, there are African women who put up with abusive and narcissistic behaviour from their husband behind close doors so individuals within the community would not judge them. Madness! There are married couples raising children who are giving society challenges just like there are single parents raising children who are problematic to society.
BC be calming down
Who is this caller? Did he comprehend what was being said
Tread carefully. We can’t generalise.
All those children on the road begging for alms every where in Nigeria are they from the single parents…No they have a mother and father and yet they can’t take care of their children..
beeceee ... action lady
I think the challenge today is that women seem to have lost their sense of values. Those values were what made our parents wonderful and our youths stupid. There is a reason why it takes a father and a mother raise a child. The USA that you refer to as the standard is suffering from it today.
It is not the matter of USA
So many people that came from single parent's families are either bad or good just like how people that came from a family with both parents are either good or bad...
So what are we saying
If our parents are so wonderful, why is Nigeria and their leaders so corrupt. If the USA is so terrible, why are Nigerians migrating there?
@@co6429 so it's not a problem if you disagree or you already migrating there. The reality of the parenting experience is better leaved than theorized. Just put your ears down and listen to what goes on in the black community. If you don't feel challenged by it raise your kids that way. I am proud of the values instilled in me by my parents and you can't put a price on it.
@@factsandopinions577 You have a point and I concede to it. However if both parents are around, there are culturally assigned roles that helps to balance a child's perspective more. Most of the mothers are very instinctive and resourceful. Most Fathers are virtuous and diligent. This and a mix of certain virtues not polluted by the west and treasured by us help us stand out. If you were raised here properly you would not want to be associated with the mess that parenting is fast becoming there. As for leadership we learnt this so called democracy from them. They are not corruption free.
My brother!!! Thank you. You pulled it right out of my mouth. I would like to ask one of these so called host how they will feel if their daughters decided to become a babyma.
Let's not leave the instructions of God to us as humans on the issue of procreation
Lol 😂 I appreciate the caller calling out the ladies. You are all Married and you are encouraging single motherhood. It reminds me of Beyoncé singing single ladies while married lol 😂 😂
Women use your senses when listening to this discussion. Don’t let these women lead you astray. Two is better than one.
If you listen to them objectively, you would understand where they are coming from. They disserted the issue to understand why single hood exist. That last caller is religious so you wouldn't expect otherwise. Bcee hit the nail on the coffin by criticizing Hassan's comment. I have seen families were both parent don't have time for their kids neither do they show love . The key ingredient is showing love to the child which is lacking in this generation. To buttress further, Morayo talk about a Christian lady who has been virgin till she got to her early 40's. She wasn't married ( men where not asking for her hand in marriage) yet she decides a child. Would you say that she shouldn't have a child?. The level of hypocrisy is too alarming especially in Nigeria. They frown against polygamy yet they people's daughter to be first wife. What happens to other women, who will marry them? They condemn single hood yet they critic polygamy, haba
@@edowitch4703 I can tell this is a touchy subject for you. They made some valid points for some single mothers But again single motherhood should not be encouraged. You can encourage single mothers without encouraging single motherhood. Just my opinion.
there are things that a child need emotionally from both parents. There are plenty of children dealing with daddy issues today because their father was not present in their lives.
I don’t know any single mothers who would prefer single motherhood. Usually Circumstances lead them there...
If you are single mother how can you talk to ur boy child and you always talk to ur girl child only because not everything you can discuss with ur son
@@ItsAllAnillusion it is expected since your view is cultural and religious
@@ItsAllAnillusion You do know that there are people that had their fathers all their lives but they still had Daddy issues? Having responsible parents is the key, not physically present but emotionally, spiritually, financially absent father or mother.
Really some daddy are children themselves oooo
Is there something wrong with Mariams Mic. if yes they need to fix it if not she needs to speak louder. she has good points but one is just straining to hear what she is saying.
With regards to single parenthood people should generally mind thier business.
People killing themselves to conform to what "society " wants is the problem we have to today. Everyone do what works for you .
Afterall some of those judging have kids within marraige but are enduring miserable marriages.
Mariam, please always move your hair away from the microphone that's why it's making that scratching noise. Thanks!
The percent of women to men is not that big. A lot of countries in the world are not having major wars. Thus men are not being killed at the levels justify them having three or four wife’s.
There are countries allowing women to marry multiple men!
You can buy certificate but you cant buy experience, your view ladies,better listen to YK when she is taking.
The ladies are all married n they are encouraging single mother. The guest said she was once a single mother but now married, why not stay as a single mother. Viewer's don't be deceive ooo, nothing like single mum just woman who don't want face challenges. Marriage is not a contract of enjoyment only.
The extremist in you Nigerians does not disappoint. Way to go twisting what she said as if she was encouraging single motherhood. Smh
@@co6429 My thoughts 😀. We need serious help!
. Please look at the meaning of single parenting before displaying your ignorance.
For your mind now, you done comment. Nonesense.
You make a lot of sense. Correct
It's Jesus that makes the difference. No matter how battered, crazy and scattered your life and relationship is, he can fix it if you allow him. No man or woman can give you Absolute peace
I dont know what that caller Hassan was yanning. Being married doesn't mean you are giving a child good training. He is saying those single moms think they are okay and arrogant cos they have money......
Can I ask a question how many of the so called married men are involved with thier child's upbringing, most just see thier role as to drop money and thats it. So if the men are just dropping the money and not participating in the emotional upbringing then what is the point if the woman can provide the same money herself?.
The man goes to work comes back crosses leg and watches news and that's it. Its the woman running helter attending to the needs of the kids.
So if he is just a figure head (in many cases not all) why not just delete him from the equation.
Many women enduring in thier marriags now are only doing so because the man holds the financial strings if not they would be out of ther in a heartbeat.
The statistics show single parenthood is not ideal. As much as we like to say both genders are responsible, the woman gives access to s"x, and the man to relationship. The woman still ultimately decides to have a child. The man can participate but he can't make that ultimate choice as to bring a child into the world, so the woman still has the most responsibility. Single parenting should not be 'encouraged' as the child has a right to both parents, a child is not an accessory: there are exceptions but a lot of women won't 'settle 'for a man until it's too late and then justify having a child on their own. You should have a good answer for your child when they ask for their father. The society is starting to undermine the value of Fathers just because there are some bad ones : they are just as relevant as mothers.
Then the men should make themselves relevant & also a child can come unplanned by d man or woman so the woman should not be to blame
And it is still people like you that will judge ladies that abort ...
Society needs to mind its business.