TALKING ABOUT IT.. and then i'm moving on!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ต.ค. 2020
- HEY MY BABES,
Firstly, I just want to check that you're all ok? and if not, that's fine because I think a lot of us are a little lost right now.
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Having just emerged from a four month lockdown in Melbourne, I can confirm second lockdown hits different. It’s definitely much harder. Don’t place too much pressure on yourself to be doing things/being productive, or even being able concentrate for long periods of time... take each day as it comes. Getting out for a walk each day or every other day definitely helped. You can do it! Melbourne has recorded 0 cases today and there were zero cases of community transmission in Australia today. There’s a light at the end of the pandemic tunnel!
Thanks so much for your advice and it's nice to hear you've all come out the other side 💜
Couldn’t agree with you more! It’s definitely harder, but I think it feels more rewarding when we get to see that 0 cases 0 deaths for a few days! It’s a long road but it has to be done. ❤️ sending love to Emily!
We had a 4.5 month first lockdown here so we know what it’s like. The second lockdown will not be fun but let’s hope it’s the last 🤞🏽. The U.K., however, will never have zero cases and the expectation or hope that we will is ridiculous. Australia and New Zealand are exceptions due to their isolation from the rest of the world.
@@RiddimKingdom it’s not a competition. I didn’t mention any expectations for the UK as I know it probably will never get down to 0 cases. I’m simply commenting on my second wave lockdown experience. Victoria in Australia had one of the toughest and longest lockdowns in the world so I think it’s fair to comment on if you want a truthful experience. The UK is now modelling their lockdown strategy from Victoria’s plan and it is still not half as harsh. Of course Australia and New Zealand are isolated as countries but the lockdowns only occurred in specific states through border closure measures. The UK can do this.
@@RiddimKingdom no one cares if you had a lockdown half a month longer than og poster she’s just trying to encourage people that it will be okay it’s not a competition and she never said that the uk would be anything like Australia - just let her be happy that shes near the end of lockdown now jeez 🙄🙄
Thankyou so much for the group chat you made on discord! I work at a school with young children and feel so vulnerable at the moment, it’s also lovely to have people to speak to about things, it is really lovely and really does being a spark to my day! Thankyou Em! ☺️💖 anyone else on this video on the chat?
I really admire that you’re being so open and honest.
Thank you kindly for being authentic. Love you!
I completely agree with every word you’re saying. This second lockdown is going to be so much harder than the first time round. We all need to stick together through this
Thank you for spreading such a supportive message of mental health. I’ve been having a really tough time and It helps to just hear people talking about it. So thank you 🥰
It really helps knowing you feel like this to, sometimes I feel guilty for feeling down when I’m in a good position considering. Also think the group chat is a really good idea! Thank you 💕
You hit the nail on the head for me explaining you’re reasons by the way your feeling I feel exactly the same and I fell so guilty for feeling sad etc even though very week i feel so much better now so thank you as I thought I was alone feeling this x
Thanks for being so honest about your feelings! You're right, it isn't easy on anyone right now. I feel guilty about telling ppl I'm having a hard time, because I just feel like the answer is, "well we all are!" So I don't want to put more negativity or burden on someone else going through the same thing.
I really appreciated this vlog. Thank you💖
Thank you for this video, I feel the exact same way as you and seeing people online act similarly to those in your video who were having a party baffles me! lets just remind ourselves that we are doing our bit to protect the ones we love, it's just a shame that some others don't think about others when they are doing those things xxx stay safe everyone, mentally and physically, I am sending virtual hugs to anyone who needs one right now!
Thank you for talking about your emotions around the lockdown situation. We all need to stick together and be open about our mental health, especially at the moment ❤️
Literally I'm just out of uni with a creative degree, I am lucky to have started a work from home 9-5 and have security on income and a flat but I feel so stuck not being able to get into the industry and start doing what I love and building a career and this has effected my mental health so badly. At the same time feel like I cant complain because at least I have a stable safe job and a place to live. Your little talk made me feel so much better about how I feel, like a chat with a friend so validating thank you xx
I’m so glad you’ll be with your family this time around so they can support you and lift you up! ❤️ I’m so worried about lockdown too, I majorly struggled last time but I’m hoping in a way we can be slightly more prepared next time and know our ‘lockdown triggers’. Sending you so much love! Look after yourself xxx
I don’t usually comment on videos but when you were talking about your own feelings being valid even if someone else’s situation is worse has really opened up my eyes! I struggled mentally during lockdown but was constantly told that I was being ‘dramatic’ because others didn’t have what I had. Of course it’s important to be aware and try to help those who don’t have a home and food etc but being aware that your own feelings are also valid is so important❤️
What you’re saying is so true, and so important to address. Thank you!
Also, I really appreciate how you fixed the sound issue in this video with subtitles. That was very helpful :)
Take care!!
I would so so appreciate the ‘eat with me’ at dinner. I’m a teacher and I live alone. I feel really vulnerable right now and would love to be able to be a part of that.
Feeling awful for England! I live in Edinburgh but its made me so anxious about what could be round the corner! Sending all my love to you all! We can get through this! xx
I am a mature fan. Thank you so much for talking about this. People need to hear this, Emily. You are an incredibly responsible creator by not pretending and that helps so many realise their feelings are valid x
Love your videos these days! Much more chill and normal ❤️
Hi Emily,
I totally get how you are feeling. The logical part of ones brain says "this needs to happen and it is the right thing to do" but the part that needs social contact to remain healthy is screaming for nourishment. Its times like these that you realise it isn't just the big things that are important but the little things as well.
I started this year with a few good things on the horizon that were almost balancing out my "stress bucket" which was already brimmed primed to overflowing I live alone and I can't even form a support bubble with my parents because to do so I would have to make them choose between my brother and I...and I won't do that to them.
I am hanging on to the hope at the moment that my next flying lesson (I already have a licence but I'm in the midst of converting to a new type) which is on Wednesday...the first good weather day in a month, will go-ahead, gloves, masks, no different to doing a driving lesson in that regard so hopefully I will get my last flight of the year in (like you I don't expect the brakes to be taken off this before next year) aviation being my main social outlet. I don't like it but if it has to be so then it has to be so.
The one thing that I hope that doesn't stop is my appointments at the skin clinic, facial hair removal, being trans it is the one thing other than hormones that is immediately important and in the last lockdown that stopped, I am hoping this time it won't as the rules are different.
Be good to yourself (and that goes to anybody reading this) and as Emily said, if you need help, please, please, please seek it out.
Stay safe everybody and maybe when this is all over we can have a party or something.
Love and Hugs, Mel xx
Im so sorry to hear this emily and i feel the exact ssme but if you feel you need to take a break from yt we all support you and i hope you are ok
You spoke about this so eloquently. Well done Emily, thank you for making such a difference x
M we got this girl keep your chin up high and I hope your okay I've been in since march as I am vulnerable but I am very lucky and grateful for my friends and family were all in this together 🥰 x
You are so kind ❤️❤️❤️ I appreciate this video so much
I feel really weird about this lockdown. I struggled like you did through the last one but I feel like I know what to expect this time so I feel more confident in being able to put things in place to allow me to be able to deal with it all a bit better. It's not a great feeling though and my main worry is my 1 and a half year old who has been very hard to entertain the last few months anyway, now we won't even be able to go out to a cafe for an hour just to get her out the house. Your discord sounds like a great idea. Stay safe all x
I’m from Melbourne in Australia. We just came out of our second lockdown. 112 days. It was tough but we got there. You guys can get through this too!!
The last 3 days we have had zero cases and zero deaths. You can get the numbers down so your hospitals can cope!
Sending love your way xx
I worked through the whole of the first lockdown for the nhs and now it’s really affecting me mentally. We can do this 💞
thank you so much for this video. i coped quite well for the first half of the first lockdown but i really don't think i will with this one but this video really helped. thank you emily and i hope you are okay xx
I’m grateful I still can have my support bubble. I don’t know how I would I deal with it living on my own. I can still see my support bubble which will keep my mental health going strong- I hope
Omg hey em, you’re so incredible 🤍
Wishing you the best Emily x
Thanks for being real Emily, I know it’s hard but we’ll get through it! At the end of the day, this is just what we have to do so we can go back to normal soon enough. If you look at the rest of the world, you can see how other countries have gotten through it and their cases have gone down. This is going to make us stronger if anything, I love you and stay positive 💜
Seeing other people party is a huge struggle for me as well. So frustrating when you know what you are sacrificing personally. But you have to just focus on yourself and do what’s best for you.
Thank you for being so open and honest about your feelings. Would love to see ‘eat with me’ episodes! ❤️ Love from Lisbon
Thank you for this video Emily I so needed to hear what you said, I really hate the idea of another lockdown 😭 xxx
You are amazing!!! Just remember that you are surrounded by the most incredible friends and family. Mental health is extremely important and make sure you put yourself first lovely💓
Thanks for doing what you are doing, Emily. You are the best! Xx
This is the first time i really could relate to you... We got this tho. Make a schedule, keep busy, and don't overthink about all the bad scenarios 💪🏼💪🏼
So sad to see you like this but thank you for being open as so many of us feel the same way, it is kind of comforting to see we are not alone! Sending you so much love Em🤍. P.S, is that a new watch? If so what is it?! Thinking about getting a fitness watch to help me get some steps in throughout lockdown but not sure what is best!
Sending love to you Emily!!
Thank you x
i hope you are okay💜 as i’m in school and they are still open i’m not actually too downed about this x
Emily I love your vlogs! Theyre my favourite content from you! Hopefully you keep posting (event the days that may seem boring in lockdown) because they really motivate me!
“We are not all in the same boat, but we are all in the same storm”
This is just cute 🤍
Like this
Love this 💜💙
thank you for creating the group chat 💛
thankyou for making the discord chat Emily!! xx
No worries lovely
love u, always here ❤️❤️
You got this x
I'm from Melbourne, Australia and we've only spent 3 months not in lockdown this year (January, February and June) It's been such a tough time and so hard on everyone we're only now slowly starting to get back to some sort of normal. I hope you're doing okay, make sure you're looking after yourself you will get through it
It's such a difficult year, but fingers crossed there will be light at the end of the tunnel 💜
Your ideas are lovely
Honestly, watching your videos is so lovely. You always make my day better and put even a small smile on my face. You honestly feel like a friend and I just love that about you and your videos. I hope you’re okay Em 💕
This is so lovely, I hope you are safe and well too 💜
@@EmilyCanhamVlogs aww! 🥰 Thankyou Em. Trying my best to stay strong 💕
Emily is just so amazing
Thanks for keeping it real
You can do it and I feel bad for everyone else because in Australia 🇦🇺 we had no new case aus wide today so just know you will get through this really long tunnel!! ❤️❤️ also if you need help talk to someone or call a helpline!
Thanks so much Sophie, I'm so happy that you have a positive story to tell xxx
@@EmilyCanhamVlogs all good you will get through this, and I mean we will all get through this! 🥰❤️❤️
I hope you get through this all good Emily, sending my love. You should have called the police so those idiots get a huge fine and don’t put lives at risk again.
Discord chat is a great idea, I have one with some of my friends :) hope you feel better about everything soon, em. I've been made redundant from work so it's not really affecting me yet, but i can imagine how it will for some. (i just logged onto the chat- it's popping off!!)
please stay safe and remember to keep your head up
Honestly her content is the best💙💙
Thanks so much
I struggled at the start of the first lockdown then one day I woke up with a different mind set like a switch went off. Was a little upset at the weekend about it for a couple of reasons but I think in a better place and better prepared this time round.
You always make me smile Emily !
So does your comments 😊💜
Not looking forward to it. 3rd year student mental health nurse, currently working on placement (for free) and also working hca shifts alongside that. Exhausted already but now I wont even have the distractions I normally have to offload/stay happy/have FUN. I hope you manage, big hugs x
You always brighten my day hope your well and safe much love as always x
Thanks so much ily 🥺 x
We're in second lockdown in Ireland at the minute and if I was out of work again I don't know how I'd cope being stuck at home again with nothing to do. I feel like since first lockdown I realised I need to be productive and be doing something and I need to routine in my life
Sending you so much positivity and love💗
Sending the same to you xx
sending you aand everyone who needs it a big hug ❤️
We got this Emily 💪🏽🥰 you’re stronger than you think
Ooo love these vlogs!! Xx
I'm sorry to hear your going back into lock down. I live in Perth Western Australia we are so very lucky here we haven't had any community spread for over 6 months and we don't have to wear masks. How ever we have strict boarder control and everyone that does enter our state has to quarantine. We have a great premiere who cares about our State and the people who live here. Take care of yourself and to everyone out there.
Everyone’s problems are important to them
Emily, you are amazing! and I know you will get through a 2nd lockdown and we are all here for you. The party that was happening near you is why I am so upset. because I know the majority of the country is trying their hardest but it's because of mishaps like this that we are having a second lockdown, I really don't understand how they can do it. And your words about how everyone is going through their own difficulties and that we can't compare ourselves is so true and I'm so happy to know that you think that. sending all my best wishes to you, and keep smiling....and to anyone else reading this, know that you too are amazing a beautiful and can get through this. it is okay to have a down day and to rest and know that we will overcome this. xx
Everyday we move forward💫
Emily no matter what happens you can do it,you got your family round you and James at the end of the phone or FaceTime! 🤍
You and all of us can get through this together like an army
I love u em u r amazing u r brave to talk to Adam about how u feel about lockdown and COVID I feel fine I just get bored sometimes when there nothing else to do I watched Adam’s advice videos and he gives great advice he is smart and wise I love Adam 💜
Lots of love and positivity to you and your family during your lockdown 💜💜
Sending positive vibes to you 💜
HAVE A GREAT DAY EVERYONE!!
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I had my first baby this year. It was so nerve racking wondering how it would all work with the delivery, if ide be alone at the birth and that and I got through that. Stay strong, we're all in this together❤️❤️
I am due my first baby next week and the fact we are entering another lock down just before her due date fills me with anxiety. Xxx
@@ihatebananas6468 I'm not sure about your area but in mine I was allowed one person with me whoever you choose so you won't be on your own. I still got the support I needed at the hospital so don't worry. The birth centre and labour ward work just as normal throughout. The only difference is only the one person with you and if they come in they can't leave. Your not alone. Try and relax and enjoy it chick. Any questions or worries just comment on here❤️
I found the first lockdown incredibly difficult. I think the fact that we didn't know when it would end, and it was all very new was the worst. I'm thankful that this time I have my office job 6 days a week so nothing is going to change.
I hope everyone else is ok
I work in a hospital in the North I wear a mask 12 hours a day I've seen a lot I haven't hugged my parents or siblings or nieces and nephews since February it's hard its really hard but we have to do what's right to protect each other. Take care everyone and stay safe. Much love x
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Thank you for everything you do 💖
Love you so much em!🥰🥰
Ilysm bby!
I suffer from anxiety and depression but I actually really enjoyed lockdown, not sure why! I know others really struggle and I really hope we can all get through this together. If anybody ever needs to talk please comment on this post and we can have a chat. We all have to stick together ❤️❤️
That's so lovely of you, you should join my discord too if you want a chat and haven't already joined 💜
I also love lockdown, there’s something about it. It’s harder on businesses that can’t remote, as well as content creators that make their money from alway being on the go.
Thank you Emily, I have joined :)
Yeah I completely agree with that! I didn’t feel left out of anything as everyone else was going through the same thing. I do feel awful for those on their own and those who really struggled with it all. So many people did amazing things during lockdown and some started their own businesses etc. I hope more people can use it as a positive if they can. Definitely a time we all need to come together and be there for everyone no matter what ❤️
I completely agree, for me lockdown was relaxing because not having to go to school and see people I hate and go to classes etc was a weight lifted off me. I much preferred doing the work at home where the others weren’t distracting me and I could focus on my work, I also get very anxious when I’m at school and it really made me feel good!
Me too! I loved lockdown, I just thrived and found my self as cringey as it sounds. ❤️😂
You’re an amazing girl Emily
LOVE YOU 💜
Ilysm!!!
always here!!! Your stunning and the most loveliest gal never dault yourself
Hey Em I hope you're doing well dear xx We're all in this together and I know what you mean and there is a lot of confusion and uncertainty.. but the only thing we can do is live in the moment and not rethink everything too much xxx
‘Eat with me’s sound brilliant! You could do cook with me’s too maybe? Sending you love. This will pass soon x
Hi Emily, I'm part of the discord chat, thank you for making it, we can get though this tougher 💙💙💙💙
I live in Melbourne. we had the harshest lock down in the world- 121 days not leaving the house, 1 hour exercise a day, with curfews between 8pm and 5am. 1 person can shop etc. We all got through it. so I know England can- you'll be okay!
Yes! You’ve made my Sunday uploading. Thank you. Hope your doing okay! Xx
Thanks so much, gorg. Hope you are too 💜
Emily every single person in the chat is so grateful for you. I don’t think you realise what an incredible impact you’ve had on all our lives. You’ve been through so much yourself and you still want to help other people, you are so strong and we appreciate you so much. You’re such a huge inspiration to many of us and we all love you 💜
so glad to be a part of the discord 💜
Thanks so much for your comment Ruby, Ily all so much 💜
@@EmilyCanhamVlogs I love you💜💜
She really is a gem. Made my day!
@@easynow7801 just because she’s an influencer, doesn’t mean her life is perfect. We all go through things. Please take your negativity elsewhere
Yay my notifications were not that late today 💕
Amazing video x love you so much 💖💖have a great day xxxx again you are a absolutely gorgeous 🙌🏻❤️
Thanks so much gorg, ly!
What you could do is move in with your parents again because you need company in lockdown 💕🦋people you trust and love are always helpful in the situation you are in. Like my sister did last lockdown💕🌍🦋love you lots
I don’t feel like anything will change. I still have to go to college and I still have to go to work. I am always wary working near customers at the moment but hopefully there will be less people during a lockdown xxx
A LOT will change. Thinking it won’t is not showing empathy
@@RiddimKingdom I understand that so much is changing but at the moment I don’t feel like my routine will change since my work will stay open and so will my college xx
Here in riverside, CA has been in lockdown on and off like 4/5 times already we actually went back to the worst level of color again. Live 30 minutes away from Disney land and it’s really sad to see it closed 😩
I agree with you that the uncertainty is the worse... thanks for making the discord group ❤️
No worries lovely, I hope it brings some relief xx
You have no idea how much I needed to hear that it isn’t just me struggling with the ideology of another lockdown😭
Were i live we been in full lock down for almost 10 months, and in the middle of that my best friend little dog passed away...it is in fact a really hard time and i understand, everything will be okey Emily❤ we can do this😊
Take each day at a time is all you can do. It’s hard being in lockdown Melbourne just got out of 112 day lockdown which wasn’t easy but we did it, fingers crossed as we have now has 3 days with 0 cases in Victoria
love your vlogs Em💖
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Hiiyyee, so excited for this video 😍🥰x
Thanks so much, Robyn x
Sending hugs lovely xxx