OP had an agreement withherparents, BEFORE brother and entourage showed up. Since they started appropriating everything she brought in, without asking, she makes sure, AS SHE SHOULD, that her parents benefit from that original agreement. Brother and SIL need to get off their high horses and start supporting themselves!
@@TWG_ "Not the asshole" Most of these stories are told under a category of Reddit (a subreddit) called AITA? Or "Am I The Asshole?" And if you aren't people respond with NTA if you are people respond with YTA or "You're The Asshole".
@@WhyF-7 had to look it up myself, this is from Google. 'Fly in fly out' (FIFO) jobs are those where an employer will temporarily transport the employee to a location or site of work and then transport them back for a period of rest. This method is most commonly employed in order to avoid relocating the employee (and possibly their family) to the site on a permanent basis.
@@WhyF-7 i didn't know either, so i looked it up. i can't confirm whether this is 100% accurate or not, but this is what i found: a FIFO worker is an employee who works at a remote location, typically in a mining camp, and is flown in and out ("fly-in-fly-out," which is what FIFO stands for) to the site for their work shift. this allows them to live at home during their time off, rather than relocating permanently to the worksite. hope that helps! 😊
Definitely need a part too. You are not the jerk for letting them know that you want to stick with the original arrangement with your parents. And honestly, if they're not contributing at all then they need to start contributing. They don't need to be taking advantage of your personal items when you didn't get those things for them. They need to leave your stuff that you bought with your money alone.
Yeah, no. I would tell my brother and his wife straight up that I'm not their sugar Mama and that if they want nice things they can go get a job and pay for them themselves. What treats and gifts I decide to get for my parents that raised me well is between me and them, you are not entitled to anything.
Maybe if you have the money and it is OK with your Parents, pay your Parents Property Tax as your share/rent for the year. Pay directly to the Government. Keep a copy of the payment. You might want that copy in the future if your brother or his family trys to make trouble.
They are just selfish they wouldn't do the same for you so you don't have to do the same for them. I want them to read the comments and know how awful they are.
Got to live a narcissistic brother and sister-in-law! Pandemic is over time for him to save and leave! You are an amazing thoughtful person! Your groceries you keep with you! Amen!
I bought many things for my parents throughout my adult life. I moved my family into my childhood home. My elder sister went though the house before i moved in. She took all the furntiture and decorations i bought for the home
If your brother lost his job and his eyes needed to look for another one and maybe even to an especially the wife she can look for one job or two just to keep up with payments they're not going to end up leaving free load you're not his mom or his dad or his spouse or anything like that he needs to take care of his responsibilities and be accountable for his actions
she should've something "i'm sorry but i've been only buying our parents gifts and groceries the entire time. you were the ones snatching them to use for yourselves."
If you are old enough to create a family, you are old enough to find shelter for that family. They need to go asap. If they’re seriously struggling that means SIL cannot afford to be a sahm. She needs to get a job so that they can get their own place. Sounds like they’re getting comfortable being there with no obligation. It may hurt them but the parents need to evict him & his family or he will never leave.
"Its spicy" is such a scary sentence. Its how I learned I'm allergic to strawberries, and I used to work in a seafood restaurant. Lot's of spicy lobster there 😬
One time my dad got a case of hot sauce for Christmas, at the time I didn't like hot sauce But one time while eating my sister told me to try the garlic hot sauce, it was delicious the only one I would eat But then we ran out my mom found a new brand and I got hives from it (we didn't know it was the hot sauce at first) Hives all over my body
Good for you for standing up for yourself. They're absolutely ridiculous. Your parents will also need to put their foot down and tell your brother and sister-in-law to knock it off. And keep a lock on your door. And get a camcorder. I don't trust them.
Your parents are old enough to know better than to tolerate Brother and his brood. Tell them they can either continue to enjoy your company and gifts if they kick him out, or you can move out and take your nice stuff with you.
STAND YOUR GROUND, ALL HE CAN DO IS CALL YOU NAMES, WELL IT SOUNDS LIKE HE NEEDS TO GROW UP. IT'S HIS FAMILY AND HIS WIFE AND HIM ARE ON THE HOOK FOR THEIR FAMILY, NOT YOU!
Why are the parents allowing him to stay there?. He needs to get off his behind along with his wife and the two need to get jobs and get out of the home. They should be given a month tops to get this done. If the parents allow them to continue staying there with that sort of behavior they are encouraging those nasty ways.
Women DO NOT NEED to work. That is a man's job. He needs to be a man and get off his ass and find a job bc no woman should have to change her life and work just bc a weak man can't get a job.
Brother and his family are freeloaders. They have some nerve demanding you pay for the extra 5 ppl there now.Tell him to ef off. He and his wife and get jobs and buy their own treats and food.
Technically, they both of rent free so they’re both the a holes because they’re living off their parents who are basically retired so they don’t have the money to be taken care of both of them and I get it. It’s hard to have a lot of kids so technically she’s just using the parents 😊
The sister cooks for her parents and lives in the garage meanwhile the brother lives in their suite which was supposed to be passive income plus he and his wife just take the things of her parents
@@maxbaum5609 You forgot she buys groceries, works part time and in school. She's not planning to stay their forever. Parents are supporting her until she moves out. The brother look like he will never leave and take from the house
OP had an agreement withherparents, BEFORE brother and entourage showed up. Since they started appropriating everything she brought in, without asking, she makes sure, AS SHE SHOULD, that her parents benefit from that original agreement. Brother and SIL need to get off their high horses and start supporting themselves!
Brother and SiL need to get off their asses and contribute.
You are an amazing adult child, being so fabulous to your parents🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Four kids that your parents house. Then they have the nerve to want to grift from you. No!
@@eveesix9683 Or leave!
I think her parents need to kick her brother’s family out tbh. They live rent free and just cause problems and steal their gifts
Nta, you bought that stuff for your parents, not your brother and his family
Exactly
Freeloading grifters. Tell them to go pound sand.
wth is nta
@@TWG_ "Not the asshole"
Most of these stories are told under a category of Reddit (a subreddit) called AITA? Or "Am I The Asshole?" And if you aren't people respond with NTA if you are people respond with YTA or "You're The Asshole".
@TWG_ it means "not the a-hole"
"You live rent free you need to contribute more"
While also living rent free and taking stuff that was contributed by others
Dude have the audacity to ask for freebies while living also- rent free. Dude is delulu
Some of those FIFO workers are so entitled.
@justine8387 Question, What does fifo mean if you don't mind me asking?
@@WhyF-7 had to look it up myself, this is from Google. 'Fly in fly out'
(FIFO) jobs are those where an employer will temporarily transport the employee to a location or site of work and then transport them back for a period of rest. This method is most commonly employed in order to avoid relocating the employee (and possibly their family) to the site on a permanent basis.
@@WhyF-7 i didn't know either, so i looked it up. i can't confirm whether this is 100% accurate or not, but this is what i found:
a FIFO worker is an employee who works at a remote location, typically in a mining camp, and is flown in and out ("fly-in-fly-out," which is what FIFO stands for) to the site for their work shift. this allows them to live at home during their time off, rather than relocating permanently to the worksite.
hope that helps! 😊
@v._.ntablack Omg tysm 😭
If it's for a specific person, then let that specific person have it. and that's also hypocritical of the brother to say that she doesn't contribute
Definitely need a part too. You are not the jerk for letting them know that you want to stick with the original arrangement with your parents. And honestly, if they're not contributing at all then they need to start contributing. They don't need to be taking advantage of your personal items when you didn't get those things for them. They need to leave your stuff that you bought with your money alone.
Ur bros a piece of ……!!!
U r doing everything right!!!
U will be blessed !!!❤
Yeah, no. I would tell my brother and his wife straight up that I'm not their sugar Mama and that if they want nice things they can go get a job and pay for them themselves. What treats and gifts I decide to get for my parents that raised me well is between me and them, you are not entitled to anything.
Maybe if you have the money and it is OK with your Parents, pay your Parents Property Tax as your share/rent for the year. Pay directly to the Government. Keep a copy of the payment. You might want that copy in the future if your brother or his family trys to make trouble.
NTA ignore them. It is not you who should do that to him but him doing that to his parents.
NTA. Maybe your brother should get a job? Keep doing as you're doing. They don't deserve to be rewarded with your hard work.
and the award for AH goes to parents who did not INSTANTLY kick out bro and waifu
"fired for refusing vaccination" says it all
Kind of a jerk probably wanted to help spread it too. I hated those people im Auto Immune T_T
honestly, yeah
fired for making a FIRST AMENDMENT choice to decline a vaccine? yeah totally says it all.
Ugh, He's Probably a MAGA. If a single working mother gets food stamps, she's a moocher, but it's okay if it's your parents?
We NEED a pt. 2
Parents r ur responsibility not ur sibling's family
Not your fault you are a good kid for your parents
Went NTA the moment i heard "fired for refusing vaccination" 😭
They are just selfish they wouldn't do the same for you so you don't have to do the same for them. I want them to read the comments and know how awful they are.
Got to live a narcissistic brother and sister-in-law! Pandemic is over time for him to save and leave! You are an amazing thoughtful person! Your groceries you keep with you! Amen!
'Refusing Vaccination' 🤦🏿♀️
Working at a camp no less!
The fact that he refused vaccination told me just how stupid the OPs brother is
Just because your parents have decided to enable your brother doesn’t mean you have to participate.
I am so proud of you! Taking care of your parents!
Your brother and wife need to get themselves jobs to help out and feed their kid's.
Nta keep doing you and let the mooches be angry.
I bought many things for my parents throughout my adult life. I moved my family into my childhood home. My elder sister went though the house before i moved in. She took all the furntiture and decorations i bought for the home
You are not the A hole. You go girl.
WOW, I cannot believe you were able to get your hands on a van winkle bottle! Its not super expensive, just hard to get!
That's very clever OP, I like it!
Refusing vacation tells me everything I need to know about him.
Good thing! Hell, get your parents involved and remove the ungrateful, stealing interlopers!
If your brother lost his job and his eyes needed to look for another one and maybe even to an especially the wife she can look for one job or two just to keep up with payments they're not going to end up leaving free load you're not his mom or his dad or his spouse or anything like that he needs to take care of his responsibilities and be accountable for his actions
she should've something "i'm sorry but i've been only buying our parents gifts and groceries the entire time. you were the ones snatching them to use for yourselves."
" you don’t want to share the treats for your parents 😡!!" Yea. Key words: parents. Not you room temp IQ ah
Hell yeah girl, put your foot down.
Gezzz over treats ? My parents do that have their little cashew stash or some walnuts or chocolates LOL 😂 but this terrible
If you are old enough to create a family, you are old enough to find shelter for that family. They need to go asap. If they’re seriously struggling that means SIL cannot afford to be a sahm. She needs to get a job so that they can get their own place. Sounds like they’re getting comfortable being there with no obligation. It may hurt them but the parents need to evict him & his family or he will never leave.
Life some people so inconsiderate
What's crazy is that the parents aren't the main problem...
You are smart. Tj I s is perfect. Van Winkle and OJ? Seriously??? Keep up what you are doing. Brother is just a mooch. Keep your door locked!
He's only unemployed because he refused to vaccinate. That's his fault.
"Its spicy" is such a scary sentence. Its how I learned I'm allergic to strawberries, and I used to work in a seafood restaurant. Lot's of spicy lobster there 😬
One time my dad got a case of hot sauce for Christmas, at the time I didn't like hot sauce
But one time while eating my sister told me to try the garlic hot sauce, it was delicious the only one I would eat
But then we ran out my mom found a new brand and I got hives from it (we didn't know it was the hot sauce at first)
Hives all over my body
NTA.. and the parents need to be told the other five need to go.
Womp womp to them
Good for you for standing up for yourself. They're absolutely ridiculous. Your parents will also need to put their foot down and tell your brother and sister-in-law to knock it off. And keep a lock on your door. And get a camcorder. I don't trust them.
"share things that i buy for my parents"
they're for the parents, not for everyone else....
wow, ruining a Van Winkle, they're expensive too! I'd lose my shit over it
You're no help -- to the parasites. Stand strong.
The nerves !
That's reasonable
Your parents are old enough to know better than to tolerate Brother and his brood. Tell them they can either continue to enjoy your company and gifts if they kick him out, or you can move out and take your nice stuff with you.
Wow, poor you 😮
STAND YOUR GROUND, ALL HE CAN DO IS CALL YOU NAMES, WELL IT SOUNDS LIKE HE NEEDS TO GROW UP. IT'S HIS FAMILY AND HIS WIFE AND HIM ARE ON THE HOOK FOR THEIR FAMILY, NOT YOU!
heard this story a little differently.its ops house n parents moved in with op 1st,then bro n family moved in n liked to have sticky fingers.......
This things of the rent from your family for me is crazy no one that i know pays the rent to their parents 😮
NTA! they are really horrible people 😢
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i love how saying b!tch is not allowed in the vid but a$$hole is okay😂
REdditor was lying the entire time, they have mutliple posts that variate between hundreds of timelines
Tell him that it's not your place to take care of them and they are a pain
Nta, I buy things my parents like all the time. It’s up to them if want to share or not
His family should not be living in the luxury room while your in the garage bc you do more than all of them anyway your not in the wrong they are
entitlement and audacity, they need to be kicked out
Good for you!
Well this story ended when they made a negative comment about refusing vaccinations
Ask them why they haven’t bought anything for their parents or for you
Dude what are the parents doing? This is entitlement and the parents are enablers.
Why are the parents allowing him to stay there?. He needs to get off his behind along with his wife and the two need to get jobs and get out of the home. They should be given a month tops to get this done. If the parents allow them to continue staying there with that sort of behavior they are encouraging those nasty ways.
Nta this is a house not a homeless shelter
What's the white stuff in the bg video?
Hmmm… looks like a severe case of entitled brother who isn’t able to provide for himself and his family and expects others to do so.
Sounds like they need to grow up
Calling his OWN sister a B shows what kind of POS he is
Wife NEEDS to work and buy some treats for herself /family. One thing I dislike is entitle people.
Women DO NOT NEED to work. That is a man's job. He needs to be a man and get off his ass and find a job bc no woman should have to change her life and work just bc a weak man can't get a job.
They should be old enough to see the obvious
Brother and his family are freeloaders. They have some nerve demanding you pay for the extra 5 ppl there now.Tell him to ef off. He and his wife and get jobs and buy their own treats and food.
Bruh what they are stealing from your parents
Beggers😂
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Your brother and his wife are the AH
Nta
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@@Lexxaco668 I wasn't calling first
They need to move out
NTA
😂😂 Get a job
Move out.
Fake
Technically, they both of rent free so they’re both the a holes because they’re living off their parents who are basically retired so they don’t have the money to be taken care of both of them and I get it. It’s hard to have a lot of kids so technically she’s just using the parents 😊
The sister cooks for her parents and lives in the garage meanwhile the brother lives in their suite which was supposed to be passive income plus he and his wife just take the things of her parents
@@maxbaum5609 You forgot she buys groceries, works part time and in school. She's not planning to stay their forever. Parents are supporting her until she moves out. The brother look like he will never leave and take from the house
NTA they should be kicked out because I wouldn't want thieves in my home. They don't care about anything but themselves
Dude what are the parents doing? This is entitlement and the parents are enablers.
Nta