Was the connection real with the narcissist ?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- Have you ever wondered if you were truly connected with someone or if it was just attachment? True connection feels like a flow of mutual respect, understanding, and support. It’s when you both grow individually while still deeply valuing each other’s presence. Attachment, on the other hand, often stems from fear-fear of being alone or losing someone. It’s when we hold on too tight, sometimes even at the cost of our own well-being. In a true connection, there’s freedom and growth; in attachment, there’s often dependency and anxiety. Recognising the difference can help you build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Which one are you/were you in? Watch this video and find out!
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Was the connection with the narcissist ever real? No. It was nothing but an elaborate performance, a sick game where I was the pawn. For years, I was fed lies, false affection, and empty promises, all while being drained of my own identity. She manipulated every emotion, every trust I gave, until there was nothing left but a hollow shell of who I once was. There was never any love, only control. But what she didn’t expect is that I’ve seen through the mask, and now, I’m not just walking away-I’m burning the entire stage down.
the worst part of dealing with one is not knowing. im not stupid, but if you dont fully understand narcissism, your screwed. several months after i kicked her to the curb, i was busy cooking in the kitchen, had u tube randomly playing for background noise. half paying attention, a man starts describing her, and her narc actions to a T. shut down kitchen duty, and spent the next several hrs watching narc vids. not only did the vids explain everything, they also explained her odd comments, actions. they are nothing more than lost, butt hurt children, living in a adults body. that was 9yrs ago, and if that vid would not have randomly popped up, i would still be in the dark to this day. their entire mental dysfunction is very hard for a normal mind to understand. it was nice of jesus to toss me that bone, giving me clarity/understanding.
Yes!! I’ll bring the marshmallows!!
You can't change those with a personality disorder. Its there default mode. Listen to your gut. In narcissism -the disconnect that we feel around them.
Thank you Anoushka!
Great info!
Thanks
nothing is real with the narc. was w my narc gf off and on for 8yrs. the only time she was ever honest, not lying to me was when she made this statement a couple times while we were together, and it would come completely out of the blue, "sometimes i feel like a 3yr old". what a off the wall, odd thing, for a full grown, adult woman, to say? after the fact, what she was honestly saying was she did not understand herself, and she had the mentality of a child.
It was "their fantacy" that they played out with you 🙃
That is very true and also very sad 😢
the big problem w their lil fantasy is, it always comes back to bite them in the ass. a hamster wheel of self inflicted, madness.
Attachment🙏😢 never real love there or connect always control silent treatment healing now cause got away from her always want real love but should feel safe love be yourself im alot better believe my real person out there got have faith
Hi nusks... those narks.... what do you do together? Where do you go?...what's the goal... Where is the fun. An empty but fascinating total waste of time. Bless um. Pity them. We hope they can live like us....maybe in the next life. The is a lot of um about it really is tragic. I find npd fascinating and have been studying and interacting with them for years. It really is so sad.
i agree with you. it is a very simplistic mental problem, at its core, and once you fully understand it. they are so hard wired into it, even if it cost them, at their own expense to do it, they just cant help themselves. it is truly amazing how big of a part narcissism has become, as a normal part of every day society. the bit ch of it is its totally accepted, encouraged, and even embraced, as normal. what better way to destroy everything? family's, poof! self respect, poof! respecting others, poof! integrity of any kind, poof! all we need now is me, and money. people have become so mistrusting of one another that animals have become replacements for people. this is what we have stooped to, and to stupid to realize it.
Yeah it's a bit disappointing isn't it?
But through this meaningless endeavour trying to solve this ridiculous conundrum we get to see the demonic pointlessness of the darned. And therefore we get to choose the light. It's sad what's happened to them. It really is. The bit of light they sucked from you may help them.thats your gift to them.BUT You get to forge ahead and do things they could never comprehend...and that is our reward.
Anoushka, did you watch Newness?