Make Her Worry About Losing You & She Will Chase You - How To Make Women Want You More

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  • Has she started losing interest in you? Do you want to learn how to get a girl to want you more? In today's video we're going to be discussing how to make a girl worry about losing you and how this can actually end up re-attracting a woman. This helps to keep a girl interested in you and if you want to get a girl to like you more, using this type of dating technique can lead to make a girl chase you and she'll realise why she misses you so much, because you actually really likes you.
    Have you ever felt under appreciated by your lady, perhaps it's as if she's slowly slipping away. Or maybe she's not showing you as much attention as she usually does. It's normal to feel this way, especially if you have been in a relationship for a long time. Your partner can start losing interest in you, and I get it it's a scary and painful thought, but if you really like her though and you want that relationship to carry on then you need to actually make her worry about losing you to get the balance back. And it might sound strange and you're probably thinking will that actually work? Because when it comes to us ladies, we like to chase a man and we like to know that he is the best candidate of dating for us. So if we are worried about losing you we will chase a little harder and rediscover all of your best stuff. We will cover why it's important to actually be vulnerable in front of her, and why you should always be honest and obviously some many other amazingly important things.
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    0:00 Intro
    1:05 How to make her worry about losing you
    1:13 Be vulnerable around her
    2:27 Be honest with her
    3:44 Let her know you think of her
    4:32 Accept her for who she is
    5:17 Don't control her
    5:49 Don't be available or say yes
    7:10 Distance yourself & practise self care
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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

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    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WELL BEEN ASKING HER OUT TODAY FOR GOING OUT ON FEW DATES AN DATING. AN SEEING IF SHES SINGEL TOO AN IS READY FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AN GETTING OUR BOYFREIND AN GIRLFREIND THINK GOING INTHE RIT AWAY FROM NOW ON. FOR AS BOLTH. ANNA JOYANIMA. HOW TOO NOW IF YOUR LADY FREIND HAS A CRUSH ON THE GUY THAT SHES LIKE YO BUT YO DONT NOW ABOUT IT. JUST SAYING ANNA JOYANIMA

    • @ColeKeleher
      @ColeKeleher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love the new hair color!

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      are yo missing me anna joyanima.

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes or no whats it going bee anna joyanima

    • @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson
      @RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ahahahahahahahahahahah

  • @quaker1874
    @quaker1874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Learn when to walk away, gentlemen. Story for y'all: I had a thing going on with my coworker for a little while. We never got to date because she was going through some things. I respected it, but she still kept showing signs of interest. After a while, I found out she was talking to someone else. I wanted to remain as friends. I ended up getting Covid for 2 weeks, and not once she texted me to get better. However, prior to Covid, I met a nice girl (who's a lawyer), that takes time out of her day to text me back. She even wished me to get better from Covid. Said coworker has made no effort to ask how I've been since Covid, nor asks me anything about my personal life anymore. The lawyer at least makes an effort with me. You never know when things get better after a possible toxic relationship.

    • @cheby56
      @cheby56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think you’re a little confused. She showed no interest so why would she be concerned about your well being? Don’t see that as being toxic.

    • @External2737
      @External2737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she doesn't show any concern, she isn't concerned. I'm in a similar situation, but at least she reached out every few days post an operation, to cure covid long haul symptoms of all coincidences. However, I'm not sure where it is going. It sounds like you found the out! In my case, a dear friend, we'll see where this is going.

    • @justicedjvawa2554
      @justicedjvawa2554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations 🎉👏🎉👏🎉🎉👏🎉👏

    • @quaker1874
      @quaker1874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Kimberly Harrison this is true. Upon reflection, I'm glad I dodged a bullet with the coworker. To this day, she refuses to speak to me, and I still don't know why.

    • @King_Ced
      @King_Ced 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm into one of my coworkers rn

  • @frankl7370
    @frankl7370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You know what people should chase? Mindfulness, gratefulness, personal success!

    • @randomaccount8086
      @randomaccount8086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      These games by women are truly disgusting.

    • @robert4you
      @robert4you 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have had total mindfulness, gratefulness and personal success - when I found the love of my life. She doesn't play these games, and she has the most lovely personality one can imagine. She is a treasure.

  • @AB-vc7ox
    @AB-vc7ox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    For too many women, fear of losing you is built in… so much so that as soon as you attempt a relationship, they will go toxic and try to destroy your self esteem (she has none,) your friendships, (she has few if any,) and even your reputation (how dare you be popular or successful, unlike her,) so no one else finds you worthy. Don’t try to fix it, run like the wind!!!

    • @MHLivestreams
      @MHLivestreams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      narcissism is rampant these days

    • @d_no_allyn_86
      @d_no_allyn_86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn you're bitter af lol. You should try having a good relationship one time. You'll see that's not the case.

    • @everythingisunconditionale3719
      @everythingisunconditionale3719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha is that what that is, better just keep being awesome then, either they tear you down or you get stronger n laugh it off ha haha hahaha

    • @BlueMinionIW
      @BlueMinionIW 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This doesn’t always apply. You may attempt a relationship and she may give you an answer but is just a nice person and doesn’t want to hurt you.

    • @samuelsackey3976
      @samuelsackey3976 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      we are all dating the same women

  • @victorjones7071
    @victorjones7071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    If I show my vulnerability, she will later use it against me....Just sayin'.

    • @kallemetsahalme5701
      @kallemetsahalme5701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      there will always be some argument and people will use whatever ammo they have "you always drink" "you always stare phone at dinnerdate"... vulnerability doesnt have to be anything actually bad in that context, it can even be a simple proxy instead of the real problem. by stonewalling and acting forever tough the big breakdown will come and thats worse.

    • @rohnbanks6501
      @rohnbanks6501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly that happened to me 😭be careful!

    • @shamibrown2287
      @shamibrown2287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s why you date. Talk about all subjects during that phase.

    • @mahmudmeraj6298
      @mahmudmeraj6298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right you are!

    • @nychansen
      @nychansen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've had that happen before. I see it as I was vulnerable to the wrong one and it has really hindered my ability to allow another girl the opportunity to truly know me. Going through "no contact" right now and just realizing trauma that affected the most relationship.
      Clearing all r stuff up personally with therapy as I want to fix this.

  • @d2.050
    @d2.050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Give her space, be thoughtful, don’t be available too much & Self care. I like those ones thanks Anna

  • @kitbolton3865
    @kitbolton3865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mind games…. I personally feel that being upfront and honest is better. I do believe in face to face interaction.

  • @sherzodtursunov1542
    @sherzodtursunov1542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    being vulnerable around her is very good part. you can find your soulmate, without any games. I guess

  • @DanteWesker612
    @DanteWesker612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Self care and distance won't be much of a problem since I practice those every day. Although unlike most men, I take cold showers instead of hot ones. One of the benefits of cold showers is an increase in focus and alertness. It even strengthens your immune system. But the best benefit though is that they help you wake up much quicker in the morning

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I have heard a lot of good things about taking cold showers instead of hot ones! But I can't face the cold in the morning 🥶 You're braver than me... Keep it up!

    • @DanteWesker612
      @DanteWesker612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Joyanima Well, you know what they say: Like father, like son. My dad used to serve in the army. And earlier this year, I have chosen to follow in his footsteps by serving in the navy

    • @DanteWesker612
      @DanteWesker612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shehujibrin5489 I am almost 24 years old, and I have been single my whole life. And that's because I am in no hurry to find a significant other. And nobody's gonna make me rush into a relationship

    • @DanteWesker612
      @DanteWesker612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shehujibrin5489 Ok. And let me guess. It's Kevin Samuels, isn't it?

    • @peteloews421
      @peteloews421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Interesting comments about cold shower. I wonder what evidence exist to proof that other than your own personal experiences.
      Usually when I hear broad assumptions of sorts, I try to apply them to the real world which by every standards implies that men in Alaska or Iceland should also be able to wake up early or be more focus and alert. I dont know if that is the case. But will say this is good for you and keep up if it's working. Our reality is simply what we choose to believe in.

  • @superjoe7228
    @superjoe7228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I like your videos, however I want to mention that asking s girl to not have/hang out with guy friends is not necessarily trying to change her or control her. Most men know how other guys look at certain women. Most guys that are in the friend zone are there because they're waiting on their turn for a relationship, which means you're constantly going to have the guy friends trying to talk her into being with them, because if y'all have an argument/disagreement, who do you think she's going to talk to about it? And most guys in the friend zone live for those moments, because they're hoping that this time they will finally get their chance at a relationship. If a girl has guy friends, it's pretty much a guarantee that the relationship will eventually come to an end, because she has options and you don't. So asking a girl to not have guy friends is not controlling. It's having enough respect for yourself to not put yourself in a position to get played. Guys know that women don't want their man to have female friends. So why is it ok for women to say they don't want us talking to other women, but it's not ok for us to say that we don't want them talking to other guys? These days more often than not, when will " Monkey Branch " when they started getting bored with their current man, so being ok with them having guy friends is just setting yourself up for failure. Granted, not all women are like that, but the majority of women these days are like that. I want to mention one more thing, real quick. Of a woman is " slipping away " or acting like she doesn't want to be with you anymore, why are we as men expected to fight for someone that makes us feel like they don't want to be there? If a woman is ready to leave the relationship and you manage to talk her into staying, do you really think the relationship is going to get better? It's only going to get worse from there, because she's going to see you as well, a push over and she's going to lose even more respect for you.

    • @drdavidadetokunboogunba..154
      @drdavidadetokunboogunba..154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well written, and TRUE✅..

    • @learnpianofastonline
      @learnpianofastonline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well stated. Could not agree more or put it any better.

    • @mulumbamatia1555
      @mulumbamatia1555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks alot! Women know how to play the vulnerable card and society always sides with them. I hate it. I feel so bad for nice guys coz they are silently abused the most.

    • @superjoe7228
      @superjoe7228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@mulumbamatia1555 There are several sad things about that. Women are able to play the vulnerable/victim card, because not only does society side with them, but law enforcement and the court system as well, especially divorce/family courts. If a woman files a fake assault charge against a man, and a man files a legitimate assault charge against a woman, who do you think the law enforcement/the court system is more likely to believe...THE WOMAN. Another sad part is that the " Nice Guys " are the ones who lose the most. The Nice Guys are the plan B. Women have the choice, when it comes to dating. They spend months or years chasing the guy that won't commit, because he has options, and is not looking to settle down. After a while the woman will realize she's running out of time, and needs a secure man, to give her marriage and kids. That's where the " Nice Guys " come in. Those are the ones that she's not attracted to, but he has a house and stable job, and still makes more money than her ( that's how married men end up paying alimony ). Once she finds another guy that she is attacted to, she can divorce the Nice Guy for incompatibility, and take his house, half his money and his kids, after he spent years trying to do everything he could to keep her happy. Here's the things, guys. The only power you have in a relationship is the power to walk away. Do not be pursuing marriage, because it only benefits women, and men are the only ones that are actually risking anything. If a woman wants to leave, let her go, because someone that wants to be with you, will never think about leaving or make you feel like she don't want to be there. If a woman is valued based on how she looks ( let's face it, you wouldn't be interested if you didn't think that she looks good ) and men are valued based on what we provide, then WE are the prize. If you ask women what they bring to the table 9/10 times she's going to say Cooking, Cleaning And Taking Care Of The Kids. Yet men are expected to provide a house, pay the bills, provide the food, have a nice car, basically be a good provider. These days Men are fully capable of cooking, cleaning and taking care of their kids on their own, so what is she really bringing to the table. Men have to work for what they want, yet womenswear just have to look good, to get what they want, so who is the prize here.? WE ARE! So why are we going out of our way to please women, when they are doing nothing to please us. Women seem to think their automatically entitled to all of this special atrention, when they're doing nothing to make you feel like you're their world. Men need to understand that not every woman deserves your time and attention. Do what makes YOU happy. If she don't make an effort, then why are you? If she wants to leave, then why do you want her there? Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? Guys, please don't let being single stop you from being happy. Your happiness has to come from yourself. Saying a woman is your better half is the same as saying you are only half a man. If you're going to do these kinds of things for a woman, then make sure she's worth it. Your time and attention is worth more than you think. Don't be wasting it on women that ain't worth it

    • @davidschutz2819
      @davidschutz2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like you must be really ugly lol. If she has guy friend I will have more female friends lol. Abundance is the mindset

  • @Embertine
    @Embertine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The first point is the fastest way for her to lose whatever attraction she has left, causing her to leave.

  • @gambooyt
    @gambooyt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Being vulnerable around her as a man is the WORST piece of advice ever. That will lead her to disrespect you.

    • @The4Tifier
      @The4Tifier 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Then she doesn’t love you… simple as that…

    • @mcdjspins2141
      @mcdjspins2141 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

    • @Morpheusninetwo
      @Morpheusninetwo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True!! They all say one thing but want the other. As unpredictable as catz

  • @arthurshugars1974
    @arthurshugars1974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know this is a bit late from the time you made this video, but I just wanted to say that I appreciate your insightful and inspiring videos on the vast range of topics to help people like me out who tend to take their own time to process the information before taking leaps of faith and leding with the chin. You pretty much cover this aspect of your content, which I identify with, and always look forward to learning not only more of myself in the process, but how I can learn to become a better version of myself for those I love and care about. Thank you!

  • @pareshlad7684
    @pareshlad7684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohh your channel is really helpful. I have watched 3-4 videos and all are great points to remember and to save the relationship ❤️. I personally liked the point about saying ( sorry I was busy with some important work) that will be so powerful 😂👍 . Thanks for sharing this videos. Keep it up 👍

  • @jeffray9680
    @jeffray9680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Be careful with this advice fella's, showing vulnerability and weakness around a woman, especially a strong woman will get a man kicked to the curb very quickly, she might put up with it for a short while but I wouldn't make it a habit.

  • @fadlansmith920
    @fadlansmith920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    don't wasting someone who trying to make your happy always.
    all that gived with sincerely heart her/him itself and without asks for mercy Anything.
    without your knowing there are many peoples who want to be your position like him/her...
    but he/ she is choosing just you one.
    when they disappear from our lives that's where the time point we will slowly feel lost him/her.
    So don't wasted away someone who sincerely loves you!❤

  • @ArmyOne519
    @ArmyOne519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im honest all the time, then she's gonna break my ❤️.

  • @AJSchnell
    @AJSchnell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Take your own advice!
    Unless you’re wanting for the man to change you in return then I don’t want to hear about how men should change for women.
    The days of men chasing women are long gone. Now it’s time for the women to be the change and things they want to see in a man.
    I as the man will always be the prize, always.

    • @stonergee420
      @stonergee420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alway king always 💯

  • @clownanonymous6174
    @clownanonymous6174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Idk about vulnerability. My last and only gf liked when I was vulnerable. And now I wish I stayed with her. No other girl I've ever met liked when I was vulnerable.

    • @Khans0120
      @Khans0120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The key is to balance the vulnerability and use it at the right moments. Using it too much or even at the wrong moments can give off the impression that the person is weak and childish. This perception then can work against that person

  • @louie2342
    @louie2342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Guess I wasn’t the only one to notice the new hair 😅 I thought it looked freshly highlighted just a few weeks ago? The first half of this video felt like it came from a different place than usual, and that, plus the new (dark) hair, made me curious as to if like, someone recently had done ya wrong 🧐 I’m probably projecting. Looks rad, though 😙🤌. Your bottom eyeliner (or whatever it is called-I’m no makeupologist) seems different too? Anyway, thanks for the content, lady. This is my first ever youtube comment! Huzzah for me!

  • @Skaarxiong1
    @Skaarxiong1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yeah, so play the game, make her worry about losing you so she can go home and listen to that song by Roxette, it must have been love....but it's over now....it must have been good....but i lost it somehow.....

  • @rafaelfreitas7799
    @rafaelfreitas7799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Honestly your tips are pretty helpfull, thanks

  • @paulsanjurjo4390
    @paulsanjurjo4390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When my wife was still alive, I told her that if she had wanted to leave me, she could have done so. I also told her that if she did then she'd meet the same fate as my two most immediate exes and that would've been going to a door that was locked shut with no one answering it. End of the story and she never tried it with me. The thing is that one must provide tangible consequences for such an action if they try to do this to you. It's like a good paying job that provides a good life for you. You show your employer that you are on the job timely and you do the job competently and you keep your job and your lifestyle. You mess up and it will be gone. Different things in life but similar concepts with respect to our actions having rewards or consequences.

    • @spkfree2783
      @spkfree2783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now she's gone and you're alone and didn't appreciate her...that must suck.

    • @paulsanjurjo4390
      @paulsanjurjo4390 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@spkfree2783 you're wrong about not appreciating her when she was alive. I had her for 21 years and we had never been separated from each other during that time. We were married in just six months of knowing each other so we were together for 21 years and married for 20 years and 6 months. We have two children and we resolved every problem that came our way. It was a strong relationship. With that being said, there was nothing to be said about how I could have been taking her for granted because I know what is out there. Without creating respect in a relationship, you can't get true love as a result of it. In fact, she told me that same thing when we first met. We subsequently had mutual respect for the relationship and each other.

  • @External2737
    @External2737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ironically, most of this advice is opposite of what one should do when friend zoned. (All, see that video.) I'm not going to change her, we'll see if things change. For now, I'm in the give her more space, let her reach out.
    I'm definitely taking time to reply to texts, unless it is... emotional. e.g., she avoided asking about how I was doing post an operation; but at 7pm at the start of a group dance class we both take, she asked, in a group chat full of people who knew we might be something, "How is everyone doing?" Since I was the only one not in the room... That I replied to... somewhat promptly, but to the group.
    Definitely, go for being the best version of yourself. That is the best advice, it builds confidence. Workout. Develop a skill. Do the self affirmation that other women find you attractive (not to cheat, to boost confidence). For now, letting her take on the initiative as I expressed.. too much.
    So it is a balance...

  • @steveyj3002
    @steveyj3002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Anna we love your new hairstyle 🔥🔥🔥

  • @ender_raids909
    @ender_raids909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish I had this video 7 months ago 😂 btw you look really pretty today. I love the waves

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!! Sorry the video was 7 months late for you! Perhaps you will find you need it again soon and it will turn out to be perfect timing...

    • @ender_raids909
      @ender_raids909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Joyanima lol no problem, and i hope so to, but even that, ill still watch your videos and try to support. i love watching your videos any. thank you for all the amazing work you do for us :)

  • @oliver6749
    @oliver6749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get tired of games or having to play them to keep her interest. It's just much easier not having a relationship and to hell with the games

  • @learnpianofastonline
    @learnpianofastonline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not sure I agree about this business of sharing emotions with a woman you like. Keep it light and positive at all times. Cool vulnerability is ok.

  • @sikazwejerry4620
    @sikazwejerry4620 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Educative video.Thank you.

  • @robwebster7406
    @robwebster7406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the tips, and love you new hair colour 👍

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      十17245812275⏭

    • @robwebster7406
      @robwebster7406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the tip, will never have my ex back 😏

  • @josephbedwell3164
    @josephbedwell3164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fun Fact: Women could use these tips when trying to get with a man.
    Now honestly, when it comes to something that affects me financially, mentally, spiritually, physically or socially, I'm gonna do what is best for me and not really care how anyone feels about it.

  • @bobbooey45
    @bobbooey45 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Be vulnerable? I made the mistake early on saying being ignored is something that makes me vulnerable.
    Sure enough she gave me the silent treatment every time we had a disagreement.

  • @kuchkhaas6481
    @kuchkhaas6481 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I said yes to everything she said, never controlled her, was very honest with her, we used to be on call from 10pm till even after we dozed off for 4 months. She ended things with me.

  • @PindarMOD
    @PindarMOD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm giving up on women. Got my heart broken. It's just not worth the effort. Too many complications.

  • @nychansen
    @nychansen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was vulnerable once before and damn that ammo hurt when used to hurt me. I see it as I was vulnerable to the wrong one and it has really hindered my ability to allow another girl the opportunity to truly know me. Going through "no contact" right now and just realizing trauma that affected the most relationship.
    Clearing all r stuff up personally with therapy as I want to fix this

  • @monteiroschoice1920
    @monteiroschoice1920 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absence can also make the heart fonder for someone else !

  • @yvesdarabu1928
    @yvesdarabu1928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow nice I will use this method

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best of luck!

  • @chuckrex5664
    @chuckrex5664 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points

  • @anthonym9716
    @anthonym9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I lost her but she was a narcissist. Unfortunately but I pray she heals 😉

    • @anthonym9716
      @anthonym9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @David Michaels nah she won’t go. To Therapist in denial. Just showing major signs of narcissism once you see it you just can’t unsee it

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You can do better than a narcissist for sure!

    • @anthonym9716
      @anthonym9716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Joyanima yeah Definitely I’ll find someone. When time is right. You live and learn suppose

    • @josephflippo1243
      @josephflippo1243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, l married a narcissist. She made life hell then left blaming me. She wasn't like that for the first year. It was when l first said "No" that she morphed on me. All women are toxic. Prove me wrong.

  • @ryanguilbert3425
    @ryanguilbert3425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooooo that hair 😍

  • @davidduff9871
    @davidduff9871 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s the point. They’re not afraid of losing you or your money.

  • @trueblueozzy939
    @trueblueozzy939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don’t change her ,,,,
    But that’s the usually the first thing she does to you
    Wear this /don’t hangout with them/do that/ let’s go here/
    It goes both ways.

  • @Phaedrus-th7bi
    @Phaedrus-th7bi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Don't control her." ........................ She says this after telling us (for five minutes) to open up, pull away, open up, pull away, (repeat) Sounds like this contradicts itself, over and over again.

    • @GoLiveJeez
      @GoLiveJeez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From what gender she's ? Lmao !

  • @EWATTY4
    @EWATTY4 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice video. real nice.

  • @williamramsey4650
    @williamramsey4650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking good in this video.
    Would approch you looking this way.

  • @josephflippo1243
    @josephflippo1243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanted to watch your videos, but l been busy....😆😆😆😆

  • @NOAHCASAS
    @NOAHCASAS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    WWOOOWW REALLY ROCKIN OUT THE NEW HAIR COLOR IT'S LOOKING GOOD PLUS THE CURLS BRINGS OUT SUCH A DIFFERENT SIDE TO YOO LOOK KEEP IT AND ROCK

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😃 Thank you!!

  • @atulkarmarkar7919
    @atulkarmarkar7919 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most wonderful😊

  • @Jake-by9ly
    @Jake-by9ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have done ALL THESE THINGS. However, she does the unacceptable hurtful behaviour. And yes, I am intuitive and find out in wayscwoben do.

  • @Jake-by9ly
    @Jake-by9ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absence doesn't seem to make people fonder in my world like it used to. It makes the 70 % narcissists angry, resentful and malicious to the extent of making false accusations of crimes to the cops. Where U live in Wisconsin, USA, accused are unconstitutionally jailed and presumed guilty until they can prove innocence. That being often difficult to do, most innocents plead guilty or no contest to gain eventual freedom after serving a sentence. Yes, that includes me.

  • @supremepartydude
    @supremepartydude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When my ex wife moved in with me I told her repeatedly that her spoil brat 8year was engaging in behaviors that were unacceptable. She then. Secretedly made plans to move out as fast as she moved in. When I shut up after 6 months of complaining the relationship then was viewed as ok and she canceled her plans to move out

  • @fitzgerald434
    @fitzgerald434 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hopefully you read this, but will doing this to someone I met online for about 2 months work? We went on a date once and had plans for another date but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship because she is emotionally unavailable . She told me alot of personal issues and trusted me to tell me and that her intentions were to get romantically involved. She's broken from her financial situation and also her past two relationships. I've stayed friends after all this as much as I can but I just want her to know I care about her and like her. She just keeps putting herself down saying things like you dont deserve me and it takes so much effort just to bring her back up. I dont know what to do I tried no contact and that didnt work because she texted me saying I used to make her laugh and smile and that she felt like she ruined everything now. Any tips?

  • @overlordxab3365
    @overlordxab3365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I already finished the vid maybe this is the sign that I need to take care of myself. Thank you so much. It really help a lot.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十17245812275⏭

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh ปีที่แล้ว

    5:39 I've made a girl know what I think about a particular person she goes out with, I never said do not hang out with the person. Over some time, she has started to come to me showing me things that has made her start to withdraw from the person. Will she stop or cut it down, only time will tell, but I won't ever ask nor tell her to stop. However, after she started to show me things, I made her know when I had returned, I avoided seeing her because I know she would be around that person.

  • @Zim85
    @Zim85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Woah! Lovely hair!

  • @rampagephoenix1735
    @rampagephoenix1735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I must respectfully disagree with the advice on being vulnerable around her.
    Doing that is a good way for her to think of you as "beta" and that will lead to her to losing interest in you.
    All women want a confident Alpha, despite what they say, all women want a man who carry strong physical, mental, and competent traits; Their own psychology practically demands it from their mate.

    • @rampagephoenix1735
      @rampagephoenix1735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @David Michaels The phrase "Nice guys finish last" exist for a reason, bud.
      I make the claim that i do because ive seen and learned firsthand and EXPERIENCED what that phrase truly meant.
      I wised up.
      Is it so farfetched to believe that perhaps you're the one who is shortsighted?? But that's fine, you do you.

    • @cheby56
      @cheby56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There’s a difference between being vulnerable and being a cry baby. Learn it and it will help you

    • @JT-gm4fk
      @JT-gm4fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Showing emotion or vulnerability does not make you a beta and refusing to do so does not make you an Alpha. Stop letting your behavior be defined by labels and instead be defined by your individuality. If you allow labels to dictate who you are, you'll never know yourself.

  • @fatherwolfs1
    @fatherwolfs1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    General Kindness 😊🙏🐺😜

  • @Phaedrus-th7bi
    @Phaedrus-th7bi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So open up to her with your feelings, then pull away and make her chase you, then tell her how much you think about her, and then pull away again and let her chase you.............. sounds like river fishing for trout.

    • @GoLiveJeez
      @GoLiveJeez 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

    • @stonergee420
      @stonergee420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 that why i don’t bother em when they try to look me in the eye I give them the smurk look & in my head I be like” tf you looking at “ 😏

  • @buckmeredith1720
    @buckmeredith1720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look marvelous as an brunette!

  • @212caboose
    @212caboose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great vid! Thank you!

  • @DP-cz9xi
    @DP-cz9xi ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh FFS! never show emotion. Never show weakness.
    Psychology 101

  • @linsleyghurahoo
    @linsleyghurahoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't listen to what a woman says-watch what she does. In the say way don't give her what she says she wants but instead what she needs.

  • @LadiesmanB007
    @LadiesmanB007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So how does this work if the woman is incredibly independent? I don’t mean the stereotypical woman who claims she’s independent and strong but isn’t I mean someone who is legitimately independent and strong at making it on her own and is ambivalent about long distance? For reference she’s a travel nurse.

  • @trippykr1769
    @trippykr1769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anna your new hair color is good

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks a bunch 🥰

  • @anandlingaraj1200
    @anandlingaraj1200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow, fasten change in the looks.. Cool 👍

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十17245812275⏭

  • @frog_prince3505
    @frog_prince3505 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you became vulnerable with a woman, if you give her your 100% love and attentiobln, she'll gonna think that you're a needy, clingy, cry baby boy, she will see you a doormat, she'll get bored and she'll lose her respect to you, swear, it will not make her fear of losing you. Men do it in a hard way, Men knows how to mindfuck her, Men knows how to play with her mind, make her feel you can walk away from her, that's the only time she will fear of losing you because she knows, she can!

  • @SmileyJohnson
    @SmileyJohnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aweeee Yesss. 60 FPS 😀😉 Absolutely love it 😎

    • @SmileyJohnson
      @SmileyJohnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shehujibrin5489 Ok, gimme something, stimulate me to dive deep in your proposition?!

    • @SmileyJohnson
      @SmileyJohnson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DAUDA ABUBAKAR okay, as fast as I need any help, I will call 📞 him, OK, sure, yyeesss. 🤬

  • @KevZX-10RC1H
    @KevZX-10RC1H 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks captain😒

  • @ericephemetherson3964
    @ericephemetherson3964 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't want a woman chase me after she dumped me. I had a situation when she wanted to get back. I'be a fool to take her back. She is gone with the wind.

  • @lolman1758
    @lolman1758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my god,thank you so much for making this video,this was the one I wanted to see!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're very welcome!

  • @markpack798
    @markpack798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Or just avoid um at all costs!! Save money, time and energy. And most importantly, your sanity...

  • @ronalddailey5208
    @ronalddailey5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really,who told you that is true. That makes you a simp, and then you're friend zoned.

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello I recommend you to Dr James he helped me reconnected back my broken relationship and made my home secured from third parties within 2 days I advice you seek help from him

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2349029353859⏯⏯
      WHAT'SAPP HIM,

  • @aryankarki7900
    @aryankarki7900 ปีที่แล้ว

    Namaskar 🙏 I”m from Nepal 🇳🇵.

  • @RavenNational
    @RavenNational 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being vulnearable is a def bad idea

  • @alfaucko
    @alfaucko ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some of this advice is a death trap 😂

  • @aarvin1
    @aarvin1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being vulnerable is the worst thing any man should do 👎

  • @spadecheck8874
    @spadecheck8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So this is for people with relationships only?

  • @TruthTriumphs786
    @TruthTriumphs786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Joy,
    I met my colleague after 5 years and I stared in her eyes and kept at it for a few seconds. She left from that place and before she could get in the car she stared back right at me and again looked into my eyes. I felt there was still spark left in her for me. I haven't seen her for the last 20 days.
    Do you think I should approach her?

    • @TruthTriumphs786
      @TruthTriumphs786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @nithin raaja ha ha ha...I mean she stared at me for over 3 secs from a distance...
      She wouldn't if I was a creep...

    • @TruthTriumphs786
      @TruthTriumphs786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @nithin raaja No, you didn't get my point. I met her recently after 5 years. When I saw her I waited at a place and locked eye contact with her. Then as she went towards her car, maybe she remembered me and then turned and stared at me from a distance for a few secs. I was curious to go and speak to her, but I though this will creep her out as I met her after a long time. That's why I kept the distance!
      I really felt that there was a chemistry between us

    • @Meese29
      @Meese29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TruthTriumphs786 Nah she deffo thought you was a creep, a man standing and staring at you from distance sounds and is terrifying. Women hate that shit and get put on high alert hence why she looked back to check you wasn't still staring or following her etc 😂 Or maybe she did recognise you who knows, if you knew her before you could have just said hiya instead of acting creepy

    • @TruthTriumphs786
      @TruthTriumphs786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Meese29 I didn't follow her Karina. I just maintained eye contact and then ignored her but later as she went near her car & before getting in the car she stared at me for a few secs and then instead of driving away she just sat in the car. I didn't understand what transpired so, I assumed she did recognize me after all these years, but I was dumbfounded to see her after such a long time, that's why I didn't approach her. I got the jitters and became a bit nervous when I saw her.

  • @captain_daniel9y631
    @captain_daniel9y631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like the curly hair

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks!

  • @ghostoferlock
    @ghostoferlock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great to see a video that shows of a woman loosing a man, but the weight of a relationship shouldn't be on a man, or woman trying to make one chase the other. You suggest that a man make himself look like the best candidate, that is something that a woman needs to feel in her heart. Vulnerability is also mentioned, if a man wants to be the centre of a womans world, based on what you are saying, he should be able to take her hands, look her in the eyes, and tell her that she is upsetting him, or behaving in a way he doesn't like. This is showing sensitivity to his own feelings, which means he would also be sensitive to hers, that would also be showing a lot of vulnerability, and hope for the future, because he wants to make his feeling know, cared for, and appreciated. And, really, what better way can a man show he thinks of a woman than wanting her to win his heart and showing her how ?

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十17245812275⏭

  • @Nolimit2010
    @Nolimit2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Anna. I disagree with you on the job promotion. I wouldn't discuss taking the promotion with her. I find women won't agree with the promotion because it takes time away from her. Start sniffling the man and he'll find a new support partner

  • @mahdimehregan4597
    @mahdimehregan4597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does being vulnerable around her make us a needy guy?

  • @btherippah6961
    @btherippah6961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You look absolutely stunning Anna! My girlfriend and I have been dating for about
    five months now and I've always been too shy and nervous to walk over and talk to her and I've watched all your videos on confidence but for some reason, they haven't been working. Can you help me?
    👍🏾👏

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十17245812275⏭

  • @apple1234iou
    @apple1234iou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to over complicate things

  • @sgtjoe2008
    @sgtjoe2008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i did all these...and she still left

  • @ivananderson4390
    @ivananderson4390 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your eyes are beautiful

  • @davidwegman168
    @davidwegman168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey were did the blonde highlights go ? N Y

  • @PrezidentHughes
    @PrezidentHughes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women 🤣 feel pressured from the man about how they look, buy still want compliments. So basically they want lies, but then they don't like lies. What a conundrum!

  • @s.beccari4678
    @s.beccari4678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    For a lack of better terms, you don't have to explain your art to her...

  • @BlueMinionIW
    @BlueMinionIW 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does it mean when she denies she likes me and that she doesn’t have feelings for me, and says she’s flattered but doesn’t want a relationship which afterwards, she sent me a video of her feet moving in her socks although she’s shown obvious signs she likes me, plus called me cute 2 or 3 times, etc. We’ve exchanged phone numbers, her friends tell me she likes me, her and I both asked each other to hang out during her lunch period as she agreed a few times, it looks like she’s scared to loose me, she asked if I liked her and to give a her a true answer and what if she did or didn’t like me, what my feelings are for her, etc, she made a project about me, she asked about my relationship status and to keep her updated, etc and that I’d find a girl soon and that she promises it, SHE KNOWS I LIKE HER, in group setting, her friends ONLY focus on HER AND I, she’s a shy person, etc? Does she like me? Is she scared of commitment? Is she manipulating me?

  • @yahshuamuhammad2067
    @yahshuamuhammad2067 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯

  • @douglasmount188
    @douglasmount188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok! Love the dark with the curls! You are rocking it tonight Anna! BTW - I'm seeing someone else... are you jelly? 😁

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr bala, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr bala always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @daseblade5615
      @daseblade5615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十17245812275⏭

  • @artifactis
    @artifactis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She lost me long ago and still phones me to get off...I'm tired of supplying her with the thrill of hurting me.
    From now on it's just him
    And I don't care!!!

    • @pastorjoycemeyer1734
      @pastorjoycemeyer1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      _Hi, I recommend this great man who helped me attract my partner again after many years of separation, he can also help you ❤❤🌹

    • @pastorjoycemeyer1734
      @pastorjoycemeyer1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll give you his number, get in touch with him by whatsap_ 👇👇👇

    • @pastorjoycemeyer1734
      @pastorjoycemeyer1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✛𝟮𝟯𝟰8167987281 (☉。☉)! ❤❤

  • @ddarshshah4503
    @ddarshshah4503 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let her know you think of her…and later you saying pratice selfcare and maintain certain distance and dont be available everytime text late..🤨🤨?!

  • @paulwojcik6339
    @paulwojcik6339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be honest with her, but doesn't she have a responsibility to be honest with me?

  • @Proposal12
    @Proposal12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait what?
    Never be vulenarable around a female , she will use that shit against you the second it benefits her
    There´s a reason why men aren´t...dishonesty is different from being vulnerable
    Guy: I feel depressed or whatever
    GIrl: I can´t deal with this shit

  • @patrickdaigle5239
    @patrickdaigle5239 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥😍🔥😍🔥

  • @beardfellow5707
    @beardfellow5707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s a scientific fact women are more attracted to men who’s feelings are unclear

  • @algram8541
    @algram8541 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂 #1 she’s not appreciating u ghosting u. Be vulnerable. Umm No absolutely not

  • @CitiesOfAsh
    @CitiesOfAsh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Men, do not show weakness or vulnerability to women. Ever.