TIMECODES 0:20 - Don and Ashley introduces their new son to the world (S4 E01) 1:12 - Don and Ashley confront each other (S4 E01) 5:45 - Ashley confronts Ty’Shae (S4 E02) 9:45 - Ashley tells Don she is considering moving to Texas (S4 E03) 12:24 - Ty’Shae pops up on Don at a tattoo party and Don exposes her lies (S4 E03) 15:12 - Ashley tells Don she is only taking Ashton to Texas (S4 E04) 18:43 - Don and Ashley go to therapy to try to work out their problems (S4 E06) 23:00 - Don and DJ Facetimes Ashley and Ashton while they are in Texas (S4 E07) 25:02 - Don and Ashley are in Jamaica trying to reconcile on Don’s wrong doing while he lotions her down (S4 E10) 27:12 - Don and Ashley reflect on the drama with Ty’Shae (S4 E11) 30:41 - Ashley goes out to the strip club and Don surprises her with a lap dance, but falls (S4 E12) 34:17 - Nikki and Phor help Don surprise Ashley with a re-commitment ceremony (S4 E14) 38:11 - Ashley and Don work out their differences at the re-commitment ceremony (S4 E14)
I don't even know why they allow this on the show... Drama is entertaining but we've watched this girl be abused for 5 seasons.... People try to put blame on Ashley too, but rarely do people just take it. A lot of people fight back. Doesn't mean she's in the wrong either. You can't push someone (abuse them in this case) and then question why they pushed back? People just don't seem to truly understand the dynamics of an abusive relationship is what I get. I hope she can snap out of it and she leaves him and her friends and family help get her together. If she had a stronger support group that recognized the abuse she probably wouldn't have left him and came back so many times... I knew her support system was trash when I heard "talk to him" a 2:25, because the appropriate response would've been "Ashely, no, let's go." At least the fact she left means realizes something ain't right, but it could be years (a lot of cases it's actually never) before someone realizes that they HAVE to get out the relationship.
Betty Boo Very True. She is as dysfunctional as he is..and try’s to stick it out for the sake of the kids and not wanting to be alone as a black woman out here. But Chile..I love myself too much to try and stick it out after he done stuck it somewhere else not once, not twice, not 3 times..but a million times...🤦🏾♀️
People can say what they want but at least Don't fights for his Kids. Ashley is only thinking about herself. Long term damage comes along with taking Kids away from Parents
Why Ashley approach the other women to hear their side of the story, then say “You have the nerve to tell me...” when you asked for it girl! Wth. Just respect yourself, leave that man alone and co-parent!
Facts: all the outings alone together, late night calls and house visits need to stop.Only thing or time she should talk is when its about the kids if she was serious😒
Yeah that’s why you shouldn’t make any couple a relationship goal because they start as awwwww and end up a train wreck. They never show black people in a positive light it’s violent, unfaithful, disloyal, and irresponsible. Remy and Papoose are one positive couple but they don’t get enough air or I’m waiting for producers to show their downfall. What God has joined together , let no one separate.
Mehret Gebrezgiabher exactly and i feel like media along with bad advice from others push black women to feel like they have to experience bs like this relationship. Ladies if you say no and walk away you literally can avoid this. People say “he changed” and that may be true for some but a lot of these guys like Don been this way and only got worse.
PlusSizedintheCity Taylor black men don't care about that lol. All they care about is dipping it low and spreading it wide with as many women as possible
@@queene3oh3 no! He’s teaching his sons this behavior is okay! And it’s NOT! So no you can’t be a good father if you’re disrespecting people like this period especially their mother.
Cheating is one of the deeper issues .Don is manipulative and he's a man child. He's a physically good looking man but hes a broken little boy . You can tell him sleeping with loads if women is tied up to his manhood
Don cares so much about black boys not having a father... But doesn't seem to care about leaving his little girl to grow up with a single mother lol. What a joke
@@houseofmatrix6174 being a father means treating the woman who made you a father with respect even more so when your suppose to be married to them.....wasteman
Don reminds me of my ex. No matter how much of a "good woman" you are, he'll never do right. & he breaks his back Every time u try to leave. Charming and manipulative. He will never change. She really should leave..but she won't.
Yea guys like this will never change! they wanna be with you but won’t treat you right and they don’t want nobody else to treat you right either! That’s why when you try to leave they do everything to get you back but they’ll be back to their old ways within a couple of days! It’s just a cycle
If you looking at someone relationships you obviously don’t have self control . You getting inspired by toxic relationship and acting like every man like him
They didn’t need to have that “which parent should take which child” conversation with the older boy sitting right there with them at the restaurant table smh
She does things like that so that he can beg her to stay so that she can feel that he loves her. She is so use to the chaos of their relationship that she needs to see him begging for her to feel love because she is so deprived of love
She looked so stupid wanting that fist bump before going to the airport after leaving dj with don. She is the reason why black men think they can run over black women.
Glory Grace men need to face the responsibilities. He is the father so is more than capable of looming after his son and seeing its not easy being a mother.
@@shantelwilliams4932 I know but at what point is enough is enough? Ain't enough love in the world lol she deserves better and I hope she realizes that.
+Kayla Johnson yes she has to realize her self worth and see that she is far better than be treated the way she is by him. he constantly humiliates her but she does that to herself too cause she keep staying. I get that she might want to be a ride or die woman for him but as you said enough is enough.
Right, like Snapchat headquarters sent some random ho to ruin his life, and relationship...can't never own up to anything...and I think that's part of the reason why she get so mad he can't never admit it or take responsibility...
@@Panicatthejazz fr it's really not hard to cheat especially when your woman lives with you. Ion know I feel like men wanna be the best father to the kids they had outside they marriage rather being a better husband to their wives.
How is it possible to make the same mistake each season after you watch yourself look like a fool while cheating on your wife? Man up bruh! Using your kids as a pawn and hurting them in the process.
April Duckworth nah I’m the one to not have children in the first place to boost my self esteem. If you can’t see how her separating the children and then STILL getting back with him after was not using the children as weapons in the first place, you’re really sick. She will continue to across states for “space” and the only thing Don will miss is the kid she takes - that’s her with the upper hand.
Don said stop saying multiple women cuz it aint been multiple women...what you call it then Don? Let's see: Charmaine, Whitney, Dom. Stripper, Tashay + the women we haven't seen. Is that not multiple???
As much as I have called Ashley stupid in the past, my heart breaks for her. She genuinely has tried to keep her family together and loves Don. Too often us as black woman destroy ourselves trying to change a man or waiting for a man to change. Idk, shes human and I cant judge her. I agree she deserves better but I can also recall a time loving a man unconditionally and it hurting but me not wanting to let him go, especially bc we have a family. It sucks. Blessing boo, and stay strong. Nothing is in vein Ashley.
Yeah. He says the mistakes he "made in the past" and "that it's not so many different woman" when you cheating every single season. They literally have 3 season of you just cheating.
Ashley not slick, she left one child behind to "slow Don down" figuring if he has a kid with him he won't have time to cheat. I would have took both my kids no conversation.
Don keeps talking about "[his] mistakes are in the past" and that's true but if you continue to keep making the same bad choices, they're not mistakes anymore; they're habits.
Don clearly only wants to be a father , he just doesn’t want to hurt Ashley feelings by saying he doesn’t want to be with her. He’s fighting this stereotype of “A black man need to be in his kids life”, i think if they didn’t have DJ he would of been left a long time ago. Does anyone notice that the new girl looks like Charmaine
But he's hurting the kids, by hurting their mother. I can't stand Don, but I know he love his kids though. It's just better to co parent than live in toxicity.......
At this point, I'm not even mad at Don anymore. She knows damn well the he's not gone stop cheating on her. So why would I be mad at Don when Ash keeps taking him back? Please let that man cheat in peace and stop stressing yourself out over something you keep putting up with!
Don doesn't love Ashley he love the boys and the idea of having a family.Ashley knows how much he love the boys she using that to keep him around hoping he will change. Don is a joke he will never be faithful to Ashley that's not his nature . Don slept with a strip in his bachelor party that alone should had help Ashley stop making a fool out of herself. If the fear of losing you is not strong enough to keep him from cheating on you that man Is not for you move the hell on.
Imagine a man getting you pregnant and then when his wife finds out he acts like you're the enemy out of nowhere and then you show up to talk to him PREGNANT and he has his female friends throw a drink at you like you did something wrong... I'm so fucking confused.
She shouldnt have aborted the other babies, just so don could get karma, he'd probably still cheat but wear more protection at least lol, btw its 2020 when are people gonna learn how to be stealthy when cheating? Like come on now
Exactly. They wouldn't be using my name and likeness for the world to see me embarassed and hurt like this. I promise I wouldn't be a cast member after season one. His storyline would be him solo.
I think she's using him now to be on the show to get them checks too. And he only wants to be with his kids he don't really want her u can tell. It's all about those boys to stay in they life because he thinks she'll take them away from him and he'll be on child support smh
"I'm gonna find a way to be a better husband. I'm gonna find a way to be a better father. Period." Use Common sense and have some respect... Damn he justifies and tries to flip everything. He's really a manipulative creep who found the right target 😕
Been there. Love is blind. Once the veil is lifted, it is a blessing. I can't looked down on her. I had a whole checklist about the guys I delt with. Once I finally fell in love, he turned out to be the very guy I was trying to avoid. I don't know how I ended there, but I did. I'm glad she finally making him accountable. Sometimes you got to leave for them to change. If they feel you won't go no way, they will continue to treat you poorly.
Ashley is so insecure. Shes always trying to convince herself that shes better than these other women when it's clear Don lies to these women. He definitely told charmaine he wasnt with Ashley. So who knows what he told these other chicks.
@@thebestrapsever3660 who blamed her for having a cheating husband? I blame her for KEEPING a cheating husband. When somebody shows you who they are before the marriage, if you marry them anyway, you deserve what you get. He cheated several times before they even got married. It's not like he was som great man then switched up.
@Jazza bell plenty of men lie to women and say they are getting divorced when they arent. I had to approach my best friends cousin because he tried to tell my friend that lie when his wife was pregnant and he was fake happy online. I dont date married men period. I dont do separated. But some women think him being separated makes it ok.
@Jazza bell I didnt watch this show when it first came on. So him being on TV doesnt mean hes famous. I could ask 10 friends who he was and they wouldnt know.
Ashley is comfortable for Don. He doesn’t want to lose her but he wants to do his thing still. It’s sad because he’s ruining people’s lives in the process of his selfishness
I don't care what nobody say that girl in the back is a great friend to Ashley. She wants them to work it out look at the way she started crying. I want a friend like her a friend thats with me through the good and the bad times. Its just so hard to find.
YES IM LIKE THAT I DON'T TELL MY FRIENDS TO LEAVE THEY MEN DOG OR NOT I JUST WAIT FOR THEM TO FIGURE THEIR LIFE Out AN I WILL BE THERE TO HELP THEM HEAL FROM THEIR EMOTIONS
Looks ain’t everything. You can get a side piece and buy her taco bell and she will be happy, wild , nice and ask for very little , the wife wants a five star stake, nags you to death, complains, asks for the world. What would you choose? Dudes that ain’t nothing gone always want cheaper
@@kiara1989231) because it has been allowed. 2) He knows she is not going anywhere. 3) She doesnt want to have to go get a real job and take care of those boys solo dolo
Omg this just made me cringe! Like he goes down on these chicks, the one girl said he ate the groceries too, two girls have come out with possible pregnancies by him and all he can say is he hopes they aren't his so u know he's not even using condoms 😷😷 just throw the whole dude away!
TIMECODES
0:20 - Don and Ashley introduces their new son to the world (S4 E01)
1:12 - Don and Ashley confront each other (S4 E01)
5:45 - Ashley confronts Ty’Shae (S4 E02)
9:45 - Ashley tells Don she is considering moving to Texas (S4 E03)
12:24 - Ty’Shae pops up on Don at a tattoo party and Don exposes her lies (S4 E03)
15:12 - Ashley tells Don she is only taking Ashton to Texas (S4 E04)
18:43 - Don and Ashley go to therapy to try to work out their problems (S4 E06)
23:00 - Don and DJ Facetimes Ashley and Ashton while they are in Texas (S4 E07)
25:02 - Don and Ashley are in Jamaica trying to reconcile on Don’s wrong doing while he lotions her down (S4 E10)
27:12 - Don and Ashley reflect on the drama with Ty’Shae (S4 E11)
30:41 - Ashley goes out to the strip club and Don surprises her with a lap dance, but falls (S4 E12)
34:17 - Nikki and Phor help Don surprise Ashley with a re-commitment ceremony (S4 E14)
38:11 - Ashley and Don work out their differences at the re-commitment ceremony (S4 E14)
Re-commitment ceremony???
What is that?
VH1 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
VH1 thanks cause I was t trying to watch their entire mess of a relationship
Thanks cause chileeee i did not wana go through all them episodes again
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Girl I want to break up with Don and I’m not even with him. The relationship is giving me grey hairs. 🤦🏻♀️
Ediana Ventrice lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I wanna leave him too in a dramatic way . Like with a limousine and mariachi band and TMZ
😂😂😂
Ediana Ventrice 🤣🤣
Don = The Guy who punches a wall so he doesn’t punch a woman and gives gifts when he says he’s sorry. Emotional Abuse.
I don't even know why they allow this on the show... Drama is entertaining but we've watched this girl be abused for 5 seasons.... People try to put blame on Ashley too, but rarely do people just take it. A lot of people fight back. Doesn't mean she's in the wrong either. You can't push someone (abuse them in this case) and then question why they pushed back? People just don't seem to truly understand the dynamics of an abusive relationship is what I get.
I hope she can snap out of it and she leaves him and her friends and family help get her together. If she had a stronger support group that recognized the abuse she probably wouldn't have left him and came back so many times... I knew her support system was trash when I heard "talk to him" a 2:25, because the appropriate response would've been "Ashely, no, let's go." At least the fact she left means realizes something ain't right, but it could be years (a lot of cases it's actually never) before someone realizes that they HAVE to get out the relationship.
Betty Boo Very True. She is as dysfunctional as he is..and try’s to stick it out for the sake of the kids and not wanting to be alone as a black woman out here. But Chile..I love myself too much to try and stick it out after he done stuck it somewhere else not once, not twice, not 3 times..but a million times...🤦🏾♀️
Exactly
Ms. M exactly!
Uh... he's definitely beating that ass. Maybe not on her Face but yeah.
I don’t understand how a man can be so aggressive when trying to apologize to the woman he loves as he claims
Cause he doesn't love the women that he aggressively apologies to
this is the type of man who literally breaks your mind down completely
Facts
Facts! I've been there
If u let him .
Always
Yup!
Her friend crying in the kitchen broke my heart cuz she cares about her girl dannng so sad 😔
I don’t see why. She was tryna convince her to go through w the wedding in S2. Her and her brother was tryna make excuses for Don.
Omg I know I’m late but yes that broke me too my eyes watered up so much 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Me too Sis! I felt that! 😪😪
Watching their son cry in front of the restaurant broke my heart
A. A. A. A.
I've watched all 4 of these & I am drained 😂😂😔their relationship is very toxic
True..me too.
Ms. Fency Gray girl yes they’re stressful 😂
Watched them like it was a series. When season 5 is over, I guess we will get another one.
Dude yes...
I’m still baffled at the fact that he’s cheated every season.
I pray I don’t end up with a man like this
F that I hope I don’t have SELF ESTEEM/ worth that’s that low ever for any man smh
AMEN
Kyla Ky pray but also don’t ignore flags. You’ll be ok sis
People can say what they want but at least Don't fights for his Kids. Ashley is only thinking about herself. Long term damage comes along with taking Kids away from Parents
Kyla Ky you have the power to control that just like Ashley does.
Ashley acts like Don is the only man left in the world. There are better men out there. Find you one, Sis.
Exactly what I'm saying
Heyyyy! Right on!
Barbara Codner that’s their kids son that’s why she trying to get away and then come back
Nah it's cuz all those damn sacrifices she made and time invested. But I agree with u
Right
Guilty man’s favorite quote: “”believe what you want.
Cherise Davidson Quiet, woman.
bigplanner what?
Cherise Davidson I’m playing but you’re right I used to say that all the time when I was caught
bigplanner 😂😂💀💀
Cherise Davidson truth
My prayer is that no woman (including me) never ends up with a Don as a husband, partner, or boyfriend
amen/ameen
Pray for discernment and you'll be fine.
I think you will! But I hope u can change him!
That true sister this men is trash we see so many seasons his dude cheat and have kids with anothe womans Don don't have any of my respect🖕👎💢
Being a man ain’t easy. Know that
Why Ashley approach the other women to hear their side of the story, then say “You have the nerve to tell me...” when you asked for it girl! Wth. Just respect yourself, leave that man alone and co-parent!
Facts: all the outings alone together, late night calls and house visits need to stop.Only thing or time she should talk is when its about the kids if she was serious😒
Lmaooo
Omg u said it...then after she begged them to tell her she would try to beat them up 😂😂😂😂she has really lost her mind
@@highlyblessed2389 this girl lucky she ain't have no friends with her or they would have jumped tlher ass ASAP
He has got two black boys growing in america...and he is making a bad example
Righttt
And a daughter with the side woman.
Mike Mitch both of them are not great example fr fr
Leighan Swanya I hate to admit this but your don needs set better example
I feel so bad for them little boys
Dude has a weird way of looking at the situation. He’s at fault but appears to be blaming her for the issues of being separated.
JaieWall narcissistic
Narcissist 😒
Narcissist and gaslighting
He would be the poster child for gaslighting.
He blamed everyone but himself. Even blamed snapchat
Dang, do y’all show heathy relationships. Do four parts to Remy ma and papoose.
Riiiiight
I’m pretty sure they did
Yeah that’s why you shouldn’t make any couple a relationship goal because they start as awwwww and end up a train wreck. They never show black people in a positive light it’s violent, unfaithful, disloyal, and irresponsible. Remy and Papoose are one positive couple but they don’t get enough air or I’m waiting for producers to show their downfall. What God has joined together , let no one separate.
Pretty sure they dont show healthy relationships cuz people like drama lmao
Mehret Gebrezgiabher exactly and i feel like media along with bad advice from others push black women to feel like they have to experience bs like this relationship. Ladies if you say no and walk away you literally can avoid this. People say “he changed” and that may be true for some but a lot of these guys like Don been this way and only got worse.
When that baby start crying for his mom it broke my heart
Sameeeee omg
Same
@Elva Martinez that the baby crying broke their heart...😐
Narcissist always try and flip the story....DON IT'S YOUR FAULT
Period
What about teaching your boys to respect black woman.... don’t forget that part
Right, and respect women all 2gether
Amen!
So all this guys done use protection ooo lored🤦♂️
PlusSizedintheCity Taylor black men don't care about that lol. All they care about is dipping it low and spreading it wide with as many women as possible
@@jacpppp i swear i heard that on love and hip hop. Idk who said it. Lol
8:13 Ashley: “Congratulations you played yourself, you look like a fool”
Pot, meet kettle 🤦🏾♀️
Lmao
YUP
Definitely damn fool smh
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol riiiiiight
Just cause he put a wedding ring on you don’t mean he gone stop cheating on uu baby 🤷🏽♀️
Exactly if you gon get a husband get a good one!
"I got two black boys in america who need their father and I'll do whatever to be there." Ummmmmmm be a GREAT husband!
Justice Falana thank you! What an idiot!
@@SlimB1mil he can’t help his sons. He can’t even help himself.
🤔Because Don Is A Terrible Husband, He Can't Be A There For His Sons🤷🏾♀️Or "Great" Father??
Amen!!
@@queene3oh3 no! He’s teaching his sons this behavior is okay! And it’s NOT! So no you can’t be a good father if you’re disrespecting people like this period especially their mother.
Every season he pulling out them roses.
J C 😂🤣😂 right and her screaming and yelling talking about I want fight for my family blah blah
@@02157 Right!
😂 y’all are too petty
J C probably purchased by production...
🤣
Broke my heart when lil man started crying when Ashley was leaving with the baby. 💞😢
That broke my heart too ☹💔
That was the worst part...it just ain't right. :( These men don't respect their wives and then it falls on the kids. Smdh
Ikr
Me too my heart broke for him
Man I'm crying right now because it😭
Cheating is one of the deeper issues .Don is manipulative and he's a man child. He's a physically good looking man but hes a broken little boy . You can tell him sleeping with loads if women is tied up to his manhood
He has that narrisitic t.i. views of life and marriage
💯💯💯
Hes a bitchboy
In all seriousness Don is not good looking at all.
Lynette dunn yea he’s angry too he has some childhood trauma it seems
“Snapchat Woman” I cannnnnottttttt
Deannah h u peep tho like damn.
💀💀💀💀
I’m Done 💀💀😂😂
Shes actually a good woman
I don’t blame her for being upset
She just wants a stable family
As we all lol
No she just crazy why ask for the truth and can't take it😳
Alexia B most of us do, but how many times does one have to show you they don’t respect you or your wishes of having a family for you to let go.
a good woman? she's just a crazy as Don i can admit she's gotten better from the previous season but she's still a messy person
She don't want no stable family. A family can be stable without the parents being together. She wants to hurt him cause he don't want her.
He cheated the night before bed the wedding ,what was she thinking.
So true & those damn pics 💯 hell na
The night before there wedding , correction
jacquelyn world wait so she never found out about the wedding thing ?
@@tyison24 nope , he lied blamed it on a drunk night 💯
Don cares so much about black boys not having a father... But doesn't seem to care about leaving his little girl to grow up with a single mother lol. What a joke
jacpppp facts
I forgot he even had a daughter. Damn fucked up
jacpppp he wants take care his daughter 2 he might cheated don’t come at his fatherhood
@@houseofmatrix6174 being a father means treating the woman who made you a father with respect even more so when your suppose to be married to them.....wasteman
Cause he can teach little boys how to.be a chauvinist just like him.
Don reminds me of my ex. No matter how much of a "good woman" you are, he'll never do right. & he breaks his back Every time u try to leave. Charming and manipulative. He will never change. She really should leave..but she won't.
Vee Valentine mines to sad thing is she keeps putting up with it. I want to whoop his ass
She eventually left
Glad you did
And usually they are back to their old selves within a week
Yea guys like this will never change! they wanna be with you but won’t treat you right and they don’t want nobody else to treat you right either! That’s why when you try to leave they do everything to get you back but they’ll be back to their old ways within a couple of days! It’s just a cycle
This is actually giving me trauma. Like I’d rather be single. It’s heartbreaking. This is like mentally draining
Facts
If you looking at someone relationships you obviously don’t have self control . You getting inspired by toxic relationship and acting like every man like him
@@katvogue2871 ... where did I say that every man is like him? You assuming things by my comment. I think you shouldn’t do that
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯‼️
kat vogue what in Gods name are you talking about?
They didn’t need to have that “which parent should take which child” conversation with the older boy sitting right there with them at the restaurant table smh
She does things like that so that he can beg her to stay so that she can feel that he loves her. She is so use to the chaos of their relationship that she needs to see him begging for her to feel love because she is so deprived of love
Right
Why do I keep watching these videos of their stressful ass relationship 💀💀
cause it be entertaining
I definitely watch the other 3 💀💀😭
Brian Couch because it's new years eve and there is nothing else to do right now. 🎆🎆Happy New Year🎆🎆 we made it
Omg me tooooooo
Brian Couch me too 🙄😂
Ashley just file for divorce.... don't ever let a man take your youth
Yeah... Wasting her life.
There's young kids involved in this situation. Think🤦🏾♀️
This!!!
They're draining me. I'm done with this relationship. I love me more. Sorry guys. I just can't. Good luck
blacp3arl gemini 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
@Ig Kreme_betweens this comment took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
Made me cry when she said you been a broken husband to me 😞I felt that and my heart feels like it just hit to the floor 😢😭🙌🏼
Me too 😭
Me too.
True
If my son would have cried for me I would have taken him with me. There’s no way I would have left him. Daddy or not my babies are coming with me.
@Anaiz Ferris not through the children though
@@abigailallen5449 the children suffer regardless but cheaters never think about that when they cheat
She looked so stupid wanting that fist bump before going to the airport after leaving dj with don. She is the reason why black men think they can run over black women.
Glory Grace men need to face the responsibilities. He is the father so is more than capable of looming after his son and seeing its not easy being a mother.
Frfr im not leaving my child period
Don and Ashley could've made part 2 of the baby boy movie with all his cheating
Marabella Love 😩😂
This is sad to watch. And he got the nerve to be so arrogant and so wrong at the same time.
Lol
😂 😂
😹😹😹😹
Ashley... Are you ever going to be tired of this relationship??? Like sis LEAVE! 😫😪😪
she loves him too much
@@shantelwilliams4932 I know but at what point is enough is enough? Ain't enough love in the world lol she deserves better and I hope she realizes that.
+Kayla Johnson yes she has to realize her self worth and see that she is far better than be treated the way she is by him. he constantly humiliates her but she does that to herself too cause she keep staying. I get that she might want to be a ride or die woman for him but as you said enough is enough.
Never he upgraded her life she will never leave
Nope...long as he on TV she aint done!
He try’s so hard to place the blame on everything but himself. He really sat there and blamed Snapchat 😂
Right, like Snapchat headquarters sent some random ho to ruin his life, and relationship...can't never own up to anything...and I think that's part of the reason why she get so mad he can't never admit it or take responsibility...
Narcissist
@@xxxtrddy lol headquarters
Don is literally the definition of “wanting his cake and eating it too”.
And the balloons and all the mfing Lolly bags!
this phrase makes no sense, of course im gonna want the cake and eat it???? like yall make no sense
@@jayjack333so tru😂😂😂 actually the saying has to dp with adultery/cheating and the OG saying is YOU CAN'T HAVE KATE AND EDITH😂
Who else crying when lil dj balled for his mama. Omg 💔
meee!?
I watched all four of these and I’m stressed tf out!!!!
I watched only this one and MY HEAD HURTS😒
Lmao damn
😂😂😂😂
I want to fight him.
Cherise Davidson lol this is the only one that I’ve watched Don is an asshole and Ashley needs to leave periodt
He cheated on her so many times that even he feels sorry for her lol.... the best apology is corrective actions.
D Rob Lol he does seem like he feels sorry for her, but he never gonna change.
😂😂😂
luvlove143 exactly
Damn its so bad it has 4 parts lmao...what that tell you??!! It always gonna be something!
They got like almost 2 hours on them. Think about how horrible they relationship is off camera.
@@thankyounext365 yes i know lol
Lol vh1 petty af they in trouble with Don
Yes it’s horrible lol has he gone even a whole year without cheating? It’s not that hard
@@Panicatthejazz fr it's really not hard to cheat especially when your woman lives with you. Ion know I feel like men wanna be the best father to the kids they had outside they marriage rather being a better husband to their wives.
I feel like Don played a huge role in her developing cancer. Cancer grows from stress and she was in such a toxic environment.
She had cancer???
Awww that’s really sad what kind?
Damn..
Is she okay now? I never knew that 😢
That’s a lie I never heard that
Lmaooooo he’s gonna continue to make the same “mistakes “ he’s a serial cheater..
Facts😒
VH1 petty for having them meet in a bookstore. 😂😂
Tangi M. wait why
@@bunniiixo huuuh it's quiet and they're yelling🤦🏾♀️
He going to cheat in season 5 and 6
LOL!!
It is going to be the series finale and Don is going to caught cheating
yes his ass is he be flirting with the fans the way he be talking an looking the how's be clucking
He such a dummy.
7,8,9 and 10 🤣🤣🤣
How is it possible to make the same mistake each season after you watch yourself look like a fool while cheating on your wife? Man up bruh! Using your kids as a pawn and hurting them in the process.
True
Exactly.....
Facts!
I don’t care I know Ashley is a fool for Don but I have a soft spot for her ❤️ she deserves so much more.
Watching Dj cry while her mom leaves broke my heart like nothing 😭💔
Shes making a bullshit decision. Never seperate children.
It broke my heart
I thought DJ was a boy
@@crystalmoon1043 oh yes he is sorry 🤦🏽♀️
She left him to keep Don from having 100% freedom
Don can cheat on Ashley in the afterlife and she still won’t go nowhere.
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO not the after life 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😆
Her son crying breaks my heart 😓. This is how children are used as weapons in relationships, it’s sick, cruel and selfish.
April Duckworth nah I’m the one to not have children in the first place to boost my self esteem. If you can’t see how her separating the children and then STILL getting back with him after was not using the children as weapons in the first place, you’re really sick. She will continue to across states for “space” and the only thing Don will miss is the kid she takes - that’s her with the upper hand.
I love you woman lol you right!!!
97z exactly. Tbh thats the only reason why he sticking with her, to keep his kids in his life
Omg that tore me me apart too🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
April Duckworth but she stayed and kept staying and still staying so she like the drama
Don said stop saying multiple women cuz it aint been multiple women...what you call it then Don? Let's see: Charmaine, Whitney, Dom. Stripper, Tashay + the women we haven't seen. Is that not multiple???
Nahhhhh. Fr tho..
And that’s just all we know of 😒
@@Anonymousthough exactly my point but its not multiple?!! Ok Don....
dlouvin 😂😂youshould be her lawyer when they get a actually divorce.
@@blue_moonship Ashley couldn't pay me enough to go through multiple hearings...although Don would say quit saying multiple
As much as I have called Ashley stupid in the past, my heart breaks for her. She genuinely has tried to keep her family together and loves Don. Too often us as black woman destroy ourselves trying to change a man or waiting for a man to change. Idk, shes human and I cant judge her. I agree she deserves better but I can also recall a time loving a man unconditionally and it hurting but me not wanting to let him go, especially bc we have a family. It sucks. Blessing boo, and stay strong. Nothing is in vein Ashley.
"Snapchat was willing to f***k up everything I had.."
Wait, what? LOL
Narcissistic behavior it's about control not love .
Exactly
Yup
Yeah. He says the mistakes he "made in the past" and "that it's not so many different woman" when you cheating every single season. They literally have 3 season of you just cheating.
✋I totally agree... Been there done that
Don must be slow... he lacks accountability and Ashley backs him up. Anyone that gets involved in their mess is a fool.
Him & Phor kinda stupid.
He not slow he is A Narcissist
@@RBGUERILLAlow key gay
I’m not even in this relationship and I already done!!!!🙄🙄🙄
Yea sure you are....
“ you’re yelling at me about facts that ain’t true” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
It’s Don saying “facts that ain’t true” for me 😂
Exactly if it’s facts how is it not true
Did you see the look on her friend's face?
@@Noonieamoree😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ashley not slick, she left one child behind to "slow Don down" figuring if he has a kid with him he won't have time to cheat. I would have took both my kids no conversation.
Real af😍😍💯💯💋💋💋
brishaberries0101 he gon have another chick watch his son...
@@charmainelacey6033 😙👑💯
@@tiffanylee2494 Exactly. A man like Don is capable of anything.
I swear I just wrote this before I read this...💯💯💯
"Showing up here looking pregnant? For real?"
This man is absolutely whack 😂
Syd Ney was she actually pregnant and did she have the baby?
His ___ must be amazing!! Cuz girl I would never!!!!!!
Well I mean she ain’t look pregnant when she was talking to Ashley
Lmao 😂
When Ashley smiles happy smiles. She beams 🤩
Apple Boss but it’s mostly when don isn’t cheating.. when smiling should be regardless.
life is beautiful, such a blessing 🥳
Don keeps talking about "[his] mistakes are in the past" and that's true but if you continue to keep making the same bad choices, they're not mistakes anymore; they're habits.
Don is an Example of the type of MAN you DON'T WANT!!!
Don clearly only wants to be a father , he just doesn’t want to hurt Ashley feelings by saying he doesn’t want to be with her. He’s fighting this stereotype of “A black man need to be in his kids life”, i think if they didn’t have DJ he would of been left a long time ago. Does anyone notice that the new girl looks like Charmaine
But he's hurting the kids, by hurting their mother. I can't stand Don, but I know he love his kids though. It's just better to co parent than live in toxicity.......
I can tell He's not attracted to her
All Fax
I believe your analysis of this situation is correct
Some man also want their wife and a side chick . I was one of those dumbasses . They really love their baby mother but still want another woman .
Ashley needs to let this go, they got season's of your pain, in chronological order. Just year after year of disrespect for the world to see.
Oh my
Right
😭😭😢
At this point, I'm not even mad at Don anymore. She knows damn well the he's not gone stop cheating on her. So why would I be mad at Don when Ash keeps taking him back? Please let that man cheat in peace and stop stressing yourself out over something you keep putting up with!
right she minds well if she gon keep goin back
So true how many times he has cheated she should be so use to it that it shouldn't even hurt anymore. She should be numb to the situation.
💯💯💯💯
This
This comment is so dumb 😂
Don doesn't love Ashley he love the boys and the idea of having a family.Ashley knows how much he love the boys she using that to keep him around hoping he will change. Don is a joke he will never be faithful to Ashley that's not his nature . Don slept with a strip in his bachelor party that alone should had help Ashley stop making a fool out of herself. If the fear of losing you is not strong enough to keep him from cheating on you that man Is not for you move the hell on.
Their "relationship" is highly draining I will say that but I'm over here dying laughing at 'Inferno' Don falling 🤣🤷🏽♀️
This is like watching Ronnie and Sammie off the Jersey Shore like damn leave each other alone!!!!🤦🏾♀️😂😂
Right!!
RONNN STAPPP
ROOOOOOONNNN STAAP EEEETTTT 🗣
Latasha Wright this is WAYYYYYYYYYYYY worse
@@Laoriginal718 i know just sooo Toxic and steady trynna hold on to each other!!!!
I'm TIRED! Their journey is soooo stressful. 😪😪😪 but I'm still gon' watch tho.
😂😂
🤣
totally me
Worst relationship EVER!!!
Marriage lol losers they are
Can we take a moment to appreciate how drop dead gorgeous Ashley is 😍
flawlesslove97 gorgeous...from head to toe. Her boys look just like her too. 😍
flawlesslove97 yes she is ❤️
She’s VERY BEAUTIFUL
Imagine a man getting you pregnant and then when his wife finds out he acts like you're the enemy out of nowhere and then you show up to talk to him PREGNANT and he has his female friends throw a drink at you like you did something wrong... I'm so fucking confused.
She shouldnt have aborted the other babies, just so don could get karma, he'd probably still cheat but wear more protection at least lol, btw its 2020 when are people gonna learn how to be stealthy when cheating? Like come on now
If u clean out ya ears she said “she better be lucky I’m fake pregnant” and she was lying the whole time tryna break they family up
D’naysha Butler Girl now you know damn well that was not her voice
The Venus Marquez exactly
So she knew that man was married.. did she expect different? If hes able to mess around on his wife and family he dont give two shits about her.
He disgusted you so much , you came back for more and to collect them vh1 checks
Exactly. They wouldn't be using my name and likeness for the world to see me embarassed and hurt like this. I promise I wouldn't be a cast member after season one. His storyline would be him solo.
😂😂😂 I Was Thinking the Same Thing!! 😂😂😂 #facts She'll Put Up With The Lies And Cheating As Long As The Money Keep Rolling In 😂😂
I can't 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think she's using him now to be on the show to get them checks too. And he only wants to be with his kids he don't really want her u can tell. It's all about those boys to stay in they life because he thinks she'll take them away from him and he'll be on child support smh
At least she gettin' paid.
Don Dogging Ashley Pt. 4
Lmao she jus gets Dumd n Dumder lol girl.. she jus Irrating n Dumd frrr
30:03 He's blaming Snapchat. Lol it's like blaming a picture for you being in it. The more he thinks like this, the more he's going to cheat
umurs4eva 😂😂😂
"I'm gonna find a way to be a better husband. I'm gonna find a way to be a better father. Period."
Use Common sense and have some respect... Damn he justifies and tries to flip everything. He's really a manipulative creep who found the right target 😕
He is a textbook gaslighter and you’re right he found a willful victim.
Been there. Love is blind. Once the veil is lifted, it is a blessing. I can't looked down on her. I had a whole checklist about the guys I delt with. Once I finally fell in love, he turned out to be the very guy I was trying to avoid. I don't know how I ended there, but I did. I'm glad she finally making him accountable. Sometimes you got to leave for them to change. If they feel you won't go no way, they will continue to treat you poorly.
When she leaves and her baby boy is crying that's heartbreaking 😭
Ashley is so insecure. Shes always trying to convince herself that shes better than these other women when it's clear Don lies to these women. He definitely told charmaine he wasnt with Ashley. So who knows what he told these other chicks.
Dont blame her for having a cheating husband
Lexi Powell facts 💯
@@thebestrapsever3660 who blamed her for having a cheating husband? I blame her for KEEPING a cheating husband. When somebody shows you who they are before the marriage, if you marry them anyway, you deserve what you get. He cheated several times before they even got married. It's not like he was som great man then switched up.
@Jazza bell plenty of men lie to women and say they are getting divorced when they arent. I had to approach my best friends cousin because he tried to tell my friend that lie when his wife was pregnant and he was fake happy online. I dont date married men period. I dont do separated. But some women think him being separated makes it ok.
@Jazza bell I didnt watch this show when it first came on. So him being on TV doesnt mean hes famous. I could ask 10 friends who he was and they wouldnt know.
Don is with ashley so he doesn't have to pay child support 💯💯
I don't think she would
@@creamekay ashley the type to do every bitter women thing in the book. He know if he break up with her it would be WAR!!! Lol
And nooooo babysitter
You know what, I think you're right. I never thought about that.
Facts!!
I’m on the 4th chapter of this and I can’t even speak to my own damn husband at this time.😂 I need a moment to decompress from this drama.😩😪
Low self-esteem at its finest.Don shuda been kicked to the curb that boy don't value u hon and its because u don't value yourself
bloody hell
😭😭😭😭
Right its bringing up past trauma
The scene of DJ watching his mama & brother leave for Texas is heartbreaking
I fell bad for the kids. When he started crying, it hurt me, cuz I know How he feels. I'm Crying and eating Pizza.
Me 😭
Lol
One woman is too many when you should be only committed to your wife.
Facts
Well said
Say that!!
Ashley mad at the sidechicks.. She ain’t mad at Don
Juanita Newsom she mad at both but she be playing herself
I know Ashley and honestly she deserves better
How many times do you have to fk up before you fix up.. ? What a nightmare
Besides the Ashley and Don's toxic cycle of doom, am I the only one that find Nikki and Phors reaction hilarious 😂
18:40 when that baby started crying really broke my heart 💔
Ikr
Ashley is comfortable for Don. He doesn’t want to lose her but he wants to do his thing still. It’s sad because he’s ruining people’s lives in the process of his selfishness
I don't care what nobody say that girl in the back is a great friend to Ashley. She wants them to work it out look at the way she started crying. I want a friend like her a friend thats with me through the good and the bad times. Its just so hard to find.
yep. she's a real true friend. I hurt, she hurts.
It really is hard to find! I want a friend like that too.
YES IM LIKE THAT I DON'T TELL MY FRIENDS TO LEAVE THEY MEN DOG OR NOT I JUST WAIT FOR THEM TO FIGURE THEIR LIFE Out AN I WILL BE THERE TO HELP THEM HEAL FROM THEIR EMOTIONS
Candace Jeffries And she never hesitates to tell her when she's wrong either! Soooo hard to find real girls like that.
Oooow so is okay for one night mmmmm
Ashley had a glow up shes beautiful 💓
Exactly which is why I don't get why he cheats!
Which is exactly I dont get why she stays.
Looks ain’t everything. You can get a side piece and buy her taco bell and she will be happy, wild , nice and ask for very little , the wife wants a five star stake, nags you to death, complains, asks for the world. What would you choose? Dudes that ain’t nothing gone always want cheaper
@@kiara1989231) because it has been allowed. 2) He knows she is not going anywhere. 3) She doesnt want to have to go get a real job and take care of those boys solo dolo
"Facts that ain't true" ..... where do I begin 🤔😂😂😂.
I DIED when "Mr. Inferno" pulled a Mimi when holding that ceiling vent & it dropped 💀💀💀💀💀
I can't believe she still kissing this dude on the mouth 😷🤢🤮
Omg this just made me cringe! Like he goes down on these chicks, the one girl said he ate the groceries too, two girls have come out with possible pregnancies by him and all he can say is he hopes they aren't his so u know he's not even using condoms 😷😷 just throw the whole dude away!
Girl...God...when these niggas is eating the box of randoms?? **side-eyeing Ryan, Kat and Rachel.**
shondaface EXACTLY STILL KISSING HIM AFTER HE DONE ATE CHARMAINE COOTY CAT 🤣💯
I'd be so humiliated to have such a toxic and embarrassing relationship brodcast to the public.
Girl he aint gone beg on one knee, he couldnt even propose to you on one knee
Ashley thinks she can change him.You Cant change a Person. Once a cheter always a cheter.
Ashley has beautiful skin, she’s real pretty.