PICK Meisha Coming For Single/ChildFree By Choice Women
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Healthy, healed women don't waste their time online worrying about what child free women are doing 😂
And childfree women should not be online worrying about what married women with children are doing. 🤷🏽♀️😌
@@sg5720were not we’re busy traveling we just wish y’all would be financially ready for these kids and stop having everybody pay for them
@@sg5720Don't you have a diaper to change?
@@sg5720they don’t! The married women with kids are crying everywhere on the internet though.
@@sg5720
Lol! 😂
Childfree women AREN'T the ones worried about marry folks with kids! We literally dgaf!
Most women who are married end up spending the rest of their lives by themselves
And exposed to STI
Exactly, Married single mothers getting cheated on🤦🏾♀️
But if SHE was happy, why would she care so much? I mean the woman is so obsessed with single women and other people in general instead of enjoying her baby daddy and kids. 🙄
That is so sad. It is a roll of a dice, unfortunately not all women will have a great life with a man. Marriage and having children is NOT for everyone. People need to live themselves more and be okay alone. Yes, we are social creatures but we are also individuals and can make our own choices. 😌
@@melimaine2218Sounds like granny realized that males are a liability and a waste of time. Good for grandma. She is free to choose how she lives her life.
It doesnt make sense to her because its not FOR HER. UGH
Right! Do you over there while I do me over here DAMN! 😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
This is how you know misery loves company because why does she want women to join her in her married w/ children lifestyle so badly. She sounds pressed💀🤣 I never hear single childless women trying to convince women who want the opposite to go to therapy to change their lifestyle lol
Girl if they was happy they wouldnt even be asking these dumb questions.
Exactly, different strokes for different folks! People like her feel that their wants and needs are the blueprint for everyone else in the world. So, in their minds, anyone who doesn't want what they want is doing something wrong.
Lmao right
She needs to go find a therapist to find out why she is obsessed with single women business..
🤣🤣🤣🤣🎯🎯🎯🎯 truth truth truth! She’s obsessed and that’s so creepy and weird!!!
She single and don’t like it.🤷🏽♀️🤣
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Some women regret having children and misery loves company. 😂
Truly. The people I know who have kids and are happy being parents aren't concerned about whether other people have kids or not. They just enjoy their lives and families, and mind their own business. It's the miserable ones who can't stand seeing other people dodge the mistakes they made themselves, and they want to bring us into the muck.
Especially since the men leave them as married single mothers 🤦🏾♀️
@@jayogee913
Fr. The men and women I work with that adore their families have never tried to convince me.
Lmao yup
I don’t understand how any woman can regret having children. Sad. 😔
That’s because that’s their WHOLE identity. They cannot see HOW it’s possible to have a life that’s centered around yourself and not just living for others it’s so disgusting
People like her can't imagine that type of life being comfortable for them, they can't imagine it being comfortable for anybody else. They assume everybody wants the same life that they want, and something must be wrong with you, if you don't.
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Why do the Pick Me's care about us singles so much? THEY CAN HAVE ALL THE MEN! Shouldn't they be happy we're out of the pool? That's reduces competition for men, and that helps the Pick Me's! They're going about this all wrong, lol! 🤣🤣🤣
The reason they are so mad is because they know single women don’t care about them, single women have our own lives and are happy and fulfilled.
Those girls will never be picked because the men hate them especially because those girls are weak, desperate, and already broken. The men have nothing to do with those pick me girls beyond pump and dump. Besides those pick me girls are already ruined by choice and the men don’t have anything to destroy the work has already been done.
Pick me girls are always bringing drama because deep down being alone with themselves is terrifying because they will have to do self reflection on their lives. Deep down she knows she can’t handle the fact that she squandered her life on men and has literally nothing to show for it.
No career, no friendships, no traveling, nothing not even volunteering to help others. She is just her sorry horrible and pathetic self until the end of her days.
That’s why she assumes other women are like her, in reality she is a pick me girl and chose to be pathetic which is the worse thing I could ever imagine 🤮
Right!? Just be grateful I don’t want your man lol. Free sigh of relief sis 😅
Because men don't want the pickme's. They want the strong women they can break down.
They can never answer that question.
PREACH!!!!!
"Alone" and " by one's self" is subjective. People got family, friends, and pets they like to hang around.
Right! 💯
Thank you! "Alone" in this society is if you are not in a relationship with some damn man. This socialization process destroys women by socializing women to believe that a man must be the center of their universe.
We are alone, but not lonely.
Agreed. 💯
‘Alone’ (to me, personally) is more of a *physical state of being.* Whereas ‘lonely’ is more of a feeling of sadness and emptiness.
Example: A person can be sitting by themselves inside of a coffee shop w/ their cup of coffee, working on their laptop. Just because they're sitting by themselves, it doesn't mean they're ‘lonely.’
Or a person could be by themselves playing with their dog at the dog park. It doesn't mean they're ‘lonely.’
Another example: There could be a person at a gathering and feel lonely even though there's a bunch of people around.
So yes. I agree. There's a difference between "alone" and "lonely."
A person might be alone, introverted and fulfilled just like a person might be extraverted, lonely and unfulfilled.
@@marissa._ Clock that tea.
I don't know why women who want to be wives and mothers must come for those of us who don't. Why are they so pressed about single/childfree women? They should be happy, more men for them. I think many of them aren't as happy as they say they are, and resent the freedom single/childfree women have.
If marriage is so great, why are the majority of divorces initiated by women? They are tired of being single mothers. A great deal of them regret becoming wives and mothers in the first place. Chile, you ain't fooling nobody. Get out of here with that! 😂😂
People don’t take marriage seriously. That is another problem. 😔
Marriage and kids can be great, just has to be right. 😉
@@sg5720women who are happy with themselves doesn't need marriage they are just happy with their own lives ..
They only had those kids to compete (with us and for men) and since we don’t want them…
It was all for NOTHING!!! 😂😂😂
They are mad were not fighting and living unbothered Sleeping in late and spending our money how we choose 😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585That part. I like enjoying my time and my money without dealing with dependents.
Such a good point… embarrassing for them😂😬
Lmaoooo
This is exactly accurate. We all know 80% of women can't even experience the big O through seggs .Most can just get the rose 🌹. Lol
I prefer to be a single 🪴 parent and 🐶😺 parent
#DecenterMen
#4B
#TeamBear
#FU
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TeamBear took me out. 😂😂😂 We wearing the same jersey. ❤
As a mother of 4 TO ALL THE SINGLE CHILD FREE WOMEN PLEASE CONTINUE TO TRAVEL, GET YOUR DEGREES OWN YOUR BUSINESSES, SPOIL AND PAMPER YOURSELF, AND LOOK FINE AS HELL DOING IT I LOVE THAT FOR YOU ALL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
God bless you sister, and your babies ❤ I wish you and your family love, unity and happiness xx
Katt Williams said it best:
"You gotta to be grateful, you need haters, wtf is you complaining about, wtf do you think a hater's job is?! If you got 14 hating on you, you need to figure out how to get to 16 before the summer get here!"
🗣️ PERIOD
Healthy and happy women do not spend their time worrying about how other people live their lives. They're too busy enjoying the lifestyles they've chosen. I am happily single and child free. Married women and mothers never cross my mind unless they're related to me lol.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 This comment section is really speaking facts today!!!
If you can be happy with kids why can't someone be happy without them. That's what doesn't make sense. You can be married and choose not to have kids. Not everyone wants children.
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"Sounding a lot like bitter, broken, unhealed, unhappy women"
P-R-O-J-E-C-T-I-O-N
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Studies show over and over again that single women and married men are the happiest. 😂 She would be happier if she minded her own business. Also, most people that have kids shouldn’t have them nor an animal.
Not all women want to be married or be a mother. There’s no bitterness or unhealed hurt involved. She’s reaching and assuming. It makes sense to those women that chose to be single and child free. She needs to mind her own business.
The truth is sometimes women just feel like that and sometimes based on what they have been through, cam to this conclusion. Both reasons are fine.
Women who have children and have an attached baby daddy get pissed when other women don't validate their decisions by doing the same. In the back of her mind is the thought "why didn't I think of that?"
Yup and they have regrets
Life ain't hit her yet
This!!!
I think it has. Her eyes are so empty looking.
Yes agree!!
I think it _has,_ that’s why she’s so pissy w/ childfree Women😂
Like does she not do research on the cost of living? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It wouldn't make sense to an unhealed, codependent individual.
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She only making a video because #1. She’s not getting picked by being a pick me, #2. She’s miserable with her life, & #3. She’s still stuck in the matrix… Remember God didn’t give everyone the eyes to 👀 or the 👂🏽’s to hear 💯 #peepgame
THIS!!!!!!
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Some of the saddest women I've seen have had a man and/or kids. And if you ask them why, their sadness generally stems from having said man and/or kids. Let's all just mind our miserable business😂
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She’s mad nobody is jealous of her life choices like they might have been during previous generations. Mothers no longer have elevated status and that’s the main reason most women get married/have kids.
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The girlies with the babies should link up with other girlies with babies and leave those of us who are living our best lives child-free alone. No one is requiring or requesting for them to understand anything about us.
Womp womp don't care. I'm not pumping out kids I know I'll hate taking care of
My African maternal Grandmother has nine kids, eight of them are alove and she lives alone. Everyone moved away for work , we visit her often . My mum visits her once a month and sometimes if she is ok she dont . Having kids doesn't guarantee someone being there always. My grandpa died in 2021 so yah she is alone atleast 340 days a year
As a married woman myself, this pick me lives in a bubble. She does not know anything else. 😌🤷🏽♀️
(To the first woman) You know what's unhappy? Coming on an app and not minding your buisness. MYOB honey. MYOB.
Don't talk bad about something that doesn't make sense to you 😕🤦🏼
Why is she mad at child free women. Some women don't want kids and in this day in age who's going to have kids with this economy. These pickmes and mammies don't know the real cost of having a kid smh. Child care cost is like a mortgage. So please stop. Im almost 50 with no kids and I'm very happy with my choice.
What sis in pink said. Miserable people stay in other people's business. She needs to mind the business that pays her, that's what we're doing. It's going well.
Listennnnnnn my granma's sister never ever got married or had kids. She died at 105yrs old. We all loved her dearly and so did our our whole town. 💁🏿💁🏿💁🏿 I've got 3 aunts in their 60s who chose the child and marriage free life. These women are living a great life and they are not devoid of loved, care or community.
Yes, in order to stay happy and healthy it means no man, and no kids, that's not that hard to comprehend.
I will NEVER understand why some people are so concerned or even upset about other people’s PERSONAL life choices, especially people they probably don’t even know.
If some women don’t want to get married nor have children, let them live!
Sounds like projection to me.
It feels so good not to have to worry if someone will bring back home a disease you can’t get rid of.
If you decide to have a child or children please treat them right and don't abuse them in ANY way, love them unconditionally, protect them and prepare them as best you can for this evil demonic world. I'm not understanding why anyone would care about us child free women's choices/decisions - it's obviously jealousy, pure and simple. And everyone is not the same and we don't all want the same things.
Imagine feeling invalidated by *other* people's life choices!
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That’s just sad.
She seems very unhappy, annoyed & bitter...
Maria, I love the way you say the word bitter...your accent makes it sound extra petty, lol!😁
Biitt-ttah lolol 😂😂😂
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Everyone isnt ment to be attached to another person or people
I’m happy being single and childfree. More time and money to spend on myself. Don’t need to be dragged down by someone else. And most people can’t afford kids now with the economy.
People act like wanting different things is this crazy difficult concept to grasp
I have happy single friends.
I have happy married friends.
They mind their business.
I mind my business.
Key word here: HAPPY. Happily married women don't bitch about single women, because they were happy single too and for them, a man adds to their lives.
People really have that much trouble understanding that people are different, and want different things??
I’ve been by myself most of my life anyway despite wanting to find a man that actually gives a cr@p. They don’t so I’m over it. Making my life as joyful as possible in all other areas 😊 I’m sad that there are so few men of integrity or with decent intentions, that’s all. Glad to be childfree.
Relationships are a program.
for co-dependency 🤦🏾♀️
I like my own company. She should learn that.
It's funny how she said go to therapy when therapy literally was the only thing to help me fully realize I don't have to do what society tried to program me to do. I always had a pit in my stomach when thinking about I HAD to get married & HAVE kids when all my goal papers was just about me, my career, & MY life.
Therapy/Therapist was like "is that what you want bc of society?" & I went 😳 It was the final push to be like "No, I just want to be single, childfree, & be an artist full-time.
Guess what? Discovered I'm aroace thanks to therapy, got a bi-salp sterilization a year later (beginning 2020 therapy, end 2021 sterilization), & journeying down the path of becoming a full-time artist.
I'm fine being alone, I'm fine w/o kids, & I'm great w/o the added stress! So yeah, there are women out there who are content w/ peace, first lady 😤
Healthy and Happy women want whatever they want and aren’t worried about what other people want because they understand that everyone is different.
As it shouldn't make sense to you. I hate this crazy generalization that EVERY WOMEN on this planet wants and desires to have kids and get married that is so far from the truth. People think and desire different things only thing you need to do is respect other people's decisions and life. Not every opinion needs to be verbalized seriously just keep it to yourself cause we very happy here.
The numbers of women who want a tradional life are melting like ice in the desert.
More men for the pickmes.
This conversation is also for widows. Like if she never remarries she was loyal before, but now she is bitter and unhealed. People need to think of all major communities before they speak.
The fact of the matter is once you choose to become a mother there is no turning back. Your life changes and you have to accept full responsibility for the children as in most cases the father leaves and you are now a single mom.
wasn’t she the same woman talking about how even if he cheats on you, but you don’t know and our happy, then it’s fine?
Does she realize that there are plenty of people who are older now that did exactly what she does not understand. She needs to talk to some of them.
If you seen what pick-meisha's husband, you would be happily single
There is many ways of mothering, you know. Plants, pets, friends, organizations, tending to your garden and creativity. 🌸🌼🌻👩🏻🎨🌾👩🌾🐕🐷🐈😽
Do women like her need a hug or something?😅
Probably but I still wouldn’t hug her.
@@isaa8521 lol!
Motherhood sounds like hell to me but I know that's not how everyone else feels about it, why is it so hard the other way around
Maybe she needs to take her own advice because that’s what a lot of the single women HAVE been doing already which is why a lot of us aren’t bitter like her, she should be happy she has more men to “Pick her”🤣🤣
😂 Girl I have adult kids and im trying to live my life without them. My sisters started over at 40 and tried to suggest i have one too so all 3 babies can grow up together. Im like ish didn't we just do that? Im free, Im not going back. Now my kids say that i was the best parent they couldve ever had. I really put my life on hold for them. Stuck at a job i hated and didn't date. Well, to tell the truth, i don't miss dating at all. 10 years going strong. But now i have a dream career and travel all over the world. My family would just have to get at me when they can. Im living my best life
That woman I have seen her on TT....she's problematic
Man ppl these days don't know what "mind your business!" Means! If it has nothing to do with u leave it alone jeez.
Love your commentary, Maria! ❤ Next time, show some comments so we can join in with everybody laughing at these fools. 😁🤣
somebody pray for her, she needs help. Smh.
Healthy, happy woman, fulfilled in Christ. Yes ma’am, that is precisely what I am saying. Glory to God for the gift of singleness 🙌🏽
0:03 Yes, because I want to remain a healthy and happy woman. Bye.
I always get so confused when random people insert themselves into other people's decisions not to have kids. Why do *YOU* care if *I* don't have kids. It affects *YOU* zero percent.
Shouldn't she be somewhere reading her children a bedtime story and tucking them in? Why are these married women with children so mad at childfree women?
Even if they are bitter and unhappy thats even more reason not to have a baby and be married.
Singledome : the state of being unmarried, or not involved in a long-term relationship, it doesn’t mean that people are lonely.
Women have kinships, and friendships, we nurture everyone around us. That lady is off her rocker, is she a red piller, because she sounds like one. Being single by choice is one thing, being lonely is an entirely separate issue. I don’t think they are mutually exclusive.
I am a single mother by choice had my baby via IUI. We all have different paths in life the point is do what will be most fulfilling to you. If you think you are superior because you are married with kids or single and child free seek therapy because you just may be projecting. Live your life the way you want without judgement of others.
These people wanna police our body so bad and it’s so annoying !!
As a single/unmarried and childfree all by choice. As a single, I am sick and tired of hearing "You just haven't met the right person.".
Actually, therapy opened my eyes to see I needed improvement and it showed me needing to rely on men was bad.
Decentering men and remaining childfree was the best decision I've made so far
She needs to familiarize herself with the phrase, "What I eat, doesn't make you shit." Our life choices have nothing to do with her.
Also, why does she think alone only includes men? Women aren’t alone, we have friends, families, coworkers. We have ways to be social. We just don’t want men. We are not lonely.
She is lonely and has noone.
It's called "projection".
a healthy and happy women is whole and complete without the "validation" of motherhood and marriage; therefore, they can chose whether or not they want the responsibility of a family.
no husband and no kids doesn't mean alone. you still have family, friends, associates and a network, if you've cultivated those relationships
I think it’s because back in the day having a man was a flex and it made these women feel like they were better, but now that other women don’t care, they can’t use that as a way to make themselves feel better about themselves
It doesn't make sense to her because she's actually the one who needs therapy.
Smh!
Pick mes do not see value in women who are not bound to a man
As a happy single childfree woman, I dont understand why ppl like her are OBSESSED with other ppl lives & what makes them happy. I truly believe ppl like that are not happy with the choices they made they cant go back & wishes they lived a single childfree life but wont admit it due to society says its wrong & not normal.
Maybe the real reason she’s angry at single women it’s because she feels threatened by all these unattached women floating around for her husband to potentially leave her for. The less single women, the lower the chances of her man cheating on her.
I have a child. I teach my child to not have children and keep their life as stress free as possible. I mildly pity people with her mentality. However, Im too busy enjoying my single, one and done lifestyle to give others opinions of my life much thought. A lot of these parents are delusional anyway. They don't realize their poorly behaved children is a huge part of why people don't want children.
She's clearly never been to therapy. Her vision of being healthy is unhealthy.
Healthy and happy doesn't come in one form only. Some are healthy and happy with one kid, seven kids, a husband, a wife, or none of the above.... We have choices. We have hobbies. We are happy. I don't spend my time questioning everyone with kids and a spouse about their happiness. Even when I start to hear the complaints from those about their life, I excuse myself from the conversation because I'm happy with my life. I told my mother that you have choices in life, and you need to learn to be happy with the choice you make especially when you have all the info about all the options.
if a person choosing to remain single and child free is selfish,then they made a responsible choice, to stay single and child free😃😏, I love this topic 🙂.
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This woman’s husband recently left her and asked for a divorce. After watching her vlogs I was shocked that any husband would leave her, because she is a good house keeper, mother, cook, takes care of herself, humble, respectful, industrious and has a better income than he, so maybe ego I guess. But I couldn’t imagine him giving up such a sweet life to be by himself; so I wasn’t surprised by the last vlog, he wants to come back😅. The problem is that she has become attached to the peace that she has had since he left and though she wants her marriage, she also wants that peace as a single mom😮. So to the lady that don’t understand why singleness and childless; well, because less is more peace, and peace is treasure. Truly Shana j (you tube channel).
It doesn’t make sense to me how marriage and children can be a woman’s dream tbh but I still respect it because we’re all different. She’s such a pick me b.
Why the f would someone need therapy because a stranger on the internet wants to convince us we aren’t happy? She’s pathetic.
While that first woman talked her garbage, i had a feeling she was talking about herself. She reminded me of a bully who would shout out a bunch of crap at someone innocent, only to later find out those words were all about themself and their awful home life.
SHE needs the therapy ASAP.
Agree with you and pink shirt queen. I don't understand quantum physics, but I don't go around telling quantum physicists they need therapy. Also, why is she using therapy to put down women call them crazy? Therapy is good for a lot of people, she should def try it.
Some women aren't childfree or single by choice, whether they have SA trauma or can't medically have children. We wouldn't call those women crazy just because of those things. So why is anyone criticising women living the exact same way as those women, just because they choose it? That's what makes no sense
They always come off as smug and willfully ignorant about the people they are lambasting and pretending to be concerned for at the same time. Maybeeeeeee we aren't seeking men because we are healing in therapy and such...............
Her statement works off the false premise that the only relationship one can have in life is with their marital spouse and children. Which is just false.
ANYWAYS! Can’t wait for my international trip next month & I’m currently planning for two trips this fall. TRUST I am not worried about trad wives. 😂
Sounds like SHE’S miserable when SHE’S alone. She needs a therapist for always needing to be in someone’s company. How dare you tell someone that they need to pay money to see a therapist when they are telling you they are happy?! And they are harming no one. An effing joke she is. 😂
I served my time putting a parent before myself for the majority of my life. My remaining decades, if I'm fortunate enough to have them, is MY time!
This woman is just problematic, I actually had words with her a few weeks ago on tiktok regarding her teaching her 5 yr old daughter how to be a wife, yes, you read that right. When I asked why she would want to limit her child to the notion that being a wife is the be all and end all, she told me to go and talk to my husband if I have 1! At this rate, I think she is just a rage baiter desperate for attention so I wouldn't mind her.
Some happily married women shoe be worried about what single childless women be doing...
Aren't you happy?
Sre you not busy enough worrying about your OWN household with your hubby and children by choice???!!!
I don't have that, and i still manage to mind my own damn bizzness?!!