@valeriae.7999 I’m sorry to hear that🙁 yes if you feel comfortable with sharing let me know, or send me a message on ig! I can give my thoughts/advice on it💝🫶🏻
@@ellenisvlogging thank you ellen!! I feel comfortable sharing so others could learn from me 🥺. I'm 23 and I was seeing a guy (22) for three weeks from a dating app (we're both from va) and in the middle of our first date he told me that he's going to leave to nyc in a month for work (I thought it was strange to say because he never mentioned it while on the app or on his bio). I decided to still see him cause I thought he was nice and everything was consistent with messaging everyday, facetiming, and meeting up. What changed was when on week 3, his roommate asked if I was his girlfriend, he said no (in context this was after we were intimate in his dorm). I was like damn, then he asked me "if your parents asked if I was your boyfriend what would u say", and I said "I would say you are". I then told him that "I honestly would rather do it with someone who I'm in a relationship" all he said was "that's fair". When I brought up about relationship to him he said "iffy and risky" to him. After few days went by, we still exchanged texts (I wanted him to initiate calling so that Ik effort is being made, not just on my end🙄) until he unmatched two days ago saying that "I think you are really nice and I enjoy spending time with you but honestly as a relationship i feel like we just don't really work. it's not like I was looking for something casual but it seems like a relationship is much more serious to u than it was me and it threw me off a bit. I hope u understand" I didn't reply to that message since then. I do understand if it was the long distance, but idk i was open to making it work with him but I guess he wasn't that interested in me as much as I was towards him in that way. (so sorry if this is long but I love your videos ellen especially as a girl going through adulthood 😭).
would you talk more about what helped you become self aware and how you found the reasons for the toxic beliefs/tendencies you held?😊
Of course!! 😊☺️great questions
ommmgg, ellen you came through just in time!!! for your q&a, can i spill my experience with dating apps? cause i just got played once again 😞
@valeriae.7999 I’m sorry to hear that🙁 yes if you feel comfortable with sharing let me know, or send me a message on ig! I can give my thoughts/advice on it💝🫶🏻
@@ellenisvlogging thank you ellen!! I feel comfortable sharing so others could learn from me 🥺. I'm 23 and I was seeing a guy (22) for three weeks from a dating app (we're both from va) and in the middle of our first date he told me that he's going to leave to nyc in a month for work (I thought it was strange to say because he never mentioned it while on the app or on his bio). I decided to still see him cause I thought he was nice and everything was consistent with messaging everyday, facetiming, and meeting up.
What changed was when on week 3, his roommate asked if I was his girlfriend, he said no (in context this was after we were intimate in his dorm). I was like damn, then he asked me "if your parents asked if I was your boyfriend what would u say", and I said "I would say you are".
I then told him that "I honestly would rather do it with someone who I'm in a relationship" all he said was "that's fair". When I brought up about relationship to him he said "iffy and risky" to him. After few days went by, we still exchanged texts (I wanted him to initiate calling so that Ik effort is being made, not just on my end🙄) until he unmatched two days ago saying that "I think you are really nice and I enjoy spending time with you but honestly as a relationship i feel like we just don't really work. it's not like I was looking for something casual but it seems like a relationship is much more serious to u than it was me and it threw me off a bit. I hope u understand" I didn't reply to that message since then.
I do understand if it was the long distance, but idk i was open to making it work with him but I guess he wasn't that interested in me as much as I was towards him in that way. (so sorry if this is long but I love your videos ellen especially as a girl going through adulthood 😭).
Are you seeing anyone new? I need the tea please!
I’ll add this to my list 😂🩷 teas coming girl ☕️
Hellooo Beautiful Ellen, how are you today ? so happy to see your new vlog
Hi, aw thank you for watching! ☺️ I am great!!😊🫶🏻