I agree. I have been going back and forth about posting my opinion. She looks in the mirror and hates what she sees (yes there are African Carribeans and African latinos) she hates her identity. So it's easy for her to say the terrible things she says, it's how she feels about herself. She looks in the mirror and thinks "monkey".. in those awkward middle school years she probably looked in the mirror and though "why do I have to have nappy hair".. it's absolutely self hate.
No not really! Firing her is too easy. But if LHHA put her as on trail. And have their audience Tune in the trail an get involved and vote if she should stay or leave will be much better punishment. But If one of our Slave mother or father rose up from the grave right now they will whoop Erica for what she said and did.
Erica has always been a vindictive, wicked, evil and a violent person. She is a aging narcissist and has gotten worse as she aged, she never got therapy to deal with her childhood wounds and trauma instead she hides behind relationships, sex, alcohol and makeup. While inflicting pain and misery upon everyone she encounters. Erica is still yet to showcase any form of growth in her character and continues to deprive herself from being checked into a psychiatric facility. I pity her children who has the misfortune of having her as a mother. 😢
Should’ve done that years ago!!! This woman has never had any respect for black people and showed that multiple times. Someone wise once said that when people show you who they are the first time, believe them
The fact that Erica made monkey noises at Spice makes the situation even more malicious in my opinion. There are other low blows she could have chosen but she went straight to monkey. Plus Spice saying her son doesn't like her is a dig at Erica's parenting, not at her son
@@atsenga no, it's worse. When we start with "you should've died" who cares about anything else that comes out your mouth?? It literally cannot get worse from there. But somehow all of you are saying it did.
@ladyyananumber1200 calling Spice a monkey is still a slur. If Erica was intelligent there are other things she would have said. If you're keen, you'll notice I'm not saying either is better. Erica was foul for what she said. Both things can be wrong at the same time
There are 44.8 million black people in America. Don’t be so surprised when some of us have a different pov. A lot of black people need to get out of that tribe mentality. It’s not realistic and it only keep you stagnant in life.
This is what happens when we allow people who aren't black the opportunity to wear our culture like a costume. She thinks she's black by proxy and she's very disrespectful. She needs to be taught a lesson just like everyone else.
@@anandal1853 I said she thinks she's black by proxy. Which means that she thinks she can appropriate the culture because she's in close proximity to it. Never said she doesn't know her own race.
@@anandal1853 I don't see a problem with non-black people entering the culture, that would be racial segregation. Remembering that do not confuse ethnicity with nationality. Latin countries have black, white, black and mixed-race people. The vast majority of people mixed with black people have black culture.
When she said "Multiple women claimed they were getting their backs blown out by Rich," I cackled like a hyena. It's the ad-libs, the singing... the education for me. This channel never disappoints.
@@isaiahwinbrone Nah uh she got fired because she was more trouble than she was worth in that moment. A celeb using a racist slur isn't really uncommon. Shawn Mendez, Camilla Cabello, Gina Rodriguez, etc etc they're still working. Being racist isn't a death sentence in Hollywood.
Some of y’all real dense… it’s the fact that RRG provided full-blow examples of all the times she has used that word and y’all still saying “sHe tAlked AbOuT hER kiDs”. That doesn’t justify racism.
Especially when she actually didn't talk about her kid, she talked about her relationship with her son, which is parenting. Parenting is in relation to how the parent treats their child, and how that relationship affects the child, like the child's perception of you. A child can't control the way their parent parents, only the parent can. If you can't say those same words to the child and they would have the same effect as the parent, it's not talkin about the child. It's obviously some truth to it because everyone that's been involved in her life has said the same thing. It's definitely still a dig and a trigger, just ain't talking about the child. Like regardless of your 1st insult is about my race, you're racist and you BEEN feeling that way.
@@SirDave Exactly and another thing is that no one just turns racist as an adult. It is something that is developed and/or taught when you are much younger than she is. Like you said, she been feeling that way.
Unfortunately, she's gainfully employed by pedo Chris Stokes. Erica is the star of many of his latest movies! So some black folks don't care about her antics. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Facts alot of these non BW especially the one who specifically deal with BM are just angry and bitter. When the pedestal falls down and they end up with the same Dequan now they want to take out their anger on us BW.
Yesss these 2 I just can’t understand Why their allowed to do what they do on national television. Evelyn is a straight bully but she finally met her match 😌and got knocked the heck down on National Television 😅and she got back up and kept it moving. Erica, YES it was time to exit she should have been gone. 💪🏾👍🏾👎🏽
As a dark skinned woman, I've been dealing with this all my life. It's to the point where I hate all things monkeys even little stuff ones (toys I got at my baby shower and any items that has monkeys on them). This is nothing new, we are made to feel inferior to lighter skinned woman. It took years to accept my dark skin and I'm still learning to love it. I hope they make an example out of her. They've known she was like this and they still decided to show her on television. This goes to show you how they disregard the feelings and respect for African Americans; and they feel that degrading black women on television is good for ratings.
Yes, this stuff is deep. I didn't want to give my daughter any monkey toys because of the racism behind it, and my daughter is mixed. It's very sad. And if anyone called her that. I would be ready to go off.
I feel your pain. Since I was very young from time to time, I’ve had to deal with colorism, even before knowing that there was a term to describe it. To make it worse, there are always so many people even other black women who enable it which sets us all back and makes it hard to address and root out.
When Scrappy was interrogating Erica about her parenting skills, her stupid ass was dead silent. Yet when Just Brittany told her to go "take care of her son", Erica was quick to off on Brittany and fight her. The fact that Erica is quick to resort to violence when a person would question and degrade her as a parent proves that not only has she failed as a mother, but she carries parental guilt.
CORRECT! HOWEVER! She is picking and choosing who she want to square upon! Stevie J AND Scrappy both told her to take care of her son and THE Bihh didn't blink!!!🙄👀 So if That's the case to the black women taking up for her should FIGHT for Stevie J and Scrappy to get fired to!!!! J.S. My OWN opinion yo! And just because you put on DARKER makeup.....does not QUALIFY you as a "Woman of color"! She has NEVER called herself a woman of color!! FOH!!!
And that shows she only got that energy for black women but never black men lmao that’s why I’m glad safaree did her like that. Sip on that single mother ! Sick of her
I agree…she only attacks black women! Why? Because they all look better than her? She looks like a vampire…don’t put on dark makeup, get some Sun, son!!
She has some nerve calling people monkeys and making monkey sounds, yet she has altered her face and kinda resembles one herself 🤷🏽♀️ What she gonna do when or if someone calls her kids that? Tell them to ignore it? I doubt it.
The ad-libs are never off, but this one right here was everything to me! I have no sympathy to what is happening to Erica. She could’ve just swallowed that apology; it wasn’t needed. She’s only for the culture when it’s beneficial for her, as others are. And it’s our own people that are out here still defending her 🙄
She's not.... she been calling people monkey for years🤦🏾♀️ and if she really cared about her son or being a better mother she would work on herself and try to change but she too busy calling people Monkey🤦🏾♀️
She is. That why she can’t stand people who speak on her poor parenting. But if everyone is critical of your parenting skills- even your son- you probably aren’t a good parent…🤷🏽♀️
As a Black Latino, I used to defend people outside this community from the misjudgment levied from those that don’t understand the difference. How Latinos are black too, but unfortunately there are some who don’t see themselves as Black. Colorism is real in Latino culture. Erica Mena is not off the hook and cannot be given a pass. It gives the rest of us a bad name. People like her will always side with the ‘others’ if it came down to it.
Wow, I’m appalled by all the racist rhetoric she’s used over the years. She only got fired because of the public backlash. Hitting her pockets is the only way to show them we’re serious about holding her and other racist accountable. Clearly, she sees ALL BP as monkeys. I pray her pockets continue to feel the pain.
Safari is DEFINITELY her KARMA...now she got black kids who is gonna see this one day....i dont feel sorry for her not one bit! She's getting EVERYTHING she deserves.
MIXED. those kids are mixed! I’m not scolding you or anything but there is a difference between black and mixed. You don’t see mixed (white and black) being claimed by white people to be white.
@@Ren-er7fg I can say a whole lot about how biracial children with (usually Black fathers are embraced by the Black community at an alarming rate, while the 6f community wants nothing to do with them, but I won't 🤐
THANKKK YOUU, this whole arguement of "kids are off limits" is BS !! Where was this energy for Moniece, K Michelle, Karlie Redd, Kalena, Stevie J, Kirk and Scrappy when their parenting relationship with their children was questioned time and time again. Erica was not the first to ever been questioned about her relationship with her child but yet she deserves sympathy when she is guilty of doing the same to other cast mates ?! Where was the sympathy for Cyn when she was a fresh new mom and Erica was taunting her with Joe and Tahiry ? Why is everyone caping for Erica like she exempt for the same treatment she dishes to everyone else! im lostttttt😅
Most of us are weak unfortunately 🤷♀️. Sick and sad. The trash was taking space for a actually black castmate that could have been there!!! I'm sick of the foolishness in the black community.
Black Reality TV Made Her A Star. She Was Fired By The Kardashians But Didn't Call Them Names. Black People Gotta Stand For Something Or Just Fall ✊🏾🖤Erica Has So Much Work Done She's Starting 2 Turn Into A Cute Lil 🙊💯
Thank you for this impressive presentation RRG. You broke it down so well & you even shed light on the history behind the slurs. I hope the Black people who are defending Erica & demanding she get her jobs back finally get it...one can only hope🤷♀
I feel bad for her kids. The horror of being black and being raised by someone that hates black people and probably calling the kids monkeys and ninjas at home. Them kids gonna be messed up. ☹️
@@elleJay-mb4yn if you think that light skinned mixed kids don't get called monkeys and ninjas, you must be from a country with no black people. Otherwise, don't talk about what you don't know about.
That's where I learned how to interact with the black community, so being a person of non-color i had to realize i am different then my family and friends and how I was raised with them but do not have the same rights to talk to them the way they've always talked to eachother. RRG has not only brought up hurtful things people do, but why you shouldn't say those things. I'd hope some people of color themselves benefit from learning there offensive and why.
thank you soooo much for including the part about nappy hair. so many 'black education ' channels will say stuff, with no source or research whatsoever. thank you RRG for always producing quality content for us!!❤
I'll never get over the fact she was mad that $4k a month in child support wasn't enough for her. There are people with children who don't even get close to that amount, not even close to at least $1k a month. Plus I feel like her having a baby with Safaree is her karma for how shes treated other in the past. Oh well. 😂😊❤🎉
My son father paid $17.49 last month and $16.46 the month before. I have screenshots to prove it. Erica doesn’t realize how lucky she is compared to others.
I am just cannot understand why this chick is just so racist. It is bad enough as a very proud dark-skinned goddess, I have dealt with chicks like her myself and just ignore them and their remarks. FYI: Spice is a very beautiful, talented girl. ❤❤❤❤
I'm personally sick and tired of seeing those veins (that look like tributaries) popping out of her forehead, every time she get mad, cuz sh*t ain't going her way!
Shes always carried a dark energy around her even from back in her video vixen days. BM have continued to give her passes as she is a "preference". Over time her issues have amplified and this is just the cherry on the ice cream. BW continually supporting her is beyond my understanding.
The most ironic part is that, some of our black folks are backing and cheering her up. This is so outrageous. If we don't stand up for ourselves who will stand up for us.
Thank you for putting out all these instances that she s a racial slurs. Thank you for educating some, even though most already know why the terms are offensive 👁️🗨️, it's just some black people out here that want to cap for a non-black people because they haven't done their own healing when it comes down to how they feel about their own blackness, and they're deep-rooted issues of their relationship to a ton of toxic things in their lives. It's like in your DNA as a black person to know that monkey and nappy are racial slurs. Black people got to stop giving passes to non-black people that don't give a f about us for their beyond inhumane actions. Seeing all the black people especially black women make all sorts of excuses for her actions was sickening .
ALL OF THIS! If BW do nothing else they're going to fight to the death for biracials to be Black, they do the same for Valtrex B. Some of us are embarrassing ASF. 😒
After her apology someone on Twitter asked Erica does she think Spice should apologize Erica said "She doesn't have the guts" which tells me that the whole apology was bs and she should've kept it moving
Thanks for discussing this hot mess express!!! I have a gf who is a former video vixen. My gf says Erica the Mean Menace has ALWAYS been problematic!!! I'm happy that she's getting her karma so publicly! Hispanic isn't a race, it's an ethnicity. So, you can be White Hispanic, Asian Hispanic, Black Hispanic, etc! I'm a multi-ethnic blk wmn, and there's definitely colorism and racism within the Hispanic community from my experience and beyond. She's both colorist and racist! * When are y'all doing a video on Rich Dollaz? I met him, and my gf freaked out and told him to keep away because he's an a--hole... That tid bit y'all gave sounded intriguing 😏. I love y'all, keep being great RRG ❤!*
Your channel is called Real Reality Gossip but you provide Real Reality Facts, History, Receipts and Respect. When you showed the clip of the late, great actor Robert Guillaume, I got so emotional. I had no idea of the Black culture documentary that he was in. Going to find it and watch. Thank you RRG. Bravo to you for excellent content. 👏🏽
@@yolandalowe4735Sure did! When she was the leading lady in his video when he first came out. I believe it. I think the excuse was because she hadn’t ate.
These people feel comfortable saying these things because of how black people speak to each other, especially how BM talk about BW to these non black women. I'm not just saying this off the top of my head, these type of women have told me this. We need to be more united and show love to each other first. We do not live in a post racial society 😢
The "conditioning" is real! Talk about "post traumatic slave syndrome", it's probably worse today than with our ancestors who were closer to slavery than we are, but they still believed in education and carrying themselves with dignity! And they didn't have social media which gives a platform to all the insanity!
Black men and black woman who talk against the black race should automatically lose there black card. Also people that aren't fully black should not be allowed in our spaces
... "personally"... I believe she said what's culturally relative to ALOT of spanish people... I mean... Evelyn did it as well... soooooo... 😶💁🏽♀️🚶🏾♀️
I use to talk to someone from the Terror Squad clique. I ain’t gon say who because I think he married or something now. But she was loving the crew INCLUDING JOE. And she been calling people monkeys for years. She called MC Shakie a monkey and he read her down! Like 2 years ago.
And Spice told the truth about her son,he doesn’t like her,and her son does live in Florida with her parents for 16 years.. She doesn’t have custody of her son,and Safaree does go to Florida to give her son money.
Wow Erica been referring to black ppl as monkey’s a long time. And now since everybody is so sensitive and we got cancel culture now she is being held accountable. This should have happen 10+yrs ago.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
IMO The Love and Hip Hop Franchise and the producers are just as guilty as Erica. I'm not surprised Erica said what she said her history on the show and her social media has shown us exactly who she is.
You are absolutely right. Mona will take her off for a season. Then when she thinks we've all forgotten and the storm has been weathered, Mona will slip Erica right back on one of her shows for Erica to call someone else a monkey. But don't forget. Let's not let them put her back on so she can continue to insult us while making money using our Black community.
Exactly for all the black celebs and women on the internet trying to act like she didn’t mean it racially 😒 she 100% meant it that way! There’s no way around it.
Thank you for this detailed and informative video, for those who like to pretend like Erica is not problematic and incredibly toxic. The woman has shown who she is for years and people chose to turn a blind eye at it, well I guess her time is up.
Also, Erica has been doing reality tv long enough to know that behind the scenes she actually earned herself a nice little promotion for bringing this much attention to this DYING franchise. The people up top dgaf about who is offended by what all they wanna see is the #s going up, and she did just that. It pains me to see so many of us giving her the attention because they know how lucrative our outrage is.
Thus, is true. Hence, the reason why they didn’t do anything, until after the fact. They knew she made these remarks months ago, before the show even aired. They could have fired her, then.
I got relaxed hair and it's too long to start over but my daughter is never going to ruin her African hair with these products. Our hair is beautiful. The texture is so beautiful it's like something made in honey and milk. We don't need Brazilian or indian hair extensions.
She has gotten away with it for so long because of pretty privilege. Women who look like her are put on a pedestal in the black community so they feel that we are beneath them. If you notice, when she was featured on Keeping up with the Kardashians back in the day, she didn't act like this on their show.
Prettyness has nothing to with it. There's plenty of pretty Black women who would never get the chances or opportunities Erica has. Erica is a white woman, who's Taino blood gives her a sprinkle of melanin. She got the complexion for the protection, until now☺️
She looks no better than any other woman. And her attitude makes her ugly. 🙄 And since she is so infatuated with "monkeys" I wonder if she considers her children as 50% monkeys then?
@@alyssam1159 I agree with you about her being white that's why I said that women who look like her ( non black or ambiguous) are put on a pedestal in OUR community. She's closer to the European standard of beauty than we are because she is white. However, if she wasn't as attractive as she is in addition to being white, she would not have gotten away with this for so long. Just my opinion.
@@HouseOfAriaLynn ikr!! I am sick of ppl talking anot Spice tailed anot her children. She did NOT. She talked about the way the child FELT towards her. Uuughica obviously fell like it's truth to it or else she wouldn't have gotten so heated! But for the ppl (especially black women) defending her... I just wanna know what's the justification for all of the other times??? I'll wait...
That's it! It was triggering TO YOU. Spice didn't care about the monkey part until EVERYONE ELSE said something about it. Spice was pissed about the "you should've died" part. And that's far worse than calling someone an animal. "You should've DIED!" Really?!? Who gives af about blue monkeys at that point?
People are not understanding that Erica mentioned her son first. Saying she's a single mother for 14yrs, that's when Spice let her know she's done it also & brought up how her son does even like her. Spice's point was to show Erica shouldn't even be mentioning that when her child doesn't like her cuz she's neglected him. NOTHING was said about the son. She just doesn't like black ppl
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Spanish people are black people. Y’all ! She can say it.
Pick up a book please 😒
You tried it! There are Black & White Latinos. She's clearly a white one tf?! 🙄
Pin of shame 🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
@@Raven.4038Lmao BIG shame
Ikyfl..GOTTA be trolling..got the pin of shame 😂😂😂
Erica has a sad spirit. She has so much hatred towards herself.
I agree with that “sad spirit” that’s why she gets away with playing the victim so much.
She really does. I have compassion for her bc she had a horrid childhood, but so have many others, so that doesnt excuse her hatred for black women.
I agree.. I feel sorry for her soul . Not the backlash
I agree. I have been going back and forth about posting my opinion. She looks in the mirror and hates what she sees (yes there are African Carribeans and African latinos) she hates her identity. So it's easy for her to say the terrible things she says, it's how she feels about herself. She looks in the mirror and thinks "monkey".. in those awkward middle school years she probably looked in the mirror and though "why do I have to have nappy hair".. it's absolutely self hate.
A made up 🐒
Erica deserves every single bit of the backlash she's receiving..she is NOT a victim 💯
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I thought realitytv was fake until I actually saw that vein on her forehead with my own eyes.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Facts.
No not really! Firing her is too easy. But if LHHA put her as on trail. And have their audience Tune in the trail an get involved and vote if she should stay or leave will be much better punishment. But If one of our Slave mother or father rose up from the grave right now they will whoop Erica for what she said and did.
Yes, she is in this matter and needs to SUE
Erica has always been a vindictive, wicked, evil and a violent person. She is a aging narcissist and has gotten worse as she aged, she never got therapy to deal with her childhood wounds and trauma instead she hides behind relationships, sex, alcohol and makeup. While inflicting pain and misery upon everyone she encounters. Erica is still yet to showcase any form of growth in her character and continues to deprive herself from being checked into a psychiatric facility. I pity her children who has the misfortune of having her as a mother. 😢
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“Safaree is your karma… B!TCH” - Spice
Her 'Black' children at that. 😢
Everything you wrote I agree
Why is “sex, alcohol and makeup” sending me 😭😭
“I have black children” formally known as “I have black friends”.
LMAO!
😂😂😂😂 YAAAAAAAAAAS!!!
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Yep
They said the friends wasn’t that close so they had to one up it and make their own part Black
Calling people monkeys and having monkey balls in your mouth is insanity 😂🤣😭😩
OH SHIT LMAO
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so true.
Yoooo I am weak😂😂😂😂. Make it make sense.
Soooo goodddd😂😂😅😅😅😅😅
NAW IM DONE WITH YOU 😭😂😂😂😂😂
The black community need not to let her back in since she feels that way!
Time to close and lock the door and these type of people!!!!!!!!!!
I blame New York 😭
Agreed
Her and of them male or female like her period!
Should’ve done that years ago!!! This woman has never had any respect for black people and showed that multiple times. Someone wise once said that when people show you who they are the first time, believe them
The fact that Erica made monkey noises at Spice makes the situation even more malicious in my opinion. There are other low blows she could have chosen but she went straight to monkey. Plus Spice saying her son doesn't like her is a dig at Erica's parenting, not at her son
No, she actually went straight to death. She first said Spice should've died. But we all skip over that part in name of fake outrage.
@@ladyyananumber1200 is that better? Does it make the slur less racially motivated?
@@atsenga no, it's worse. When we start with "you should've died" who cares about anything else that comes out your mouth?? It literally cannot get worse from there. But somehow all of you are saying it did.
@@BlasianLynn interesting point of view
@ladyyananumber1200 calling Spice a monkey is still a slur. If Erica was intelligent there are other things she would have said. If you're keen, you'll notice I'm not saying either is better. Erica was foul for what she said. Both things can be wrong at the same time
Reading all the comments on her “apology” post I’m shocked with how many black women are defending her!
Bm mammies living vicariously through their preferences smh
Even I was shocked!
There are 44.8 million black people in America. Don’t be so surprised when some of us have a different pov. A lot of black people need to get out of that tribe mentality. It’s not realistic and it only keep you stagnant in life.
Could be bots
Not me, girl.....I'm not shocked...
This is what happens when we allow people who aren't black the opportunity to wear our culture like a costume. She thinks she's black by proxy and she's very disrespectful. She needs to be taught a lesson just like everyone else.
Amen
She never thought she was black, this girl is a mix of white people and probably indigenous
@@anandal1853 I said she thinks she's black by proxy. Which means that she thinks she can appropriate the culture because she's in close proximity to it. Never said she doesn't know her own race.
@@anandal1853
I don't see a problem with non-black people entering the culture, that would be racial segregation. Remembering that do not confuse ethnicity with nationality.
Latin countries have black, white, black and mixed-race people.
The vast majority of people mixed with black people have black culture.
@@anandananda9515 it becomes a problem when people behave the way she does.
When she said "Multiple women claimed they were getting their backs blown out by Rich," I cackled like a hyena. It's the ad-libs, the singing... the education for me. This channel never disappoints.
All dat 😂😂😂😂 the singing and citing sources does it for me each time!
Me too!! 🤣🤣🤣
Me too 😂😂
The fact this has to be explained is disappointing. That’s why I let go of that “black and brown” mess. I’m only for those who are for me.
She got fired because of a racial slur
Facts
You and me both! 🖤
@@isaiahwinbrone Nah uh she got fired because she was more trouble than she was worth in that moment. A celeb using a racist slur isn't really uncommon. Shawn Mendez, Camilla Cabello, Gina Rodriguez, etc etc they're still working. Being racist isn't a death sentence in Hollywood.
That part 👌🏾👌🏾
Some of y’all real dense… it’s the fact that RRG provided full-blow examples of all the times she has used that word and y’all still saying “sHe tAlked AbOuT hER kiDs”. That doesn’t justify racism.
Especially when she actually didn't talk about her kid, she talked about her relationship with her son, which is parenting. Parenting is in relation to how the parent treats their child, and how that relationship affects the child, like the child's perception of you. A child can't control the way their parent parents, only the parent can.
If you can't say those same words to the child and they would have the same effect as the parent, it's not talkin about the child. It's obviously some truth to it because everyone that's been involved in her life has said the same thing.
It's definitely still a dig and a trigger, just ain't talking about the child. Like regardless of your 1st insult is about my race, you're racist and you BEEN feeling that way.
Exactly 💯
@@SirDave Exactly and another thing is that no one just turns racist as an adult. It is something that is developed and/or taught when you are much younger than she is. Like you said, she been feeling that way.
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I can't with these simple minded women that justify this bullshit
Meanwhile us BW are STEADY WINNING while she's withering away like soggy lettuce. 💅
Facts
I love the soggy lettuce line 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately, she's gainfully employed by pedo Chris Stokes. Erica is the star of many of his latest movies! So some black folks don't care about her antics. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Facts alot of these non BW especially the one who specifically deal with BM are just angry and bitter. When the pedestal falls down and they end up with the same Dequan now they want to take out their anger on us BW.
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 YUP!
I just love her commentary! It’s time for Latina’s like Erica and Evelyn to not be allowed in our spaces. We need to have higher standards ladies!
Yesss these 2 I just can’t understand Why their allowed to do what they do on national television. Evelyn is a straight bully but she finally met her match 😌and got knocked the heck down on National Television 😅and she got back up and kept it moving. Erica, YES it was time to exit she should have been gone. 💪🏾👍🏾👎🏽
I don't think it's us letting them in, they let themselves in. We as Black woman need our own group
FACTS…!!!!!
Keep Them Btches Out Of Our Spaces..!!!! 🥂
As a dark skinned woman, I've been dealing with this all my life. It's to the point where I hate all things monkeys even little stuff ones (toys I got at my baby shower and any items that has monkeys on them). This is nothing new, we are made to feel inferior to lighter skinned woman. It took years to accept my dark skin and I'm still learning to love it. I hope they make an example out of her. They've known she was like this and they still decided to show her on television. This goes to show you how they disregard the feelings and respect for African Americans; and they feel that degrading black women on television is good for ratings.
Yes, this stuff is deep. I didn't want to give my daughter any monkey toys because of the racism behind it, and my daughter is mixed. It's very sad. And if anyone called her that. I would be ready to go off.
Facts..!!!
Dark Skin Is Where It’s At..!!
Don’t Ever Let No One Tell You Different..! 🥂
Dark skin is beautiful!!
@@ms.lovelace5049Amen!
I feel your pain. Since I was very young from time to time, I’ve had to deal with colorism, even before knowing that there was a term to describe it. To make it worse, there are always so many people even other black women who enable it which sets us all back and makes it hard to address and root out.
When Scrappy was interrogating Erica about her parenting skills, her stupid ass was dead silent. Yet when Just Brittany told her to go "take care of her son", Erica was quick to off on Brittany and fight her. The fact that Erica is quick to resort to violence when a person would question and degrade her as a parent proves that not only has she failed as a mother, but she carries parental guilt.
And she called just Brittney shanaynay
CORRECT! HOWEVER! She is picking and choosing who she want to square upon! Stevie J AND Scrappy both told her to take care of her son and THE Bihh didn't blink!!!🙄👀 So if That's the case to the black women taking up for her should FIGHT for Stevie J and Scrappy to get fired to!!!! J.S. My OWN opinion yo! And just because you put on DARKER makeup.....does not QUALIFY you as a "Woman of color"! She has NEVER called herself a woman of color!! FOH!!!
And that shows she only got that energy for black women but never black men lmao that’s why I’m glad safaree did her like that. Sip on that single mother ! Sick of her
I agree…she only attacks black women! Why? Because they all look better than her? She looks like a vampire…don’t put on dark makeup, get some Sun, son!!
@@Mya_waterUmm..
Erica the Menace and her varicose veins deserve to be CANCELLED 🗣️🗣️
That forehead vein is going to rupture if she don't calm down
😂😂😂😂😂 hilarious
@@cosmicbeauty5682 lmaoo that’s why she’s aging horribly 😂😂
@@cosmicbeauty5682I was thinking this too 😂
Amen to that...😂😂
I'm so tired of her I almost didn't watch the video BUT... my loyalty lies with RRG and thier ability to spill all the tea
LOL hope you enjoy it!
I agree lol
Facts!
Exactly! I said that too, but RRG ♥️😍gets my support, not her 🤮
I know that's right Don't matter what it is I'm watching it
She has some nerve calling people monkeys and making monkey sounds, yet she has altered her face and kinda resembles one herself 🤷🏽♀️
What she gonna do when or if someone calls her kids that? Tell them to ignore it? I doubt it.
That’s what I’m saying!!!! Someone could easily call her children monkeys so it’s like?????????????????
Looking exactly like Curious George 😂
@@ZionDoesMakeup😂😂😂
The ad-libs are never off, but this one right here was everything to me! I have no sympathy to what is happening to Erica. She could’ve just swallowed that apology; it wasn’t needed. She’s only for the culture when it’s beneficial for her, as others are. And it’s our own people that are out here still defending her 🙄
Laughing so hard
you deserve a medal for this kind of public service
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She's only apologising because she don't want to hurt her "acting" career in those Z list TV Movies she's in with a majority black cast/production 😒
😂😂😂 “Z“ list that “acting“ career is already hurt
@@goldengoddess35With Chris Stokes at that
@@s.c.h6512Lord have mercy ☠️☠️
Nooooo not “Z list” 😂😂😂😂😂
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Erica should be ashamed of herself
Especially as a mother of 3!!!
Have you seen how she behaves? That c0ke head is shameless.
She's not.... she been calling people monkey for years🤦🏾♀️ and if she really cared about her son or being a better mother she would work on herself and try to change but she too busy calling people Monkey🤦🏾♀️
Her and her forehead vein
She is. That why she can’t stand people who speak on her poor parenting. But if everyone is critical of your parenting skills- even your son- you probably aren’t a good parent…🤷🏽♀️
As a Black Latino, I used to defend people outside this community from the misjudgment levied from those that don’t understand the difference. How Latinos are black too, but unfortunately there are some who don’t see themselves as Black. Colorism is real in Latino culture. Erica Mena is not off the hook and cannot be given a pass. It gives the rest of us a bad name. People like her will always side with the ‘others’ if it came down to it.
black is reserved for African Americans only. not even africans in Africa use the term black for themselves.
Not all Latinos are black and Latino isn't a race. I doubt you are Latino because a Latino man knows there are white Latinos as well. Do better 🎯
All latinos are not black. There are white, brown and black latinos
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Exactly. Plus Erica is not afro latino. 1% african dna doesnt make youblk. Otherwise whyts can claim racism never existed.
@@faith1614she’s mulatto
Wow, I’m appalled by all the racist rhetoric she’s used over the years. She only got fired because of the public backlash. Hitting her pockets is the only way to show them we’re serious about holding her and other racist accountable.
Clearly, she sees ALL BP as monkeys. I pray her pockets continue to feel the pain.
Thank you for this and the fact that black women were defending her is sick
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Is the dark skin women that are bleaching their skin to look like her
It's funny Hun how black women always defending these Spanish girls but never defend their own
I wasn’t defending her
And black men will keep sleeping with her
She is just so damn nasty. She knows exactly what she is saying and why.
Safari is DEFINITELY her KARMA...now she got black kids who is gonna see this one day....i dont feel sorry for her not one bit! She's getting EVERYTHING she deserves.
*CORRECTION* She has BIRACIAL children, she's a whole WW with Latin ethnicity.
Those kids are going to learn one day anyway. The minute they try to act superior to unambiguous Black children on the schoolyard, it's over.
MIXED. those kids are mixed! I’m not scolding you or anything but there is a difference between black and mixed. You don’t see mixed (white and black) being claimed by white people to be white.
Facts!!
@@Ren-er7fg I can say a whole lot about how biracial children with (usually Black fathers are embraced by the Black community at an alarming rate, while the 6f community wants nothing to do with them, but I won't 🤐
So for all the ppl who said she only said that because spice brought up her child whats the excuse now???
THANKKK YOUU, this whole arguement of "kids are off limits" is BS !! Where was this energy for Moniece, K Michelle, Karlie Redd, Kalena, Stevie J, Kirk and Scrappy when their parenting relationship with their children was questioned time and time again. Erica was not the first to ever been questioned about her relationship with her child but yet she deserves sympathy when she is guilty of doing the same to other cast mates ?! Where was the sympathy for Cyn when she was a fresh new mom and Erica was taunting her with Joe and Tahiry ? Why is everyone caping for Erica like she exempt for the same treatment she dishes to everyone else! im lostttttt😅
💯% correct
We need a We are sick of Evelyn Lozada list too!!
Amen!! We're just as tired of her a**, too.
Agreed 😂
How about Cardi B 🤔
@@allyzm1027GIRL THIS!
Yesssss ban her as well she is know better then sloppy Erica
Black ppl are farrrrrr to forgiving. There is no way she should have had so many chances to disrespect us WHILE leeching onto our resources.
Exactly. Mona Scott should be ashamed.
Most of us are weak unfortunately 🤷♀️. Sick and sad. The trash was taking space for a actually black castmate that could have been there!!! I'm sick of the foolishness in the black community.
Black people cancelled Gunna but not this hoe. She not even apart of the black community
Black Reality TV Made Her A Star. She Was Fired By The Kardashians But Didn't Call Them Names. Black People Gotta Stand For Something Or Just Fall ✊🏾🖤Erica Has So Much Work Done She's Starting 2 Turn Into A Cute Lil 🙊💯
Facts..!!!!
RRG: "We are sick & tired of Erica Mena"
Subscriber: "Sh*t me too " 😂😂
LMAO!
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She had HR write that sad apology and had the nerve not to address Spice by her name
once I see Inclusivity and Equality you know it’s bs
Thank you for this impressive presentation RRG. You broke it down so well & you even shed light on the history behind the slurs. I hope the Black people who are defending Erica & demanding she get her jobs back finally get it...one can only hope🤷♀
I feel bad for her kids. The horror of being black and being raised by someone that hates black people and probably calling the kids monkeys and ninjas at home. Them kids gonna be messed up. ☹️
You know she does
Her children are BIRACIAL.
They’re not black.
Her kids are not black. They are mixed and on the lighter side of it too!
@@elleJay-mb4yn if you think that light skinned mixed kids don't get called monkeys and ninjas, you must be from a country with no black people. Otherwise, don't talk about what you don't know about.
recently, it feels like the online black community have more to say about ourselves than the people who are actively degrading us.
I agree. The alt right pipeline has infiltrated our spaces.
Thank you! 🙄
EVERYTIME... it's embarrassing ASF. 😒
That's where I learned how to interact with the black community, so being a person of non-color i had to realize i am different then my family and friends and how I was raised with them but do not have the same rights to talk to them the way they've always talked to eachother.
RRG has not only brought up hurtful things people do, but why you shouldn't say those things. I'd hope some people of color themselves benefit from learning there offensive and why.
This is what needs to be pin
thank you soooo much for including the part about nappy hair. so many 'black education ' channels will say stuff, with no source or research whatsoever.
thank you RRG for always producing quality content for us!!❤
It’s the adlibs for me 😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 had me crying!!!! You told NOTHING but the truth!!! Thank you 😂 I needed that today!
The fact that she’s believes Spice owe her an apology is wild to me.
Right. If Spice owes her an apology, so do Scrappy, Stevie, Brittany, and anyone who talks about her kid.
I'll never get over the fact she was mad that $4k a month in child support wasn't enough for her. There are people with children who don't even get close to that amount, not even close to at least $1k a month. Plus I feel like her having a baby with Safaree is her karma for how shes treated other in the past. Oh well. 😂😊❤🎉
You right. I only get $30 a week 😭
Bruh my sister got $50 for like 3 months then it dropped to $5💀 and she mad abt FOUR THOUSAND?
@@kelsiiie9786 Erica should be grateful I ain't getting much. Others out there to are worse off!
My son father paid $17.49 last month and $16.46 the month before. I have screenshots to prove it. Erica doesn’t realize how lucky she is compared to others.
Flatbreads don’t have brains😂😂🦅🦅🦅
I am just cannot understand why this chick is just so racist. It is bad enough as a very proud dark-skinned goddess, I have dealt with chicks like her myself and just ignore them and their remarks. FYI: Spice is a very beautiful, talented girl. ❤❤❤❤
I'm personally sick and tired of seeing those veins (that look like tributaries) popping out of her forehead, every time she get mad, cuz sh*t ain't going her way!
Her and Evilyn Lozada have the same vein thing in their forehead.
I always think it’s about to pop
@@specialk8927😂
Erica has such a dark energy
She's honest about how she sees black people. She's with black men in order to secure the bag. We should just stop supporting her 🤷🏾♀️
Shes always carried a dark energy around her even from back in her video vixen days. BM have continued to give her passes as she is a "preference". Over time her issues have amplified and this is just the cherry on the ice cream. BW continually supporting her is beyond my understanding.
It’s the adlibs in the background for me 😭😭😭
My favorite parts of the video 😂❤
My Favorite
As a woman of Color. ... bitch where. ? I'm done. I. Rewind that part 10 times 😭
😂😂😂😂 same
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Right! I looked at my phone like IKYFL! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your background grumbling and rumbling has me CRYING!!! Keep that up😂😂
The most ironic part is that, some of our black folks are backing and cheering her up. This is so outrageous. If we don't stand up for ourselves who will stand up for us.
Thank you for putting out all these instances that she s a racial slurs. Thank you for educating some, even though most already know why the terms are offensive 👁️🗨️, it's just some black people out here that want to cap for a non-black people because they haven't done their own healing when it comes down to how they feel about their own blackness, and they're deep-rooted issues of their relationship to a ton of toxic things in their lives.
It's like in your DNA as a black person to know that monkey and nappy are racial slurs.
Black people got to stop giving passes to non-black people that don't give a f about us for their beyond inhumane actions.
Seeing all the black people especially black women make all sorts of excuses for her actions was sickening .
ALL OF THIS! If BW do nothing else they're going to fight to the death for biracials to be Black, they do the same for Valtrex B. Some of us are embarrassing ASF. 😒
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I feel like Laurence (then Larry) Fishburne screaming, "WAKE UP!" in School Daze!
Thank you!!!!
@@danavixen6274SAME
After her apology someone on Twitter asked Erica does she think Spice should apologize Erica said "She doesn't have the guts" which tells me that the whole apology was bs and she should've kept it moving
Exactly what I felt too after seeing her response
What would Spice apologize for,telling the truth
@@tiana4825 right. Loo
It was all B.S from slutty erica
Thanks for discussing this hot mess express!!! I have a gf who is a former video vixen. My gf says Erica the Mean Menace has ALWAYS been problematic!!! I'm happy that she's getting her karma so publicly! Hispanic isn't a race, it's an ethnicity. So, you can be White Hispanic, Asian Hispanic, Black Hispanic, etc! I'm a multi-ethnic blk wmn, and there's definitely colorism and racism within the Hispanic community from my experience and beyond. She's both colorist and racist!
* When are y'all doing a video on Rich Dollaz? I met him, and my gf freaked out and told him to keep away because he's an a--hole... That tid bit y'all gave sounded intriguing 😏. I love y'all, keep being great RRG ❤!*
The Hispanic and Latino community is VERY racist!
I SCREAMED….When Y’all said “Girl hold my earrings”. 🙌🏾
I just want to say I love when you sing, promote the snacks, and every other silly things that you do!! Great Content!
I really enjoyed the "background" jabs they were making throughout this video. 🤣
Thanks for watching! ❤
Babbby don't get me started on this ran through Latina Skeletor. 😒
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Heavy on the ran through been around since o4
I already knew Erica Mena was gonna show up on RRGs “Hot Stanking Mess” list. Chall…I’m tired of seeing her and her popping veins.
The adlibs on this channel be having me dying well done RRG as usual
Thanks for watching!
Your channel is called Real Reality Gossip but you provide Real Reality Facts, History, Receipts and Respect. When you showed the clip of the late, great actor Robert Guillaume, I got so emotional. I had no idea of the Black culture documentary that he was in. Going to find it and watch. Thank you RRG. Bravo to you for excellent content. 👏🏽
10:22 It’s the “God don’t like ugly” adlibs that had me spit out my drink. 😂😂😂 too funny. I love her adlibs throughout the videos.
I’ll never look at her the same after Chris Brown said her breath stinks I can’t unsmell it 😂😂😂
😂😂oh wow 😅 he said that lol...
@@yolandalowe4735yeah behind the scenes of his music video Yo it’s on TH-cam everywhere lol 😂
I'd believe it.
@@yolandalowe4735Sure did! When she was the leading lady in his video when he first came out. I believe it. I think the excuse was because she hadn’t ate.
@@daniellescott698 😆 😯😆
These people feel comfortable saying these things because of how black people speak to each other, especially how BM talk about BW to these non black women. I'm not just saying this off the top of my head, these type of women have told me this. We need to be more united and show love to each other first. We do not live in a post racial society 😢
The "conditioning" is real! Talk about "post traumatic slave syndrome", it's probably worse today than with our ancestors who were closer to slavery than we are, but they still believed in education and carrying themselves with dignity! And they didn't have social media which gives a platform to all the insanity!
Her people are anti black. It has nothing to do with how black people speak to each other🙄🙄
Black men and black woman who talk against the black race should automatically lose there black card. Also people that aren't fully black should not be allowed in our spaces
1:49 Thank you for educating the world especially BW who are supporting Erica instead of Spice 👏👏
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Erica, said what was in her heart that is why those words came out of her mouth. She meant every word she spoke!
Yessssss her sad hoeish ass did
... "personally"... I believe she said what's culturally relative to ALOT of spanish people... I mean... Evelyn did it as well... soooooo... 😶💁🏽♀️🚶🏾♀️
Erica hates us …. Cuz’ she ain’t us
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I use to talk to someone from the Terror Squad clique. I ain’t gon say who because I think he married or something now. But she was loving the crew INCLUDING JOE. And she been calling people monkeys for years. She called MC Shakie a monkey and he read her down! Like 2 years ago.
I believe it!!!!!!!!!
I believe it also
I remember that and he didn't even do anything for her to come at him. He ate her and left no crumbs.
As well as Teony
RRG where you can get the tea and a lesson in history! I love this channel!
Yessss!
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Very true !
Oh boy. Can someone call 📞 the Black Girls that was caping for her? That's one 🐒 too many 😳
And Spice told the truth about her son,he doesn’t like her,and her son does live in Florida with her parents for 16 years.. She doesn’t have custody of her son,and Safaree does go to Florida to give her son money.
Wow Erica been referring to black ppl as monkey’s a long time. And now since everybody is so sensitive and we got cancel culture now she is being held accountable. This should have happen 10+yrs ago.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
🗣🗣🗣THANK-YOU RRG!!!! THE POST I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!!
It's the side commentary for me 😂😂😂
It takes me out everytime! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Yes, that's what got me too 😭😂
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IMO The Love and Hip Hop Franchise and the producers are just as guilty as Erica. I'm not surprised Erica said what she said her history on the show and her social media has shown us exactly who she is.
You are absolutely right. Mona will take her off for a season. Then when she thinks we've all forgotten and the storm has been weathered, Mona will slip Erica right back on one of her shows for Erica to call someone else a monkey. But don't forget. Let's not let them put her back on so she can continue to insult us while making money using our Black community.
Exactly. Shame on Mona Scott
The background adlibs are taking me out😊😊😊
I have been waiting for this video from you guys for the longest😭😭
Exactly for all the black celebs and women on the internet trying to act like she didn’t mean it racially 😒 she 100% meant it that way! There’s no way around it.
Exactly ! 😠
This video is right on time and you added an historical education to it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I hope this goes viral!!
Thank you for this detailed and informative video, for those who like to pretend like Erica is not problematic and incredibly toxic. The woman has shown who she is for years and people chose to turn a blind eye at it, well I guess her time is up.
Not y'all doing adlibs in the videos now 😅... but yea Erica needs to deactivate all her account's and seek therapy.
Also, Erica has been doing reality tv long enough to know that behind the scenes she actually earned herself a nice little promotion for bringing this much attention to this DYING franchise. The people up top dgaf about who is offended by what all they wanna see is the #s going up, and she did just that. It pains me to see so many of us giving her the attention because they know how lucrative our outrage is.
Thus, is true. Hence, the reason why they didn’t do anything, until after the fact. They knew she made these remarks months ago, before the show even aired. They could have fired her, then.
I got relaxed hair and it's too long to start over but my daughter is never going to ruin her African hair with these products. Our hair is beautiful. The texture is so beautiful it's like something made in honey and milk. We don't need Brazilian or indian hair extensions.
The way y’all added a screenshot of tweets in the thumbnail is sending meeeeeee
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Thank you for showing Erica supporters the truth about her. That girl don't need to be brought back. Bambi, you'll be beefing with her next...watch
She has gotten away with it for so long because of pretty privilege. Women who look like her are put on a pedestal in the black community so they feel that we are beneath them. If you notice, when she was featured on Keeping up with the Kardashians back in the day, she didn't act like this on their show.
She’s really not that pretty
Prettyness has nothing to with it. There's plenty of pretty Black women who would never get the chances or opportunities Erica has.
Erica is a white woman, who's Taino blood gives her a sprinkle of melanin. She got the complexion for the protection, until now☺️
She looks no better than any other woman. And her attitude makes her ugly. 🙄 And since she is so infatuated with "monkeys" I wonder if she considers her children as 50% monkeys then?
@@alyssam1159 I agree with you about her being white that's why I said that women who look like her ( non black or ambiguous) are put on a pedestal in OUR community. She's closer to the European standard of beauty than we are because she is white. However, if she wasn't as attractive as she is in addition to being white, she would not have gotten away with this for so long. Just my opinion.
Ur background voice is savage! 😂 I love it
Very well done on this video! The history lesson was a bonus!
I love it
Ohhhhhhhh RRG I Was Patently Waiting For You Guys To Deliverrrrrrrrr This Baby 👏🏿👏🏿
hope you enjoy it!
@@rrg Every Moment Of It Especially When You Said PINK SLIP BISHHH 😂😂😂😭👏🏿😭😭😭
LMAO! Thanks for watching!@@HouseOfAriaLynn
@@HouseOfAriaLynn ikr!! I am sick of ppl talking anot Spice tailed anot her children. She did NOT. She talked about the way the child FELT towards her. Uuughica obviously fell like it's truth to it or else she wouldn't have gotten so heated! But for the ppl (especially black women) defending her... I just wanna know what's the justification for all of the other times??? I'll wait...
@@QueenBthatsMe777 I Absolutely Agree With You 💯 Percent
I love the adlibs.😂
Thanks RRG I needed some new content ❤😊
Hope you enjoyed it!
RRG! Y'all did this! Thank you!!!❤
Thanks for watching! ❤
RRG opinions in between the commendary is giving me LIFE.❤❤
I'm subscribed for her side commentary 😂
RRG Family, Erica is about to pay back heavily for her racist comment on Jamaican Dancehall Queen Spice.
spice did not say anything about her son she was talking about ericas parenting. meanwhile erica was calling stevie daughter a "bebe kid"...
5:23 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank You so much for making a link with the History of the past
Gossip + History Class 🤣
RRG yes! Love you'll and ESPECIALLY your singing
Thank you BFF!
I was waiting for the voice 😂
I’m too early ! I gotta come back when the other besties got their comments ready 😂😢
LOL!
That Sh*t was so triggering for me 😠
That's it! It was triggering TO YOU. Spice didn't care about the monkey part until EVERYONE ELSE said something about it. Spice was pissed about the "you should've died" part. And that's far worse than calling someone an animal.
"You should've DIED!" Really?!? Who gives af about blue monkeys at that point?
@@ladyyananumber1200 Yes that’s the part that was triggering for me.
People are not understanding that Erica mentioned her son first. Saying she's a single mother for 14yrs, that's when Spice let her know she's done it also & brought up how her son does even like her. Spice's point was to show Erica shouldn't even be mentioning that when her child doesn't like her cuz she's neglected him. NOTHING was said about the son. She just doesn't like black ppl
"To justify slavery, black Americans had to be dehumanize. A moral and legal framework to support slavery was constructed at the same time. If it is believed that a man is inferior, subhuman, it becomes easy to treat him as a pet, a toy, an object of comic relief. A crazed lower animal who must be controlled and ruled." These words are so powerful and true
Thanks for watching! ❤