Exactly! The emotional scars overlap but, for example, a black person in the 80’s couldn't walk outside of their home and cover up the colour of their skin. Whatever the gender, a person might be affected by not being able to express the way they identify, but no one can initially see your thoughts and feelings when they are locked up in your head. Being Black and transgender... Well that goes without saying.
lillustpotion no he wasn’t that’s your point of view, the guy literally said this is how he interprets it, don’t start doing Chinese whispers because you feel offended
Nah fully when everyone reacts the way they do when he asks questions it's so annoying, like that's rah the reason people are scared to ask questions and pretend to understand shit
@Joker411 Everytbing about Prince’s characterisation, expression in music, lyrics, creative direction in his music videos/ body’s of art in his albums SCREAMS gender fluidity and the deconstruction of gender roles/taboo. For him to be so ignorant about gender fluidity and to wear prince is not only extremely hypocritical but just a joke. how can he appreciate Prince’s art, without having any contextual grasp/understanding about him and his soul’s expression?
Marc is a perfect representation of mans that was raised in a such a radical manner or "values" that he can't accept or even try to educate himself on the things that are changing and affecting other people. And the weird hand mocking motions he was doing while the other guy was talking, was fn CHILDISH bruv.
Tbf mark was interrupted but he should have just made his point instead of asking people an obvious question that insults their intelligence with his reverse psychology ass
Soo Catherine said Marc was “immature” meanwhile she’s laughing and he’s not?? And plus Marc I think even though it sounds dumb I think genuinely tried to understand the topic through his basic questions that we all know the answer to but he just doesn’t. The new cast members this season just don’t get this is real topics and real talk, not sprinkling words to not hurt somebody like bro it’s a conversation.
idk why everyone is telling mark to 'be careful ' at the end of the day its his opinion and yes it may come across as rude but if it was a different topic and everyone was disagreeing together no one would have a problem
Honestly I love Castillo, he has such nice people skills. See the way he doesn’t say a word during the gender topic, he’s just quite and observed taking it in. So much respect for him❤️
Marc was talking to Terrell as if he was a man with male emotions but the Women were defensive of Terrell because in truth they knew he has female emotions
there's passionate and aggressive, his outbursts are 'triggering' they are a bit too much and im not sensitive, but the way he spoke to the girl in the middle, sorry he needs to watch the playback and ask himself he would address his mother in that tone. I wanted to climb thru the screen!
there were a few things marc said that made me bat an eye but he’s asking REAL questions, and i understand it’s a sensitive topic but we don’t want it to be so why does marc have to beat around the bush to ask a question let him speak, why does everyone have to make faces and noises when he’s asking actual questions it’s adding the most unnecessary fuel.
Dk why Terrell was moving like a victim when Marc asked the question Yeah it’s an obvious answer but he was clearly going to make a follow up point The rest of the cast was just hating on Marc to justify their sense of morality
This is a prime example of liberal facism. It’s hypocritical to have a liberal view of sexuality, but not allow someone else the room to disagree. Marc isn’t smart at all, but he has the right to express his views, just as those that disagree with him, have the right to express his views.
This is a prime example of liberal facism. It’s hypocritical to have a ‘liberal’ view of sexuality, but not allow someone else the room to disagree. Marc isn’t smart at all, but he has the right to express his views, just as those that disagree with him, have the right to express his views. However, they’re trying to act as if they’re the perfect moral people, and in turn, actually aren’t being liberal.
I’m sorry but that part where he said “that means anyone can say, “I’m a dog, I’m a cat””. That had me crying laughing... omg... what is wrong with him 😂
Why didn't the girls let Terrell talk they kept jumping in and then when when Mark is asking a question he's having more of a sincere conversation with Tyrell then these girls are there annoying shut up and listen
I love the way Tara was acting bad for camera and then when Marc got real serious real quick she got shook. Gyal need to know you can't step to man like that cause certain will just straight lick you down
Don’t think she was shook no point going back and forth to get the last word Marc doesn’t seem like the type to hit women he seems like he’d pick on someone his own size he is hyper masculine
@@urbino79 I was so wrong and ignorant, so disgusted at the claims coming out now . Apparently it runs in the family too. I really liked Marc as well 😒
They really need to get better LGBTQ representatives/voices on this show cause there is so much education and specifically BLACK EDUCATION to slap them with 🙄
He said what he wanted and people responded. Seems that people like you who are so loud about freedom of speech don't realize that it's a two way street
He’s on their to express his opinion. It would be pretty boring if everyone thought the same and all agreed. He wanted to ask a question he was genuinely confused on the matter.
@@lilmaster8498 It's not about agreeing, it's about being mature and respectful even if you have an opposing view. It's not about right or wrong... It's just different views
When Terrell started crying I’m sorry I started laughing. This is not how a man carries themselves 😂. Sorry not sorry but we gotta have this discussion she’s not a man just has the appearance.
Men can cry Marc is dumb. It’s easy for him to say carry yourself like a man when the issue isn’t sensitive to him I am sure that there are things that make him cry lolz
Nah this Terrell yute is jarring bruv. You can’t keep getting all emotional just because somebody doesn’t agree with you mate. If you can’t handle the heat, then GET OUT THE KITCHEN! (No pun intended)
He wasn’t getting emotional because they were not agreeing with his point it was because they weren’t fully understand what he was trying to explain and in that environment it can get heated and frustrated when people take what you are saying out of context.
@@fkatwigsisthequeenofenglan4748 No one was invaliding marc’s experience, when having a debate about sexuality there’s a very thin line in the way you speak , your tone and the way you address your questions to a person , there just has to be a level of respect shown when you are trying to understand such a complex topic because many people have opinions that aren’t the same as yours.
The ignorance immediately started. "Yous lot" tf i haaaaate Marc. Vapid & stupid are the worst combination. Didnt he confess to having plastic surgery? 😂😂😂😂🤢
I don’t agree with Marc, but the one good point he had is stop putting Terrell on a pedestal. Treat him normally, he have more experience on the topic but it doesn’t make Marcs opinions less valid.
@@SuperSouthchick so was there ever a point In Your life where u said okay do I like boys or girls and liked boys or was it you were born and boys were your thing? he’s was making sense. You can’t really limit your mind to your own personal opinion there’s something way bigger towards sexuality
thank god esther was not on this one for us to be hearing “as a mother when i was transgender” or something along these lines
😶🤣🤣🤣 I'm crying
😅🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
She always starts her sentence with that 😂
castillo was like "aii imma head out"
Then the new guy came in and we were like ‘Ah shit here we go again.’ 😂
Castillo wanna discuss banging straight up
@@DeadlyTyper42 facts
@@DeadlyTyper42 Castillo just wants ps and gyal bruv
@Atzo about what ? I don’t really think he’s trying to display an image besides being a funny dude who wants ps and gyal
Castillos facial expressions were me in maths
Lol I was just thinking that 🤦♀️🤣his normally very talkative🤣
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was thinking the exact same thing lmfaoo
Watch Lucas say “I feel like in our society” even though he’s not even there
Lolll fr
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not funny. LUCAS MAKES THE MOST SENSE
Mark turning his head with his sunglasses on should be a meme i die every time he does it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Yasmin asking who’s the pengest girl during a mature discussion about sexuality and gender is why no one can take this seriously LOOOL
dude lighten up
she was trying to break the ice
Racism and gender fluidity aren't the same thing
i think the argument is that driving pool of emotions have some overlap, in particular disgust, shame & hate which are forces less stable forces
both are social construct look up lgbt in african history
they're not the same thing but theirs a lot of overlap
@@fkatwigsisthequeenofenglan4748 I respect the LGBT, community but racism and gender fludity is not the same thing
Exactly! The emotional scars overlap but, for example, a black person in the 80’s couldn't walk outside of their home and cover up the colour of their skin. Whatever the gender, a person might be affected by not being able to express the way they identify, but no one can initially see your thoughts and feelings when they are locked up in your head.
Being Black and transgender... Well that goes without saying.
Some people still haven’t worked out that these are all re-uploads
Recycled episodes as its lockdown
they should release bkchat uncensored!
Others haven't watched it 😛😛😛😛😛😝
2Real 2good nah its bcos the account got hacked and the hacked deleted all the vids that’s why they’re reuploading all the zeze mills videos aswell
S A yh their account got hacked app and so now theyre slowly putting up their old vids again
Marc was back-pedalling. You were making fun of Terrell at the start. Don’t start gaslighting people now.
Exactly
Straight up!
Respect my man Marc's opinions lol
@@MussoliniLondon ur wet
If Terrell is a man he needs to realise men challenge one another thats how men socialise.
People have a right to have their Opinions.
I don’t like Patronizing, Let him stand up and defend and educate about his experience and life.
Is ur name January?
Right
heard "Big man thing yeah" and i'm at peace
😂😂
I swear to God 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
am i the only one that thinks mark is only asking questions because he wants to understand?
Ur not cuz
I think he was blatantly being disrespectful but was playing off that he was being curious
@@lillustpotion the cast members were adding unnecessary fuel to his questions, not once did he try make a joke out of it
lillustpotion no he wasn’t that’s your point of view, the guy literally said this is how he interprets it, don’t start doing Chinese whispers because you feel offended
Nah fully when everyone reacts the way they do when he asks questions it's so annoying, like that's rah the reason people are scared to ask questions and pretend to understand shit
someone needs to make bkchat but its all those aunties that mock eachother at church
Loll would watch that xd
That would be so entertaining
That would be too funnyy
Marc is me in these type of situations🤣🤣 and joseph is too funny💀
why was yasmin and lani moving like tara was gonna do anything we all know she was gonna stay in that same spot
LOOOOOOOOOOOOL
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Marc was just tryna make his point sigh
Jay and Marc were too funny this ep😂😂😂
on god😂😂😂
Marc not understanding sexual fluidity and gender expression yet wearing a prince t-shirt has me like ???
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I am done. Holy fuck.
@Joker411 Everytbing about Prince’s characterisation, expression in music, lyrics, creative direction in his music videos/ body’s of art in his albums SCREAMS gender fluidity and the deconstruction of gender roles/taboo. For him to be so ignorant about gender fluidity and to wear prince is not only extremely hypocritical but just a joke. how can he appreciate Prince’s art, without having any contextual grasp/understanding about him and his soul’s expression?
@Joker411 ... you didn’t get their point
The joke writes itself
Man's a poser
Marc said why do I need do be careful and hes sitting next to Terrell🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
Jay made a good point about people trying to force you to believe what they believe. 37:26 - 38:57
Marc is a perfect representation of mans that was raised in a such a radical manner or "values" that he can't accept or even try to educate himself on the things that are changing and affecting other people. And the weird hand mocking motions he was doing while the other guy was talking, was fn CHILDISH bruv.
no literally. and then after mark was like "I don't understand what he is trying to say". well thats cause you didn't even listen?
no at this point every body has a right to their opinion and if mark feels like he does not understand then its up to him
Tbf mark was interrupted but he should have just made his point instead of asking people an obvious question that insults their intelligence with his reverse psychology ass
Marc was simply asking questions that people are too scared to ask coz we want to seem like tolerant people.
Soo Catherine said Marc was “immature” meanwhile she’s laughing and he’s not?? And plus Marc I think even though it sounds dumb I think genuinely tried to understand the topic through his basic questions that we all know the answer to but he just doesn’t. The new cast members this season just don’t get this is real topics and real talk, not sprinkling words to not hurt somebody like bro it’s a conversation.
i understand how overwhelming Terrel's situation is, because this has been conflicting him his entire life
Her*
@@godrules3596shush. i know what i said.
@@godrules3596 shush. i know what i said.
@@niyahh9350 no you don't if you bepeive that get help this delusion must stop
man compared fluidity to ribena😅
Literally! He heard the word FLUID and it stuck. 😩
😂😂😂
idk why everyone is telling mark to 'be careful ' at the end of the day its his opinion and yes it may come across as rude but if it was a different topic and everyone was disagreeing together no one would have a problem
When y'all get your asses beat over these bum ass "opinions" I hope yall will keep this energy
@@tbg6070 honestly.
@@tbg6070 yup
@@tbg6070 who’s beating you up? Be honest
@@tbg6070 what's a gay person going to do to Marc lol they where dresses ffs
Maaaan I stand with Marc. These man were being baaaare dramatic 😂🤦🏾♂️ smh
Man who likes his bum ate with so much ignorance 😂
I feel like Marc is tryingg to understand but he has already made up his mind about how he feels about this topic.
Honestly I love Castillo, he has such nice people skills. See the way he doesn’t say a word during the gender topic, he’s just quite and observed taking it in. So much respect for him❤️
He dipped at 28mins because he had enough
Marc made me laugh this WHOLE episode idc 😂
U need to fix up then
Me too, I can't lieeeee. (even though he's ignorant af!)
Man started talking about ribena
Because he was stating facts
Word all fax
Marc was talking to Terrell as if he was a man with male emotions but the Women were defensive of Terrell because in truth they knew he has female emotions
💯
an episode i ddnt speak in, enjoy xx lol
My girl 😘
12:07
Thank goddd😊
They did Nina wrong with that thumbnail 😂😂
Why do y’all say that I think she looks great !
What’s wrong with it she fine
She looks beautiful, what’s wrong
Marc has a point, he can’t ask any questions without getting attacked.
Because his questions are dumb and ignorant
@@harrymichael.s9101 right. and people saying "we all know the answer to that question" is not attacking lol.
@@harrymichael.s9101 exactly
there's passionate and aggressive, his outbursts are 'triggering' they are a bit too much and im not sensitive, but the way he spoke to the girl in the middle, sorry he needs to watch the playback and ask himself he would address his mother in that tone. I wanted to climb thru the screen!
Im shocked like tf
there were a few things marc said that made me bat an eye but he’s asking REAL questions, and i understand it’s a sensitive topic but we don’t want it to be so why does marc have to beat around the bush to ask a question let him speak, why does everyone have to make faces and noises when he’s asking actual questions it’s adding the most unnecessary fuel.
Mark talking bout sexuality in a Prince t shirt 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dk why Terrell was moving like a victim when Marc asked the question
Yeah it’s an obvious answer but he was clearly going to make a follow up point
The rest of the cast was just hating on Marc to justify their sense of morality
These lot just want to impress the viewers, I’m glad marc and Joseph let them know they didn’t agree and Omar is just talking out his arse
This is a prime example of liberal facism. It’s hypocritical to have a liberal view of sexuality, but not allow someone else the room to disagree. Marc isn’t smart at all, but he has the right to express his views, just as those that disagree with him, have the right to express his views.
This is a prime example of liberal facism. It’s hypocritical to have a ‘liberal’ view of sexuality, but not allow someone else the room to disagree. Marc isn’t smart at all, but he has the right to express his views, just as those that disagree with him, have the right to express his views. However, they’re trying to act as if they’re the perfect moral people, and in turn, actually aren’t being liberal.
Joshua Arawole 📠. I hate how some lgbts and their supporters always force the moral high ground. At this point it’s just bigotry.
I agree
U can be homosexual but don't force an agenda on me
I’m sorry but that part where he said “that means anyone can say, “I’m a dog, I’m a cat””. That had me crying laughing... omg... what is wrong with him 😂
He's right though. What stops me from identifying as a male dog?
@@Tommybotham 😐
@@kadjagnee.4811 what's stopping him you
There's people who actually identify as that tho now so he's not wrong.
OMAR WAS TALKING 😍😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Marc woke up and chose chaos 😂😂😂
I agree with mark on the crying tin
I don’t think you necessarily need to agree with it but, RESPECT IT!
But can you respect them NOT agreeing with it? And Not using your made up ideas?
Marc is the realist on this show
Nope
@@krissygreenidge yes
**most stupid
Dk why Tara thinks she can give vim then move like a victim when she gets it back😂😂
They tried so hard to make Marc look like the big bad wolf
*That's what women do.*
@@haza123b4 stfu
@@haza123b4 nahh he was just super unintelligent and immature.
@@xotwod_raii *You must be a woman.*
@@freeeepalestine__ *In response to her bravado.*
Why didn't the girls let Terrell talk they kept jumping in and then when when Mark is asking a question he's having more of a sincere conversation with Tyrell then these girls are there annoying shut up and listen
Marc seemed abit too passionate in this one😂I feel like he is hiding something
Defo
@@persidemesa1307 😂😂😂😂😂 have that feeling tho
Dead recycled joke
Maybe he's just understanding 🙄
@@R0yALtyS understanding what?
Tbh what Marc said is facts!!!! The media really be pushing things
Marc talking to women like that, now we know more ITS CLEAR
Yehhh rewatching this after the sit down with esther and lani is very eye opening
Marc woke up and chose chaos, violence and everything in between
The way Marc looked around when terrel said he identifies as a trans man🤣🤣🤣💀
🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way tara was bare acting up was mad
Joseph is a little too good looking honestly 😍😍😍
Yessssssss
Of course 😍😍
I love the way Tara was acting bad for camera and then when Marc got real serious real quick she got shook. Gyal need to know you can't step to man like that cause certain will just straight lick you down
Lool facts
or maybe she got tired of shouting so decided to shutup cause the "convo" was getting no where.
Don’t think she was shook no point going back and forth to get the last word Marc doesn’t seem like the type to hit women he seems like he’d pick on someone his own size he is hyper masculine
@@tropicalstormxox9444 ur wrong. He was hitting Esther
@@urbino79 I was so wrong and ignorant, so disgusted at the claims coming out now . Apparently it runs in the family too. I really liked Marc as well 😒
8:10 The irony of Marc speaking about ‘sexually fluid’ being wrong / confusing to him, while he wears a Prince t-shirt is hilarious to me 😂😂😂
Right hahahahahahah
I was about to write this. How the Hell you talking trash about sexuality but you got a Damn Prince shirt on? WTF?! He's giving me DL vibes!
i was waiting for this fucking comment LMFAO!!!!!!!!
They really need to get better LGBTQ representatives/voices on this show cause there is so much education and specifically BLACK EDUCATION to slap them with 🙄
This!!!!!!!!!!!!
This episode was HEATEDDDD
tara's blue hair in the confessional shocked me
It’s a debate maan. Let mark say wt he wants
He said what he wanted and people responded. Seems that people like you who are so loud about freedom of speech don't realize that it's a two way street
I usually find Marc childish but he made me laugh hard this time round
@@tbg6070 thankkkkk youuu
Marc speaks with ignorance... It's not everyday! You don't have to agree, but don't need to be disrespectful
true i agree with you but Marc has a point , choose one sexuality don't be hoping around and playing with people's feelings.
He’s on their to express his opinion. It would be pretty boring if everyone thought the same and all agreed. He wanted to ask a question he was genuinely confused on the matter.
@@samanthamusundi sexuality has to do with who you're attracted to,gender identity is what you're thinking of.
@@nyikomaswanganyi5983 Someone is awake!
@@lilmaster8498 It's not about agreeing, it's about being mature and respectful even if you have an opposing view. It's not about right or wrong... It's just different views
The girl in middle got patterned differently I felt deep
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Marc left his filter at yard for this episode
He angered me he so ignorant I want to tell him off through the screen
@@tropicalstormxox9444 fuck that
i wish Lani would've said what she said in her confessional during the debate.. the way the boys' chest would DROP to the floor LMFAO
What did she say?
She was born a man or?
"your a man i swear your a man stand up and be counted bro 'said it how it his he talking real
I love marc’s character styll if you had a party wid him it would be lit
Nope
MARCUS IS THE BACKBONE OF THIS SHOW😂😂😂
even tho he is ignorant asf😭😭😭😭
🧢
I hate how Marc is so arrogant and he’s not even handsome
😂😂😂
Naw you tripping 💫
He’s handsome but he is very arrogant
@@thereidfamily8221 Lol too much hate in her heart lol
I agree with Marc 100%
Get ready for the shouting and talking over each other 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No way Casti actually just cut like aight imma head out
Big respect to Marc for keeping it real and kepping it logical
When Terrell started crying I’m sorry I started laughing. This is not how a man carries themselves 😂. Sorry not sorry but we gotta have this discussion she’s not a man just has the appearance.
Men can cry Marc is dumb. It’s easy for him to say carry yourself like a man when the issue isn’t sensitive to him I am sure that there are things that make him cry lolz
🤣🤣🤣
You should invite Moses Ldn for the next time or Nella Rose?
I hate how people dehumanize others, where do dogs and cats come in? Like 🤦🏿♀️
I know right it’s clear she meant freedom to be attracted to boys or girls , it’s also derogatory toward homosexuals
The level of immaturity is insane ..
when are they going to reupload episode nine we all want to relive the fatal mother line
Oh my days u can't wait😭
What is it
Marc is too funny🤣🤣🤣bare sarcastic
I appreciate Marcs honesty.
I already know Castillo is gonna do a mazza
David Ononye Man cut time ago 😂
He literally left the chat🚶🏽♂️✌🏽😂
😭😭😭when dc asked if he can interrupt and Terrell said no 32:41
That’s Jay / Joseph. Not DC.
You cant choose your feelings wtf. You choose to act on them.
Nah this Terrell yute is jarring bruv.
You can’t keep getting all emotional just because somebody doesn’t agree with you mate.
If you can’t handle the heat, then GET OUT THE KITCHEN! (No pun intended)
He wasn’t getting emotional because they were not agreeing with his point it was because they weren’t fully understand what he was trying to explain and in that environment it can get heated and frustrated when people take what you are saying out of context.
y don't u say the same about Marc? he was getting emotional cus they were invalidating his experience
why are emotions not acceptable. don't we all have emotions. Isn't your purgative to display emotions or choose not to.
@@fkatwigsisthequeenofenglan4748 No one was invaliding marc’s experience, when having a debate about sexuality there’s a very thin line in the way you speak , your tone and the way you address your questions to a person , there just has to be a level of respect shown when you are trying to understand such a complex topic because many people have opinions that aren’t the same as yours.
Joseph and Marc were great✊🏾🔥
Not making a decision is also making a decision
Feeling vs Fact!
Manny true feeling derives from fact !
The ignorance immediately started. "Yous lot" tf i haaaaate Marc. Vapid & stupid are the worst combination. Didnt he confess to having plastic surgery? 😂😂😂😂🤢
I love Marc in this episode 😂😂😂 he made me laugh the whole time 😂
The way Tara grabbed Catherine Nancy I was rolling 😂
I'm with Marc and Jay on this. Why do you get angry when your opinion isn't accepted?
This need to be in podcast format on spotify!!
I don’t agree with Marc, but the one good point he had is stop putting Terrell on a pedestal. Treat him normally, he have more experience on the topic but it doesn’t make Marcs opinions less valid.
NFS Mark was being real and honest giving equal right and treatment, he kept it a 1000
I love the way Marc patterned that girl 😂😂😂
Word😂😂😂 and he’s actually not even wrong
Nick James he was wrong. He shouted at the girl just for bringing tissue for the other girl crying.
@@ashleycrystal9719 guy**
@@nickjames9379 yes he is
@@xotwod_raii nah
Catherine is talking about Mark being immature yes she literally admitted to laughing in inappropriate situations. Silly
😂😂😂😂😂
1:24 Marc turning his head in confusion had me dyin😂😂
11:28 LOOOL he looked hella annoyed when he got asked that, I’m thinking that it must be an annoying Q to ask :/
You can see Tara knows her baby daddy would get weighed in if she try get him involved 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMAR!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Everything he said was blah 🤦♀️
You must be gay or trans
@@SuperSouthchick so was there ever a point In Your life where u said okay do I like boys or girls and liked boys or was it you were born and boys were your thing? he’s was making sense. You can’t really limit your mind to your own personal opinion there’s something way bigger towards sexuality
Have to agree with Marc on this one tbh
Same I feel like he should’ve worded it better but I understand the points
The minute Castilo cut i cut
Loool this episode gave me a headache with all that shouting. Catherine is on some good points. Marc needs to calm down, fighting with Tara
They need a unbiased mediator!
🤦
Castillo is actually my fave😂❤️