i think my ex was racist | I Got Nothin' w/ Boze

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  • @princess4509
    @princess4509 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1747

    bozes ability to talk to herself for 30+ minutes and make it entertaining is something that should be studied researched and published in the journal of science

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      She reviewed water and I actually related and learned something ….. fiji water was worth it in those low moments because feeling boujee and not jumping off sumn too high is like, magical

    • @elsai1926
      @elsai1926 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      LITERALLY ID BINGE WATCH AND REWATCH THAT A LOTT

    • @tanalopez2590
      @tanalopez2590 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Ong this is me when I watch her videos tho😭😭😭 me on a daily actually I have no friends but I think about life

    • @white_isnt_a_race2338
      @white_isnt_a_race2338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like you’re asking for her autopsy

    • @princess4509
      @princess4509 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@white_isnt_a_race2338 nah just to keep her in a little cozy box with a window endless takeout and a group of anonymous white coat wearing individuals with clip boards transcribing her ramblings and developing a tier list of unhinged boze thoughts for public consumption

  • @essmi
    @essmi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +801

    when the camera pans out and we see the empty chairs..its very representative of what she does when she streams just talking into the abyss while we listen 😂

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      28:39
      This was the funniest one to me cuz it really emphasized how she shouldn't have gone

    • @PerryAndPablo
      @PerryAndPablo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      And still laughing as hard as if we were really talking and laughing in the room with her, I love how she laughs so hard at her own stories and jokes (and young dumb mistakes)🤣

    • @normalhuman8608
      @normalhuman8608 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I do hope she finds a crew or partner to further the podcast setting. Perhaps, another TH-camr, an editor or even a real-life friend. I do believe there is someone in the background listening to her.

  • @beaniebaby413
    @beaniebaby413 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +316

    i genuinely love it more when you’re going on a long tangent then it zooms out to an empty room. makes it feel more relatable 😂

  • @roseo6057
    @roseo6057 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +335

    I just love that Boze is sitting in this incredibly nice, professional podcast set up complete and just chatting away with herself. It's seriously the best.

  • @vanessaspeaks
    @vanessaspeaks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +406

    I completely relate with Boze’s first story about why she silences her phone. Mine is always on silent and I also have DND on and I turned off notifications for all social media lol.

    • @carleehooley6338
      @carleehooley6338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      At first my nerd ass thought you meant DND as in Dungeons and Dragons and i was confused for a second 🤦‍♀️

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ​@@carleehooley6338I was over here like oh did they mean drum n bass? An underrated genre

    • @crazycatlady6226
      @crazycatlady6226 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carleehooley6338 same lol

    • @thekrayers
      @thekrayers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Saaaaame!!!!

    • @BoneOfBoneville
      @BoneOfBoneville 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carleehooley6338I too thought dungeons and dragons lol

  • @TasheenParrishThomas
    @TasheenParrishThomas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    I appreciate the story about your ex. It's so weird as a Black American to experience racism in the moment. Love you, Boze ❤

    • @icu3869
      @icu3869 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      “His dad was always treating me like I was a “ good one”. LORD!

    • @tink6225
      @tink6225 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      it messes with your head so much😢

    • @shuckycheese
      @shuckycheese 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@icu3869oh..oh my god

    • @nahimgood4
      @nahimgood4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It took me a while to learn how to speak up against that shit in school even when i was the only one speaking which was about 100% of the time ☹️

  • @thebosshouse
    @thebosshouse 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

    I was married to a racist. I realized over time that he saw me as an exception to the negative stereotypes that he very much believed were the reality for 95% of Black people. His favorite selfies were all very patriotic. He even had military POW/MIA flags up. Was he ever in the military? Have a relative who was a POW or anything? NOPE! He had a history degree and an abundance of patriotism.😬

    • @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman
      @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Oh well loving america clearly a red flag. 😂

    • @thebosshouse
      @thebosshouse 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@Shastavalleyoutdoorsman It is if you know American history.😒

    • @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman
      @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@thebosshouse That's really sad. I'm sorry you've been convinced of that.

    • @thebosshouse
      @thebosshouse 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      @@Shastavalleyoutdoorsman Did you miss the whole *slave hanging site* part of the haunted bridge? There's a large overlap between overtly patriotic people and racism because most of American history is full of racism. My eldest uncle couldn't vote when he turned 18 simply because he's Black. What part of American history should make me feel overtly patriotic?

    • @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman
      @Shastavalleyoutdoorsman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thebosshouse Maybe the part where OVERLY Patriotic white Americans banned slavery. While many nations did not. Including most native american tribes... You know those overly patriotic, white Americans WHO , fought and died to free black Americans...

  • @missbrowniejay
    @missbrowniejay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    This is literally my brain. An empty room with Boze talking.

    • @nopenope9118
      @nopenope9118 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dude I swear she narrates all my thoughts.

    • @daisypickles5808
      @daisypickles5808 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤ lol me too

    • @acegardner4425
      @acegardner4425 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dude!
      Only when I am loving myself!
      When I am (NOT) doing so, there are several terrible voices up in there.
      The haranguing tone of my mama at her most stressed when I was very little and didn't understand that she was scared and •that's• why she was always so furious and cruel,
      the all-knowing voice of one of my big bros, lecturing me for doing the literal dumbest thing I could possibly ever do,
      and my ex, in any and every tone of voice he had, always with some twists on my motives:
      O, why did you do this?
      Obviously because you are a whore.
      (me: but none of this has anything to do with sex etc
      Him: With you, it ALWAYS has to do with sex)
      Ya, on the days I hear Boze in my head, I feel like I must be practicing self-care!😁

    • @missbrowniejay
      @missbrowniejay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@acegardner4425 I'm going through that now. He puts me down. I found out he was on tinder from his browsing history.... He responded with telling.e it was a lie... Didn't even want to look at my proof, then proceeded to call me a moron and dumb, then said "I can't deal with this I'm done"... His gaslighting was so good I blamed myself and kept calling him to make up. But today I just finally had it. I'm so tired of him making me hate myself. And he tells me that's a problem I need to fix. So I totally get it.

  • @mvo9856
    @mvo9856 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I love that the set has seats and mics for 3 guests even though the entire concept is Boze talking to herself. 😂

  • @lynettevasquez1156
    @lynettevasquez1156 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    this woman is my thoughts on a daily basis

  • @wchayes8646
    @wchayes8646 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Boze talking about her 4 cans of survival corn. While wearing a Korn shirt !!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    I swear. How funny. 😂😂😂

  • @Julia_beelll
    @Julia_beelll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    Im literally only 1:20 into this and im already cracking up because my grandma has the same ringtone (without it announcing warning) because its the only one she can hear 😅

  • @aesopsinspiration
    @aesopsinspiration 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    You're NOT 🚫 racist! I'm from The South, and I feel the exact same way when I hear words like "Patriots"... it's kinda triggering. I'm so glad to hear your stories, to learn I'm not alone. 🥰

    • @RandompageName
      @RandompageName 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine being triggered by a word in 2024..😂

    • @Silly-kh2kj
      @Silly-kh2kj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Imagine thinking this 2015 edgelord comment is funny… I bet you unironically call people snowflakes too lmao 😭

  • @LanaLou94
    @LanaLou94 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    I think I could honestly listen to Boze talk about literal dirt and be entertained 😂

    • @nyrea8163
      @nyrea8163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      This we needed a podcast forever ago lol

  • @Mackieee
    @Mackieee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    This is the first podcast Ive watched all the way through, I love how chaotically real it is

  • @IHeart420EastVan
    @IHeart420EastVan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The occasional pan out to Boze just cracking herself at a the table alone is such a mood... love it

  • @ibperson
    @ibperson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I love her taking a call and then just immediately going back to what she was talking about

    • @ibperson
      @ibperson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww it got cut out

  • @trod7709
    @trod7709 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dying laughing in the first 2 minutes, "what kind of personality is that?..."😂😂😂

  • @forestfae9277
    @forestfae9277 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    your first story was so relatable. i worked on it a LOT as an adult and i’m now good at distracting myself and grounding myself to get through it. part of that was putting my phone on Do Not Disturb for years 😅 now I just don’t text much anymore for peak emotional regularity 🤣

  • @aishaaa-17
    @aishaaa-17 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love hearing Boze just talk about random stuff, it's actually interesting and it's like I'm listening to a friend gossip! Comforting (: please do more 🩷

  • @penelopiehernandez9917
    @penelopiehernandez9917 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I saw this title with no context And I am eternally grateful

  • @mininjas
    @mininjas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    "i haven't heard my ringtone in 10 years" lol

  • @mckayle456
    @mckayle456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    3:37 literally me until I started giving everyone a personal ring or message 😅 saves lives it’s a relief for me when I get message from people that I love

    • @mckayle456
      @mckayle456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My mom has her own my friends different ones and when ever I get a message from them it matches there personality

    • @lobstersexdungeon
      @lobstersexdungeon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YOU CAN DO THAT??

    • @Hallfreakyzoid
      @Hallfreakyzoid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like personalized vibrations for iPhone contacts. It helps differentiate important individuals’ from acquaintances/work/once in a blue moon friends

  • @ilovemaxi28
    @ilovemaxi28 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My boyfriend literally JUST the other day tried to put that alarm as his ring tone and I put a quick stop to that- a heart attack every phone call?! No thank you!

    • @lazyartist8792
      @lazyartist8792 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I use a loud obnoxious one too cause I won’t wake up or answer otherwise lol

  • @x-xPhobia
    @x-xPhobia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a guy essentially I did the exact same thing with the "silence my phone forever" in response to fearing rejection lol. It was so I didnt think about it all the time. I think the difference between guys and girls doing that would be the outcome. Because now I have no one at 31, and I keep the ring tone off to provide myself a reason to not be receiving notifications. I am so alone. Lmao. Turns out theres only really a finite amount of people who will ever care. And you get there much quicker as a dude lol.
    Also this is a great set and a solo podcast like this is perfect for you. Ive watched your stuff on and of for like 2 years now. You could totally keep this up.

  • @Violexie-wb7op
    @Violexie-wb7op 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    25:07 MY FACE WHEN ZACK CALLED THE SLAVE BRIDGE BEAUTIFUL?!? Oh gurl I wouldnt have been able to keep a straight face. Oh hell naw.

    • @nahimgood4
      @nahimgood4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would’ve been plotting my escape right then and there bro😭😭 she’s right though in the moment?? Smile and nod and then dip tomorrow cause….

  • @Silly_Hobbit
    @Silly_Hobbit 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I made my background myself when I was going through narcissistic abuse and forgot who I was as an individual for like 2.5 years.

    • @lindseyhendrix2405
      @lindseyhendrix2405 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope you’re doing well, my friend!

    • @Wrdz288
      @Wrdz288 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My recovery feels like a rebirth

  • @mirandalw98
    @mirandalw98 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I do the same "doomsday" prepping but instead it's "in case I can't afford groceries" stash. Scarcity mindset is real dude!

  • @ReactiveRyn
    @ReactiveRyn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I've always loved your content, Boze, but this new podcast is top tier. Keep doing what you're doing, this is going to go real far. I'm not even a podcasty kind of person but this is the second one I've listened to completely.

  • @van_codes
    @van_codes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Boze casually answering the phone during the podcast

  • @brandonbaty2291
    @brandonbaty2291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I relate to this woman SO much. She is an absolute treat in these dark times. An oasis in the desert.

  • @iitrixie
    @iitrixie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Boze is that Starbucks ………. 🍉

  • @maggiemaecrawley5939
    @maggiemaecrawley5939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The highlight of my day is boze talking about corn for 5 minutes and the pan out to a table with empty chairs

  • @williepearl278
    @williepearl278 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I think being rejected by a boy/girl you liked back before we had cellphones was a little bit easier. I remember calling this boy I liked almost everyday after school (it’s so embarrassing to think about now) and his mom would usually answer. She would always say he was either at football practice or he was asleep, and that she would have him call me back. I do think she told him I called but I think he told her that he didn’t want to talk to me and to make up an excuse. So when he never called back I just told myself that his mother forgot to tell him instead of taking the hint that he wanted nothing to do with me😂.

  • @HaleThePanda
    @HaleThePanda 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    "Karen is a term made up by submissive millenials"
    That sounds exactly like something a Karen would say 😂

    • @unicow3609
      @unicow3609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Or Ben Shapiro 🤣

  • @Files_Loathing
    @Files_Loathing 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Y'all this is such a good video , both to watch and have on background , it helps me not fell lonely

    • @icu3869
      @icu3869 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Don’t feel lonely.We’re together in spirit -You watch Boze, so you’re obviously smart with good taste in podcasts, you’re not alone.👩‍👩‍👧‍👧✨

    • @artscrafts4685
      @artscrafts4685 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💚💚💚

  • @katelynnsibert596
    @katelynnsibert596 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It’s the Theo Vaughn energy for me 🤣 I love you and these vids so much, makes my day every time

    • @iggymcgeek730
      @iggymcgeek730 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is Von not vaughn ffs.

  • @simonemarie6051
    @simonemarie6051 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I can relate to the dating story. I met a guy online and started talking to him. He was nice at first, then brought up raceplay and explained it to me. He called me the nword like he expected it to turn me on when it just annoyed me.

    • @ashleyjohnson5049
      @ashleyjohnson5049 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @nahimgood4
      @nahimgood4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      H U H???
      Where tf do these people find the sack to do this shit???

    • @getoffmygrass4857
      @getoffmygrass4857 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@ashleyjohnson5049 how's that funny?

  • @alexandrialewis2796
    @alexandrialewis2796 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    my phone’s background is a photo of my younger self so i’m reminded everytime i want to say something mean about myself i have to think of that little girl and how proud of us she would’ve been to see how far we’ve come ❤

  • @RiverkeeperEmberStar
    @RiverkeeperEmberStar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    With you trying to uncover the deeper meanings in life is actually one of the ways that we avoid grief.
    Everyone goes through the five stages of grief or loss. From the person that is diagnosed to the family members that love the person around them. Avoidance is one of the five stages. The other word for this is denial which is usually the first and we go through all five and one day at one time until the last time. Healing is not linear.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @navida2005
    @navida2005 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    what an amazing time to be alive (the same time as boze ❤️)

  • @kaila_1111
    @kaila_1111 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’ve never been a big fan of podcasts, but I finished this video and I’m already excited for the next. You’re SO well spoken, thank you for sharing your stories ❤

  • @Lalaacx3
    @Lalaacx3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m new , I could listen to you talk all day. You’re so chill. It feels like I’m just sparking it and listening to a friend on FaceTime. Def a fan ❤

  • @HyruleHunny
    @HyruleHunny 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You PERFECTLY described why some of us are “silent phone” people ❤

  • @--THE-GOAT
    @--THE-GOAT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boze the vibrate mode instead of the call/text or notification I learned in from years of therapy is actually a healthy way to stop “triggering trauma”. I was in a severe domestic violence relationship, where if I didn’t immediately answer his call or respond to his texts then I would get it bad. So my therapist told me to turn my phone on vibrate only to not always panic reaching for my phone constantly. It’s helped me heal a lot actually from that trigger response. So ur not weird or alone. Much love to u & all. 💜💜💜

  • @gogirlanime6176
    @gogirlanime6176 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a prepper, I truly LMAO at the pain of using your distilled water. Your emergency stash becomes like, your child. But now I have a Boze blanket and that is my security now. You're so real for that story.

  • @at8052
    @at8052 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    16:52 made me laugh SO hard. I know exactly what she’s talking about with that American Patriot and doomsday prep. I feel seen & heard

  • @mk4x165
    @mk4x165 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    The way that you’re in a room with 3 empty seats and 3 mikes is schizophrenia coded🤣🤣

  • @spFOX-pz3fx
    @spFOX-pz3fx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your stories always take multiple turns, goes to the store, stop by the hair salon, catch a movie, want to a doctor’s appointment before arriving to its destination.
    All because of a guy with a ringtone 😂

  • @nailinthefashion
    @nailinthefashion 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    26:11
    Oh my god i said no out loud there's just no way they're out there acting like anime villains

  • @cjdosomething
    @cjdosomething 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    pleaseee you’re just like me fr fr 😭 my phone is forever on silent bc waiting by the phone for texts from girls i liked used stress me out so bad. i love being left alone now idk man!

  • @kissit012
    @kissit012 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The slow zoom out while Bose laughs at her own story is peak editing humor

  • @robinhooduk8255
    @robinhooduk8255 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ive had the same ringtone for 15 years, its the ringtone from the movie crank. the thing is its actually are really good ringtone.

  • @BunniBeshara
    @BunniBeshara 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    YES. I just got back from running every single errand possible. I’m ready to relax. 😂

  • @VA_MamaBear
    @VA_MamaBear 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s definitely an anxiety thing. I have found that anxiety has made me fantastic at planning things, it’s made me a great project manager, and a really good analyst. Keep doing what you do, but be proud of it. It’s a skill that needs to be harnessed, not always a problematic mindset.

  • @michelea3366
    @michelea3366 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First off, absolutely relate to your first story. I never take my phone off vibrate, my mom has actually had the audacity to ask me, when we are together, if it's her phone ringing or mine and I'm like when have you ever heard my phone ring?! Next, I just watched Priscilla and when I tell you that I was literally trying not to scream about the fact that he was grooming her. OMG it was so uncomfortable but that part when she told him she was pregnant...actually hilarious!! Lastly I love this podcast, it's making me realize how much time I spend thinking about random stuff that I rarely get to share with others....so thank you for sharing your thoughts and stories!!

  • @skybee001
    @skybee001 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The fact you left the phone call from the gym in there, and syaing "yeah im gaining weight" was so cute and funny 😂 i just love your personality so much 😂

  • @UhhhhLana
    @UhhhhLana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    True Crime Boze came out with the "Allegedly" lmao

  • @hurphenelondwil2419
    @hurphenelondwil2419 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My friend and I JUST discussed the ring tone thing yesterday! I do basic tones but set some for certain things like group texts/certain ppl so I know if something is urgent or not. It helps keep me organized.
    I’d never get a thing done if the phones were always on vibrate!
    And recalling your boyfriend story, I agree with everything you say as a millennial myself. Standing up for yourself was not the easiest thing! Especially as a girl! I’m sure it still isn’t at all but the new gen does make it seem easier.

  • @MuzikFreak161
    @MuzikFreak161 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Boze, and only child with ADHD sitting and talking to herself on a podcast is exactly what I, an only child with ADHD, think I look like when I’m sitting and talking to myself in my living room for hours at a time 😂

  • @DucktorQuackers
    @DucktorQuackers 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    boze explaining her anxiety is so real man. It's like hearing myself talk... damn.

  • @kylereddell
    @kylereddell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Exactly what I needed this afternoon!

  • @MsASMARVEL
    @MsASMARVEL 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I LOVE these Boze!!! You're a great storyteller lol

  • @forestfoxfang3040
    @forestfoxfang3040 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    am i the only one pining for more Boze lore. I lovw it!!!!! girl keep up the good work. PS your fuzzy blanket is softer than the fucking clouds

  • @Pinklion-iz8wf
    @Pinklion-iz8wf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    and I understand the "socially risky" text or talking to someone like that and the content checking omg

  • @mynamecausesconfusion9829
    @mynamecausesconfusion9829 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Boze needs an illustrated narrative for her solo podcasts!
    Like those animations of stand-up comedians? Someone make it happen !

  • @stephaniee2232
    @stephaniee2232 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    pls make more of these so i can have a good day at work :))

  • @amynicholecervantes3065
    @amynicholecervantes3065 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've only just discovered your content and I'm already your biggest fan! Lol. Thanks for the giggles. Happy Tuesday!

    • @gnomie2.0
      @gnomie2.0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome to Bozelandia! (Okay they don’t call it that but Boze if you’re reading this please make us some Bozelandia merch) Seriously Boze is one of my all time favorite creators - so funny, smart, adorable, and wise beyond her years. ❤

    • @artscrafts4685
      @artscrafts4685 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome! Have fun watching all of the content 😊 when I found her I binge watched all of her videos, such a great time 🤗💚 happy holidays!

  • @karenehbernier1123
    @karenehbernier1123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    7:21 “I don’t have to find the deeper meaning behind everything… but I would like to because otherwise, I’m just going to scroll on TikTok”🤣🤣🤣

  • @flowerpower2.o726
    @flowerpower2.o726 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a mixed girl from the southern tidewater area, shit is crazyyyy down here 💀💀💀💀. A lot of my friends say I’m “white” for a light skin- YEAH cuz I had to SURVIVE tf????? 😭

    • @Lily-ow5wm
      @Lily-ow5wm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m mixed and my white friends called me dark white

  • @Ricky_Cullen
    @Ricky_Cullen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm loving this new angle on this channel. I've got every video queued from oldest to newest. LET'S GO

  • @myajanette
    @myajanette 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boze, you describing the texting and social risk stuff is EXACTLY EXACTLYYY how I feel. I’m working on that though💀

  • @emilyj0405
    @emilyj0405 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    boze not the starbucks cup 😔

    • @josie6847
      @josie6847 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      literally 😐😐

    • @deniseyeaisaidit
      @deniseyeaisaidit 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good god, enough al ready. Rock your cup boze. Stop trying to tell people who and what they should be and what they should represent and what they should fight for. Stay in your lane..

    • @d.a1nty
      @d.a1nty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @deniseyeaisaidit Bro it's a genocide people are gonna be disappointed 'cause Boze sure as hell doesn't live under a rock
      Obviously, we can't control and only critique Boze, so allow people to be upset and don't act like *you're* tired

    • @demon5877
      @demon5877 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares chill. It ain't really our fight we shouldn't be funding a war we can't fucking afford no sides good f off

  • @BattyFruitBat
    @BattyFruitBat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “What personality type is that???” LMFAO

  • @jadewilliams5507
    @jadewilliams5507 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Boze... The silenced phone thing... I had the same issue with texting and waiting for a response and having every notification cause that same anxiety and stress response that you explained. Thanks for sharing 😭 I too have had my phone on silent now for years so that I get to CHOOSE when to check for notifications rather than have them interrupt my mental state all day long lol

  • @camillaquintanilla7244
    @camillaquintanilla7244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “I had a sack” I literally fell over laughing 😭

  • @ZDalrymple-p8j
    @ZDalrymple-p8j 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love you!!
    Your mental state is very refreshing lmao
    I appreciate you saying your “crazy” ofc I don’t think you are I think your me lol but yk what I mean socially out there

  • @jourdyngroman
    @jourdyngroman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love the look at the camera behind you, and when you laugh at your own jokes. i love this podcast so much lol

  • @philranclaud8807
    @philranclaud8807 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely love this. Watching from New Zealand 🇳🇿. Thank you Boze 👍🏼

  • @marcelinemoodie5628
    @marcelinemoodie5628 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've been through exactly that. I had to disable notifications on all messaging apps because of the anxiety

  • @awkward.bee1
    @awkward.bee1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boze explaining the difference between Gen-Zs and Millennials speaking up for ourselves is so on point lol

  • @mmmanal_
    @mmmanal_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you represent my inner monologues and my daily thoughts so accurately that it makes me feel better that I am not the only one with these thoughts ❤

  • @hansenquinn
    @hansenquinn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was incredible storytelling! Loved it

  • @retropockystick
    @retropockystick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Boze if it helps you feel less vulnerable about your hypervigilance, when i was younger- talking probably 8-10 years old, despite living in an upper-middle class white family, i had an entire escape plan for "emergencies" that included a backpack i kept by the front door just in case i had to leave. it had everything in cared about in there, some cans of food, water bottles, cell phone charger (for what? the phone i didnt have? xD) sometimes trauma does this to us, i think its more normal than people assume

  • @realsillybilly
    @realsillybilly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Boze you are so insanely real

  • @JOmega2007
    @JOmega2007 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    I definitely automatically think "racist" when I hear the word "patriot". Thanks to Donald Trump and his followers.

    • @nyphira
      @nyphira 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To my knowledge patriots were racist before trump

    • @123GoddessC
      @123GoddessC 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think of racist when i see sjw woke shit with the help of Biden all their followers

    • @eclecticraeen
      @eclecticraeen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same, anything they do is tainted forever

    • @Violet-mw9ri
      @Violet-mw9ri 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No not forever ​@@eclecticraeen

    • @derpydinodragon1072
      @derpydinodragon1072 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ok, so let me start by saying I am not on the left or the right. I believe there is corruption on both sides of the aisle but in all of my research on politics and the people in it, I still don’t see where people are getting the whole racist thing with Trump. TBH, I have found the things that Biden has said to be blatantly racist. He has called African Americans dirty and uneducated and fought against having diversity in schools even saying he didn’t want his kids to go to school in a jungle. I, like you, was not getting the entire story Only watching what the government wanted me to see. Super edited clips. When I went back and watched all the footage of these things that were said that I was told was racist I realized I was being lied to. I don’t know who I’m going to vote for in the upcoming election but I do know I am WAY more informed as to the people that are running.

  • @RigB0n3
    @RigB0n3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love that you jump us right in, thats just how i like it

  • @flyincoyotescales
    @flyincoyotescales 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nah dude that ringtone gives me red-pill-bro-praying-for-The-Purge energy

  • @blessedsellars1472
    @blessedsellars1472 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The amount of joy and laughter that Boze’s videos gives me is incomparable! It would be a dream to be able to sit with Boze in the podcast room lmao

  • @TheRaqessarr
    @TheRaqessarr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “I can feel the patriot surging inside of me”… lol!

  • @phoenixredd721
    @phoenixredd721 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I love these video the best ❤ it’s like getting a weekly therapy session / date with you 😭🤍 there’s nothing more entertaining to me than listening to you talking to yourself for 30+ because I swear you think and talk to yourself just like I do lol 🫶🏼😘 wishing you happy hoildays, nothing but the best vibes & much love BOZE 🤟🏼 You are such a breath of fresh air to the world of TH-cam 💯✅🫶🏼😇🤍

  • @andreabrazda2135
    @andreabrazda2135 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The reason why he had that ringtone was to warn him of that particular person. Calling him you give people specific ringtones so you know who it is

  • @jupiterK
    @jupiterK 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my new favourite Boze content, I actually can't wait for more

  • @Maiden_to_mother
    @Maiden_to_mother 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Boze truly lives inside her head, she’s definitely not alone in that lol being this self aware is a blessing and a curse. More so a blessing, because it helps us to grow. Breaking down why you judge people for small things is a pretty powerful thing to do, because it allows you to understand who you are and why you are who you are. Over thinkers do this with everything. Does it cause anxiety? For sure. Self doubt? Absolutely. Chaos of the mind? YES. But it’s the only way we know how to navigate our world, both inner and outer. In the end I guess it’s a pretty powerful tool, it protects us too.

  • @hirograveyard8236
    @hirograveyard8236 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I actually said to someone not long ago that she seems exactly like someone who would accidentally find themselves in a full on relationship with a racist. Right down to the pants. I hope you learned something.

  • @jessicaroberts9756
    @jessicaroberts9756 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Boze. Are we the same person. I love talking, I mean listening to you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jacydavis9229
    @jacydavis9229 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I think i went the opposite way with the ringtones in middle school. i just set a specific ringtone to my crush/significant other that way i knew if it was the default it was family/friend and with the one i set it was my person😂 now I’m a silent/vibrate person lmao

    • @prettylillette1352
      @prettylillette1352 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol I'm 34 and still use this system 😂😂

  • @Uralienfriend
    @Uralienfriend 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love these videos boze, your one of my favorite people to watch when I’m just sitting in my room. I’m very much a introvert and a homebody . Also your laugh is very cute much love 💗

  • @BabvBlues
    @BabvBlues 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I haven’t heard my ringtone or vibrate in like 7 years TOO LMAOOO

  • @punkrockllama
    @punkrockllama 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I haven't heard my ring tone in 10 years" I hear ya! As soon as my phone became also my music player it went to DND 24/7. UNLESS, I know I have an important phonecall/txt/whatever coming in. As in when I was looking for work