THE PERSON THAT KEEPS HURTING YOU & EXPECTING YOU TO FORGIVE THEM IS TRAUMATISING YOU...

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  • @JamieSkinner-w3p
    @JamieSkinner-w3p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I am no longer allowing anyone to take advantage of me nor step my boundaries. No more intruding my boundaries regardless of its situation. I deserve the best in life and I’m worth a great fulfilling life of abundance ,love and happiness

  • @KJBaskett-b5d
    @KJBaskett-b5d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I forgive everyone; I just don't want ANYTHING to do with anyone that has been a part of this crap!! I will never feel comfortable around these people.....NEVER!!

    • @MadDog44
      @MadDog44 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like you were not born with enough middle fingers for these people. : D

  • @mpangmeibodu6599
    @mpangmeibodu6599 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    STOP FORGIVING PEOPLE .THEY know what they are doing.Life is too short to be around them.We all deserve happiness.

    • @hamojiraoa6979
      @hamojiraoa6979 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      C thinking forgiveing them is that giving A chance thats it if they correct here mista
      Kes no t doing once again correct there life become correct ily live life happily😊😊

    • @christopherbrubaker2070
      @christopherbrubaker2070 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Forgiving is a happy life, never forget and learn to spot the crimes of the heart and hold back. Teach and accept that others have free will. It’s a horrible reality for us, so make it a horrible reality for others by keeping your boundaries in place. Let them know you are powerful, and have the patience to allow them to learn. Live in your own spirit, and be confident in it. Living as a light worker is this life’s battle and journey. If they know what they are doing, then they also know who to actually blame for these crimes. Themselves in the end. They know this as well. Imagine forgiving yourself for these crimes, because it will be difficult for them when the time comes. I’m grateful that I am not in their shoes, so I can forgive them. 😊

  • @DanielBorland
    @DanielBorland 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Sadly, that’s how trauma bonds are created. Through being naturally empathic and compassionate, I use to absorb, and wear, other people’s trauma, usually without knowing it. But once you are fully awake, and decide to break the cycle, the soul will not allow it. Enabling destructive behaviour in others, does not help them in the long run. Very careful of the company I keep these days. Freed myself from that paradigm once and for all. Thankyou Daniella 🧡

    • @jocelynstewart1186
      @jocelynstewart1186 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, this was a trauma bond I am healing from and DONE WITH

  • @LisaHansen-k5z
    @LisaHansen-k5z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Abuse is a learned behavior. Emotional abusers are more dangerous than physical abusers. People can't see the marks.

  • @obsessiforgenb8374
    @obsessiforgenb8374 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Exactly the right message at exactly the right time. No more being the punching bag because "they don't mean it they're just hurting". Thank you 💜

  • @joanbennett4217
    @joanbennett4217 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Yes he does. Constantly and constantly apologize and rinse and repeat. But what he doesn't understand is I take time to detached but when I do there is no going back. He recently did exactly what you said, just a day ago but awww

  • @missmiss9539
    @missmiss9539 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    I don’t believe in tarot .. but this lady.. I hope she uses gods gift for his glory . She has a gift

    • @nateskyson
      @nateskyson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Indeed

    • @poushalisengupta8545
      @poushalisengupta8545 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yuppp.
      She is extremely accurate.

    • @wannabrew8718
      @wannabrew8718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She does its obvious

    • @salmankhan-lw8tr
      @salmankhan-lw8tr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey y dont u bele in tarot

    • @thereallisa1
      @thereallisa1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      You don't believe in tarot but yet here you are 😂

  • @TresaMoreno-Vigil
    @TresaMoreno-Vigil 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I just cut all ties with him on Saturday, and I will never return, he treated me like shit, so now I'm finally seeing everything, what abuse he put me through and it hurts me to think that I would put up with this type of behavior, but no more, I'm finally free. I am now just going to focus on me .. nothing else . Into self love, I learned my lesson I will never ever let anyone treat me like that again.

    • @jodie11.11
      @jodie11.11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Wow!! This is like I have written this myself. I feel you! ❤

    • @elmagarza478
      @elmagarza478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Don't ! He isn't worth it!

    • @Edwib-w5h
      @Edwib-w5h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They don’t have a chance in hell of coming back. I plan to keep my insanity so they just need Togo away. She is not getting her way trust me.

    • @arabianprincess888
      @arabianprincess888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here omg it’s like you toook the words right out my mouth!

    • @Goddess-co7hg
      @Goddess-co7hg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can relate . You said the words

  • @GoWithDaFlowMo
    @GoWithDaFlowMo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    He literally told me, you're way too good for me... Should have listened the first time, what a nightmare it turned out to be..... 😢

    • @jodie11.11
      @jodie11.11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      When someone shows us who they are, we should believe them.

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@jodie11.11 totally agree... Learned that the hard way...

    • @CatherineMarney
      @CatherineMarney 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mine the same. Wondering if yours an Aquarius too?

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CatherineMarney he's a Pisces.....

    • @daniellebardsley3203
      @daniellebardsley3203 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😢😢 I no

  • @Robert-f6e5h
    @Robert-f6e5h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Thank you baby girl... you help so many people...if nobody has told you lately... I'm so proud of you... Have a great day tomorrow... I'm wishing you all the best... you always have a way of making me feel better...

  • @maribel_ishtar
    @maribel_ishtar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Heal and get to know your worth.

  • @MsPangY
    @MsPangY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes and I know who it is too! This is really him and this is why I want to be alone because of the trauma I am dealing with!! This resonates with me very much, thanks!!

  • @midwestfishermen2518
    @midwestfishermen2518 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just pray that she gets better for her i
    Hope she really works on her self and talk to God.

  • @Angela-m5e
    @Angela-m5e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “ A Pure Heart is never a poor heart”❤️ 😇

  • @cheniquasaunders
    @cheniquasaunders 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I really needed this message I'm learning to ignore and stay my distance from this demon he even threatened to harm me or spit on me I never did nothing but try over and over with this man I'm drained enough is ENOUGH

  • @Robert-f6e5h
    @Robert-f6e5h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm usually more decisive when it comes to cutting some people off... however this one has a tight grip on me for some reason...
    It's always nice to see you... I'm glad you posted another video...I miss you when I don't get to see you everyday...

  • @sharonwarren4479
    @sharonwarren4479 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I deserve more than an apology and they know it.

    • @Lil_Diva22
      @Lil_Diva22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They better start begging for mercy cause I won't let them live another day.

  • @ShadowShaker1446
    @ShadowShaker1446 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I didn't walk away. I ran away 3 years ago.
    Let somebody else deal with his constant problems and lies.

    • @BabyCricket-Bug
      @BabyCricket-Bug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here! So glad I changed up and salvaged what was left of my kid's only childhood. It was well worth it, and they're still on the exact same toxic cycle. I put a stop to it and made a believer outta that asshole. I left and have stayed gone. That's the only way to deal with people like this. Leave and end their stupidity, because it never gets any better and just drives you crazy and ruins your life if you stay, or ever let them suck you back in. They're exactly the same, always!.

    • @Phoenixkb222
      @Phoenixkb222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      BEAUTIFUL!

  • @thomasmccann4737
    @thomasmccann4737 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely resonates.Started suddenly and while there is no communication it continues.I will keep my boundaries and not take responsibility for healing them. Thank you ❤

  • @barbmadsen1983
    @barbmadsen1983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I AM NOT A PUNCHING BAG! Enlightened, I better understand my experiences. Thank-you!

  • @dwatt656debrawattenbarger8
    @dwatt656debrawattenbarger8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You ever so Kindly. The final straw on the camel’s back had Broken. Unable to help this person, for they state they grew up in a “Mr Roger’s Neighborhood “ everything was perfect & nothing traumatic ever happened in their life. Then reach for a bottle of Alcohol (single serving) & continue to verbally Abuse me. I pray for them, just can never go backwards. Has worn my Soul to the Ground. Once again Thank You. Many Abundant Blessings your way for sharing your talents with us in the Collective. In Love & Light, Dee❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🦋💋🌹💥💖🍀💐🌼

  • @11lvr11
    @11lvr11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    He came to me and asked me to be together with him again. I forgave him a millionth time and now he abuses me again... I can't believe it. And he gaslights me. He humiliated me so much that today i realized that i hate him. I regret taking him back. I don't know how to get out now... Im so tired. I'm tired of him blaming me and belittling me all the time, making me look crazy. I gave him my heart and it seems i have to take it back. I started living with him even though my body resisted it so much, and now this again... I can't wait to leave this place. Tomorrow is his bday and after that i will leave

    • @11lvr11
      @11lvr11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I know that not reacting works the best, once when he was verbally aggressive, I ignored him for a whole day and at the end of the day he apologized. But yesterday I reacted back and the fight started, lately It's been very difficult to hold my anger and so I threw things around in his apartment and almost hit him because he humiliated me so much, laughing at me, disrespecting me, gaslighting me and then, of course, I was the bad one, the "crazy" and I had to apologize for that bcs I felt bad for it. And today he dares to behave arrogant, like fucking always... And is annoyed that I'm depressed. He knows that I have suicidal thoughts. He knows that I'm burned out and depressed as fuck and still blames me for not washing fucking dishes and cooking. Fucking life, why did I decide to take him back? I should have let him miss me forever and regret everything, maybe then he would feel a drop of suffer that I feel.

    • @11lvr11
      @11lvr11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Toxic men don't appreciate what they have easily. He called me weak for being depressed. And respected me when I became an angry monster like him. Disgusting person. I'm so done that I think I'll never get married. No fucking thanks... All I want is for him to be punished(I always felt sorry for him but not anymore)and feel everything i felt all these years, and I want the girl that he cheated on me with to be unalive. I'm too good for these disgusting people and his friends( who I thought were mine too) , who forgot about my existence when we broke up. Today I felt so much hatred towards him, I never wished him to suffer but now I do.

    • @garywillett6396
      @garywillett6396 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We are dealing with a narcissist, it’s hopeless. Unless they are in intense therapy, this will not end well. My experience, anyway.

  • @princesspeach4226
    @princesspeach4226 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had a vision of him beating me bloody, leaving me on the cold floor, and stepping over me. My mind, body, and spirit were broken. I knew that if I didn't leave him at that moment, this was going to happen.

  • @janicebegley4192
    @janicebegley4192 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on!
    6 1/2 years with the love o my life.
    For 3 yrs he never did any of this. But for the last 3 yrs all he’s done is what you describe. For 3 yrs he devalues then duscards me. Then he dates openly and we live in a small town.
    He told me while in tears of his childhood trauma. I told him there’s help and sent info.
    Idk if he’s in therapy but I don’t think so.
    He discarded me Cruelly 2 months ago.
    I know he loves me. But at this point I feel like moving away. You’re right that my light and my energy is completely affected!
    Thank you for sharing your gift.

  • @BabyCricket-Bug
    @BabyCricket-Bug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the message, Dani!!
    💖✨✨✨✨✨✨
    So many need to hear this and be brave enough to free themselves! Love given, shouldn't be returned with pain. Real authentic love, doesn't hurt. Manipulative, counterfeit love & lies do hurt. Evaluate what their actions match with and know how to proceed from here. If they aren't loving you, make space for those who will. You're worth it. Learn to love from a distance, and don't interact with anyone who can't or won't give you basic respect, upfront.

  • @Shannamg23
    @Shannamg23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Daniella. This was a wake up call for me. Both of my parents and my ex do this to me. And it’s been going on for so long that I became numb to it. But now I know that I must create new boundaries and stick to them. ❤❤❤

  • @timbo4865
    @timbo4865 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Daniella, you have described my teenage son who ran away and ‚threw me under the bus‘ and still does. Noone believes me. He is an autistic boy with ADS. I love him very much. His father left us when he was 6 weeks old and said that this were not a child of him. He destroyed his son. And now my son is doing the same with me because he‘s traumatised. You have seen it so exactly. I thank you. I will care for myself. You‘re right. God bless you🌺

  • @MarleneKoritsoglou
    @MarleneKoritsoglou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Not Today Dread!” Tanya Stephen’s can’t mess with my head!🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🌴

  • @anonymous-vr8ex
    @anonymous-vr8ex 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This message is describing both my karmic mother and my toxic karmic I have tolerated for way too long. I allowed him to over stepped my boundaries for too long and keep forgiving him. Until I realized he purposely pushing my buttons to get a reaction from me. Thank you

  • @sweetwolf30
    @sweetwolf30 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mother, to a tee. I learned how to create boundaries, she tries walking right past them but I stand my ground now.

  • @pritpaldhaliwal6509
    @pritpaldhaliwal6509 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You Daniella.
    When a victim of abuse who has been traumatized,
    victimizes others, it is time for them to remove themselves
    from victimization. And the person who initially was bullied
    and they have become a bully, they do need help of the professional kind.
    🙏

  • @MizrahiChick
    @MizrahiChick 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Abusers do not ASK if they may. Abusers do not recognise boundaries . Abuse does not occur because someone is " putting up with it ". The very nature of the weak person who abuses is exactly to ignore boundaries. Boundaries don't change a weak, emotionally filthy abuser who seeks to control and destroy. If they did, the abuser would have changed already, right, like from their last abuse target. right ,?
    Best just not to have muck and filth in the house, right ?

  • @Krishmiikiwiii
    @Krishmiikiwiii 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this with bruises all over my body.. Thankyou

  • @siobhanpearson2456
    @siobhanpearson2456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ive followed you for over a year now and you never cease to amazed me. Today's reading has blown my mind how on point you are. Thsnkyou so much, I appreciate you more than you know xxx

  • @FrankleeAstar
    @FrankleeAstar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you - the person said that they don't mean the things they say when they're mad- but in my previous experience, i believe ppl do let their true feelings out when they are angry, so - confirmation with you
    I hope you were able to sleep better after recording the video and delivering the message!!😅spirit is relentless like that!

  • @TarotGossip
    @TarotGossip 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    HURT PEOPLE - HURT PEOPLE

  • @mikemedvedec3456
    @mikemedvedec3456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I left and reply with silence. They can not touch me anymore....

  • @avoiceofreason8622
    @avoiceofreason8622 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, sweetie. They can't come with me. As much as I wanted to bring them up with me. I can't. They would rather drag me down. And, they don't want to let me go, leave me be on my own. So, I have to leave them behind. No matter how difficult. They can't come with me. Thank you, sweetheart. You posted this exactly when I needed it most. So, I truly commit to my decision. Too much pain for no reason at all. I will leave them all. God will show me how.

  • @Christian-Nige
    @Christian-Nige 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope you get your sleep and rest. I'm staying on my own now until the day I depart from this world, so have no fear I am released from love traumas altogether
    🎉❤ sweet dreams

  • @djdudditts5062
    @djdudditts5062 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s really like you have a note book of the past to many years of my life. It’s like I’m a narcissist’s dream come true. And it’s time to love myself again… thank you, enjoy your day

  • @stanleyrichardson471
    @stanleyrichardson471 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a Councilor Class Twice a Week , it’s over loaded and Full of Pain, and Then There’s Me Saying You’re So Beautiful You and Yours A Blessing to a New Week, When God Take them Home they’re Gone, and I have no one to Love 💕 because I can’t just Have Anyone in my life for the work I DO .So if You have Someone Special Love Them With a Feeling You’ll Thank Me For It

  • @gemmaharrison9584
    @gemmaharrison9584 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My Virgo husband is verbally abusive towards me and we have 5 kids together but all he does is put me down and bully me and shout at me over little things that shouldn’t matter but he always acts like he’s such an amazing person to anyone outside of our home

  • @PhaeSchwah
    @PhaeSchwah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We say "my preferred love language is appropriate authenticity and mutually sovereign respect. "

  • @judicurd434
    @judicurd434 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You described my relationship with my sister to a "T," and, lately, she has been screaming at me everytime I see her. I have put up with her, because she has controlled whether or not I see my great niece and great nephews, but I have recently developed a relationship with her daughter in law and know that I will always be able to see them, talk to them, or write to them. She had a screaming fit with me today because she didn't like something I had done (that had nothing to do with her). I am moving in the next few weeks and she will be out of my life. I won't even have contact with her. God told me today that he warned me about her having an evil spirit in her and that I need to stay away. I will.

  • @handerson-vl7df
    @handerson-vl7df 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect timing...I had just decided that I ve had enough of him twisting whatever I say. His behaviour has caused me to lose all respect for him now. I have been very understanding but this last time is " the last straw " I will now start to see less and less of him, and just wrap up my love for him in a little packet to store at the back of my heart. It s over

  • @missmiss9539
    @missmiss9539 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She is right on time

  • @misspeace588
    @misspeace588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been in this position before with family and lovers and I know in the past they all did think that I’d never walk away. They know better now. This type of situation changes you forever. Of all the things I’ve been through, healing from this bought about the most profound spiritual growth. It’s the thing im most proud of, leaving my “loved ones” behind and learning to really love and honour myself 🦋✨🫶🏼 Sending love, protection and strength to anyone who is still in this space xx

  • @ValerieYenolevage-su7em
    @ValerieYenolevage-su7em 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an accurate reading - I know who you are talking about who is all "negative drama" - I have helped them/been supportive for years, but I have no time or energy for it anymore - I have distanced myself. Thank you for making this video that will help others so much. Namaste 🙏 you are a goddess 🌟

  • @vud00chyld98
    @vud00chyld98 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow you have an amazing gift. This reading so resonates with me. I said that very line (testing the waters.) to my partner last night.
    Thank you for your guidance

  • @gregorygilbert3500
    @gregorygilbert3500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is definitely my sister. I live with her because she's disabled and has neuropathy in both feet. She used to be alive and active but the last several years have been hell for her. She is in so much pain all the time and has told me that she wishes that God would take her home. 😮

  • @FourWinds-Nathan
    @FourWinds-Nathan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is exactly how I feel it's so sad

  • @tabithahicks7326
    @tabithahicks7326 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so accurate when you’re readings resonate. I love your readings. So great. Thank you so much. I have followed you for 3 yrs 👑🪷

  • @shirleensabatino6593
    @shirleensabatino6593 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤I think I stopped respecting myself after so long of feeling like I wasn’t enough. I recently could not unsee the reality of how far down I truly was in his priorities…. I have given him understanding, emotional support, tried everything I knew to raise his vibration , money, gifts, any kind of sexual energy he desired……I turned a blind eye to his lies and excuses about not moving forward into a more committed relationship. But like I said I finally couldn’t unsee the truth. I have blocked him entirely. I feel bad but I also feel relaxed and free. I hope for continued strength to live each day for me ❤

  • @Rose_Arcana
    @Rose_Arcana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank You for delivering this reading. This is my ex who should be showing up any day. I keep learning about this meeting... situation. It's like GOD is making me fully aware of the intricacies and unseen details, so that when they come back I will be sure of my actions. I do love them, but I can't be with them. They destroyed our relationship on purpose. I didn't even know what was going on... it didn't make any sense. All I did was give them the purest Love that they have ever received. Anyway Thank You for your insight and perspective, I have nothing but respect for you Daniella. May GOD Bless and protect you and your loved ones always... AMEN. 💙🧿

  • @jessicadizon6632
    @jessicadizon6632 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on!!!!On point!!!!Resonated!!!!Wow..very detailed....You described my person so on point!!!!I never stop hoping and praying that he will change for the better 🙏 Praying for his healing 🙏 Spiritually...Mentally ...and Emotionally ❤ I do feel sad for him 😢...🙏🙏🙏

  • @vickrant3523
    @vickrant3523 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    O Goddess, it not just resonated but felt like a microscope on my life with accuracy beyond astounding. I am speechless. I can't leave because I feel responsible for my teenage daughter as well as I wonder how she will survive if I leave her. The only way out seems to be to keep enduring. Unless you have some solution. Of the several tarot readers I keep listening from time to time, you are the only one to shake me up to the core. I can't seem to find a way out and I can't hurt any of them.
    O Goddess I bow down to you, please tell me a solution. I can't control the tears.
    Amen ❤

  • @Alba-v9y
    @Alba-v9y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Definitely my son , his father put him down and my life to , I feel sad and I try at least pray for him, why should I course him no way he is my son and I know deep in my heart that God forbid if I m gone he will soon after me, because he is the only child I have and all his life I have protected him, he said one day mom I have a father but he is not there for me, this is his problem he feels neglected.

  • @Lockdown-y5y
    @Lockdown-y5y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Reading all these comments....our thoughts become reality if you keep feeding a monster it will grow...the energy of the Earth is hurtng right now and even when we are in darkness we have to find the light!... I choose to become the best version of myself! I choose to think everyone around me deserves love ! ...I choose to see the sunrise and think how beautiful the life God gave me is!...we have to stop thinking about yhe pain and stop thinking about the messed up s+++ in our life and move forward and do good things for people and think good things about people! Otherwise you get lost in the dark....Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death I fear no evil. For thou art with me with thy rod snd thy staff. They protect me for all the days of my life...I have had a hard life but it has made me a strong person and I appreciate the good things in my life more because of it...sending love to everyone from new mexico! God Bless everyone!

  • @NoahAllen-lx8lc
    @NoahAllen-lx8lc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They obviously don't know me as well as they think they Do!! I've changed and elevated my position and perception.. we are completely opposite and I'm gonna shock them....i promise 😮

  • @seashellz321
    @seashellz321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My phone literally got lost so that I would have to listen to this whole message. I want so badly for the situation to be different, but obviously I need to stop ignoring the situation with my adult son. Thank you 🙏

  • @marktr53
    @marktr53 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the horrible toxic karmic my person is dealing with… except he has and is using spell work, black magic, blood rituals to keep her ‘bound’ to him…. not only that, but with the approval of family & friends. It is so perverse & disgusting…. you have no idea! All I can do is petition God for His intervention. It truly is a disturbing and gut-wrenching beyond sad situation.

    • @marktr53
      @marktr53 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      past trama? mental illness? ….. this is pure demonic energy!

  • @andrewjohnson4021
    @andrewjohnson4021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They are single-handedly responsible for so much death and chaos. And they still walk free and it truly is unsettling

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. 100% resonates. You are gifted. Thank you for spreading your wisdom. You're very caring. ❤❤❤

  • @kar1111b
    @kar1111b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That part that really gets me is his mom. She kept giving him ways to contact me even though she knew he was doing me bad and lying to me about everything. She kept saying "i don't lie for my son" or pretending as if she had no clue about anything. His whole family is terrible no wonder he turned out how he did.

  • @pumpyourselfup7683
    @pumpyourselfup7683 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They may keep thinking that and see what happens. Something may surprise them

  • @JackieHammond-cg1gk
    @JackieHammond-cg1gk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This resonated with me personally to the point and I like your guidance on what to handle it. Thank you so much. You are a fav of mine. God bless.

  • @aes9639
    @aes9639 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100% resonated. My abusive narcisstic mom who I have been taking care of due to her dementia . She lost her job last yr. And yes she had abusive parents. She spoils her other 2 daughters but treats mw the worst as im eldest. Mom doesn't believe in therapy due to her south asian culture. I really appreciate ur advice to try not tonneau t. It's so difficult when she's being so disrespectful and abusive. If after we had argument due to how shes treating me and i I make food for my self, she's angry I didn't share my food with her as I usually do so she started spraying air freshener all over house so that it makes my allergies and asthma worse. Youngest sis tried to harm.me with bleach in tub when I refused to clean tub. I will try to remember ur advice not to react. I have reacted in past because if I were silent I didn't want her to feel she won and I was obeying her. I have to find a place to live b4 end of yr. She blames me when she can't find things. Thank u ❤❤

  • @themusicaldog
    @themusicaldog 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for all the positive energy.

  • @katararose8724
    @katararose8724 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video showed up at 11:11 so I always think it's my guides way of saying "heads up." I did the cord cutting again and so far the no contact is working except when she leaves a voice mail which I will have to have strong boundaries and not listen too. I think I feel better and your guidance along the way has really helped. Thanks so much Dani!❤😊

  • @chill7664
    @chill7664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Danielle this is so on point for me - this is totally my 26 year old daughter. This reading resonates and helps validate and confirm all that I feel and helps me create the boundaries needed. ❤ ❤❤❤

  • @jocelynstewart1186
    @jocelynstewart1186 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Totally nailed him to the wall. Mentality, drama, pushing away to sabotage......I've been finished a while, but the energy is still sneaking in and I desire to block it😢

  • @watcher5729
    @watcher5729 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We learn we grow stronger.

  • @Noumenon4Idolatry
    @Noumenon4Idolatry หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks.
    I’m going to listen to this 100 times over the next few weeks.
    I tried to help this person. I think I thought it was my fault. Their insane behavior.
    I don’t think it’s forgiveness. I think it’s being way too nice. Too helpful.
    Chaos. Drama. It just has to go. I don’t really believe a thing this person says anymore.
    They need to clean up their own mess and move along.
    I can’t change this person. They are who they are.
    They will regret it.

    • @Noumenon4Idolatry
      @Noumenon4Idolatry หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s just, how do I remove myself energetically from this persons life?
      Most of the communication has been telepathic.
      How do I remove them? How do I make sure I have no attachment to them?
      I need to free myself from them. This childish stuff is pretty nutty.
      So how do I free mtself from this person?
      I don’t give them a reaction because that’s just giving away my power.
      They are hungry for attention. Exactly. They get triggered.
      They want attention and energy. I’m not allowing them to do anything.
      They just do it. I can’t control their behavior. I can only cut them out physically, or block their physical communications. I don’t really want to be involved with this person anymore.
      Drama is for energy vampires. I’m pretty convinced this person is that and only that.
      They need to create chaos to get attention. I want them to know our relationship is over.
      So they stop doing this stuff just to try to get attention. It’s really pathetic at this point.

  • @Robert-f6e5h
    @Robert-f6e5h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I must really like punishment... because I'm so kind when it comes to people's feelings...I keep giving them chances to hurt me...

    • @Angel-rt1sn
      @Angel-rt1sn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @Angel-rt1sn
      @Angel-rt1sn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can relate..learnt to set healthy boundaries and say enough is enough ..but when there is disrespect walking away and loving yourself is necessary...
      You deserve real true love let go of all leaches 🙏❤️⚖️💯🎯🔥

    • @johndiamond7776
      @johndiamond7776 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Learnt Masochism attracts Sadists. BDSM is their love language

    • @NellyBellz26
      @NellyBellz26 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel the same way.

    • @lovelight...1940
      @lovelight...1940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Correction Honey! You keep giving them chances to change....but they don't and probably never will. There's the difference. Save yourself.!

  • @maybee...
    @maybee... 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in the process of quietly breaking away from this person.
    This person has been amazingly rude to me, I believe in myself, this person has no self esteem, I believe in them more than they believe in themselves, still, I need to be away from them, in a quiet way so they won't notice one day I am gone.

  • @pristine932
    @pristine932 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Scenario fits both Virgo ex-wife and eldest Sagittarius son… Both have sizeable egos topped with narcissistic tendencies…
    Ex; divorced and then went back three times with hope of reconciliation but each time was worse than last; extremely disrespectful… I left two years ago and moved back to another country…
    Son; put him on notice numerous times over last ten years but he continued to be very disrespectful - even though I put a huge amount of physical work (years, months) on his real estate projects… Activated tough love, live in another country and do not have contact to enact…
    💚🌹g is

  • @midnightchannel111
    @midnightchannel111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As long as it is hard to hear, as long as it is difficult to leave in the slightest, you have not learned the lesson. You know you have learned the lesson when you are RELIEVED to leave them, when you CANNOT WAIT to go.
    The lesson is self respect. And you do not have self respect until the above is true, whether or not you leave, until the above is true.

  • @andrewjohnson4021
    @andrewjohnson4021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They've been trying to kill me. Or get me to do it so they can look innocent. And then if I react in another way I end up in more chains because of them that I do not deserve.

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I forgive people from my past, family included. They are not welcome back in my life, after setting me up for a death trap. God will not let them near me again, I only have to keep being a supportive mother to my children, even if they have done me wrong. I don’t believe if they have it was by choice but force. I pray for them to heal and go to God .

  • @philipcraig6152
    @philipcraig6152 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Them waning drama, and doing things and saying things to try and get a response out of me, is the exact reason I will not give into them, or give them what they want. It’s kind of like being passive aggressive. I know what she wants but, I refuse to give it to her because it’s wrong for a whole lot of reasons. So, yes, Ido treat them like my grown child, or a good friend or a close relative and I’m there for them but, I don’t let them in, I don’t let them into my heart or mind where the can get to me. Yes, I do just enough to not make them feel bad, but, I also don’t give them power over me, my mind or my heart. I live my life to the best I can and enjoy it, with others that I have around me and places where I go, people I work with and others I have contact with. I don’t let anyone except God control me. Plus, I went through a lot as a child and young adult, and I have pretty tough skin. I’m like a large ocean turtle. My shell is pretty big and pretty strong. F she doesn’t feel worthy, then, my staying around should teach her she is worthy and is loved, not just by me. I look back now, over my life and things I didn’t understand are very clear tome now. Things my parents said and did make sense to me now. So, I’ve learned that l’ve will conquer all. “Love Will Conquer All” and “Love Will Find A Way” are two songs by Lionel Richie which have been proven true to me. As long as I have love in my life I will continue to love others. Jesus said “If They persecuted me, they will persecute you” the gospel of John, chapter 15, Jesus was right. So, I follow him and do what he says. I survive two different cancers on my own, that they say there are no cures for. So, why am I still alive. I think God and Jesus had a lot to do with it, and my parents and for that I will always be grateful. Grateful for raising me in church schools and playing sports and all the things they did to give me the life I had and making me the person I am today. ❤️🧖🏽‍♂️😍✝️👼🏽😇

  • @andrewjohnson4021
    @andrewjohnson4021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A lot of times I don't want to tell people because I don't want them to get involved because I've seen what that energy can do it's killed many family members and taking the people away from me that used to truly assist me and help me. That's how jealous this person is they are willing to kill and have.

  • @Tanja-t5z
    @Tanja-t5z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🙏🏻
    I’m Taurus, he’s Scorpio. Absolutely resonated. I’m moving on my path to loving myself and setting boundaries.
    You are a Beautiful Soul ❤️🇦🇺🙏🏻🌺

  • @silviapinheiro4472
    @silviapinheiro4472 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is my ex husband who I was married and was a covert narcissist and never leave me alone. I set bondaries .

  • @DeeeBoyy
    @DeeeBoyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Self realizable universal law power gets its way. This person is not alone in their efforts.

    • @DeeeBoyy
      @DeeeBoyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uh, I am a libra. But I don’t think it’s me screwing around with someone else’s mind because I’m basically not talking to anyone. I wonder if me being hard on myself qualifys. ☺️

  • @agnesrossini9490
    @agnesrossini9490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This person has never apologize

  • @LeiaKianni-gb2ez
    @LeiaKianni-gb2ez 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sister ❤

  • @TheMagdalineStar444
    @TheMagdalineStar444 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This resonates but the the scenario is past energy, as far as the friendship and me giving so much. Cycles repeating with others I guess. Scorpio here and you are describing a former lifelong friend, a Virgo/Libra cusp that I walked away from 5 years ago. She is currently still hacking stalking and has committed multiple Fed crimes including ID theft. Her daughter is even worse. All ties were cut with the past but I am living with a family member that has chosen not to honor my spiritual path. Yes, when I leave here I do hope my family member realizes how much potential she has and lets go of fear. I am standing up for myself and some people are not happy but that's their issue not mine. Yes it breaks my heart as far as the family member, but I AM walking away from all people of the past. God blessed me today and I can now be free. I have been forcefully isolated but this has gone on long enough. A huge hate was formed against me by the former "friend group". No idea why its carried on so many years after I left but I have not allowed her access to me or my energy except what she is doing publicly with slander. All she throws at me just stays with her. I moved away and am moving on to another place where I can have peace & help others. The Virgo has gone to vile levels; gossip, addiction, slander.... all this hate and so much wasted energy on her part because honestly its been over 5 years but before that I was her true friend. A few years before I walked away she looked at a photo and said "I hate that picture because it shows a side of me I hate." I should have ran. Her mother is very nice and she grew up in a stable home, I was the one that had chaos and conflict. Her own mother told me what shes like.
    As I said, its past energy, and trauma is not an excuse for hurting people. I have no love for her so again its old energy for me but my heart goes out to anyone dealing with this energy now or another person like this. 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿

  • @jdub9119
    @jdub9119 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's blowing my mind how dead on you are with this reading.
    It's a family member, and EVERYTHING you've said here has been going on for over 28 years
    I keep forcing myself to let it go because it's family, but I'm truly considering cutting ties entirely with them and not looking back

  • @tiny_but_mighty_89
    @tiny_but_mighty_89 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are confirming my suspicions. I should have listened to my intuition all along… thank you 🙏🏼

  • @Buckaroobaby1
    @Buckaroobaby1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, my sister. I moved to another country. Now she's got sinus cancer so I'm sure it's doing a real number on her. All I can do is send her healing and forgiveness because no matter what I say, ever, she negates it. Guaranteed. Thanks for the perspective.

  • @amygross5396
    @amygross5396 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ✨️ much love girl !!! Your an AMAZING TAROT READER !!!

  • @Edwib-w5h
    @Edwib-w5h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In here earlier years she was being very sweet and kind but I don’t plan to wait my time.

  • @KOZYDONTPLAY
    @KOZYDONTPLAY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Allways there when i need you thank so much such a sweet and beautiful soul thank you

  • @HumbeServantofGod
    @HumbeServantofGod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. I know it but I don’t want him to be alone. He has Parkinson’s and his wife died. But I’m 25 years old and he is 70. And no hate is needed in the comments please. I have been through a lot of trauma in my life so I thought him being that much older, he would never get violent. Well I was wrong. He keeps telling me I don’t look good and I shouldn’t eat but I only weigh 106. He wants me skinny but I’m too skinny. It’s been hard to get away but your videos are helping me see the truth. I used to live with him 4 days a week but I just got a job even though he didn’t want me to. So now I only am going to go to him 2 days a week. But I really don’t even want to. I’m just attached through trauma bond and he was my therapist so he knows how to manipulate me and keep me coming back. I thought him being a therapist he would be a great man. He’s the most narcissistic manipulator I’ve ever seen. I feel bad for him. I don’t want to hurt him by leaving , but why should I care if he has physically and emotionally and mentally hurt me so badly? I just feel like if I can’t even date a 70 year old, why would anyone else want me?

  • @loreeashby4462
    @loreeashby4462 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Crazy family dynamics! You nailed it 💯😞👿

  • @shellieboise9228
    @shellieboise9228 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely resonated ❤❤❤

  • @lovelight...1940
    @lovelight...1940 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think we must be able to forgive others who hurt and disappointment us but I also believe that if possible you should distance yourself from such people. The bible discribe such persons as walking dead or sleep walking. Whichever! Obviously they have no awareness of how they make others feel.😢very sad.! Especially if it's family or people who are suppose to know better.😔

  • @pauline-v3b
    @pauline-v3b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There's more than one person in my family who treats me like this ( as a child it was my psychopathic alcoholic stepfather ) today it's my eldest son & uses my grandaughter as a weapon ( he has custody , his ex was a narcissist) and my mother !!!
    Star signs correct too , I'm a virgo, he's a Scorpio and my mum Taurus.
    I've given up my house to him and made a den in my garage , abuse was so bad first 12 months that I had to involve police. He's very rude & offensive and so is my mother ( they're close).
    Yea I'm an introvert, quiet , empath & keep to myself. And yes always giving him gifts and trying to make him happy & I do the same with my mum but I'm giving up.
    I worry about my grandchild so much & she's becoming like them both, she's the reason I tolerate & walk away from the verbal abuse without reacting. But all not good for her to see, she's 9

  • @charlesbrown328
    @charlesbrown328 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Don't worry baby# I've got a master plan. Trust me Friend in the end it will all make sense. You're on point,but I'm the least concerned with this loser. Goddess IOWN GIVE A DAMN about this person😊I don't even lay with it#no nature for it. Silent yes#all in the plan@keep u posted⚖️ GANGGANG ❤️🖤💚💯