Become your highest self. They all have those positions in order to serve your highest good. When you can see them that way, you will change and their effect on you will change. It's all for your awakening. What a blessing!
Hide 😂. Basically, you need to walk in silence and realize that at first, people are going to seem very supportive. Once you are hooked, they will try to dominate you. That's when you need to silently and slowly remove yourself from the situation. Make a new plan and move on. Keep focused on your goals.
for aspects with transpersonal planets, the orb should be less than 2 degrees in my opinion. Otherwise, that's a lot of people who could actually be affected and it's not significant. Unless the planet in question is really very powerful in the astrological birth chart, but even there beyond 2° I don't really take it into account.
2:50 plutonic relationships 11:08 seeking information twin flame vs plutonic 13:19 how to find out plutonic in chart 22:04 plutonic as false twin flame
I met someone a few months ago, and my met I mean I stood next to him for about ten seconds while a friend of mine talked to him, that was the extend of it. The following week I dreamt about him three different times and eventually looked him up on social media. I got obsessed with the thought of him and didn’t really understand why. Ended up looking at his birth chart and turns out his sun, venus, mercury, saturn and pluto was (really) closely conjunct my ascendant, saturn and pluto. Yikes. After looking into plutonic relationships I knew it was a bad idea. It still took me two months to convince myself to stop thinking about him. TEN SECONDS of non-interaction, and I consider myself fairly evolved when it comes to spiritually and healing trauma 😅 I learned a lot from it but wow, Pluto is wild.
I have the same experience.we talked for a whole night and then met up in the same day.didn’t expect it to be so intense,and I’ve never had this physical attraction to anybody in my life but for him.Yeah,it was basically toxic and sexual,ended just a hour later after meeting cause we got into a little fight.then he kicked me out of his house,and to this day I still think about him a lot,even tho he made me feel so miserable and humiliated.I feel ashamed of it actually,he treated me bad,and I deserve better,plus he’s a casual f-boy with absence of empathy.I wonder if he thinks about me too.We had some dangerous aspects in our synastry.Venus conjuct and opposition to pluto,mars square Venus,my moon and mars conjuct to his pluto,my Venus and moon conjuct his Saturn,moon in a 12h,sun in a 8 house,and mars in his 1st.That’s a long list,but I’ve never had these aspects with men before,and I do blame them for this weird and toxic connection.This whole experience left me with insecurities.Somehow I feel good that I’ve made him feel bad too,and we’re kinda even.
Guys, take all of this with a grain of salt. You are clearly here for self-discovery. Focus on that. Be careful with any information that tells you definitively what to believe or how to see something. Pluto can be power hungry, but it can also be transformative for good. And the plant person can be just as blind and manipulative. Don't just assume that if you are the Pluto person or the Planet person that you can now settle into a particular role and that is how it will continue to be. Hone your intuition, then listen to it. That will be your greatest ally and best way of really knowing where you stand and what steps to take in ANY situation. "Toxic" is deeper than the so called experts have been saying. It's all about resonance. There are no toxic people or situations. They only feel toxic to you because you have stayed too long in a situation or with a person or your own quality you have outgrown. They or it no longer matches you, and the feeling of toxicity is you. A message its time to make a move. Wake up. You can do it. Your highest self exists now. Step into it.
Thank you so much for this! My plutonic relationship was literal hell after having learned my lesson but refusing to give up. It broke me and left me scarred but I survived (barely)! 😅
I was in a Plutonic relationship for 5 years and it was VERY toxic. I thought it was a Twin Flame relationship, but it was so destructive and I kept getting readings from different psychics because I was trying to figure out what was going on. NO ONE mentioned anything to me about it being a Plutonic relationship, but I had to save my own sanity so I left the relationship. I had to actually ghost the person because he would not let me go. Now that it has been a couple of years since I walked away from the relationship, I am working on forgiving myself for allowing it to go on so long. I actually stopped believing in Twin Flames because of what happened to me, and I think that more people should be aware of this type of situation. Part of my frustration was that I felt the spiritual community was brushing off my concerns, and that is wrong on so many levels. So, I need to say THANK YOU for bringing this to light Mary Jo, and I hope that more people become aware of the difference between Twin Flames and Plutonics.
My story too. I have one month and sixteen days since I have ghosted her. Um she losing my head all day rent free. I can't wait till snap out of this crap.
My husband’s Pluto is in Scorpio and is in conjunction with my Venus, mercury, and mars in Scorpio. His Pluto also squares my Aquarius moon. He’s very manipulative, narcissistic, and controlling. I’m working on getting away.
Whoa! Needed this today!!! Was curious what this connection was. Did our charts and mars square Pluto. My anxiety came back off the rails. And I withdrew. Then down the rabbit hole I went. Great timing. Thank you 🙏🏼
Okay. So, around 6:20 you say that if it is one sided it is NOT a Platonic relationship. Pluto conjunct, opposite and square your personal planets symbolize Twin Flame relationships, EXCEPT when it is one-sided, because then it is destructive transformation, (rather than ascendent transformation which occurs in a Twin Flame dynamic). This makes sense. Thank-you. So interesting. Both me an my Twin Flame have 5 Pluto placements. Sun conjunct Pluto, Pluto square Mercury, Pluto sextile Jupiter, Pluto Opposite Saturn, and X MC conjunct Pluto. We both experience ourselves as Twin Flames. It is so intense! Vice-versa. You really helped me understand that the challenging aspects of ones charts can also be positive when placed with the right divine person. Wow. Not that is as a easy. It just activates your Kundalini and self-awareness, through mirroring, shedding ego. So grateful to find you! I cannot wait to dive into your channel more. What a gift you are. Much goodness to you.
If two people are Plutonic themselves and they are "twin flames" then the connection would likely still be Plutonic in some fashion. The archetype of Pluto also deals with deep transformation and I would say is a necessary component of a "twin flame" dynamic. It's TOO many HARD Pluto aspects in synastry/composite or an imbalance of Pluto (lopsided/unrequited) that are the problem. I think a lot of the things you're hitting on are important, but I think people should understand the difference also between a (hard) Plutonic connection vs. a powerful, potentially "twin flame" connection that still has some important Plutonic contacts in the synastry/composite. Also the composite/Davison would be more important than synastry imo, because that's the only way to see what the connection itself is about.
Also btw - the Pluto person (synastry wise) is the one who is likely to become desperately obsessed and the Planet person who will likely want to run the hell away, even if some part of them feels intrigued/magnetized.
I knew someone where almost every one of our personal planets were in the opposite sign (not all hard aspects) but moon conjunct in the same sign etc etc (our astrology is bonkers) - AND we were both "the Pluto person"...! Several times over (numerous Pluto contacts). Our meeting was definitely fated and we are definitely soul fam (and maybe even TFs, we have so many of the indicators)... but our relationship was also *very* Plutonic. The composite chart is very telling, clarifying a lot of the finer points that can get lost in all of this intensity. Took me years to heal - I don't usually even use this " TF" terminology anymore or watch videos... but once in a while one will pique my interest and I use it to see if I get triggered anymore. I came out of the clouds and can at least see the truth of things rather than being off the rails LOL. I know this isn't the first OR last time we've been together, I believe it will be easier next time around 😅
Doesn’t make it a healthy relationship! This lady knows what she’s talking about! Pluto is hidden it knows how to disguise itself. You can go on thinking that things are so great then bam it happens out if nowhere. Plutonic relationships almost always end badly
And twin flames are RARE!! Maybe like 1% The very reason we’re here on earth is to learn from ppl through painful lessons Please study twin flames off youtube! Read and study it! And if you’re not emotionally evolved I can say with certainty that you probably haven’t met your twin flame! Everyone doesn’t even have a twin flame just like everyone doesn’t have a twin at birth its not common! Soulmates karmics and plutonics are far more common
My pluto square her venus, my moon square her pluto, my sun and jupiter square her pluto. But i dont want to avoid the relationship. Definitely theres a reason behind why i met the person. Lesson and experience. ❤️
In my case it was a Catalyst Twinflame! But I was the Pluto squaring both his Sun and Mercury!! I don't know about him, but I was the one who significantly awakened spiritually!! It was intense!
So I met someone that their south node was conjunt my ascendant and north node. Their north node was conjunct my south node, sun mercury, and venus. Their venus is conjunct, my ascendant. Their sun is conjunct my antivertex and moon is conjunct my vertex. He would always tell my when I look at him he feels like I'm looking into his soul.
We both have plutonic placements in connection to our suns and quite a few other personal planets 😂 but it was actually quite positive bc we brought out a lot of growths from each individual and we mirror each other with a ton of synchronicities with our past lives and future goals just like TFs.. i would classify it as quite positive experiences and i would certainly love to build something together with this person. idk.. the line feels a little blurry here..
I think it depends on your personal chart I have sun conjunct Pluto and I feel like all my relationships have some Pluto aspects because of this. It's also not scary to me as much because I'm used to feeling that plutonic energy anyway.
Same. Pluto aspects on both sides... Ascendant, Sun, Mercury, both nodes, both MC. No sex at first site. The rest of the chart placements indicate a slow burn.
This could be one of the most important information to put out there, MJ... confusing a plutonic connection for a twin connection can have excrutiating, devastating effects precisely because the unconditional love simply isnt there as a shared component between the two as each navigates through the obstacles or darker seasons of the connection. One can tell sometimes- the difference between twin-pain, which can obviously include confusion as to whats next, loneliness and deep frustration, and plutonic-pain, many times resentful and angry and hungry for evidence that the other loves them. With twins, Love is, if anything, the clearest element, along with the Spiritual.
How come it be that even if we both have pluto squaring the other person's moon, that there is so much mutual love and caring... Sometimes it seems to me as if we're both the pluto person for one another... I've been through heavily, plutonic relationships.. And they've mostly been one-sided on my end... I was obsessed with them but they didn't care. This time around this person was obsessed with me and I wasn't crushing on them... But fell in love with them because of them being so loving.. Still there's definitely some powerstruggle... It's like we're switching sides.. One time he chases, one time I do... Weird dynamic.
I’m in this dynamic as well. Both of our plutos square each other’s moon. I wonder if it creates a balance somehow because there really is mutual love and caring here and feels very much like twin flame. Huge mutual lessons and so much healing and growth.
@@colbeem4674 I absolutely agree... I also kinda have the feeling that in cases like that it is still a powerstruggle or heavy lesson... But it seems both individuals go through a very similar process.. And that somehow there is some kind of a balance to it in comparison to other plutonic relationships I've had.. Because both are going through kind of the same thing. I'm really curious what MJ has to say abt that (:
I personally still don’t think it’s a good relationship… you said this time he was obsessed with you & you were not interested at first… that doesn’t sounds like not a mutual loving relationship even if it eventually feels it turned into that! But I honestly do t know because it’s not my life… My advice is to really sit & think! And follow your intuition! 💫
@@natashaletourneau5368 yeah I agree. Well I guess in this case... It was more the fact that he was not my type.. But I still felt a strong connection and love for him. I even told him this in the beginning... I don't have a crush on you the way I usually have it... Rose tinted glasses and stuff... But I have lots of love for you... It was his personality and the way he treats me that made me fall in love with him.. Other than falling in love because he's so handsome you know.... For now, I pulled back a little because I realized where I'm being triggered... And that I really want him in my life but that there's obviously things that I need to work on within myself. So yeah.. For now that's exactly what I'm doing :) sit with it and listen to my gut. Which I think is the best way to handle any situation in life. Just thought it was interesting that it's obviously plutonic, but not in the way I experienced... Cause it seems to be mutual instead of one-sided.
@@spiritfiyuh11 do exactly what you feel you should & not what you THINK you should do or what others want you to do!!! You know your relationship better than anyone else! I’m 35 & have been in 2 horrible relationships… I thought I wasted YEARS of my life but realized it was a lesson & it brought me to know my true self! I plan on staying single until I can heal myself more… I’m not saying you need to do this but it’s different for everyone! This channel helps me along with reading tarot for myself, journaling & learning every single placement in my chart! (Astrology is incredible to me!) Do what YOU feel is best my friend & remember to not make any fast decisions… & to listen to your gut! You are the only one who knows what is good for you! And also remember… there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back from any situation or relationship to think! Best of luck to you both my friend!!! 💫💫💫
Not true i feel he is a mirrore to me it's scary how talking to each other is like talking to oneself my pluto conjunct his saturn My pluto sextile his uranus My pluto square his neptune. Please can you tell me if this is toxic, my north node trine his jupiter
My twin and I both have pluto square each other's moon. My pluto is square my moon and conjunct my sun in my birth chart. I feel that it balances out because we are both the pluto person and we are both the moon person.
Soulmates won’t have hard aspects squares, opposition, conjunction to Pluto in charts but soft aspects like venus trine Pluto is actually one soulmate aspect but again tight orb. I only allow 3 degree orb though on some things up to 5 but no more. It’s even better if it’s a dual his trine hers and hers trine his. My twin and I share a Venus - moon double/ dual.
Idk if you’ll ever read this… But my sister & I were 1 year & 3 days apart. (May 3rd 1987 & may 6th 1988) we were like twins but unfortunately she passed when we were 25 & 26… but our birth charts are so similar!!! I had no idea until right now… there’s a few differences but we both have almost the same chart! I’d love to see a video on almost matching charts & how that can effect ppl! Like my sister & I or like twins that are born at almost the same time… how it effects us! I know you’re a busy woman MJ but maybe one day you could touch on this??? I thank you for everything you’ve taught me!!! God bless 💫💫💫
Hmmm.. Now that you bring it up, I'd had a similar thought awhile back and I, for two (lol) would also be intrigued by MJ's perspective.. I know just reading your comment piqued my interest. And that's so cool what you and sis had going (so very sorry you lost her)!
This, is Uranian genius 💗. I needed this, thank you for explaining. MJ transiting Pluto newly in Aqua is going into my 5th.. I know never to fear lessons but I was stalked once and went through this before, the Plutonian themes with power, jealousy. Had to take out a restraining order on somebody obsessive and creepy and all that . I became obsessive also . I hope this isn't what this Planet will bring into this house. It'll oppose my Leo stellium 😓, My natal Pluto is in my Libra 1st. Aye ♥️♥️
I disagree. I was the Pluto person twice in hard aspects (conjunction, opposition) to their Sun and I was madly in love with both. Someone else's Pluto squares my Sun ... and I feel the same way. The deepest loves. I believe the energy goes both ways, with the Sun being mesmerizing by Pluto and Pluto feeling more trepidations due to fear of loosing the beloved (the Sun), who's independence is threatening. That's how I felt this from both perspectives.
@@Yps-o7o In your situation , the energy flows both ways. The easy aspect might be able to smooth the hard aspect out. But you'll definitely feel a stronger sexual chemistry and magnetic pull due to the hard aspect, which is not always a bad thing. The obsession could feel like a nuisance as you'll feel like you want to be with that person 24/7, codependency issues might be present :P I've personally experienced a Trine and 2 Conjunctions. I was both Moon and Pluto. Moon can't let go of Pluto, the connection feels otherworldly. Too special to let go. Moon - Pluto aspects are very deep, soulful. Also felt both ways, but Pluto is more powerful here. It feels almost like you want to cuddle with that person and pull her/him closer and closer until you become one. That's how deep it feels. I've experienced 4 Sun-Pluto hard aspects. If Pluto is the man and there is no previous history (a steonger foundation) between the 2 people, the relationship might not take off. In Sun - Pluto hard aspects there is a lot of tension and ego clashes. Both people are very strong. The Sun wants Pluto badly and feels depressed about not being able to get through Pluto's walls (Pluto's baggage and darkness); there is a lot of resistance; the Sun feels as if he is hitting a wall in this relationship. Almost like trying to penetrate Pluto's darkness with his rays, but not being able to. Pluto wants what it wants out of the relationship, and is not backing down. Not to say that the Sun is right and Pluto is wrong. The Sun could be just infatuated with Pluto and not really take Pluto seriously ... and Pluto could feel that and back down, retreat or create boundaries. All Pluto wants is the Sun, but not the way the Sun is ... rather transformed, a different version of the Sun, that makes the Pluto person feel more secure and confident about the relationship. Depending who the Pluto person is. Pluto person could be a person with good intentions or an opportunist (wanting to change the Sun for the wrong reasons). There is a lot of anxiety present in this relationship. The Sun is more confident to show his feelings and obsession. Pluto is feeling things as intensely, however, is keeping his obsession hidden. He does obsessive "work" without letting the Sun know. Pluto will be like a PA finding out everything about the Sun. I feel the Sun is way way more obsessed in this contact than Pluto. Like, out of control obsession. With Sun - Pluto hard aspects, the Sun wants to punch Pluto in the nose. That's how annoying the dynamic is. Sorry Pluto people!! 😂 ✌️
@@Bianca_Myh Thank you for your insight. If feel that as long as Pluto tries to change the Sun, it will never work. No one likes to be forced/controlled, it is a recipe for resentment. Plus, no growth can happen when things get forced & when there is an absence of acceptance of the other As they Are. Ultimately, love accepts the other Totally, as they are, and would never want to alter/change the other for selfish ends. If they do, then there was never any love in the first place.. Someone can only change from their own being, in a real soil of mutual acceptance, harmony, love. Anything forced will only backfire. glad I walked away from pluto.
It’s been 11 years in a plutonic relationship. Her Libra Pluto is conjunct my moon. BUT…my Scorpio Pluto is conjunct MY Venus. Several Saturn aspects as well. Thank you for this video.
I don’t agree with your analysis and suggestions. Full chart should be looked at. My Pluto is conjunct the mars and mercury of a man that I have strong feelings for and his Pluto is square my moon. I cater to him. We love each other although we are not together at the moment because of some childishness on both sides. He has his Saturn conjunct my moon and that affects me too. We have mars, Venus, Pluto and Jupiter conjunction in Scorpio in composite.
I’m the Pluto person 😭💔❤️🩹 his Scorpio Sun conjuncts my Scorpio Pluto… I have NEVER felt so undone and obsessive, like I NEED to be loved and seen by a partner the way I do with him. AND I HATE IT. And I’ve tried to leave off and on for almost three years because I can tell it affects him negatively despite this level of unconditional love between us… it feels like it’s the slow-undoing of me, trying to always get him to love me like I love him, but I also feel it’s too much pressure on him. Again, I’ve NEVER been like this in relationship with anyone else, so it confuses me constantly (his Venus is also in my 12H)… but it has been the most transformative, painful, longing relationship I’ve ever gone through. We currently live together but I’m aware this can’t last if we both want to be happy in love…it’s been a catalyst for extreme growth and healing in both of us and there is so much love between us that I always felt we were TF or karmics, but I feel the need to leave this for both our own good. I feel like I will always have a hole in me without him in my life now, but I think ultimately it will be for the best 💔❤️🩹
I'm not sure I understand. Unfortunately, with my personal planets the way they are it seems like anyone with Pluto in Virgo like me (1958 to 1971 I think) will square my moon, ascendant, Venus and nodes, and conjunct my Mars with that particular Pluto. Am I missing something?
What mean when Simeone pluto conjuction Nord of other person.And what mean when Simeone have in natal chart square or oposition with Venus.Specialy if Venus rule of Sun in women chart.
This is really interesting but I have twin flame synastry ( south node synastry/ascendant etc) but I have Pluto Synastry. I’m the Pluto person snd I care deeply about my person. So I’m confused.
His pluto square my venus. He died in a car accident. Our relationship progressed really quickly. We were inseparable for 10 weeks. A part of me felt he was using me bc i was more financially stable than he was. But now he’s gonna and I have no answers only a broken heart. And now i am involved in what feels like a one-sided relationship with someone we have very strong synastry but a double moon opposite pluto. My head is saying run but my heart is in a vice grip
You are the one who makes me want to pick up making videos about planetary alignments in a overview. Showing more than what you stated about singular aspects alone. Don’t forget that there is more than one aspect to consider. When there are A LOT of squares to Pluto in sensitive houses (depending on the planets) and with difficult Neptune, Sun and Uranus aspects to personal planets (mostly squares, oppositions and inconjunctions /quincunxes in all their charts). Yes! Then people should REALLY reconsider and think twice before they get too far in a connection. But you can’t state this argument for just one aspect on its own, in only one chart (synastry in this case).
Dear god i have a plutonic relationship with my mother!!!!!! ALL my personal planets are aspecting her damn pluto. She is quite controlling. Im not obsessed with her *shudders* but i do have intense codependent issues. I escaped ONCE and i flourished while she stalked and insulted me. I came back after i had a stroke and couldn't take care of myself. Truly a nightmare.
Yep yep yep....His Pluto (Libra 7th house) was Squaring my Venus ( Capricorn 10th house). So glad I saw it last year from your video. Took 4 years to find out. The growth lessons were huge 👏 😇 Thanks MJ ....
I don't always agree with this, I have Pluto opposite the Sun with my twin (we are ABSOLUTELY twins, proven by both a very talented medium who works with Charlotte of happy twins , but more importantly verified by the SCIO, and Ella of Return to one, which can see the twin ring in twins and verify them) now its not really a factor beyond this(I'm Pluto by the way and the divine feminine, they are the sun), but the way Pluto is read in evolutionary astrology is quite different than traditionally, and I tend to think BOTH have merit. oh even more importantly.... it's verified by me. Anyway we do both love each other, and I'm the divine feminine and the one who obviously seems like they care more, and this is opposite the picture you are painting (although he does play power games with his karmics, he's never really done that with me. and I'm Pluto not him)
Compatibility exists. Divine synchronicity / harmony, yes. Past-life encounters, very probably yes. But “TF” is a human-made term / name / label, a coined / invented word. A concept / beautiful invention. That term TF is all based on Romanticism ( = repressed sex-energy ) running wild… It appeals to the imagination / the projecting Ego-entity. ~
@@5050TM I am a Scorpio rising.. sun,moon,&saturn in 8th house.. sun&moon square pluto.. mars opposite pluto.. & venus sextile pluto. Also, my sun is exactly on my south node! I came into this life for these karmic experiences! It's for my spiritual growth. If I ran away that wouldn't have happened. I feel instead of running away..it's important to not get stuck in these relationships. Once the lesson is learned it ends. That's been my experience.
He’s got a Pluto square Venus in his natal chart My Pluto trines his Venus, his Pluto trines my moon I think we’re twin flames, I left another connect about all the synastry contacts on the vertex video. But he’s acting out his square. Also his Uranus opposite his moon.
I'm curious as to the dynamic when the pluto connections go both ways. I have a situation where both our plutos square the others moon, my Pluto square his venus, and his pluto opposite my mars and wide aspect opposite my sun. It's intense!
I have all the worst ones with my TF 😅 My Sun, Venus and Mars all square his Pluto, but our connection isn't like the "Plutonic" one described (unless I'm just in denial about it 🤔).. My Pluto squares his Sun too so that one goes both ways, but there are quite a few positive aspects also like my Sun, Venus, Mars (and Saturn exact) trine his Moon, my Moon sextile his Mercury and trine his Pluto, my Pluto trine his Jupiter, my Moon sextile his Neptune, my Saturn sextile his Sun, and a few others as well. We're in "separation" (not dating).. but when I have been with him he's the most gentle person I've been with. He's extremely avoidant (and proud) but he's very "affectionate" in the way he interacts with me. No matter how "mad" or "crazy" I've been with him, he never "retaliates" (or negates), he just disappears.. He told me a couple of years ago that I'm "radically different" from anyone else he's met and he tells me I'm the sweetest person he knows. When I've told him that I love him so much I've seen his eyes go red and watery with the most pained expression so I'm pretty sure there is real love as it wouldn't be like that if the person felt nothing on their end? He has said it to me before as well. I've known this person 10 years now and have never really "chased" him, most of our connection has been me blocking his calls/approaches because it's too painful having contact with him when he can't give me a "real" (consistent/committed) relationship. I feel like he's come a long way in the past few years though, so maybe there's hope, or maybe not.. I've only recently gotten into astrology but looking at our charts I've found "signifiers" like my Venus conjunct his South Node, his Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct my Moon and Vertex, my Sun/Moon midpoint is near to his Vertex. I read about Persona charts the other day so I looked at each of our Juno charts and was pretty blown away because they did seem to "reflect" each of us. His Vertex was conjunct the Ascendant on mine, and on his Juno chart, the Ascendant was my (natal) Ascendant (28 degrees Leo). That's pretty.. Crazy! We both have 12th house stelliums (he has 6 planets there and I have the 4 personal ones). We're both psychologists.. Well, I am, he's done the degree and trying to transition into it. Our composite chart has Sun and Pluto conjunct the Ascendant so it's pretty "plutonian" 🙈 With NN and Moon in the 5th, Jupiter in the 7th, Chiron in the 8th (and Venus still in the 12th like both of our natals, in Scorpio though). It also has 3 "yods" in the chart aspects. The Moon is at 29 degrees Pisces (so last degree of the zodiac) so completing a cycle? 💫 and Jupiter is at 0 degrees of Gemini (twins).. I don't even *want* to believe in TFs and have always tried to stay away from it 😒 We both have Pluto in Scorpio in our charts, with his conjunct his Juno and Part of Fortune in the 10th/11th houses. We have several of the "love" asteroids conjunct or aspecting each other.. But we're not together.. 🤡 He's still going through a lot as he lost his Dad a few years ago and his Mum's had a terminal cancer diagnosis in 2022 and that has been a lot of his focus. My life has been intense as f*** with family/work stuff the past few years as well. I've always tried to keep my focus on myself and my needs (my NN is in Aries and so is his Moon). Whenever I have contact with him he tells me he misses me and wants to see me, but I can't/won't do that while he's drinking etc. No matter how many times I've told myself to forget this person, or how long I've gone without contact, I just love him even more, it's maddening. Maybe we're meant to work together in the future? 😭 Or maybe he's a "damaged beyond repair" type and I just haven't figured it out yet 💔 Such a mind-bending connection..
I'm the Pluto person and I feel he's the one playing with me.. I was on a pedestal then devalued then I leave him alone and he keeps coming back?! But then starts to pull away again. I had to block him today, it sucks all my energy up.
Hi MJ I am very interested in more information... i really believe he is my twin, but what you're saying is making me really wonder. Where could i send my chart. Its been off and on for 15 years.
Still can’t get clear on this…we have reciprocal Pluto squares to sun and Venus. Hers to mine,mine to hers.There’s no lopsidedness. Same birthday/date. So Is it a harmful plutonic relationship?
Very stable . Probably wouldn’t have been had we met when we were younger. This connection now comes with much more selfunderstanding and consciousness. Our opposing asc dec makes it a balancing act but fun for getting things done .
What if one has Pluto trine sun and other has Pluto trine moon? Also vertex conjuct ascendant with moon conjuct north node? Would that still be a plutonium relationship. (North node and moon in scorpio as well)
It was my devine birthrights to lessons for beyond measure abundance. I learned sooooooo much about self source and universe and 1111. It was amazing then it wasn't and it ended. I was confused and hurting after I left but all that was actually beautiful and I now have no sadness or shame for getting myself into it. It was fated because idk about him because I havnt looked for where he's at in life I respect others privacy because ppl don't have the same respect for my life lol I don't want to be like the ppl who stalk me etc idc but it was hard lessons I had to learn in a really harsh way and I'm so grateful for it and im grateful for my huge growth and my Lord and my blessings of and for The Devine. It wasn't the devil it was father teaching me the things I needed to know and change about ME. THIS READ IS SO GREAT. I've watched you since late 2017. I missed alot of your reads the last few years because I have been moving upwards and busy healing etc etc and NOW I'm back circled back around the circle of life's flow and here your reads are popping up in my autoplay no matter if I'm listening to music or MEL ROBBINS. LOVE TO BOTH YOU AND MEL. YOUR NEW HOME IS DEVINE AND YOU LOOK AMAZING BEYOND MEASURE. Love to Charlie too. 🥰😇😇🤩😍🤍🤍🤍🤍💫🕊 🕊 🕊
Example of as within so without? My plutonic partner and myself, always played a video game together right. We could NEVER get past the 35th level. Oh how much they can teach us though!! We finally gave up on everything, it's a stalemate! Shine on M.j. 💚 You rock!!
My ex's sun is on my pluto but, he treated me badly. I did most of the loving. The whole chart needs to be analysed, you can't just run with one feature.
This is not entirely accurate it isn't just one way with double whammys. I'm with a pluto man and we have lots of DW W pluto to our personal planets. As well as easy Saturn aspects and and jupiter conjunct juno. We are both plutonic people and we don't find our relationship toxic or power gamed. We are fiercely protective of each other and won't let anyone become between us to kick jealousy to the curb. You forgot to also mention pluto is a deep deep love not only psychically but emotionally too.
I've just spent the last 6 months questioning a relationship I've been caught up in who was appearing like a twin but just checked out their Pluto and they're opposite my sun! I nearly fell off my chair! Ha ha thankyou for the clarity, Finally, I'm out!!! And free for something way better 😄 Thank you MJ !!!🥰🥰🥰 what a ride life is!
Trouble is the person l have been communicating with l don't know his birthday ,he is older l am 68 he is about 75 ,76 l think but he just keeps coming g back,l do know he has ego,but has been reay hurt like me &he is a psychologist ??
i'm in the most pleasant relationship now and we only have my pluto trine his node and my pluto opposite his ascendant. his desc is also conjunct my asc so it's like a mirror image. he's the most pleasant man. our moons are both conjuct in libra. he is seven years younger that i am.
Wow, wow, WOW. Your words are SO TRUE. I am in astrology school right now, I came to astrology to learn about myself and relationships and to help others. I met someone a year ago that I have had a very explosive off and on.... well, I can't even call it a "relationship" in the traditional sense. But yeah. I have Aries, Mars, Jupiter, and Chiron in my 7th house so I'm going to attract very "martian" wounded men. This one is just that and has Mars conjunct his ascendant. He leads the room with Mars, is very alpha and fiery. Myself, I have Pluto on my ascendant 😬 so I'm the Plutonian here that you speak of. I've identified our relationship as being lessons and issues about power and control, but it's because he wants to dominate me and be forceful. And you are right, I don't feel much at all at this point but it's because there has been so much clashing and challenge, at least that's what I'm telling myself. I can't be with him until I feel seen and feel like I matter when in his presence, which I don't seem to at the moment. I probably need to look at myself though, is what I'm gettting from your video.
Pluto is not a “bad” planet. Just like other planets and signs, you can embody the lower vibration or the higher vibration. Plutonic/Scorpionic people (people with stronger Pluto/Scorpio placements) exist for a reason and without which, there would be no deep transformational change. I just took a look at our synastry chart and we have multiple aspects between both of our Plutos… so we are transforming each other. It just seems like you are demonizing the Plutonic person, but again, it really depends on the person and how able they are to embody the higher vibration of Pluto. My 2 cents as a Plutonic person on a spiritual Journey. ❤
I have my Pluto in Scorpio 1st house, and he has his Pluto in Scorpio 7th house. Both Geminis, he's Taurus ascendant 1st house and i'm Scorpio Ascendant 1st house. Almost every house is 6 houses apart in the same signs or complete opposite signs. But there is no complete overlap in houses
Thank you so much for this video MJ it was soooooo enlightening, information is power! I think both my 'big'/significant relationships have both been plutonic but one towards me & one where I unknowingly was the plutonic person! Do you often see this occurring as cyclical pattern in people? Its definitely one I'm working hard on healing so I dont repeat either lesson! Thank you for sharing your insights & research, your light shines so brightly 🙏 ✨️ x
I have pisces rising, aries north node and personal planets in sag and scorpio. Venus-pluto are conjunct. So, a person with pluto in scorpio or sag will conjunct my personal planets, a libra pluto will be opposite my north node, and virgo pluto will be in my 7 house. So that rules out almost everyone for me. Any suggestions here?
What's been your experience with Venus opposite Pluto? I'm the Venus person, and I think he's just as obssessed as I am. It's the most wonderful and painful relationship I've ever had.
Uhmmm, I am the plutonic person but I do care about him. I did research and dig deeper with our connection. Why I am drawn to him even after breaking up thrice until I gathered a lot of courage that it was not working at all after giving it several chances. Also, I am too overwhelmed with the power struggles and the obsession ( I am even surprised I become like this). I feel drained and out of control so I decided to break away and have no contact with him. I don't want us to be in pain while the issues keep on repeating even I tried to communicate those with him. We both hurt each other but it doesn't mean I didn't love him at all. 😢
So i have my pluto on my MIL’s asc, she has become obsessed with me and vying for me but if i ever show interest in her interests, she will immediately disengage emotionally because she feels validated in herself and she got what she wanted from me. Her pluto opposes my mars and she strives to have absolute power over me. Her saturn conjuncts my moon lilith and pluto so this could be why she disengages emotionally. Also her moon aspects my asc and i feel like a victim to her. Ive had to stop working because her abuse towards me was so great and unnerving on a sadistic level ive never encountered in anyone, that i felt crippled mentally emotionally psychologically borderline i didnt want to be around anymore. Ive been healing for years now but she hasnt changed and im learning to let go more and more.
How significant are his pluto in my 8th house, my Pluto conjunct his IC, my north node conjunct his pluto, my sun square his pluto, and his pluto square my moon?
Wow, MJ! Thank you for this clarity! I have multiple people in my energy and I was questioning my TF because of two of them but specifically the one that has been actively pursuing me more than the others. I have known him for years. But thanks to your teachings I now know that I am his Pluto. It’s interesting because it looks like we both are each other’s Pluto. His Pluto is square my mars and MC and my Pluto is squared his Moon and also in the same sign as his north node. His Pluto is close to my south node but in the sign next to my south node. Also, his Pluto is almost on top of my Vertex in Libra and we share the same Moon sign which his Vertex is in as well. What does it mean if we both have these Pluto placements/alignments? Does that mean it would be very toxic? We have a ton of planets that are communicating in our charts too! Thanks for this info! 🤯🙏❤️
Yeah I just checked and I have similar stuff going on. His pluto squares my moon and my pluto squares his moon.... We have mutual love for each other, I have been trough some really heavy plutonic relationships... And they felt completely different. I was obsessed with these people, beyond healthy. I don't have that with him.... In all actuality he was approaching me ever since we first met.. We both don't wanna lose touch with one another, because we both feel home when being with each other.. Still things don't work out the way I wish it would.... I was not in love with him when I first met him, he absolutely adored me... But I couldn't help but feeling home when being with him, I felt drawn to him, like he belonged into my life... It's not the typical plutonic vibe I'm used to.. Eventhough there for sure is some power struggle going on in a way that we're like black and white when it comes to the way we approach life and people in general... But there's a deep rooted love for one another...
What does it mean in a synastry chart when each persons pluto is in adjacent houses? They can’t see each other? I’m confused. I tried looking it up and just don’t have the resources to find a good answer.
Thank you for this information, it is very useful and I have so many questions like are there NEVER good Pluto aspects in a synastry chart?!? like is a Pluto in Virgo trining my natal Venus in taurus a light hearted fated lesson? and is my Pluto is conjoint their moon and Jupiter in Libra indications of an Ego activation in them?
How do I cope with the fact that Boomers have Pluto conjunct my Sun, Millennials have Pluto square my Moon, and Generation Z have Pluto square my Sun?
Become your highest self. They all have those positions in order to serve your highest good. When you can see them that way, you will change and their effect on you will change. It's all for your awakening. What a blessing!
Hide 😂. Basically, you need to walk in silence and realize that at first, people are going to seem very supportive. Once you are hooked, they will try to dominate you. That's when you need to silently and slowly remove yourself from the situation. Make a new plan and move on. Keep focused on your goals.
for aspects with transpersonal planets, the orb should be less than 2 degrees in my opinion. Otherwise, that's a lot of people who could actually be affected and it's not significant. Unless the planet in question is really very powerful in the astrological birth chart, but even there beyond 2° I don't really take it into account.
Shine bright Leo. ❤
2:50 plutonic relationships
11:08 seeking information twin flame vs plutonic
13:19 how to find out plutonic in chart
22:04 plutonic as false twin flame
I met someone a few months ago, and my met I mean I stood next to him for about ten seconds while a friend of mine talked to him, that was the extend of it. The following week I dreamt about him three different times and eventually looked him up on social media. I got obsessed with the thought of him and didn’t really understand why. Ended up looking at his birth chart and turns out his sun, venus, mercury, saturn and pluto was (really) closely conjunct my ascendant, saturn and pluto. Yikes. After looking into plutonic relationships I knew it was a bad idea. It still took me two months to convince myself to stop thinking about him. TEN SECONDS of non-interaction, and I consider myself fairly evolved when it comes to spiritually and healing trauma 😅 I learned a lot from it but wow, Pluto is wild.
I have the same experience.we talked for a whole night and then met up in the same day.didn’t expect it to be so intense,and I’ve never had this physical attraction to anybody in my life but for him.Yeah,it was basically toxic and sexual,ended just a hour later after meeting cause we got into a little fight.then he kicked me out of his house,and to this day I still think about him a lot,even tho he made me feel so miserable and humiliated.I feel ashamed of it actually,he treated me bad,and I deserve better,plus he’s a casual f-boy with absence of empathy.I wonder if he thinks about me too.We had some dangerous aspects in our synastry.Venus conjuct and opposition to pluto,mars square Venus,my moon and mars conjuct to his pluto,my Venus and moon conjuct his Saturn,moon in a 12h,sun in a 8 house,and mars in his 1st.That’s a long list,but I’ve never had these aspects with men before,and I do blame them for this weird and toxic connection.This whole experience left me with insecurities.Somehow I feel good that I’ve made him feel bad too,and we’re kinda even.
Guys, take all of this with a grain of salt. You are clearly here for self-discovery. Focus on that. Be careful with any information that tells you definitively what to believe or how to see something. Pluto can be power hungry, but it can also be transformative for good. And the plant person can be just as blind and manipulative. Don't just assume that if you are the Pluto person or the Planet person that you can now settle into a particular role and that is how it will continue to be. Hone your intuition, then listen to it. That will be your greatest ally and best way of really knowing where you stand and what steps to take in ANY situation. "Toxic" is deeper than the so called experts have been saying. It's all about resonance. There are no toxic people or situations. They only feel toxic to you because you have stayed too long in a situation or with a person or your own quality you have outgrown. They or it no longer matches you, and the feeling of toxicity is you. A message its time to make a move. Wake up. You can do it. Your highest self exists now. Step into it.
Thank you so much for this! My plutonic relationship was literal hell after having learned my lesson but refusing to give up. It broke me and left me scarred but I survived (barely)! 😅
I was in a Plutonic relationship for 5 years and it was VERY toxic. I thought it was a Twin Flame relationship, but it was so destructive and I kept getting readings from different psychics because I was trying to figure out what was going on. NO ONE mentioned anything to me about it being a Plutonic relationship, but I had to save my own sanity so I left the relationship. I had to actually ghost the person because he would not let me go. Now that it has been a couple of years since I walked away from the relationship, I am working on forgiving myself for allowing it to go on so long. I actually stopped believing in Twin Flames because of what happened to me, and I think that more people should be aware of this type of situation. Part of my frustration was that I felt the spiritual community was brushing off my concerns, and that is wrong on so many levels. So, I need to say THANK YOU for bringing this to light Mary Jo, and I hope that more people become aware of the difference between Twin Flames and Plutonics.
My story too. I have one month and sixteen days since I have ghosted her. Um she losing my head all day rent free. I can't wait till snap out of this crap.
My husband’s Pluto is in Scorpio and is in conjunction with my Venus, mercury, and mars in Scorpio. His Pluto also squares my Aquarius moon. He’s very manipulative, narcissistic, and controlling. I’m working on getting away.
That's a difficult one but you should definitely exit.
I’m rooting for you. ❤
I did. 8 years. Not TF karmic. Taught me a lot of lessons. And I learned I deserve the moon and stars.
Whoa! Needed this today!!! Was curious what this connection was. Did our charts and mars square Pluto. My anxiety came back off the rails. And I withdrew. Then down the rabbit hole I went. Great timing. Thank you 🙏🏼
Okay. So, around 6:20 you say that if it is one sided it is NOT a Platonic relationship. Pluto conjunct, opposite and square your personal planets symbolize Twin Flame relationships, EXCEPT when it is one-sided, because then it is destructive transformation, (rather than ascendent transformation which occurs in a Twin Flame dynamic). This makes sense. Thank-you. So interesting. Both me an my Twin Flame have 5 Pluto placements. Sun conjunct Pluto, Pluto square Mercury, Pluto sextile Jupiter, Pluto Opposite Saturn, and X MC conjunct Pluto. We both experience ourselves as Twin Flames. It is so intense! Vice-versa. You really helped me understand that the challenging aspects of ones charts can also be positive when placed with the right divine person. Wow. Not that is as a easy. It just activates your Kundalini and self-awareness, through mirroring, shedding ego. So grateful to find you! I cannot wait to dive into your channel more. What a gift you are. Much goodness to you.
Wow. My abusive ex husband and I both have Pluto square each others mars. It’s a miracle we didn’t kill each other. 😱
If two people are Plutonic themselves and they are "twin flames" then the connection would likely still be Plutonic in some fashion. The archetype of Pluto also deals with deep transformation and I would say is a necessary component of a "twin flame" dynamic. It's TOO many HARD Pluto aspects in synastry/composite or an imbalance of Pluto (lopsided/unrequited) that are the problem. I think a lot of the things you're hitting on are important, but I think people should understand the difference also between a (hard) Plutonic connection vs. a powerful, potentially "twin flame" connection that still has some important Plutonic contacts in the synastry/composite. Also the composite/Davison would be more important than synastry imo, because that's the only way to see what the connection itself is about.
Also btw - the Pluto person (synastry wise) is the one who is likely to become desperately obsessed and the Planet person who will likely want to run the hell away, even if some part of them feels intrigued/magnetized.
I knew someone where almost every one of our personal planets were in the opposite sign (not all hard aspects) but moon conjunct in the same sign etc etc (our astrology is bonkers) - AND we were both "the Pluto person"...! Several times over (numerous Pluto contacts). Our meeting was definitely fated and we are definitely soul fam (and maybe even TFs, we have so many of the indicators)... but our relationship was also *very* Plutonic. The composite chart is very telling, clarifying a lot of the finer points that can get lost in all of this intensity. Took me years to heal - I don't usually even use this " TF" terminology anymore or watch videos... but once in a while one will pique my interest and I use it to see if I get triggered anymore. I came out of the clouds and can at least see the truth of things rather than being off the rails LOL. I know this isn't the first OR last time we've been together, I believe it will be easier next time around 😅
Doesn’t make it a healthy relationship!
This lady knows what she’s talking about! Pluto is hidden it knows how to disguise itself. You can go on thinking that things are so great then bam it happens out if nowhere. Plutonic relationships almost always end badly
And twin flames are RARE!! Maybe like 1%
The very reason we’re here on earth is to learn from ppl through painful lessons
Please study twin flames off youtube! Read and study it! And if you’re not emotionally evolved I can say with certainty that you probably haven’t met your twin flame! Everyone doesn’t even have a twin flame just like everyone doesn’t have a twin at birth its not common! Soulmates karmics and plutonics are far more common
My pluto square her venus, my moon square her pluto, my sun and jupiter square her pluto.
But i dont want to avoid the relationship. Definitely theres a reason behind why i met the person. Lesson and experience. ❤️
In my case it was a Catalyst Twinflame! But I was the Pluto squaring both his Sun and Mercury!! I don't know about him, but I was the one who significantly awakened spiritually!! It was intense!
So I met someone that their south node was conjunt my ascendant and north node. Their north node was conjunct my south node, sun mercury, and venus. Their venus is conjunct, my ascendant. Their sun is conjunct my antivertex and moon is conjunct my vertex. He would always tell my when I look at him he feels like I'm looking into his soul.
We both have plutonic placements in connection to our suns and quite a few other personal planets 😂 but it was actually quite positive bc we brought out a lot of growths from each individual and we mirror each other with a ton of synchronicities with our past lives and future goals just like TFs.. i would classify it as quite positive experiences and i would certainly love to build something together with this person. idk.. the line feels a little blurry here..
I think it depends on your personal chart I have sun conjunct Pluto and I feel like all my relationships have some Pluto aspects because of this. It's also not scary to me as much because I'm used to feeling that plutonic energy anyway.
Same. Pluto aspects on both sides... Ascendant, Sun, Mercury, both nodes, both MC. No sex at first site. The rest of the chart placements indicate a slow burn.
Thank you MJ. This was awesome. And helpful what with the MASSSSSSSSSIVE confusion out there on true twins, etc. much appreciated. ❤❤
The more I learn, the more convinced I'm in a twin flame relationship. I'd be willing to send you birth charts.
This was fantastic MJ thank you so much for always caring about our well-being’s. Your messages are always enlightening 🥰😎🎉🐾🕊️🌟
This could be one of the most important information to put out there, MJ... confusing a plutonic connection for a twin connection can have excrutiating, devastating effects precisely because the unconditional love simply isnt there as a shared component between the two as each navigates through the obstacles or darker seasons of the connection. One can tell sometimes- the difference between twin-pain, which can obviously include confusion as to whats next, loneliness and deep frustration, and plutonic-pain, many times resentful and angry and hungry for evidence that the other loves them. With twins, Love is, if anything, the clearest element, along with the Spiritual.
I'm the Pluto person...square his descendant, ascendant, Mars & opposition to him moon 🙈 It's a definite two way street of love and respect
Do you try to control the ascendant person?
Thank you for making a video on this topic
I realised much later that it was a plutonic and not twin flame
Starts at 16:00
How come it be that even if we both have pluto squaring the other person's moon, that there is so much mutual love and caring... Sometimes it seems to me as if we're both the pluto person for one another... I've been through heavily, plutonic relationships.. And they've mostly been one-sided on my end... I was obsessed with them but they didn't care. This time around this person was obsessed with me and I wasn't crushing on them... But fell in love with them because of them being so loving.. Still there's definitely some powerstruggle... It's like we're switching sides.. One time he chases, one time I do... Weird dynamic.
I’m in this dynamic as well. Both of our plutos square each other’s moon. I wonder if it creates a balance somehow because there really is mutual love and caring here and feels very much like twin flame. Huge mutual lessons and so much healing and growth.
@@colbeem4674 I absolutely agree... I also kinda have the feeling that in cases like that it is still a powerstruggle or heavy lesson... But it seems both individuals go through a very similar process.. And that somehow there is some kind of a balance to it in comparison to other plutonic relationships I've had.. Because both are going through kind of the same thing. I'm really curious what MJ has to say abt that (:
I personally still don’t think it’s a good relationship… you said this time he was obsessed with you & you were not interested at first… that doesn’t sounds like not a mutual loving relationship even if it eventually feels it turned into that!
But I honestly do t know because it’s not my life…
My advice is to really sit & think! And follow your intuition! 💫
@@natashaletourneau5368 yeah I agree. Well I guess in this case... It was more the fact that he was not my type.. But I still felt a strong connection and love for him. I even told him this in the beginning... I don't have a crush on you the way I usually have it... Rose tinted glasses and stuff... But I have lots of love for you... It was his personality and the way he treats me that made me fall in love with him.. Other than falling in love because he's so handsome you know....
For now, I pulled back a little because I realized where I'm being triggered... And that I really want him in my life but that there's obviously things that I need to work on within myself. So yeah.. For now that's exactly what I'm doing :) sit with it and listen to my gut. Which I think is the best way to handle any situation in life. Just thought it was interesting that it's obviously plutonic, but not in the way I experienced... Cause it seems to be mutual instead of one-sided.
@@spiritfiyuh11 do exactly what you feel you should & not what you THINK you should do or what others want you to do!!!
You know your relationship better than anyone else!
I’m 35 & have been in 2 horrible relationships… I thought I wasted YEARS of my life but realized it was a lesson & it brought me to know my true self! I plan on staying single until I can heal myself more… I’m not saying you need to do this but it’s different for everyone!
This channel helps me along with reading tarot for myself, journaling & learning every single placement in my chart! (Astrology is incredible to me!)
Do what YOU feel is best my friend & remember to not make any fast decisions… & to listen to your gut!
You are the only one who knows what is good for you! And also remember… there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back from any situation or relationship to think!
Best of luck to you both my friend!!!
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Wonderful explanation!! Got it!! Thank you MJ!🙏🌻💙
Kinda hard not to be plutonic when your 7th house is ruled by scorpio and also has pluto
Very insightful and helpful. ✨ 💯 Agree
Not true i feel he is a mirrore to me it's scary how talking to each other is like talking to oneself
my pluto conjunct his saturn
My pluto sextile his uranus
My pluto square his neptune. Please can you tell me if this is toxic, my north node trine his jupiter
My twin and I both have pluto square each other's moon. My pluto is square my moon and conjunct my sun in my birth chart. I feel that it balances out because we are both the pluto person and we are both the moon person.
Soulmates won’t have hard aspects squares, opposition, conjunction to Pluto in charts but soft aspects like venus trine Pluto is actually one soulmate aspect but again tight orb. I only allow 3 degree orb though on some things up to 5 but no more. It’s even better if it’s a dual his trine hers and hers trine his. My twin and I share a Venus - moon double/ dual.
How about a dual hard aspect like Mercury 7 squares Neptune 12 and Mercury 11 squares Neptune 15?
What about mars conjunct pluto exact aspect but venus trine pluto at 1 degree
Great video, thank you. Infinite ♾️ Blessings 🙌
Thanks for you❤
WOW. I need to think about this reading. Thank you MJ.
Idk if you’ll ever read this…
But my sister & I were 1 year & 3 days apart. (May 3rd 1987 & may 6th 1988) we were like twins but unfortunately she passed when we were 25 & 26… but our birth charts are so similar!!! I had no idea until right now… there’s a few differences but we both have almost the same chart!
I’d love to see a video on almost matching charts & how that can effect ppl!
Like my sister & I or like twins that are born at almost the same time… how it effects us! I know you’re a busy woman MJ but maybe one day you could touch on this??? I thank you for everything you’ve taught me!!! God bless 💫💫💫
Hmmm..
Now that you bring it up, I'd had a similar thought awhile back and I, for two (lol) would also be intrigued by MJ's perspective.. I know just reading your comment piqued my interest. And that's so cool what you and sis had going (so very sorry you lost her)!
@@sherriebrand1771 TY.!!!
Praying she sees this & finds time to teach us more on this subject!!!
So I TY!!! 💫
I have a twin chart with my husband. He was born 27hrs after me. We have all the same aspects double whammied.
@@elizabethkrupski5424 oh interesting!!!
I’m guessing you have a lot in common & like a lot of the same things!
Thank you, this was sooo helpful ❣️
This, is Uranian genius 💗. I needed this, thank you for explaining. MJ transiting Pluto newly in Aqua is going into my 5th.. I know never to fear lessons but I was stalked once and went through this before, the Plutonian themes with power, jealousy. Had to take out a restraining order on somebody obsessive and creepy and all that . I became obsessive also . I hope this isn't what this Planet will bring into this house. It'll oppose my Leo stellium 😓, My natal Pluto is in my Libra 1st. Aye ♥️♥️
You are the best!🤗
Taking back my power🙏🏻🕊🙏🏻I am simply amazing. And this is ok
I disagree. I was the Pluto person twice in hard aspects (conjunction, opposition) to their Sun and I was madly in love with both. Someone else's Pluto squares my Sun ... and I feel the same way.
The deepest loves.
I believe the energy goes both ways, with the Sun being mesmerizing by Pluto and Pluto feeling more trepidations due to fear of loosing the beloved (the Sun), who's independence is threatening. That's how I felt this from both perspectives.
@@Yps-o7o In your situation , the energy flows both ways. The easy aspect might be able to smooth the hard aspect out. But you'll definitely feel a stronger sexual chemistry and magnetic pull due to the hard aspect, which is not always a bad thing. The obsession could feel like a nuisance as you'll feel like you want to be with that person 24/7, codependency issues might be present :P
I've personally experienced a Trine and 2 Conjunctions. I was both Moon and Pluto. Moon can't let go of Pluto, the connection feels otherworldly. Too special to let go.
Moon - Pluto aspects are very deep, soulful. Also felt both ways, but Pluto is more powerful here. It feels almost like you want to cuddle with that person and pull her/him closer and closer until you become one. That's how deep it feels.
I've experienced 4 Sun-Pluto hard aspects.
If Pluto is the man and there is no previous history (a steonger foundation) between the 2 people, the relationship might not take off.
In Sun - Pluto hard aspects there is a lot of tension and ego clashes. Both people are very strong. The Sun wants Pluto badly and feels depressed about not being able to get through Pluto's walls (Pluto's baggage and darkness); there is a lot of resistance; the Sun feels as if he is hitting a wall in this relationship. Almost like trying to penetrate Pluto's darkness with his rays, but not being able to.
Pluto wants what it wants out of the relationship, and is not backing down.
Not to say that the Sun is right and Pluto is wrong. The Sun could be just infatuated with Pluto and not really take Pluto seriously ... and Pluto could feel that and back down, retreat or create boundaries.
All Pluto wants is the Sun, but not the way the Sun is ... rather transformed, a different version of the Sun, that makes the Pluto person feel more secure and confident about the relationship.
Depending who the Pluto person is.
Pluto person could be a person with good intentions or an opportunist (wanting to change the Sun for the wrong reasons).
There is a lot of anxiety present in this relationship.
The Sun is more confident to show his feelings and obsession. Pluto is feeling things as intensely, however, is keeping his obsession hidden. He does obsessive "work" without letting the Sun know. Pluto will be like a PA finding out everything about the Sun.
I feel the Sun is way way more obsessed in this contact than Pluto. Like, out of control obsession.
With Sun - Pluto hard aspects, the Sun wants to punch Pluto in the nose. That's how annoying the dynamic is. Sorry Pluto people!! 😂 ✌️
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Thank you for your insight.
If feel that as long as Pluto tries to change the Sun, it will never work.
No one likes to be forced/controlled, it is a recipe for resentment.
Plus, no growth can happen when things get forced & when there is an absence of acceptance of the other As they Are.
Ultimately, love accepts the other Totally, as they are, and would never want to alter/change the other for selfish ends.
If they do, then there was never any love in the first place..
Someone can only change from their own being, in a real soil of mutual acceptance, harmony, love.
Anything forced
will only backfire.
glad I walked away from pluto.
TECHNICAL QUESTION 🤔 How close do these aspects need to be in degrees? Anybody know? Many TIA
I’m curious about this too
It’s been 11 years in a plutonic relationship. Her Libra Pluto is conjunct my moon. BUT…my Scorpio Pluto is conjunct MY Venus. Several Saturn aspects as well. Thank you for this video.
I don’t agree with your analysis and suggestions. Full chart should be looked at. My Pluto is conjunct the mars and mercury of a man that I have strong feelings for and his Pluto is square my moon. I cater to him. We love each other although we are not together at the moment because of some childishness on both sides.
He has his Saturn conjunct my moon and that affects me too.
We have mars, Venus, Pluto and Jupiter conjunction in Scorpio in composite.
I’m the Pluto person 😭💔❤️🩹 his Scorpio Sun conjuncts my Scorpio Pluto… I have NEVER felt so undone and obsessive, like I NEED to be loved and seen by a partner the way I do with him. AND I HATE IT. And I’ve tried to leave off and on for almost three years because I can tell it affects him negatively despite this level of unconditional love between us… it feels like it’s the slow-undoing of me, trying to always get him to love me like I love him, but I also feel it’s too much pressure on him. Again, I’ve NEVER been like this in relationship with anyone else, so it confuses me constantly (his Venus is also in my 12H)… but it has been the most transformative, painful, longing relationship I’ve ever gone through. We currently live together but I’m aware this can’t last if we both want to be happy in love…it’s been a catalyst for extreme growth and healing in both of us and there is so much love between us that I always felt we were TF or karmics, but I feel the need to leave this for both our own good. I feel like I will always have a hole in me without him in my life now, but I think ultimately it will be for the best 💔❤️🩹
I was in a plutonic relationship for several years. I was the one hurt. Over a year later, I'm just getting my balance back. He was my kryponit.
This was so helpful…thank you
I'm not sure I understand. Unfortunately, with my personal planets the way they are it seems like anyone with Pluto in Virgo like me (1958 to 1971 I think) will square my moon, ascendant, Venus and nodes, and conjunct my Mars with that particular Pluto. Am I missing something?
I’m the plutonic person and I’m the one obsessed wtf😭
Wooooow this is absolutely crazy. Good I can check who is who around me so I can be on my game
What mean when Simeone pluto conjuction Nord of other person.And what mean when Simeone have in natal chart square or oposition with Venus.Specialy if Venus rule of Sun in women chart.
What happens when both people are plutonic?
Thank you MJ for this video
This is really interesting but I have twin flame synastry ( south node synastry/ascendant etc) but I have Pluto Synastry. I’m the Pluto person snd I care deeply about my person. So I’m confused.
His pluto square my venus. He died in a car accident. Our relationship progressed really quickly. We were inseparable for 10 weeks. A part of me felt he was using me bc i was more financially stable than he was. But now he’s gonna and I have no answers only a broken heart. And now i am involved in what feels like a one-sided relationship with someone we have very strong synastry but a double moon opposite pluto. My head is saying run but my heart is in a vice grip
You are the one who makes me want to pick up making videos about planetary alignments in a overview. Showing more than what you stated about singular aspects alone. Don’t forget that there is more than one aspect to consider. When there are A LOT of squares to Pluto in sensitive houses (depending on the planets) and with difficult Neptune, Sun and Uranus aspects to personal planets (mostly squares, oppositions and inconjunctions /quincunxes in all their charts). Yes! Then people should REALLY reconsider and think twice before they get too far in a connection. But you can’t state this argument for just one aspect on its own, in only one chart (synastry in this case).
Do it!!! Yay you!!
I believe i have a plutonic twin flame. But I am a scorpio though so perhaps that explains it idk.
Dear god i have a plutonic relationship with my mother!!!!!! ALL my personal planets are aspecting her damn pluto. She is quite controlling. Im not obsessed with her *shudders* but i do have intense codependent issues. I escaped ONCE and i flourished while she stalked and insulted me. I came back after i had a stroke and couldn't take care of myself. Truly a nightmare.
Yep yep yep....His Pluto (Libra 7th house) was Squaring my Venus ( Capricorn 10th house). So glad I saw it last year from your video. Took 4 years to find out. The growth lessons were huge 👏 😇 Thanks MJ ....
What if the Pluto aspects go both ways and both are obsessed lol
I don't always agree with this, I have Pluto opposite the Sun with my twin (we are ABSOLUTELY twins, proven by both a very talented medium who works with Charlotte of happy twins , but more importantly verified by the SCIO, and Ella of Return to one, which can see the twin ring in twins and verify them) now its not really a factor beyond this(I'm Pluto by the way and the divine feminine, they are the sun), but the way Pluto is read in evolutionary astrology is quite different than traditionally, and I tend to think BOTH have merit. oh even more importantly.... it's verified by me. Anyway we do both love each other, and I'm the divine feminine and the one who obviously seems like they care more, and this is opposite the picture you are painting (although he does play power games with his karmics, he's never really done that with me. and I'm Pluto not him)
Compatibility exists.
Divine synchronicity / harmony, yes.
Past-life encounters, very probably yes.
But “TF” is a human-made term / name / label,
a coined / invented word. A concept / beautiful invention.
That term TF is all based on Romanticism ( = repressed sex-energy ) running wild…
It appeals to the imagination /
the projecting Ego-entity.
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What about those of us who have alot of pluto, scorpio, and 8th house in our natal chart??
Great question
@@5050TM I am a Scorpio rising.. sun,moon,&saturn in 8th house.. sun&moon square pluto.. mars opposite pluto.. & venus sextile pluto. Also, my sun is exactly on my south node! I came into this life for these karmic experiences! It's for my spiritual growth. If I ran away that wouldn't have happened. I feel instead of running away..it's important to not get stuck in these relationships. Once the lesson is learned it ends. That's been my experience.
He’s got a Pluto square Venus in his natal chart
My Pluto trines his Venus, his Pluto trines my moon
I think we’re twin flames, I left another connect about all the synastry contacts on the vertex video. But he’s acting out his square. Also his Uranus opposite his moon.
Thank you MJ, holy comoly eh wuah. Gunna have to digest this one!
I'm curious as to the dynamic when the pluto connections go both ways. I have a situation where both our plutos square the others moon, my Pluto square his venus, and his pluto opposite my mars and wide aspect opposite my sun. It's intense!
I have all the worst ones with my TF 😅 My Sun, Venus and Mars all square his Pluto, but our connection isn't like the "Plutonic" one described (unless I'm just in denial about it 🤔)..
My Pluto squares his Sun too so that one goes both ways, but there are quite a few positive aspects also like my Sun, Venus, Mars (and Saturn exact) trine his Moon, my Moon sextile his Mercury and trine his Pluto, my Pluto trine his Jupiter, my Moon sextile his Neptune, my Saturn sextile his Sun, and a few others as well.
We're in "separation" (not dating).. but when I have been with him he's the most gentle person I've been with. He's extremely avoidant (and proud) but he's very "affectionate" in the way he interacts with me. No matter how "mad" or "crazy" I've been with him, he never "retaliates" (or negates), he just disappears..
He told me a couple of years ago that I'm "radically different" from anyone else he's met and he tells me I'm the sweetest person he knows.
When I've told him that I love him so much I've seen his eyes go red and watery with the most pained expression so I'm pretty sure there is real love as it wouldn't be like that if the person felt nothing on their end? He has said it to me before as well.
I've known this person 10 years now and have never really "chased" him, most of our connection has been me blocking his calls/approaches because it's too painful having contact with him when he can't give me a "real" (consistent/committed) relationship. I feel like he's come a long way in the past few years though, so maybe there's hope, or maybe not..
I've only recently gotten into astrology but looking at our charts I've found "signifiers" like my Venus conjunct his South Node, his Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct my Moon and Vertex, my Sun/Moon midpoint is near to his Vertex.
I read about Persona charts the other day so I looked at each of our Juno charts and was pretty blown away because they did seem to "reflect" each of us. His Vertex was conjunct the Ascendant on mine, and on his Juno chart, the Ascendant was my (natal) Ascendant (28 degrees Leo). That's pretty.. Crazy!
We both have 12th house stelliums (he has 6 planets there and I have the 4 personal ones). We're both psychologists.. Well, I am, he's done the degree and trying to transition into it.
Our composite chart has Sun and Pluto conjunct the Ascendant so it's pretty "plutonian" 🙈 With NN and Moon in the 5th, Jupiter in the 7th, Chiron in the 8th (and Venus still in the 12th like both of our natals, in Scorpio though). It also has 3 "yods" in the chart aspects. The Moon is at 29 degrees Pisces (so last degree of the zodiac) so completing a cycle? 💫 and Jupiter is at 0 degrees of Gemini (twins)..
I don't even *want* to believe in TFs and have always tried to stay away from it 😒
We both have Pluto in Scorpio in our charts, with his conjunct his Juno and Part of Fortune in the 10th/11th houses.
We have several of the "love" asteroids conjunct or aspecting each other..
But we're not together.. 🤡
He's still going through a lot as he lost his Dad a few years ago and his Mum's had a terminal cancer diagnosis in 2022 and that has been a lot of his focus. My life has been intense as f*** with family/work stuff the past few years as well.
I've always tried to keep my focus on myself and my needs (my NN is in Aries and so is his Moon).
Whenever I have contact with him he tells me he misses me and wants to see me, but I can't/won't do that while he's drinking etc.
No matter how many times I've told myself to forget this person, or how long I've gone without contact, I just love him even more, it's maddening.
Maybe we're meant to work together in the future? 😭 Or maybe he's a "damaged beyond repair" type and I just haven't figured it out yet 💔
Such a mind-bending connection..
I'm the Pluto person and I feel he's the one playing with me.. I was on a pedestal then devalued then I leave him alone and he keeps coming back?! But then starts to pull away again. I had to block him today, it sucks all my energy up.
What if the DM pluto is trine my ascendant and my pluto is square their venus?
Ok but what if you have this but other Venus karmic aspects mixed into the synastry both ways? Because I’m Pluto but I still feel love for them?
What a wonderful explanation of Plutonic and Twin Flames! Thank you! 💜
Hi MJ I am very interested in more information... i really believe he is my twin, but what you're saying is making me really wonder. Where could i send my chart. Its been off and on for 15 years.
Still can’t get clear on this…we have reciprocal Pluto squares to sun and Venus. Hers to mine,mine to hers.There’s no lopsidedness. Same birthday/date. So Is it a harmful plutonic relationship?
Yes I'm wondering about it going back and forth. And what if the connection is peaceful?
Very stable . Probably wouldn’t have been had we met when we were younger. This connection now comes with much more selfunderstanding and consciousness. Our opposing asc dec makes it a balancing act but fun for getting things done .
What if one has Pluto trine sun and other has Pluto trine moon? Also vertex conjuct ascendant with moon conjuct north node? Would that still be a plutonium relationship. (North node and moon in scorpio as well)
What about if I’m Pluto first house and 12th house Scorpio rising and she’s Scorpio mars?
Elizabeth Clare prophet was a twin flame, she speaks about astrology and everything in her chart and marks they should’ve never of been together!
It was my devine birthrights to lessons for beyond measure abundance. I learned sooooooo much about self source and universe and 1111. It was amazing then it wasn't and it ended. I was confused and hurting after I left but all that was actually beautiful and I now have no sadness or shame for getting myself into it. It was fated because idk about him because I havnt looked for where he's at in life I respect others privacy because ppl don't have the same respect for my life lol I don't want to be like the ppl who stalk me etc idc but it was hard lessons I had to learn in a really harsh way and I'm so grateful for it and im grateful for my huge growth and my Lord and my blessings of and for The Devine. It wasn't the devil it was father teaching me the things I needed to know and change about ME. THIS READ IS SO GREAT. I've watched you since late 2017. I missed alot of your reads the last few years because I have been moving upwards and busy healing etc etc and NOW I'm back circled back around the circle of life's flow and here your reads are popping up in my autoplay no matter if I'm listening to music or MEL ROBBINS. LOVE TO BOTH YOU AND MEL. YOUR NEW HOME IS DEVINE AND YOU LOOK AMAZING BEYOND MEASURE. Love to Charlie too. 🥰😇😇🤩😍🤍🤍🤍🤍💫🕊 🕊 🕊
Example of as within so without? My plutonic partner and myself, always played a video game together right. We could NEVER get past the 35th level. Oh how much they can teach us though!! We finally gave up on everything, it's a stalemate! Shine on M.j. 💚 You rock!!
My ex can’t let go of his ex and now I know why it’s because her Pluto sits on his sun 😢 it’s so sad but he keeps getting pulled back by her
My ex sun same as my Pluto wow in 3 years he is chasing me I feel sorry for him😢
My ex's sun is on my pluto but, he treated me badly. I did most of the loving.
The whole chart needs to be analysed, you can't just run with one feature.
This is not entirely accurate it isn't just one way with double whammys. I'm with a pluto man and we have lots of DW W pluto to our personal planets. As well as easy Saturn aspects and and jupiter conjunct juno. We are both plutonic people and we don't find our relationship toxic or power gamed. We are fiercely protective of each other and won't let anyone become between us to kick jealousy to the curb. You forgot to also mention pluto is a deep deep love not only psychically but emotionally too.
This is what I'm saying. My 7th house is ruled by Scorpio and has Pluto in it and we have all our Pluto connections as double whammy. 😅
I've just spent the last 6 months questioning a relationship I've been caught up in who was appearing like a twin but just checked out their Pluto and they're opposite my sun! I nearly fell off my chair! Ha ha thankyou for the clarity, Finally, I'm out!!! And free for something way better 😄 Thank you MJ !!!🥰🥰🥰 what a ride life is!
where r the other videos? :D
Trouble is the person l have been communicating with l don't know his birthday ,he is older l am 68 he is about 75 ,76 l think but he just keeps coming g back,l do know he has ego,but has been reay hurt like me &he is a psychologist ??
i'm in the most pleasant relationship now and we only have my pluto trine his node and my pluto opposite his ascendant. his desc is also conjunct my asc so it's like a mirror image. he's the most pleasant man. our moons are both conjuct in libra. he is seven years younger that i am.
Thank You 😅
I wish I didn't wait so long to watch this. But what does someone do once the damage is done?
Wow, wow, WOW. Your words are SO TRUE. I am in astrology school right now, I came to astrology to learn about myself and relationships and to help others. I met someone a year ago that I have had a very explosive off and on.... well, I can't even call it a "relationship" in the traditional sense. But yeah. I have Aries, Mars, Jupiter, and Chiron in my 7th house so I'm going to attract very "martian" wounded men. This one is just that and has Mars conjunct his ascendant. He leads the room with Mars, is very alpha and fiery. Myself, I have Pluto on my ascendant 😬 so I'm the Plutonian here that you speak of. I've identified our relationship as being lessons and issues about power and control, but it's because he wants to dominate me and be forceful. And you are right, I don't feel much at all at this point but it's because there has been so much clashing and challenge, at least that's what I'm telling myself. I can't be with him until I feel seen and feel like I matter when in his presence, which I don't seem to at the moment. I probably need to look at myself though, is what I'm gettting from your video.
Pluto is not a “bad” planet. Just like other planets and signs, you can embody the lower vibration or the higher vibration. Plutonic/Scorpionic people (people with stronger Pluto/Scorpio placements) exist for a reason and without which, there would be no deep transformational change. I just took a look at our synastry chart and we have multiple aspects between both of our Plutos… so we are transforming each other. It just seems like you are demonizing the Plutonic person, but again, it really depends on the person and how able they are to embody the higher vibration of Pluto. My 2 cents as a Plutonic person on a spiritual Journey. ❤
Have pluto conjunct connections in synastry and I have nothing but ❤️ love!
I wish I knew this 20 years ago. I’ve been married to my plutonic and it’s been such a difficult connection.
I have my Pluto in Scorpio 1st house, and he has his Pluto in Scorpio 7th house. Both Geminis, he's Taurus ascendant 1st house and i'm Scorpio Ascendant 1st house. Almost every house is 6 houses apart in the same signs or complete opposite signs. But there is no complete overlap in houses
Thank you so much for this video MJ it was soooooo enlightening, information is power! I think both my 'big'/significant relationships have both been plutonic but one towards me & one where I unknowingly was the plutonic person! Do you often see this occurring as cyclical pattern in people? Its definitely one I'm working hard on healing so I dont repeat either lesson! Thank you for sharing your insights & research, your light shines so brightly 🙏 ✨️ x
I have pisces rising, aries north node and personal planets in sag and scorpio. Venus-pluto are conjunct. So, a person with pluto in scorpio or sag will conjunct my personal planets, a libra pluto will be opposite my north node, and virgo pluto will be in my 7 house. So that rules out almost everyone for me. Any suggestions here?
What's been your experience with Venus opposite Pluto? I'm the Venus person, and I think he's just as obssessed as I am. It's the most wonderful and painful relationship I've ever had.
Uhmmm, I am the plutonic person but I do care about him. I did research and dig deeper with our connection. Why I am drawn to him even after breaking up thrice until I gathered a lot of courage that it was not working at all after giving it several chances. Also, I am too overwhelmed with the power struggles and the obsession ( I am even surprised I become like this). I feel drained and out of control so I decided to break away and have no contact with him. I don't want us to be in pain while the issues keep on repeating even I tried to communicate those with him. We both hurt each other but it doesn't mean I didn't love him at all. 😢
So i have my pluto on my MIL’s asc, she has become obsessed with me and vying for me but if i ever show interest in her interests, she will immediately disengage emotionally because she feels validated in herself and she got what she wanted from me. Her pluto opposes my mars and she strives to have absolute power over me. Her saturn conjuncts my moon lilith and pluto so this could be why she disengages emotionally. Also her moon aspects my asc and i feel like a victim to her. Ive had to stop working because her abuse towards me was so great and unnerving on a sadistic level ive never encountered in anyone, that i felt crippled mentally emotionally psychologically borderline i didnt want to be around anymore. Ive been healing for years now but she hasnt changed and im learning to let go more and more.
What if both of our Pluto 's are in Virgo? We have 7 planets that are the same.
How significant are his pluto in my 8th house, my Pluto conjunct his IC, my north node conjunct his pluto, my sun square his pluto, and his pluto square my moon?
Thank you very much for this Podcast. How do you see real love in Synastrie? Once Jupiter conjunct others Venus?
Wow, MJ! Thank you for this clarity! I have multiple people in my energy and I was questioning my TF because of two of them but specifically the one that has been actively pursuing me more than the others. I have known him for years. But thanks to your teachings I now know that I am his Pluto. It’s interesting because it looks like we both are each other’s Pluto. His Pluto is square my mars and MC and my Pluto is squared his Moon and also in the same sign as his north node. His Pluto is close to my south node but in the sign next to my south node. Also, his Pluto is almost on top of my Vertex in Libra and we share the same Moon sign which his Vertex is in as well. What does it mean if we both have these Pluto placements/alignments? Does that mean it would be very toxic? We have a ton of planets that are communicating in our charts too! Thanks for this info! 🤯🙏❤️
Yeah I just checked and I have similar stuff going on. His pluto squares my moon and my pluto squares his moon.... We have mutual love for each other, I have been trough some really heavy plutonic relationships... And they felt completely different. I was obsessed with these people, beyond healthy. I don't have that with him.... In all actuality he was approaching me ever since we first met.. We both don't wanna lose touch with one another, because we both feel home when being with each other.. Still things don't work out the way I wish it would.... I was not in love with him when I first met him, he absolutely adored me... But I couldn't help but feeling home when being with him, I felt drawn to him, like he belonged into my life... It's not the typical plutonic vibe I'm used to.. Eventhough there for sure is some power struggle going on in a way that we're like black and white when it comes to the way we approach life and people in general... But there's a deep rooted love for one another...
I listen to you everyday Jo. I really unsure why I’m just now noticing this series of twin flame..ha!
What if we both have Scorpio Pluto Conjunct?
What does it mean in a synastry chart when each persons pluto is in adjacent houses? They can’t see each other? I’m confused. I tried looking it up and just don’t have the resources to find a good answer.
What if you factored in an one of them being a narcissist? Not just a few of the traits, a true narcissist? Anyone? Ideas? Thoughts?
Yes- Run!
release get out of there
Yes
What's sun square pluto and pluto conjunct pluto?
Thank you for this information, it is very useful and I have so many questions like are there NEVER good Pluto aspects in a synastry chart?!? like is a Pluto in Virgo trining my natal Venus in taurus a light hearted fated lesson? and is my Pluto is conjoint their moon and Jupiter in Libra indications of an Ego activation in them?
What if both have pluto on each others charts. Like 2 on the female and 4 on the male???? Does that mean each other will be obsessed with each other?