Asking Hijabi Women if she is forced to wear the Hijab!?
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Your actions depend on your intentions. Having pure intentions is better than fake actions. Wear it with the right intentions. Not for your parents or anything else.
Exactly
Yes, parents are very bad and want the bad things for theire daughters. I wonder why muslim girls u try to be liberal ?? Alhamdu llilah that our Deen based on men, and not on u
Nah ur stfu thats obliged in Islan u *HAVE* to wear it u dont have any choice or just accept that ur sinning dont normalize sinning
I think that’s what she tried to say lowkey
You are completely incorrect...so what you instantiating is if i will not do it with pure intention its better to not perform the action...think about what you are saying...if you dont have pure intention of makinging sallah the its better to not do it? Respect you are inccorect...you perform the action for what ever reason should it be beneficial for you and ask for guidance
She isn't talking about choice..why are all of us soo damn offended...she is saying don't wear to please a person...and it shouldn't be forced...what this woman is saying is completely fine..
You guys plz stop arguing and educate yourself on these type of matters.. forcing something in the name of religion is not good it leads to a person starting to Hate that thing for example just like hitting a child while teaching them Quran is wrong telling a person to wear hijab to please other people is also wrong.. that women in the video is on point right..stop making religion toxic.. the matter of a believer is between Allah nd the believer no other person has a say..
Edit 2) all of u stop making religion toxic
Youre supposed to wear it to please Allah before anybody else. If we had just established how hijab completes a muslim women, then we wouldn't have to deal with the issue of forcing it as much
Yeah she said "I don't think they should wear it if they're not ready " but Islam is submission to Allah and if we wait till we a actually feel ready well lose much time , plus who can guarantee to us that we'd live till we are ready , it is a commandment of allah and as muslims we believe that Allah knows and commands us to what's beneficial for us, also as muslims we are commanded to advise on the good and speak up against evil or sin and not wearing hijab is indeed a sin and shouldn't be normalized, without being judgemental and harsh may allah guide us all much love ❤
Nope that’s not what she said.
@@nouhailaaminialaoui6292but you're not one to judge it's between her and Allah.
Lowering the gaze, and covering the modesty isn't a choice for a muslim. But u're free to choose the sin.
Sister spoke nothing but truth but ofc our judgey community has to come after her. Funny how its mostly men too.
So I’m not ready to provide for my wife can I make her provide for herself until I’m ready?
@Yasmin H fuck ur pedophile prophet...go blow up some school....muzzie
@@Oooooooo797 if you’re not ready to provide for ur wife then u shouldn’t get married yet
@@Jentlefairy I’m being sarcastic but what if I get married and feel like not doing it anymore and am not ready can I stop now caus according to this women religion depends on how u feel
@@Oooooooo797 well you could, but you’d be sinful for it. Same as the hijab, u could wait until u feel "ready", but still you’d be sinning
She's saying wear it when you're ready: meaning, wear it when you know your intentions / the reason you are wearing it is for Allah, not because you want to please others.
You should wear it regardless. And work on your intention at the same time. That’s like your parents telling you to pray and you not praying because your parents told you to. Of course you should then pray because your parents told you and though you might not have the intention of praying you’re still fulfilling your obligations being listening and obeying your parents and worshipping Allah swt. Likewise with hijab.
@@murtza_6640 Thing is in the western world, this mentality will only push muslim girls away from Islam. They will feel forced and alienated, and grow to hate the hijab
@@murtza_6640if its forced poeple leave. Thats bot love to god. Its just not
Do you know how hijab originated? Do you know what Islam is? Do you know the sexual life of your prophet Muhammad? How he got married to a 6 yr old kid? Did you know that poor little kid had to wash the semen of your so called prophet Sahih Al Bukhari 232. He was not a prophet but a sex addict who did nasty things with that kid and also with his son's wife zainab. How can a prophet do something like that? How can a prophet ask his wife who was still small to breastfeed another grown man? How can a prophet own sex slaves and have sex with them? How can a prophet kill innocent people? How can a prophet have sex with a dead body? How can yall worship an evil and then act all saint by wearing hijab and shit? How do you guys believe that there are 72 virgins in heaven? What about women what do they get? Infact your allah considers y'all as half mind and a farm just to produce babies Quran 2:223. There are no 72 virgins in heaven cuz heaven is not a brothel where you have orgies🤦 Disgusting
Recently, I have been feeling bad about myself for not wearing hijab. All my close friends at school wear it and I feel left out. I feel like I don't know how to start, how to convince my parents and more. I even cried and don't feel good about myself.
As a hijabbi I support what she said. I choose to wear it myself after I grew up and my father told me that if I am not ready I shouldn't force myself to do it because at the end of the day it is my life and my beliefs and my Deen and every one is responsible for his life and his choices.
May Allah guide us all through the right path
Alhumdullillah
At least the girls who wore out of fear and so on they won't get bad deeds in their scale. Plus the objective of hijab will be fulfilled cuz the intent was to protect the society as a whole. The prophet commanded us to judge and shame ppl.
@@kakashizet7496the Prophet Pbuh never told us to judge people and shame them. My Allah SWT is The Sole Judge. Muhammad Saw taught us to advise others about right and wrong. Why would he even shame people, Peace and Blessings of ALLAH SWT be upon him.
@@gmb2305 yes he did, he told us to make them stop by hand if we can, if we can't to at least call them out on it, if we can't to at least hate what they're doing. nowadays people want to do what ever they want and when you call them out on their BS they'll hide behind "you can't judge" "muslims shouldn't judge"....so I will gladly call ur bs whenever I see you're trying to normalize a sin under "no judgment" cover. We should hold people accountable that's what Allah ordered. This no judgment thing is a copout to eradicate shame from the community, I see it a s a trojan horse in the ummah.
@@kakashizet7496 5:99 The Messenger's sole duty is to deliver the message, 28:56 You cannot guide whoever you please: it is Allah who guides whom he will. He best knows those who accept guidance. 88:21-22 So, [O prophet] remind: You are only a reminder. You are not their controller over them.
@@tacorito1809 doesn't negate the fact he told us to condemn, judge, shame put stigma around it. y'all want to eradicate shame from society.
shame is a good thing that protects the society's value. I'm all for shaming bad behavior if its's warranted.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'One of the sayings of the early Prophets which the people have got is: If you don't feel ashamed (from Haya': pious shyness from committing religeous indiscretions) do whatever you like." (See Hadith No 690, 691, Vol 4).
let me ask you this, if we are under Islamic rule are Muslim women allowed to run around with short shorts and claim "I oNlY dO iT fOr GoD", "YoU cAn'T fOrCe Me"?, there're things that will be forced to protect the values if the people.
Imagine this was said to any other obligation.
You shouldn’t pray, fast, or speak words that are befitting, only do those when you are ready.
With all due respect, we don’t have a choice if Allah told us to do something.
Edit: People keep saying hijab isn't part of the 5 pillars of Islam, this is true, but I'm sorry to say, there are many things that are obligatory and are NOT part of the 5 pillars (obeying parents, lowering the gaze, hijab, not imitating the opposite gender, among many other obligations).
Please learn your religion before looking at Islam with a liberal lens.
She's trying hard to portray herself as a liberal.
So would u prefer that a girl wears the hijab and not mean it or just not take part in the religion altogether?
Yes
The main thing is we should do fast or prayer or hijaab only for Allah with all our heart. That's when Allah connects with us. But if you are doing to just show ppl. And don't even feel it inside you. And are not doing out of love for Allah but just to show ppl then what's the point. That's not your faith in Allah. That's just to pretend. And Allah don't accepts it. So i hope you get the point.
If your force girls to wear it they will hate it and remove it behind their parents back. Those kind of girls at usually the ones that end up rebelling and acting wild at some point.
I was never pressured to wear it and I did eventually on my own choice and now I even wear abaya and I love it.
As a Muslim girl i feel this. Wearing a hijab because my family "says" i have to. Not because i want to. It sometimes suffocates me because of all the pressure my family has put on me. It makes me hate the hijab itself, because of my family 😔.
Edit: thank you for all the wonderful replies:) I am slowly trying to learn and understand more.
Also please consider the community pressure on you that pushes you to go sideways, at least your family is pushing toward a positive thing
@@samiraliraqi92 I don't know whats worse man. I just wanted to state what i feel
@@Gilsbunny6 just take it easy on yourself, you don't have to prove anything to anyone, worship Allah and your life will be balanced and you will win
I understand. I myself have been through the same situation. In order to make the situation better, understand why you're doing it first, and for Whom. And before you even wear your hijab, I want you to start reading more about Islam, truly connect with Allah. And once your heart is attached to Allah, the rest of His commandments will come naturally to you. Your hijab is not for your family. It is for Allah (SWT), your Creator, the most Loving, the most Merciful.
I pray that Allah (SWT) makes the journey easier for you. Ameen.
Than i say you should learn about the background story about why we wear it. No don't ask your parents research it I'm sure we have so much time. The thing is parents don't tell them the real reason and so they start to hate it. But when you learn about it I'm sure you'll love wearing it. I too didn't wear it before but like a miracle me and my family got Islamic education by right and educative teachers and now I love hijab more than my life like i would give up my life my youth my everything but would never take it off. Cause i don't understand why people make it look offensive of oppressed when it's just a small piece of cloth. And Allah said if you're in danger for yout hijab you're allowed to take it off. When your life or someone you love is in danger for hijab you can take it off now think why did he say that cause he knew that in this time people would kill those who would wear it. We're not forced to wear hijab listen girls. You can wear it when you think you're not in danger and Allah is merciful he'll forgive you. It's just that you should just learn a little bit...
Correction. ALLAH is not a person.first think and then talk.
Correction she said everything right except deity. It’s haram to pick at the small mistakes a person makes as well. So than I return, first think than comment.
Agree
@@ybbbb1055 no Muslim would allow you to call Allah a person correcting that is not a minor mistake.
@@akramfara8210 small mistake when it comes to speaking. She doesn’t believe that god is a person. Wallah use common sense
@@ybbbb1055Your right, it was a small grammatical mistake, by nature we tend to humanize things beyond our realm of comprehension. Hard to know what to call an infinite independent being whose all powerful, all knowing and all wise lol. Her saying “person” is basically saying “whatever is up there”, because we know its God, but we don’t know his composition.
She has a point. Instead of just attacking try to understand this. If they are forced they will only learn to be rebellious towards islam and Allah. Yes it is a command and should be followed it should not be forced.
a command is a command. it's not being forced it's just parents that want they're children to do the right thing
@@joshuapowell9002 doing the right thing out of love for the One above IS VASTLY different from doing the right thing because you simply fear repercussions from your parents or those around you. Wearing hijab out of fear of being harmed in any way, makes the act null, and will further separate these poor souls from God.
But the reality is they are forced to wear shit like this in muslim majority countries, don't trip🙄🙄 Idgaf about shit on paper, what's happening in reality is what actually matters. In Iran for example, if.police stops ypu on the road, they won't immediately ask you about your driver's license, but they will ask why you don't cover yourself, cuz that's more important apparently.
@@joshuapowell9002 The parents should raise their daughters in such a way that she chooses to wear the hijab then.
@@joshuapowell9002 forcing hijab is haram lmao
As a Muslim women, your never “ready” to wear the hijab ESPECIALLY in America. Wear it because Allah told you to and that’s it, not when you feel like it.
Edit: many people in the comments are getting me misunderstood. Islam like other religions has obligatory rules like the five daily prays, fasting, and wearing the hijab. Of course, us muslim women can choose to obey or disobey Allah’s commandments BUT they’re isn’t a time your magically ready to wear it, because what women wants cover their beauty and get treated differently then other because of how they dress. Allah should be your only concern for wearing the hijab and CHOOSING NOT TO WEAR IT DOESN’T MAKE YOU A NON-MUSLIM, just someone who disobeyed Allah.
Well then they will never wear it. If some magical man is talking to them they have Schizophrenia😂
Only reason they wear is because their religion has either forced them to or they are scared they might burn in the hell fire... Not cause they want to..
@@ahahahhhahsilly so muslim men don't have trust in Allah than.. Otherwise they would be wearing the hijab right..!
Thank you. I always hate it when Muslims like her say this. You don’t wear the hijab when you’re “ready” you wear it coz allah told you to. It’s like saying start praying when you’re ready, start fasting Ramadan when you’re ready. It doesn’t matter if you’re ready or not the point is allah commanded it therefore it must be done.
@Ayan Khalif this is why some people are Atheist. I will not talk about Allah, but God. What's the point of going to church or worship if you do not believe in your heart or you dont have faith
As a Muslim, I’m seeing these comments and I feel like some of you are misunderstanding.
1) Hijab is compulsory ✅
2) she is saying it’s not good to be forced into wearing the hijab
3) forcing someone to do something in islam is NOT promoted- even it is mention in the Quran
Overall, she is saying it’s better to wear the hijab naturally bc u have a better intention and u are doing it solely for God, if u are forced you will feel either anger or negativity towards it and therefore will feel the urge to remove it bc ur not wearing it for the right reasons.
a command is a command point blank period
Fair, but does this apply in Muslim majority countries? What are the consequences of doing what you mentioned in point 3 in places such as Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan, etc?
@@joshuapowell9002it’s no a command the fuck
U people are not islam stop clathrate shit. U Muslims make Islamic’s look fucking terrible
@@joshuapowell9002 man stfu you people all act like you’re saints and don’t commit sins yourselves. Stop judging people, YOU ARE NOT GOD
literally every girl in my highschool who used to wear a hijab has stopped now, probably cos they no longer live with parents, or even when they were wearing it, many of them would post pics without it
Cuse theyre adult liberals now
24% of youth are leaving islam once they get out of the house.
@@justabean6113 >> yea, but doesn't that happen with every religion?""
Ummm, no, 24% is CRAZY, that is why the imams are worried and talking about it. And i dont know if every religion is like that.
@@macmac1022 no not really
@@divyaa4459 >> no not really""
Then why are muslim imams saying that?
Hair is not as important as wearing tight cloths. Some Muslim girls wear hijab and cover their hair but wear some tight cloths. The whole purpose is for you to not attract male attention and hair does not attract male attention as much as the tight cloths.
Finally someone like mee
Both are important. It's not one or the other. A bald women is not as attractive as a women with thick luscious hair. Hijab is not just covering the hair. Hijab means a veil between the woman whole body and the eyes of other people
@@samsalot6115right
The fact that they have to work to not attract male attention... Like the men are animals with no self control... If hair or a bit tight clothes is all it takes to lose control and blame the woman for it is insanity 😂
The whole purpose is to obey His commands not attracting the attention is a wisdom but not the main goal.
That’s one of the best way I’ve heard this explained
The issue is, it's a sin not to wear it....
So in other words you are justifying sin, which is NEVER EVER okay!
IF you feel you are not worthy of thru hijab, strive to become better!
And hijab will help you on that path!
Instead of making stupid comments like this, and listening to shaitan (and his supporters), go education yourselfs!
Or ask the local Imam, if you are uncertain, DO NOT make comments without ilm!
And when was gender mixing okay in Islam?!
You guys are changing the religion, THIS is not our way!
If a man is turned on by hair, he is the problem😂
so you would have no problem having a bald wife ?
@esther.6965 the problem is people speaking out for hijabs when they themselves don't wear the hijab or are not muslim.
@blessmeachoomarkmadcity yes l am proudly Christian. I worship the true God not some idol who oppresses women. In my faith men will be held accountable for their lusts. In your religion, women are blamed for a man's lust. No wonder most redpillers are Muslim.😂😂😂. Can't take accountability for the lusts of their own flesh.
I've seen posts on Facebook that a man was saying a woman wearing a black burkha shouldn't have colourful patterns on it because apparently even that is enough for sexually frustrated people like him. He deleted the post because there was so much backlash but the way he was dragged lmao
Who the heck is saying men are turned on by hair? The rule in Islam is that tell believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts, and tell the believing women to lower their gaze and cover up.
Both men and women have a duty to play in society so that society does not fall apart. Men are told to control their lust, women are told to withhold their beauty except for their husbands. Unlike in today’s society where women are “free” and go around being promiscuous and society setting unrealistic beauty standards for women where their worth and value is deemed if they freely show themselves to men, I think it is your society that is the problem and not Islam.
Hats of to this lady, her pov is the best I have ever heard.
May Allah guide you or strike your neck with a blow and destroy you.
The Heretic American is wrong. How you feel becomes irrelevant when it comes to acting upon Islamic legislation. And when it comes to Following the orders of Allah.
To him we belong and to him we return.
You will surely enjoy answering Allah about why you can justify disobedience to Allah and his messenger
no
she is basically telling them to sin
hijabs off to this lady
It’s not about when they’re ready, it’s discipline. Do you think men and women are ready to pray EVERY single day? No!! But discipline is how it gets done. Also, if you’re waiting on a feeling, isn’t it natural when there’ll be days when you don’t want to do it?! Wallahi what is going on with women today
Yes but she should discipline herself. People can advise her that she is following her desires ...etc .
She just passed a judgement on alot of people without even knowing about it. It's seriously offensive and sinful.
@@hobaelala3056 discipline is key for both men and women to succeed in the religion
@@jya5467 it is problematic that she said that but what’s more problematic is that there’s millions of women just like her across the world who need to get advice
@@TyrantJ95 everyone is different. I know a lot of Muslim girls from high school, work… and a lot of them that have been covering their head with a hajab eventually stopped wearing them while a few of them who didn’t wear hajab’s in high school started wearing them afterwards. So each person is different and I also don’t get why do Muslim guys get so mad when a Muslim girl doesn’t wear a hajab or they wear western clothes cause the Muslim guys themselves don’t walk around wearing their traditional clothes or wearing the hats that some uncles wear so why do y’all expect the girls to dress and stay like the 1960’s
Need to get these people off TH-cam speaking on Islam. Whether you want to wear it or not it is a commandment from Allah SWT - there no ifs, buts or maybes. May Allah guide us all
Aameen
Aameen
@@Iluvchickenfry @Dango I'm so sorry but if people are out in the public domain spouting such nonsense then it needs to be addressed. Hold this view in private if you want though it is clear, if you are a Muslim it is fardh on you so you must wear it and if it is your child you are within your rights as a parent to force on your parents but also your right to teach your children why it is is important and fardh.
@@aslamp482If Your Parents are forcing you to wear hijab then is it really you following Allah's commandment? A woman has to have the intention of pleasing god and wearing hijab and covering their hair. Your parents are responsible for teaching and advising you, they can't just force hijab on you. you are not listening to Allah, You are being controlled and are doing it because of pleasing other people, not Allah, a parent should always advise their children and guide them through the basic knowledge of Islam and to have a proper relationship with Allah. You can't just force them to wear Hijab just because another person thinks you should wear it. You should do it for the purpose of pleasing Allah and not other people.
@@aslamp482 forcing someone to do something that they have no understanding of or simply don't want to doesn't lead them anywhere but astray. So many women are forced to wear it, the minute their parents look away, the hijab is off. Forcing or being so strict creates children that lie, hide and do numerous questionable things. They become sneaky and do everything against Islam. I've seen many women who've never worn hijab their entire life and have been more islamic than those whose parents have forced them to. Many wear hijab by choice after understanding their religion. Parents are there to guide and make them understand not force their teachings on them.
I'm actually agreed with her. As hijjabis girl, I started wearing one when I'm 10yo. I do it myself. No one forced me. The way my parent taught me to love hijjab, just let me wear it and take it off once you felt uncomfortable. They never force me. Just everytime we going shopping or visit my external family they will asked me to wear one and when I felt uncomfortable I asked them if I can't take it off.. When you get used to it trust me you afraid to take it off..
Delete this comment. There is nothing inherently wrong but you are agreeing with the American Heretic
u shouldn't agree
You: "I do it myself. No one forced me."
Also you: "The way my parent taught me to love hijab..." & "Just everytime we going shopping or visit my external family they will asked me to wear one..."
You've been brainwashed, you ignorant cultist🙄🙄🙄🤦🏻♀️
I was the opposite. Forced to wear it at 9 years old. It resulted in me taking it off later in life and now im in my mid 20sand still dont feel ready to wear it for good. If i took my time the first time and chose it myslef i would not be feeling so conflicted on it @joshuapowell9002
Person up there 🤦🏽♂️.
She's not wrong
@@leonardomedrano1879 I believe he is talking about sniko
@@JafferBasha14 😂😂😂
@Black Kaizer the most weirdest part here, is the least modest guy asking a modest girl about why she is not perfect or that other Muslim women
@@JafferBasha14 she may be modest, but she is not the one to follow
Its not I THINK, there is no think when god commands, either you do or you don't
Exactly
So, you rather they just left the religion?
@@Yeah5555ful I didn't understand what you said?
@@Yeah5555ful yes I think that's better....if a person don't believe in religion and their community is not giving enough space to that person so that person can realise and feel the love from the heart for the religion....it's better to leave that religion because it mean that's a false religion
@@princeyranjan8080i love how they’re talking about theres no ‘i think’ in a religion and then you put what you think…
She is not a girl to represent Muslims.
Yes she is. Getting puberty all of a sudden isn’t immediately ready. Muslim women wear hijab to please the Creator not the creation. If she doesn’t wear it’s sinning but there is no compulsion in Islam.
@@valid2043 it is compulsory, you dumb ***
@@valid2043 It’s sinning, you’re saying it’s sinning like it’s a good thing. It’s sinning, so it’s prohibited, so it’s compulsory to wear it. End of.
@@valid2043
The problem with her is she believes someone should only wear it when they are ready. Not at all, if you are Muslim you should obey your God and its not simply a matter of doing good when you feel like it.
@@hl8302 your right but doesn’t everybody sin, she is trying to please creator not you. I’m not saying she sinning like a good thing, she can repent every single day. Of course it’s a must but there’s also no forcing allowed wether you like it or not.
this poor woman can’t even get a chair to sit in while these two sit down?? ugh
Whats your point. You watched a clip you fucking retard
It’s their show bro.
Yah lol
@@watermxlonsvgar you’d think they’d be a gentleman to their guests,no? U would entertain someone and have them stand up?
@@muraismybby4617 dude exactly. it’s just common courtesy. seems so weird she’s just standing there while everyone else is talking and sitting. super disrespectful imo but i don’t hang with people like that either so lol
It's like
Im a guy and im not ready to take off my eyes from woman
Imma do it when "im ready" 😂
Are people forced to wear clothes? Yes in public.
We don't deem it as oppressive or forced. Women should consider Hijab to be part of their clothing. If you don't wanna, then just don't leave the house, simple.
Im a Muslim girl and I wear hijab I’m 14, I had started wearing the hijab literally a few months ago and I practically had to beg my mom to wear it she’s a Muslim hijabi woman, she says I’m to young but I told her I really wanted to wear it and that I’m ready she didn’t want me to wear it now she said when my birthday came she gave me a hijab as my gift for my birthday I was so happy. I felt anxious what people would think at school and outside because the day I had got my hijab was the last day of summer break so I wore my hijab I felt beautiful in it but as I entered my bus I felt instantly stared at people at my school called my ninja, Bomber, asked me a ton of questions about my religion some asked me to take it off my friend who I knew in 7th grade kept asking me to show my hair and to take it off because a girl in my school who wore her hijab took it off I said “I wont take it off and if that girl took off her hijab it’s not my business.” My friend after that stopped asking me to take off my hijab
And a after it continued the same pattern but soon things died down people stopped paying to much attention to me and I feel much more happier I never regret wearing my hijab I love it a whole lot
Mashallah you are very strong may allah continue to guide you
Good for you and I’m glad that you wanted to wear it and your mother let you decide when you were ready.
Don’t let them get to you!!! Omg that’s horrifying that people react that way, but in grade school that’s very common.
yes i believed that ur 14 😂😂
I'm a Muslimah, wearing it is an act of worship, it's an obligation for us women and we do it to please our creator.
Talking about free will, you have the free will to follow another religion in it's entirety, and there will be conscience for being irresponsible and for your choices.
that's what she said..that they shpuld do it to please Allah and Allah alone...not to please their parents, or other people
@@piya6929 "I wear it because I want to" is a wrong statement. That shouldn't be the purpose of the hijab, "I wear it to please my creator and it is an act of worship" would have been a better answer.
Her answer implies that the hijab isn't an obligation
@@unknowninvisible2519 agree
@@unknowninvisible2519 really, then your God is stupid because child is nude or with cloth, God doesn't care because he loves us
no free will to follow another religion.Once u join this shithole of a religion,u cant leave.Punishment for leaving is literally death in islam.
In the states hair is just a normal thing everyone most people have as a part of style. I've never been distracted by woman hair 😂 pretty sure most people don't pay that much attention
That’s what I’m saying. Every Muslim woman deserves to have that choice. But I can never understand what’s so sinful about a woman showing her hair.
@@cosmo588Apparently, the hijab protects them from men? Like so men don’t do anything crazy. I looked it up
@@cosmo588 we don't wear it for men honey we wear it for god it's a sign of us being Muslim women .men also should wear long and not be shirtless and not touch or look at women only if it is needed and they have to pay a lot of money to marry a woman and a lot of duty educate yourself their justice between a man and women in Islam each one has to do something .and hijab is like protection and women look beautiful and elegant with hijab if yu non-muslims don't like then b free but leave us alone why it triggered you so hard
With respect you don’t know what you are noticing and how it’s effecting you psychologically. 100% if you are a straight man you are noticing women’s hair and facial features if she is immodest
@@fifiadan Why are u blaming women? You as A GROWN MAN should know how to control urself,
YES ! Same for every religion really.
As a Christian, I had the same exact type of conversation regarding religious "requirements". Actions are not that important if you do them to please men.
God is way more pleased if you don't do everything right but sincerely try to better yourself than if you look perfect on the surface and throw everything out the window when no one is watching.
Covering hair is obligatory in Islam it is not a choice it not about if you want to wear it or not girl who are showing their hair to non maheram are sinning
No Muslim is perfect and doesn’t sin so please stfu
Here are some GOOD QUALITY MUSLIM MEN who are dressed modestly and know how to address the hijab: th-cam.com/users/shortsi8JDs594s_4?feature=share
And to sin is their choice ......and Allah is the one who will punish
Not the so called people who force her into it.....they can not punish her....the deal of wearing or not is between her and Allah
@@tahdib999 who are that so called people you are talking about can u elaborate
she never said anything wrong why is everyone freaking out in the comment section?
The issue is, it's a sin not to wear it....
So in other words you are justifying sin, which is NEVER EVER okay!
IF you feel you are not worthy of thru hijab, strive to become better!
And hijab will help you on that path!
Instead of making stupid comments like this, and listening to shaitan (and his supporters), go education yourselfs!
Or ask the local Imam, if you are uncertain, DO NOT make comments without ilm!
And when was gender mixing okay in Islam?!
You guys are changing the religion, THIS is not our way!
@@Tabislol forcing someone to wear hijab is a greater sin.
@@urwashahid9210 - no it's not.
@@Tabislol it is. Forcing is haraam in Islam
@@urwashahid9210 - please, what's up with you??
You said "it's more haram", and It's Not, more haram!
Who said forcing is halal in Islam?
Did I??
Sneako looking like someone’s jobless baby daddy 😂
Ts got me dead, u too funny 💀
Guys Islam isn’t force. No one should be forced into religion and Islam says that. It is a command that women are to wear hijab but it’s also a choice. We have the ability to choose if we are going to follow the command or disobey it. However, no one should be forced into religion. Islam says to inform others of religion but not to force them because all it leads to is the person taking off their hijab or not feeling connected to God.
What do u do, if ur son come to home with his friend and say i will go to my room to make sex with him, it is also his choise or ?
It is sad, when i see muslim women try to be liberal and satisfy the west.
Therefore all the prophets are men, and the religions based on men.
Not being rude I just want to know how is it a choice if god is gonna punish you for not wearing it ?
@@lucidvlog basically God said Hijab is mandatory for women but we decide and choose if we want to listen to what God has commanded or not.
@@zahra-myzs so if I choose not to wear it I'm not going to hell?
@@lucidvlog No because it's not so big a sin it'll take you out the fold of Islam as long as your still praying and living like a Muslim it'll be a sin on you but you'll still be a Muslim therefore you still can go to heaven
I disagree it's not a choice to wear hijab
It is a choice. It does have consequenses if you choose not to wear it but that's life. I can choose to walk naked but it will have consequenses as well.
It is a choice. You can choose between drinking alchohol and not, eating pork and not, snorting coke and not. It’s a matter of what’s the right choice. Wearing hijab is of course the right choice as it pleases The Creator.
@@YourLordIsOne You can’t drink alcohol and be a Muslim. That’s like eating meat while claiming to be a vegetarian.
@@fluzzerr You can eat it. If that person wants to go to hell. Or not eat it and be a good Muslim to get Jannah. In other words this is what we call free choice
@@fluzzerr Not exactly. I hope this helps. The only nullified of one’s Islam in Islam is to commit acts of polytheism (shirk) or disbelief (kufr), and there is some overlap between them both. Some acts are major sins (drinking, backbiting, fornicating etc.) while others are minor sins. Polytheism and disbelief both take you out the fold of Islam, whilst major and minor sins make you a sinning Muslim. You can repent from major and minor sins, and even polytheism and disbelief:
1. If you repent from major and minor sins before death then we hope for you paradise.
If you don’t repent from major and minor sins before death then you could be either forgiven or punished before entering paradise.
2. You can repent from polytheism and disbelief before death.
If you have died in a state of polytheism or disbelief then you would have no chance at paradise as it is committed the most heinous of sins. For it is the giving the rights of God to other than God. Imagine your parents clothe you, feed you, aid you, pay you, and after all this you thank a tree or a man or a prophet. This is the example of what it is like. Allah clothes you, feeds you, sustains you, heals you, created you and you weren’t previously mentioned, and aided you with intellect and good sustenance.
Polytheism and disbelief (shirk and kufr) are what nullifies your Islam, not sins such as pork and alcohol. I hope this helps. @
I started hijaab recently, its so empowering. I am not influenced by societal norms to be fit in certain class , no time on hair and makeup ,no wigs,no fake nails ,eyelashes .i love how natural I become، people tell me i am opressed haha actually i am empowered i am not influenced by the latest fashions and trends , opressed are those who have to get up 4 hours before only to get their hair makeup and nails done even its just for groceries shopping.
But so many women wear hijab and put a ton of make up to look pretty. If the whole point of hijab is to not look pretty and attract stares from men. Isn't make-up counter productive? Also if someone looks prettier in a hijab compared to their normal clothes.. doesn't that also defeat the whole purpose?
Sometimes I have seen men comment on social media to women in hijab saying things like u r beautiful, ur have beautiful eyes, beautiful lips etc.. if they didn't wear hijab the men wouldn't even noticed them.
@@reg2093 you really made a very good valid point🎉
@@reg2093 in islam women cover and men have to lower gaze if they are not related they cannot admire or appreciate her beauty as he has to lower gaze and women have to cover . makeup and everything is just a part of liberal agenda which unfortunately many muslims are victim of.
@@reg2093 then I wouldn’t call what they wearing a hijab, it’s just a head covering. Hijab is the way you clothe and interact outside your home. If you’re not covering your charm weather it’s physical or personality then your just manipulating hijab.
Sister can you help me I want to wear the hijab
I wear it because I want to be recognized as a muslim. I'm not guiltriping other muslim girls who choose not to. It was just my way of thinking. It was what I am comfortable, coz when I am in my muslim community I am confortable not wearing it before but when I got to college and experience diversity it was scary and it has a lot of opportunity for temptation, wearing hijab in a non muslim community is like a protection. In my opinion. 😊
Edit: People are kind. If they see you being dedicated to what you believe, they will respect it, and they will help you even if they believe otherwise. My friends in college are not all muslim but they are very respectful and kind.
I believe that you don’t force your daughters to wear it but make them fall in love with it because if u jus wait for them to be “ready” they probably would never wear it or it would be too late for them to wear it. This is not something that is sunnah it is Fard so it is taken more seriously.
True but to be able to fall in love with something or someone you have to give yourself time to learn and get to know the aspect of this thing/person you don’t just jump into it and hope for the best. So if you want your daughter to wear one you first have to educate them about it and share with them the importance of wearing it. By doing that they would fall in love with the concept and then decide to wear. If you impose your daughter to wear one « for their own good » it’s like a forced mariage yes it might be good but it’s unethical. Giving your child the time to decide can be compared to an arranged mariage: You set it up but in a more ethical way because at the end of the day she’s the one that decides.
What happens if your daughter don't just want to be Muslim
What would happen then?
@@mimimassamba5599 when I say she will fall in love with it is what I mean by I’ll teach her and show her what is wrong and right and why the reasons we wear it etc that will make her fall in love with it .. Islam is a beautiful religion it’s protects us from the evil in this world. People jus have to really learn it
@@user-erurqts yes I get that and I agree with you. I’m not Muslim but I do think that the definition and symbol behind the hijab is beautiful. However wearing a hijab isn’t a blatant task it’s a whole commitment. So people have to understand and respect a girl choice on wether or not she’s ready to commit. You can influence her choice yes. But the moment you impose someone to wear it like your daughter you are forcing.
@@mimimassamba5599 yes I myself wear the hijab I know when is the right time so I wouldn’t ever push it on my daughter but I do appreciate you respecting my religion even tho you aren’t Muslim
I'm not Muslim, I'm a Christian, but I agree with everything this woman is saying. She was so calm and worded it in a simple way that made perfect sense. You shouldn't follow your religion because it's what people want, you should worship your religion because it's what your God wants.
Exactly ryt and the men in the comments are acting like scholars over here total idiots
It's not even written "precisely" that women need to cover their heads, you change and understand any sentences the way you want to put pressure on people. Let people live their lives.
it is Quran to cover and in many hadith. do some research
it's clearly stated in the Qur'an, which is a direct command from Allah.
people like to change this commandment and say "we wear it when we are ready" just to please the westerners.
Facts! It said abdorments not hair! Thank you
@@DuskyEillott I recently read the Quran because I wanted to understand others beliefs. It’s written in both the Bible and the Quran to veil our heads and to cover our chest and that doesn’t specify anything. It’s only mentioned like twice in both. The adornments is just to cover them. I don’t get why others have to judge based on their interpretation of the Quran. Women are barely mentioned at all, besides the fact that men owe us money because they buy us into marriage, and that we ALL should veil in prayer as to not “see the face” of God. So I’m glad to hear that others don’t quite understand how it is obligatory. The only thing is modesty in general…so where are people getting this information because I am even more confused AFTER reading the Quran than I was before
In the 5th grade, i had a desk partner who wore a hijab. I will never foget when some girl ran up to me at recess calling my name. I was like... yeah? Shes like its me, Suad! She looked completely different. My immediate reaction was wheres your hijab are you sure this is okay?! She told me children dont have to wear them, its by choice. But man i had never seen her smile so big until her hair came free. And she still wore it after, i think she just liked the fact it was a choice not forced
If you are happy cuz your hear is out then you have a problem my dear sister
@@FOOTSHOTS1 don’t be negative. She’s just sharing her experience.
A child before puberty isn’t supposed to wear one
I started wearing hijab at the age of 12. I don't even remember if I wanted it. It was like I wore what was bought for me. Time passed without things changing much except the fact I was turning into a visible feminine form. Stalking staring wierd looks. althought I wasn't comfortable and felt inferior I started wearing Abaya on my dad's request. at first it was just to protect myself but now I am comfortable with it and can say I am doing this for Allah and his raza.
Hijab can be a long debate. In many ways. Even between 2 siblings or people completely from 2 different lands.
But one thing is true that wearing hijab or jilbab or anything to cover is only for Allah the complete and sole purpose is obeying him.
That guy in a tank top should cover himself really.
Awrah for men is navel to knees
@@narcommerce how convenient... 😁
It's very well known the muslim community that no one should be forced by another person to do anything, unless it's their child.
A lot of people seem to forget that.
Not even parents can force it upon their children.
I'm adding my two cents. While hijab is obligatory it's not easy to compel yourself to wear it or dress a certain way. I was never forced to by my parents, but my parents always spoke about good character and that first we are Muslim and then everything else follows. I later changed my dressing and wear hijab. I know so many girls that their parents forced them to wear hijab, and the first opportunity they got, it was off. But what we must remember that hijab is not just the headscarf. Anyone can wear that. It is the dress code. And the representation that follows. So to those ladies that are thinking about hijab, it's not about just wearing a headscarf. It's about covering your hair, dressing modestly and keeping your character in check. We are representatives of Islam. We are ambassadors of Islam. And in a way, this is our struggle. No man can understand this. But hijab is a personal jihad that many of undertake. And may we be rewarded for it as well. Ameen.
Can I ask u something? I'm a male so, what do u think is the best way to talk about it to my future daughters Insha'Allah (I'm still young).
Btw may Allah give u strength along with all Muslim sisters, Ameen.
@@businessisboomin7252 ameen, jazakallahu khair for the dua. When I was young, my grandparents used to say if you don't dress as a Muslim and you die somewhere, how will those people know that you must be buried as a Muslim and (for example cremated). I just summarizing here. So that stayed with me, but I wasn't too bothered because as I grew up, people could always tell I was a Muslim even without dressing as one. People (non Muslim as well) just knew I was Muslim. So I took it for granted. Now me in general I have always been proud to be a Muslim and assumed that everyone will always know what my religion is. Until a few years back when I was talking to someone (a non Muslim) and we were talking about religion. And he ask me what religion I was from😕 I felt a little offended. It was obvious I was Muslim wasn't it? No. I was the one being silly. I was not dressed as Muslim so how could the person have known. It was then that I realised (I know, I was silly) how could I assume people would know who I am if I don't dress the part and it shocked me. The next day, my hijab was on lol.
So I'm saying this because for me, what I represented was important. I want people to know I'm Muslim. It was because of this that made it easier for me to dress as one. So each parenting is different, but if you can instill the love of Islam in your child, not fear. Love. You child would one day also want to be seen as a Muslim and nothing else. And also dua helps. I remember my uncle making dua that one day I will cover my hair lol. I said ameen to the dua, and a year later that's exactly what happened. But, it helps to slowly introduce the headscarf to children when they're small. Eg, when the read Qur'an, have them wear hijab, then after that let them take it off when done. Or when attending a gathering...maybe like a woman's talk etc, have them wear hijab and compliment them on their beauty with it. They're your kids. Have them wear hijab every Friday during the day, until they come home. And talk to them about it. The importance of it. But in all honesty when you're a young girl, you actually want the attention of your crush at school etc. It's a normal part of growing up so usually young girls don't like dressing modestly lol. But then you can remind your daughter that young men are not the only boys you're attracting but also older men who do not have good intentions. May Allah make it easy for all parents trying. But like I say, encourage your daughter to wear it. Make it obligatory on occasion to wear it (Fridays, or when doing religious studies etc and definitely when she leaves the house at night. Even to go in the garden, her hair must be covered when outside at night) but other days let her be. Slowly encourage her, and compliment her and talk to her about the importance of it. And insha'Allah it will help.
You say it's obligatory, but you weren't forced to wear it. You do realize those two are opposites, right? And why do only women have to "represent islam" by covering themselves up completely, but men can walk around how they please? Don't even try to bring up men's "dress code", cuz it doesn't follow the same standards as that of women's. Also, isn't character and spiritual traits in general more important than what we wear on the outside? I'm sick of all this judgement from people who are in no way better than us, but act all self entitled and have a superiority complex! If everyone would mind their business, this world would be so much better!!
@@businessisboomin7252 How about don't even bring it up? How about don't force them to even consider wearing it unless you're gonna make your future sons cover themselves up too! The best would be to not reproduce at all...🙄
Allah swt said to not force the hijab upon a women, what she said was completely valid, n it doesn’t apply to any other obligation so don’t compare it, she wasn’t talking about that. She was talking about the hijab , periodt
I was pleasing my family but didn’t take it off because the idea of taking it off was very uncomfortable to me. My parents told me to take it off in the USA but it felt very wrong uncomfortable to even think about it. I’m wearing it till now never took it off and I now actually know the love towards hijab
I think it’s really trying to learn more about it if you don’t learn about it then you wouldn’t wanna wear it
L parents 🏳️☝🏿🏴
And guys this is what happens when you don't have knowledge about Islam.
what she said is very true. the hijab itself is not oppressive, but forcing someone to wear it is.
I'm a muslime girl but i dont want to wear hijab but i have strict parents ....my passion is singing but parents don't support me...😔😭
Singing is haram. Don’t act like your life is difficult lol that’s what happens when you listen to music. It makes feel something that’s why it’s haram.
I get what she saying. I’ve seen so many who were forced but they never felt the real connection with hijab and later on went to take it off. I obviously can’t relate with those sisters because I wore hijab when I felt like and I’m happy with that decision and this is not to say I agree with these belief that Hijab is a choice when it’s a requirement commanded by Allah swt. May Allah swt make it easy for these sisters who struggle with hijab and bring peace to them
finally a muslim that's not passive aggressive and won't admit muslim girls are forced to wear hijab
sister said the person up there 💀
it was a slip up
We study because that's how we will succeed not because we love studying.
We wear hejab because allah told us to do not because we love it or convinced with it. We know that Allah knows what the best is for us and that's why we follow what he says without argument
As a Muslim, when Allah command we follow tht is why it is Islam, submit to Allah
Submit or embrace? Which is more appealing?
This is soo true iam a muslim girl and i started putting on hijab from an early age but ofcourse it wasnt forced i wanted to and i did but a lot of my friends would wear hijab in front of their parents but would put off hijab behind them
So truee my parents have told me to wear it and used to go on and on about it even if I told them that I don't want to wear it right now and I felt as if even if I did wear a hijab it would be because of my parents and not Allah
“pleasing the person who’s up there”
we seriously gotta stop speaking on public platforms if all that comes out of our mouths are trying to please the kufar
The most muslim women in west try to satisfy the west. I feel really very sad for muslim parents who have children in west, specifically girls.
Now Hijab is choise, then Sex with her Atheist boyfriend ist choise.
Kudos to this girl and all the women who are fighting to ban hijab in Iran 🇮🇷
Banning hijab wouldn’t be right either. U want to fight the enforcement of clothing with more enforcement of clothing? Hypocrites..
Am a Muslim and hijabi my dad forced me to wear a hijab since I was six, I did not know what it ment at all. In Islam girls will wear the hijab only sometimes when they are young just to practice but it is only a big thing when they get their period. I still wear my hijab to this day. But I don’t think it should be forced and definitely not at a young age ❤❤🕋☪️
It's no body's business when u guys start ur periods. That's why I find it predatory
I’m so sorry sis about ur father forcing u, it is not right he gets sins for it and u get no hasanat meaning ur hijab is useless cause u didn’t willingly wear it, do u wear it for Allah or cause ur dad forced u?? ❤
I love my hijab and in sha Allah I would like to get some jilbabs yo continue my growth toward Allah swt
She is so real for this ❤. I wore hijab at the age of seven without realising that it would be hard to stop wearing it once worn because our society is like that. It just made me resent it and I wish someone around me had advised me to wait until I'm older and wear it when I understood what it was and _wanted_ to wear it.
What is the time when they feel prepared and ready?
like never
Those who've never worn it will never be ready for wearing it, so "feeling prepared" will never happen
@@blackkaizer1530 false. Don’t speak on what you don’t know. I have many Muslim friends who were scared to start wearing the hijab and alhamdulillah they know wear the hijab. Stop with your ignorance.
@@Fatima-wl1dc haha why were they scared to wear the hijab? Will someone beat them if they wear the hijab, no wonder why women are the most deficient of mind
She clearly means "don't wear it if you're not ready to wear it for the right reasons, don't just wear it to please the people around you" I'm not even religious and it's so obvious what she means. Alot of you guys need to go back to school😂
What if they're never ready?
If i was asked the same question being a niqabi I would've have said: they need to learn their deen properly and it's our responsibility to teach them the beauty of hijab and the gifts they'll get in jannah because i was once not a hijabi but now i really love it because i know every moment i m making my Creator happy ✨♥️
That was a really good answer! Applause.
finally someone said it
you have to wear it for Allah not cuz someone is forcing you forcing will only will make them hate it dont wear it as an order by society people wear it for Allah your heart should know
most of you guys really didn’t understand her
May Allah guide all of us
You don't want your final day of this life to be your first day of hijab - I have struggled with hijab (ie i did take it off for short period of time) but knowing that Allah swt has told me I have to wear it makes me not only want to wear it more but also makes me realise it's not whether I am "ready" to wear it, it's a question of I must fulfil my duty as a Muslima and that it's the best protection for me - Allah Swt wouldn't have told us to do it otherwise - when i was struggling with it , i saw somewhere say you might never feel ready which links to my quote at the top (another quote i saw somewhere else) - wearing hijab is a struggle but it was never meant to be easy as just like with all other things Muslims have a duty to perform - and a major reason it is hard is because a lot of the things we must do ,especially modesty, clashes with todays society , which todays society is ultimately not worth risking our Akhira (afterlife) - im gonna add that there are young girls and sometimes young women who are defo pressured by their parents and to wear it and it is a journey for them as that, a lot of the time, doesnt give them a good relationship with the hijab from the begining however, InshAllah people who go through this find hijab the right way, once they've researched and understood the real meaning of wearing it and seeing it as a duty/commandment from Allah rather than my parents are forcing me then wearing hijab becomes blissful for them, May Allah grant us patience and allow us to observe hijab regardless of our struggles and reward us for said struggles.
Well said!
It's inconvenient to wear. Uncomfortable SO they should wear it only during pray. ALSO some are wearing it but not doing any prays... weird 😮
It's our basic duty to wear hijab sisters! If u believe in Allah u should wear hijab, if u are a Muslimah, u should wear it... basically, after u gained ur sexual maturity It's obligatory to wear hijab, there's no ur wish, her wish, It's Allah's command and as Muslim u should obey it ❤
“You shouldn’t quit drinking alcohol to please your parents… you should stay an alcoholic until you are ready to please the person up there”
Bint logic
U shouldn't quit alcohol to please your parents u should quit it for God's sake Allah's sake everything we do from the smallest to the biggest is for god only we wake up to please god in our day and we sleep to please him as well
Aastagfirullah the way you all use the terms "bint" to get back at sisters shows the damage these social media has done to you young ignorant people minds
If someone was an alcoholic, they cannot be forced to change, the decision has to come from within. It’s a similar concept here, although, I’m not Muslim, I come from a similar faith and we are given free will for a reason. It’s our choice if we want to follow or not but there are repercussions for the decisions made
Except u cannt compare literal alcohol to showing your hair💀
@@l.l.l364 both are sins
We are not forced to wear hijab
If you come to my country you see mostly girls fully covered and wearing modest dresses morally ethically traditionally good women
Because ALLAH commands us,
we do for his RAZA solely
Allah please guide us ❤
When it comes to opinion, people are ready to say sh*t in order to please their ego and thinking they are in the right path…!
People honestly don't understand, it's not like starting to wear a hat all of a sudden, hijab is more than that and in order to wear it properly u should understand it why and how and not just with ur brain but with ur heart too, wallah when allah grants u hidaya nd u wear it is not the same when u are forced to do it, its true that we need to fight our desires and choose Allah's path but in order to fight u need to understand what you're fighting for
I see so many people saying this i started wearing hijab at 10 it was my choice had no struggles what so ever not even in the summer and I also started with like long dresses and stuff at 10 like till my ankles never felt bad or having the need to wear something shorter or take off my hijab maybe allah swt made it easy for me but I think its shaytan whispering in your ear but may Allah guide them who are really struggling but okay bye.😊
And btw I understand why women wear the hijab i didn't just blindly wear it (just to clarify).
@@selmaelkachari287 alhamdulilah mashallah allah guides whomever he wants, everyone is different they don't live in same the environment and they're surrounded with different people and societies what sounds normal to them may not sound normal to u but subhanallah when the person has a good heart allah always puts hidaya in their hearts sooner or later and they start wearing hijab covering more and more and may even go to niqab and burqa, and as u said u worn it as a choice and u understood. it that's why u love it and you'd never think of removing it once the people who judge u are gone
“Whatever needs to be maintained through force is doomed.” - Henry Miller
This girl has this mentality while in the rest of the world girls only know if they are compatible with Scorpio or not
The Qur'an predicted their own success because Muslim people were different
I started wearing hijab to please the people around me , i kinda hate hijab since the day I start wearing it , for years I've been trying to accept it but i couldn't
That’s what i’m saying ! My parents are like "why don’t you wear the hijab" h24 and i always tell them i’m not ready for it because i’m barely even a Muslim rn because I have trouble praying. (But i’m trying to) so when I think i’m a good Muslim and i’m ready THEN i’ll wear the hijab.
Thank you sister... The problem is, the world won't accept this truthful answer..
It is not the truth. What has been established by the Ijma' of the Salaf cannot be nullified by how you feel. The hijab is mandatory. It is a commandment which came from Allah.
May Allah guide you
@@rad4293nope.. it's not mandatory in the way you think... may allah help you to find the truth for yourself...
What makes a person a sinless person is his/her deeds. Not what they wear
Choosing what to wear is a deed😂
I don’t know what you’re trying to say. Wearing hijab is not a choice, it is an obligation. Not wearing it is equal to sinning. To cover yourself with hijab is a deed. It is not so difficult to understand.
Protect her at all cause.
if you think gif is worried bout you showing your hair your lost lol
This conversation only exist in westren world
They say we are forced to wear the hijaab but actually they are more forced not to wear it because they’re ashamed or don’t want to hear questions like omg why are you wearing the hijaab you’re too young you have beautiful hair you need to show it etc….
They force your mind how to think
Hijab is a obligation not a choice as simple as that
Arent you also obligated to be kind or is that not as important as covering your body for the sake of men?
Spoken like a true mature woman ❤
This is just to whitewash Islam among non-Muslim. It's an obligation by Allah as evident by other comments
You guys must understand that Islam isn’t hard! It’s suppose to easy!! There is NO FORCE when it comes to hijab ! Yes is in the Quran and YES Allah command women and men to cover up especially to non-mahram! But u can’t BEAT a person with a weapon. If they aren’t wearing the hijab 🧕🏽! Islam is against violence
Hijab isn't a choice
It's obligatory !!!🤍
"There are so many that are forced 💀"
What are those subtitles bruh ?
She still didn't answer the question 😂😂
She did
sorry you have poor comprehension and listening skills 😂😂😂😂
Its fine to choose between wearing a hijab or not similar to choose between jannah and jahananum 😢😢😢 When something is hard for you but u still trying ur best to fulfill it for the love of Allah swt .then ur end will be with no regrets
May Allah swt guide us for the right ❤❤❤🎉🎉
To all people saying ' then they should do it with Prayers too'. Aaah you cannot compare Sarah to Hi jab like salah is among the 5 upmost things Allah told us to do. Yll don't really understand the psychology the condition of wearing a hijab and feeling full filled. None of you mentioned the pt she pt out like we shouldn't do things to please society , and how people are forced to wear hijab like so many little girls started hating the idea of hijab just cause it was pushed on them but in contrast Allah gave us the choice so please don't push Islam but wear it first like our beloved prophets and the way the prophets conveyed the message
In Islam, God he said that you must wear the hijab, just like the prayer, and what you wear is not a hijab
I'm a Muslim since birth. I used to dress up modestly but I never wore hijab, until I was 22 and I felt like my purpose in life is not only working for duniya but also for afterlife. I started praying regularly since then, and wore hijab, clicked less pictures and uploaded very few on social media coz whatever is uploaded on the Internet it stays there forever. I'm happy with my lifestyle and I do it for my Rabb, Allah. Thank you.
There is no compulsion in religion. People have free will. I wear it to please Allah swt but when I was younger I had a very big problem with it because I was ignorant of the benefits. Once I researched I saw the beauty.
Exactly! I knew a girl in 3rd grade who nearly became suicidal cuz her parents would quite literally FORCE AND PULL her hair and SLAP her in order for her to wear hijab. Lo and behold, she fell out of Islam. let me say it again, 👏🏽DO NOT FORCE YOUR CHILD TO WEAR HIJAB AGAINST THEIR WILL👏🏽 if you really care about your daughter, you will encourage (key word, ENCOURAGE) the hijab, and talk about the benefits, not cuz “because I’m you father and I say so astagfirullah you will rot in hell!!” Wallahi if the prophet saws were to come down and see the abuse these Muslims parents are doing to their kids, he would be disappointed
@@zai248 Perhaps there is exaggeration in her punishment and exaggeration in her mental state. But pulling the hair is not in Islamic Discipline
@@zai248 Keep your mouth shut when it comes to swearing by Allah about the prophet you Ignorant retard
@@rad4293 no parent should forcefully put on a hijab for their child, otherwise the child will grow to hate it because they are only wearing it because they fear their parents, not for Allah, yk? People should wear hijab to please Allah and Allah only, not because they are scared of their parents
Please don’t utter things out of their context. The aya you are referring to is not applicable to this situation. The deen is not something you should play with in order to fulfill your desires.
On the matter at hand. For a muslimah the hijaab is obligatory. The thing is, that there was never the situation where this had to be enforced as it was common sense.
It's a choice stop normalizing it as a bad or good decision. If you want to wear it then go for it. Many women have been killed for not wearing it
They’re gonna be ready at judgment day 😂
My girlie spoke nothing but factsss
Allah does not care if your ready or not, it’s a direct order from him
Forcing someone to wear a hijab is haram. And not wearing a hijab is not a major sin, your intentions, character and conduct are what matter the most. As long as you do all your obligations such as praying, donating to charity and just being a good person overall, you are good.
@@alin-dm6ok not covering your aurat is one of the biggest sin. Please learn more before spitting fact. But yeah I agree with not being forceful, we can preach and guide but not forcing
Where? I couldn't find in Quran that you have to hide your hair. Could you show me the verse? Allah is so clear about everything He's expecting from you. It must be there celarly, if He wants that.
@@gabriellanagy5461 surah Nur 24:31
And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like palms of hands or one eye or both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron, etc.), and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, head, necks and bosoms, etc.) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islam)
Even if she does it for another person not purely for the sake of Allah, ay least she'll stop collecting bad deeds that she'll regret in the hereafter. It's still the better thing for her.
She’s right
If they chose not to wear it they'd be looked down apon, cast out of the family and maybe even assulted. Of course they say they want to wear it. Its coercion at its best. Similar to masks during the "pandemic"
Why does it matter? People get looked down apon all the time on allot of things. If you choose to show your beauty in public as a muslim then yes, people will protest against it in some islamic countries.
@@fluzzerr why does it matter if girls get shamed for showing hair??? You're really asking that?
@@Chiefy_Ways Yes, because their religion doesn't allow it. It's disrespectful.
@@fluzzerr and if a religion said its ok to kill babies, would that be fine. Just cause its in the name of a religion? See thats when governments need to step in because people sometimes use religion as shield to treat women like 2nd class citizens. Not only can they not show their hair or skin, they cant drive, cant get education or go out without a man. Of course YOU don't see a problem with it because you're selfish and has a power trip.
Getting assaulted??? Cast out of the family?? Man, I live in a Muslim country and I can tell that your a fucking liar or delusional. Stop spreading false informations.
If the hijab is forced then how can someone truly say they're wearing it for Allah ? When I took my Shahada, a big point was made by the Imam that I wasn't forced into Islam but that I did my research and decided for myself. If someone is forcing you to wear it then how can that please Allah, if it doesn't come from a personal choice but the fear of man and not the fear of Allah ? I'm a new Muslim so I don't as much but Allah knows best. May Allah continue to guide us.
What she means is that if you force your children to do things instead of teaching our them why they must fulfil the obligations of islam and teach them with utmost kindness and empathy, your children will most definitely go behind your back.
I personally know so many kids who stop praying the minute they leave their home for college or work. They stopped reading the Quran the minute their parents could not force them.
I know parents who only force their daughters to dress a certain way and wear hai jab when they go out but in family celebrations and weddings and engagement parties doll up their daughters .
Some parents even force their hijabi daughters to take off their hijab in front of non mahram family members. And force them to wear salwars and suits that shows their figure and jewellery.
Some muslim parents only want their daughters to wear hijab and dress modestly because they fear their friends and family rather than allah.
There is no such thing as being ready