The Unbelievable Way Dad Chose to Discipline His Kids Leads to TRO
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First of all shame on the sheriff who canceled the 911 call, thats how people get seriously hurt or worse!!
I feel like there should be some real investigation of what happened to that 911 call...
I really like Judge Wolfe. He doesn't play sides he doesn't sugarcoat. He takes the facts and makes informed decisions. No stalling, no coming back for additional hearings. He definitely did right by those kids in this case!
And all his decisions are reasonable.
"I'm not gonna do what they want me to do" "I didn't do nuthin'" This guy is always going to be trouble! Poor kids!
The state system is failing. The state should have had a CPS agent in Court for a recommendation and update.
They’re already so understaffed they can’t do the job that’s expected. Expecting them to show up on cases like this is impossible.
“I didn’t do nothing” means he did something
Pure bullying
@mr.waldodebaldo3208 bet he feels really big pushing and verbally attacking children and women. He wouldn't do that to a man. Those children should never have unsupervised contact with him. I bet they are scared to death when they are forced to see him. What a low self esteemed jerk.
Yup! Double negative!
He never, ever needs to have contact with his children again. I hope they are getting good therapy and can heal as much as possible.
Oh he’ll see them again unfortunately- mine did,despite them knowing he was a bully and abusive !
Ironclad strategy on display here. Admit you did it, indicate that it's all on camera, then ramble about you aren't afraid of a lady's husband. 11/10 5 dimensional chess.
🤭🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know right I watch cases all the time and fathers say “I love my kids” or “I didn’t do it” but this guy is like yeah I did it mumble mumble … I wouldn’t trust that guy with my dog
I disagree vehemently! 12/10!
His posture in the witness box is indicative of his attitude. So disrespectful and arrogant.
My jaw dropped to the floor! Definitely supervise this 'person'
He has no insight. Keep him away from all children!
He's not at all believable. I have no doubts he's a bully and that he did what he's accused of. Also, the sheriff who canceled the 911 call.
Many abusers are never creditable for they always blame the victims of why they abuse women and children.
Believable? Don't you need to speak English before you can be believed/not believed?
If I was the judge I would take away the kids just to prevent them from becoming dumber
That cancelled 911 call has to be followed up on. Someone could die, that's just unbelievable.
Hi Meg! Some of these small towns are crazy corrupt. That's how it happened. 4:14 he's getting away with this shit because he knows or is related to and/or someone.
There should be a dress code for court. People wear everything , jeans, tees, tank tops, etc. 😢😢😢😢
Yeah cause clothes are soooo important. Dumb. Wearing. A tie doesn't make things better it just forces a idiotic belief that somehow the old days were better. I ask which old days. Jim crow days.. or just the Americana you sanitize for people where interracial marriage was illegal cause race mixing is bad..
There is
Cmon its TN - inbreeding is bad
There are no standards anymore. They let Fetterman wear hoodies until the people rose up and said NO.
people who can't afford good clothing still deserve justice.
WOW, WE need closed caption for him! What the hell did he say??? I have no doubt he’s a bully & terror’s the ex & the children,the TPO should’ve permanent!! Thanks Meg!
Terror’s* is not a verb. It’s not even proper.
@@PaulKing-h9myou didn’t get enough hugs as a kid did you?
@@PaulKing-h9mis that all you got out of that comment?
No, I was too busy learning the English language. On the other hand, I do appreciate you letting us know that your most-prized possessions are participation trophies,
Boomhaur from King of the Hill.
A narcissist won't necessarily show you who they are until after the marriage or after a while. They can behave charmingly to outsiders while treating their family like crap.
Exactly. My ex treated everyone way better than he treated me and our children. People had no idea the monster he truly was in private. He was a deacon in both churches we belonged to at the time. His own family believed his lies about me to cover his abuse. Took me 25 years, but I finally got out of that marriage and have never trusted another man. My only regret is that I should have divorced him sooner, but I waited until the children were old enough that they couldn't be forced to have overnight visitations. He would have taken them and hid them from me just to hurt and destroy me. He's 78 now, and after having a near death heart attack, he is a changed man for the better. I'm glad for him and wish him well.
Very proud of Mom! It's very scary to stand up to someone like that! Especially when they are so unpredictable. Anyway stay strong Mom !
She should get a lawyer though. They could mob the floor with the dude and maybe get her and the children more permanent protection.
@@JaniceHope definitely
This man is a great judge. Wish there were more like him.
i like this judge too. there is a great video of him dealing with a sov cit. one of the best i've seen.
Admittedly the judge was courteous and followed procedure, but this was pretty open and shut case.
Once he started speaking.... clearly, we get it
so there is a video of him throwing a vase at his children and he thinks it is evidence FOR him?
Parents that destroy there children's lives should never be allowed to see them
I can tell he’s a bully
Just by the way he was standing at the beginning trying to intimidate
That one witness said she's seen him line the kids up and berate them until they were nothing. WHAT!? And she let that continue to that point without doing Anything about it? There's no way under the sun that I would stand by and let an adult do that to children, and I'm a 60 year old woman.....but I would still find a way to stop it.
I can't even imagine how he can pretend that act of terrorism is a type of discipline. What the actual...
Took all of 5 seconds of his testimony to tell what he's all about. He's not upset about being called a bully, he just wants to dispute a few of the facts of the glass throwing incident, (like EVERYBODY lines up their kids and chucks glassware at them..)
I believe Mom and Aunt 100%. He's a bully, a terrorist, and, worst of all, a child abuser (and has probably laid hands on her a number of times, as well)
She didn't question him probably because she is terrified of him'
@mariemandra2583 exactly. I have no doubt that he has verbally, emotionally, and physically abused her and the children daily.
Why did no one step in when they witnessed him degrading the kids until they were nothing?
Good job Judge Wolfe.
He should be in jail
And this father abuses the same as his parents did him, repeating behavior that was taught and learned. Vicious cycle.
clearly no evidence that he was abused not all abusers were abused
Throwing glass? He should NEVER be near them again.
Yeah that man is dangerous
Judge Wolfe is one of my favorite judges.
Ladies choose wisely or this will be your life.
I have a feeling this is gonna get worse before it gets better …
those children are already damaged 😔
I'm shocked that another grown-behind person is deflecting and victim-blaming! An absolute (insert adjective here). 🤥😔
Honey child, I am not, for abusers have deflected their behavior for they learned this as children from abusive parents.
A rainbow t shirt?? Why is it that people nowadays have no idea how to dress for court??
The bully makes no sense - just meandering.
Why is she there without a lawyer? I don't care how much it cost...I'd come up with it to protect my kids. Both of these dorks are clueless. Those poor kids.
Thank god someone said it😊
How is she supposed to come up with that kind of money quickly? BFR . She did just fine.
Hopefully DCFS will help her in that regard in the future! She had do so what she could as this was done quickly, to protect her children ASAP!
@@Babytalk1963 she can get a free lawyer if she can’t afford it
He's been abusive to her for 14 years she declares..... So she had children with him. Poor little ones.....😢
Well, my gosh--those kids are gonna have to learn to behave like their dad, and how in the world is that supposed to happen unless he chucks some glass vases at them every once in a while??
It's all perfectly reasonable! 🙄
I agree DCF should have filed for supervised visits. Why did he have open visiteds for this ??
Why do they make them stand at the same podium?
They are representing themselves and acting as their own attorneys. That podium is where the attorneys stand and address the court. Since they're acting as their own attorneys they stand there
So she has to do this all over again in 6 months time. Would she get another extension if he behaves himself until then?
Of course that’s possible! It’s not what you know it’s who you know.
Knew he was abusive but had 3 kids with him…make better decisions women
I can't get past the fact that this woman chose to have kids with this guy.
Wtf? Just started. Throwing glass at your children? Definitely not in the effective punishment handbook. SMH.
Love Judge Wolfe! Thanks for the great content!
CPS always takes their sweet time! They say they are understaffed but in truth, they have a few good workers and the rest are more interested in visiting each other. Dad should be made to take a parenting course. Hopefully CPS steps up!
Wow...Just Wow!!!
`CPS is overwhelmed... They both should be required to be in counseling & take parenting classes; the facebook posting should have been entered as evidence.
How in the world did he get near enough to anyone to impregnate them?
Why aren't those documents there for the judge to see first hand?
My favorite judge. None others even come close.
She’s known this monster for 14 years yet she’s brought 3 children in this world to be abused by him, she’s part of the problem too
Dad lined up the kids and threw glass vases at them? That is so random. Then he couldn't even contain his annoyance while pulling out the chair on the stand - acting like an angsty teenager. No credibility.
If she knew he was like this before they had children then she should lose custody as well. Knowing he had violent outbursts is MORE than enough to know you should use as many as possible versions of birth control you can find. If she wants to take a chance with herself on getting beaten then that's on her but never bring a child into the life of a violent individual......EVER.
Why would the great aunt watch him “line up the children and berate them until they are nothing”. ?
If he doesn’t bully you bc of your husband then protect those children and don’t let him berate them, line them up or anything else
she watch the video where he said what he did
@@MegsCrimeWatchlater, she said she’s seen him like them up in person and he berated them until they were nothing
@@MegsCrimeWatch no way he can call a person and have the cops not turn up! If that happened she could press charges and people will lose jobs and go to jail!
@@danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307 have you ever lived in a small town? stuff like that happens all the time. It's getting better, but there are still a lot of places where it happens.
@@danquaylesitsspeltpotatoe8307happens all the time unfortunately
He is so articulate though.
9:31 hahahaha😂😂😂 how did I know he was gonna look like exactly like that
I can't believe the way people dress up for court
Why didn't she get up and ask him questions? that was her chance to get him to show his true colors if he did something.
He hasn’t sworn any of these witnesses. He just tells them to raise their right hand and then goes on. Odd.
They cut it out for time
He needs to be in jail if he did this of course he didn’t do anything they all say that
I nickname him Eminem, cause his beard is weird
Why would you have 3 children with him ? If you have known him for years, why put your children in harms way? 😢
Yeah, let's blame the mother. Because abusive pricks always show their true colors at the beginning of a relationship. She said they've been separated for about 5 years and divorced for 4.
I think for most people who find themselves in abusive relationships it's usually a matter of "boiled frog syndrome" where the abuser starts out cool and then slowly turns up the heat on his/her victims.
I'm pretty sure this hearing is about the mother attempting to keep her children protected from that brutal bully.
I don't know how many women and children live in this kind of terror but it seems wrong to place the blame on the victims of the abuser.
Cmon it TN - the state that 2 years ago tried to legalize sex with kids - the kids are just lucky to still be alive
Agreed
probably because the children were born before things got real bad. this'll be a long comment.
there are a lot of reasons a person stays in an abusive relationship.
one is called the "cycle of abuse." in it, the abuse will take place in episodes. after an episode of abuse, the abuser will apologize, promise they'll get help, love bomb the victim, etc. the survivor of jon koppenhaver explained that the days after he beat her up would be "the best days of their relationship."
this has an intoxicating psychological effect: now that the attack is over, their loving partner is back, there's hope for the relationship, they're not walking on eggshells anymore, etc. this is called the "honeymoon phase." after this passes, eventually things start getting tense again, and the cycle continues.
the victim of domestic abuse are often manipulated by their abuser to believe that while these episodes are bad, they are triggered by the victim's behavior.
for example, the victim may think, "he hit me because i was late home from work. it won't happen again as long as i'm not late again." this type of abuse has the victim on edge at all times, and it also leads them to believe the abuse is their fault.
in almost all forms of domestic abuse, a key element is the isolation of the victim. the abuser distances the victim from friends and family, both reducing the victim's ability to seek help and convincing the victim they're alone and their only source of comfort is from their abuser. my grandfather eventually found a reason to dislike each of my grandmother's friends and most of her family. the only time he issued "you can't see them anymore" commandments was if the person was mexican, but he made it so stressful to see them that eventually my grandmother would oblige him and stop. in the end she had no one. she still has no one.
their abuser may have also convinced the extended family that the victim is overly dramatic and vengeful, and has threatened to allege abuse as punishment. so if the victim did reach out to family, they wouldn't be believed. this was also the case with my grandmother.
in some cases, the abuser may have control over the victim through finances. maybe they share a bank account and the abuser limits access, the abuser owns the family business, or the victim doesn't make as much money as the abuser, stuff like that. so the victim might be afraid of leaving and not being able to make it.
in homes with children, there are also plenty of victims who are the primary target of abuse in the home, so they believe the children aren't in danger. "she's a wonderful mother. she only hits me."
they don't realize that witnessing abuse is abuse in and of itself, particularly in the eyes of children's services, or that it's hubris to assume it'll stay that way. once they realize this, they live in deep, deep shame, feeling that they brought this abuse on the children.
the human mind is malleable. we have an instinct to adapt and rationalize. we search for humanity and meaning in everything we encounter. abusers use this to their advantage. the victim of abuse will very commonly place blame on other causes for their abuser's behavior.
there was a case like that in judge boyd's court once. she said something to the effect of:
"he's great sober, he just gets rough with me when he's drinking. he goes to his family's place and they all enable him, they're always drinking. i tried to tell him to go over there less, but he said he's a grown man and i can't tell him what to do. i don't know how to help him stop drinking."
he's the one drinking. drinking doesn't change your personality. he's the one choosing to be violent. but in her view he's being acted on by other forces and it's her burden to make it stop.
what's also wild is that most of the time, abusers don't even realize they're doing this. it's not like they read a listicle on how to abuse and control their partner. they seek control, so they get angry about people they see as poisoning their partner's mind against them. they resent things that cause their partner to leave and be outside their control, like a job or a hobby. they get angry when things don't go the way they think things should go. these behaviors make sense to the abuser, which is why it's so difficult - arguably impossible - to "cure" an abuser.
so having said all that, i think it's probable that in this case, she believed it was just her, so if they divorced, it would be fine; but as A. his outlet for abuse was gone, and B. the children aged from toddlers to small people with agency and opinions, he began lashing out at the children too. she's now going through legal remedies to save her children. that's just my theory though.
i want anyone still reading to remember these two things:
1. an abuser isn't horrible all day and all night. things will be great sometimes. that's what fucks their victim up in the head. most victims i've ever spoken to have agreed that no matter how violent their partner got, it was the psychological scars that lasted the longest.
2. abuse is always about control. it is _always_ about control. whether it's anger or sadness or the silent treatment or suicide threats or whatever method of acting out the abuser pulls, the source of it is 100% of the time a desire for control over their victim.
sorry about the length. if you read it, hope this helps. if you didn't, same.
The mother is partly to blame due to the fact that she had three kids by someone who was abusive and clearly states that she knew it second of all why would any father want to discipline their children like this and make them afraid of him that is ridiculous I think when it comes down to this situation both parents should be getting supervised visitations until the children are safe
I love Judge Wolfe
Christopher Gregor in the making
This woman doesn't make smart choices either. Why would you knowingly lay down with a dangerous man you don't want to be with and keep having his kids?? This man should be in jail!
Ah yes, always blame the mother. You do know that abusive pricks like this don't always show their true colors right away. They wait until after you have kids and are dependend on them to become abusive. Then they control all the finances and make it difficult and dangerous to leave.
Very well studied and well documented 'stockholm syndrome' between abusers and their victims. Google it, victim-blamer.
Why did he have them raised their right hands, but then not put them under oath?
If your kid needs therapy you find a way.
All this "looking for one"
"Waiting for a call" etc....etc... is so dishonest IMO
My ASD kid needed counseling & it took 6 months on waiting lists & the head of the region's special Ed calling the head of the counseling center many times to get her in. You can't make a therapist take your insurance or make an apt
You can find a therapist if you look hard enough if it’s important you will drive for a hour or 2 away
Commercial: usually means possible Medicaid
@@Ditch-Lily you would find a way if you HAD TO.
borrow it. Take a loan out. Pawn the tv.
Your kids mental health is IMPERATIVE. It's the only thing that will keep them from being carbon copies of the trauma passed on to them.
And the earlier the better.
I appreciate your com.ent and know that that was your experience.
I'm a retired nurse. Every therapist takes certain insurances and a lot of insurances still don't cover therapy. And she's looking for therapy for children, which is very hard to find.
Most....most people shouldn't have kids, myself included
What she scared of him she not fighting for her children why the hell he watched the children if it’s all these allegations🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🤬🤬
Because the Court can order the children to have mandatory visitation with the father, and no one - not the mother, the lawyer, the children, ANYONE - can get in the way of that visitation. If the mother did stop the children from visiting their father, SHE would be arrested and put in jail, and then what would happen to the children? They'd go with their father anyway and wouldn't have her there to come back to.
How do people living in the same area and/or together for years, sound so different? The “Dad” has that illiterate, hillbilly speech when no one else did.
It's like the suburban kids that speak fluent "gangsta" when they're stopped by police.
That’s not hillbilly. That’s suburbs ghetto
OK, if he THREW a glass at the KIDS and it BROKE, and she didn't go to the cops, SHE DOESN'T NEED TO HVE THE KIDS EITHER!!!! She can absolutely do something especially if its on social media. SMFH!!!!!!!!
She did call 911 and the husband had someone call and cancel the 911 call
@@teddiev2720 She still could've got them involved. She could've left the house and walked, called an Uber, too many other things she could've done. Her hands r just as dirty as his is IF this allegation is true!!
@@Bobby72501 The male admitted its truth and did not deny it or the video's existence on the witness stand, there is no IF about it. As for the 911 call, the sheriff can cancel a 911 call easily, and the only way to prove its existence is for a lawyer to subpoena a 911 call which I think she should do, however it's possible she doesn't have the money for legal services considering there is no lawyer present with her today.
I don’t believe she ever said she didn’t do anything about it! Obviously she did something if there is a pending open investigation with DCFS against the father! And if I recall she said she has made multiple 911 calls! Do not blame this mother, she is protecting her children, she can only legally do what the system allows! And she seems to have taken the proper steps!
She is obviously trying to protect her children. Don't blame the victim
0:17 FACT: most people should not have kids because they can’t afford them
Yet they have more and burden taxpayers but don’t pay taxpayers back with their child income credits
That’s a massive societal burden
That's your takeaway?🙄
@@f8ofk8 it’s the truth so yeah
T shirts in court , God bless us and save us !!!!
At least the aunts was a rainbow.
good old red state values
Many won't be caught dead in dress clothes like my late ex husband and his late bio dad.
Great editing with that first shot.
Does no one know how to dress appropriately for court?
I've seen this judge before...he is way cool.
Shouldn’t they be saving all his Facebook rants if he’s an oversharer
Damn that dad is dangerous! He obviously is mentally abusive to the children too!
The mother should have asked him some questions. Very little information. It is hard to make a determination . Didn’t she have pictures of the glass that he threw? What were the injuries? They both just stood there! 😢
This was just for an extension of the order. That proof was probably offered when it was first granted.
Evidence will be part of the CPS report
If you are not a lawyer and you are nervous it would be hard for anyone to question someone. Especially if that someone has been and is an abusive bully to you. I wish she would have asked as well, but either way her case was strong enough for the judge to agree! I mean honestly that guy didn’t come off as credible at all, he screwed his own self, no questions asked!😊😊
You just blame women, don't you?
From the thumbnail, I the judge was Judge Judy’s husband
So did I.
It’s time to simply make corporal discipline illegal. I’m not saying it’s wrong or immoral to use it. 1. It doesn’t work. 2. Too many parents hurt their kids in permanent ways (by accident or reckless behavior ) let alone on purpose that it’s not worth preserving such a dangerous tradition. Corporal Punishment doesn’t change behavior in mammals. The behavior in kids, in cats, dogs, or any rodent when used just causes the animal to repeat the behavior in a different environment. If you wash your kids mouth out with soap for swearing, they will continue to swear with their friends when adults arn’t around. And if their friends tattle, they get new friends who won’t snitch. It’s not complicated.
Seems we'll be back in 6 months... I wonder how much trouble he'll start before the next TPO hearing.
It's very odd that the swearing in is muted.
Not much for the judge to go on
There is plenty. CPS report and open case against the father, a video of the male ranting about committing a crime against his children, a witness to that video, the male not denying its existence on the witness stand...should the judge have dragged the children into the court room to satisfy you?? Or did he have enough to go on already...
Boy, he's a real class act. She knew what he was like... Some people have such a fevered ego that they are truly unreachable, and they can not comprehend the misery they inflict. Run before he really gets mad.
This is painful to watch. I can't imagine spending my time fighting with a BIAS judge.
Reminds me of my X,it’s a nightmare. I got my children out,but a father has rights, I couldn’t control what happened when he had the kids! Courts didn’t listen….
😮 wth?
@8:36 why did he show up? He got more plans to throw stuff and bully kids??? Hopefully some Fathers in his area PUT him in his place..... Right and Wrong have gone out the window 😵
Uhh.. sir? Are you at the same hearing?
Two useless "parents"
What a tool!
You can't tell me she didn't know he was a bully/abuser before she married him and laid up in the bed with him and had 3 kids by him.
What was this coward even talking about??????
Right! I believe they are lying. One where is the paperwork for CPS? 2 if CPS was aware of him doing anything there would be TRO, I bet CPS wouldn’t give her a TRO so she files in this court. I can’t stand people that use there kids as a weapon.