Analysing Myka Stauffer's Narcissistic Behaviour With Her Daughter
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- This video is about Myka Stauffer's relationship with her daughter Kova. So far we've seen examples of how Myka related to Huxley, the son she adopted and then gave away. I believe this footage gives us more examples of narcissistic traits and behaviour and more insight into how a narcissistic mother relates to her child.
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I can't imagine crying and being upset and having my mom turn on a camera and putting it in my face. That's horrifying.
That must have been so embarrassing for the little girl, I can feel her pain looking in her eyes.
While laughing too. Her daughter seemed to get even more upset as she filmed. Put the camera down and talk to your daughter, one on one. Sheesh. You’re not that interesting lady.
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So true. Nothing at all interesting about her.
She's very cruel. I'm concerned about all her "fans" who can't tell.
Exactly
There is something so satisfying about narcissists being called out for being narcissists.
Soooo true
Soooooooo true!!!!
So satisfying.....except that in the disastrous experiences I've had, it STILL doesn't have the desired effect. I am a broken empath who is trying desperately to iron out all the awful wrinkles ...one narcissist I dated for 4 years & became engaged to...was secretly seeing an acquaintance of mine behind my back. We discovered his infidelity and when we confronted him together in person, he literally would NOT ackniwledge what he'd done, and just backed into a corner, sank down, and refused to speak.
Another ex was so angry that I stopped going round in narcissistic cycles/circles with him....that he attempted to burn my house down while I was asleep inside TWICE.
someone call out my mom plz. oh wait, that was before technology took off. lucky her
Linnaea Marie Andelman My best friend since I was 13 years old married a narcissist. He now takes care of his 2 young sons by himself because she just can’t be bothered being a mother. It’s so sad. She’s absolutely horrible and he looks so tired and beat down. They are legally separated because she won’t give him the divorce he desperately needs for his and the children’s sanity.
The knowledge you teach us about narcissists is going to save many of us from so much suffering.
good! I very much hope so! 😀
@@LiveAbuseFree You need to do an opinion on Aaron Carter who is the biggest narcissist. He does lives all the time and has a fiancee who is in an abusive relationship. They call it off daily.
I agree
@@brinabeans80 I second this!
That would be really really good 🙂 I will try to continue to be hopeful. T
She is so impressed by herself.
Many people are.
Yes!
🙄🙄🙄 she is
Ding ding!!
Oh my gosh yes she so is.
I was homeschooled by a narcisisstic mother, and I didn't have any friends. I would beg and plead with my mother to enroll me in a real school so I could make friends, but my mother would always say angrily "I'm your friend!" She didn't want me to have a relationship with anyone besides herself. Myka Stauffer reminds me of my mom.
Wow! 😔
I wasn't homeschooled or anything but my dad has always been very jealous of my friends and boyfriends. He would always tell me that the only people I could count on was my family and not to get too wrapped up in my "friends" because they will always let me down. It was even worse with any guys I dated. So bad that he refused to come to my wedding....for NO legitimate reason other than he just didn't like my husband. He definitely has major issues.
Well, in the Stauffer's case, it was a bad fit... Seeing all those clips where she is just demanding the attention "sage on the stage" and ALSO fueling the sibling rivalry... Oof.
Thank GOODNESS it was short-lived. Again, I know lots of wonderful home-schooled adults and current families, but, like adoption, they misrepresented it and gave it a bad name... Everything they touch!
I'm so sorry you lived that! In my experience, most homeschooling families are loving, normal families who are intentional about making sure the kids have plenty of social interaction outside the home. I'm so sorry your mom used it as an avenue to control, isolate, and manipulate you. That's terrible and you didn't deserve that.
@Thora Friganza I was homeschooled, most of the people I know had wonderful, safe experiences with it. Abuse is awful, but it doesn't exist only in homeschooling, nor is it always detected in public schooling. If anything, I would be more concerned about educational neglect as a reason to not homeschool, but again that varies from family to family and the child wouldn't necessarily do better in a different educational environment.
I can’t understand how any parent would film their child in distress rather than comfort them. I hate family vloggers. They are disgusting.
Not all do that.
There is no shortage of narcissistic parents on TH-cam. The funny part is they don’t know who they are.
@@candyluna2929 the fact that they made a business out their own kids. All of them are quite narcissistic at some points. Imagine pointing a camera everyday at you kids to spread that on social medias.
Problem is, people keep watching and supporting these kinds of idiots. They don't care about parenting, they care about money.
*SOME TH-camRS
"Are you going to miss mama??" *looks straight into the camera* This woman is soo in love with herself...
Exactly. And it makes me feel like vomiting
@@mlee40738 same here...
Such damaging parenting... Amounts to a abuse
This scene: so disturbing. She seemed to ENJOY her daughter’s pain. 😡
@@Star-dj1kw It probably made her feel powerful and significant. She's quite disturbed.
Kova at times looks in these videos as if she were well on her way to developing depression. Happens often in children of self-absorbed parental units even in the absence of blatant abuse.
Rockit Science Kova also sounds like a dogs name sad
It happened to, there was no abuse just a bipolar mother who was either narcissistic when manic or too ill when depressed. I'm only realizing this and working to heal in the nearly mid twenties! These poor kids or the social media generation have it worse. I'd hate to be able to see myself and my parent who caused me attachment issues and trauma and obsess over the behaviour and psychological dynamics at play :(
Yes you can see it in min 15
That's horrible poor little girl, where are children protection services?!!, that woman shloudn't have children
@@MsBhappy mid 20s is early. Your generation is getting this info while u r young, which is awesome
Myka is the type that wears an eye catching white gown to her own daughters wedding to try and look better.
Omg no she's gonna be the worst mother in law I didn't even think about that 😂💀
ugh my mom at my sisters wedding 🙄
except it wasn’t white, or was bright yellow and her tits were basically FALLING out 😒😒
Yep. My mom had a boob job and lipo a month after I became engaged.
Totally
Who is she?
It’s awful to record your kids vulnerable moments. Where is her respect for them?
I agree. She doesn’t care. It’s all about Mommy.
Yeah, her poor kid is clinging to her and crying, and she just happily chirping out all the emotional details to the camera instead of interacting with Kova herself.
She's extremely happy her daughter is upset! It's cringeworthy ... Myka thinks this makes her look special..
It must have fooled her followers.. Guessing many of her followers are narcissists too..
Yes Tania, first thing I thought was why would someone film their crying child.
It's non-existent
When she walks in talking about Kova drawing, the child looks happy for the attention and realizes in a second that it’s just for the camera.
Kristina Ringo oh my goodness that’s sad 😔
@@jacksters19
I remember when we talked to our professor, she said how kids get sad when they see how parents film them on their shows at school or some presentation instead of putting that mobile away
artistic persona @artsitc persona I now find it disturbing to watch family vlogs. I notice the new generation of kids are born into having their faces seen on Facebook and on the internet at an early age. To some degree it’s dysfunctional and disturbing. I am afraid to see how those kids will end up in 20 years from now.
Interesting, at my daughters kinder Christmas show, I was one of the only parents not filming and had set an intention to be as present as possible (I had her two younger brothers with me) and enjoy her moment. She was cross afterwards wondering why I wasn’t taking photos and filming.
Yes you can see the dissapointment directly ! How her Laughing freezes....😢 very sad
Narcisistic mothers are the worst. I wish I had had a normal mother.
Me too
Isnt nice but hopefully we can do better if we have kids or relationship. I really hope my daughter can be confident and an independent adult. Just feel loved for who she is
She sure didnt chose to be narcissistisk.
Me too
I love my mom so much but I wish things were different.
This woman is in for a rude shock when these kids hit their teens...
Dr. Phil is ready and waiting... 😂😂😂
Nash Montana Can’t wait for the episode 😂
Not necessarily. By their teens, some narc's kids have become narcs themselves, some do rebel but some also have basically a broken spirit and pretty much just hang around like a shadow. And that doesn't include the amount of mental health disorders the neurotypical child of a narc parent experiences, precisely because of the parent.
Feel bad for them. Kids are gonna make fun of them once they inevitably find the TH-cam channel
Michelle Abrahmz I agree. There’s a good chance that they will develop internalizing disorders like anxiety and depression, and there’s a strong likelihood that at least a few of her children will be overly-compliant and perfectionistic, desperately trying to meet her expectations and avoid conflict or disapproval
Myka doesn't understand that having children is to GIVE love rather than demand and expect it.
Children of narcissistic parents should be able to sue them for the emotional trauma and other PTSD related issues they have to live with.
Yea... Unfortunately all we really want is a sorry and that's almost harder to come by
Money doesn’t repair the long term emotional damage caused by dysfunctional parents.
Taft yep
Sydnie Smith yep. Exactly. My mother never apologized for the screaming and yelling and crap she did to me on a constant daily basis. All I wanted was a sorry. To validate all the hurt. Never got it. Just got a comment she made, one time. But she said it in front of my father and apologized in front of him too. I wasn’t perfect, I definitely wasn’t and didn’t wrong things and made mistakes. But to get screamed at and have someone angry at your nearly every.single.day? That’s not normal.
She needed therapy. Never went and got it; despite pushing others to.
They say we go to therapy for the ones who won’t. Lol.
I just want to say how thankful I am for this video. It has helped me to see warning signs in myself that I need to change immediately.. I love my girls so much and I don't want to emotionally damage them in any way 💔
Thanks so much for sharing this inspiring comment! 💕
Kuddos momma
I am impressed with your self awareness and your willingness to make changes to grow in positive ways. Well done!
There is such a stark contrast in Myka's expressions when she is sitting down in front of the camera acting- her mask of being a loving, caring, sweet mother, firmly in place. And when she is being filmed in the home at the end when she gave Huxley the new toy, it's like we are seeing behind her mask, and it's frightening. I can't imagine her without the camera on at all, those poor kids.
I absolutely agree. Shocking.
Exactly. Her mouth is showing complete distane.
and even in the acting you can tell it's not real.
That was seriously creepy.... she was looking at him like "TAKE IT. JUST EFFING TAKE IT. like you take everything from me!" 🙄
I saw her shove H out of the cameras view.
4 minutes in and she hasnt mentioned how her daughter has coped with any of it
I know right!? It's all about how hard it was for HER. ONLY HER.
I noticed that.
She never did.
8 minutes in.....
@@babyyvie 15:47 minutes in...
Her micro-expressions when she interacts with her children are SO revealing.
She looked so annoyed by a reaction Huxley hadn't even given yet over the toy... No wonder the poor boy feels like he can't relate or bond with her. She's mad at him before he does anything and then she's made herself a self-fulfilling prophecy of him crying or having a "meltdown."
@@littlekitsune1 she's so obviously disappointed in him, or rather that he isn't what she expected and wanted. it's utterly heartbreaking. i feel so sorry for all of her children, this must be so hard on all of them.
@littlekitsune1 My mom used to have same expression. As soon as she approached for anything good or bad my heart always sank or was full of anxiety. She called me selfish for attempting suicide, gaslit my mental health issues and told me that I don’t have friends because I’m constantly angry. As soon as I left, I got therapy, made a lot of friends and do a healthy hobby with an many more friends. I also have a long term bf.
She is highly annoyed with her children.
I am so happy to hear someone else say that it's a red flag when you hear a parent say their child is their best friend. I have thought that for many years. My red flag radar would go up whenever I would hear someone say their child is their best friend. It never seemed right to me. Your children have enough friends they need parents.
I agree. I'm 29, and now I consider my mom one of my best friends. But growing up she was definitely my parent, not my friend! As a teenager I butted heads with her quite a bit :P
A girl I knew in middle and highschool said her mom was her best friend, and though her mother clearly loved her, I felt bad that she didn't have the same kind of protective, stable, responsible parent I did. Her mom was very irresponsible and let her get away with too much.
To be fair, her mom had her as a teenager, so it's not surprising that she had less maturity compared to my mom (who was 30 when she had my sister and I).
My daughters and I are extremely close, almost like besties, but I still remain dominant and a parent. I'm always here for support, but I'm also not your little friend.
Imagine growing up and realising every moment of your childhood was staged for TH-cam mummy videos. Huxley is the lucky one.
That kid is gonna be so fucked up and it's so damn sad to see . Damn
I wonder how Huxley is doing? Hope all is well with all the babies.
Right now it’s fucked up, but it’s definitely for the better. Any family is better than that woman.
It’s sad what they did to Huxley, as he was so happy- even smiling at one point,- but maybe it was for the better.
Yes! Thank God he got out of that situation and isn't forced to "perform" for TH-cam like her biological child will have to. Theres quite a few of these parents out there. Vlogging to indulge in their need for attention.
Its horrendous that she has to film these intimate parts of family life. I've never seen family Vlogs before, they seem horrendous and exploitative. I cant believe they're a thing
I personally have never put any pictures videos of my daughter on any social media. I dont think it's fair until she can have informed consent, maybe I'm overprotective. When I was younger it was embarrassing enough if my mom showed a friend without having for the world to see. It's really easy to lose control of a video or picture once its online
I also thought videoing aspect was horrendous. I’ve become aware that it is out there, but good grief ..it’s hideous to know people actually do this with their families!
브렉시트과학 I often think what are those kids going to think of having been exploited so intimately when they are older.
브렉시트과학 I used to watch vlogs but when all the people I watch started to her babies, I just unsubscribe. At this moment and time I’m not kin in the idea of having kids, so I don’t enjoy watching kids on my free time 😂😂 I would try to see what they are up to but it’s just so boring in my opinion, kids are cute but why would you want to see kids getting upset? 🤷🏻♀️
She made millions off her Channel and sponsors, the first video of Huxley has a Dreft commercial she made, a diaper commercial and TH-cam payed her too.
Some people shouldn’t have children
Imo most people
Brandon Schneider AMEN
As society we need to stop expecting all women to have children or else this is what happens
Most people shouldn't have children.
And she has not 1 not 2 not 3 ,FIVEEE!!!!
its so hard to watch how much she enjoys kova bawling her eyes out because shes going to miss her. god. i was a daycare teacher for years and every time a child cried it broke my heart a little. and those weren't my kids.
You are a nice person. If we cried my mom sang, "Cry baby cry. Stick your finger in your eye. Run & tell your momma a big fat lie." As a small child I didn't understand thewords. But I understand the mocking tone & would go elsewhere to cry. A hateful vicious woman.
Daughter: sobbing and upset
Mom: 😁 📱
This cracked me up 😂
Skyprincess 1995: I really dislike saying this but it was the same between Shanann Watts and daughter bella. (May their souls rest in peace).
@@babasheeny2617 ya know, it's horrific what he did, but l saw that too.
@@babasheeny2617 what happened
@@hamster9747most fun activities ended up with Bella crying......not fun at all.
The part with her daughter crying around 11 minutes made me uncomfortable. Such an inappropriate time to be filming. Thank you for your videos!
Haley Beldin typical narcissistic parent being entertained by their child being upset..
That is what I was thinking. Who films that and then post it for y’all of us to see. Like your daughter needs you not a camera in her face.
She loved it because it validated that someone loved/was going to miss her.
I'm instantly suspicious of anyone with all white furniture.
😂😂😂
I know too many people who have that style at home and ALL turned out to be narcissistic.
No personality.
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Hey now
especially if they have young children, like kids get dirt on everything
She talks like a 14 year old highschool girl. Oh my goddd likeee
I hate grown woman who talk like that. Annoys the hell out of me... 🙄🙄
If you only listened to the voice, and weren’t watching the video, you could totally believe it was a tween or teen speaking.
This woman has a nursing degree and was licensed at one point. Yet she talks like she’s cognitively impaired.
@@stormtrailer4146 i know right? How did she even pass? Im trying to go down the same route and its really hard. She seems too braindead to have done all that o.0
Ikr
Why would someone be filming themselves while their daughter is sad before a trip and then put it on the internet? Like, just give your kid your full attention and love.
I know. If I were the mom I would’ve never filmed that. We would’ve gotten ice cream and done whatever my child wanted to do that day. I would’ve said goodbye in the morning and told them I can’t wait to see them again.
She did it for Narc supply and loved every minute. So sad. Her daughter will cut her off as soon as she hits 18 l bet. Nothing worse than realising you are not actually loved for who you are by your mum.
No kidding!
Poor kid. She's crying and really upset looking for comfort and her mom is putting a toothbrush in her face and being annoying. What a weirdo
A toothbrush and a camera. God forbid her daughter be upset and her not catch it for her socials.
And immediately starts nagging her other daughter to express grief about Mummy dearest leaving as well - which she tries to fake
What bothers me is how she shoves a camera in this kid's face. Like no privacy whatsoever abd then she's so focused on telling the camera how much she's gonna miss her mom that she completely neglects her needs. If my mom ever filmed me in moments like that I would have left home and never return
Yeah it was super cringe and gross to watch. I literally said Yuck out loud.
I'm wondering if Kovas real father is looking at all this and thinking maybe she needs to be with him full-time.
Yep, I felt the same way when my ex husband I divorced. I was very narcissistic. I'm in behavioral therapy now for over 5 years and I'm doing a lot better as a person and a mom. I'm also autistic along with a few other things that make it even harder but I'll never give up trying to be better
I'm glad you realized you needed help and pray for you. Realizing you have a problem and seeking help us huge. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope this lady does the same before it's too late.
Amazing ! You are becoming the best version of yourself and I wish you the best in your journey
You’re amazing, keep working on yourself, you will succeed!
Yes! Congrats and good luck on your journey with yourself and your family ♡
Yes queen!!
Wait...she adopted a son and then gave him back???? WTF?? Ill be watching more but I can not even imagine.
Thats. Pretty common i hear. Scary
They adopted a child with autism and were shocked when they found out he had autism.
@Chelsea O Chelsea it was sarcasm.
@Chelsea O I thought the same when she said 'happy gotcha day!' to him which is a term I've only heard before when people refer to the day they brought home their puppy for the first time
You didn't know that? This is the only reason she is relevant.
One of the positives of the Stauffer debacle was finding your channel. Your content is really insightful. Keep up the amazing work ☺️
Thanks so much! 🤗
Samantha Baines` if you haven’t seen her videos about her own experience with a narcissist hotel manager while on vacation, you have to see them. I still think about that story from time to time.
@@bricy6437 Do you know the title of that video? Thank you!
Julia_Tara I don’t know them (there’s a few) off the top of my head but let me look 😁 th-cam.com/video/uH6GSX1C61c/w-d-xo.html “how I responded to an angry narcissist”
@@bricy6437 thanks for letting me know, I'll take a look ☺️
Wow, she only thought what will men think about her when she's a single mother. She didn't thought about her daughter at all.
Luckily she didn't pull a Susan Smith on her.
My narcissistic mother told me that *I* should be grateful that she was able to find a man who would date a single mom...
And then she got james 😂. I’m sure she feels like she settled with him. She deserves it.
I noticed that too. That was really gross.
Both of my parents were Narcissists
Out of 4 children, I’m the only one who didn’t die of alcoholism, drug addiction and/or bulemia
Accidentally married one, who left the month I was diagnosed with cancer
Actually, the cancer and chemo was less toxic
But, I’m alive, now 65 and doing well, and I MUST take 2 antidepressants every day-helps to mitigate the years of trauma
Unless you have lived with a narcissist, it’s very, very difficult to understand both the real and potential danger to those around them
Thankyou for your astute explanations of appropriate vs narcissistic mothering
Im so sorry this happened to you 😫 so glad to hear youre happy and healthy now and taking your medication 💜 truly a strong woman and inspirational 😁 thank you for sharing your story
And the accusations people label you like unfilial, people are just dumb.
Stay strong
Bless u for making out! Some will some won’t! So sorry u had to go thru that but thank u for rising above and being true to u in a positive way!
Wow! It's as if you ripped a page out my nightmare. I am so glad to hear you're doing well after cancer💜💜💜
I had emergency surgery after Dr's found my gall bladder was gangrened and guess who wasn't there when I woke up.... Instead he accused me of having mysterious "visitors" because I wasn't answering my cell or my room phone😏
That's what I came out of surgery to and it was so brutal. Next thing I know we're fighting in the parking lot after picking up my pain medication because I wouldn't give him any. I ended up throwing them away just to end the argument. This is just ONE incident of many. People can question how we allowed such abuse or put us down but these monsters know exactly what they are doing and prey upon the goodness of others. It's a sick way of getting from others what they lack in themselves. They can imitate but can NEVER really feel beautiful emotions. And they are good at mirroring behavior. I used to think I would never let some guy disrespect me and once I was hooked the mask fell off. Sometimes I feel I'll be traumatized forever and I'll never trust anyone again. That's where it's safest. I'm so sorry you went through the mud and have shared a little piece of your story. Thank you💐💐💐
I can't help feeling glad that Huxley is no longer a part of that poison, and now I hope he has a family that want him for him!
I certainly am
I hate parents who say their young children are their best friends. That will come in time after they are grown but until then, be the parent!
I agree with you! I have 4 kids, 3 girls and a boy ages 23,21,19 and 14. My 2 oldest daughters are now my best friends! I’ve given them the tools to succeed in life, and now they are adults I can be their best friend! My 14 y/o I still need to be her mom and guide her, I can be her best friend when she becomes and adult! I’m getting my 1st grandbaby in October, so I’m excited for this next journey in life with a grandbaby!
Those turn out to be very angry children. Children want their parents to teach them the rules, the boundaries, survival skills. They don't believe their parents love them when they fail to do that so they end up hating their parents for not caring enough.
Yep
Now I understand why my mother would always scold me when I call her my best friend 😂 i am your m o t h e r, not your friend, we've always had a great relationship
I couldn't agree more. A parent needs to be a parent before anything else to their child. My mom was fairly strict when I was growing up and admittedly, it caused a lot of arguments between us and periods when I just didn't want to know her. But she always gave a reason as to why she said "no" to certain things and if I asked, she'd explain why she expected certain things of me and my brothers. Now, fast forward to being 24 I agree with my whole heart to the way that I was raised and understand why she didn't let me do everything my friends were doing, and we have a really close relationship. I hope that down the line when I have kids of my own I'm as good of a mother as she has been.
First thing I noticed is that she doesn't talk 'with' her children, she talks 'about' her children to an imaginary audience. And there's a huge difference between having your parent talk 'with' you, having a parent talk 'at' you, or having them talk 'about' you. For example, my NPD mother never talked 'with' me, it was always either 'at' or 'about'. When I turned 30 and got engaged, she literally refused to talk 'with' me even when I confronted her about her avoidance to communicate like adults. She chose to talk 'about' me to other family members and claim to be victimized by my sudden shift in personality.
I'm sorry you had to deal with that
That sounds familiar. My mom is hard to pinpoint I’m not sure if she’s a narc or not.
Exact same thing happened to me. I’m sorry. Therapy can help you learn how to behave “normally” in a healthy relationship.
You dont know what goes own behind the camera or when cameras arent around.
Sounds like my mother in law
I have a narcissist mother. Im 33 and still have PTSD. Its hard to function with other adults. Courts need to look more at parents who re narcissist
My mother was too. I was 30 when I started to understand why I struggled. I agree with you, it needs more attention!
Same here
Absolutely! My mother was very narcissistic and very jealous of me growing up because "I was able to have more than she ever did" as a teenager. I was always too fat, I had red hair that she hated, she'd hit me with whatever she could reach and went so far as to not let me shower but once a week....but i went to school and made something out of myself in the Army. She then turned to my children and treated them as badly as she did me. Took me until I turned 40 to quit seeking that "something" from my mother that I was never going to get. My father died in 2007 and I never saw my mother again.
Abuse is abuse whether it’s physical, mental, sexual, or verbal. The problem is the courts can’t do anything if they don’t know. I think a lot of the problem is some people don’t consider it abuse unless the child is being beaten or molested. People don’t realize how damaging verbal and mental abuse really is and the long term effects of it especially when it’s ignored.
Deplorable Cat , Courts do recognize it because it’s abuse but they can’t know about it unless someone reports it. The courts are to blame if they’re made aware and do nothing but they are not mind readers. It’s the people who are aware of this abuse (spouse, relative, teacher, coach) whether it’s witnessing it firsthand or the child confides in them and they choose to not get involved are partially to blame.
When I say I’m triggeredddd, just personally speaking growing up w a narcissistic mother. May spirit watch over those kids, Asé. May we all have the self awareness to break toxic generational cycles
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Ase! 💜
Amem, Amanda!
Absolutely! I desperately want to break that cycle and show love with no conditions to my children
Did she convince u to hate your dad?
Imagine growing up in a home after your parents gave away your brother because he required extra care. Do you ever feel secure again? Every time you get in trouble or become sick do you get anxious you too have become too much like brother?
And, before Brother leaves, are you not afraid to associate with him, knowing Mother is disappointed?
Will you get punished as well?
Will you have *him* punished even more?
Maybe it's not H. the unluckiest among these children...
They didn't give him away because he required extra care. They gave him away because he didn't feed Myka's ego enough.
I know😭
My "mother" gave me and my brother up for adoption at birth...grandparents took him, he was 4 yrs older, some of their friends took me, i remember it, i was loved, my "mother" was on her 3rd marriage and 3rd kid at age 25, when she took these lovely people to court and got me back🤕😵🥴...i was used till my escape at 2 weeks into 17 to be her nanny maid foul punching bag and sex toy to her 3rd husband and she physically mentally verbally financially abused till i was 60...whats really bad is when my older brother died unexpectedly at age 53, she was completely unaffected....i didnt know what all these mental terms meant in the 50s...wish i wouldve had yt and fb
I wonder about that also.
Myka Stauffer is going to kill you, LOLOLOLOL.
You're really dissecting her under an electron microscope at this point.
A great learning opportunity nonetheless. Great work as always.
MazBringsby and I hope she keeps going! I find it absolutely fascinating. It actually teaches me so much about my life experiences too. It explains SO much for me.
We learn a lot with cases like her, a lot, I love to watched the analysis, always great!!!
The thing is, her children are going to be so damaged by this. Narcissists often wreck sibling relationships and play their kids off against each other which is awful. I guess Huxley has a lucky escape - I do hope he’s ok though. X
You nail it . Thanks
Yeah, Helen, that’s so true. It’s called triangulation and it’s pretty devastating. I was the ‘black sheep’ or ‘scapegoat’ of my family (because I spoke up against the mad dynamic, I was punished by being cast in the role of the ‘villain’), and until I realized in my older age what the dynamic actually was - I had many painful years of confusion and frustration and hurt upon hurt. Even now, hip to it all and having done much healing inside, I still struggle with the understanding that all of my siblings and I can’t be genuinely close. I’m free of the madness of the ‘clique’, but in doing so I’ve sacrificed almost all familial relationships, except on the most surface level. Though their closeness isn’t authentic either. Basically, nobody wins. I have more of myself though, authentically. I wish that for them. However, I’m realistic 🌼
The ‘friends’ thing from a mother really resonates. It’s been a situation that I’ve sensed my entire life. My mother treated me as a stranger as our relationship was breaking down. Good feelings from my teenage years, regarding mum, always felt like a good friendship, but also very precarious. I had to agree with her always, or else she wouldn’t be my ‘friend’. Thank you for uploading another super video on this subject. I’ll never stop trying to understand what makes these people tick.
That would have been really stressful! My pleasure, I'm glad it's helpful to you 🤗
Gloria Vargo haha, I went through the same shit but with my REAL supposed best friend (at the time). one ostracized session too many and I was outta there, thankfully
My adult daughter does this to me. If I don't agree with everything she's saying or doing and praise her, she'll later describe the conversation or interaction as a fight. Going so far as to add to what was actually said or change what actually occurred. If not for my grandchildren, I'd have nothing to do with her.
Me too. I am now 48 and just now able to make the break. Super hard to watch but probably good for me to see.
A kid clinging to the leg of a parent who’s leaving for an hour has attachment issues, when my mom would drop my sister and I off, she told us we would wave by and go play, we never questioned that she would be right back because she was always there
already developed an anxious insecure attachment style
I'd say the parent has taught this child to have issues.
True that 👉🏼
This is a really good point.
It depends on the age. It’s totally normal for a toddler to do that. Older kids, no
9:13 killed me. Look at the excitement fade away from her face when she realized her mom was only giving her attention because she was recording. That had wanting to give her such a big hug 🥺
It really did. Sweet little girl needs to be unconditionally loved 😔
Waka 😂😂
Wow, you’re a great observer!
Or the way she pushes Huxley out of camera view😡
And only giving her a duty, nothing loving. And she never told her she will miss her when she leaves only her missing her mom.
She's supposed to be talking about her relationship with her daughter on her 'family channel' but the whole thing sounds like a gossip session with a girlfriend. All that's missing is the box of wine.
Family Vloggers seem like they neglect their children, or they use their kids for social boosting.
It is all about money fame and fortune until the children and animals they raised grow to hate them and turn against them sad reality but true
Most
Not Living Rosa, no.
Not all of them. Don’t stereotype them all.
Myka's face looking at Huxley like that broke my heart. I can't imagine what he went through when cameras were off💔
Wow, I had to pause the video at 12:03 it was so moving watching the little girl cry. I can't believe she has a camera in her face when she's so vulnerable and in need. When your child is so upset you pull them close to your chest and you can feel an ache in your chest, all you want to do is take the pain away. This is heartbreaking to watch. The look of satisfaction on Mykas face when the little girl is crying about missing her. Pretty dark stuff.
That moment of the look of satisfaction seriously sent chills down my spine. So utterly heartbreaking.
Yes, and she kept trying to get her to cry more, instead of comforting her and taking her mind off the pain she keeps rubbing it in to get more reaction. "You're really gonna miss me huh?" "Am I gonna be away from you for sooooooo long huh?" "we've never been apart for THAT long before huh?"... scary!
I had to fast forward. Happy i wasn’t the only one who was creeped out.
Natural Mystic you are so right. When your child is upset you feel upset too.
Ugh yeah really dark. Myka just makes a big joke about it and teases her with the toothbrush and a camera right in her face instead of comforting her. The poor girl sees the camera so probably feels obligated to put on a happy face. I bet she's been told how to act when the little red light is on.
"My kids are super attached to me" that's probably due to trauma bonding lol
:'(
Yes she might give them away like Huxley or the dogs. I'll bet they're attached.
Its disgusting seeing how immature and obnoxiously self-centered she is. Dont give attention to this kind of people, please
Put the phone down and give your daughter a hug!! It's painful
She did lose that competition. I heard her say in one video that Huxley was more attached to her husband than to her. Is that what giving her son up stemmed from?!
Oh wow, that’s a good point to make
I think it was a bit more like responsibility shifting? "It hasn't really hurt him to lose ME he loves my husband more"
My same thought, yes that's what it is.
Yup, she doesn’t want anyone who cares for someone else, more than her! SHE wanted to be her son’s number 1!
I thought that the second this vid mentioned the competition thing. How she said her husband was the favourite, and what's funny is she claims the son basically 'hated' her and had disdain for her, which to me sounds like she's making up stories in her head to better justify her dislike for him. It's really fucked up, but if she sees her kids as friends more than a responsibility then I can see where this thought process stems from.
Her children are more emotionally mature than she is. This analysis is SPOT ON!
Couldn’t click on this fast enough. “I’m not laughing!” No, but you are literally smiling at your child’s distress.. LOVE how you hone in on the micro expressions throughout. You have completely nailed it of course, yet again!! 💕
Thanks Aisling! 💜
I can't imagine continually recording my children crying and allowing the whole world to watch. Its cruel
It is cruel. And a breach of the child’s privacy.
Wow. Myka looked at Huxley with disgust and contempt when giving him that toy. She is pure evil and she hated that child.
Yes that was absolute resentment.
That upset me so much, little man Hux never asked for that life, he never needed toys and fawning over and parading in front of a camera. All he needed was 100% real genuine love and warmth. It breaks my heart what has happened to him but I'm so glad he's out of there. I can't imagine the level of resentment that would have built up towards him from her and the other kids (because of her) over more time.
@@emmt1256 the police report came out and said his new mommy and older siblings are great and love him a lot already. He's talking now! And getting the help, supervision, and love he deserves!
I still can't even fathom how she could feel that way about such a sweetheart. But I guess that's what sets her apart from "normal people".... no wonder he thought it was hilarious to refuse to kiss her when she asked. 😛
Yes!!! Any normal mother smiles while giving a their child a gift! I know I do! So the look she gave him really said a lot ! She looked angry to be giving him anything!!!
It feels like she doesn’t want her mum to go because she’s never had her mum to begin with
Ouch. That struck a chord with me. Great observation.
I feel like this hit the nail on the head
Most children love their parent even if the parent is rubbish. Among even normal children some will be more attached than others, based on the personality of the child as well as the parent.
Such an empty feeling.
I know.
Yep just put my thoughts into words
It’s annoying that she goes for the camera for every single private moment especially ones that are supposedly showing proof she’s a good mom 🙄
Let's talk about an upset child whilst she sobs her heart out listening to the entire conversation about her! Turn the bloody camera off and see to your child. She is worth more than clicks and looking a certain way! I can see this girl hitting her teens and going to live with her father or worse gravitating towards a person simply because they show an interest in her.
This woman is a monster. As a father to two grown boys the fact that she is making light of her daughter’s sadness at her leaving brings up such negative feelings. Great catch of Myka dropping her mask at the end. Her dislike of Huxley was so great she forgot the camera was on for an instant.
I don’t really see this. I think it’s just a case of resting bitch face. I have it really badly and sometimes I see pictures of myself at a happy gathering, looking like I want to rain fire and brimstone on them when in reality I was quite content but just had RBF. 😂😂😂😂
It’s so difficult to watch her content in filming her children upset. I’m not even a parent yet and it makes feel horrendous to watch
@@taralohman6492 I can't imagine that you ever looked _at a child_ in the way Myka looked at Huxley in this special scene at the end of the video. I personally think it's a huge difference if you're just looking around, or if you're looking at your smiling child with such an expression on your face. 🤷♀️
Tara Lohman I don’t think even someone with an RBF would be looking at their kid like that while giving them a toy and saying happy gotcha day
@@nil-8026 Lord, I sure hope not, but I was looking at the pictures of me at my son's wedding and wanted to caption them all, "I'm not angry, I promise, I'm HAPPY!!"
I grew up with 2 abusive parents, one of which was narcissist. It has taken me years of counseling to undo all the damage. Some people should not have children period.
Why would you put your child on video crying. When they just needed you to reassure them.
She seems like she’s enjoying it. That’s how my narc mom is, she loves to feel needed and would rather see us cry for her than be happy and independent.
She’s egging on the other daughter as well to get upset..... are you going to miss me as well, your not going to see me for 5 days.... is that a real miss you??? I wonder what Myka said to the eldest daughter before she got upset... she appeared to be enjoying it.
Yeah that was BIZARRE. "was that a real miss you" uhhhh
I guarantee she was. I have step kids and their mom does this ALL the time ... she likes to escalate situations rather than deescalate and nurture and then she relishes in it all
Dee ,
59snitt yes?
This is how my narcissistic mother talked to me..
Poor Kova. She is a very pretty girl and I am almost sure that, when she will be old enough, Myka will get jealous of her beauty and start competing with her. Unfortunately, I know many people like her.
That's a great point. Myka is selfish, cold, and ruthless, so I wouldn't put it past her to compete with her own daughter. She may even try to sabotage Kova.
Yes! Ditto! You nailed it, my friend
Maybe she'll bootstrap her eating disorder onto her. I've seen that one happen too. Mother competing with her 13 yr old daughter to lose weight.
Or she will use Kova's beauty as a way to use her to get even more views/money
I really hope if it comes to this kovas dad steps up and gets her out of the situation at least flop it, more time with dad then mom, because I can completely see her trying to compete against her when she's older I pray kovas dad is there to support and give her the real love she needs the older she gets.
The children cling to the narc because their position with the narc is precarious
This is hard to watch. A poor child desperately trying to not lose their security. 😟😟😟
We dont have choice yet but inside we wish we are adult who can have a job so we can escape..
“I’m not sharing her.” It’s not about you!
That was 2 years ago and she did relent.
I do think this is a common and normal thing for mothers to feel, especially if a separation happens early in the child’s life. BUT, it’s a feeling. Fighting in court when the child’s not at risk is too far.
The worst thing was watching the little girl cry into the camera lens because she knows her mother only sees her there.
When she was saying “I’m not sharing her with you, I’m not sharing anything-....” that seemed odd to me.
She was saying because she was angry with her ex and felt wronged and as a only child she felt the child only belonged to her. She said she no longer feels like that and she realized how wrong she was. I can see that she is admitting where she was wrong. I dont know the wh il e situation yet I am just now looking into it I can only go on what I am just seeing here.
Agreed! It was like she wasnt speaking about her child, a human being, but more like that of a shirt or pair of earrings.
Ashley Roberts Children aren’t things. That’s the point. Narcissists refer to their children as possessions.
MissLalove123 Yes, my point exactly. That’s a narcissistic thing. 🤷♀️ I feel for kids who have narcissistic parents. Having been raised by one myself.
Yes. I’ve seen the same attitude in other narcissistic parents going through divorce/separation. It’s very hard for them to see the children as belonging equally to both father and mother.
This mom is gonna be shocked when they became a legal adult. My mom is a narc, and I haven't been in contact with her for 2 years.. escaped 2 years ago...
God bless and keep you hun, I will pray you have a wonderful and beautiful life.
God, I hope you're in a much better place now. I couldn't imagine how it must've been for you.
Silently Screaming I like that you said escaped! I feel as though if I moved away from my mom I would finally be free!
@@BrookeaCookea bless your heart. Hang in there. Once you get away you need to keep 2 things in mind. 1. Everything will not be perfect because you are free. You will have to put yourself through recovery and do the work and gain the knowledge of how to love and how to be different from her.
2. You will be attracted to dysfunctional people subconsciously. You must be diligent and attentive or you will lose your freedom again to a romantic relationship.
God be with you and I hope and pray that you find him on your journey because that is where true peace and healing come from. I am 40 and I have 3 grown daughters that I adore but it was so hard to get here. You need God to help you 🙏
Best wishes. I had a Combo Platter Cluster B Personality Disordered cuntasaureus of a “Mother” and left her in her playpen decades ago and remained absolutely no contact for the rest of her miserable life. Decades worth of no contact. These people last forever and become the wrinkled old ugly, alone poster children for “Only the Good Die Young; The Gold Diggers Hang Around Long after their Expiration Date.”
Never, ever go back and congratulations on your freedom! WOOT!
When Cova comes of age,and starts dating,Myka will surely be making a fool of herself,trying to compete. And I wonder if she will still think of Cova as her ’best friend’. Things will turn sour,somehow.
It took a couple years for her to accept that her daughter was going to go to her dad's for a little bit! That's insane!
Wow. Kova mimicking her mom's jaded attitude towards Huxley is sad.. Especially in comparison to the blanket moment you showed right before.💔
She's a nurse! What a nightmare to be at the mercy of somebody like that.
Wow. Lucky patients.
A lot of narcissists will get jobs like that because their patients “need” them. It’s all about making them feel necessary and needed and like the patients are totally dependent on them.
I've had narcissists as nurses, throughout my life. It can be traumatic. I have so many examples if you are interested that will blow your mind 🤯🤯🤯 oh and doctors too
mountain mermaid1331 plenty of narcissists in the healthcare field. Come across A LOT of nurses who only care about themselves...
I'm not trying to be funny, but she is who they make Lifetime movies about.
the part where shes talking about a juice diet thing and the poor baby just wants her attention reminds me of the Still Face Experiment. poor lil thing just wants her mommy's attention
9:24 or so she pushes him away. Man, she’s awful.
Yep. Just moves him along.
Seeing her push Huxley aside was sad to watch.
Disgusting.
I saw that too like.....😮😮
@@heathers432 She just brushed him aside .She's done that before. What an awful Mother. Those poor kids.
14 minutes in was heart wrenching. She treats him like a puppy. “Come’re” and shoving stuff in his face. And her poor daughter looks broken. Reminds me so much of myself. My dad would even snap at me to come over. I even overheard him say when I was 15 to his girlfriends family that I was like an untrained and unruly dog. I barged in and told him that I’m not a fucking dog to be trained, I’m a human being who needs love, care, and mentoring.
I applaud your bravery for stepping up for yourself!
I wish I'd had that bravery. My dad's favorite thing to tell me "You're (me) only good for wasting the oxygen others need to live". Those words would cut me deeper than anything else could.
S.D. Agee you should’ve said and you’re only good for talking shit.
lll thank you. It took a long time to muster up that courage, and it did not go unpunished, but I’m proud of myself for doing so.
S.D. Agee that’s awful. I’m terribly sorry you have to live with that. And even though this is coming from a stranger on the internet, who doesn’t even know you, that is absolutely unacceptable to say to you and I completely disagree with him. It’s especially hard to hear cause it’s coming from someone who is supposed to be your parent and unconditional loved one. I hope you find peace and can accept yourself as the complete opposite type of person your dad tries to make you feel like you are. He will sadly never change, but that’s not your burden to bare. You deserve happiness.
She's more than narcissistic. It's all about fame and money for her. She actually had a fund raiser to adopt that poor child while wearing a 5k gold Cartier bracelet. Then she gives the baby back....unbelievable!
All the money she raised and made off Huxley should be given to him.
That’s literally narcissistic lol. You can’t be “more than narcissistic”. Lol that’s a personality disorder. Personality disorders aren’t mental illness where you take a pill and have some therapy. A personality disorder means there’s something wrong with your personality... not your brain... like, literally who you are as a person. That’s as strong a word for “self-centered” as there is lol.
Someone said that bracelet is $6,000 but while wearing this bracelet on one of her videos she's on the beach talking about Huxley and getting him a cheaper therapist this time. As she's flashing this $6,000 bracelet and her ginormous diamond ring. If my child needed something concerning their health and future I'd be first in line at the pawn shop.
@@speeeee35 you can be "more than narcisisstic". Youre then verging on sociopathy.
Did you mean 25 karat gold? 5 karat (21%) isn't very much at all; cheap gold is 14 karat.
when i was a kid i knew i could tell my mom about anything but that she would still be my mom, but thanks to that open communication, as an adult, i do feel like we're friends. but as a child there was a distinct line between mom and friend and i think its why we have a healthy relationship still
She did this with Huxley too- he would essentially "resource guard" her- aka get jealous when other kids where affectionate, and rather than see that as a sign he felt insecure and needed help she LAUGHED at him and bragged about it.
So true it’s all there in the videos and the “investigators” found nothing.
Jenny J
Not the first time (and sadly, won’t be the last) so-called child protective services drop the ball on identifying negligent/abusive parents. They also probably aren’t trained to identify severe narcissism or other personality disorders in parents and how damaging it is for children to develop in an environment with one (or two).
Yes I was just saying this on another thread. She completely did not comprehend that he was insecure and needed reassurance and needed to feel safe. Instead she just let it feed her ego and even encouraged another kid to hug her to see what Huxley would do. Unbelievable.
I heard on without a crystal ball that there were actually people staying with hux and reviewing the situation for months before this happened- it seemed like hux would act out and they made references to the younger kids' safety... considering how insecure he was and how little real warmth he got I think it's possible he saw the new born myka decided to have while not being able to fulfill his needs in the first place as a threat ect...
In one video they are at the kitchen table and she says that H gets jealous of Radley. She then purposely gives Radley affection to tease H and laughs about it. Seriously messed up
She talks about her daughter like her daughter is a purse....
THANK YOU!! I never say my daughter is my best friend. I am her mother but her best friend is another person's role. I never say my girls are "mine" they are their own person with their own ambitions and personalities. They are my babies yes but not "mine"
A+
Nicely written.
She didn't have any friends so she birthed one.
I half joke with my kids that I or their dad are their best friend, but they are both preschool age, so I feel like that is kind of okay? I wouldn't be saying that in another few months when my oldest starts school though, as he will actually be making friends by then 😭 I find it so sad she never once mentioned how Kova coped with it all, or what was in her interest. It was so sad to see her cry and Myka show her no care. But the worst bit was seeing her face giving H a gift to CELEBRATE his gotcha day, and she looked as if she just absolutely loathed him. 😟
I have said that having a daughter is “growing your own best friend” - I guess what I should say is that I am blessed to have a great relationship with my daughter. She is 28 now.
My theory is, I’m not here to be my kid’s friend. I’m here to guide them through life, and teach them to be independent. Then, once that’s accomplished, we can be friends.
She gives her son a contemptuous look at the end when she's giving him a gift.... almost pissed off
Because he wasn't excited about it as e was already playing with something.
And she snatched the other toy he had in hisnhand
She literally looks like she hates him when she looks at him
Healthy weight for her height is about 130-170. She’s 135 and trying to lose 21 lbs? I know that’s off topic but she’s completely delusional.
She’s very skinny...she doesn’t need to lose a lb.
I thought the same thing. Shes gonna go down to 100 pounds at 5'8? Yuck!
@@lyndsieb701 not even top models are this skinny, are they?
I thought the same thing. I’m also 5’8, and when I was a party animal/drug addict back in my 20’s I weighed 120lbs and was SOoOo skinny. I look back now and think I looked anorexic. My shorts from back then look like they belong to a child. At 135 I was actually fit, still thin but a healthy weight. Since having kids I’m now comfortable at about 145/150. She definitely has some body image issues going on, which is not surprising I guess.
@@laurenmay2098 i have no idea. Im sure they are sickly thin as well
The part where her daughter was crying got me😟 she really didn't comfort her at all😭😭😭
Vanessa A She stuck a camera in her face instead. I can’t even imagine wanting to film and share my children when they’re sad. Disgusting.
Not only didn’t comfort her, but seemed intent on exacerbating her daughter’s distress 😔
@@shrinkmesilly what I got from that was "look how much my kids love me! I must be very special do you see it guys??"
@@juliakay6204 in some videos the little girl looks like she is used to having her feelings not considered at all. Sad.
I'm not sharing my daughter with her father
What the hell is she talking about.
I have never heard a mother say that ever
That's so sad. It shows she's not even capable of a tiny bit of empathy. Everyone knows that a child needs both parents if at all possible.
In Germany, I’ve heard exactly this statement really often.
@Rchl Swtzr I'm sorry u went threw that
That's the kind of woman who talks badly about the father to their child. That's the kind of woman who used their kid as a pawn and threatens "you'll never see them again". Those women who go through court give zero shit to the mental health or relationship with their kid and secretly hope they both fall apart.
Unfortunately I have heard it often but usually when the dad is a no-good guy with bad habits. In her case, really doubt it as he is a physician assistant so must be responsible and did not hurt that daughter in any way from the sound of it.
omg, in the last video u showed, Myka looks at Huxley like she does not like him and forces him to play with that toy. Myka is a perfect example of pretty face but a dark soul.
Her face is like "Take it, u little son of the.... or I'll smack u". He took the toy because she made him take it, but did not enjoy himself. Huxley had good intution about her. He will be happy somewhere else, this witch would gladly see him die of tumour (thats why she wanted him to have it!) and get glory for taking care of this sweet Chinese angel. Good vibes to him to have happy life. The girl, Kova is seemingly empathic and seems tormented in the video when she watches him play.
Usually when i buy my toddler a toy I’m happy and smiling and excited. Never once did i do what she did it’s weird
You can quite definitely see how excluded Huxley was towards the end from normal family activities,Mykas other kids copied their mothers sickening behaviour towards Huxley ,they looked at him as a menacing nuisance
Kathy Toohey The girls look also could mean that she was jealous of the attention he got at that moment or the fact that this moment was filmed and she did not want to take part in this set up. Just a differential diagnosis so to say.
Kata Na Very true either way ,I once watched a video of Kova being very rude and disrespectful to James her husbands mother ,Myka didn’t even correct her .I think those kids have mixed messages as to what morals and compassion they are taught also towards others
Great video! I used to work as a social worker in a Child Protection team, and you're so right about the toxic environments some children grow up in. Red flags were parents saying their child was their friend, attributing completely unrealistic expectations, eg one mother said that her 18 month old daughter was self-sufficient, utter lack of empathy, ridiculing children, awful name-calling, no warmth etc etc. It used to break my heart to see these poor children trying to be good enough for approval. I'd MUCH rather work with parents with substance misuse, Mental health issues, than these unloving and selfish parents. Thanks for this video, makes me want to go back into social work!!
So sad! 😔Maybe you should go back, there aren't enough good social workers!
I always said a family with substance abuse or lack of knowledge or poverty were much easier than those in toxic environments that appear on the surface fine but underneath you can see there are big issues. The threshold for emotional abuse is high and narcissistic parenting is not classed as an issue.
I found out my mother is a covert narcissist, 5 years ago. And it was the biggest shock to realise everything wasn't my fault but that my mother had done it to me. Your videos helped me enormously
My mum recently died, and as predicted, with the help of the golden child daughter, she took me out of the will. It's fine, I've had a peaceful few years without the two of them in my life.
Regardless of whether Myka is a full blown narcissist or not, she is not meeting the needs of her daughter, fails to make eye contact and seems to be addicted to the screen. She seems disconnected from her children and her daughter Kova dislikes/resents/is made uncomfortableby the presence the camera. She looks quite sad. And over looked. And dragged along with her mother crackpot instagram life. That she has to comply with, with no choice, as she lives in the household of Myka, and James, who is not her father. I doubt her real father treats her this way. Kova wants connection with her mother but Myka wants connection with her audience. Her children, and their needs, almost do not exist, as is definitely secondary. She is a distracted parent, not present even when her daughter is lying crying on her lap, preferring instead to make faces at her audience.
That poor little girl has such a sad blank look on her face. I hope Kova and the other children getting the help they need.
It’s so weird to see her in that juice cleanse video. Did anyone else think she was making a lot of sexual innuendos there ? It’s a complete 180 from her current persona of being a wholesome angel hero or whatever characteristic she’s trying to fake at any given moment 🙄
Yep. Who makes a video like that other than a woman looking for a hot date? It’s all foggy like she’s about to lie down with a glass of juice. She’s a teaser especially with her kids. Taunting, goading, belittling, filming all the time. What a total bitch.
She flips her personality to whatever will make money, I guess.
Yes! When that footage started for a few seconds I thought it was something for a dating profile or it would turn out to be advertising her self! No joke.
Obviously it registered soon after but no, you aren’t the only one
She said her mouth has been so bored😆
@@nikki6799 If you don't know then I don't think I should tell you, lol.
Those poor kids are going to be so messed up when they get older. You can already see it in Kova's expression. The little boy was downright nasty to Huxley. It was obvious there was resentment there. The two boys were the same age. It's obvious not much thought was given to this adoption. Huxley was for video content. Lord on!y knows how that little boy was treated when the cameras were off.
I know!! Myka is capable of violent assaults against adult co-workers, so why would her sick narc mind spare a helpless, disabled child she and her entire family clearly hated?
Good that Huxley was able to leave that poisonous nest.
All she talks about is herself. Her interactions with children are designed for maximum "effect", and how she can spin it in a way to start talking about herself again.
Yeah I kept hearing her talk about herself as well.
Speaking about your child in front of them is so awful. I’m so grateful for my mom, and her mom, being direct about how a parent should never do that. It’s an easy and common thing to do, but this video was especially heartbreaking, as she’s exploiting her daughter’s emotions for thousands of people.
MYKA is The most obnoxious individual I have ever seen in my 72 years
Welcome to the full blown era of Narcissism.
My 46 years lol
Agreed. And she’s in my Top 3 “Most Dangerous”
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i feel like she is still getting a kick of seeing herself on screen and knowing people are watching.
Her “modeling” thing failed so...
At first when I saw this I was thinking to myself "why are we still talking about this hasbeen? We get it!", but then as I went further into the video, I could see that not only did Myka treat Huxley like an object, but even her kids aren't exempt from her narcissistic behavior! Now I think people should keep making these videos, not to keep her relevant, but to expose her! I've seen some of these videos, and overlooked many things you addressed.
My mom LOVED for me to cry when she left. She was called out by various family members and child care professionals for dragging it out....
It really made her feel validated and important to have me in tears for nearly an hour each morning.
Seeing the daughters sad drained face was heartbreaking 😔
It made me angry and I want to go get her out! The mom watched that back while editing and still decided she was proud of her work.
@@zhenren9703 I hope she's being investigated and the children are with a family member that can be a positive role model 🙏
I do have to wonder if the parents even discussed with the other 4 kids about them adopting a brother. Like I wonder if the kids got any say in the matter at all.
I was raised by a self absorbed narc mom, I see my young self in that little girl. It’s heartbreaking to watch, especially knowing that there’s still more to come. It’s the worst form of abuse.