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A Secret To Attracting Women That Most Men Don't Understand
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- A Secret To Attracting Women That Most Men Don't Understand
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Community gives rise to relationships - relationships do NOT give rise to communities.
GoldJacketLuke Mark Manson is another good one to consider listening to.
GoldJacketLuke - hi baby
The number one thing that a guy can do to attract more women is self-improvement. What most men don’t understand is that it’s not the effort put into attracting a women that actually attracts them, it’s the effort that a man puts into himself that attracts them.
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What about it is bs? Self improvement comes in many forms, for example: building wealth or improving how you look. If you work on yourself women will come.
“First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women.” -Scarface
David Chhoun www.pinterest.com/pin/398920479488032183/?%24ios_deeplink_path=pinterest%3A%2F%2Fpin%2F398920479488032183&%24android_deeplink_path=pinterest%3A%2F%2Fpin%2F398920479488032183&_client_id=LKHuRUWQYeqhTZHuZx_esSYjz_TahMgplP6Cm3MLme2xvUfcLZ_-NbhVM8_UtRjr¤t_page_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Famp%2Fpin%2F398920479488032183%2F&install_id=ecd13630a27bc3fcc2f867eefba52fc0&%24fallback_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pinterest.com%2Fpin%2F398920479488032183%2F%23details&_branch_match_id=540989137801334388#details
Many self destructive people get lots of pussy. Trippie Redd, for example. It comes down to soical proof
You missed the point of my comment.
Basically, don’t spend time trying to bag a bitch. Instead, do your own shit; go on that hustle & grind.
David Chhoun yes. Hustle and grind in a way that grants more soical proof. To then able you to bag your bitch.
Dont worry if you stutter sometimes. It just means your mind is working faster than your tongue.
Yep! 👍 :) Elon Musk stutters a fair amount.
"Someone who's nice to you but rude to the waiter is not a nice person."
YEP!
Christian Bale giving advice now?
No, Justin Beibers older brother
More like Jake Gyllenhaal
Bruh how does he look like all of em combined wtf
@@everenaytac1705 Because his body is descending into a higher state of existence. Into a higher dimension where only the enlightened like Buddha prevail.
Lmao just watched american psycho and thought the same thing.
If you focus on what makes you happy and put that always first, women will flock to you cause they sense you frequency is on a higher level. BUT make sure to NEVER sacrifice your happiness for any woman or for that matter anyone.
Basically get your mind off girls and focus on yourself and goals in life
Alright then. My goal is to commit suicide 👍
Here we go
Viktor the victor don’t do that
@@viktorthevictor6240 you still alive
Dear Mr. GoldJacket, you are a proper homie. Thank you for your videos.
So true. Always watch how you or those who are around you treat somebody who can't do anything for them.
Yep. This is my favorite comment on this video. Can tell if someone has a good heart based on this. :)
It’s status man. Girls love social status
Alec Garcia Money, looks and status
Melisa Sult wtf of course it's true
Melisa Sult definitely true. I’m a decent looking dude I’d say a 7 or 8 but I have no social status and I’m a huge nerd/hippie. Girls are very turned off by my introverted ways. I
Shaggy they just don’t understand why you’re like that. Show you’re a cool person that would benefit their life and see where it goes. if you’re a loser trying to persuade them that their life is wrong or why everyone is wrong and you’re right they’ll be put off.
Jakub Cambor it sounds like you’ve been exactly where I am right now. You’re exactly right I have been a cynical piece of shit thinking my way was the only way but things are getting much better ever since I started monthly psilocybin mushroom trips. I just completely started opening up as a person and attracting all kinds of people into my life. Still no serious relationship or gf but things are looking up.
You nail this video! Woman are very intuitive, we are constantly observing the environment around us, and how people interact and respond to such simple daily interactions. Great message! I really enjoy your content 😊
Love your comment! Thanks for commenting! :)
As a woman, I can tell you this is 100% completely TRUE!!
Thanks for saying this owlrighty!!
What Not To Do At a Stoplight hell yeah
Never believe what woman say.
You also lie.
This is spot on, a lot of men need to keep this piece of advice in mind. You’re a sweetheart, that girl is lucky for sure
Thanks for the comment Karina! :)
GoldJacketLuke You’re so welcome 💕
" women are attracted to how a guy interact with his environment" well said ;-) , in addition to the way a guy treats his own family (especially his mom and siblings) is extremely important cause that would reflect his own future life.
What a load of bullshit
Your videos are so unconventional and truthful and that’s why you don’t have as many subscribers as you deserve. Love you brother, keep dropping the gems.
I really appreciate your comment brother!
GoldJacketLuke absolutely brother. You are very unique and wise and you have a knack for communicating your esoteric knowledge with the world that’s so admirable and appreciated by your true supporters. I find great value in what you say. Thanks so much. ❤️
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I think the “ pick up artist” thing is a phase ( beginners generally speaking) techniques get all wrapped in your head! The perspective that I look at it but we converge in results is that you have to become an attract guy. You can’t just “ try “ to be in your best shape when the girl shows up because if you’re not that way with everyone than you’re just” trying” to be what you think she wants you to be.
Very true! Thanks for commenting Marvin!
This is something that I've thought of before. It's all about being an alpha. It's about making the world yours and not the other way around.
A true alpha doesn't try to be anything. This includes being alpha. Live your truth and that in itself is alpha.
If you have to tell people you're alpha, you're not alpha.
Hm, interesting point, what happens with young alpha guys then, if they take a job in a company? Or alphas are only entrepreneurs? Or they don't work?
Adam you're right.
Sigurr88 whoever said that alphas can't work for anyone? It's all about confidence and how you are in Social settings. Not if you're the boss of a company or not.
what if I hate socializing with people I'0m not interested in? I dont want to be fake in order to look cool in front of girls
Exactly this is bullshit advice, your not always gonna know every single person in the area of the girl your trying to talk to. What if she doesn't notice you being nice to her co workers what then? Cold approaches are still the best
It’s one tool you can use - the fact that it’s not for you doesn’t mean it’s bs
Love that you're disproving tinder and pua.
how does this not agree with pickup? Have you ever heard of "social proof"? It's a key tenet in pickup
Thank for commenting Chris!
people love to hate other beliefs , don't even considering learning possibilities ..
Yup, I totally agree! Be authentic and nice to everybody!
He wasnt being authentic tho.. he admitted that because he saw this attractive girl he started acting differently.
Attractive women inspire me and give me energy. I was still being authentic, but just in a more inspired mood then.
sounds like an argument over semantics.
Pumpped agreed. When you’re authentic in that situation as an introvert. You wouldnt try to make convo with everyone. U would just eat lunch, pay and leave. And trying to make eye contact with girl and smile. And then ask the girl number when youre about to pay the lunch.
Putting on an act to making yourself appear as extravert in a sense with the background knowledge of “girls are only attracted to men that interact with their environment aka extravert” this doesnt come from an authentic place
EXACTLY!
You say you sometimes stutter in this video (I have my phases too) your last videos shows a great improvement in speech. Have you done been doing something about it?
Thanks for noticing! I haven't been doing anything specific to improve the mild stutter. Just improving everything in general in my life, and I seem to stutter less as a bi-product. Perhaps overcoming my porn addiction and doing nofap has been a significant factor!
Its quite amusing because once you pickup enough you learn all you had to do was become comfortable being yourself. All you gotta do is become present, walk up to the girl and be present, and go with the flow.
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@@GoldJacketLuke Its like magic, very freaky. The first time my friend told me about this, I tried it on a cashier at a shop (the line was huge). While she scans my items I just focus on my breathing and the tension in my body, she then starts talking to me which was rare at the time and I just reply without thought, without effort and go with the energy .She asks me all these personal questions and even gives me a high 5 out of nowhere. This was so bizarre to me! Once you become present with a women, you get very strange responses...Another case, this cute girl was in a rush and I did not even have 5 seconds to speak to her. I just stood still and said "Hey" calmly but audible as she walked away, she turns back and I say "Lets get a cofee sometime". She comes back all excited, asks me loads of questions and I get a date. This was done in complete presence. So easy I could not believe it and we met a week later. Luke, I am sure you know exactly what I mean! Too many people go the opposite route with pickup! It is grossly taught as something so complex its a shame...
Another way to put it is how loving and open you are towards all life forms....thanks for the video Luke and keep up the good work
focus on respect, social interaction, attitude
i was just thinking this and it is NO coincidence. iam starting to see this in rea life. what you say is soo true. ty. great quality
I am glad that i found youtubers like you
Good shit Luke. I think that when you work on yourself sincerely then naturally others will see you for what you are.
Thanks Rhett! Our true selves always shine through! :)
Pedro offers you his protection
Heck yes !
Video quality was actually realy good and it was one of the first things I noticed. What was going on in my head when I first started the video was, 'oh wow, I wish I had a camera like this so I could do cool videos.' Truth is, my camera is probably close to the same as far as quality goes, so I guess I should start filming vlogs and thoughts. I really appreciate the sincerity and emphasis you put into these sort of topics. You can tell how much power is given by your communication because of your personal experience. I'm an advocate of those who struggle in addiction, mental health and daily life. Sometimes the best advice is given demonstrated by principles and experience. Even though it can be hard to share without disclosing personal details, you really cover the principles and discussion well. I'm inspired. Thank you.
I really like your thoughts! Thanks for commenting Karter! :)
GoldJacketLuke I'd like to do a chat sometime via Skype or discord or whatever. I'm needing some support
I have more info about my skype consultations here. Shoot me an email if interested Karter. goldjacketluke.com/
Love your videos, they’re really down to earth and your advice is so helpful. I’m definitely sticking around for more videos.
Thanks for the comment Tom! Awesome :)
The secret is, without watching the video: Don't give a fuck trying to impress anybody, for instance if women don't like good boys, be the most respectful, polite, kind person (don't be stupid though ) that you can be, just because
You have such a non-needy aura, that makes sense. I admire it immensely.
This is very true. I almost never pay attention to how a guy looks, rather it’s how he acts in the environment that attracts me.
Thanks for commenting and and confirming my message Ghost! :)
That’s a damn lie
You say that but looks will get a guys foot in the door. Once he meets the looks threshold then females will begin to look at other factors such as social status
Ghost
Bullshit.
You guys are incorrect,yes women would like a guy for his looks because it shows good genetics,but it is not the primarily the cause of attraction.the primary cause is social status ask any girl they can confirm this
Thank you for making this video and sharing your story bro, it's a very interesting concept
Great stuff!! Been quite a follower of shogo Garcia too.. glad to know you know him
Shogo is awesome! I've made some videos with him!
Perfect quality. I definitely notice this too. The other day I was at dinner with my family and I was locked into conversation with them for like 30 minutes just talking my ass off and someone dominating the conversation, and when I looked up around me for the first time in 30 minutes I could tell that women had been looking at me throughout the convo and had me on their radar.
Always loved your videos and your message luke, great to seeing you doing so well :)
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Treat everyone the same. Be one person to all people. Nice one Luke.
I love this video, Luke. The message is so true!
Question: What do you think is the best way to meet girls, instead of cold approaching or using tinder/online dating?
Jay P I had this discussion the other day with some friends and we all agreed that cold approaching doesn't really work with women haha
The best way is to follow your passions, just be yourself, go outside, meet like-minded people while pursuing your hobbies!! Join clubs, a society, just sth that really interests you! But don't make meeting girls a priority (women have a sixth sense and just know when a guy is desperate). Take it easy man, everything else will follow ! Peace and love 😊✌
canaisis What do you mean cold approach doesn’t work?
Stumbled upon your videos man, you're really inspiration and really zen. thanks a bunch homie
I appreciate the comment Wael! Wishing you all the best!
You’re are point!!💯
Thanks for commenting!! 👍:)
Excellent video, thanks! The quality is also fine with your phone ;)
Thanks buffdrink! I appreciate your comment! :)
Awesome message bro, this is something a lot of guys don't even think about, but you're absolutely right on it being very important to girls.
👍 I appreciate the comment Rick!
I interpret this as learning to love the less desirable people before you can love something you've perceived to be more desirable, I. e. a beautiful woman.
Wow, I really like that. Nicely said Chief!
Damn chief, that really felted my brain.
True. A well socialized man is usually a better bet.
Great insight Luke! Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for commenting! :)
Why do you reveal this dude? Its suppose to be a secret!
great video, useful information. Thanks!
I appreciate the comment!
That's called social status and social competence, bro.
even though you said that you shouldn't compare yourself to others, because you said "Never compare yourself to anyone. "Comparison is the thief of joy", I was only bringing it up because i'm curious and interested to know in how it works when you look at it from another perspective, the other persons shoes, because it truly seems, that it's only guys who need to be the ones to know how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, not the other way around, this is the reason why I agreed with your quote when you said:
"Also girls have it easier when it comes to learning how to talk to and interact with the opposite sex because guys approach girls. It's the masculine role to initiate. So girls learn very young the basics even if they do nothing."
I read this post on a forum and I feel this guy totally nailed it:
"This is how I see it, it is only us guys, men, who need to be the ones to learn how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, a girl doesn't need to learn how to get a date or get a boyfriend, because simply put, how does a girl need to learn how to get a date or get a boyfriend when she doesn't have to initiate anything, she doesn't have to do the approaching and asking out, planning and setting up dates, leading the interaction, escalating or progressing things, going in for the first kiss, escalate to sex, etc. it simply "just happens" for them? That's sure what it looks like.
Because typically the way you learn in life is by "doing", "applying", you won't get better at playing a piano, or a certain sport, martial art, if you don't practice regularly, and since all girls have to do is pretty much just dress up and look good, and just stand there, just be passive, they don't really have to take any social actions on their part, because they don't have to be the ones to start conversations, ask for the number, ask out, and all the rest you know, etc. So it makes you wonder what they have to learn."
One other dating/life coach, said this to me, even though I didn't give him that exact full paragraph, passage, I said to him something similar, he responded to me by saying:
"all of what you said mainly applies to younger women, as women get older, they start to seek dating advice, dating tips, because they don't get as much attention as they used to"
Great content as always man. I’m excited to see you grow and also learn from you too.
Maybe one day I’ll meet you haha. Thanks for the content see you later.
Thanks for commenting Pine! I appreciate it!
Maybe our paths will cross some day. :)
The quality is really good. Keep it up ;)
Thanks! Will do! :)
You tend to reduce anxiety of the third person due to which they feel comfortable in front of you which is the basic law of attraction
At any situation when you feel someone anxious, try to reduce their anxiety by getting out of your own way and taking control of the situation.
Right to the point...! Keep up the good work....!
Tamilzhan da
Day 6 atm, previous best was 21 and I was hungover and slapped it. Love the vids man.
Thanks brotha! Best of wishes on this new streak!
Hey Lucas, this video is so true. I’ve noticed the last 4-5 months at work I’ve been extremely more social and positive, and I’ve been able to sleep with 2 of them. Both of them mentioned how they thought I was cute, but thought I was a grumpy a-hole cuz I was quiet and sometimes mean. Be yourself and be social all the time!
A woman usually looks for signs of commitment and that a man has the means to provide for her. The sexes have different sexual systems, stemming from thousands of generations of evolutionary influence, and these differences play out in meaningful ways. The act of sex comes with a greater cost to women, due to the possibility of becoming pregnant and having to take on related responsibilities-giving birth, breastfeeding, raising the child, and ensuring his or her survival. By comparison, for men, sex requires an investment of several minutes. As a result, the female sexual system evolved to account for this discrepancy, because women who made good mating choices were the ones who succeeded at passing on their genes.
This is why women, on average, are more selective about their sexual partners, preferring those who possess status and resources that will benefit them and their future offspring. Back in the day, if these resources were of poor quality or inconsistent, this would threaten a woman’s survival and the survival of her children. Being less choosy about sexual partners could also result in raising a child without the help of the father, who could otherwise provide material resources in addition to emotional support and physical protection. Eggs are more costly to produce produce than sperm; consequently, women release one egg a month while men produce several hundred million sperm a day. Women are very selective about who gets to fertilize that egg.
Studies have shown that for women who are successful, they place an even greater emphasis on their partner’s generosity and financial success. A woman usually looks for signs of commitment and that a man has the means to provide for her. and practical needs to also be met. As a result, when women cheat, it is usually due to a lack of emotional intimacy in their current relationship or because their sights have shifted to someone who is more successful than their current partner. It’s about more than lust or the physical act. When men cheat, however, it’s for sexual novelty-the desire to have sex with someone new. Successful mating consists of attaining a partner with good genes so that one’s offspring will survive and be successful at passing on their lineage.
Men’s behavior is, to some extent, the result of female sexual preferences. If women didn’t want to mate with masculine men, these traits would have been removed from the gene pool long ago. A study found that women prefer men who exhibit benevolent sexismsexism over those who do not, despite also finding these behaviors undermining and patronizing. Benevolent sexism consists of chivalrous behavior, such as opening doors and paying for dates, and positive attitudes about women that reinforce the belief that women are less competent, relegating them to traditional gender roles. (This is in contrast to hostile sexism, which involves overtly misogynistic views.) Regardless of whether women endorsed high or low levels of feminist beliefs, they interpreted signs of benevolent sexism as signals that a man is willing to invest in them through an ability to provide, protect, and commit to them. The positives associated with this behavior outweighed the negatives.
quality of the video is good. thanks.
I think it comes down to sense of security .. Most women would feel more comfortable talking and opening up to a man whom they can directly or indirectly associate with rather than to a complete stranger that pops up randomly in a cafe shop where she works and starts chatting her up.. Its not that complicated :-)
Nicely said! That lack of familiarity makes women not as open. Thanks for commenting Mustafa!
Women are attracted by social intelligence, because it reflects confidence. And confidence garantees security. Women want partners that can assure their security, that's what they're programmed for. I recommand you to check the work of Dan Bacon. Great money investment. This man has all figured out. He's a complete genius
I can confirm! 🙌
I'm glad! :)
Heyyy 😏😏😏
Si tan solo vieras que bien me llevo con los mozos... lol
Thanks Luke, great video as always
Thanks for commenting banksy!
Do you think this equally applies for females attracting males as well?
Not really. Most men don't think about that kind of stuff. I think that the only personality trait we care about is if you are loyal or not.
Thank you. This is going to help me.
This Is great advice. Keep it up
Thanks for the comment David!
God bless you sir
Im on the journey... thanks for this video! positivity is enchanting :)
👍💪🙌! :)
Good stuff man. I listened to your" no fap" video a few min ago and it actually stopped me from breaking my 52 day streak... so thank you for that....I also am starting a new job tomorrow morning ( 11 hours from now). And this video opened me up to the way I need to present myself and how I can impress upon a two fine ass coworkers Anna and Samantha. By gaining respect of management and co workers, I can win this battle without even having to fight.... thank you for this insight.☯️
Good points / example . Video quality is good enough.
The quality was good and the content was even better mate
Awesome! Thanks for commenting Dimitar! :)
quality was good!
Great! Thanks for commenting Corina!
Well he almost gets it, but misses the point. The reason she went with him on a date, is that because he got friendly with everyone there and she thought he knew her coworkers which meant that her social circle had already validated and approved this seemingly unknown person. This told her that since he supposedly was accepted by her friends/coworkers and they seem to trust him, that then in turn this stranger was not a danger and sge could then add him to her social circle. He came pre-approved.
This has nothing to do with how WOMEN see you in your surrounding and bla bla, it's a basic human concept, or animal concept of the group of the social circle. This is not just true for women but for men also. If I don't know you, but my friends are friendly with you and know you, you might appear leass strangerly and more approchable and easily accepted by me. I mean, if I don't know you, how can I trust you. And if I have no one to vouch for you, it's even tougher. So yeah, Tinder and cold approach is really unsuccessful in many occasions because of that unless you're able to create some rapport really quickly and estyablish yourself as a non-threat.
Women are not that different from men. In this scenario, that girl probably had good relationships with her coworkers. On the other hand, if she had a horrid relationship with them and hated them and you seemed to be on very good terms with the rest of the staff, than consequently you would be identified as part of this non-desirable group and wouldn't have the same reaction to you, even if you'Re nice to them. Take for example you being verty nice to nazis. Well I would quickly interpret that you were a piece of shit and a scumbag (also possibly a nazi sympathiser) and not only would I not wanna talk to you, I would probably hate you and want to punch you hard. So it has nothing to do with you being nice to other people or respectful. It's, have you been vetted by me or my social circle.
We're just animals that know how to write. That's it.
good advice, as usual.
videos in the car will always be great quality because of the sound, it's crystal clear
you are my inspiration
Love the one take and the outro music, the volume was a little low on this video though but everything else was excellent.
Awesome, great to hear! Thanks for the feedback Andres, I appreciate it!!
One thing that helps regarding cold approach and Tinder is to have a decent social media (particularly Instagram/Snapchat). If your Instagram shows you doing cool shit, and particularly if it shows you with other (hot) girls, that can really help from the ‘lack of familiarity’ (if that’s the best way to describe it) that you were referring to.
True about how social media can really help with that lack of familiarity (great way to put that btw)! Social media isn't for everyone and it's very superficial. But lately I've started to use instagram and I am seeing it's utility. I'm just posting like once a month though and being very congruent about it. It's hard to use in a balanced and healthy way... (lots of people check it like 7 times a day and are addicted...) Some people are pretty try-hard on social media too haha. Thanks for commenting Stephen, I've recently been seeing this utility! I honestly probably wouldn't be using it though if it wasn't for me being a youtuber.
Another great point...reacting to the poeple in the enviorment by treating everybody the same is attractive to females. Great point man..👍
Hi,
Can you do the same for women towards men?
Markeya H I think the same advice applies for girls. Once a girl had a good conversation with one of my "nerdy" friends (not trying to sound judgmental), and it made her so much more attractive.
Good advice
You have some quality content my man! 👌
Thank you G C! Wishing you the best!
I miss shogo's content... he was really free type of person.
Hopefully he starts uploading again soon! I don't think he realizes how much people appreciate his content.
Video quality is fine dude. No problems..
Sweet! I appreciate you commenting Marowack!
Good knowledge
Cold approach pickup works VERY well if you do it correctly and most men who have game are very aware of what your talking about. Because when you cold approach you give off ques that let women know wether or not your "respected" as you say. She can tell your social status from your body language and voice tonality and how you interact with her. Cold approach is all about giving off the right signals to a women ti convince her that you are "respected in your environment" aka high value/Status
Hope Shogo starts uploading again. He had very positive things to say.
Me too! Shogo really, really helped me.
3:44 THANK YOU FOR SOLVING THIS MYSTERY
Awesome video bro. Very knowledgeable and well spoken .Maybe you can help me with this, do you think woman are attracted to humility? A humble person going through life. I feel like it’s always over looked.
Thanks for the comment Travis. Good question! IMO quality women appreciate humbleness. However, I think humility has to be balanced with self-love and good self-esteem to be sexually attractive to women. What do you think Travis? My friend Shogo actually made a video on this topic that I think you'd like: th-cam.com/video/b7dIn1NnwaM/w-d-xo.html
Cute pup btw! :)
GoldJacketLuke thanks dude! I totally agree with you! I think quality is a perfect word to use for it, and quality is rare to find as you know lol. and it is hard to find that balance with self love and humility. A lot of woman don’t like the pride and also don’t like the low self esteem, both can be a turn off for a lot of woman. Woman can sense a mile a while how you carry yourself I feel like.
Great vid thanks
Thanks for commenting :)
Holy shit, aren't you that guy who was in a couple of those videos on that "Whatever" channel? I thought you were amazing in that "Asking random girls to propose" video lmao
Haha yep that's me! :)
the quality is great
"Good eveninga" am I the only one who hears this when speaks? The -a ending often at the end of phrases. He's a great guy, though. Great videos!
this is actually good advice
Great advice
Hey bro I do like your videos (first saw you on the Karezza one), but cold approach certainly DOES get good results when you learn the craft well. I do agree that women pick up on your social skills, but why is cold approach incompatible with this? Cold approach increases your opportunities to meet girls. Once you have approached them, whether in the day or at a venue, they a primarily focused on how you act around THEM. What energy do you give off? Are you fun and do you arouse her with your touch? Do you move forward sexually in a direct and easeful way? These things are the most important. First she focuses on the bubble between you two, and THEN she will start to branch out and observe your general social skill. Whether you meet her cold approach or in a cafe, she will still get the chance to observe your social skills. So don’t let this story be a testimony against cold approach game, because your principle here is compatible with cold approach, plus cold approach can be done in beautiful ways on women who sync with your energy. This is why I approach healthy and counter culture type girls when I see them around lol. Cold approach is the greatest foundation, then social circle and online can be supplements. Anyway I certainly encourage your videos man, it’s good stuff, I just to share some convo on the topic. Peace homie.
Hey Yogi. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Good thoughts! I agree that cold approach is compatible with this. One problem I've had with cold approach is that it never seems to lead to strong compatibility though. It may lead to some dates, but cold approach is so random, it never seems to lead me to meeting a women that I'd want to make my girlfriend in terms of how our personalities, character, etc vibe. From being in the dating community a good amount, one interesting thing I've noticed from meeting dating coaches / pickup guys is that they RARELY meet their girlfriends through cold approach. They teach cold approach, but if you actually ask the how they met their current girlfriend it's almost never from cold approach haha. Having the ability to go up to and talk to strangers is a great ability though (and something I am glad I have put effort into)! I appreciate you sharing your thoughts Yogi! All the best to you!
Its accually called preselection in the basics of pickup, good for you for pointing this out but its more explained in pickup especially by Mystery
One of the better books about masculinity and inter-gender dynamics:
'The Way of Men'
One of my skype clients was recently talking about that book! I'm gonna have to check it out soon!
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Thanks for commenting!
Thank you for sharing and awakens me for these. Its really a mind blowing to be honest, so woman just don't attracted to you just because your style, your muscle, your alpha, but woman morely attract to you just how you show yourself or interact to the surrounding or the environment, so it must be a positive vibes, and nice guy right?
Indeed, the social insights a woman can have are next level !
practice relaxing more when you speak and the stutter will go. Also don't engage in negative thoughts that arise from your mind whilst you speak.
Good tips, thanks Johnny!