Quite frankly: At that age I as a mother and father would ask how much of an outside influnce played a role (and who that influence is). No child at that age abondons their parent. In this I would rather question granny what she is teaching the children...
Perhaps the writer's idea is that if u defend urself and ur rights, everyone will stand by u , but if u let urself down, endure, and surrender, everyone will let u down ,plz protect urself befor others.❤
You are right. This is what happened to my grandmother and she also told me the same. Even your children can be brainwashed against you by some narcissist so we need to be able to speak up and protect ourselves and those weaker than us who need us!
Well said. To play the Devil’s Advocate - her husband is a general used to giving orders and having them obeyed instantly. However, he has been dominated by his mother who only cares about wealth and power. The Chinese principle of obedience to the parents above the wife is the loophole that weakened marital bond between a man and woman allowing family wants to supersede the requirements of being able to choose a partner, divorce an abusive partner, and the wife being forced to accept concubines into the family. This may work to her advantage is she hates the man, but her husband will always have a favourite. The extra women will plot to gain wife status and a wife can be just as vicious in dealing with the concubines and their children. It is a no-win situation. Children will observe and learn to be bullies other children will be bullied. Happy family it is not. We have to remember this a a fictional world. No Chinese man would allow such freedom of expression from a mere female and telling him off, or deny access to her body for sex would not be tolerated in the real world. It would end up with her getting beaten or killed in a variety of innovative settings. Being set up to be accused of Adultery, poison, an accident. Women who dared to voice displeasure at their treatment or deemed to have broken the Virtues of a Woman could be thrown down an empty well alive and left to die and rot with no burial rites preformed. Concubines grown old were often just tossed onto the street to survive as best they could. Also for much of China’s history, few women were educated to read and write or learn martial arts within wealthy families. It was a Virtue to be uneducated, so a female would not speak up for herself- let alone even think such thoughts. Than there is the issue of foot binding that spread from a plalace to the wealthy nobles than to the lower classes who accepted this way of not allowing a female to run away under the guise of “ Beautiful 3 inch Lotus feet” that will seduce a man to such longing of sexual desire. It is obvious , they never saw the broken, deformed foot in all it’s glory for a woman’s foot was never unwrapped before her husband. It would have put him off sucking those toes😮. Why this became a requirement for a girl to marry showed how men could rationalize any abuse. Their are still today in some villiges, elderly women who had to work with such deformed feet. I enjoy these these dramas. They show the institutionalized abuse of woman, the infighting in the harem , how selfish and greedy people were. They also showed people who cared about Truth and Justice like this story so vividly portrayed. This was and is still a global problem for women and children and men. The writer was brave to go outside the box🎉🎉 and allowed to portray this lesson. ❤❤❤
I enjoyed this, her husband was consistent from the beginning and it was still obvious that he was doing what he thought was right. The prince played his naive and immature nature very well but the other land king was just the unexpected touch to all of it 😂😂❤❤❤❤
im actually shocked the tribe king is not your typical pretty handsome guy, LOVE ITTTT FINALLY SOMEONE WHO LOOKS LIKE RIP WOODS WITH THEIR HANDS 🥺🥺❤️❤️
The husband does not deserve the first wife anymore. He just loves the first wife because of her changes of attitudes and her smartness. If she was still the same person, her husband would keep treating her badly like a trash. If I were the woman, I would leave the man and marry the Prince. The Prince is genuine and kind-hearted from the start.
I thought he actually still loved his first wife, was just to gutless to make a stand and say he refuses to take another wife, he was a weak character who allowed others to dictate to him, now that she's a stronger more independent woman she needs a man with a stronger character, not a whimp.
He love his first wife and i think he is not with her because she become smart. He is just not the type to stand on his decision because even when he marry the second wife he never touch her nor spend the wedding night with her instead he went to his first wife
@@Thrift_with_ire why people forget that they actually explained that the first wife is a love marriage while the second one is an order by the king himself ??
This was really good. I honestly was okay with her ending up with the general or prince but the way it ended with her, the kids, and all three men just eating together was good too.
Omg ikr?!!!! He’s actually like so handsome! He’s kinda dum but I think he’s actually always cared for her but is too much of a wimp to stand up against his dad from the beginning.
But tbh my main issue is with how disrespectful & ungrateful the kids are of their mom. I’m waiting to see the lies unravel before their eyes and for them to understand they were wrong.
Можно сказать, что он не полная скотина. В фильмах подобного сценария мужья иногда просто отвратительны. Этой не самый худший. Но и не мечта всей жизни
@@beti05the husband might have to listen to order. But he let others includong their children to bully his wife. Look before original Wen He suicide. Their child scold the mother and totally rude, but he does not reprimand them. His mother bully her, he just stay silent. He is doing indirect bullying. And when her wife feel sad, he left her to be with the children and 2nd wife instead have heart to heart talk to FL, indirectly making new family and mocking his wife. Truly a fickle and spineless useless man
Man, it would have been good if she leaves her scumbag husband, but let's be real. These kind of stories always promote toxic relationships and "you have to forgive everything to be happy" bs.
I usually don't like open endings but in this case I do. I hope she doesn't go back to the husband, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let the SFL run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊. She's intelligent & has skills. No need to settle for the old when she has options 😊.
Its an open ending. At the start FL never forgive scumbag husbands and punished them on behalf of wives. She still asked divorce even the green-tea-biah is kicking ed out from house. So I think she will divorce the General and build her own haram. 😊 General need to try his best to Woo her back 😂 but it'll be difficult because her other suitors are the bachelor prince and the powerful King. 😅
But i feel uncomfortable when general stated right that she is his wife, and she looks happy. I feel like her heart alr gone to him. Which i dont like really. Get the feeling, if the story continue, they will most probably reconcile, the sign alr there
I quite liked this one. The husband seemed like he genuinely didn't know the 2nd wife was bad news and was just following the orders of the emperor marrying her just as a formality. But he was also incapable of holding a conversation with FL at the start and just ploughing ahead with no thought for her happiness, so everyone was miserable. Love that she ended up with the three kiddos appreciating her and three men vying for her attention. It will certainly keep the husband on his toes.😂
This is one of those ones where I wish the fl hadn't transmigrated. I wish the original fl had gotten justice. Her kids didn't love her and her husband lied to her. They fell in love with a different woman wearing her face and that makes me sad.
The husband😐 had no backbone, or a mind of his own. He never stood up for his wife. Claimed to love her, but believes the newlywed stranger over thier ten-year relationship.😑 He only started believing the "modern world" FL because she "proved" her worth through skills. If every woman needs to be this talented for her husband to take her words seriously (and 10 years of taking care of the house is nothing in his eyes), then not many can survive marriages. The ML actor (I usually like him a lot) did a poor job on this role. His facial expressions were that of a "wronged maiden" most of the time. 😅Why do modern women have to settle for abusive jerks? Neglect is also ABUSE-- physical, mental, sexual and neglect are the four types approved by the human rights commission and WHO. His neglect led to the original's dearh. If you were going by the ancient standards, it's still a crime to neglect the original wife and act in a way that "shows" favour to the concubine. In fact, according to ancient law, he didn't actually have to favour the concubine. But if his actions look like he is favouring the second one, it is enough for him to be punished big time as giving face to the original wife was important as only they bear legitimate heirs. He definitely turned a blind eye to the second wife's actions, so he pretty much pushed the original towards suicide.
II has've observed in Chinese stories the man falls in love of his genius wife. The wife is a hacker, martial artist, traditional chinese doctor, and many more professions. Only when she proves her thousand skills the husband will be with her. Only when the wife has backbone can sort out these situations because. If the wife is submissive, obedient, and inlove of the husband she is abused by the inlaws, abused in different ways evexually by her husband. I've seen more than 50 dramas like this one, and novels. Even if the protagonist is genius (and lot of stories not) ends up with the scumbag. She can't fall in love with the second lead, a man that respect, cherish and love her. Noooo, she still behind the husband. Ugh
It's been quite awhile since I've watched a historical mini. So this was a nice break from the modern mini dramas. Short, simple but lighthearted and entertaining to watch.
Enjoyed this C-drama so much! Wished that it was longer so that we could see what happens next. Would be awesome if they all became "family" and that the main FL ran the entire household! 😂😊😂
Honestly, I root for the husband. He only follow the emperor's order and he said it since the begining. You know at that time resisting king's order means death. He didn't touch the concubine or do anything in her favor, he's still forgiven. 😌 And he's the most handsome out of three in my opinion.
I like the ending 😂 you cant go wrong being good and kind. Fl was righteous smart and not wicked. I pity one who married deceiving person too blind not to see it🤔
Ml doesn't deserve her. He is either a scumbag who used the king as an excuse to get a second wife or a coward who couldn't even attempt to stand up to the king and say no. He allowed his children to disrespect their mom all because of a scar on her face. His wife is long dead and him and their children pushed her over the edge. He may not realize it but there is no way he can make up for his past mistakes. He failed her and she is dead. What he has is another woman in his life that took over his wife's body. Damage has been done and from the looks of it fl is still attempting to leave him but it's no easy feat when your a woman living in that time period. Loved how she not only picked up a prince but also a king. I like the prince for her. Love the kings son. He was raised right by his father. He was not ashamed of her scar but worried that she was still in pain. That's how her children were supposed to be like but ml failed all. I saw to many times were public opinion mattered more than what was right. The prince kept having to stop him from stopping fl from getting Justice for the boy all because ml was worried about her making a scene. Pathetic
The general actually loves FL very much but obligated to marry the other woman to appease the emperor.. haha funny how the plot goes but I like the story
I understand if he married another woman to appease the emperor but one thing for sure no matter what he shouldn't always defend her She was better off this man you don't love her but atleast respect her bcoz she was your wife second thing he didn't even teach his children to how to talk to mother and if you don't love her it's better leave her She should divorce him
@@sashekh09total agree a man who drove his wife to death in the first place don't deserved her back...I was rooting for her divorce but looks like it might not happen 😅
As much as i like her confident, i wanted to leave her scumbag husband and that family You lose someone to live them. That flirting part was really annoying compared to what they did to her
I feel like she gonna go back instead. Didnt you see that she smile happily when he stated that she is his wife infront of others. I feel like shouting to her to wipe that smile and remind her of original wife wish before she died 🙄
I hope she doesn't go back, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let her run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊.
Calling her ugly for a scar that's 80% hidden by her bangs is a bit much lol. Like you can literally see her beautiful face just fine. I know that these dramas are just like that but it's funny to me every time.
yes it was a norm to have more than one wife but stop criticizing her for being jealous. its a normal emotion and it justifies the wives being jealous of each other. how can they treat her indifferent because she is jealous!!!!!!!!!!!! all the 3 princes are awesome, the last king was so mighty . general's body so hot 🥵. no matter whom she chooses they all are prince and will have multiple wives and concubines. so choose wisely and not emotionally. good story.🧡
Damn. I thought the FL would follow the original body's wish. But I waited and waited and no divorce happened. I literally skip the parts where they are flirting cuz they are unbearable to watch.
Great drama! Loved the scene where FL was using her ‘lawyer’ experience to help the little prince ☺️ What is the name of the actor who played the general? He’s so handsome 😍 I think he also played an abusive ex husband role with Meng Na 😅
Well to be fair 😅, the hubby technically didn't cheat. The 2nd wife was imposed on him. Also he redeemed himself 😅. Loved the plot. Firm and assertive FL, overcame all her enemies. 10/10 would recommend. ❤❤🎉🎉
If it’s in other revenge dramas, this *“husband who marries other woman while his wife takes care of his family all by herself for so long”* and also those *“2 ungrateful kids who called the other woman ‘mom’ while despising and be vicious to their own mother”* have already been kicked to the curb forever by the FL, not to get along together cordially like this after a miniscule of so-called ‘regret’
Very easy, a child wants to please the adults around him because they are his security for survival. A child is like a sponge, soaking up the what adults, say and do and- what they do not do. They will mirror the adults, if you teach a child to be cruel and hurt others, he will think it a normal behaviour. Children understand much more than they are given credit for. That is why we Adults need to be very careful in our actions and words around little ones. A Child’s need for Security is so I ate that they will even cling to an abuser, even though they realize this person is dangerous. What is more dangerous.is to not obey or challenge that abuser, who is the access to food and shelter. Hope this makes it clear how the concubine fed untruths to the children and her reason was to create a divide between mother and child as well as between Husband, his family against the Wife.
I am thankful that it is open ending. At least FL knows that the one who sacrificed everything for that fool man is not she. Even if he loved anyone its not her. She just made him realise how bad he is to her wife.
I think Drama is uncompleted😮 special fl husband never try to defend his wife until she die😢😢now is living is another soul than what about her 😢did she really deserve it ?? Really husband really idiot, scumbage and blind 😠😠😠😡
Overall rating 8.5 out of 10 stars. Compared to approximately 2,000 Cdramas or short dramas, this one ranks pretty darn high in my opinion. I appreciate the lack of violence between spouses, or should I say a wife-beater scenario. The revived Prince's adoration for the FL is cute. Khan is WOW, a BIG man, thundering giant compared to everyone else. The mother-in-law she got on my nerves, ungrateful and useless. I was surprised the MIL and 2FL didn't covet the 1FL's dowry. The misappropriation of gender pronouns weren't as devastatingly confusing as other novels, and drama's subtitles. Thumbs up for not going totally chop-suey, she/he, his/hers. Males are he, him, his, himself. Females or ladies are she, her, hers, herself. The newer gender pronouns can be ignored, or placed in a woodchipper. They ain't making sense! ::cough:: ::cough:: back to the drama... the story started off vague the original FL didn't have a backstory, more like a glimpse if anything to her struggles. The General, I don't know how he actually got that title, role, occupation considering it is supposed to be complex. He's supposed to be strong, analytical, strategical, on the battlefield as well as at the homefront. He's more of the wimpy, wimpy, wimpy cinch-sack male who fails at critical thinking. He, like the Emperor merely pass judgment on mere hearsay instead of research, intellect, critical thinking through thorough investigation. The ending was a bit weak. What happened between the three men somewhat waring after the 1FL? Did she get the honor of a reverse harem? That would put a twist on the whole drama ::smirk::
I would definitely not rate it as high as you. Maybe a 3 or 4? And only because they were good-looking. The acting is atrocious, and the CPR was improperly done!
I don't know if I love the ending, even though it was hilarious and enjoyable...I kinda wanted to know what happened next lol. So good! I like that the husband wasn't all for the other woman like most of the other versions I've watched even if he did wrong.
I really wish the FL could end up with the king and live in the northern territory with Zhao Zhao! FL deserves to be a queen and have a greatful child who won't be swayed.
2nd time watching this and this ML made me angrier than the 1st time because of his weakness. Since the 2nd marriage was the emperor's decree, he had to accept it. SFL is the daughter of a fallen general who saved him, so he had to respect her. However, and that's a big however, he should have respected his wife who took care of him and his family when they were poor and when he was away for war enough to make sure she understood the circumstances and was respected in the household. But because now they have money, it appears FL original soul was not important enough to make sure she was OK. I'm not even sure how the 2 children became so disrespectful since they were raised by FL, however, children do go through a fickle stage where they become disrespectful to the parent who try to raise them with rules and wish for other parents who appear to give them their "perfect" life and everything they want. I think ML did love his original wife, but he didn’t know how to respect and care for her. Since the original soul is of ancient times where her worth is centered around her family, she fell into depression and despair, which led to suicide. If she would have lived, her character would not have found her voice and she would have spent a life of being disrespected. Now the modern day transmigrated FL soul has a voice and does not tolerate disrespect. The problem with these transmigrated soul stories is that the original soul never quite gets the grievance respected that she deserved. FL never put it in ML's face that the woman who loved him died that night she jumped in the lake/pond. I just saw a transmigrated story with Hou Chengyue where FL clearly tells ML over and over again that the woman who loved him the most died that night he forced her death in the most disrespectful way. That was a good one. Overall, this was a good watch with an open ending. The only person I don’t want FL to be separated from is Zhao Zhao.
Agreed. I hope she doesn't go back, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let her run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊.
So the fact is he actually neglected her to the point of her attempting suicide (note that the actual girl -general's first wife is actually dead.) He don't deserve redemption. The lawyer's character should have been shown more strongly and more quick witted. The original girl (-general's first wife ) wanted to leave and not be with a man who has only his face card and no brain. And how come as father he watched their children mistreating the mother. No discipline required there? And no consent needed to be with her? How come a modern age lawyer can be swayed away like this? Not to mention the MIL's behaviour. Other two MLs are far better than the General. As a lawyer she should know clear case of suicide? Where's her lawyer's instinct and wit. This could be more better if the story was better written. Ideation is good but not developed.
Exactly! She's a divorce lawyer, she should have been tough and should have been able to find a way to divorce early on the show. She should have been able to discipline the children.
I know, the general was rather weak in character, he is dominated by an greedy overbearing mother who smothered him which allowed no critical thinking skills. The “ Saved my life- now bound by that person to extreme lengths “
Idk, once my children show disloyalty to me and they say they prefer the mistress, I will be packing their bags and tell them to get out and go to her home!
This is definitely more different than the usual reborn shorts I have viewed. The storyline really shows the character of the FL and I agree with some of the other comments about the ML personality. Hmm, 3 suitors. TBH none of them look too bad. The Prince is sweet with a playful demeanour, with bright eyes and a nice smile. The General has sharper facial features and really nice lips, he has never been cruel but I agree he has a weaker temprement - perhaps not suited to be a general. The foreign Prince, although a bit brutish still looks really cute to me - he is caring toward his family and more ruthless to those that do wrong or hurt others.
The moral of this story is... as long as a wife/woman is smart, has a position/income and knows her rights and obligations... then her husband/partner will always be by her side...duh I don't think so...... ... If a man/partner wants to cheat, then just cheat.. There is no need to make excuses
So in the end she ended up with a husband with 2 kids a baby father with a son an a puppy prince I love that for her. An I love how them dude pay the husband no mind
The husband is gorgeous. Even more so when he’s jealous 48:10. How he dealt with the orphan and his son’s bullying ways was also excellent. ❤ Love this ML😍 1:08:39
RIDICULOUS.. the original person died, she died in vain, and he was doing romance and confession to the other person in her body.. It's same like he fell for other person but never her. She is the one, who dedicated her life to him and died at end. And this shity didnt show any retribution from husband or his family.. Trying to make it funny at the end , which is ridiculous. . I am so done with these half hearted directed stories.. The girl possessing the body, did not even didnt did justice to the owner, but spent time being shy and blush, and little bit of pay back to the villainous only. The husband, the mother, even the children, all contributed on the original owner death...
From the 3 guys at the end, I hope she went with the King from the other country. She'd have a much freer, happier life there, without the baggage of 1. the husband who wasn't there for her and his nasty mother and ungrateful kids, and 2. the prince and palace life with all the rules. I choose to think she left with the king and his son, and lived happily every after! The kids did fix their attitudes at the end, but she's not attached to them, being an entirely different person from their mother. It was a fun watch!
I enjoyed this. Light overall, husband is a bit weak and doesn't stand up for his wife, but slowly wakes up. The added suitors are fun. Open ended. It's nice to see a twist where the FL is being wooed by 3 men. Also, FL recognizes the original owner feelings several times in the movie.
Really? Although that is often the first instinct , it has flaws than are not good for our Mental Health. To Hate and never Forgive are the Chains that will bind you forever to that Trauma and Pain. Why? It becomes an unresolved thorn in the Heart that keeps twisting and pricking to the point one may become Obsessed with Vengance that can drive you “Bat Shit Crazy”. In order to Avenge your self, you will callously hurt innocent people who had nothing to do with the original insult. Therefore, you are no longer a victim but a predator. The one who insulted you does not care about your pain, so why keep that pain? Forgive the Fool, and rip out the thorn to bleed the Poison out and Heal. Remember “ if you are going to avenge yourself on someone- first dig two graves. One for your target and one for Yourself”. This World will always be unfair in many ways and too often Justice is beyond our reach. We have a choice how we react to bad things, let it poison us forever, or not allow it to poison. It is not an easy choice to forgive, but it is Freedom.
@@KittymoreJoy thanks , i know all this , but i can't smile, love,or be intimate with someone who hurt me and i will not let them poison my thoughts and my life . I just don't want them in my life at all.
I think the second pull at 1:17:30 wasn’t scripted because she hides her face to laugh lol I can’t wait to see how this ends. Ok just finished and love the ending! I think the husband did always care for her, when she was “simple minded” her maid remarked how the home was happier before the evil woman came and it’s not like people can refuse marriages granted by the emperor and he is like so many men of the time where they didn’t really look at what was happening at home. BTW I loved how the queen scolded the emperor for granted the evil sister the same rank as the first wife. I loved the prince but they didn’t seem to have romantic chemistry, I can see it as sibling chemistry. The tribe king looked like what a “wild king” would look like - so strong. I can see him with someone like the maid as she was so fierce for those she loved and she’s not “delicate” like most ladies in the place (exception being the FL lead).
The part where the emperor and the queen dowager are forced to rush to the scene of the crime and the part when her 3 suitors get caught in the door then sit at the table, will never not be funny 😂
Kenapa setiap membalas budi itu harua menikah, bagaimanapun laki laki tak akan sanggup adil akan perasaannya. Itu yg menyakiti wanita lain. Entah istri pertama, istri ke dua dan seteruanya. Lelaki mudah sekali mengatakan iya bila di beri wanita. Andai wanita itu tetap lemah seperti aslinya, pasti dia akan tersiksa bathinnya. Krn wanita memiliki kemampuan dan kecerdasan maka di pertahankan. MAKA JADILAH WANITA YG CERDAS, MANDIRI DAN BAIK HATI, MAKA ANDA TAK AKAN TAKUT MENGHADAPI DUNIA. ❤
while watching the plot of this drama makes mi think if this kind of situation could possibly be equated to a family whose husband is in a military service married to an ordinary wife who isn't favored by the mother in laws but loved by the husband?!? at first I couldn't understand why the kids treatment to their mother is very cruel. infront of everyone during the 2nd marriage, face to face they insulted her, calling her ugly and even denied her as their biological mother and favor the 2nd wife. for me, that is the most painful insults that a mother would received coming from your biological children. although, it wasn't shown why it turns out to be that way but i think the biggest factor and influenced was the mother in laws of FL. the husband is in the battlefield (military duties) while the wife is a housewife. the mother in laws is also at the house always and always keep on insulting the FL i think the husband isn't aware that FL was maltreated by his mother because the old FL is the type of person who is very willing to sacrifice everything for the ML (love ML for 10 long years) and the children amidst the insults she received she will only cry never fight back, she wants to explain but no one bothers to listen. she just tolerated the abused given by the mother in laws. the kids watching this kind of scenario everyday will eventually joined the grand ma on keep hurting their mother because as a kids they think that is the normal thing to do..(i am soo sad and heart broken for the FL) what i like in the story the most was, when the 2nd wife visited the first wife with the kids and the FL refused them an audience and they got mad and even kicked FL's maid. then ML arrived and FL came out and on the heated of the arguments the FL let her children choose who their mother would be: her or the 2nd wife? but the children chose the 2nd wife and the FL immediately agreed and told the kids that she is no longer their mother and they are not allowed to call her mother anymore. ML's reaction was really funny for me. he can't believe that the wife will abandoned their children that easily😂😂😂 for me that is justice served for the FL. the kids abandoned her so she also abandoned them(kids)😂 anyways, for me this is a good story. i recommend. a must watched. thanks for the upload 😁
ML was aware because at the dinner table his mom wouldn't let her sit and went off on her ML did nothing to protect and defend the woman he claims to love but when FL stands up for herself and starts throwing the food on the floor and breaking the dishes then ML stands up for his mom and tells FL she is being unreasonable so yeah he knew how his family treated her and never cared cause he didn't love her enough to protect and defend and fight for her..... ML witnessed how FL 2 bratty kids treated her and how they insulted and bullied her and he said nothing to correct their behavior towards their mother but when FL tells them not to call her mom anymore and not to come to her for anything anymore since they love 2nd wife so much and want her to be their mom then ML stands up for his bratty kids and 2nd wife saying 2nd wife takes care FL's children for her and shares the family burdens so why is FL being so intolerable ML very aware of how everyone treated FL he didn't care....he's a pos scumbag so that's why I hate the open end, want to see FL divorce him
I thought it was gonna be a cliché where she ends up with the guy she saved, but instead she has three men fighting over her. I love that for her.😂
its cute indeed
That’s good, the FL asked her children not to call her mom anymore. What ungrateful children.
Right?!
They are just kids and they were manipulated by that scheming concubine. 😂
TOTALLY AGREEEEE!
And they learned in the end that no other woman will have their back like their mom
Quite frankly: At that age I as a mother and father would ask how much of an outside influnce played a role (and who that influence is). No child at that age abondons their parent. In this I would rather question granny what she is teaching the children...
OOO I LIKE THIS VERSION! I LIKE HOW THE GIRL IS A LAWYER INSTEAD OF A DOCTOR😂
Yes. I've seen that one as well. I believe that there's another one but I forgot the profession.
Perhaps the writer's idea is that if u defend urself and ur rights, everyone will stand by u , but if u let urself down, endure, and surrender, everyone will let u down ,plz protect urself befor others.❤
You are right. This is what happened to my grandmother and she also told me the same. Even your children can be brainwashed against you by some narcissist so we need to be able to speak up and protect ourselves and those weaker than us who need us!
This!
Well said
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Well said. To play the Devil’s Advocate - her husband is a general used to giving orders and having them obeyed instantly. However, he has been dominated by his mother who only cares about wealth and power. The Chinese principle of obedience to the parents above the wife is the loophole that weakened marital bond between a man and woman allowing family wants to supersede the requirements of being able to choose a partner, divorce an abusive partner, and the wife being forced to accept concubines into the family. This may work to her advantage is she hates the man, but her husband will always have a favourite. The extra women will plot to gain wife status and a wife can be just as vicious in dealing with the concubines and their children. It is a no-win situation. Children will observe and learn to be bullies other children will be bullied. Happy family it is not. We have to remember this a a fictional world. No Chinese man would allow such freedom of expression from a mere female and telling him off, or deny access to her body for sex would not be tolerated in the real world. It would end up with her getting beaten or killed in a variety of innovative settings. Being set up to be accused of Adultery, poison, an accident. Women who dared to voice displeasure at their treatment or deemed to have broken the Virtues of a Woman could be thrown down an empty well alive and left to die and rot with no burial rites preformed. Concubines grown old were often just tossed onto the street to survive as best they could. Also for much of China’s history, few women were educated to read and write or learn martial arts within wealthy families. It was a Virtue to be uneducated, so a female would not speak up for herself- let alone even think such thoughts. Than there is the issue of foot binding that spread from a plalace to the wealthy nobles than to the lower classes who accepted this way of not allowing a female to run away under the guise of “ Beautiful 3 inch Lotus feet” that will seduce a man to such longing of sexual desire. It is obvious , they never saw the broken, deformed foot in all it’s glory for a woman’s foot was never unwrapped before her husband. It would have put him off sucking those toes😮. Why this became a requirement for a girl to marry showed how men could rationalize any abuse. Their are still today in some villiges, elderly women who had to work with such deformed feet. I enjoy these these dramas. They show the institutionalized abuse of woman, the infighting in the harem , how selfish and greedy people were. They also showed people who cared about Truth and Justice like this story so vividly portrayed. This was and is still a global problem for women and children and men. The writer was brave to go outside the box🎉🎉 and allowed to portray this lesson. ❤❤❤
I enjoyed this, her husband was consistent from the beginning and it was still obvious that he was doing what he thought was right. The prince played his naive and immature nature very well but the other land king was just the unexpected touch to all of it 😂😂❤❤❤❤
im actually shocked the tribe king is not your typical pretty handsome guy, LOVE ITTTT FINALLY SOMEONE WHO LOOKS LIKE RIP WOODS WITH THEIR HANDS 🥺🥺❤️❤️
Right I was expecting an slimmer muscular good looking King to atleast make the ML very jealous 😅😂
hey the tribe king is handsome
@smilingabook the king does look good in his own way...he also match his role
I agree, darling, no need to shout ...💪🏋️
I agree he looks great and very tribal king like!
The husband does not deserve the first wife anymore. He just loves the first wife because of her changes of attitudes and her smartness. If she was still the same person, her husband would keep treating her badly like a trash. If I were the woman, I would leave the man and marry the Prince. The Prince is genuine and kind-hearted from the start.
I thought he actually still loved his first wife, was just to gutless to make a stand and say he refuses to take another wife, he was a weak character who allowed others to dictate to him, now that she's a stronger more independent woman she needs a man with a stronger character, not a whimp.
He love his first wife and i think he is not with her because she become smart. He is just not the type to stand on his decision because even when he marry the second wife he never touch her nor spend the wedding night with her instead he went to his first wife
If u watch clearly U'll know that he loved her since day 1 and he married her for love ... The second lady was a king's order so he can't reject it...
@@Thrift_with_ire why people forget that they actually explained that the first wife is a love marriage while the second one is an order by the king himself ??
16:34 The husband is so weak he doesn't even manage his inner court
This was really good. I honestly was okay with her ending up with the general or prince but the way it ended with her, the kids, and all three men just eating together was good too.
I want to see divorce from her husband and remary one of the other two
Had bought one but got two for free 😂😅 I had to say it
Me too. The husband seems useless
The divorce needs to be granted by the Emperor. Its not that easy. She cant marry the prince even if she divorce
She can marry the king of beiyu instead. Even better hahhaha
Literally the best match@@darklordclowz
That was cute. She ended up with 2 additional suitors. lol.
What pisses me off is HOW HANDSOME HER HUSBAND IS!! like why?
It's always been like that dearrrr
Omg ikr?!!!! He’s actually like so handsome! He’s kinda dum but I think he’s actually always cared for her but is too much of a wimp to stand up against his dad from the beginning.
But tbh my main issue is with how disrespectful & ungrateful the kids are of their mom. I’m waiting to see the lies unravel before their eyes and for them to understand they were wrong.
Можно сказать, что он не полная скотина. В фильмах подобного сценария мужья иногда просто отвратительны. Этой не самый худший. Но и не мечта всей жизни
That’s his only plus. 😂 I still would leave him and ridiculous mother
The is no defence for the husband.
I dont care what anyone says, neglect and negligence is a form of abuse.
1000000000 agree. The original wife died, and what excuse can bring her back, right!
you learn to appreciate the husband in this show compared to the other drama where the husband is a total idiot and harassed his wife
@@g.jexactly.
The husband had to listen to orders. It's not 2024... he had no choice.
She was too dramatic.
@@beti05the husband might have to listen to order. But he let others includong their children to bully his wife. Look before original Wen He suicide. Their child scold the mother and totally rude, but he does not reprimand them. His mother bully her, he just stay silent. He is doing indirect bullying. And when her wife feel sad, he left her to be with the children and 2nd wife instead have heart to heart talk to FL, indirectly making new family and mocking his wife. Truly a fickle and spineless useless man
@@beti05 People have done the right thing since the beginning of time. The year is no excuse.
Man, it would have been good if she leaves her scumbag husband, but let's be real. These kind of stories always promote toxic relationships and "you have to forgive everything to be happy" bs.
Ikr... just ruined everything for me. Not a good watch at all.
So true
These kind of stories? I guess you mean real life 😅
@@akoharoldlol love your comment so true ❤
@@akoharoldno, this is fiction. 🙄
I usually don't like open endings but in this case I do. I hope she doesn't go back to the husband, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let the SFL run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊. She's intelligent & has skills. No need to settle for the old when she has options 😊.
Its an open ending.
At the start FL never forgive scumbag husbands and punished them on behalf of wives. She still asked divorce even the green-tea-biah is kicking ed out from house. So I think she will divorce the General and build her own haram. 😊 General need to try his best to Woo her back 😂 but it'll be difficult because her other suitors are the bachelor prince and the powerful King. 😅
@@happyfairy3087 how he’s scumbag when he is forced to marry by emperor’s decree? should he challenge the decree and got executed instead?
But i feel uncomfortable when general stated right that she is his wife, and she looks happy. I feel like her heart alr gone to him. Which i dont like really. Get the feeling, if the story continue, they will most probably reconcile, the sign alr there
I quite liked this one. The husband seemed like he genuinely didn't know the 2nd wife was bad news and was just following the orders of the emperor marrying her just as a formality. But he was also incapable of holding a conversation with FL at the start and just ploughing ahead with no thought for her happiness, so everyone was miserable. Love that she ended up with the three kiddos appreciating her and three men vying for her attention. It will certainly keep the husband on his toes.😂
Zhao zhao is so cute. 😭I would also adopt him ngl
why not make her own harrem 😁 a king, a prince and a general 😂 that would be great!
😅I support u
Me too. How fun to have 3 handsome men chasing you ❤
This is one of those ones where I wish the fl hadn't transmigrated. I wish the original fl had gotten justice. Her kids didn't love her and her husband lied to her. They fell in love with a different woman wearing her face and that makes me sad.
Cast list please??
The husband😐 had no backbone, or a mind of his own. He never stood up for his wife. Claimed to love her, but believes the newlywed stranger over thier ten-year relationship.😑 He only started believing the "modern world" FL because she "proved" her worth through skills. If every woman needs to be this talented for her husband to take her words seriously (and 10 years of taking care of the house is nothing in his eyes), then not many can survive marriages.
The ML actor (I usually like him a lot) did a poor job on this role. His facial expressions were that of a "wronged maiden" most of the time. 😅Why do modern women have to settle for abusive jerks?
Neglect is also ABUSE-- physical, mental, sexual and neglect are the four types approved by the human rights commission and WHO. His neglect led to the original's dearh.
If you were going by the ancient standards, it's still a crime to neglect the original wife and act in a way that "shows" favour to the concubine. In fact, according to ancient law, he didn't actually have to favour the concubine. But if his actions look like he is favouring the second one, it is enough for him to be punished big time as giving face to the original wife was important as only they bear legitimate heirs. He definitely turned a blind eye to the second wife's actions, so he pretty much pushed the original towards suicide.
II has've observed in Chinese stories the man falls in love of his genius wife. The wife is a hacker, martial artist, traditional chinese doctor, and many more professions. Only when she proves her thousand skills the husband will be with her. Only when the wife has backbone can sort out these situations because. If the wife is submissive, obedient, and inlove of the husband she is abused by the inlaws, abused in different ways evexually by her husband. I've seen more than 50 dramas like this one, and novels. Even if the protagonist is genius (and lot of stories not) ends up with the scumbag. She can't fall in love with the second lead, a man that respect, cherish and love her. Noooo, she still behind the husband. Ugh
Thank you I'll skip this
Do you have information on the FL and ML … what are their names?
It's been quite awhile since I've watched a historical mini. So this was a nice break from the modern mini dramas. Short, simple but lighthearted and entertaining to watch.
Enjoyed this C-drama so much! Wished that it was longer so that we could see what happens next. Would be awesome if they all became "family" and that the main FL ran the entire household! 😂😊😂
Honestly, I root for the husband. He only follow the emperor's order and he said it since the begining. You know at that time resisting king's order means death. He didn't touch the concubine or do anything in her favor, he's still forgiven. 😌
And he's the most handsome out of three in my opinion.
I like the ending 😂 you cant go wrong being good and kind. Fl was righteous smart and not wicked. I pity one who married deceiving person too blind not to see it🤔
Ml doesn't deserve her. He is either a scumbag who used the king as an excuse to get a second wife or a coward who couldn't even attempt to stand up to the king and say no. He allowed his children to disrespect their mom all because of a scar on her face. His wife is long dead and him and their children pushed her over the edge. He may not realize it but there is no way he can make up for his past mistakes. He failed her and she is dead. What he has is another woman in his life that took over his wife's body. Damage has been done and from the looks of it fl is still attempting to leave him but it's no easy feat when your a woman living in that time period. Loved how she not only picked up a prince but also a king. I like the prince for her. Love the kings son. He was raised right by his father. He was not ashamed of her scar but worried that she was still in pain. That's how her children were supposed to be like but ml failed all. I saw to many times were public opinion mattered more than what was right. The prince kept having to stop him from stopping fl from getting Justice for the boy all because ml was worried about her making a scene. Pathetic
Agreed. 😊
Omg, the general is soooo frikkin handsome and a rock body😍 . Why??????❤❤❤ Great performance
IKR! Wang zi yi is freaking beautiful man! Its my first time to watch him in historical drama and i can just gaze at him all thru the story.❤️
The general actually loves FL very much but obligated to marry the other woman to appease the emperor.. haha funny how the plot goes but I like the story
He loved the new attitude - not her - or else he would trust her and stand up when she was bullied.
I understand if he married another woman to appease the emperor but one thing for sure no matter what he shouldn't always defend her
She was better off this man you don't love her but atleast respect her bcoz she was your wife second thing he didn't even teach his children to how to talk to mother and if you don't love her it's better leave her
She should divorce him
@@sashekh09total agree a man who drove his wife to death in the first place don't deserved her back...I was rooting for her divorce but looks like it might not happen 😅
As much as i like her confident, i wanted to leave her scumbag husband and that family
You lose someone to live them. That flirting part was really annoying compared to what they did to her
After hundreds of female doctors, finally we get a lawyer 😂 (i think other than that there are just 1 chef, 1 businesswoman & 1 innovator)
This is actually a fun watch
The ending is open ended
But it is implied that she won't go back to the husband
I feel like she gonna go back instead. Didnt you see that she smile happily when he stated that she is his wife infront of others. I feel like shouting to her to wipe that smile and remind her of original wife wish before she died 🙄
I hope she doesn't go back, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let her run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊.
@@molee8863 Here Here
The husband was a weak willed scumbag
The mother in law was a bully
The children were disrespectful duds
Divorce!!!
Why C-drama's always begins so hateful and disrespectful?
That 2nd little boy is sooooo cute and his dad is handsome lawd❤
HAHAHAHAHA 😂 I love the ending. The Friendship form at the end is hilarious. 😅
for all the C drama I've seen this one has the most satisfying end 🤣🤣😘
y she dont divorce him yet. was waiting for the divorce to happen. dont tell me she stayed cuz she fall in love back with tht jerk
Calling her ugly for a scar that's 80% hidden by her bangs is a bit much lol. Like you can literally see her beautiful face just fine. I know that these dramas are just like that but it's funny to me every time.
I find it funny that the concubine became the baby sitter somehow 😂
Those 2 men nearly give d main husband heart attack 😅😅😅
Right???😂😂😂😂
I like this version of the script, Great Job 🎉
Fantastic movie, I enjoyed watching it. The Prince is so cute and the leading man is handsome… Thank you.
yes it was a norm to have more than one wife but stop criticizing her for being jealous. its a normal emotion and it justifies the wives being jealous of each other. how can they treat her indifferent because she is jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!
all the 3 princes are awesome, the last king was so mighty . general's body so hot 🥵. no matter whom she chooses they all are prince and will have multiple wives and concubines. so choose wisely and not emotionally. good story.🧡
I LOOOVEEE THAT SAVAGE HANDSOME LOOKING MAN, THAT BEIYU KING!!!! Anyone know who his name is?
Same! I was like i would go with him in a heartbeat
Good drama❤ No abusive nor torture. Strong fl, using some 21st century knowledge to her advantage ❤
Damn. I thought the FL would follow the original body's wish. But I waited and waited and no divorce happened. I literally skip the parts where they are flirting cuz they are unbearable to watch.
Great drama! Loved the scene where FL was using her ‘lawyer’ experience to help the little prince ☺️ What is the name of the actor who played the general? He’s so handsome 😍 I think he also played an abusive ex husband role with Meng Na 😅
yes he did
wow this really turns out to be a good drama! that’s why my friend really like this kind off short drama haha 😭
Now this guy is so much in modern dramas it was good to see him in a traditional drama
Well to be fair 😅, the hubby technically didn't cheat. The 2nd wife was imposed on him.
Also he redeemed himself 😅.
Loved the plot. Firm and assertive FL, overcame all her enemies.
10/10 would recommend. ❤❤🎉🎉
I love that they are fighting over her with the husband in between them hahahahah😂😂😂
If it’s in other revenge dramas, this *“husband who marries other woman while his wife takes care of his family all by herself for so long”* and also those *“2 ungrateful kids who called the other woman ‘mom’ while despising and be vicious to their own mother”* have already been kicked to the curb forever by the FL, not to get along together cordially like this after a miniscule of so-called ‘regret’
How come this two kids so rude to their mother?I dislike a kids this behavior so much
Very easy, a child wants to please the adults around him because they are his security for survival. A child is like a sponge, soaking up the what adults, say and do and- what they do not do. They will mirror the adults, if you teach a child to be cruel and hurt others, he will think it a normal behaviour. Children understand much more than they are given credit for. That is why we Adults need to be very careful in our actions and words around little ones. A Child’s need for Security is so I ate that they will even cling to an abuser, even though they realize this person is dangerous. What is more dangerous.is to not obey or challenge that abuser, who is the access to food and shelter. Hope this makes it clear how the concubine fed untruths to the children and her reason was to create a divide between mother and child as well as between Husband, his family against the Wife.
I am thankful that it is open ending. At least FL knows that the one who sacrificed everything for that fool man is not she. Even if he loved anyone its not her. She just made him realise how bad he is to her wife.
the northern king could carry me away. 😩 that's a big boy and im here for it
The ending is so hilarious 😂
Love triangle can be the funniest sometimes 😜
I think Drama is uncompleted😮 special fl husband never try to defend his wife until she die😢😢now is living is another soul than what about her 😢did she really deserve it ?? Really husband really idiot, scumbage and blind 😠😠😠😡
Wow,this is a beautiful short drama. I'm satisfied with it❤
Its a Goodlooking Cast ❤
The prince's laugh when he said he's waiting for the divorce😂😂😂
She should have leave such a man and heartless child.
Be with anyone but must divorce her husband. He didn't deserve her
The orphan boy so cute. Acted well his role.
Fight for ur rights and yourself. Men will be men. Love ur self ♥️
Shes pretty, she look like korean actress park min young
❤Lovely drama I like this drama ending ❤ a prince a general a king want to marry him nice ending! I want this type drama
I love this ending probably the best for this trope. This was a fun watch
Overall rating 8.5 out of 10 stars.
Compared to approximately 2,000 Cdramas or short dramas, this one ranks pretty darn high in my opinion. I appreciate the lack of violence between spouses, or should I say a wife-beater scenario. The revived Prince's adoration for the FL is cute. Khan is WOW, a BIG man, thundering giant compared to everyone else. The mother-in-law she got on my nerves, ungrateful and useless. I was surprised the MIL and 2FL didn't covet the 1FL's dowry. The misappropriation of gender pronouns weren't as devastatingly confusing as other novels, and drama's subtitles. Thumbs up for not going totally chop-suey, she/he, his/hers. Males are he, him, his, himself. Females or ladies are she, her, hers, herself. The newer gender pronouns can be ignored, or placed in a woodchipper. They ain't making sense! ::cough:: ::cough:: back to the drama... the story started off vague the original FL didn't have a backstory, more like a glimpse if anything to her struggles. The General, I don't know how he actually got that title, role, occupation considering it is supposed to be complex. He's supposed to be strong, analytical, strategical, on the battlefield as well as at the homefront. He's more of the wimpy, wimpy, wimpy cinch-sack male who fails at critical thinking. He, like the Emperor merely pass judgment on mere hearsay instead of research, intellect, critical thinking through thorough investigation.
The ending was a bit weak. What happened between the three men somewhat waring after the 1FL? Did she get the honor of a reverse harem? That would put a twist on the whole drama ::smirk::
I would definitely not rate it as high as you. Maybe a 3 or 4? And only because they were good-looking. The acting is atrocious, and the CPR was improperly done!
I don't know if I love the ending, even though it was hilarious and enjoyable...I kinda wanted to know what happened next lol. So good! I like that the husband wasn't all for the other woman like most of the other versions I've watched even if he did wrong.
I really wish the FL could end up with the king and live in the northern territory with Zhao Zhao! FL deserves to be a queen and have a greatful child who won't be swayed.
Anyone know the cast for ML, Baiyu king, pronce and FL? They are so gorgeous
Would they PLEASE GIVE THE TITLE. IM REALLY TIRED OF THESE STORIES WHERE YOU CANT FIND INFORMATION AND LOOK UP THE ENTIRE SHOW.
2nd time watching this and this ML made me angrier than the 1st time because of his weakness. Since the 2nd marriage was the emperor's decree, he had to accept it. SFL is the daughter of a fallen general who saved him, so he had to respect her. However, and that's a big however, he should have respected his wife who took care of him and his family when they were poor and when he was away for war enough to make sure she understood the circumstances and was respected in the household. But because now they have money, it appears FL original soul was not important enough to make sure she was OK. I'm not even sure how the 2 children became so disrespectful since they were raised by FL, however, children do go through a fickle stage where they become disrespectful to the parent who try to raise them with rules and wish for other parents who appear to give them their "perfect" life and everything they want. I think ML did love his original wife, but he didn’t know how to respect and care for her. Since the original soul is of ancient times where her worth is centered around her family, she fell into depression and despair, which led to suicide. If she would have lived, her character would not have found her voice and she would have spent a life of being disrespected. Now the modern day transmigrated FL soul has a voice and does not tolerate disrespect. The problem with these transmigrated soul stories is that the original soul never quite gets the grievance respected that she deserved. FL never put it in ML's face that the woman who loved him died that night she jumped in the lake/pond. I just saw a transmigrated story with Hou Chengyue where FL clearly tells ML over and over again that the woman who loved him the most died that night he forced her death in the most disrespectful way. That was a good one.
Overall, this was a good watch with an open ending. The only person I don’t want FL to be separated from is Zhao Zhao.
Agreed. I hope she doesn't go back, because in truth she isn't his wife. The wife died when she jumped into the water & drowned. From what I saw, he did nothing for the wife. In fact, he did nothing when the SFL entered the house & let her run rampant. He was a true disappointment despite the fact that he was handsome. Also the MIL was a harpy & those kids were rude & disrespectful to the mom. Who needs that. I'm rooting for the FL to stand strong & proceed with the divorce 😂. Why does she need to settle for someone else's life 😊.
So the fact is he actually neglected her to the point of her attempting suicide (note that the actual girl -general's first wife is actually dead.) He don't deserve redemption. The lawyer's character should have been shown more strongly and more quick witted. The original girl (-general's first wife ) wanted to leave and not be with a man who has only his face card and no brain. And how come as father he watched their children mistreating the mother. No discipline required there? And no consent needed to be with her? How come a modern age lawyer can be swayed away like this? Not to mention the MIL's behaviour. Other two MLs are far better than the General. As a lawyer she should know clear case of suicide? Where's her lawyer's instinct and wit. This could be more better if the story was better written. Ideation is good but not developed.
Exactly! She's a divorce lawyer, she should have been tough and should have been able to find a way to divorce early on the show. She should have been able to discipline the children.
I know, the general was rather weak in character, he is dominated by an greedy overbearing mother who smothered him which allowed no critical thinking skills. The “ Saved my life- now bound by that person to extreme lengths “
Idk, once my children show disloyalty to me and they say they prefer the mistress, I will be packing their bags and tell them to get out and go to her home!
I didnt want her witg anyone
Just divorced single feminist in 6th century
good answer!!!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This is what they call a toxic relationship
bro this lu changyu guy doin too much its so cute but so silly LMAOOO
👍She deserves her own heram💗💗baby zhao is just the sweetest💕💜🇰🇪
This was super funny and good👍🏽
How goodlooking actor in there❤ love that fl be loved by 3 man. She deserve it!
“Do you two think I’m dead? 😂😂
This is definitely more different than the usual reborn shorts I have viewed. The storyline really shows the character of the FL and I agree with some of the other comments about the ML personality.
Hmm, 3 suitors. TBH none of them look too bad. The Prince is sweet with a playful demeanour, with bright eyes and a nice smile. The General has sharper facial features and really nice lips, he has never been cruel but I agree he has a weaker temprement - perhaps not suited to be a general. The foreign Prince, although a bit brutish still looks really cute to me - he is caring toward his family and more ruthless to those that do wrong or hurt others.
Then only think i can't understand is how she suddenly switched from modern time languages to ancient time, its very different 😮
If the male lead actually loved his wife then he should have noticed that his wife soul changed
The moral of this story is... as long as a wife/woman is smart, has a position/income and knows her rights and obligations... then her husband/partner will always be by her side...duh
I don't think so......
... If a man/partner wants to cheat, then just cheat..
There is no need to make excuses
I hate if she forgive that bad husband at the end 😊
Tiktok brought me here! 😅
It was nice watching this drama. ❤
So in the end she ended up with a husband with 2 kids a baby father with a son an a puppy prince I love that for her. An I love how them dude pay the husband no mind
I wanted her to end up with the visiting king.the one with a handsome beard :)
The husband is gorgeous. Even more so when he’s jealous 48:10. How he dealt with the orphan and his son’s bullying ways was also excellent. ❤ Love this ML😍 1:08:39
RIDICULOUS..
the original person died, she died in vain, and he was doing romance and confession to the other person in her body..
It's same like he fell for other person but never her.
She is the one, who dedicated her life to him and died at end.
And this shity didnt show any retribution from husband or his family..
Trying to make it funny at the end , which is ridiculous. .
I am so done with these half hearted directed stories..
The girl possessing the body, did not even didnt did justice to the owner, but spent time being shy and blush, and little bit of pay back to the villainous only.
The husband, the mother, even the children, all contributed on the original owner death...
l like this series. 魏凡舒&王梓亦 古装剧#夫人在上将军知错了 is pretty good story.
From the 3 guys at the end, I hope she went with the King from the other country. She'd have a much freer, happier life there, without the baggage of 1. the husband who wasn't there for her and his nasty mother and ungrateful kids, and 2. the prince and palace life with all the rules. I choose to think she left with the king and his son, and lived happily every after!
The kids did fix their attitudes at the end, but she's not attached to them, being an entirely different person from their mother. It was a fun watch!
😂😂😂😂😂😂this is so nice, especially the ending
I enjoyed this. Light overall, husband is a bit weak and doesn't stand up for his wife, but slowly wakes up. The added suitors are fun. Open ended. It's nice to see a twist where the FL is being wooed by 3 men. Also, FL recognizes the original owner feelings several times in the movie.
My little heart can never forgive those who hurt me .
Really? Although that is often the first instinct , it has flaws than are not good for our Mental Health. To Hate and never Forgive are the Chains that will bind you forever to that Trauma and Pain. Why? It becomes an unresolved thorn in the Heart that keeps twisting and pricking to the point one may become Obsessed with Vengance that can drive you “Bat Shit Crazy”. In order to Avenge your self, you will callously hurt innocent people who had nothing to do with the original insult. Therefore, you are no longer a victim but a predator. The one who insulted you does not care about your pain, so why keep that pain? Forgive the Fool, and rip out the thorn to bleed the Poison out and Heal. Remember “ if you are going to avenge yourself on someone- first dig two graves. One for your target and one for Yourself”. This World will always be unfair in many ways and too often Justice is beyond our reach. We have a choice how we react to bad things, let it poison us forever, or not allow it to poison. It is not an easy choice to forgive, but it is Freedom.
@@KittymoreJoy thanks , i know all this , but i can't smile, love,or be intimate with someone who hurt me and i will not let them poison my thoughts and my life .
I just don't want them in my life at all.
In story the general never slept with second wife so i can accept if they're not divorce 😅
Kind of want her to stay with her husband but also want one of the others to win too. Is this going to end in the reverse herram😂😂😂
I think the second pull at 1:17:30 wasn’t scripted because she hides her face to laugh lol I can’t wait to see how this ends. Ok just finished and love the ending! I think the husband did always care for her, when she was “simple minded” her maid remarked how the home was happier before the evil woman came and it’s not like people can refuse marriages granted by the emperor and he is like so many men of the time where they didn’t really look at what was happening at home. BTW I loved how the queen scolded the emperor for granted the evil sister the same rank as the first wife. I loved the prince but they didn’t seem to have romantic chemistry, I can see it as sibling chemistry. The tribe king looked like what a “wild king” would look like - so strong. I can see him with someone like the maid as she was so fierce for those she loved and she’s not “delicate” like most ladies in the place (exception being the FL lead).
The part where the emperor and the queen dowager are forced to rush to the scene of the crime and the part when her 3 suitors get caught in the door then sit at the table, will never not be funny 😂
Kenapa setiap membalas budi itu harua menikah, bagaimanapun laki laki tak akan sanggup adil akan perasaannya. Itu yg menyakiti wanita lain. Entah istri pertama, istri ke dua dan seteruanya. Lelaki mudah sekali mengatakan iya bila di beri wanita. Andai wanita itu tetap lemah seperti aslinya, pasti dia akan tersiksa bathinnya. Krn wanita memiliki kemampuan dan kecerdasan maka di pertahankan. MAKA JADILAH WANITA YG CERDAS, MANDIRI DAN BAIK HATI, MAKA ANDA TAK AKAN TAKUT MENGHADAPI DUNIA. ❤
while watching the plot of this drama makes mi think if this kind of situation could possibly be equated to a family whose husband is in a military service married to an ordinary wife who isn't favored by the mother in laws but loved by the husband?!?
at first I couldn't understand why the kids treatment to their mother is very cruel. infront of everyone during the 2nd marriage, face to face they insulted her, calling her ugly and even denied her as their biological mother and favor the 2nd wife. for me, that is the most painful insults that a mother would received coming from your biological children.
although, it wasn't shown why it turns out to be that way but i think the biggest factor and influenced was the mother in laws of FL. the husband is in the battlefield (military duties) while the wife is a housewife. the mother in laws is also at the house always and always keep on insulting the FL
i think the husband isn't aware that FL was maltreated by his mother because the old FL is the type of person who is very willing to sacrifice everything for the ML (love ML for 10 long years) and the children amidst the insults she received she will only cry never fight back, she wants to explain but no one bothers to listen. she just tolerated the abused given by the mother in laws. the kids watching this kind of scenario everyday will eventually joined the grand ma on keep hurting their mother because as a kids they think that is the normal thing to do..(i am soo sad and heart broken for the FL)
what i like in the story the most was, when the 2nd wife visited the first wife with the kids and the FL refused them an audience and they got mad and even kicked FL's maid. then ML arrived and FL came out and on the heated of the arguments the FL let her children choose who their mother would be: her or the 2nd wife? but the children chose the 2nd wife and the FL immediately agreed and told the kids that she is no longer their mother and they are not allowed to call her mother anymore. ML's reaction was really funny for me. he can't believe that the wife will abandoned their children that easily😂😂😂
for me that is justice served for the FL. the kids abandoned her so she also abandoned them(kids)😂
anyways, for me this is a good story. i recommend. a must watched.
thanks for the upload 😁
ML was aware because at the dinner table his mom wouldn't let her sit and went off on her ML did nothing to protect and defend the woman he claims to love but when FL stands up for herself and starts throwing the food on the floor and breaking the dishes then ML stands up for his mom and tells FL she is being unreasonable so yeah he knew how his family treated her and never cared cause he didn't love her enough to protect and defend and fight for her.....
ML witnessed how FL 2 bratty kids treated her and how they insulted and bullied her and he said nothing to correct their behavior towards their mother but when FL tells them not to call her mom anymore and not to come to her for anything anymore since they love 2nd wife so much and want her to be their mom then ML stands up for his bratty kids and 2nd wife saying 2nd wife takes care FL's children for her and shares the family burdens so why is FL being so intolerable
ML very aware of how everyone treated FL he didn't care....he's a pos scumbag so that's why I hate the open end, want to see FL divorce him