SLEEP TRAINING 101| FROM COSLEEPING TO CRIB
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
- Cosleeping is such a great thing that I fully support. However, sometimes it stops being the best choice for both the parents and the child. This is how I got my baby to sleep in his crib after cosleeping for 8 months!
Skip to 5:30 to know how to do it! Some of the video is just me explaining my experience etc! Enjoy!
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I enjoy the intro 😂
Very helpful. Third baby. Third none sleep. Third cosleeper. Third boob to sleep sleeper etc etc 🤣😴💖
Thx
I’m watching this for the first time. I have read things but wanted to hear what my fellow mommies are going through. My son is 9months, breast fed, and still sleeps with his dad and I. However, he sleeps so bad now that it is time for him to transition. The only thing is, we have a bad habit of holding him while he takes naps. We know we won’t have this time with him for long so we’re holding on as long as we can. I really hope we can learn to let him go so he can learn to self soothe and sleep on his own. Thank you for your experience Love. It is appreciated.
It’s never a bad habit to hold your baby when he sleeps. I did this for the longest time and still do it from time to time when he’s under the weather, or when we both feel like it ❤️ Like you said time flies, so cuddle and hold your wee one! I started transitioning my son to his crib and within just a few days he adjusted! So never worry you are creating a bad habit and “spoiling” your baby. You got this momma! ❤️
I really needed to hear this I’m a first time mom and I feel like I’m creating a bad habit by letting him sleep with me and holding him every time he cries. everyone is telling me that I’m spoiling him but im just trying to enjoy him as long as I can
how did it go?! i feel like i could have written this myself haha
I'm dealing with the same thing with my 10 month old, I also have her nap on me. This comment was a year ago and I'm so curious on how it's all going now?
Omg ! I’m glad I found this video . It has been hell trying to get my daughter to sleep in her crib . She is 9 months, breastfeeding at night and still sleeps with me . So this video gives me so much hope .
Glad it was helpful!
I'm so glad i found this video. I'm trying to get my 7 month old to sleep in her crib. And when she would cry for 5 minutes, I would feel horrible like im an evil person to let her cry. I felt like I had failed as a mother and she would hate me. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
Jessica Jaramillo I’ve since done it with my second child. He’s 5 months and happily asleep in his crib. For my family it’s the right choice ❤️
Just here to say that 1. This video is SO helpful and 2. If you have a snuggly baby that wants to be cuddled, try getting a Little Warmies for them! My clingy baby adores his!
This video was so helpful! Definitely gave me a peace of mind and reassured me that I am NOT doing it wrong and things just take time!!
He’s now 4 and has 2 little brothers. I did it with all of them with zero regrets :) goodluck
So glad I found this! Gonna try it out. My daughter get such anxiety that she throws up when she gets real upset. Hoping it works because mama hasn’t slept in 16 months.
How is she doing now? Best wishes!
I literally commented 1 hour ago of how I been struggling to put my 1 year old to bed , and after this video he is out in his own crib 😭😭❤️ took the entire hour but he’s out in his crib , thankyou so much for your tips !
Life as a mommy how is it going now? Still good?
Did u leave the room or sit there? And did you have to lay him.down? My girl will immediately roll over and stand or sit up. So she nods off and won't lay. So she jerks awake when she starts nodding off and cries more. Gets more upset if I lay her down. So idk what to do lol.
Its 2022 and your video is so very helpful.
Im a single mama / breastfeeding mom
and a student.
So we have coslept for 8 months.
Its now time.
Thank you for your transparency.
You got this!
My son sleeps in his crib for nap time...but at night he wakes up to eat .. and I'm so tired I don't put him back in the crib....
I am trying to change this now... Today is the first day ... I'm scared it's not going to go we'll!
Marissa Insel I’m just seeing this! How did it go? Depending on age I would follow the same steps at night. It’s hard but well worth it.
Same here
Ugh same thing! So much easier to put him in bed w me 😭
Same situation.
First time dad here. My daughter is a sleep demon. If she gets laid on her back while not completely dead asleep she will wake the dead. I’m currently on day 3 of letting her do some controlled crying and it seems to be working. Tonight I rocked her for 20 minutes all while she was screaming beating me up and trying to crawl away trying to get her calm enough to be laid down and she never calmed down. I just had to set her in the crib. It took her 2 5-7 minute cry outs. And thank goodness she is out now. It’s insane the amount of power a tired baby has when they do not want to sleep. I swear she can lift a truck.
I am sure that you are doing great!
Wow ! I needed to hear that someone else is also sharing my experience! Thank you so much. I’m so frustrated that we can’t do anything unless I hold my baby girl. She is turning 9 months and bed sharing is becoming a struggle. Thank you 🙏
Goodluck! He now has 2 little brothers and I did the same with them!
Loved this video! Sounds just like me and my son. He’s turning 6 months and he’s at the stage where he whats to be with me but he seems uncomfortable n fussy n then if I lay Him down on his own he flips... I feel like eventually I’ll be able to try this method which seems more gentle. Thank you for sharing!! You’ve given me hope!
Lol same! How did you transition? Mine is 7m and just flips and flips all day long! And he hits his head in the crib. Any advice? Thanks!
Thank you mama💗 my mom raised her last kid in 2000 and firmly believes in the mean cry it out. She encouraged me to let my baby girl cry it out for nap today because she isn’t getting enough rest it was the most devastating thing I have done. She cried like I had never heard before. This sounds like a great alternative and I can’t wait to try it. 💗
Briannah Marie I’m just seeing this! How did it go? I defiantly wanted to do an even more relaxed version but this worked for us!
@@raisingbabydiaz lol!! oh goodness, she's 9 months now and doesn't leave my side...EVER. Naps, bedtime, I can barely leave her with her grandma for an hour and a half without her being extremely sad. She is all mommy's girl. WISH. ME. LUCK. lol I'm going crazy!!!
Briannah Marie my son was like that at least the first year. Now he’s all “bye mommy” 😭❤️
You're such a great storyteller. Felt like we were chatting over coffee. Thank you sooo much for this! I have hope that my freedom is on the horizon... Lol
You are so welcome!
My baby cries every time he goes in his crib so I always put him in the bed because I didn’t want him to be upset but now he’s fell out of bed three times bc he wakes up before we do so now he absolutely needs to go in his crib . Thankfully he’s way taller than the height he fell but I rather him be upset with me than hurt so this video was super helpful for ideas how to approach the situation
Great video, great info. My daughter was born at 23 weeks and 3 days gestation. She spent 5 months (122 days) in the NICU. Do to this, she has a very bad separation anxiety mostly only with me. I’ve tried putting her In her crib but she just won’t stop crying,she will cry for an hour if I let her.It breaks my heart ,I can’t just leave her. Hoping these tips works because im exhausted 😩. Thank you for sharing. God bless . Wish me luck !
Great video
Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom.
My son is 1yr now and we’re getting ready to start the transitioned him sleeping on his own.
My 10 month old baby screamed 1 hour straight. I waited 15 minutes and went back in for an hour straight. Finally I gave up and brought him to my bed. We are trying to get him sleeping through the night and in his crib. He sleeps in his crib for naps IF I rock him and he falls asleep in my arms first. But he has yet to sleep in his crib all night. I am SO tired.
Going through the same thing 😩
I’m glad you did crib hour! I would trouble shoot. Maybe bedtime is too early or too late.
Thank you. I needed this sooo bad.
Omg this has been me! My daughter had acid reflux and would wake up some nights choking. Even with burping frequently during and after a feeding, keeping her upright 20 minutes after a feed and tummy time, the reflux was an issue every now and again. It terrified me that I wouldnt wake when she was coughing so I started having her sleep on my chest for a while and then transition her to her bassinet after some time. Shes so dependent on me now to put her to sleep and comfort her back to sleep when she wakes
My son had it really bad and i had a c section so I couldn't jump up and save him while he was choking so i moved him in bed with me so i could grab him when he did that. I have tried switching him to the crib but at night when he would wake up for feeding i was unconsciously brining him in bed with me.. dont know how to stop that
Same situation for my son and now unable to make him to sleep in bassinet
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I'm really thankful to hear all of this. My baby is 10 months old and I'm ready to transition her. She's starting to crawl around and we had a really close call, thankfully my bed right now is just on the floor. And I also want to use a pillow and blanket where she now understands how to pull them off of her if needed.
Let me know if it goes.well! My girl is 10.5 months and I'm trying this now. I am soooo nervous! Hope you're doing well
Please keep us updated! My daughter is 10 months old and still sleeps with me and yes! She's all over the place and very adventurous. I have an XL bed bumper and my pregnancy pillow is along the bed bumper as well. She always sleeps on my chest or lays on her side with her head resting on my arm. I love the snuggles but I also want her to sleep on her own.
@Lydia Rodgers I'm nervous too! I hate hearing her cry, it tears me apart
Don't feel bad! All of mine have tumbled off of the bed lol!
Totally realistic and relatable!!!
I am totally in this exact situation with my daughter she’s now 3 months, my sons 23 months and I co sleep with her as I did him but I am so trapped during naps or anything I love it, I love her, but I need to do so much around here and with my sweet boy. It’s so hard😢 I just hope I can show both of my baby’s they are my world and my heart, I’m praying I can help my little girl get good sleeping on her own and getting some restful good sleep. Thanks for your information and testimony I love learning from moms
I did it with my second child at 4 months! He has naptime in a hour and will go to sleep easily for 2-3 hours!
Your so lucky your baby sleeps through the night. My girl is 13 months has been a terrible sleeper since she was born :/ .. ive tried everything!!!! But nothing works!!!!! Its fustrating and ive spent so many nights in tears.
Breezyxbad 1 it was a lot of work. We started a routine once we got home from the hospital. I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time! It’s sooo hard but I really say to google the Ferber method and give it a try. I did it with my nanny kid and she started to nap better!
Saaaaaaame 😭
Same. You're not alone 😢
Same!!!! My son is 10 months old and still doesn't sleep through the night it's so frustrating but it gets better I hope
Thank you so much for this video. I am a first time mom with a 7 month old. We Cosleep with her and I still breastfeed. This video gives me hope. I seriously hope this works for me 😢
Since this video I’ve had two more sons. I’ve done the same with them ❤️
Thank you for this! My granddaughter lives with us and yes we are those grandparents who allow co sleeping but she is now 13mnths and is just restless so purchasing a new crib fixing up the spare bdrm for her and trying this method. Wish us luck, my princess is not allowed to cry lol😬😄
Jennifer Molina I think a lot more people sleep with their littles then we think! I think most people keep it hush hush. Goodluck!!
My almost 5mth old is currently co sleeping but I’m finding that as he is restless or if I go to turn over he wakes up so we aren’t even getting solid sleep 😭 He was sleeping overnight in the crib for about 5hrs with 1 feed (I’m breastfeeding) but when he hit 4mths it all changed, and I caved into co sleep at night and through the day his 30-45min naps turned into 15min-30min naps as he would cry as soon as I put him down..I thought as he is almost 5mths it’s time to bite the bullet.. I made the room as pitch black as I could and tried the hands on settling.. he of course fought it for 45min but finally fell asleep in his crib… it’s his first nap so hoping that I don’t get too much push back from him.. thought I’d start to get him use to it through the day first then try nighttime … thanks for the vid.. very informative
That is what started to happen with us as well. He is now 6 and still sleeps in his own bed with minimal to no issues!
Definitely trying this with my son
I relate to 100% of your experiences. Thank you so much for this video, will definitely be trying your suggestions
Great video! I co sleep with our 12 month old and have with the last three kids because that’s just what works for us given I’ve breastfed each one. Hopefully this will work wonders with the last one. He has been the most difficult to transition and sleep in the crib. Thanks for the great content!
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I related to a lot of this video! Awesome stuff:)
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for sharing your experience!!
Great tips, following your baby queues is so important :)
very good video, my daughter is 2 months going to 3 in one more week and i need to start sleep training her
Omg I can relate to you so much.! I’m glad I found your video!
100% love this!!!!
Love this video. Thanks so much for sharing
Thanks for watching!
I’m here trynna find a solution for my 11 month old , he was an amazing sleeper to sleep alone till he was like 5 or 6 months old till husband wanted him on the bed here and there and those few times became every night & he’s an only child very babied & last night I tried to train him back into his crib and it didn’t go well 😭 he cried with sadness and thought we left him and abandoned him😭
Life as a mommy my current baby sleeps with me lol! I’ll do the same for him once he’s 6 months old! My babies are so clingy and so I get it.
Omg same exact problem with me with my baby girl
I wish I did this sooner. My son is 2 in two months and he still sleeps with us. No room and both my husband and him are sweaty so I wake up all gross lol. I 100% agree with every mom is different, because I would never use bumpers and stuff, but I don’t see anything wrong with it if he’s monitored and you’re comfortable with it. You know your own baby
MamaCort my son is almost 3 now. He does really well going back and forth. Sometimes I miss him and let us sleep with us and he has no probable going back to his toddler bed! It’s exhausting to teach them but worth it in the end!
Girl this video was so helpful we have like the same schedule currently his dad wakes up at 5 and a sleep by 8pm we are going to start sleep training this week currently co sleeping
Really good advicex
Exact same situation. So glad I found this. How long did you breastfeed? My son doesn’t take a pacifier 🥺😭 he’s 11 months.
Aimy Burrow I nursed him first 2 years. Currently nursing his 5 month old baby brother who is also in his own crib! I did it earlier this time. 4 months.
My son stopped using pacifiers after 1month old lol.. he uses my boob to get back to sleep at night.
I am definitely going to try to do this to my son because he's 11 months and he doesn't want to sleep in his crib, he sleeps with me and daddy, I t know I know he's big enough to go to sleep by himself but sometimes I just overthink that something can happen to him been by himself in the room n crying or something u know.
But I'm gonna try to do what u did with your baby!
Goodluck! I now have a 10 month old so my second child and I did it with him too. He’s napping in his bed rn! My son in the video is playing in his room and mommy gets some time to herself!
@@raisingbabydiaz oh yess!! Mommy really needs some time for her!!
😪 babies are soooo cute, lovely etc but ...sooo much work! 👶
Same over here my daughter is going on 2 years old and she have a toddler bed now but she still get in my bed in the middle of the night but me and her daddy is still working on her to stay in her big girl bed
I think I might have this problem once we decide to transition him into a toddler bed. He does come to be at 5am usually though.
Crying my eyes out trying to get her to sleep in her crib. She's crying so hard and I feel so horrible 💔 I hate this but I need sleep.
Your pretty and your baby is cute
Deziray Rodriguez thank you!
raisingbabydiaz no problem 💗
Hi Alexis , can you do a video on how you lost your pregnancy weight??
Krysta Alejandra Melville sure thing!
I hope I can still do this even if I'm late for the party. My son is turning 11 mos old and me & my husband are working. This is going to be very challenging 😓
Might be harder but you can do it! I now have 3 and have done this with all of them.
Hey how come you only gave a shout out to first time moms. First time dad watching here. We are about to embark on moving our 9 month old son from cosleeping to his a crib in his own room. Thanks for your video. I hope that within a few weeks I'm back to share a success.
Haha sorry. Most dads I know don’t go looking for sleeping videos so good on you!
With my first baby I was able to do this. Took her 2 days, I left her, she cried, cried less second day and fell asleep.
Th my second baby I can’t make my self do this 🤒. Just can’t let her feel sad and disappointed. I also read it affects babies in the long run. So God help me 🙏🏻
It is definitely a tough decision. We all just do what we feel is best and with good intentions. Follow your gut! If you don’t want too then you don’t have too. I had my second baby and did it with him and even younger. He was way easier for me.
But I don’t leave mine to cry until they’re quiet! I go in to check and pat their backs etc often until they sleep and I do it over and over when they wake up again until they’re asleep again.
I squealed when you pulled the dog out of your lap 🤣
My 8 month old is going through exactly (word for word) what you said, we are getting his crib tomorrow and gonna try it out!
Hi.
Thank you for sharing.
Im going through the same situation as you mentioned, but now i feel very guilty about, you're very young and way older. 🤦♀️
Being a mommy is hard no matter your age! You got this! I hope it helps and follow your gut!
My son is 8 months & I’m just now trying to put him in his own crib too! I’m having the same experience you did! I lay down with him for every nap or hold him. 😅 I hate doing this. I don’t want to lay in the bed all day! I don’t get any sleep anymore & I think it’s making him uncomfortable too. Just moved the crib in the room. Wish me luck! 😪
Nice
I need help! My daughter has always slept in her crib , then we took a week vacation to visit my sister and she slept with me every since we came back home she doesn’t want anything to do with her crib she is a year now and if I leave her in there she starts crying hard and gets really red and it’s scary so I put her back in my bed with me ! How could I break this habit ?
alooondraa_ consistency is key! I’d go in and calm her and when she’s calm try again! Do this over and over. It’s hard but worth it.
raisingbabydiaz like I have tried it and even when it comes to just drinking her bottles in there she just starts screaming bloody murder like I get scared because she turned so red when she cries so it’s like ugh this is so hard you know
There is some single dads on here aswell getting this advice , not just mums
True! My dad was a single dad!
I ran into this video by chance and EVERY. SINGLE. THING. you mentioned is currently happening. She’s 7 months and has slept with us since day one, crib is coming very very soon..
Have you started yet? How did it go?
Thanks for the video. Can I start in the afternoon sleep training? Like when I know it's her nap time?? Can it be in a swing
Hi, sorry I am late. I would work on night time sleep first. I would do all naps in the crib until baby has it down and then 1 of the naps baby can be held or in a swing but only if baby is still having two or more naps a day so baby can still get practice in their bed.
Hi thank you for shearing your video! I have 10 months old boy and he is sleeping with me on my bed his nap and night time sleep. And it is dangerous like you said, so thinking to start sleep train him on his own crib. And here is a question. Did you start training him with naps and a night sleep in a same day or just naps? If just naps, did you keep him to sleep on your bed at night as usual?
NCS M Hi! I honestly don’t remember. My son is almost 3 now so it’s been awhile. I think I did both naps and bedtime at the same time. Once he seemed to have it down I would occasionally let him nap with me or sleep with me because I missed it haha but it didn’t affect anything. As long as it’s not for most of your child’s sleep they should be ok. Goodluck!
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thank you for this- I really wish you got to the things you did before 11 mins in... Im so tired and it's hard to stay focused lol
I think all of the information is important because so many are against sleep training. I now have 3 boys and did the same with all of them. I’m glad it helped. Next time you can skip through. This video is about 4+ years old and I no longer really make videos so it’s not a priority in my busy life to come and add time stamps or anything like that.
Also, I checked and it’s about 5 mins in that I start.
I have heard that co-sleeping can be dangerous for the baby such as risk of rolling over on him, suffocation from the blankets, or the baby rolling off the bed. What did you do to prevent thinks of this sort and give yourself peace of mind. I have a friend whom Is 7 months pregnant and she wants to co-sleep but is scared of these things happening to her.
Haley Brand every parent will do what they feel is best. I felt safer with him by me and never had any close calls. Bed sharing is especially safe for breastfeeding moms. Baby and mom are in sync and wake at the same times and usually naturally cradle the baby with their body in a c shape. A mother shouldn’t sleep with their baby if they smoke, drink or anything of that nature. The baby shouldn’t be swaddled. Many cultures cosleep, in the US it’s more taboo. Here’s a link to a nice photo that has shown nicely. goo.gl/images/47oozJ
raisingbabydiaz okay thank you so much for your advice!! Your such an amazing mom!
There is a way to safely co sleep. It’s not for everyone. There are studies that show when following the saftey steps it’s perfectly fine. A few of the rules: You know yourself if you are a heavy sleeper this is not for you. You can not be under the influence of any medication, alcohol, or drugs (also not a smoker). Breastfeeding is best when co sleeping. Keep your pillow away from baby. Put your head on the edge of it or not at all. Keep blankets away also. When they are younger put them in the bend of your arm. Baby should always be in the middle of the bed so they don’t roll off.
@@Nicoleemariaaa I followed those same steps for both kids and never had any issues.
We got one of those very soft light sheets (like a fleece sheet) and used that instead of a comforter. We also took the pillows off our bed, except for 2. I always would fall asleep with him in my arm or against me, never with my back turned to him.
Theres a lot of new studies saying it's best for the baby and then there are some that say it's not. But it is proven to lessen the likelihood of sids
I have done bed sharing with both of my daughters. I would put my daughter perpendicular to the direction I was laying so she wouldn’t roll into me. I did this til about 3-4 months old. My husband also works nights so it’s just me and my daughter in a king size bed so I also put her on the other side of the bed so I know she’s not close to any pillows and comforters etc. I’ve never had a problem 😊 also, the pediatrician told me that the only cases of babies being rolled over on is the dad doing it or a mom who is under the influence of any substance.
My son has NEVER slept through the night and he’s 7 months now. The last couple of nights he’s been up every hour. I’m exhausted
xbrenda87x how is he sleeping now? Once my son slept through the night on his own I started following the same steps at night as well. It’s difficult but worth it.
We do just about the same thing
Z And R Family does it work for you?
Yes
Do you think it would confuse my son just to nap in the crib and cosleep at night
You could try! I think the opposite would work better. Naps with you and crib at night. My son can now switch between his bed and our bed no problem! Last night he slept with us and tonight he is in his crib.
raisingbabydiaz the only reason I want him in a crib is because During nap I have to lay with him or he wakes up that’s about 5 hours of my day just laying there while he naps it’s driving me crazy lol
And dads😁
Glad to see a dad here!!!
Our big problem is our baby will not take a pacifier, it would make our lives so much easier at least we don't have to break her from it later on.
I love pacis lol
My baby takes it but then he’ll pull it out and throw it and cries 😫
I have four, and my youngest takes a pacifier, and he’s the worst sleeper. He wakes up constantly looking for it. I don’t think it’ll help you to be honest.
So I go in every 5 minutes ? For how long ?
I’m sorry I’m so late. I did it for one hour before I broke. Follow your lead. Do it as long as you feel is good. 30 min-1 hour minimum.
So my situation is a little different my baby was born with a cleft lip so he cannot hold a pacifier in his mouth on his own becuase he has no suction. He is currently 3.5 months old i would like to stop co sleeping but he will cry for an hour and not go to sleep in his crib should i wait untill after he has his lip surgery and can take a pacifier he will have his surgry when he is 4.5 months old
I’d wait it out and let him heal! My youngest rn had surgery on his mouth (not cleft much more minor procedure) and I let him keep it until after the surgery and once he healed I started! Good luck!
Amazing! I just uploaded a video about how I got my 1 year old sleeping in his cot. Was tough going and we saw a sleep specialist. Any mum out there who needs advise or just a ear to chew, I’ve got your back
My baby is an 11 month old spoiled brat lol 🤣 💓 she came out that way!! I'm sick of it now I always have to hold or wear her. If I lay her down she immediately wakes up. Even stands up and won't sit down. She doing it now!! Help!!! Can I start this sleep triaining in that day time?
My son would wake immediately up when i put him in his crib... neither nap nor night sleep... and he would cry and not settle even when sleep on me. 🥺 plz help I'm desperate
Zainul Zaidi the video says how I did it ❤️ I realized my son cried regardless and so crying in the crib made me feel less bad.
Hey, I just found your channel and I just found out I’m 16 and pregnant 2 or 3 days ago. I told my parents and they are forcing me to get an abortion. I am completely 100% against the idea and they are not thinking about what I want and telling me to “stop feeling sorry for myself” are they serious!? They are making me kill my child and then telling me that. I don’t know what to do I am desperate and just lost for words. I know if I am forced to do this I will resent them for the rest of my life and I will be emotionally scared. Did you have any experience with this? Do you have any advice? X
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@@kerriegreene1060 Did you keep your baby? Hope you are okay x
We’re having the exact same problem! Our son is almost 1 and we do co sleeping and nursing but he’s getting so restless we can’t sleep anymore. What time do you try to lay him down for bed? Our son has his own room and naps on his own but for bed time he will not sleep for me and we both work full time and I’m too tired to listen to him cry but I need to get him sleeping on his own because it’s affecting all of our sleep and I need time to clean 😄
Athena DeWeese Hi! My son is now 2.5 and sleeps sooooo well. He goes to bed at 7pm and will wake around 7-8am! It’s so hard to hear them cry and tiring but in the end it was worth it for me for the stress free bedtimes and naptimes.
Your process of bed sleeping is the exact same as me!
Breastfeed
Sleep
Change the butt and toss the diaper on the floor
My son kicks me and falls off the bed too no matter if I’m in the bed or not
He’s 4 months now I’m going to try the crib but idk yet
Hey, I defiantly love your channel. Amazing content I defiantly enjoy watching. Stay beautiful
Hey we all not mums im a dad
Good on you!
So my baby is premature she came two months early so am very protective of her she is my first child. So I use to let her sleep in my bed cause I was so afraid like what if she stop breath and don't kno. So when she reach 3 months I said it was time for to sleep in her own bed I tried everything nothing work my mom give me an idea give my baby a warm bath before bed been working for me for like 2 months now got my bed back lol it work for me dont kno if it will work you🤗🙏🏿
He is 4 now and I have an eleven month old as well. We do baths before bed but not all of the time! But they both sleep really well! I’m glad you found something that worked!
Thank you. I needed this sooo bad.
You practiced the FERBER method. Well done.
Thank you for this! My son is a little over a year now and he still sleeps with me. I want to get him into his crib, but I feel so bad for even letting him cry 1 minute. Nevertheless, this method of yours sounds good, so I am willing to try! I’ll keep you posted 🙏❤️
Update! Took me around 4-5 nights for my son to start sleeping fully in his crib with this method ❤️ He still wakes up a few times a night, but sometimes he sleeps 7pm-5.30am! I honestly cannot believe how quick it went and I’m happy he’s so comfortable and content in his own bed. I do have to say I miss having him with me sometimes, but in the end we both get better sleep and I love seeing his happy little face in the morning 🥰 Can def recommended this method, especially with a (night time) routine! They get used to it so quickly and wind down ☺️
@@kimmick thank you SO much for telling us how many days it took. I am in the same situation right now and have just started to research how to transition from sleeping with me to sleeping in her crib. I also feel incredibly bad hearing her cry for any amount of time...it actually makes me want to cry even thinking about sleep training and letting her cry. So thank you for for reply to this video!
@@mbarnett1982 Hi Melissa, no problem! If you want to know more, you can always ask me :) Feel free to find me on my channel page or here in the comments ❤️ I wish you luck and know that you got this momma! 💖
I am sorry I am so late with responding. I now have three little boys who take all of my time. I LOVE to hear that it worked for you! I too miss them cuddling me in bed sometimes but you can always have special nights where you let him join you if you want. I hope the more restful sleep and some time for yourself is doing you both som good!
It made me really emotional with my first child as well but three kids in and I still feel it is worth it.
My partner needs to watch this 😭😭 our daughter is like this also, sleeps perfectly with us and also loves cuddly stuff in her crib but my partner's too afraid :(
Thank you. I needed this sooo bad.
Thank you. I needed this sooo bad.
You are so young and yet so wise. Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge!
You are so welcome!
Currently watching this laying in the crib with my son I couldn’t listen to the crying my heart broke I cried didn’t work haha I’ll try again tomorrow
veeka1233 I’m doing it with my second son (4 months old) now! Worth it I promise! Think of the cries as protest! It’s the only way they communicate. It’s hard to learn something new even if it’s sleep. You got this❤️ you both deserve the gift of good sleep for a lifetime.
raisingbabydiaz my son is now 8 months and I’m currently pregnant so I I want to transition him out the bed before I get to big. we got home from a softball game so he was asleep in his carseat and went in the crib fine slept for 2 hours but woke up in hysterics and I gave him a bottle he drank Alittle and then I laid him down he just got louder and more sad. I have anxiety and I don’t want him to feel abandoned I don’t know what to do when he gets like that he just sits back up and cries he usually comfort sleeps with the boob but I rather try to whine him off if at night. He doesn’t take a pacifier so I’m kinda stuck and don’t know what to do
veeka1233 hes old enough to not need to eat in the night. It’s habit. He’s used to it. He will cry because he knows no different. I wouldn’t pick him up and would just go on and soothe for a few minutes. I pat mine on the back or rub his head and then leave and start the timer and repeat until he is asleep. My baby went from waking 11x in 4 hours and bedsharing to in his own bed and waking 1x around 5am! For me that’s a win! He sleeps 7pm-5am and then in my bed until we wake up. My older one sleeps 7-7 I did the same sleep training with him, he’s now 3 years old.
My son stands in his crib , should that be okay ?
I am very late with responding, sorry. It should be ok, yes.
My daughter loves putting the blanket over here face n I don’t even care bc I had to take away her paci young bc of a cleft surgery so she loves blankets
Just make sure she is not under one. It is a suffocation risk.
I’m desperate I need Judah to sleep 😭😭