‪Ballum - Ben Tries To Get Over Callum..

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  • @StarrGazer_
    @StarrGazer_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    Two things:
    1. Ben with little Peggy melted my heart.
    2. I'm living for next week's Ballum scenes.
    That is all.

    • @desireealexam
      @desireealexam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Star Gazer HERE HERE! 👏🏻🥂

    • @agustino73
      @agustino73 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      #2!!!!!!

    • @yan-bc5sb
      @yan-bc5sb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He’s back next week??

  • @Bruced82
    @Bruced82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Phil ruined his children's lives and he basically shrugs it off, cause he got his petty revenge (or so he thinks). Ben and Louise should just cut all ties with him.

    • @WilliamsVanGogh
      @WilliamsVanGogh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah I really think he should because Phil even said Ben hasn't been this happy since Paul. And that half-assed apology it clear he doesn't understand how he feels or if he does he knows that Callum can't know about this and just doesn't care anymore.

    • @GinaSigillito
      @GinaSigillito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I really want this to happen. He is a shell of a man now. Ben is the father Phil never was.

    • @WilliamsVanGogh
      @WilliamsVanGogh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@GinaSigillito So True!

    • @tylerbrowning2277
      @tylerbrowning2277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eh8cc2zf5f570o9g3giaovucaj0nnd

    • @oldshowfanatic77
      @oldshowfanatic77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hate Phil for this!

  • @marializdingles6382
    @marializdingles6382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I actually like this shirt Ben' wearing... oh' and his a adorable Uncle 💕

  • @LittleGiant11037
    @LittleGiant11037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Not gonna lie - when Ben went to answer the door and his shocked expression was shown, my heart skipped a beat because I thought Callum was at the door. Was pretty disappointed when it turned out to be Martin, haha.

    • @boldflex1737
      @boldflex1737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Gaby Bladen I thought the same thing but I realized when Callum returns he’s not gonna go looking for Ben, if anything Ben is the one who humiliated Callum he needs to apologize to him not the other way around. Next week is going to be awesome!!

    • @LittleGiant11037
      @LittleGiant11037 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@boldflex1737 Yeah, I knew it was false hope because it's been confirmed that Callum comes back on Monday but that didn't stop me from dreaming, haha. But yeah, based on what I've seen of the spoilers, next week is gonna be goooooood!

    • @desireealexam
      @desireealexam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gaby Bladen I was thinking the EXACT same thing!! 😭

    • @juankabaker
      @juankabaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought he was checking some stuff, photos perhaps, about Callum. Bell rang. It is he, Callum, hugs, kisses, run to the bedroom. Then, Martin💔

    • @yan-bc5sb
      @yan-bc5sb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr

  • @helenadams6625
    @helenadams6625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ben holding baby Peggy was just so cute.

  • @pinkplum3379
    @pinkplum3379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you. If Phil cared about Ben’s wellbeing as much as Ben cared about Phil’s wellbeing, he ‘d try to get Callum and Ben back together. Ben’s trying to carry his whole family on his back. His back’s not strong enough. It was sweet, Ben holding the baby. The baby is a cutie.

  • @augirl4eva
    @augirl4eva 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I miss Callum, too!! 💔

  • @GinaSigillito
    @GinaSigillito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Callum's going to melt when he sees Ben with that baby. Gah!

  • @GinaSigillito
    @GinaSigillito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I actually do feel a bit sorry for Ben's date. Talk about bad timing. He obviously was interested in Ben but yeah he's hurting too much for any real connection right now.

  • @kjohns5139
    @kjohns5139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Keep in mind; Ben is Callum's first. That "FIRST" has a life-long effect on us. We never forget them. And he is right in the middle of it. We know how much Callum loves Ben, and it is clear from Callum's relationship history, Callum is the kind of man who loves loyally and deeply. Callum can't just walk away from Ben...even though he may feel like he is forced to try. Callum is Ben's island of peaceful retreat, his "normal" in a chaotic life, and his emotional rock. Callum changes Ben, if only for moments at a time. When love makes you want to be better...it is a profoundly life-changing love...unconditional and sacrificial. What the two of them have is even stronger than what Ben and Paul had. Is Ben good for Callum? NO. But when did anyone ever chose what is good and maybe best for them, over what makes them feel good and fulfilled; someone they are madly in love with? It's called being a fool for love. And Ben and Callum are fighting nature...not an easy task. Who knows where this Callum/Ben love will take them. We can be sure that the journey will be tumultuous and long, peppered with hurts and disappointments, filled with conflict, and hopefully choked-full of times of passion and sweet tender moments of love. And that folks is why all of us Ballum lovers will tag along for the crazy ride. C'mon, we all want that happy-ever-after, no matter how Disneyland it sounds.

    • @itsonlysound
      @itsonlysound 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'd argue that Ben IS good for Callum. Without him, Callum wouldn't have become the man he is. And he made him happier than he's ever been, he supported him. The breakup was harsh, but their relationship was great.

    • @kjohns5139
      @kjohns5139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "...fighting nature..." in that they (Ben) is trying to push Callum out of his life. and Callum is trying to do what Ben wants. But I don't think they can stay away from each other. They have a magnetism and chemistry that fires their attraction. I'm glad you don't think it is to Disneyland. Neither do I. I am a romance novelist, and Happily-ever-afters, are my specialty. Life just has to much hurt and pain. in it the world needs more happy endings, and knights in shining armor. With callum's tender, kind, faithful, loving nature, and ben's passion, energy, and blatant sexuality, when they finally do let it go...HOLY HELL, it will be great.

    • @fabienl.1223
      @fabienl.1223 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kjohns5139 if it is not indiscreet, what have you written ? Is it gay love stories ? Or other type of story ?

    • @artl1832
      @artl1832 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤

  • @katieoconnor2884
    @katieoconnor2884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ben playing the cute uncle with peggy

  • @GinaSigillito
    @GinaSigillito 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ben is so gorgeous but that shirt! Shades of Alfie Moon. 😉

  • @veroniquel.6432
    @veroniquel.6432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Ben is looking for random guys, the emmerdale producers consulted each other as soon as we left. Well👍😕

    • @just-in6848
      @just-in6848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    • @comedycommenter5714
      @comedycommenter5714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please don't associate Eastenders with that village crockshit thx

  • @GinaSigillito
    @GinaSigillito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Also once again overblown spoilers. Phil was supposed to be shocked when he found out about Ben and Callum. He looks like he couldn't care less.

  • @juankabaker
    @juankabaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Ben playing good uncle. God this guy looks hot even carrying a baby

  • @boldflex1737
    @boldflex1737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I want Callum to show up on Monday with a boyfriend just to see Ben’s reaction, he’ll freak out of his mind!

    • @nikko__5850
      @nikko__5850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don’t think Callum will move on that quickly? Do you?

    • @nikko__5850
      @nikko__5850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @ juliaoliv
      I’m hoping Callum see’s right through his tough facade.

    • @boldflex1737
      @boldflex1737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Emily Allen Have you seen a jealous Ben? I haven’t, yet, but with his rap sheet I assure you it would not be a pretty sight if anyone comes between Callum and Ben he better run for cover fast!!

    • @nikko__5850
      @nikko__5850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @juliaoliv
      I can’t wait to see a jealous Ben. I just want him to show his true feelings for Callum.

  • @HorrorGirlNat
    @HorrorGirlNat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This is why Phil Mitchell will always win worst dad of the year.

  • @stephenmartin8421
    @stephenmartin8421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BEN: look mate I'm not really here for a knitting season

  • @beccacostelloe04
    @beccacostelloe04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ben holding Peggy was cute

    • @beccacostelloe04
      @beccacostelloe04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@juliaoliveira-rebic1850 I just thought it was cute and made him look soft, just awwwww

  • @traciehay3310
    @traciehay3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My eye's r hurting Ben's shirt n that coat! Together! NO!! LOL

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ben will never get over callum, they have something special, adults can be so cowardly, stop in denial, Ben! Everything will not be fine even if Louise doesn’t crack, this is the price you are paying the consequences, trying to hook up with someone else is just not gonna work, you better pray callum understood everything and still want to be with you! Look at you, miserable Ben!
    It won’t work!!!!!!

  • @marvinerikone514
    @marvinerikone514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Waiting for Ben and Callum reunion together they were better than how is now Ben feeling so sad!

  • @reecekyle6332
    @reecekyle6332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    poor wam bam sam

  • @PeterShieldsukcatstripey
    @PeterShieldsukcatstripey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ben is very soft hearted

  • @TheBearAspirin
    @TheBearAspirin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I want Callum to show up with his new boyfriend Aaron Dingle 😆

    • @comedycommenter5714
      @comedycommenter5714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please please don't associate Eastenders with that village crockshit thank you

    • @raypearson3513
      @raypearson3513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That shit would be amazing! Callum looks like he'd top, I obviously think Aaron would bottom! Just....invite me to join in (or at least referee)!

  • @DOCvip808
    @DOCvip808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    1-Thank you Kathy for talking some sense into Phil! He NOW sees what it's doing to Ben! And he knows shes right! #ballum
    2-it didnt look like Ben was on any dating app like Grindr...it looked like he was contemplating whether to text callum or not...that's my guess
    3- f*ck Martin lol

    • @kylie9687
      @kylie9687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Vi Potal I prefer Martin. Fuck Martin for what? Not killing someone? For helping them instead

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kylie9687 I could be wrong but I think that comment had to do with Martin interrupting Ben's call to Callum. If that was indeed what he was going to do.

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ballum fans are so passionate. I love it!😍

    • @UniMagik
      @UniMagik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Phil couldn't care less though. He's a narcissist and sociopath who is totally willing to drag everyone down, consequences be damned.

    • @DOCvip808
      @DOCvip808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@UniMagik but he has to see that Ben's hurting and it's because of him. And kathy putting it into the air helps

  • @suze7751
    @suze7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wham bam thank you Sam

  • @maryrose8478
    @maryrose8478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    And Ben gets another duff duff. I read that he had the most duff duffs in 2019.

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sorry. American here. What's a duff duff?

    • @maryrose8478
      @maryrose8478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Theresa Bruebaker Hello! I’m so glad this show is reaching so many people. It’s one of my fave things about the internet. “Duff Duffs' (sometimes: Doof Doofs') are the drum beats that are used to signify a cliffhanger at the end of an episode, commonly known as a "Duff Duff moment", for which the camera focuses on the face of the actor receiving the "Duff Duff moment" for around four seconds.”

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@maryrose8478 I'd never heard that before. Thanks for the explanation!😊

    • @maryrose8478
      @maryrose8478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Theresa Bruebaker You’re welcome 😊

  • @maryrose8478
    @maryrose8478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like Bens shirt.

  • @benedictmiller847
    @benedictmiller847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So after months of will they-won't they, they finally give us Ben and Callum as a proper couple only to separate them within weeks! They couldn't even give us their first Christmas together before starting all the separation drama!

  • @jackieunger6357
    @jackieunger6357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Are we done with this yet? Where is Callum? Lol

  • @maryrose8478
    @maryrose8478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Phil is so selfish.

  • @dreams..forlove1402
    @dreams..forlove1402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Pls..come back yours relationship... mens you must stay together.love is love.

  • @karllieck9064
    @karllieck9064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God, can't anyone be happy on this fucking show. Out of here.

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok, so the actress playing Louise is leaving soon too, please don’t do anything bad to her please that’s ridiculous!!

  • @ferrisburgh802
    @ferrisburgh802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My question is where do they find the horrible clothes the women wear and the shirt Ben is sporting is really, really awful..He dressed better when Callum was around..

    • @joyousbloom731
      @joyousbloom731 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Topped with that coat too

    • @mechellemybell1000
      @mechellemybell1000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      James Walker I don’t mind the shirt. But with that coat? Lolololol no

    • @desireealexam
      @desireealexam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that’s because Callum is the sexy fashionista and took care of his man! 🤗

    • @lauracostelloe4068
      @lauracostelloe4068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I liked the shirt on Ben it was sexy on him in my opinion

  • @melisamustafa1711
    @melisamustafa1711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I bet he is gonna come back next week

  • @laylakenall6566
    @laylakenall6566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wonder what Ben was doing on his phone 🥺

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My bet he was looking at Callum 's number...Martin couldn't have worse timing.

    • @shirleycipres2451
      @shirleycipres2451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yes i think he miss callum so much

    • @theresabruebaker1030
      @theresabruebaker1030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shirleycipres2451 I agree❤

    • @laylakenall6566
      @laylakenall6566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Theresa Bruebaker yhh

    • @yan-bc5sb
      @yan-bc5sb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      gay dating apps, mate

  • @juankabaker
    @juankabaker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ben had a quicky or what? that was fast

  • @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14
    @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I REALLY want to get into this show 😩. I don’t think I’ll be able too. It seems like there will be no happy ending between Ballum at all and that sucks. No gay couple last in soaps and I don’t understand why that is.

    • @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14
      @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Júlia Oliveira-Rebić : Im a previous #RobRon Fan, so familiar with emmerdale, the others, not at all unfortunately. I just don’t get it because it’s like, at least with EastEnders and Emmerdale (only speaking on these because I’ve at least seen episodes) there’s already SOO much damn drama in the show already, why can’t you just let the couple be happy, you know. It’s like why do you need there to be drama in every facet of these peoples lives. That’s what’s the most just unreal and frustrating part. It’s too much, at least in my view. I just don’t like the constant break up to make up just to break up to make up again thing.

    • @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14
      @d3vilw3arsbalenciaga_14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Júlia Oliveira-Rebić : I mean, how sure of a fact is that? They definitely do seem really good for each other though, and I do hope you’re right in what you’re saying. His dad is so exactly how you described him. Hahah that was so perfect. That’s what’s scary though. He can’t tell him no. So, what’s going to happen. Pretty sure they can still go to prison right? Unless that doesn’t happen at all in this show. Hahah

  • @ninahurd2592
    @ninahurd2592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ben and c a l l u m please let me have a happy ending you always do this you get a couple going together and be happy then you break them up this is a beautiful gay couple love to have a happy ending they deserve they love each other very deeply I'd like to see they leave the s q u a r e let him say goodbye to his father start a life for himself he got a husband that loves him very much that's more important please please let me have a happy ending I'm so tired of these couple you break them up they don't have a happy ending at the end I know this couple will have a happy ending

  • @JordanjamesX
    @JordanjamesX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I disagree with most people here Ben is an adult and he needs to grow up. Callum stood up to his homophobic father. People making excuses for Ben he is in his 20s now. When is Ben ever responsible for his behaviour? Ben was cruel to Callum. I certainly hope Callum is not a doormat when he comes back on screen on Monday.

    • @GinaSigillito
      @GinaSigillito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      JordanjamesX he broke up with him to protect him. And anyone who has ever had a father like Phil will understand that it's not so easy to walk away. Ben will have to make his own decision yes, but Phil is an awful parent who has all but destroyed his children.

  • @geoforamorio
    @geoforamorio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This thing where men can't accept they are in pain because they broke up with someone they love is the reason I wish I was an asexual. Of course, saying that you don't care and then trying to spoil this man's date is remarkably stupid! ;-)

  • @claudiacooper2452
    @claudiacooper2452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is worse video watch online with the hoover on again with phil had his laptop on still what a weirdo he can be from tomorrow

  • @xadam2dudex
    @xadam2dudex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That looks like a college dorm room sized refrig...

  • @mohshamais9497
    @mohshamais9497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why ben leaves callum
    Any one know

    • @wadegreene7743
      @wadegreene7743 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ben doesn't want Callum to get hurt and involved in Mitchel business....so Ben decides to let him go by saying " i dont love you".....