The fact this man thinks women on onlyfans are a result of seeking a form of male validation is delulu. You know they are seeking? Money. Period. A majority of models are married or in a commited relationship yet this man is so insecure he has made their financial success about men. If there was no market, women would not post. That is the truth, if the market disappears and they still posted maybe they would be seeking validation.😂😂😂
OF is about money. Women have always been able to make money by taking their clothes off, because there are plenty of sick men willing to pay for it. OF has simply allowed some of them to become crazy rich. And that provides the carrot to entice more women to try. It's about money, and the lessening of morals, and public shame.
@@userunknown1030you don't need money. There are people living off the grid, in the mountains, living off the land. Only those who have nothing to offer are slaves to money. A farmer and mechanic get married. They can live with just two of them. This man in the video makes the feminist assumption that men are at fault. The fault is women themselves exhanging love to dollar because their single mothers were the same. Lack of fathers creates lack of discipline and weak men give in too easy to women's demands. USA changed legal meaning of murder to involve word "unlawful" only because there was no way to remove word abortion from murder. But legal meaning is not definition and definition of murder is pre-meditated killing of human being by another human being. "Parasites. It's not human. It's not baby" Feminism doing nothing else than dehumanising humans and trying to kill them off.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@@IvanDaniel28 What do you get out of and what do you lose when you put your body-and metaphorically all of what you are intimately-out into the ether of the recorded internet? Choices have consequences, and if you dont act as though they do, then the consequences get greater and greater. So make positive choices.
@thetreelander7378 Yes, I am. It took a lot of inner work and being honest with myself. When you stop blaming everything outside yourself, you can see it all in yourself, that is when healing comes.
I'm glad you're doing better now and in a healthy mindset! You are from Detroit, I'm south of you in Monroe but do side work at Elizabeth park in Trenton at Chateau on the River as asst chef. I see alot of this validation attention seeking toxic behavior on the regular.
@RyanElkaakati Yes, Chef! I know. I became a server in NYC after I got out of the business, not much different. It can be hard to swim in toxic waters when you become aware of the stench, but sometimes it must be done. It's all insight
@@ninjajack5568 I didn't say anything like that. I was saying he made his point eloquently, without being insulting. I don't know where you got that in was saying people shouldn't ever use strong words. You'll also notice, the person who's yelling, screaming and being insulting is never the one who's right in the debate.
Have never heard anyone break it down that correctly and compassionatly. It was like he put together the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle that i already had in my mind.
Hes right, about all of it, but thats why I oppose onlyfans... The empowerment is based on looks abd money. When these are gone, they have nothing. Its like giving a starving man a fish.. you fed him, but hell get hungry until noone gives him a fish, but teach him to fish, and hell provide for himself. Only fans develops a reliance on looks, the way handouts develop a reliance on the hand that feeds. The correct solution is to teach them self reliance and self worth from the beginning. Their parents failed. But remember that a being that is taken care of, that does nothing, is a "pet". Whether that being is a cat, dog, or even human. Gotta teach our sons and daughters better so they dont add to the number of pets our government takes care of, because like a crazy cat lady, our government is drowning in pets to the point its not healthy.
@Jay-eu5zq By the comment implying they can't make their own choices by removing all fault from them as though they don't know any better, is treating them like babies as far as I'm concerned.
@evos469 You think they're allowed to say the truth? Thats part of the problem. They can't say or they'll be shunned as weak, and feminists only allow for dominant women.
The only problem with this as he thinks there’s so many that disagree. Way more agree, the people that disagree are just louder. Keep spreading the truth my brother. God bless
I nearly had a conversation about this at work today but had to stop myself. I feel horrible for these women because as unbearable as their attitudes can be, they are so hurt and so desperate for love. They want to feel like they're worth something, valued and appreciated. But onlyfans is the worst way to go about it. It's a trap but if you openly say that you're going to be met with shock by men and women alike. I don't know why.
@@HarlemWorld45I think you're onto something. And after WW2 the American government allowed actual Nazis into our country/government. Supposedly they were "only scientists" but I believe the Nazi propagandists were let into our intelligence agencies or at the very least our intelligence agencies used the information gained from the Nazi propagandists. The amount of times the CIA has been caught experimenting on the American people and admitted it(released documents stating as such) is astounding. Btw, it's supposed to be illegal for the CIA to operate on American soil but that hasn't seemed to stop them.
It's the hurt girl- you're not completely understanding. It's not social media albeit social media is worthless, but he is speaking to the psychology of only fans women( with or without social media)
@@HarlemWorld45Feminism started well before the CIA, and social media started as MySpace, which was not nearly as toxic, and you didn't get banned from it for every little thing.
Yup there was a deeply emotional understanding of the Why and a clinical breakdown of how itll go wrong and the harsh truth of the results after everything.
as soon as she starts looking older, like, no longer under 30 basically, she'll start to notice the change in attention. Much less flirting at work. No flirting in public at all for months at a time etc etc.
Who’s truth and broken down further he’s saying any woman who uses sex to make money has been broken by men who created and exploit this for their own benefit; meaning he’s contributing to the issue by telling YOU ‘they already don’t care about themselves so why should you’. Are all male strippers broken sexual objects or do they seem to love the attention and money they make… Like, do straight men actually like women or do they just like warm holes (which would explain way more if they just admitted THAT) 😂😂😂
He spoke a Goldmine worth of fools gold what he just spout it was nothing but circular logic or is that like to call it pseudo logic, feminist, chronic female, victim, hood, bullshit, where she is always the victim and not responsible for her own behavior, women cannot achieve equality, or any sort of self dignity, unless they are held accountable and responsible for all of their actions and behavior.
He is SO right. As a woman, I had to do a lot of work and therapy to get to the point I am currently. And magically, with all my toxic past relationships, the moment I started respecting myself, my husband showed up. The best human being I have gotten to know. I couldn't believe that I was blessed with such a partner in life...sometimes I still find it incredible to this day when I look at him....but it took a lot of healing on my end and a lot of acceptance on his because he knows ALL about my past and it's not pretty and all he said was "the only thing I care about is what you do from now on...." And he spoke the truth because never once has he brought my past up against me....
God sent me a man like that too. I learned to respect myself and he showed up at that moment. We've been together 28 years this April. I've been truely blessed. It's when I straighten out my spiritual life and my behavior, I straighten out mentally and physically too. This man is telling the truth. When you know better, you do better ❣️
@@joyeverlasting6124 I am. But I believe that it's not a matter of luck. The universe observes and provides accordingly imo. I wish you an equally great outcome when you're ready. It's worth it. 😊
@@jackijacques3631 This is wonderful for you. Spiritually we may not have the exact same beliefs but what matters is that we are both happy. I'm glad to know that you have been happy with your husband for 28 years...we couldn't possibly have. We're in our early and mid 30s. But I am looking forward to the rest of our years together 😊
I had to look and read that TWICE to see if I WROTE THAT because you quite eloquently took the words right out of my heart and soul. It took me a decade of therapy and I mean INTENSE therapy with a Psychiatrist (NO regression therapy and NO drugs are his Mantra) to be where I am today. There was one appointment that I have continued to share with any and every person that may gain from his wisdom and I shall do so here for those that may gain from his words as I have. I saw him on a day that I was in a particularly GOOD MOOD and felt on top of the world. I walked in and said “Doc, I think I have figured it out. It is about FORGIVENESS. The only way for me to move forward is to Forgive and Forget. I really think all of this work has really helped and I do see a light at the end of the tunnel.”. Well………you could have heard a pin drop. He looked at me and said “T, have a seat…..clearly we have a lot further to go and in you saying that, I have either failed you OR someone has gotten into your head with a load of CRAP and I would like the opportunity to use my tools, including a large shovel to dig that load of crap out of your mind. Hear me out.” As he could see I was a bit gobsmacked and sitting there 😳with a look of WTH???!!! So I just listened which was NOT normal as he would talk and ask questions and I would answer and then he would challenge my thinking etc etc and from there we would sometimes debate or I would learn skills etc…..anyone who has had intensive therapy understands how it works and NO, it not always your MOMS FAULT. Sheesh….some poor mothers who had no idea what was coming…I digress. He then said “Insofar as ‘FORGIVE AND FORGET’ goes, I really NEED you to remember something I am going to tell you because if I allow you to leave and dance out of here on your merry way to just go and live your life based on THAT thinking I would be doing YOU a huge disservice and I would have to think very hard where I went wrong in my 43 years as a Psychiatrist. So, I will choose the former……..here is what I REALLY NEED you to memorize for your daily living but understand that what I am about to say is NOT said with any hate or malicious tone. It is just FACT. Here goes……: You remember that period in time, before you were born obviously but we all learned about it in school, called the Holocaust? (I nodded, as I am Jewish and my Great Grandmother was a Survivor so this was hitting home but he did not know I am Jewish) Well, after all was said and done as much as any atrocity of that ilk can be, The Jews approached the World with what I would call a ‘Mandate’ and from what I understand it is 100’s of pages long but all I need YOU to remember in order to make it through life empowered and never become a victim again because if you do not, the next one you find or finds you, WILL most likely KILL you. I truly need you to commit this to memory and utilize every day in any situation as it is powerful. While that Mandate is huge and I have not read it all, what I have read and committed to memory myself is what I feel is the most important tool you can have…..here goes. 1. We will NOT forgive. 2. We will NOT forget. 3. To do EITHER would be to allow it to happen AGAIN. Now, I am not saying that you have to carry all the ‘wrongs’ that have been done to you in your life, like a big ball of slime hanging around your neck by not forgiving or forgetting. I am saying that if you take that light hearted attitude and do not get me wrong, it is a lovely thought although misguided….and do that with everything that we have talked about and all the horrific things that have been done to you, you really would be allowing it to happen again. I will reiterate, do NOT take this and think that means you carry all of that garbage and by NOT FORGETTING OR FORGIVING, you allow it to drag you down…no no no…..not at all. I am saying just use it as a daily practice in the mind of a child as an example…..if a child burns their hand in the flame on a stove and you tell them to just forget about it ….. and they do, literally. Well then are you not setting them up to get BURNED AGAIN? Ok. So there…no forgetting. But that child is not FOREVER going to be AFRAID of the stove and not become the worlds greatest Chef because of not forgiving themselves for being so ‘silly’ as I do not want to use the word dumb or stupid. SO…..DOES 1. We will NOT forgive. 2. We will NOT forget. 3. To do EITHER would be to allow it to happen AGAIN. MAKE MORE SENSE TO YOU NOW????”. And I sat there and I could FELL the tears just streaming down my face. Silently. VERY silently. Those words hit me directly in my heart, my brain and my soul. DEEP. So DEEEEEPPP that I can not explain it. IT MADE SO MUCH SENSE TO ME that I wanted to scream “I GET IT! I GET IT! I GET IT!” Because I DID. From that point forward I am not ‘angry’ or ‘hurt’ and I certainly do NOT carry a grudge like a big slime necklace around my neck reminding me “some people have done you WRONG WOMAN!” No no no……I AM LIVING. I AM LIVING HAPPILY AND I AM FREE. I truly “got it”. I do not have to feel yucky about not forgiving or forgetting because if I did, then it WOULD happen again but what I AM doing is living my best life with that info and, for example, if I find a hair in my food, I am not going back to that restaurant but I am not going to be turned off of ohhhh say Burgers….for the rest of my life. I just wont go THERE for burgers again. It sounds trite but it is anything but that and I have used it many many times throughout my life since that day and I am MUCH stronger for it. I hope it helped someone the way it did me. I do know that many of the people I have shared that with directly have been incredibly moved by it and it certainly helped them in their daily lives, no matter what they do for a career. G-d Bless you and I am so happy that you too have found your Soul Mate and are living happy and living in the NOW and planning for tomorrow to be even better. THAT is the reward for living your truth. I did the same. I am living the same. It is a beautiful feeling to look at that man and think those thoughts every single day. UNCONDITIONALLY. ❤❤❤❤
@@justinjackson717980% of women file for divorce plus single moms no women and bad men created this. That’s why regular guys are opting out. Similar to politics where we say trump is a reaction to all the corruption the whole red pill stuff is a reaction to bad women and divorce it’s the same. Trump 2024 and make women great again!!
Wow! He broke it down Barney Style. And many Men won't be in a relationship with a woman who seeks validation from other people outside their relationship.✌️
@@annepowers4734Here you go with the deflection. So let’s play that game Anne, who created those beta males? You ladies did by having babies with losers.
Thank you, Ann. They blame the women, but not the perverted men who go to the site. I would not want a relationship with a man who goes to sites like that.
@halffulltome no, imho you're taking the words too literally...it's not permission but position i.e. if I casually date someone and they cheat on me, I dodged a bullet if I'm in love with someone and they cheat on me, that will hurt
Nah. He's making it complicated. They like the money and the power and material and social comfort that comes with it - that's it. However, liberal bringing up, lack of fatter figure and overly liberal value system of US society (and other Western societies) certainly do provide the perfect conditions to develop moral restraints-inhibition and make them feel free to go the easy way - without any worries of the consequences. The plague of secular societies. Finding the best social politics is tricky.
@@jaideepshekhar4621No he did not. He said they were seeking validation because they never had that growing up. Yet feminism told them they are empowering their sexuality. Thus they tied their relevancy to how much is their currency on OnlyFans; which only leaves them empty once they no longer are making that same currency. That basically sums up what he is saying. When they did a study on strippers and prostitutes this was exactly what the same studies showed.
Sadly the only thing democrats support is forcing people to never be exposed to non liberal evil tyranny ideologies. Theyve forced their own people to a level of delusions and insanity to the point it makes adolf look lukewarm. Theyre committing violations of human rights in the name of liberal love and tolerance. All they tolerate is pure antihuman evil
Agreed. It's the same for men who are stuck in this virtual reality (toxic dating apps, OF, porn) and are too broken to go back to date irl. Because again, what you can't touch, you can't hurt.
Gonna have to disagree. Men can get porn for free now. The thought of a man using OF as therapy just means he doesn't know how to word his search que. 😂
yes but those guys are the third of men who can't get a date/woman because these 304's think they are above them. not that that makes it ok. to the guys doing this you got to stop paying these women. please stop paying women you have no respect for. force them back to the dating table.
Then tell me what that makes me. I didnt get along with either of my parents, and I was out of the house at 15, yet I am successful and happy. It just sounds like you people are just pointing fingers without understanding human behavior.
@@ljwho9921 You could be right. Maybe I'm just tired of the extremists on both the Left and the Right telling everyone how to live their life. Maybe people should just concentrate on their own lives, that would improve the quality of life by itself.
From an older woman, he hit that nail on the head. I am so glad none of this existed when I was in my 20’s. I would have ruined my life 10x over. U can’t take that stuff back. It’s out there forever. It’s sad, really.
i mean who cares what the fuck does it matter if your nudes are out there the human naked body isn't a thing of shame if it was god wouldn't have had adam and eve running around in the nude. so yeah sorry can't say seeing nudes as a down side lol. at least some people get paid for their nudes.
@@Brentaaron300The only 3 things women have historically needed from men is: 1. Financial stability 2. Protection from other men 3. Baby making And modern society has taken care of 2 of those things. Men are just still living in a 1920s mindset.🙃
As a female who can relate to this man's words, I greatly appreciate his insights, he is right and there should be more men like him but I also think he could have experienced something or maybe a female in his family, nonetheless, thank you.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
Cashing in on your looks isn't the same as filming your most intimate moments with 100s of people, going very far when it comes to sax, having it live online forever.... Don't you have enough brain power to realise something so basic?
@@IvanDaniel28niche? Lol spreading your legs for men to pleasure themselves is not a talent or niche! It's the lazy/sleezy way to earn a buck. It also gives these girls temporary happiness.....beauty doesn't last forever neither does the body and there will always be someone younger and more willing than you. Something any Tom, Dick or Harry can do is not a niche. ,🤦
@ivandaniel2596 Not more so of a niche its the false sense that feminism and hookup culture has done anything actually good for women when in reality its indoctrinated women to hate men and tell them its OK to sleep around more in the sense its somehow female empowerment you quite literally answered your own question here, " they look negatively on someone who cashes in on their looks " Pretty simple tbh why would any man want the cow when others have been getting it for free? To each their own but I wouldn't want to date a 304 when she made an 0f right when she turned 18
His argument doesn't make any sense. His assumption is that women do OF because they are seeking something. He is wrong about what they are seeking cause it's very obvious *M O N E Y* 💰💵💸🪙💴💷💶💰 Not everything is about you man.😂 Stats show over 50% of models are in a commited relationship and that when spending on content goes up, more women participate. The amount of women posting for free is very few. So if it was validation she was seeking she would post no matter what she is making. Even insta models post for exposure and brand affiliation.
@@ljeans531 They could make money in a different way much easier- most OF girls don’t make bank, there’s a glut in the market. They could get a real job but they overestimate their worth in the online world. And his comments are true for women and men who aren’t doing OF necessarily, they post provocative photos and videos just for the online validation instead of focusing on the work required to have healthy relationships.
This is all the result of the feminist movement. Every point he made is valid. Unfortunately, I see a lot of arrogance in the only fans women I have seen.
the arrogance is our front. since it’s so scarily obvious that men have the physical advantage (we’re physically vulnerable), we try to feel mentally superior with fronts of arrogance and moral high ground bs. God designed men and women to need each other. the war has to end
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@ivandaniel2596 But what's behind wanting to cash in on your looks? If you peel back any layer, you'll find people seeking love and validation but are bound by fear.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
1. It wasn’t “fAcTS”, 2. Feminists would agree with what this simp is saying because he blamed men for the actions of sovereign, autonomous women. Feminists LOVE male P-Panderers and LOVE dodging accountability.
My great granny calls it Neo Feminism She marched in the early 1900’s for women’s rights…. She said their ideals back then were “women should have the right to support themselves IF they want” considering my great grandfather had been drafted and the primary source of income in their household died as soon as he died in the war… She had to find a way to support her children and back then women weren’t really allowed to work especially in the south…. She refused to remarry so she had to take on the household income and raise eight kids on her own…. Feminism initially began so women could have the right to vote, work, and live independently…. These Neo feminists we have nowadays just want attention…. And they argue that ANYONE can be a woman m…. They support trans gendered women before they support women who are born women…. They argue that being a feminist means they can say and do what they want without having to deal with the consequences related to their actions…. Alot of them don’t even know what they’re fighting for, just arguing for the sake of being heard because they felt silenced for too long…. These women aren’t feminists, they’re what’s wrong with feminism today
That was bars. And it’s money. Their value for money is higher than their value for themselves. That’s something a lot of us can relate to, we just don’t have the product.
It’s true. What is sad is how much men hate these women yet still continue to pay for them, watch porn, use sex workers etc. it’s almost as if they hate them because they want them 🤔
Unfortunately, I don't think it will change by will, but by force of natural order. We have to wait and watch the toilet of modern day society finish flushing itself.
The problem with this is, the OF women aren't thinking about the future. They are thinking about what benefits them now and that is a very immature way of living. Not to mention, these women aren't stupid, they are fully aware that they are making men's mental health worse and taking advantage of men's loneliness for a quick buck. I honestly cannot pick which side is worse because it seems all these people need therapists.
@@thewolfcatbeast3567 yeah, you definitely don't understand how stupid most people are and how terrifying it is for stupid people to vote. That is the so called 'weight' of voting. Why give irresponsible people any form of power?
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
He is allowed there... Why are people so unintelligent nowadays? It gets old that people willingly stay ignorant their entire life. Stop letting emotions rule your thinking. Please.
We all do things for a reason. We are all a product of our experiences. However just because someone hurt you doesn't mean you have to stay in that place. That's where the responsibility lies.
Don't bother asking, It always has to be a mans fault, thats just how society operates. His explanation makes no sense given the fact that a lot of these girls aren't even fatherless. And even if they were, I still don't get why they shouldn't take full accountability for their actions without a sob story, we never look for some emotional backstory when it comes to male depravity.
@@CrusaderZealot facts. They learn healthier ways to cope. They might be suffering with deep scars and even struggle with relationships, but they haven't turned to this level self destruction and pretend it's liberation.
He’s not taking away their responsibility. He’s simply saying there’s a reason why they think the way they do! What’s their choice is that they choose not to get the help they need but instead further hurt themselves. And btw it’s not just women either! We hear it all the time whenever men/boys act stupid & or go to prison! Oh he grew up without a father in the home! Messed up people create messed up people.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
Some were hurt by poor fathers, who had poor fathers, who had poor fathers, who had no father. It's a vicious cycle. Just because you had a father, doesn't mean he was a good one and knew how to teach things to his children in a way where they felt he cared about them.
@@alegnaboulenthalNO, not one and the same. Birth control changes the kind of man a woman pursues when she’s on/off it. So if she marries a man while on birth control, when she gets off, she falls out of love and divorces that man and destroys him along with the family they may have created. And that’s a likely scenario. After all statistically women are 75% more likely to initiate divorce and kick the man out to have the government forcibly rob him on her behalf. Child support check are written to the mother. Not a 3rd party to ensure the funds are properly managed for the children’s benefit and care. So no. Not the same. And statistically even if the man WAS bad, chances are he’d be arrested and jailed if not in prison. Barring that, if the man is able to stay in the family unit, the children are much better off for it.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks?? l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks. find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
Perfectly put! To add to that only fans is an easy way to make money, when you don't want to do much! Yes, there may be childhood / adult trauma, but then there's laziness as well.
Mmm that may be true for some, but I’ve seen some of those models talk about their work ethic and they “film” often enough that sleep and food are considerations they have to plan out. So. Not sure that’s quite accurate.
That's a false conception. OF makes a lot of money to those who already have a social media following. For the average "creator" it boils down to minimum wage.
I looked it up one time out of curiosity, and apparently ~80% of those OF "creators" make less than $130 USD a month on the site. I'm not sure of the context of what it takes to make that, but that sounds to me like you'd be giving a lot of yourself for next to nothing. 🤷♀️
Wow this dude is so respectful on how he addresses the only fan thing. He doesn’t shame them, he feel for them and understand why they are doing it and explain why. This is a good person with a big heart
The component he's not mentioning is the celebration and worship of women's sexuality as a sacrament to the cult. They are told that promiscuity is freedom despite it degrading your own with in the sexual marketplace down to worthlessness in the end. For giving an answer on the fly, this guy nailed it for the most part.
Its called sexual selection, a mode of natural selection. Go ahead and tell me you have a better reproductive strategy and that you are able to either supercede evolution or evolve out of evolving. Moms are the ones rushing to get their prepubescent daughters training bras and its mom that teaches their daughters how to apply makeup, which can make them look older than they are and fertile. Its dad that tells the daughters to put on more clothes for school or in when going in public and it's always mom who tells the dad hes being over bearing. Im sorry but its the females who choose to wake up 1-2 hours earlier than males because they desperately need to apply all that make and do their hair. i wonder why they invest the amount of time? Oh, thats because they know the more physically attractive they are, they more favorable attention they will receive.
Yeah is freedom from the "worth" on the "marryable" scale and your stupid old ideas of submissove woman, f**k that, that's the problem. Women do this dumb shit because you want a dumb obidient bi**h, but they prefer porn to be a dumb bi**h that has to take orders form a dumb poor ass that grants them a low standard of life. Imagine if i told you that you can't work and you have to marry a 5 to give her children or you have no value, i'll be like "bye" and then i would fuck trees if that saves me from submit to nothing
right. we're not addressing the problem: society turned female sexuality into power. Maybe their family made them feel worthless, but you taught them that their genitals could compensate.
Skillless and tasteless money...money does award power, status and authority, not to mention envy - nothing an everyday street worker getting 5 bucks a client can aspire too. Glamourising the sex trade, glamourises abuse I'm afraid and normalises the selling of people, reducing people to orifices and love to compliments. Nothing but nothing is as easy or as worthless as genitals - it's pernicious and as far from worth as you can get, sadly.
He nails at 100%. These are poor broken women who have been hurt, and are afraid of being hurt again, and so they surround themselves with this false reality of safety. And they base their entire life off their looks. By the time they turn 30 to 40, they wake up and realize just how much of their lives they just wasted. And then they'll end up being alone for the rest of their lives. It truly is a sad story.
@@forerunnerforjesus1291 I'm going to push back a little on this, people say things like that, you're not taking no account the fact that these women have free will. They're the ones that choose whether or not to have sex. They're the gatekeepers for sex. And every single one of those women on that panel are choosing that. Instead of choosing to save themselves, their virtue, and their respect for later. The fault does not lay on the man. Yes the man is going to be promiscuous, but that's only because women have made themselves so damn available.
What's worse is OF is kept going by men who have been rejected and hurt by women. And they get that relationship they can't find because they were "friend zoned" or ridiculed for only their looks, height, etc. And what you can't see, you can't reject. But then these men end up preferring that fantasy relationship to trying to form a real relationship
Honestly, I’m glad someone finally has this perspective. Some of these girls never had someone to sit down with them and tell them that they matter and help them. Fathers and horrible boyfriends and this economy is what does this to everyone, not even women, but men as well.
That was beautifully said. As someone who was once broken, I thank God social media/internet was not around when I was in my teens and early 20’s. It would have been my downfall. Now as a nearly 56 year old mother of 2 and grandmother of 5, I fear for my grandkids…especially my one and only granddaughter who is about to turn 11.
My daughter is 12. No social media at all. Happy, healthy, smart girl who knows that she will grow into a wonderful woman. The adults have to be in charge.
That was actually beautiful how he worded all that and it just came right off his tongue. Who is that guy? He's actually really intelligent and got right down to what the problem really is and he's right.
Yet you still blame men. See, in order to heal you have to be able to forgive yourself for YOUR choices. Understanding why you made them. If all you do is continually blame everyone else, you'll never be able to heal properly or fully
@@johnkuwik2477number 1, you’re assuming she’s still holding blame to that person. Number 2, she could have been completely innocent in the matter. Do you blame rape victims? Child abuse victims? Domestic abuse victims? Etc… get my point yet? Stop assuming and stop telling people how to heal.
I like this guys approach. He explains it in an understanding way rather than pointing fingers or villainizing anyone in particular. We really need more of this rather than deciding what’s good and what’s evil.
This is still separating what's good and what's evil. But yes, we certainly need to approach these issues with empathy > condemnation; the caveat being violence, of course. You meet violence differently.
It's all mental health related but that is a whole 'nother level of bonkers. Though that would help explain why that particular mental dysfunction is far more prevalent in Women than Men.
It also explains why so many girls enter into that mindset around puberty. It doesn’t require hurt necessarily just discomfort with how their bodies change and change the attention they receive. Before, some girls would become tomboys, to avoid being seen as a potential “mate” by guys they had been friends with since childhood, to avoid being seen for their bodies, because they were unable to deal with that attention at that age or didn’t have enough experience with how to address it. I was. Baggy clothes, no makeup, rarely dressed “girly”. I still do not like skin tight, restrictive clothing (I was a teacher so that is part of it as that is distracting and counter to my authority). As I grew older, I learned how to better handle unwanted attention kindly enough to not hurt friendships and also better understood the social cues around it and have less issue if someone says something.
Feminity is a curse. Some of the most despicable men on the planet pursue it. When i went from hyperfeminine to street wear, i got rid of some of the nastiest men i knew.
I didn't have a father growing up, but I'm not gonna post my pics online like that. There's no excuse for that behavior. If I can restrain myself, so can they. They'll use an excuse to validate anything
People interpret and react to situations differently. You didn’t feel that you had to act out in that way, or you were able to restrain yourself as you phrased it. Other people really can’t restrain themselves. They’re not aware enough of what they’re thinking, feeling, or why they’re doing what they’re doing. And sometimes, even if they are aware, they still have not yet learned healthier behaviors.
Just because you handled one thing a little better than the others, doesn't mean there isn't another hidden area in your life where you are not messing up like them or even worse... You're just better at hiding that info from internet.. hence don't brag.
@@RickyMikky Wrong. It’s called having basic human morals. It’s engrained in our DNA. I have all types of excuses I could use to do what those women do, but there is no excuse on earth that could justify what they do as moral or right. They only want easy money. They couldn’t care less about contributing to society in a positive way
Depends what you are actually asking. Cuz the man paying are also part of the same cancer we all are suffering from. But still the vision of the guy in the video I think is part of the problem. Cuz they take zero acounts for the problem they are profiting directly from. So in the end they allow cancer to spread regardless of the size of the problem in name of capital . @@shyvixx1
I've always thought of it as prostitution. I've never heard anyone trying to defend being on there say it's not but I also don't pay that much attention.
A man who wants to understand instead of bashing and shaming women. I appreciate men that can speak truth with compassion. Not having been taught the correct things in life makes life hard, and to believe shaming and bashing is a good tool to change the world is nonsense and making the world a harder place to live in because the lack of empathy.... with understanding comes conviction, repentance, and self-love, trying to make someone feel guilty is condemnation, control, manipulation, and self-doubt..... I'm glad to hear people admit to using this tactic. That's a start to this world healing. Now, question yourself, why do you use it .................mmmmmmmm "Control"
Of course the young firls on OF making all that money will say some ish like...."Here we go. Another mansplainer" and write him off there and then. But when 30 comes around..... I always say its hard to leave a party when you are having fun.
Could you provide an example of "bashing" that men do? Men get treated like work horses by businesses and then their wives, and are expected to provide. If they can't adequately perform their work, social, and family duties- they are thrown away. Yet, all a woman has to do is?.. Be safe and secure at home with soft hands and tending to children? It's all hard, relatively speaking, but one leaves you hopeless while the other need only?.. Women use to be rugged, strong, and dutiful. Now they only complain. All while the man's dynamic has never changed. You're letting your feelings guide you, maybe? If by bashed you mean men are fed up with women not getting a clue then sure, we're "bashing". Women have been the targets of corporate advertisements and political propaganda. Learn to see. Makeup, jewelry, feminism, etc.. you're all seemingly brainwashed by corporations that create problems only to provide a solution that makes them money (you don't look as good as the people in this magazine, but if you buy this product you can be pretty too). (He doesn't love you if he doesn't slave to buy YOU a meaningless diamond ring, bracelet, earrings, etc..) The government has eroded the nuclear family, so that we have become "enemies". Why? To preoccupy our time so that we miss their agenda. Women truly are easily manipulated through fear and anxiety inducing social pressures. We don't bash. We are simply tired of raising the whole family, when it is suppose to be a partnership. These days it is hard to find a woman that isn't too self-absorbed and self-centered. You try to talk and they immediately go on the defensive. Pretty pathetic from a man's view on life.. Free speech 😊
That was so true. It brings tears to my eyes. Amplify this message, daughters need to hear this and fathers need to be fathers. From. A father of daughters.
its hard wired in a man to reproduce , as it should be. The woman know this very very well and can exploit that drive in many many ways . To have that power and then convert it to cold hard cash , without having to work for it, other than being born a woman has great appeal .This also satisfies the woman's vanity and ego. What we are seeing now is the beginning of digital prostitutes
💯 agreed. But those watching are also lacking the same effort in self-respect. They whole channel wouldn't have been created and able to pay people if there was any self-respect all the way around.
Damn what a breakdown👏. You shouldn’t be seeking something so bad that you lose your individuality. I feel sad for people that choose to make a living and change this way and I hope they have someone to convince them to stop.
Completely true. You can't be that desperate for attention unless you are broken somewhere. People who constantly crave attention feel a need to be CONSTANTLY affirmed. Even if it's to get money then you're financially broken and you need to be taught how to manage your finances.
It's not about "blaming men", but an acknowledgement of a basic fact, an unhealthy relationship, or no relationship, with a father can have a negative impact on a person's life. This is the influence on these women's choices, but this should not be considered a dismissal of responsibility for those choices.
@@brianschuetz2614 it is exactly blaming men. This convo only comes up when it’s about women making bad choices and looking for someone else to blame. Compare how many times you’ve heard anyone talk about how not having a good mom made a guy choose a bad a woman. The dad just gets blamed again
@@datboi42 Look at the statistics, people from intact, loving homes, tend to have greater success and less incidents of criminal behavior. The absence of fathers in the home doesn't just affect females, it also affects males. Males from fatherless homes end up in prison at higher rates than those from intact homes. The presence and involvement of fathers in the home has been underappreciated, and it has negatively impacted society. That is not an excuse to make bad choices, but it is a statistical reality.
Blame it on what's on these screens. There are too many followers because the world as a whole is lost and misguided by the garbage that's allowed to be displayed and viewed on TV, movies, the internet and most of all the music. We are living in a world that was built on lies and deceit. At the end of the day each individual has the power to rise above whatever problems they face in a healthy constructive way.
Does an OF customer even care if they are hated by the OF prostitute? Of course not. They’ve already objectified the prostitute before they signed on. Men being visually stimulated is one thing. Men not having the self control to say no to porn (or adultery) is just downright pathetic.
I don't understand men who are attracted to females that can be bought for 6 bucks a month. As much as broken women are the cause broken men are the enabling force.
I actually agree with that. Social media + broken families is social cancer
Social cancer sums it up. Coin that term.
You are correct 1000 percent just like are brother in the video
Social media is a cancer and has probably cause more families to break apart than anything else in human history
Agreed
It's been the plan for 50 years! World wide socialism! 2 class sociaty! The ultimate rich, and everyone else! No rewards for extra effort!
"Thier identity becomes disposable to the dollar."
Damn that's one hell of a line.
but that is everyone period the dollar make the world go around or money i guess with out that you really can't do much.
The hard truth 😂😂
Live & learn 😊
The fact this man thinks women on onlyfans are a result of seeking a form of male validation is delulu.
You know they are seeking? Money. Period. A majority of models are married or in a commited relationship yet this man is so insecure he has made their financial success about men.
If there was no market, women would not post. That is the truth, if the market disappears and they still posted maybe they would be seeking validation.😂😂😂
OF is about money. Women have always been able to make money by taking their clothes off, because there are plenty of sick men willing to pay for it. OF has simply allowed some of them to become crazy rich. And that provides the carrot to entice more women to try.
It's about money, and the lessening of morals, and public shame.
@@userunknown1030you don't need money.
There are people living off the grid, in the mountains, living off the land.
Only those who have nothing to offer are slaves to money.
A farmer and mechanic get married.
They can live with just two of them.
This man in the video makes the feminist assumption that men are at fault.
The fault is women themselves exhanging love to dollar because their single mothers were the same.
Lack of fathers creates lack of discipline and weak men give in too easy to women's demands.
USA changed legal meaning of murder to involve word "unlawful" only because there was no way to remove word abortion from murder.
But legal meaning is not definition and definition of murder is pre-meditated killing of human being by another human being.
"Parasites. It's not human. It's not baby"
Feminism doing nothing else than dehumanising humans and trying to kill them off.
My dude articulated what a huge portion of society knows, but can’t adequately explain.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@@IvanDaniel28 What do you get out of and what do you lose when you put your body-and metaphorically all of what you are intimately-out into the ether of the recorded internet? Choices have consequences, and if you dont act as though they do, then the consequences get greater and greater. So make positive choices.
Nah. He blamed it on men just like feminists do
@ivandaniel2596 you lack conviction
🔨nailed it
As a former stripper. This man hit the nail on the head!!!! He put it all into words that I could never find. This is so accurate it burns.
I appreciate you being honest
i hope you are doing better in life now.
@thetreelander7378 Yes, I am. It took a lot of inner work and being honest with myself. When you stop blaming everything outside yourself, you can see it all in yourself, that is when healing comes.
I'm glad you're doing better now and in a healthy mindset! You are from Detroit, I'm south of you in Monroe but do side work at Elizabeth park in Trenton at Chateau on the River as asst chef. I see alot of this validation attention seeking toxic behavior on the regular.
@RyanElkaakati Yes, Chef! I know. I became a server in NYC after I got out of the business, not much different. It can be hard to swim in toxic waters when you become aware of the stench, but sometimes it must be done. It's all insight
He made a mic drop point without being insulting and stated it with compassion. That's brains and class right there. 💯🎯
Why do words hurt you?
@@ninjajack5568 what are you talking about?
@@jdefabs2112 "insulting words"?
@jdefabs2112 how about words you don't like..... still not your choice.... words are words..... sometimes it takes shock value to get through.
@@ninjajack5568 I didn't say anything like that. I was saying he made his point eloquently, without being insulting. I don't know where you got that in was saying people shouldn't ever use strong words. You'll also notice, the person who's yelling, screaming and being insulting is never the one who's right in the debate.
Have never heard anyone break it down that correctly and compassionatly. It was like he put together the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle that i already had in my mind.
I pray that you believe those words because they are a truth that can bring back color when a heart has been darkened. 🤝
Hes right, about all of it, but thats why I oppose onlyfans...
The empowerment is based on looks abd money. When these are gone, they have nothing.
Its like giving a starving man a fish.. you fed him, but hell get hungry until noone gives him a fish, but teach him to fish, and hell provide for himself.
Only fans develops a reliance on looks, the way handouts develop a reliance on the hand that feeds.
The correct solution is to teach them self reliance and self worth from the beginning. Their parents failed. But remember that a being that is taken care of, that does nothing, is a "pet". Whether that being is a cat, dog, or even human. Gotta teach our sons and daughters better so they dont add to the number of pets our government takes care of, because like a crazy cat lady, our government is drowning in pets to the point its not healthy.
That's called confirmation bias.
@@jasonhancox1622 ?
@@jasonhancox1622 or just confirmation? Every bias isnt automatically wrong dude, id even argue that people's biases are right more often than not.
"They're actually slaves to their physical form."
Feminists don't want Women to be "Defined" by their Sexuality- but they're okay with Women _PROFITING_ from that Sexuality...
They can choose not to. Don't infantilize them like they don't have free will.
@@carboncopy4183yeah no shit but they don’t. I think you missed the point
Men are slaves to their physical form.
@Jay-eu5zq By the comment implying they can't make their own choices by removing all fault from them as though they don't know any better, is treating them like babies as far as I'm concerned.
That boy broke it down to its very last compound!
Tool it to the molecular level
Bars
This is the most perfectly articulated argument against OF. Well done to this gentleman 👏🏼
From the theory of guys but we're not getting the truth from women
@evos469 You think they're allowed to say the truth? Thats part of the problem. They can't say or they'll be shunned as weak, and feminists only allow for dominant women.
No its an argument for shitty fathers
@Anyone-AGTR15the Js?
@Anyone-AGTR15 Oh, I get you now. I probably should've got it before 🤦😅
The only problem with this as he thinks there’s so many that disagree. Way more agree, the people that disagree are just louder. Keep spreading the truth my brother. God bless
The only people that would disagree are the women on only fans website
I nearly had a conversation about this at work today but had to stop myself. I feel horrible for these women because as unbearable as their attitudes can be, they are so hurt and so desperate for love. They want to feel like they're worth something, valued and appreciated. But onlyfans is the worst way to go about it. It's a trap but if you openly say that you're going to be met with shock by men and women alike. I don't know why.
Louder and artificially amplified by the people profitting off their pain and desperation. Evil af.
@@MrKago1 truth my brother
@@roxmattern60 and the weak men that pay them
I’ve said this from the beginning, social media is garbage and has been a plague on this world. It’s done way more harm than good.
Who you think created it C.I.A look at the word SoC.I.A.l. Just like they did with feminism spreading it across the globe
@@HarlemWorld45I think you're onto something. And after WW2 the American government allowed actual Nazis into our country/government. Supposedly they were "only scientists" but I believe the Nazi propagandists were let into our intelligence agencies or at the very least our intelligence agencies used the information gained from the Nazi propagandists. The amount of times the CIA has been caught experimenting on the American people and admitted it(released documents stating as such) is astounding. Btw, it's supposed to be illegal for the CIA to operate on American soil but that hasn't seemed to stop them.
It's the hurt girl- you're not completely understanding. It's not social media albeit social media is worthless, but he is speaking to the psychology of only fans women( with or without social media)
@@HarlemWorld45Feminism started well before the CIA, and social media started as MySpace, which was not nearly as toxic, and you didn't get banned from it for every little thing.
@@rnarzuOF is a form of social media....
Real talk.. He broke that down so eloquently
Yup there was a deeply emotional understanding of the Why and a clinical breakdown of how itll go wrong and the harsh truth of the results after everything.
“You’re worth something until you’re not.”
That’s pretty savage right there.
He's not wrong though
as soon as she starts looking older, like, no longer under 30 basically, she'll start to notice the change in attention. Much less flirting at work. No flirting in public at all for months at a time etc etc.
@@grapeape888 you're under the assumption that we all want that. Some of us don't actually want to have attention
@@knxcholx the exceptions are not the rule.
@@grapeape888 yeah..... it's not the rule for the exception. Don't lump us all into one box
The best part is he isnt even insulting. He is actually quite understanding of some of these women.
He actually is displaying compassion for them. Good on him.
There's a word for that: fem-splaining
@@bluebox7717 huh?
He's busy blaming men.
@@notgeorge8387 ?? he isnt blaming men at all?
Wow - that’s one to really
Listen to a couple times. He spoke a goldmine of truth there.
Who’s truth and broken down further he’s saying any woman who uses sex to make money has been broken by men who created and exploit this for their own benefit; meaning he’s contributing to the issue by telling YOU ‘they already don’t care about themselves so why should you’.
Are all male strippers broken sexual objects or do they seem to love the attention and money they make…
Like, do straight men actually like women or do they just like warm holes (which would explain way more if they just admitted THAT) 😂😂😂
I love the lady reacting to it in the background
He spoke a Goldmine worth of fools gold what he just spout it was nothing but circular logic or is that like to call it pseudo logic, feminist, chronic female, victim, hood, bullshit, where she is always the victim and not responsible for her own behavior, women cannot achieve equality, or any sort of self dignity, unless they are held accountable and responsible for all of their actions and behavior.
He is SO right. As a woman, I had to do a lot of work and therapy to get to the point I am currently. And magically, with all my toxic past relationships, the moment I started respecting myself, my husband showed up. The best human being I have gotten to know. I couldn't believe that I was blessed with such a partner in life...sometimes I still find it incredible to this day when I look at him....but it took a lot of healing on my end and a lot of acceptance on his because he knows ALL about my past and it's not pretty and all he said was "the only thing I care about is what you do from now on...." And he spoke the truth because never once has he brought my past up against me....
God bless him. Lucky you
God sent me a man like that too. I learned to respect myself and he showed up at that moment. We've been together 28 years this April. I've been truely blessed. It's when I straighten out my spiritual life and my behavior, I straighten out mentally and physically too. This man is telling the truth. When you know better, you do better ❣️
@@joyeverlasting6124 I am. But I believe that it's not a matter of luck. The universe observes and provides accordingly imo. I wish you an equally great outcome when you're ready. It's worth it. 😊
@@jackijacques3631 This is wonderful for you. Spiritually we may not have the exact same beliefs but what matters is that we are both happy. I'm glad to know that you have been happy with your husband for 28 years...we couldn't possibly have. We're in our early and mid 30s. But I am looking forward to the rest of our years together 😊
I had to look and read that TWICE to see if I WROTE THAT because you quite eloquently took the words right out of my heart and soul. It took me a decade of therapy and I mean INTENSE therapy with a Psychiatrist (NO regression therapy and NO drugs are his Mantra) to be where I am today.
There was one appointment that I have continued to share with any and every person that may gain from his wisdom and I shall do so here for those that may gain from his words as I have.
I saw him on a day that I was in a particularly GOOD MOOD and felt on top of the world. I walked in and said “Doc, I think I have figured it out. It is about FORGIVENESS. The only way for me to move forward is to Forgive and Forget. I really think all of this work has really helped and I do see a light at the end of the tunnel.”. Well………you could have heard a pin drop. He looked at me and said “T, have a seat…..clearly we have a lot further to go and in you saying that, I have either failed you OR someone has gotten into your head with a load of CRAP and I would like the opportunity to use my tools, including a large shovel to dig that load of crap out of your mind. Hear me out.” As he could see I was a bit gobsmacked and sitting there 😳with a look of WTH???!!! So I just listened which was NOT normal as he would talk and ask questions and I would answer and then he would challenge my thinking etc etc and from there we would sometimes debate or I would learn skills etc…..anyone who has had intensive therapy understands how it works and NO, it not always your MOMS FAULT. Sheesh….some poor mothers who had no idea what was coming…I digress.
He then said “Insofar as ‘FORGIVE AND FORGET’ goes, I really NEED you to remember something I am going to tell you because if I allow you to leave and dance out of here on your merry way to just go and live your life based on THAT thinking I would be doing YOU a huge disservice and I would have to think very hard where I went wrong in my 43 years as a Psychiatrist. So, I will choose the former……..here is what I REALLY NEED you to memorize for your daily living but understand that what I am about to say is NOT said with any hate or malicious tone. It is just FACT. Here goes……: You remember that period in time, before you were born obviously but we all learned about it in school, called the Holocaust? (I nodded, as I am Jewish and my Great Grandmother was a Survivor so this was hitting home but he did not know I am Jewish) Well, after all was said and done as much as any atrocity of that ilk can be, The Jews approached the World with what I would call a ‘Mandate’ and from what I understand it is 100’s of pages long but all I need YOU to remember in order to make it through life empowered and never become a victim again because if you do not, the next one you find or finds you, WILL most likely KILL you. I truly need you to commit this to memory and utilize every day in any situation as it is powerful. While that Mandate is huge and I have not read it all, what I have read and committed to memory myself is what I feel is the most important tool you can have…..here goes.
1. We will NOT forgive.
2. We will NOT forget.
3. To do EITHER would be to allow it to happen AGAIN.
Now, I am not saying that you have to carry all the ‘wrongs’ that have been done to you in your life, like a big ball of slime hanging around your neck by not forgiving or forgetting. I am saying that if you take that light hearted attitude and do not get me wrong, it is a lovely thought although misguided….and do that with everything that we have talked about and all the horrific things that have been done to you, you really would be allowing it to happen again. I will reiterate, do NOT take this and think that means you carry all of that garbage and by NOT FORGETTING OR FORGIVING, you allow it to drag you down…no no no…..not at all. I am saying just use it as a daily practice in the mind of a child as an example…..if a child burns their hand in the flame on a stove and you tell them to just forget about it ….. and they do, literally. Well then are you not setting them up to get BURNED AGAIN? Ok. So there…no forgetting. But that child is not FOREVER going to be AFRAID of the stove and not become the worlds greatest Chef because of not forgiving themselves for being so ‘silly’ as I do not want to use the word dumb or stupid. SO…..DOES
1. We will NOT forgive.
2. We will NOT forget.
3. To do EITHER would be to allow it to happen AGAIN.
MAKE MORE SENSE TO YOU NOW????”.
And I sat there and I could FELL the tears just streaming down my face. Silently. VERY silently.
Those words hit me directly in my heart, my brain and my soul. DEEP. So DEEEEEPPP that I can not explain it.
IT MADE SO MUCH SENSE TO ME that I wanted to scream “I GET IT! I GET IT! I GET IT!” Because I DID.
From that point forward I am not ‘angry’ or ‘hurt’ and I certainly do NOT carry a grudge like a big slime necklace around my neck reminding me “some people have done you WRONG WOMAN!” No no no……I AM LIVING. I AM LIVING HAPPILY AND I AM FREE. I truly “got it”. I do not have to feel yucky about not forgiving or forgetting because if I did, then it WOULD happen again but what I AM doing is living my best life with that info and, for example, if I find a hair in my food, I am not going back to that restaurant but I am not going to be turned off of ohhhh say Burgers….for the rest of my life. I just wont go THERE for burgers again.
It sounds trite but it is anything but that and I have used it many many times throughout my life since that day and I am MUCH stronger for it. I hope it helped someone the way it did me. I do know that many of the people I have shared that with directly have been incredibly moved by it and it certainly helped them in their daily lives, no matter what they do for a career.
G-d Bless you and I am so happy that you too have found your Soul Mate and are living happy and living in the NOW and planning for tomorrow to be even better. THAT is the reward for living your truth. I did the same. I am living the same. It is a beautiful feeling to look at that man and think those thoughts every single day. UNCONDITIONALLY. ❤❤❤❤
Most common denominator, lack of fathers in the home.
So men created this
@@justinjackson7179 men created the sex industry for men, sex has been sold since man walked the earth. I don't blame anyone, it's the way it is.
@@justinjackson7179in a way you’re right lol
Or bad fathers/ parents!
@@justinjackson717980% of women file for divorce plus single moms no women and bad men created this. That’s why regular guys are opting out. Similar to politics where we say trump is a reaction to all the corruption the whole red pill stuff is a reaction to bad women and divorce it’s the same. Trump 2024 and make women great again!!
Wow! He broke it down Barney Style.
And many Men won't be in a relationship with a woman who seeks validation from other people outside their relationship.✌️
But these men going to these sites are absolutely innocent right,???? Mcp
@@annepowers4734they can't go to the site if there's no women on it 🤔
@@annepowers4734uhhh. Men are stupid. If it’s there, we look. We’re simple creatures
@@annepowers4734Here you go with the deflection. So let’s play that game Anne, who created those beta males? You ladies did by having babies with losers.
Thank you, Ann. They blame the women, but not the perverted men who go to the site. I would not want a relationship with a man who goes to sites like that.
SPOT ON!!!
Never heard someone lay it all out there like that!
Spoke more facts in 60 seconds then any poll has period
Facts are lies to biden voters
Ya, damn this guy knew how to say right
Damn. That man just broke it down like he wrote the code for it.
... nothing to do with the $$$ they are gaining easy!! Why did the guy hustle?? oh because his mum didnt pay enough attention!? full off sh/t
So the code says if you let me love you I have your permission to hurt you? That’s kinda messed up.
Yep he sure did and nothing he said was wrong
Foreign forces
@halffulltome no, imho you're taking the words too literally...it's not permission but position
i.e. if I casually date someone and they cheat on me, I dodged a bullet
if I'm in love with someone and they cheat on me, that will hurt
Entirely possible that dude just nailed it!
Yes he did
Nah. He's making it complicated. They like the money and the power and material and social comfort that comes with it - that's it. However, liberal bringing up, lack of fatter figure and overly liberal value system of US society (and other Western societies) certainly do provide the perfect conditions to develop moral restraints-inhibition and make them feel free to go the easy way - without any worries of the consequences. The plague of secular societies. Finding the best social politics is tricky.
Nailed it? He straight up blamed men for it. 😂
It's actually about, getting votes, branding and the bucks.
@@jaideepshekhar4621No he did not. He said they were seeking validation because they never had that growing up. Yet feminism told them they are empowering their sexuality. Thus they tied their relevancy to how much is their currency on OnlyFans; which only leaves them empty once they no longer are making that same currency. That basically sums up what he is saying. When they did a study on strippers and prostitutes this was exactly what the same studies showed.
ABSOLUTELY 100%! WOW. You are absolutely right, you broke that down to PERFECTION
Turning Point USA needs to hire that man! Thank God for those rare humans with common sense and self respect..
Michael,'s doing just fine for himself over at The Daily Wire...
Sadly the only thing democrats support is forcing people to never be exposed to non liberal evil tyranny ideologies. Theyve forced their own people to a level of delusions and insanity to the point it makes adolf look lukewarm. Theyre committing violations of human rights in the name of liberal love and tolerance. All they tolerate is pure antihuman evil
modern women are not gonna want to hear this harsh truth and will immediately call it toxic.
The guys paying for only fans are just as broken
#Perspective
Agreed. It's the same for men who are stuck in this virtual reality (toxic dating apps, OF, porn) and are too broken to go back to date irl. Because again, what you can't touch, you can't hurt.
Gonna have to disagree. Men can get porn for free now. The thought of a man using OF as therapy just means he doesn't know how to word his search que. 😂
yes but those guys are the third of men who can't get a date/woman because these 304's think they are above them. not that that makes it ok. to the guys doing this you got to stop paying these women. please stop paying women you have no respect for. force them back to the dating table.
Not really, But I'd like to hear what you mean by it?
He couldn't have said that more eloquently. Spot on too.
He summed that at ALL up in one statement. He really just said a lot. WOW! ❤😊❤😊❤😊❤
Never heard it express so powerfully. Pure facts. No hate. No denegration
Then tell me what that makes me. I didnt get along with either of my parents, and I was out of the house at 15, yet I am successful and happy. It just sounds like you people are just pointing fingers without understanding human behavior.
@@Vottoduder-q8gyou’re not making sense, you just sound like you’re mad about something and taking it out in the wrong place 😂
@@ljwho9921 You could be right. Maybe I'm just tired of the extremists on both the Left and the Right telling everyone how to live their life. Maybe people should just concentrate on their own lives, that would improve the quality of life by itself.
@@Vottoduder-q8g so take your own advice concentrate on your own life, and don't comment here.
@@Vottoduder-q8g The exception doesn’t make the rule congrats, you had a bad situation and made the best out of it…. Like everyone else…
From an older woman, he hit that nail on the head. I am so glad none of this existed when I was in my 20’s. I would have ruined my life 10x over. U can’t take that stuff back. It’s out there forever. It’s sad, really.
i mean who cares what the fuck does it matter if your nudes are out there the human naked body isn't a thing of shame if it was god wouldn't have had adam and eve running around in the nude. so yeah sorry can't say seeing nudes as a down side lol. at least some people get paid for their nudes.
Sad....but also if there weren't men who access the OF .there would be less women doing it
@@Brentaaron300The only 3 things women have historically needed from men is:
1. Financial stability
2. Protection from other men
3. Baby making
And modern society has taken care of 2 of those things. Men are just still living in a 1920s mindset.🙃
''I would have ruined my life 10x over'' , this just means you were always a *** lol.
Not even the greatest dystopian scifi writers could've predicted this woke matriarchy
Leave the women alone no one is perfect
@@dmr123kklasimp
403archy
Loser @@dmr123kkla
Yeah they did lol it was wrote about 350 years ago
As a female who can relate to this man's words, I greatly appreciate his insights, he is right and there should be more men like him but I also think he could have experienced something or maybe a female in his family, nonetheless, thank you.
100% facts.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
Cashing in on your looks isn't the same as filming your most intimate moments with 100s of people, going very far when it comes to sax, having it live online forever....
Don't you have enough brain power to realise something so basic?
@@IvanDaniel28niche? Lol spreading your legs for men to pleasure themselves is not a talent or niche! It's the lazy/sleezy way to earn a buck. It also gives these girls temporary happiness.....beauty doesn't last forever neither does the body and there will always be someone younger and more willing than you. Something any Tom, Dick or Harry can do is not a niche. ,🤦
@ivandaniel2596 Not more so of a niche its the false sense that feminism and hookup culture has done anything actually good for women when in reality its indoctrinated women to hate men and tell them its OK to sleep around more in the sense its somehow female empowerment you quite literally answered your own question here, " they look negatively on someone who cashes in on their looks " Pretty simple tbh why would any man want the cow when others have been getting it for free? To each their own but I wouldn't want to date a 304 when she made an 0f right when she turned 18
This man should write a book!! He stated that perfectly!!
His argument doesn't make any sense. His assumption is that women do OF because they are seeking something. He is wrong about what they are seeking cause it's very obvious
*M O N E Y* 💰💵💸🪙💴💷💶💰
Not everything is about you man.😂
Stats show over 50% of models are in a commited relationship and that when spending on content goes up, more women participate. The amount of women posting for free is very few. So if it was validation she was seeking she would post no matter what she is making. Even insta models post for exposure and brand affiliation.
People can't read anymore
@@ljeans531 They could make money in a different way much easier- most OF girls don’t make bank, there’s a glut in the market. They could get a real job but they overestimate their worth in the online world. And his comments are true for women and men who aren’t doing OF necessarily, they post provocative photos and videos just for the online validation instead of focusing on the work required to have healthy relationships.
What he said is absolutely accurate! But I fail to see how it has anything to do with feminism… he said hurt by trauma and fathers. So, men?
@@ljeans531 the fact that people are willing to give money just for their appearance IS the validation they are seeking.
That’s a man who’s paying attention
100 percent agree! Also liked how he showed compassion and spoke calmly while also not lightning up on the serious issue, he told the truth.
This is all the result of the feminist movement. Every point he made is valid. Unfortunately, I see a lot of arrogance in the only fans women I have seen.
the arrogance is our front. since it’s so scarily obvious that men have the physical advantage (we’re physically vulnerable), we try to feel mentally superior with fronts of arrogance and moral high ground bs. God designed men and women to need each other. the war has to end
Took us to church
Baaahaahaaaa AMEN !!!
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@ivandaniel2596 But what's behind wanting to cash in on your looks? If you peel back any layer, you'll find people seeking love and validation but are bound by fear.
Love that song...
Liberals only support church if theyre child abusers grooming children sexually into lgbt satanism
Truer words were never spoken
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@@IvanDaniel28 Looks fade, but legitimate skills & talents can take you much further, without social repercussions.
@@jefftheindianchief8279 to each their own dude.
Very well said. It is sad. I really love how he says this in love. I don't feel he is being degrading about it at all. Thank you sir.
I’m so impressed by this answer. It makes a lot of sense. Monetizing the power, what you can’t touch, you can’t hurt. 👏
Only reason he was able to vocalize these facts was because a feminist wasn't present to interrupt him.
1. It wasn’t “fAcTS”,
2. Feminists would agree with what this simp is saying because he blamed men for the actions of sovereign, autonomous women. Feminists LOVE male P-Panderers and LOVE dodging accountability.
My great granny calls it Neo Feminism
She marched in the early 1900’s for women’s rights…. She said their ideals back then were “women should have the right to support themselves IF they want” considering my great grandfather had been drafted and the primary source of income in their household died as soon as he died in the war… She had to find a way to support her children and back then women weren’t really allowed to work especially in the south…. She refused to remarry so she had to take on the household income and raise eight kids on her own…. Feminism initially began so women could have the right to vote, work, and live independently…. These Neo feminists we have nowadays just want attention…. And they argue that ANYONE can be a woman m…. They support trans gendered women before they support women who are born women…. They argue that being a feminist means they can say and do what they want without having to deal with the consequences related to their actions…. Alot of them don’t even know what they’re fighting for, just arguing for the sake of being heard because they felt silenced for too long…. These women aren’t feminists, they’re what’s wrong with feminism today
If a feminist is alone in the forest and bitches about something, does she really make a sound if no one is there to hear her?
But once one hears this explanation, they will find a way to say it's not the reason😢
I wouldnt call it "facts", thats a stretch. Its just an opinion. I didnt have a good relationship with either of my parents, what does that make me?
This is so deep and it actually shows how screwed up it is and how much we have to change as a society.
well its either that super deep
Or its the easy money...
That was bars.
And it’s money. Their value for money is higher than their value for themselves. That’s something a lot of us can relate to, we just don’t have the product.
@@mcmarkmarkson7115 two things can be true haha
It’s true. What is sad is how much men hate these women yet still continue to pay for them, watch porn, use sex workers etc. it’s almost as if they hate them because they want them 🤔
Unfortunately, I don't think it will change by will, but by force of natural order. We have to wait and watch the toilet of modern day society finish flushing itself.
"If i dont let you love me . . . " cuts deep and makes so much sense!
The problem with this is, the OF women aren't thinking about the future. They are thinking about what benefits them now and that is a very immature way of living. Not to mention, these women aren't stupid, they are fully aware that they are making men's mental health worse and taking advantage of men's loneliness for a quick buck. I honestly cannot pick which side is worse because it seems all these people need therapists.
@@mikacandy5 dont forget their vote weighs the same as ours
@@atygr no vote weighs anything
@@thewolfcatbeast3567 yeah, you definitely don't understand how stupid most people are and how terrifying it is for stupid people to vote. That is the so called 'weight' of voting. Why give irresponsible people any form of power?
That was the most eloquent statement on this topic I think I’ve heard.
They saw how rich Kim Kardashian got and think the same will happen to them. Sex for money means no love.
Exactly the Kardashians are a perfect example going from one relationship to the next and seeking out the almighty dollar.
@@dianepereira1860and getting famous from making a sex tape.
A smart man speaks. This man diagnosed the problem at the root. These young women have serious Daddy issues.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@@IvanDaniel28its sad youre smoothbrained retard wasting our oxygen and food.
This man has just spoken about something that needs to be on every Billboard across the country...
Guys, this man is the oerfect example why a rich vocabulary matters.
He is so right on that. No disagreement from mental health professionals.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
@@IvanDaniel28Good. Maybe she can pay her student loans, rent, food and child care so the taxpayers won’t have to do it.
Why is this man not on every single platform? He should be allowed onto every single one and repeat this very same thing.
He is exactly right!!
He is allowed there... Why are people so unintelligent nowadays? It gets old that people willingly stay ignorant their entire life. Stop letting emotions rule your thinking. Please.
I hate to point out the but it is not on every platform because it is the truth
They only want the men they will never have.That line goes around the block.
At least they can cry in tbe beta males arms who they have to settle for
This applies to so many other situations in life as well
Why is a woman’s mistakes always due to someone else rather than her own decisions?
We all do things for a reason. We are all a product of our experiences. However just because someone hurt you doesn't mean you have to stay in that place. That's where the responsibility lies.
@@artofambra I know women who have been sexually assaulted and not for one minute did they ever consider selling themselves for sex.
Don't bother asking, It always has to be a mans fault, thats just how society operates. His explanation makes no sense given the fact that a lot of these girls aren't even fatherless. And even if they were, I still don't get why they shouldn't take full accountability for their actions without a sob story, we never look for some emotional backstory when it comes to male depravity.
@@CrusaderZealot facts. They learn healthier ways to cope. They might be suffering with deep scars and even struggle with relationships, but they haven't turned to this level self destruction and pretend it's liberation.
He’s not taking away their responsibility. He’s simply saying there’s a reason why they think the way they do! What’s their choice is that they choose not to get the help they need but instead further hurt themselves.
And btw it’s not just women either! We hear it all the time whenever men/boys act stupid & or go to prison! Oh he grew up without a father in the home!
Messed up people create messed up people.
And guarantee if they ever do get in a good relationship they will sabotage it.
This is someone who perfectly understands the psychology and has articulated it masterfully.
That was an outstanding speech with insightful information that really makes you step back and see the bigger picture
...Alright, who is that? What do they do? Where do we find them? Give that guy a platform.
right? i wanna hear more from this guy but i don't know how to find him lmao
We could see a potential increase in depression in woman after they age and their body changes, making them lose their "identity"
Beauty fades so you better have a plan B
@@roxmattern60problem is they don't even have a plan A lol
That guy needs his own podcast. Very eloquent speaker..
Yo that man just manifested the absolute truth!!!!Thanks a lot!!!!
He said whats been in my head all along but didn't know how to put into words. Its very saddening.
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
They weren't injured by fathers; they've been destroyed by the lack of fathers.
Some were hurt by poor fathers, who had poor fathers, who had poor fathers, who had no father. It's a vicious cycle. Just because you had a father, doesn't mean he was a good one and knew how to teach things to his children in a way where they felt he cared about them.
BOTH
One and the same.
@@alegnaboulenthalNO, not one and the same.
Birth control changes the kind of man a woman pursues when she’s on/off it.
So if she marries a man while on birth control, when she gets off, she falls out of love and divorces that man and destroys him along with the family they may have created.
And that’s a likely scenario.
After all statistically women are 75% more likely to initiate divorce and kick the man out to have the government forcibly rob him on her behalf.
Child support check are written to the mother. Not a 3rd party to ensure the funds are properly managed for the children’s benefit and care.
So no. Not the same. And statistically even if the man WAS bad, chances are he’d be arrested and jailed if not in prison. Barring that, if the man is able to stay in the family unit, the children are much better off for it.
I didnt have a father either and my mother was abusive. What does that make me?
Wow. Talk about hitting the nail directly on the head!
she's broken orrr... cashing in on her looks??
l cannot wrap my head around anyone who looks negatively on anyone cashing in on their looks.
find your niche... whatever it is, and do it to the best of your ability!!
Cody Jefferson is a great speaker and super involved in his community as well!
Sounds like he knows a little something
Perfectly put!
To add to that only fans is an easy way to make money, when you don't want to do much!
Yes, there may be childhood / adult trauma, but then there's laziness as well.
Mmm that may be true for some, but I’ve seen some of those models talk about their work ethic and they “film” often enough that sleep and food are considerations they have to plan out. So. Not sure that’s quite accurate.
That's a false conception. OF makes a lot of money to those who already have a social media following. For the average "creator" it boils down to minimum wage.
@@nickname2935most people make like 100 bucks a month
I looked it up one time out of curiosity, and apparently ~80% of those OF "creators" make less than $130 USD a month on the site. I'm not sure of the context of what it takes to make that, but that sounds to me like you'd be giving a lot of yourself for next to nothing. 🤷♀️
@@awazzyI know around 3-4 women just in MY AREA and a lot of them around here- do it to make a little money for their meth/drug addictions. 🤷♀️😂
Facts straight to the point, without yelling or being loud, no cussing and not being demeaning to women
No rather he takes away their accountability
Wow this dude is so respectful on how he addresses the only fan thing. He doesn’t shame them, he feel for them and understand why they are doing it and explain why.
This is a good person with a big heart
What makes you think anyone would disagree with you? How could anyone disagree with that? So thoughtfully considered and so perfectly stated.
That was very eloquent. Well said sir. I agree.
The component he's not mentioning is the celebration and worship of women's sexuality as a sacrament to the cult. They are told that promiscuity is freedom despite it degrading your own with in the sexual marketplace down to worthlessness in the end. For giving an answer on the fly, this guy nailed it for the most part.
Its called sexual selection, a mode of natural selection. Go ahead and tell me you have a better reproductive strategy and that you are able to either supercede evolution or evolve out of evolving.
Moms are the ones rushing to get their prepubescent daughters training bras and its mom that teaches their daughters how to apply makeup, which can make them look older than they are and fertile. Its dad that tells the daughters to put on more clothes for school or in when going in public and it's always mom who tells the dad hes being over bearing.
Im sorry but its the females who choose to wake up 1-2 hours earlier than males because they desperately need to apply all that make and do their hair. i wonder why they invest the amount of time? Oh, thats because they know the more physically attractive they are, they more favorable attention they will receive.
Yeah is freedom from the "worth" on the "marryable" scale and your stupid old ideas of submissove woman, f**k that, that's the problem. Women do this dumb shit because you want a dumb obidient bi**h, but they prefer porn to be a dumb bi**h that has to take orders form a dumb poor ass that grants them a low standard of life.
Imagine if i told you that you can't work and you have to marry a 5 to give her children or you have no value, i'll be like "bye" and then i would fuck trees if that saves me from submit to nothing
right.
we're not addressing the problem:
society turned female sexuality into power. Maybe their family made them feel worthless, but you taught them that their genitals could compensate.
Totally agree. Most women are aren't wounded or traumatized. They say they are for the excuse of bad behavior.
Skillless and tasteless money...money does award power, status and authority, not to mention envy - nothing an everyday street worker getting 5 bucks a client can aspire too. Glamourising the sex trade, glamourises abuse I'm afraid and normalises the selling of people, reducing people to orifices and love to compliments. Nothing but nothing is as easy or as worthless as genitals - it's pernicious and as far from worth as you can get, sadly.
He nails at 100%. These are poor broken women who have been hurt, and are afraid of being hurt again, and so they surround themselves with this false reality of safety. And they base their entire life off their looks. By the time they turn 30 to 40, they wake up and realize just how much of their lives they just wasted. And then they'll end up being alone for the rest of their lives. It truly is a sad story.
... the QUESTION is HOW MANY women DID He hurt to come to this conclusion 🤔
@@forerunnerforjesus1291 I'm going to push back a little on this, people say things like that, you're not taking no account the fact that these women have free will. They're the ones that choose whether or not to have sex. They're the gatekeepers for sex. And every single one of those women on that panel are choosing that. Instead of choosing to save themselves, their virtue, and their respect for later. The fault does not lay on the man. Yes the man is going to be promiscuous, but that's only because women have made themselves so damn available.
What's worse is OF is kept going by men who have been rejected and hurt by women. And they get that relationship they can't find because they were "friend zoned" or ridiculed for only their looks, height, etc. And what you can't see, you can't reject. But then these men end up preferring that fantasy relationship to trying to form a real relationship
Men but also women can be rejected by their physical appearance.
@@MsDulcinee oh absolutely. You just don't find many women turning to online cam models to cure their loneliness
Truth, and very well put bro.
Honestly, I’m glad someone finally has this perspective. Some of these girls never had someone to sit down with them and tell them that they matter and help them.
Fathers and horrible boyfriends and this economy is what does this to everyone, not even women, but men as well.
That was beautifully said. As someone who was once broken, I thank God social media/internet was not around when I was in my teens and early 20’s. It would have been my downfall. Now as a nearly 56 year old mother of 2 and grandmother of 5, I fear for my grandkids…especially my one and only granddaughter who is about to turn 11.
What's her only fans?
Don't fear for her. Do what you can to empower her correctly
My daughter is 12. No social media at all. Happy, healthy, smart girl who knows that she will grow into a wonderful woman. The adults have to be in charge.
Find sanctuary in Christ
I agree. That truth was so spiritually insightful that it almost felt biblical.
Well articulated truth!! 👏🏼
That was actually beautiful how he worded all that and it just came right off his tongue. Who is that guy? He's actually really intelligent and got right down to what the problem really is and he's right.
Cody Jefferson
Many people walking around over 38 that are men know this. It is common sense
As a women who was so broken by men I trusted, this man explained the internal struggle I had for 20 years of my life! ❤
Get over it already
Yet you still blame men. See, in order to heal you have to be able to forgive yourself for YOUR choices. Understanding why you made them. If all you do is continually blame everyone else, you'll never be able to heal properly or fully
@@squareroundsgrow up troll
@@johnkuwik2477number 1, you’re assuming she’s still holding blame to that person. Number 2, she could have been completely innocent in the matter. Do you blame rape victims? Child abuse victims? Domestic abuse victims? Etc… get my point yet? Stop assuming and stop telling people how to heal.
@@squarerounds who says I wasn’t over it? 🤣🤣🤣 people on the internet are weird!
I like this guys approach. He explains it in an understanding way rather than pointing fingers or villainizing anyone in particular. We really need more of this rather than deciding what’s good and what’s evil.
This is still separating what's good and what's evil. But yes, we certainly need to approach these issues with empathy > condemnation; the caveat being violence, of course. You meet violence differently.
PERFECT summation! 👌🏻
This also translates to the trans movement with women. I've noticed a push from women to rid themselves of their femininity if they've been hurt.
It's all mental health related but that is a whole 'nother level of bonkers.
Though that would help explain why that particular mental dysfunction is far more prevalent in Women than Men.
It also explains why so many girls enter into that mindset around puberty. It doesn’t require hurt necessarily just discomfort with how their bodies change and change the attention they receive. Before, some girls would become tomboys, to avoid being seen as a potential “mate” by guys they had been friends with since childhood, to avoid being seen for their bodies, because they were unable to deal with that attention at that age or didn’t have enough experience with how to address it. I was. Baggy clothes, no makeup, rarely dressed “girly”. I still do not like skin tight, restrictive clothing (I was a teacher so that is part of it as that is distracting and counter to my authority). As I grew older, I learned how to better handle unwanted attention kindly enough to not hurt friendships and also better understood the social cues around it and have less issue if someone says something.
Feminity is a curse. Some of the most despicable men on the planet pursue it. When i went from hyperfeminine to street wear, i got rid of some of the nastiest men i knew.
@@CWHolleman too many filthy males in their 30s and 40s above pursue young teen girls for exploitation. We just dont wanna be victimized
I didn't have a father growing up, but I'm not gonna post my pics online like that. There's no excuse for that behavior. If I can restrain myself, so can they. They'll use an excuse to validate anything
People interpret and react to situations differently. You didn’t feel that you had to act out in that way, or you were able to restrain yourself as you phrased it. Other people really can’t restrain themselves. They’re not aware enough of what they’re thinking, feeling, or why they’re doing what they’re doing. And sometimes, even if they are aware, they still have not yet learned healthier behaviors.
Just because you handled one thing a little better than the others, doesn't mean there isn't another hidden area in your life where you are not messing up like them or even worse... You're just better at hiding that info from internet.. hence don't brag.
@@RickyMikky Wrong. It’s called having basic human morals. It’s engrained in our DNA. I have all types of excuses I could use to do what those women do, but there is no excuse on earth that could justify what they do as moral or right. They only want easy money. They couldn’t care less about contributing to society in a positive way
It’s either women voluntarily do it or get kidnapped and forced to do it. Do you want to be kidnapped?
left for milk and newports and never came back huh
I don't understand how Women don't think it's prostitution, why? Because it's over a screen so it's somehow different?🤦😂
Because it's people who have no concept of values and principles.
How do feel about the men who buy these services
@@shyvixx1They're suckers. There's dozens of free sites so there's literally no reason to pay.
Depends what you are actually asking. Cuz the man paying are also part of the same cancer we all are suffering from. But still the vision of the guy in the video I think is part of the problem. Cuz they take zero acounts for the problem they are profiting directly from. So in the end they allow cancer to spread regardless of the size of the problem in name of capital
. @@shyvixx1
I've always thought of it as prostitution. I've never heard anyone trying to defend being on there say it's not but I also don't pay that much attention.
Nailed it. Unfortunately, i think most of those women don't even realize it themselves
Laid it out….straight and hard! What can you add to that?
A man who wants to understand instead of bashing and shaming women. I appreciate men that can speak truth with compassion.
Not having been taught the correct things in life makes life hard, and to believe shaming and bashing is a good tool to change the world is nonsense and making the world a harder place to live in because the lack of empathy.... with understanding comes conviction, repentance, and self-love, trying to make someone feel guilty is condemnation, control, manipulation, and self-doubt..... I'm glad to hear people admit to using this tactic. That's a start to this world healing. Now, question yourself, why do you use it .................mmmmmmmm "Control"
Of course the young firls on OF making all that money will say some ish like...."Here we go. Another mansplainer" and write him off there and then. But when 30 comes around.....
I always say its hard to leave a party when you are having fun.
Could you provide an example of "bashing" that men do? Men get treated like work horses by businesses and then their wives, and are expected to provide. If they can't adequately perform their work, social, and family duties- they are thrown away. Yet, all a woman has to do is?.. Be safe and secure at home with soft hands and tending to children? It's all hard, relatively speaking, but one leaves you hopeless while the other need only?.. Women use to be rugged, strong, and dutiful. Now they only complain. All while the man's dynamic has never changed. You're letting your feelings guide you, maybe?
If by bashed you mean men are fed up with women not getting a clue then sure, we're "bashing". Women have been the targets of corporate advertisements and political propaganda. Learn to see. Makeup, jewelry, feminism, etc.. you're all seemingly brainwashed by corporations that create problems only to provide a solution that makes them money (you don't look as good as the people in this magazine, but if you buy this product you can be pretty too). (He doesn't love you if he doesn't slave to buy YOU a meaningless diamond ring, bracelet, earrings, etc..) The government has eroded the nuclear family, so that we have become "enemies". Why? To preoccupy our time so that we miss their agenda.
Women truly are easily manipulated through fear and anxiety inducing social pressures. We don't bash. We are simply tired of raising the whole family, when it is suppose to be a partnership.
These days it is hard to find a woman that isn't too self-absorbed and self-centered. You try to talk and they immediately go on the defensive. Pretty pathetic from a man's view on life..
Free speech 😊
But when shaming and bashing was done we didn’t have to go through this embarrassment
Nah, shaming needs to come back in full force
Yet men are never understood 😂
That was so true. It brings tears to my eyes. Amplify this message, daughters need to hear this and fathers need to be fathers.
From. A father of daughters.
Good words
Such honesty !
Personal accountability has never been more important
The $ is a large incentive. If men didn't pay to see nakedness then women wouldn't do it.
its hard wired in a man to reproduce , as it should be. The woman know this very very well and can exploit that drive in many many ways . To have that power and then convert it to cold hard cash , without having to work for it, other than being born a woman has great appeal .This also satisfies the woman's vanity and ego. What we are seeing now is the beginning of digital prostitutes
Rich men are going to do that regardless. It's the average man that that gets lumped in with them. It's not their fault.
If most men were regularly getting sex it wouldn't be an issue either
It's CALLED SELF RESPECT FOR YOURSELF . THEY ALL HAVE NONE..!!!
💯 agreed. But those watching are also lacking the same effort in self-respect. They whole channel wouldn't have been created and able to pay people if there was any self-respect all the way around.
Damn what a breakdown👏. You shouldn’t be seeking something so bad that you lose your individuality. I feel sad for people that choose to make a living and change this way and I hope they have someone to convince them to stop.
Completely true. You can't be that desperate for attention unless you are broken somewhere. People who constantly crave attention feel a need to be CONSTANTLY affirmed. Even if it's to get money then you're financially broken and you need to be taught how to manage your finances.
Let’s stop victimizing women for making stupid decisions that they thought would lead them to an easy life by blaming men
It's not about "blaming men", but an acknowledgement of a basic fact, an unhealthy relationship, or no relationship, with a father can have a negative impact on a person's life. This is the influence on these women's choices, but this should not be considered a dismissal of responsibility for those choices.
@@brianschuetz2614 it is exactly blaming men. This convo only comes up when it’s about women making bad choices and looking for someone else to blame. Compare how many times you’ve heard anyone talk about how not having a good mom made a guy choose a bad a woman. The dad just gets blamed again
@@datboi42 Look at the statistics, people from intact, loving homes, tend to have greater success and less incidents of criminal behavior. The absence of fathers in the home doesn't just affect females, it also affects males. Males from fatherless homes end up in prison at higher rates than those from intact homes. The presence and involvement of fathers in the home has been underappreciated, and it has negatively impacted society. That is not an excuse to make bad choices, but it is a statistical reality.
@@brianschuetz2614it's woman's fault for leaving and demonizing their baby daddy
Blame it on what's on these screens. There are too many followers because the world as a whole is lost and misguided by the garbage that's allowed to be displayed and viewed on TV, movies, the internet and most of all the music. We are living in a world that was built on lies and deceit. At the end of the day each individual has the power to rise above whatever problems they face in a healthy constructive way.
Defund OF and this will end quick, Do not pay a feminist to hate you!
How are you going to defund a subscription service? No way millions of horny simps are going to say no to naked women
The problem is these damn simps who are willing to give these women money and attention without getting anything real or tangible in return.
Does an OF customer even care if they are hated by the OF prostitute? Of course not. They’ve already objectified the prostitute before they signed on. Men being visually stimulated is one thing. Men not having the self control to say no to porn (or adultery) is just downright pathetic.
I don't understand men who are attracted to females that can be bought for 6 bucks a month. As much as broken women are the cause broken men are the enabling force.
Wow, that’s the most articulate and succinct I’ve ever heard it broken down
Agree nothing good has came from Social Media. There’s nothing good about these women on Only Fans.
Wow, that is so spot on. I’m a woman who has been deeply hurt by my father & ex husband- I’ve never been down the OF route, but he’s right!